Filey With Mum & Dad
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- I had the day in Filey with my mum & dad
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Welcome to my Channel,
My name is James and I live full time in my tiny van, however this is not just a van life channel. I enjoy travel, food and drink and making videos 🙂
When I turned 50 I decided I’d had enough of the rat race and working long hours just to pay rent and bills, life was passing me by and I needed a drastic change.
FAQ
Where is Helen?
Helen has a responsible full time job and two children so unfortunately she can’t join me on every trip. I really wish she could.
What equipment do you use?
My vlogging camera is a GoPro Hero 9 but I also use my pixel 6a phone and Lumix G80 camera for other footage
For editing, I used Premiere Pro on an old laptop but I’m saving to buy a more powerful computer.
Do you have children?
Yes I have a 6yr old daughter who lives with her mum but I see her quite a lot. I don’t usually put her on the vlogs and if I do, I block out her face for privacy reasons. I also have a grown up son.
How do you fund your lifestyle?
I don’t need as much to live these days since going full time van life but I receive a small percentage of income from the ads that RUclips put on the videos.
Why the sponsored videos?
I only accept sponsorship from companies I use and trust, this is my fulltime job and my income, it’s how I support my family. (I have Patreon if you prefer videos with no ads).
How do I contact you?
Please contact me here: james@bythecurb.co.uk
It's absolutely lovely to see the way you get on with your mum and dad.
They are lovely 🤗 people. Old skool.
Thank you, Im very lucky :-)
@@bythecurb you certainly are. I love the colour of your dad's hair. Just a lovely couple .
Lovely james , taking your mum and dad out.❤....bless your dad was 1st into the food..😁..good video..
I absolutely loved 'meeting' your mum and dad, what a lovely couple! You're so lucky still having them both James 😊 💜
I am. Thank you 😊
Every mum in the world piles her sons plate up...beautiful....
My mother would say when I arrived at her home "You've put on weight since I last saw you!" after supper if I declined a second helping of desert... I'd get a hurt expression and "You didn't like my food?" I still miss her twenty-five years later after her death.
Brought a lump to my throat this, lost my mum in August and would do any think for a random day out with her one more time, cherish these moments mate
We are so sorry to hear this. It's terrible losing your mum. Hope you are hanging in there. I don't have my mum and dad anymore but I've adopted James mum and dad 😍 H x
Love that mobile home.
Obviously you're working hard on your Vlogs and you have achieved 40k subscribers goal b4 the end of Feb . Well done James.
Thank you, Im going out to celebrate with Helen tonight :-)
@@bythecurbey James lad I've got very found memories of filey we had a caravan on browns caravan park it belonged to my family for years
So lovely to see you ,with Mum and Dad,enjoyed it ❤️
@@bythecurbcan we have a pub crawl in Filey please? Is there enough pubs?
Where's your address for hello chef if your in your van.
Brings back happy memories.Remember going in the same charity shop as you did.My mum was never happier than rummaging in shops,especially clothes shops! Your mum & dad seem very nice.Make the most of the times you have with them,I'm sure you will .lost my dad 25 yrs ago,and mum 5,and memories are so precious
Just decided a few weeks ago to stop working and look after my Mum full time, she has dementia.
Wow! Thank you & Helen and your family.
Crying my eyes out.
Much love
I'm so sorry to hear about your mum mate, sending lots of love ❤️
That's so lovely, thinking of you 💓
@stevensheehy8496.
I'm glad you're going to look after your Mum. It's a bit of a cliche but parents looked after us so now it's our turn. It's not going to be easy though Steven, if I could give you some advice, it would be to have something to do that's just for you. My Dad has vascular dementia and I've been his full time carer for a decade now. The first few years were hard, I lost a lot of friends as I had to decline most invitations so people stop asking eventually. Long story short - I joined a pop choir four years back and it's I don't think it's overly dramatic to say - it saved my sanity. It's soul destroying watching the person you love disappearing bit by bit, so if you have an outlet that's just for *you* - it can work wonders. Lovely channels like James' are little rays of sunshine too - I live vicariously through them when they go on their trips, I hope I'm still young enough when the time comes to visit all those places for real. Sorry this is such a long comment!
