I was a manager once upon a time and if you were nice or genuinely confused on a discount. I'll be helpful, hell I might even try to get ya what ya want because kindness is a rarity. But if you were rude to my staff or worse to me. I won't help you. I won't let my staff help you and I'll just tell you as much and to have a good day. I had a customer try to come through 5 times claiming their food was wrong and they needed another. I didn't know this was happening because I was working the lobby till the third time cuz I covered for someone's break. I got them the food and sent them on their way and went to smoke after my employee resumed their station then I went back in to see them getting handed another bag of food in the drive thru I tried to stop em but they took off. I told everyone on that shift if they come through again refuse service. Cuz I found out they'd been there 4 times already and we don't take old food back cause we'd have to throw it away. So fast forward a few hours and guess who's back. I personally move my whole crew from the drive thru to deal with this myself. They pull up and try to tell me there order was wrong and the server said it wasn't and was being rude. I told her no he wasn't he was following my orders because you have been here 5 times in 4 hours and I know at least the last 3 times it was made perfect cause I made it myself. She then proceededs to tell me well I guess you made it wrong. Which I respond with no ma'am there's a possibility you ordered it wrong. She proceeds to tell obscenities at me and demand a manager. I say ok do a 360 spin and point at my name tag saying hi I am the manager. She says she refuses to leave this drive thru unless I give her a refund I radio my guys to temporarily lock all our doors as our lobby was empty. And ask her politely are you sure you wanna do that because you won't get a new order nor at this point can I give you a refund. She puts her car in park and I inform her I will call the police. She ignores me and gets on her phone. I call the police and she starts yelling and slapping on the glass of the drive thru window. At this point I have employees going out our employees exit that's only unlocked from the inside go to each car behind this woman and her husband take their cards swipe em and bring everyone else except her their order so the line stays relatively dead. so the cops pull up and what does this lady do she jumps out of her car and starts yelling and walking aggressively towards the cops the immediately pull out their tasers and tell her to get on the ground one of them casually walks past her as she's getting cuffed and taps on the glass to get me to talk to him. He asks if I wanna file trespassing charges and I do. I also offer the officers free meals for coming out on Christmas Eve she gets arrested and that's the story.
Story 1: Bruh, this manager has no backbone whatsoever. Caving in to a Karen just to make her go away, this is why Karens are like this. I would've told her to f*ck off and you won't be getting a $10 discount, and I will call the cops if you wouldn't leave. The daughter gaslighting just infuriates me further. Like mother, like daughter, right?
Story 1: since the daughter was recording, OP should have said, "Prove I called you stupid. Play the recording." I'd also have called the police for trespassing if she refused to leave. Nobody is entitled to free food!
You saw a Karen? I didn't see anything but a bunch of words I don't want to read! I don't want to be read to! The answer to the name of your channel is.... YES! YOU ARE THE JERK! 😂
@@InteriorDesignStudent Ok? I don't understand what point your tryna get across. Father figure and bully ARE two different things BUT If you can understand that they are two different things then why can't someone from the older generation understand too?
Story 1- at my work I someone say that they want to speak to a supervisor/manager so I asked my supervisor if she could take the call. I told her what was going on and she was on my side. That one person called me “stupid and dumb” and my supervisor hit the roof and went off on the person. My supervisor burned them soo badly that the person doesn’t call us anymore. I also think my supervisor is kind of protective because she hangs out with my big sister during their lunch break. I love being protected like that.
