Facing Fatherhood, Hypnotherapy & KSI's Relationship Advice
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- The boys questions whether they are ready for fatherhood, Joe discusses why he's going to take up hypnotherapy, and what is KSI's secret to a strong relationship?
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My trousers are down for this one boys
After the opening line from Weller, I think that’s a bit dodgy mate
Not now, not ever
@@OlpyColpynot kiddies Si
I swear majority of males 18-25 in the uk have inside jokes or reference old weller videos on the daily
i say washermashen on the daily
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I just say BUXTON WAHTAAA to myself and noone knows what I'm talking about...
Joseph wellard, Lucas Martini and Theodore Bakewell tart
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Your pfp is shit
Goated
23:50 - evolve the haunted videos by doing a wafflin episode in an abandoned building with a Ouija board and some EMF readers.
See if Theo is so skeptical when he experiences it for himself
Goated
Oi that's an idea...💡
Better reunion than Oasis.
Not sure if this an unpopular opinion. But Theo is so much better with these boys! See so much more of his personality!
Childhood friends that’s why fella
He plays a dumb character on pitchside which is really funny but this real version of him is just as funny and way more genuine
joe needs to go to a propper therapist i guarantee within 2-3 months he’ll understand his sleep problems inside and out
are u saying hypnotherapy is not proper or ? cuz i think a proper therapist can def make use of it.
@@lauramaria8880 Yh i dont doubt that hypnotherapy has benefits but I put more faith in most therapists than most hypnotists. and the reason why i said proper therapist is because its in the therapists best interest to make you think your improving when your not to get more money out of you.
@@lauramaria8880 i just meant some therapists can be scummy werent trying to relate it to hypnotherapy
@@maxpowell1200joe already did with believing Bruce
Is that a mini ladd pfp?@@maxpowell1200
I have always found Weller to be relatable, but thought my issue with sleep was pretty unique. Luckily, my girlfriend tends to go to bed after me, but if she doesn’t I often cannot switch off. I’ve put a few labels on myself across the years - OCD, Highly Sensitive Person, ADHD (recently diagnosed and awaiting medication). I have some avoidant tendencies too though, and my default when feeling naff is to self-isolate. Always searching for answers. Rarely finding them.
I’m the exact same, I just can’t sleep with anyone at all.
I feel like a creep because I’ll spend most of my night awake while they’re sleeping. That anxiousness contributes towards not being able to sleep. It’s like a constant cycle.
Same here, always having to leave functions to go sleep in my own bed (unless I’m stoned out my head). Self isolation when down too.
I’m only here to see what shenanigans Weller has gotten up to this week
Can’t be as bad as bubbly surely
Nice hanger mate x
@@sanahussain4755 thank you dawg
Go catacombs and do a bubbly with the ghosts
People who say “why go to therapy when you can just talk to your mates?” should watch this podcast. Poor Malfoy out of his depth with all this attachment theory/insomnia stuff 😅
I don’t dislike Theo at all but his lack of emotional/intellectual intelligence and maturity in conversations is crazy at times… but the talk on Atomic habits at the end is quality and I totally agree
Couldn't agree more. Was trying to think of a useful comment but you summed it up well. I feel the same in that I don't dislike theo but feel like weller deserves better responses to what he talks about. Feels like he is often belittled for talking the real talk. Say what you like about Joe but I've always resonated with his ability to speak what he's thinking and even though he likes to entertain, that element always takes a backseat to him just being real and himself.
Wafflin back, the lads giving good advice/being solid mates to each other, filming in Calfreezy’s studio and Joe mentioning getting advice from KSI… we got the good timeline lads ❤
I feel like luke was really sidelined this time
nah he just didn't talk much
Need to address the Patreon and subreddit coming back
Games the game
Time stamps:
(Really good intro therapy conversation, enjoy)
00:00- 00:25 Intro Clips
00:26- 02:35 Is Joe sad? 😢😢
02:36- 03:29 Joe going to hypnotherapy 🪬🪬
03:30- 06:33 Does Joe have family trauma?
06:34- 11:53 Can't sleep with other people 😴😴
11:54- 13:14 Does w*nking drain you from minerals?
13:15- 14:54 Joe reading books 📕📕
14:54- 16:54 Ksi giving Joe the best advice ever
16:55- 18:05 Joe filming with Deji 🎥🎥
18:06- 21:35 Joe's RUclips return 👀👀
21:36- 22:24 Joe having RUclips beef in the past
22:25- 23:57 Theo playing real-life among us with the Sidemen
23:58- 25:16 D*ad people living under Paris 🇫🇷🇫🇷
25:17- 26:17 People swiping your phones in London 📵📵
27:18- 27:50 Joe's mum almost getting robbed 🔪🔪
27:51- 28:44 Is London/Europe actually safe?