Good luck Steven - you are doing the right thing 🤗✌
Make sure you take all the help you can you need regular brakes l think there are carers centres all over the country get in touch with your local one. They are a mind of information and support. I hope things go as well as possible for you.
Thanks for this, it really touched cos my Dad had open heart surgery and cancer scare and Mum is getting frail and last time I saw them both together it struck me how the people I thought were immortal who'd always there to look after me and now I am the one who has to look after them. Mum is not too bad slow on her feet but her memory is not great.
I'm sorry to hear that mate, I love spending time with my parents and feel lucky to have them both as many of my friends have lost theirs.
Yes it comes on us all to soon My husband has dementia I have fibromyalgia not much fun but I have lovely memories
Just love a northern family...lovely to see your mum&dad again,cherish them.
What a lovely place that was.
And CONGRATULATIONS on 40k..wow🎉welldone.❤❤❤
Thank you 😊
Warmed the cockles of my heart this ❤
Hope your daughter gets well soon ❤
Made me smile when you pulled up outside three tuns pub, met my husband in that exact spot !! I was 16 he was 18 and we’ve been together 37 yrs, married 33 yrs this yr.
Thanks for the lovely memories xx
Thank you and congratulations on 33yrs 😊
Thank you for the day out with you and your family..making memories 😊❤
Love this, my mother in law lived in Filey till she died in 2022. We used to visit her every week and get fish and chips from Brown’s, she loved them. We used to go for a walk round the town, holding everybody up with her walker, reminded me of your Dad pottering along, bless them!
Thank you, sorry to hear about your mother in law ❤️
Great video James Filey looks nice, lovely to see you and your mum and dad having some quality time together 👍
Your video brought home to me the vulnerability of our parents as they get older. Your portrayal of that was very moving, and your gentle loving respect you showed them was so genuine. X
Loved Filey, childhood memories ❤ we used stay at Butlins Filey and We walked from there via the beach into Filey village. Can still remember the good times and weather
So nice to see you out and about with your parents today your so lucky to have them lovely people Thankyou James for sharing your parents their lovely 🥰 memories 💯❤️🥰🙏
What can I say?that has to be one of the best you tube vlogs I’ve ever seen wonderful clever people enjoying life the simple things in life are free thanks mate👍
Thank you, glad you enjoyed it
I thought that myself it was effortless how the dynamics worked it should be a template for others to interact with our family. Absolutely brilliant, I wish the very best to James Helen and the whole family 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
My mum and dad took us three kids to Filey and Bridlington when we were kids. Happy days. I loved it when your mum told you to wash your hands. Priceless.
LOVE Filey (or 'Fillayy' as our family call it - posh from Leeds 😁). Lovers of Filey really don't want 'others' knowing about it lol 🙊. Great vlog - and lovely to see someone of a 'certain age' out with their parents - so nice 🤗. Janet
(PS love your mum's lampshade 👍)
The local cancer trust kindly paid for my mum&other sufferer's to have a holiday in Filey,it was the last one she had before she passed.So this vlog gets a thumbs up from me👍.
Thank you mate, I'm sorry to hear about your mum's passing ❤️
What a lovely family you can feel the love there. Do your parents live in the caravan permanently because I think you took us to your mum's garden once and that was a bungalow. Really enjoyed the trip to Filey what a lovely place. Thank you for a very enjoyable video.
Thank you, they sold the bungalow and are now living at the caravan full time until they find something else
Flambro lighthouse restaurant food is amazing, thanks for sharing ❤
Mum and dad seem like lovely people James, make the very best of them always... Great vlog mate,looks like you picked a smashin day .☀️👍
Quality time with the family unbeatable 👍
Your mum and dad are well coo,great video 👍🏻
Great to see you out with your mum and day James. The are a lovely couple.
Thank you 😊
Been once to Filey about 15 years ago ❤what a beautiful place and the sea is so blue 💙 going to have to go again 🌞
It really is!
Love Filey. Always went there for family holidays when I was a kid. Your mum and dad are lovely 🥰
Congratulations on your 40k subscribers ,with the help of the beautiful helen of course.
Dont get complacent now pal push on to your next milestone we'll all come along for the ride .
Keep it fun, and interesting as you always do .
Mom and dad are a lovely couple and good of them to come on your channel lovely treat for them .