There is something that could have been done about karen 1. CALL THE COPS!! She was disrupting business which is a crime. At the very least both Karens would get a night in holding
Story 1: As someone who has been in the restaurant for a lil over 20 years, let me tell you... i absolutely hate people like this, especially on a special occassion day (in this case, father's day). Crazy people always come out of the woodwork on days like that. People like this Karen should never be allowed to eat at a restaurant, period. First off, all the crazy substitutions is incredibly annoying and i know that a lot of restaurants will put "no substitutions on combos" on their menus. Second, the coupons were very clear on 'one per table', not 'one per person'. This isn't a grocery store. I would've totally called security or the police on this woman to get her out of there. She's clearly just a crazy scammer. Also, i sling mud at the daughter too for her lying gaslighting ways here... and trying to put on a poor facade for her phone. Another big reasons why there are cameras everywhere to rebut things like this. I also sling mud at the manager for caving in. I hate it when managers do that. Giving them the discount is totally unwarranted and you can guarantee that they will do it again. OP is not a jerk here. Story 2: I think both parties are jerks here. OP for contstantly badgering the husband to wear something he really doesn't want to, regardless of the occasion, and the husband for his very bad attitude and calling the OP controlling. I get that some people dont like suits and that kind of attire, but for just one special occasion like that is when you should dress nice. I agree that he should dress up in a suit for the wedding itself, then go more casual afterwards. Story 3: OP is not a jerk, but John definitely is and big time. I'm really surprised John kept his teeth after some of those comments he made, not only to the nephew (whats wrong with a lifeguard job??) but the whole spiel about 'needing fathers' and all that other BS. OP was talking nothing too far, but John sure was. I can totally see why everyone left, why would you remotely want to be around this moron? Anyone defending this guy is a complete idiot, who cares how much money he makes. You can bet that the nephew will go zero contact with John and his mother once he is old enough to move out. Story 4: Is that a case of financial illiteracy, or being greedy? A very fine line here. She could very easily be stringing you along here. I totally would be re-evaluating the relationship here, because if the OP is close to declaring bankruptcy, thats pretty serious and she doesn't seem to concerned about it all. That should be the biggest red flag here.
Story 2 - I never wear dresses or skirts or heels, I just get so uncomfortable in them, but you know what I did when I went to a wedding? I wore a skirt and dress shirt, and heels. It was a casual attire but I still wanted to look nice for my best friend's wedding. I sucked up my uncomfortableness just to look nice to a wedding. Op's husband is the jerk in this one. Op is just wanting him to look nice, cause you know what happens in weddings? Pictures get taken, especially family pictures. Op doesn't want to be embarrassed when those pictures come back and have that man child sticking out like a sore thumb amongst the rest of the family!
Story #2: I don't know how I feel about that one.. cause tho I agree he should wear a suit for Wedding and not be so casual, I feel like the alternative is him IN the suit but sulking throughout the whole thing.. idk what the 'Ideal' solution would be there.
I personally think it's more to the cultural side. In some culture, you have to wear formally in a wedding. Since it's was op's relative wedding, worst case scenario is that their relatives will talking behind her back which lead to embarrassment or laughing stock by them. The best solution for this scenario is that, either he don't go to the wedding if he not interested with it or wanted to wear any suit OR he goes to the wedding wearing a suit. Unless they found a middle ground for this situation. That's just my opinion.
@@nurulafiqah4903 or people can be adults and stop worrying so much about how someone is dressed, and stop using the excuses of "culture" or "tradition" again, its not like he was wearing shorts and a t-shirt, he was "dressed up" just not as much as some of the others.
@@InteriorDesignStudentIf there was then I'm sure he would do it. But no one even complained since there wasn't any dress codes at the weddings they went to, OP just screamed and threw a fit
Story 2: Steve Irwin famously wore his khaki zoo outfit to fancy events. He STILL wore a tux for his own wedding. It's tacky and boorish to dress like a slob for other people's special occasions.
I feel like for story 2... Why did you marry him? You knew he doesn't like dressing up and stuff but yet said you loved him regardless. Why now? Why is this now suddenly the hill to die on? Just because you feel embarrassed? It doesn't sound like it's like omg it sounds respectful but casual. Yeah it's a special event, yeah he could just wear the suit but why can't you also just support him? Why does he gotta "suit up" on his Bruce Wayne just to make your day feel more special? You're worried about he looks to everyone and how embarrassing he is but is it really worth all that??? It's not like this new or anything this sounds like thats just who he is?