28:45- 31:26 Criminals don't deserve empathy
31:27- 32:41 Theo's crazy wife scenario
32:42- 35:40 When are you the most attractive? 👉👈
35:41- 39:05 Dating actors and actresses 💋💋
39:06- 40:50 Theo baker is Sydney Sweeney's no.1 fan 😩😩
40:51- 44:40 Joe taking six day vi*gra 💊💊
40:41- 46:45 How are the boys around kids?
45:46- 49:36 Joe has "never" been around kids but wants too... 😰😰
49:37- 51:04 Having a baby throw up on Theo 🤢🤢
51:05- 51:46 Who would be the first father in Wafflin'?
51:47- 55:10 Theo doing a video with Mbappe bro 🐢🐢
55:11- 57:40 Theo rejecting Mbappe
57:41- 01:00:55 Joe Weller's twin 😭😭
01:00:56- 01:08:24 Having the motivational for your side-hustle ⏰⏰
01:08:25- 01:09:54 Recap on 2nd episode so far
01:09:55- 01:10:25 'theboys@wafflin.co' Outro
Bro gave up half way😭
@@lc1063My bad bro forgot to hit ‘update comment’ 😂 everything is set now
hippo therapy 🤣
Goated
Legend!
Bit of the Joe show today lads, want Theo and Luke to talk about themselves a bit more.
same as last episode dude is annoying
@@SuperDuperMan-v8ydon’t watch it then
@@SuperDuperMan-v8y Not annoying as such, I just wish we heard a bit more about what Theo and Luke have been doing the past couple years.
It’s like none of you watched Bambi as a kid and it shows
To answer Joe's issues with attachment, I would suggest it is a case of insecure-avoidant behaviour, stems from a childhood of not being so close to parents.
average a level psychology student
Alright Mary
@ABDB-me1wk bro just got off psychboost
Love the comeback
Joe in tears over do you like kids 😂😂😂😂
Looks like I'm not watching 'One Day'...
Hope this isn't too out of pocket but the first part of the podcast it's ringing alarm bells which may be worth looking into. I've been referred to as the female version of joe many times and I've always known I've had Adhd but recently after being diagnosed the psychologist mentioned I've probably got autism too. I'm not a nutter but I have lots of symptoms which are exactly what you've described. If you do see this and have the ability to book in an assessment privately please do because it's super helpful 😊
yeah ive always been called and referred to a btec joe weller 😂 not because i try its just my mannerisms and trying to perfect things. then what he described about his sleep, how he self isolates just was like wow, im not alone 😂 ive always wanted to go to a therapist or something just to figure myself out. these things have made me do good things in life like own a business and push myself etc, but then when it comes to negative things they have a direct impact. do you relate or am i just waffling 😂 also, how do you get an assessment. like i want to just figure out why i feel the way i feel and think the way i think bcs its so different compared to a lot of ppl that i know
@pxlms3174 yeah these are all very common nuerodiverse traits. It's difficult these days for people as social media grows the more we learn about adhd etc which is great but the people who don't actually have it self diagnose and the ones that do can't work out if it's a personality trait or an actual diagnosed mental condition. It's taken me almost 27 years to finally get answers but I've just completely done my own thing too which is what most do, business owners, self employed etc. It can take years to be assessed but look in to 'right to chose' on Psychiatry UK, can be quicker and more straight forward than the NHS - It's a free service but you can also pay privately via them too. Hope this helps 😊
Sundays are back 🤝
I've missed this
Order has been restored
Love the podcast, especially Lou
the first section - thats called crippling anxiety Joe fella
Sundays done right
Really liking the podcast ❤, one question would be why do the fellas studios all use cameras with 1080p as opposed to 2160p? Do they manage the video differently?
The avoiding situation is very relatable, any type of argument or problem results in me just walking away and wanting nothing to do with the situation. Not wanting to get too close to people is the main issue.
Looking back at the old episodes , Joes glow up is insane and genuinely gives me motivation, he’s mentally and physically healthy
You guys are so lucky to have an open space with the boys to spread your emotions and just talk freely and have people listen, love the pod
The kings of consistency actually managed to go two weeks in a row. Respect
I have the exaxt same thing joe about other thinking after years of broken relationships trauma i just choose too live alone single thats life
Proper good pod for the mind this week fellas top stuff
Btw I’ve never heard anyone explain my brain like Joe did I normally relate to Joesph and that’s why I’ve always felt at home watching but today that’s going to the next level I go through the exact same and I want to meet ya one day love from gday dollars ❤
Bruv I’m actually gassed for this
Luke will laugh at you all day till you spin it on him
Why were they laughing about Joe’s question about kids? It’s such a normal question. Me as a girl I always feel motherly feelings towards any kid I see. That’s a normal question lol
I must say as someone who lives very local to where they grew up / live I miss the urban exploring videos! Used to do it myself but have kids now so I can’t. So glad the pods back 🎉
My mum is a clinical hypnotherapist & I can vouch that it very much works, common issues include pain management during childbirth, fears & phobias & habit changing such as weight loss or quit smoking. Essentially it is a way of teaching somebody how to utilise their brain more optimally & isn't related to stage hypnotism.