Lovely comment
Thank you, I'll never get complacent 😊
Genuinely James - that episode was a wonderful breath of fresh air! Your parents are lovely - down to earth genuine true Yorkshire folk. You can defo tell you are their son. Beautiful.
Please note; I truly love the episodes with You & Helen (she is funny, gorgeous and you both spark off each other)
But today’s episode was totally unexpected and unscheduled and in my eyes…. Perfect!
I love the report/relationship the 3 of you have with each other.
And the icing on the cake was your chosen destination… Filey!
My childhood came flooding back, thanks to the 3 of you.
Right, I will close for now, I hope Helen has has a fab time skiing with her mates and returns safe & in 1 piece!
Take care care, all stay safe and I look forward to your next chapter guys… bring it on!
Good health 👌🫶🏼
Thank you, glad you enjoyed the video 😊
That was a nice relaxing video, thank you James.
Filey does look lovely and your Mum and Dad are Top ,thanks James nice gentle Vid
Thank you
Ahhh that was lovely 😍 Dad did really well !! I love Seagulls ,
Sorry 😁
It's just so nice to see normal stuff, without us moving from the couch and comfort. 😊
Cheers James for introducing your parents, you can see where your goodness comes from!
❤Absolutely great your parents can get out and enjoy a day away take extra care of them my Dad died 2 years ago and I miss him so much glad the weather was kind ❤
A truly beautiful and sentimental video.
One for the family archives which you will enjoy looking back on in your later years. 🙂
loved watching your day out in Filey with you mum and dad. as you was watching tv at the end it looked like your mum was eating an iced lolly was it a rocket as they were Jaynes favourie fav lollies. we used by packets of them from the freezer section in Aldi. oh and filey look a lovely place.
Haha yes it was. And it was from Aldi 😂
your parents are so cute,they proper look after one another,and its nice to see you spending some time with them,and tour mum has great taste,i also love watching the northeners on tour,filey looks so nice peaceful and clean,thanks for showing all the nice places there,
Lovely town & Lovely Family ✨💞It seems a nice & cosy relaxing day 👌✨
I follow Jo Good as well 😂 Your dad' s book collection looked very interesting too . I enjoyed that. Hungry for fish & chips now tho 😮
Love Filey! We holidayed at the campsite up in the country park regularly when I was a kid!😁
I’m with your Dad, best book ever Ragged Trousered Philanthropist. Filey looks lovely, & well done James on reaching 40k 🎉
Thank you 😊
Delightful video! Love your mum and dad. Made me laugh out loud a few times! Thank you, what my Monday needed😊
Thank you, glad you liked it
Your Mum has the same taste as me, watching Jo Good on Middleagedminx. Margaret from Longwick
We always park at that bottom car park near boating lake. Kids have spent many an hour playing down that end 👍
My hubbys sister lives at Filey. They live on Rutland St & also have a 5 bed rental house. Their daughter owns Filey Veterinary 😊 we love going at Easter for the food festival, pain in arse the drive from Barnsley with bank hol travel but it’s a lovely place 😊
Looks so lovely in Filey great day out with ur lovely mum and dad ❤❤❤
Hi James, I live in Filey in rented accommodation until 9th March then I’m going full time van life due to ridiculous increase in rent. I’ve commented with that before I think.
Out of towners have already snapped up a massive amount of property making it almost impossible for young people to remain in the area which is why it is known for its aging population. It is after all knock named ‘gods waiting room’. That said it is beautiful and I would have rather had stayed to be fair, but my salary has not kept pace with the cost of living.
The two bungalows nearest the lifeboat station (knocked through to one), sold for just over 1.5 million.
The sculpture in Filey is the sister sculpture to the one in Filey. They were originally both installed in Filey. But as always with these things Scarborough seeped in and pilfered from the Giley council tax payers (it’s an ongoing sore point).
The Filey Brigg campsite is very popular in summer but I have seen RUclips reviews saying the facilities are outdated, and dirty with rude staff. I have no idea if that’s true or not.
The paddling pool is very popular in summer. Your little girl would love it for sure.
There’s a great deal of history surrounding Foley bay involving sunken warships, German U boats (sunken) but visible on a good day (so I’m told), flying clubs that used to take off from the sandy beach.
It is said that Filey has been one of the oldest, if not ‘the’ oldest holiday resorts in the UK.