Story 2: as a fan of men’s fashion, I’m on the husband’s side. Some people have their own definitions of what they consider dressy. I looked up the post on Reddit and according to OP her brother’s wedding didn’t have a dress code and her husband is tall and possibly quite built. This maybe why he’s uncomfortable in suits cause being tall myself it’s tricky to get the measurements right when buying a suit, especially the jacket which has more intricate measurements like chest and shoulder width, wrist, neck, and waist circumference, and arm length.
story 2 idk i mean not everyone likes to wear suits you cant get mad if he doesn't like them if this was the other way around everyone would say the op is a jerk for not letting his wife be but this is just how i see it
@@Batman-lg2zjShe is. She tried to force him to wear shit that he didn't need to wear. He would've worn a suit if they asked, but literally NO ONE GAVE A DRESS CODE
Story 2: obnoxious, let a man tell a woman what to wear you would be telling him he's "toxic". "going against the grain" reading into it he sounds like a big guy, I'm a big guy and hate wearing suits. No matter what u do there will be something that won't fit right
Not going to lie it if I'm ever the owner of any type of establishment even restaurant I'm going to make sure my employees come first as a golden rule not the customer. Don't get me wrong I'm always going to be sure that the customer is at least treated like a decent human being and always treated very well to let them know that this is a place where they're going to feel welcome to be in but of they get out of line that's on them and they're not getting any of that the customers right treatment crap now of the employee gets out of line that's an entirely different story like I said before but rather than that I'm also going to make sure that managers follow this rule and they always have to make sure to check the cameras to see who was in the right and who was in the wrong end of this person happened to put hands on an employee the cops must be called immediately and I'm going to tell that employee they must press charges on this person if not I'm going to be the one to do it
Nah I agree with the None suit guy, You can't force people to do what You want, of it's that big of a deal I just wouldn't go. He's not lazy hell he probably doesn't even want to go to these functions, but he goes anyways just accept his choice to be comfortable if everyone else wants to dress up an he's not complaining about it you shouldn't complain about him.
I don’t get how the husband is the jerk in story 2? It isn’t like he’s wearing sweatpants and a stained shirt or anything, he’s just dressing comfortably. A button up shirt sounds appropriate and he does not need to tuck it in if he doesn’t want to. He is there supporting the newly weds. What he wears shouldn’t be an issue. ESPECIALLY if there is no firm dress code (if there was a firm dress code then that would change things but OP states that there isn’t really ever a dress code). I get culture and stuff but the way I see it, as long as you are there supporting your friends and family and helping out, and you look decent, it’s okay. Unless the couple states specifically to dress up then you shouldn’t have to. The husband could easily have sensory issues that make some tight clothes too uncomfortable to tolerate and that is his right not to wear it. Am I the only one who thinks he is totally fine? He isn’t being rude or petty, he just isn’t dressing in a way OP wants. That’s literally it.
How about the IDGAF attitude. Talking about the second video. Like they ( me) have given up on life and just IDGAF. F**ck living. We just trying to live till we die
ngl, story 2 is really reading like "my husband won't dress the exact way I want him to" like the husband has no choice to express himself, and the way that the narrator went in on it too and called him "attention seeking" is just... something
I've worn a suit three times sr&jr prom with my now wife and on a cruise with my family and I didn't wear one for my own wedding I didn't know why I felt as uncomfortable as I did until about six months after my second son was born when I realized I wasn't cisgender so many things made sense when I figured that out
Story 2. Op is right. Just wear the damn suit. Or wear something formal. The wife isn't being controlling wanting him to look nice for a special day. Even dress pants, shirt and tie. He mine as well not go. If you're fragile enough to think this is controlling or trying to push the double standard. You're just as weird as the husband's reluctance to wear something nice for once.