Joe I completely understand the sleeping situation, i’m unable to switch off in the same room or bed with anyone, tried sleeping tablets, tried sleeping with one duvet each etc but the only thing that’s helped is 🍃
so glad this is back boys !!!
Loved this especially the touching on more serious topics whilst still having fun ❤
Fkn crying at the kids segment. "Mommy can I approach him?" my days
i just didnt believe wafflin was ever coming back. too grateful
the haunted vids are defo not done mate, my favourite content, same old style with guests would be great
The thing you’re looking for is hiding where you least want to look
2nd episode and they’ve already got KSI’s name in the title. Shock.
Cry
@@oggTemp I can’t stop
Weller, Elliot, Deji and KSI haunted video has to happen
The sleep thing is so real though, I get so much anxiety 😭😭
I'm so glad you boys are back
Never knew you watched this podcast welcome to the wafflin mafia
@@stephencourtney1868 haha never thought I'd see you here. I'm a legitimate wafflin member 🤣
I beg u add video to your Spotify upload!
Ed Matty on wafflin would bang
Cannot believe Joe pissed in his own mouth...
This is about the start of the vid, I do agree with the boys saying that Joe's past is what's causing him to have a control issue because that would've been the best defence mechanism for a kid, absolutely amazing but that doesn't translate well into adulthood. I'm no therapist but I think Joe needs to kind of thank his younger self for the control he needed over everything because it kept him safe as a child but now he needs to kind of build something new in a sense, I know I may be waffling (no pun intended) a tad but to me that makes sense
I hope the boys see this as well, might not have been worded the best but I hope it makes sense to them, especially Joe
We need more about what Luke's been upto!
Wafflin podcast AKA the Joe weller speaks only about himself for 2 hours podcast
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@@oggTemp never really asks other 2 anything, bit narcissistic
Hasn't it always been like that unless they have a guest on. Joe seems to be the most comfortable of the three to share things and the other two mainly just ask him things or add things to the discussion?
@@Supraifyification you may be right. I just get the vibe it always relates back to him, never asks the other 2 questions etc.
Why do you care just enjoy the show, stop looking for problems, happy Sunday fella
The buxton water is back 🔥
What was that noise from Joe 💀 46:34
47 mins in and im acc crying😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
more haunted videos are deffo needed
Thought Weller’s hair looked a bit poncy when I first saw it. Think it’s grown on me.
Nah it’s grown on him mate 👍
Thumbnail is beautiful
We are so back
We are so back
I have OCD and relate to a lot of what weller was saying about obsessing over everything and about perfectionism. OCD causes you to overthink every fine detail in your life from whether you're eating enough potassium to a random conversation you had 7 years ago, particularly at night, which is why I also struggle to sleep.
It's because of these constant obsessions that as I've gotten older (I'm now 27) I tend to purposely remove myself from a lot of social situations, not talk as much as other people (I get called quiet constantly) and distance myself from people because it's simply easier on my mind and less to 'think about' (obsess about). I also have a lot of 'rituals' that are really embarrassing but pretty much nobody knows about. Only myself and my wife. If I break any of these rituals my mind will spiral and I'll be utterly convinced something bad in my life will happen.
OCD is a very mentally tiring disease but honestly I've learned to live with it and I can't imagine my life any other way. If I had the option to remove it, I would not! 🥰
Love Joe but haven’t kept up to date for a number of years, I wonder if he has explored the possibility of having autism? A lot of similarities and might help him understand himself better and be kinder to himself x
“When do you think you were the most attractive?” “19” 🤣🤣
Who needs viagra when you have the WAFFLIN' podcast notifications on...
38:26
Kit Harrington (Jon Snow - Game of Thrones) got with 2 of his female co stars 🤣
Absolutely LOVED this boys keep up the good work!! 🎉
There's another type of therapy called EMDR. It can help you remember and reprocess traumatic memories. My brother did it for chronic anxiety and he said it helped him. I've been thinking about trying it too.
Can you rebrand 'Councilin' - for Joe Weller'? Only joking, my favourite pod
Deji being in an abandoned episode would be top top content. Or could bring Deji on for an episode here, I’m sure he would want a safe space
What Luke is saying about social justice is spot on but I think the general public expect anyone to be doing something criminal to be carrying a knife and at that point it’s not worth getting involved
Sounds a lot like OCD, Joe. It's all based on fear and needing to be in control. Would deffo reccomend looking into therapy.