I think I saw my campervan up the Brigg in the background of the vid too lol
In winter there’s a lovely light show in the park you went too, again something your little one would enjoy.
The beach at Filey is as good as anywhere else in Europe on a nice hot summers day.
You should have gone to Inghams for Fish n chips (oof so good). That said looking at that portion I think you must have ordered a sack of tatties n a whale. Wow. Right out of ten, I’ll go there next time I reckon.
I like your mums taste in RUclips channels too.
Loved this video so much. Lost my dad 5 years ago and miss him so much. Mums health has declined so significantly she’s in a care home . To see you guys enjoying each others company like this is pure gold!! Never underestimate it.
Thank you mate for the lovely comment and the info on Filey. We're big fans
Nice video James, your mum n dad are lovely 😊
Good to see a family spending time together cherish your time with your parents it runs out to quickly as I know too well enjoyed your day out 👍
Thank you, I will :-)
Loved this video it reminded meof when i used to take my parents away. So many happy memories, thank you for reminding me. Love Filey as well, love to see the walks and seaside.
Great Vlog brought back memories. used to stay at Primrose valley and walk across the beach to Filey beautiful place.
A great blog James, it’s great to see your mum and dad..
So lovely to see your parents, you're lucky to have them james, never take it for granted, lost dad when i was 11 and mum 4 yrs ago ❤p.s filey looks really nice n clean 😊
Thank you, I am so sorry to hear that. Helen is the similar, her dad passed away when she was 16 and her mum just a few years ago. It makes me want to spend as much time as I can with them ❤
@@bythecurb ♥️♥️
Love all the vlogs with you and Helen
Congrats on the 40k 🎉
Loved vlog with your mum and Dad so nice and heart warming to see you all appreciate each other
Look forward to many more
Thank you 😊
Top video mate! Great to see the parents on this one!! I think the mobile home looks absolutely wicked!! Must be honest james I don’t watch Gogglebox but if I would have skipped to the end! 🤣 …. Smithy
Filey is lovely, it always helps when the sun is out though. What a nice day!
What a beautiful sunny day! We haven't had that down here in Northamptonshire. I'm really enjoying this look around. My husband's cousin moved from Littleborough to Filey a number of years ago. She really likes it. Sadly I've only been once to my MiL's funeral so didn't get to look around as stayed in Scarborough. Oddly my neighbours from down here in Northants (originally from Yorkshire) bought a flat in Filey by the sea. And now they run experience days where they run army tanks and other vehicles along the beach at Filey when the tied is out. Every summer I think. It looks like a nice place. My husband loves Flamborough Head. I really feel like I've had a day out with you all today. I should have gone to work though. Sadly it's now late and freezing and I still need to go!
Oh dear I hope you're not late for work. I love Flamborough too
@@bythecurb It's fine. I'm my boss.
Oh I've enjoyed seeing your mum and dad like mine they are gorgeous 😊
Great vlog with mom and dad, hope your daughter recovers quickly. Love dad's choice of his favourite book ever, it's also my favourite, he's obviously got great taste!
Thank you, my daughter is on the mend now and I will see her tomorrow which Im looking forward to :-)
Hi James what a lovely family U got mate great video .. haven't been too family for years looks good 😊
Thanks for the trip to the seaside. Blew the cobwebs away. Bit different to Huddersfield x
Yep. Just a bit
Love the way you care for your parents. It’s just so lovely ❤
Thank you :-)
Plenty of parking spaces down on the seafront aswell xx❤❤
So so glad I subscribed a while ago .Another lovely vlog.Natural down to earth family,Helen included.Friendly,loving,so funny at times. Beautiful views of the beach and the the sea(apologies but I love the sound of seagulls)Congratulations on 40k,more to come🎉Thankyou😊
Thank you. I love the sound of seagulls too
Love watching your videos James. Your Mum and Dad are so lovely.
Thanks so much
Thanks for the tour took me back a bit xx
Lovely to see your mam and dad James ❤love their van 👍
Really loved that one James took me right back to my childhood.👍
Hi James, Ive just watched this video! I am catching up with them all LOL. A lovely biopic of your family, a day in the life of a normal Northern family on a day out. we have all been there!! Congrats on the success of your channel, i am thoroughly enjoying your content. I am just 62 now and am seriously thinking of vanlife myself. Keep up the good work Love to Helen. Regards
Steve. 🤗🤗
Thank you Steve :-)
13:50 I have many fond memories of my late father in these flats. I also remember our dog sh*tting on the carpet as soon as we arrived one time 😂
We love filey .Think there about 17 pub clubs and bar .would make a good pub crawl vlog.cheers till next time .