Story 3 -- NÞA bordering on ESH. Sister and nephew are being emotionally abused. OP needs to take sister and nephew away from John and get þem into þerapy. And þe narrator is victim blaming þe sister for being wiþ an abuser.
At some point, if the victim does not do much to change their situation then that is on them. Like it is not victim blaming to call a spade a spade. She is with someone who is emotionally abusive to her and her son and instead of doing anything about it she is concerned about the guy’s outburst. At some point it becomes her fault for staying in a bad situation.
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd You clearly don't know how abuse works. Sister probably believes þere is no alternative and her family's attitude is reinforcing þat by enabling þe abuse.
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd That is victim blaming even if you insist it is not. We don't know that the man isn't beating the crap out of the sister and nephew. If the guy acts like this in front of others, imagine what he's like when no one can see or hear him. The most dangerous time for any DV victim is when they leave. They have to recognize they deserve better and then get help to escape. It's not easy.
Story 4.. i havent even heard it yet.. but gods damn.... OP is just as dumb if he thinks someone can be unable to read or write finances.... like.. wtf does that even mean😂😂
Actually I I'm the view and comment cause 43 mind ago I commented and it said no.comments yet so I commented and liked first there were no likes when I commented I was the first view
It’s crazy to me how much you guys weigh in on video two with so little information about the actual situation. For all you guys know, it could have been a sensory issue for somebody on the spectrum but instead you guys went so deep with barely any info in one side of the story.
As for story 2, you're being way too hard on this guy and so is OP. NO, he is not being weird or obnoxious. I go to weddings in polo shirts and slacks. I hate suits. Does that make me weird or obnoxious? No. It just means I hate dressing up in a suit. So what? The obnoxious one here is OP.
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Managers like in story 1 are exactly why Karen's act the way they do . Caving in only furthers their entitlement
Karen and her daughter should've been removed and banned. Police involvement if necessary.
Had a weak manager who got three of my coworkers fired because of customers such as that. I quit out of disgust.
I was a manager once upon a time and if you were nice or genuinely confused on a discount. I'll be helpful, hell I might even try to get ya what ya want because kindness is a rarity. But if you were rude to my staff or worse to me. I won't help you. I won't let my staff help you and I'll just tell you as much and to have a good day. I had a customer try to come through 5 times claiming their food was wrong and they needed another. I didn't know this was happening because I was working the lobby till the third time cuz I covered for someone's break. I got them the food and sent them on their way and went to smoke after my employee resumed their station then I went back in to see them getting handed another bag of food in the drive thru I tried to stop em but they took off. I told everyone on that shift if they come through again refuse service. Cuz I found out they'd been there 4 times already and we don't take old food back cause we'd have to throw it away. So fast forward a few hours and guess who's back. I personally move my whole crew from the drive thru to deal with this myself. They pull up and try to tell me there order was wrong and the server said it wasn't and was being rude. I told her no he wasn't he was following my orders because you have been here 5 times in 4 hours and I know at least the last 3 times it was made perfect cause I made it myself. She then proceededs to tell me well I guess you made it wrong. Which I respond with no ma'am there's a possibility you ordered it wrong. She proceeds to tell obscenities at me and demand a manager. I say ok do a 360 spin and point at my name tag saying hi I am the manager. She says she refuses to leave this drive thru unless I give her a refund I radio my guys to temporarily lock all our doors as our lobby was empty. And ask her politely are you sure you wanna do that because you won't get a new order nor at this point can I give you a refund. She puts her car in park and I inform her I will call the police. She ignores me and gets on her phone. I call the police and she starts yelling and slapping on the glass of the drive thru window. At this point I have employees going out our employees exit that's only unlocked from the inside go to each car behind this woman and her husband take their cards swipe em and bring everyone else except her their order so the line stays relatively dead. so the cops pull up and what does this lady do she jumps out of her car and starts yelling and walking aggressively towards the cops the immediately pull out their tasers and tell her to get on the ground one of them casually walks past her as she's getting cuffed and taps on the glass to get me to talk to him. He asks if I wanna file trespassing charges and I do. I also offer the officers free meals for coming out on Christmas Eve she gets arrested and that's the story.