It’s good you ask yourself those questions Joe. Get help if you need it (I mean therapy). That’s good. Don’t trust everything a therapist says though and think for yourself. Some therapists aren’t great, ofc some are though. My point is just get help but also think for yourself.
That segment of them talking about kids and Joe in complete tears has made my day! Couldn’t stop laughing 😂
My takeaway from this podcast … take magnesium and CBD😂
Nah I can relate to weller fully, maybe it's my adhd or slight autism and ocd but I can't stand sharing a bed with my Mrs, I hate it it's been four years but I just don't sleep well at all I also can't stand it when she even slightly comes onto my side....... Is this normal or do I just not like my mrs 🤣
The things Joe says is always so relatable. Even from the beginning of wafflin.
Id suggest go to normal therapy, like cognitive behavioral one. Hypnotherapy might not be best
Joe talking about the attachment stuff was quite interesting to hear, I struggle with it myself. It’s definitely from childhood trauma for me personally but it doesn’t even have to be trauma just experiencing something repetitively from young can cause problems.
you fully just have ADHD joe you're not weird or fucked up you just gotta learn about it
Don’t add extra substances to sleep. Try turning off over head lights 2hr b4 bed, gotta be off screens, & read for a little bit🤞🏼
Joe I’m exactly the same - I can’t sleep in physical contact near someone else (in the same bed).
It keeps me alert, awake, emotionally charged & frustrated!
I was just watching the drunk finale special from a few years ago, perfect timing boys
Couldn’t relate more to everything Joe said. Completely normal mate, would suggest regular therapy tho🙏🏼
Honestly the exploring video with Deji is a good idea, I think just you two doing it is more than a perfect dynamic it doesn't need to be overcomplicated or abroad necessarily. Like you and Elliot could do anything and just that makes it entertaining and never old.I think wanting to evolve the content is great but speaking for myself if you found some place in the UK and went with Deji it'd be class
Joe bro. You need Jesus ❤️ this incompleteness and worry you have I can see it❤️
100% should do an abandoned video with Deji, that would actually bang!
totally agree. from as long as I can remember, Ive never slept well with girlfriends or one night stands. maybe its a trust thing? always being on guard? I found it got better with time but definitely sleep better alone than with whatever kind of partner. weird paradox of wanting to be with someone in bed and wanting to have a good sleep. I never comment on videos but genuinely resonated with what you guys are saying. nice sleeve btw. own it. glad the pod is back. take it easy
Theo’s right, having the best sleep ever off zinc and magnesium pills
The exploring abandoned places was and is quality!
Not gonna lie I slept so bad when I was with my ex girlfriend or even a cat on my bed. I think I'm so used to being in my own head and in the company of my loud brain that anyone in my proximity when in that zone causes me anxiety. I'm quite a deep thinker when I'm in bed but on my own I'm comfy to do my own thing and fall asleep but with others it's like feeling trapped and I get really anxious because I'm used to isolating in my own shell. I'm sure if I just spoke to the person they'd understand but my whole life I've done it on my own and I have this subtle anxiety that they will wake up and notice I'm in my head. I'd rather them think I'm happy because when I'm with them I am but at night it's like I revert back to how I was when I'm single with everything seeping in and the overthinking
never put anyone before yourself. To love someone is to love yourself first so you are capable of loving them to such as extent. also Weller remember life is full of stepping stones, you have gotten everything that was meant for you and negatives in life are actually just lessons, you haven't necessarily done anything wrong, just life growing you to achieve all you are destined to achieve. My mom is a hypnotherapist and honestly the most important thing is that you feel comfortable with your therapist so you can learn the most about yourself. if you are able to let go of the fears and anxiety you will unlock a part of your brain that has been locked away for aggggeeees!! its truly an incredible journey!
but Weller mate, life is not as serious as it seems. just let go of the crap. you are amazing and so is your life! go live it!
mate this is so odd. i relate to joe so much. im literally trying to save up to go to a therapist to literally just genuinely work and figure my self out and the way i am and think. im very different to other people in the least cocky way and i feel so alone in how i think. dont get me wrong im not depressed etc like im okay 😂 but like how i am in friendships, relationships, everything joe said i relate to. but yeah, fuck it get me on, be my therapist 😂
idk why i think the way i think 😂
Honestly so glad that we got the boys back, been a while since I have had a long laugh, glad you are back boys ❤️❤️
You boys said before you quit the pod that you was gonna get a hypnotherapist on and never did, genuinely think that would be an amazing section in the pod 😂