You be you these videos are brilliant really glad you have your mom and dad and you can see how much you care for them l miss mind so much even though they have not been here for over twenty years l think about them most days my sister says l should move on l have moved on but they are still with me😅
Thanks for taking us with you James, nice one, hope your daughter gets well soon ❤
Thank you, she's much better today
Your mam and dad are class mate , great stuff x
Thank you 😊
Yorkshire folk friendliest and kindest folk in the land 👏👏👍
I'm from tuther side of the pennines James , I liked Filey when visiting the east coast.... congratulations on the 40k
Thanks 👍
Filey is a beautiful place my favourite east coast desination. We always visit at least once a year last year 3 times.
Loved this blog with your mum and Dad, I follow Jo Good middle age minx like your mum she’s good. Well done James. X
Thank you, my mum watches more RUclips than tv these days
Love filey great to see your mum and Dad lovely vlog 😊❤
Thanks so much
I've being to filey twice now in the last 6 yrs what a gr8 place. Nice to see your parents out and about with u james 👍
Your folks lovley people and lovely place they have
Her indoors and meself spent a week in June '23 going around bits of north Yorkshire, stayed in the Mayfield, Seamer (lovely place) and just went to visit different places each day, we went to Filey twice, it were shut both times!
Great blog and loved Filey. Must go there sometime .those fish n chips looked delicious 😋
My favourite place Filey. So chilled and quiet. We stay at reighton sands park just a little down the coast
Thanks James for introducing us to your mum and dad. Filey looks lovely and reminds me of New Brighton on the Wirral across from Liverpool. You could a similar vlog over here in our bit of Spain. Take care amigo.
Thank you, we might be coming to Spain next month. Not sure yet, depends on Helen's work and getting the pennies together! 😊
@@bythecurb not sure where you’re thinking about but take a look at Torrox Pueblo for a genuine experience of life in Spain. It’s an hour from Malaga airport going east towards Nerja. I’d be happy to collect you both and bring you here. Malaga city is an awesome place that viewers would love. We also have miles of seafront. Torrox is an interesting place in its own right but there are buses heading to other villages and large towns. It really is a hidden gem. We also, of course, enjoy the ‘best climate in Europe’. Cheers to you both.
Thank you, that's so kind of you to offer
Filey is brilliant, keep it quiet James 😂 Congrats on the 40k ❤
Thank you 😊
My mum and dad stayed in one of those apartments very posh . I think it used to be a old people's rest home. ACKWORTH HOUSE..?filey brigg campsite is OK. Great view.
Jo good is great.Also alternative ageing Nikk Positano .Tread the Glode.
Read Howard spring Time and the Hour.!
Filey looks nice , your mum and dad look nice people as well . they remind me of myself and my wife . thanks to you all for sharing the day .
Thank you, I'm very lucky to have such lovely parents
I love Filey..lovely vlog..thank you
More from the series 'Mum and Dad' on tour please - They are fabulous
Beautiful caravan and your mom and dad are lovely ❤
Thank you! 😊
Keep up the good work mate, just subscribed, me and the Mrs have had a proper giggle on your ventures. 👌🏼
Thank you and thanks for the sub
Aw James you are just the nicest man! Xxx
Thank you Tracy
@@bythecurb you’re welcome! I thought it on your last video in Huddersfield too, you just treat people properly and are a gentleman. 🥰
You and Helen make me chuckle every time I see you both! But Filey is where we allways went with the Bob dog!! Sadly had to have him put to sleep 5 months ago 😢 but I think that's what your missing lol😅 a little companion! 😜
I'm so sorry to hear that ❤️
Lovely video with mum and dad really enjoyed it, thank you James. Nice to have a walk in the sunshine 🌞 made a nice change from the insanity of Helen. 😮😂keep up the good work.. shared with Facebook book friends. X
Thank you mate, that's very kind of you
What a beautiful relationship you have with your parents and what a beautiful memory. This will be in decades from now to remember.