I agree.
Never back down.
Story 1: Bruh, this manager has no backbone whatsoever. Caving in to a Karen just to make her go away, this is why Karens are like this. I would've told her to f*ck off and you won't be getting a $10 discount, and I will call the cops if you wouldn't leave. The daughter gaslighting just infuriates me further. Like mother, like daughter, right?
Story 1: since the daughter was recording, OP should have said, "Prove I called you stupid. Play the recording." I'd also have called the police for trespassing if she refused to leave. Nobody is entitled to free food!
Man it is always fun to see any karen getting so worked up !
You saw a Karen? I didn't see anything but a bunch of words I don't want to read! I don't want to be read to!
The answer to the name of your channel is.... YES! YOU ARE THE JERK! 😂
If those are the kind of men the mom's been introducing to her son his whole life, then no wonder her son doesn't want to be the traditional man
why do older folk confuse "Father figure" and "Bully" they DO mean different things...
What are you talking about everyone does know the difference.
@@withinseven1762 Clearly not.
@@InteriorDesignStudent what are you on about
@@withinseven1762 "Everyone" implies that 8 billion people understand what you said and agree with you.
@@InteriorDesignStudent Ok? I don't understand what point your tryna get across. Father figure and bully ARE two different things BUT If you can understand that they are two different things then why can't someone from the older generation understand too?
OP needs to look into John. Guy is clearly verbally, and possibly to the sister physically, abusive. And that just shows his true nature.
Management never has a spine around customers
Story 2. I must be in the minority. I love wearing a suit.
This is the first video I have found on this channel where i hear "Die" instead of "Un-alive"
Story 1- at my work I someone say that they want to speak to a supervisor/manager so I asked my supervisor if she could take the call. I told her what was going on and she was on my side. That one person called me “stupid and dumb” and my supervisor hit the roof and went off on the person. My supervisor burned them soo badly that the person doesn’t call us anymore. I also think my supervisor is kind of protective because she hangs out with my big sister during their lunch break. I love being protected like that.
You know that tik tok video is gonna get alot people roasting those karens
if good old Gordon Ramsay was there he would have definitely sorted out both Karens.
Nothing the manager could do? Heck no. Those “customers” would be banned and charged full price
People should read the fine print.
Because the exp date is final...
There is something that could have been done about karen 1. CALL THE COPS!! She was disrupting business which is a crime. At the very least both Karens would get a night in holding
Story 1: As someone who has been in the restaurant for a lil over 20 years, let me tell you... i absolutely hate people like this, especially on a special occassion day (in this case, father's day). Crazy people always come out of the woodwork on days like that. People like this Karen should never be allowed to eat at a restaurant, period. First off, all the crazy substitutions is incredibly annoying and i know that a lot of restaurants will put "no substitutions on combos" on their menus. Second, the coupons were very clear on 'one per table', not 'one per person'. This isn't a grocery store. I would've totally called security or the police on this woman to get her out of there. She's clearly just a crazy scammer. Also, i sling mud at the daughter too for her lying gaslighting ways here... and trying to put on a poor facade for her phone. Another big reasons why there are cameras everywhere to rebut things like this. I also sling mud at the manager for caving in. I hate it when managers do that. Giving them the discount is totally unwarranted and you can guarantee that they will do it again. OP is not a jerk here.
Story 2: I think both parties are jerks here. OP for contstantly badgering the husband to wear something he really doesn't want to, regardless of the occasion, and the husband for his very bad attitude and calling the OP controlling. I get that some people dont like suits and that kind of attire, but for just one special occasion like that is when you should dress nice. I agree that he should dress up in a suit for the wedding itself, then go more casual afterwards.
Story 3: OP is not a jerk, but John definitely is and big time. I'm really surprised John kept his teeth after some of those comments he made, not only to the nephew (whats wrong with a lifeguard job??) but the whole spiel about 'needing fathers' and all that other BS. OP was talking nothing too far, but John sure was. I can totally see why everyone left, why would you remotely want to be around this moron? Anyone defending this guy is a complete idiot, who cares how much money he makes. You can bet that the nephew will go zero contact with John and his mother once he is old enough to move out.
Story 4: Is that a case of financial illiteracy, or being greedy? A very fine line here. She could very easily be stringing you along here. I totally would be re-evaluating the relationship here, because if the OP is close to declaring bankruptcy, thats pretty serious and she doesn't seem to concerned about it all. That should be the biggest red flag here.
The John Story - Is... Is the woman in an abusive relationship?
Story 2 - I never wear dresses or skirts or heels, I just get so uncomfortable in them, but you know what I did when I went to a wedding? I wore a skirt and dress shirt, and heels. It was a casual attire but I still wanted to look nice for my best friend's wedding. I sucked up my uncomfortableness just to look nice to a wedding. Op's husband is the jerk in this one. Op is just wanting him to look nice, cause you know what happens in weddings? Pictures get taken, especially family pictures. Op doesn't want to be embarrassed when those pictures come back and have that man child sticking out like a sore thumb amongst the rest of the family!
OP's husband is male version of pick me girl wearing track suit everywhere bc they're not like others
You should have told them to prove that you were being rude by rewinding the video and showing it to your manager
Story#1-NO means no, can they read, God Bless you. The manager just wanted them gone.
Why just why are we like this
karen needs to get out of the store or get banned from all stores.
but karen and her daughter need to stop.
Love the content homie keep it up
Story #2: I don't know how I feel about that one.. cause tho I agree he should wear a suit for Wedding and not be so casual, I feel like the alternative is him IN the suit but sulking throughout the whole thing.. idk what the 'Ideal' solution would be there.
A plain black t-shirt and pants?
Story 2- Leave hubby at home.
Damn you upload a lot
Yo do y’all need voice actors? Would love to read out some stories for y’all and let you do the response audio!
Story 4: op shouldn’t be suspicious here but he has allowed this to happen
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Ma'am that coupon is expired so it only works on expired items
Oh hamburgers...
Day 93 of saying the same thing until I get pinned
Karen's getting destroyed is one of the best parts of my life
Story 2, guy can dress how he wants. Op is emarased? She needs to get over herself
ya some people dont like to dress fancy they should like their own style op is being controlling about what the guy wears
You don’t sound too smart
@@Batman-lg2zj its not like the guy was dressed in boxers and a t-shirt. the OP seriously sounds like a stuck up ass.
I personally think it's more to the cultural side. In some culture, you have to wear formally in a wedding. Since it's was op's relative wedding, worst case scenario is that their relatives will talking behind her back which lead to embarrassment or laughing stock by them. The best solution for this scenario is that, either he don't go to the wedding if he not interested with it or wanted to wear any suit OR he goes to the wedding wearing a suit. Unless they found a middle ground for this situation. That's just my opinion.
@@nurulafiqah4903 or people can be adults and stop worrying so much about how someone is dressed, and stop using the excuses of "culture" or "tradition"
again, its not like he was wearing shorts and a t-shirt, he was "dressed up" just not as much as some of the others.
Story 2 the op is the jerk because if he doesn’t want to wear it he doesn’t have to
What if there is a dress code?
@@InteriorDesignStudentignore the commenter because he / she isn’t bright
@@InteriorDesignStudentIf there was then I'm sure he would do it. But no one even complained since there wasn't any dress codes at the weddings they went to, OP just screamed and threw a fit
@@InteriorDesignStudent Doesn’t matter you shouldn’t be forced in a relationship to do some thing
@@dreythedino3338 No, you shouldn't. But you should honor dress codes.
Nice
Fine, but for my birthday, you people have to wear jeans and a Motorhead shirt
Id do it for a big mac
Story 2: Steve Irwin famously wore his khaki zoo outfit to fancy events. He STILL wore a tux for his own wedding. It's tacky and boorish to dress like a slob for other people's special occasions.
I feel like for story 2... Why did you marry him? You knew he doesn't like dressing up and stuff but yet said you loved him regardless. Why now? Why is this now suddenly the hill to die on? Just because you feel embarrassed? It doesn't sound like it's like omg it sounds respectful but casual. Yeah it's a special event, yeah he could just wear the suit but why can't you also just support him? Why does he gotta "suit up" on his Bruce Wayne just to make your day feel more special? You're worried about he looks to everyone and how embarrassing he is but is it really worth all that??? It's not like this new or anything this sounds like thats just who he is?
Story 2: as a fan of men’s fashion, I’m on the husband’s side. Some people have their own definitions of what they consider dressy. I looked up the post on Reddit and according to OP her brother’s wedding didn’t have a dress code and her husband is tall and possibly quite built. This maybe why he’s uncomfortable in suits cause being tall myself it’s tricky to get the measurements right when buying a suit, especially the jacket which has more intricate measurements like chest and shoulder width, wrist, neck, and waist circumference, and arm length.
Cool
Now I want to know which race card the original op was gonna pull🤔
Anyone know what's the game called
story 2 idk i mean not everyone likes to wear suits you cant get mad if he doesn't like them if this was the other way around everyone would say the op is a jerk for not letting his wife be but this is just how i see it
But she isn’t being controlling
@@Batman-lg2zjShe is. She tried to force him to wear shit that he didn't need to wear. He would've worn a suit if they asked, but literally NO ONE GAVE A DRESS CODE
@@Batman-lg2zjShe IS being controlling you dumb fuck
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Story 2: obnoxious, let a man tell a woman what to wear you would be telling him he's "toxic". "going against the grain" reading into it he sounds like a big guy, I'm a big guy and hate wearing suits. No matter what u do there will be something that won't fit right
I'm a big guy. I wore a suit to my friends wedding. Weddings have a dress code.
ya true i said it as well if it was the other way around narrator would call up a jerk
@kidflaxh5130 I've seen the reverse and ya it 50 50 between normal reactions and the bs
ya the narrators
takes make no sense sometimes
@@tatkkyo9911If there's not a specified dress code, that's the married party's fault if they got mad. It sounds like no one fucking cared besides OP
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Am I the Idiot when?
Not going to lie it if I'm ever the owner of any type of establishment even restaurant I'm going to make sure my employees come first as a golden rule not the customer. Don't get me wrong I'm always going to be sure that the customer is at least treated like a decent human being and always treated very well to let them know that this is a place where they're going to feel welcome to be in but of they get out of line that's on them and they're not getting any of that the customers right treatment crap now of the employee gets out of line that's an entirely different story like I said before but rather than that I'm also going to make sure that managers follow this rule and they always have to make sure to check the cameras to see who was in the right and who was in the wrong end of this person happened to put hands on an employee the cops must be called immediately and I'm going to tell that employee they must press charges on this person if not I'm going to be the one to do it
Story 2 op is the jerk and controlling
yup
Story 2 u are being so controlling just leave him alone
Nah I agree with the None suit guy, You can't force people to do what You want, of it's that big of a deal I just wouldn't go. He's not lazy hell he probably doesn't even want to go to these functions, but he goes anyways just accept his choice to be comfortable if everyone else wants to dress up an he's not complaining about it you shouldn't complain about him.
I don’t get how the husband is the jerk in story 2? It isn’t like he’s wearing sweatpants and a stained shirt or anything, he’s just dressing comfortably. A button up shirt sounds appropriate and he does not need to tuck it in if he doesn’t want to. He is there supporting the newly weds. What he wears shouldn’t be an issue. ESPECIALLY if there is no firm dress code (if there was a firm dress code then that would change things but OP states that there isn’t really ever a dress code).
I get culture and stuff but the way I see it, as long as you are there supporting your friends and family and helping out, and you look decent, it’s okay. Unless the couple states specifically to dress up then you shouldn’t have to. The husband could easily have sensory issues that make some tight clothes too uncomfortable to tolerate and that is his right not to wear it.
Am I the only one who thinks he is totally fine? He isn’t being rude or petty, he just isn’t dressing in a way OP wants. That’s literally it.
Or he could wear a nice T-shirt with a blazer. I wore that when I was in my great uncle’s wedding when I was 13.
How about the IDGAF attitude. Talking about the second video. Like they ( me) have given up on life and just IDGAF. F**ck living. We just trying to live till we die
ngl, story 2 is really reading like "my husband won't dress the exact way I want him to" like the husband has no choice to express himself, and the way that the narrator went in on it too and called him "attention seeking" is just... something
I've worn a suit three times sr&jr prom with my now wife and on a cruise with my family and I didn't wear one for my own wedding I didn't know why I felt as uncomfortable as I did until about six months after my second son was born when I realized I wasn't cisgender so many things made sense when I figured that out
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Umm a guy not wearing a suit is not a hill you should die on, I know several men who never wore a suit she is being controlling.
ya i mean i get both sides but like not every guy is into wearing a suit
Story 2. Op is right. Just wear the damn suit. Or wear something formal. The wife isn't being controlling wanting him to look nice for a special day. Even dress pants, shirt and tie. He mine as well not go. If you're fragile enough to think this is controlling or trying to push the double standard. You're just as weird as the husband's reluctance to wear something nice for once.
Story 3 -- NÞA bordering on ESH. Sister and nephew are being emotionally abused. OP needs to take sister and nephew away from John and get þem into þerapy. And þe narrator is victim blaming þe sister for being wiþ an abuser.
what is going on with your keyboard? lol
At some point, if the victim does not do much to change their situation then that is on them.
Like it is not victim blaming to call a spade a spade. She is with someone who is emotionally abusive to her and her son and instead of doing anything about it she is concerned about the guy’s outburst.
At some point it becomes her fault for staying in a bad situation.
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd You clearly don't know how abuse works. Sister probably believes þere is no alternative and her family's attitude is reinforcing þat by enabling þe abuse.
Actually op shouldn’t do crap for her sister
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd That is victim blaming even if you insist it is not. We don't know that the man isn't beating the crap out of the sister and nephew. If the guy acts like this in front of others, imagine what he's like when no one can see or hear him. The most dangerous time for any DV victim is when they leave. They have to recognize they deserve better and then get help to escape. It's not easy.
Story 4.. i havent even heard it yet.. but gods damn.... OP is just as dumb if he thinks someone can be unable to read or write finances.... like.. wtf does that even mean😂😂
You've never heard of financial literacy? My kids take a Financial Literacy class in high school.
The wedding dress story - It's OP's wedding. Only OP's wishes matters when it comes to OP's story. Everything is about OP here.
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I'm the fifth comment under your comment under the Comments section of a RUclips video on the Internet through an ISP connected to my laptop.
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@@ambreenijaz3919 bro I hate these "first" type people, but you saying nope just makes you look weird.
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It’s crazy to me how much you guys weigh in on video two with so little information about the actual situation. For all you guys know, it could have been a sensory issue for somebody on the spectrum but instead you guys went so deep with barely any info in one side of the story.
As for story 2, you're being way too hard on this guy and so is OP. NO, he is not being weird or obnoxious. I go to weddings in polo shirts and slacks. I hate suits. Does that make me weird or obnoxious? No. It just means I hate dressing up in a suit. So what? The obnoxious one here is OP.
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