My best friend & my wife cheated on me. This is how I settle. 02/21/24

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  • Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
  • Hmong El Cheater Stories

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  • @monicaxyooj905
    @monicaxyooj905 6 месяцев назад +17

    Wow! You're one of the wisest men who take a very stressful situation in a very mature manner. I applaud you for keeping your composure while going through all sorts of issues and emotions. You did the right thing and giving your ex-wife and children the dignity. Only very few people can remain calm and move on as you did. I wish you happiness and the best for your future. Thank you for sharing your story.
    PS- you are a good husband and can make another wonderful husband to someone who truly loves you.

  • @nengyang209
    @nengyang209 6 месяцев назад +5

    Y’all don’t feel stressed out listening to these kind of story? To much negative energy for me and stress me out even though it’s not me. Only here to comment 😅

  • @zerozero9642
    @zerozero9642 6 месяцев назад +6

    Niam hluas, koj zaj neej neeg zoo kawg tab sis tu ib qhov lawm, qhov uas hais nws tus poj niam tsis tag, xav paub tias niag thaub siab phem thiab nws tus poj niam lub neej hos uas cas lawm nab, xav paub.

  • @vubbieful
    @vubbieful 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are so good at telling other people's story. Thanks for your passion and consideration for the story owners!

  • @maylee9743
    @maylee9743 6 месяцев назад +2

    Amazing story, you did everything right. So grad for you.

  • @poggersrus1802
    @poggersrus1802 6 месяцев назад +2

    So sorry your marriage was not the way it supposed to be. She was not meant to be together with you. You should be glad that you divorced her before it was too late.

  • @deldoe2398
    @deldoe2398 6 месяцев назад

    Damn! She is one heck of a LUCKY woman to be loved by a SWEET, LOVING and CARING husband like you. You DEFINITELY SPOILED her like CRAZY. Life is so unfair. Why some of us wish to have a husband like you. Sorry for you! 😢
    I feel your pain and hurts. The heartaches of a cheating spouse.

  • @maileevue116
    @maileevue116 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are a good husband, wishes God gives me that kind of husband.

  • @MsPangY
    @MsPangY 6 месяцев назад +1

    It’s hard to know whose good & who isn’t but the truth is the more you do things together something will happen!! Why these ladies who have a good man always cheat … it’s no wonder, they won’t be nice no more to the good ones!!! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @govinachaas7009
    @govinachaas7009 6 месяцев назад

    I'm crying listening to this story cause just this last Dec, I too was devastated with what relates in this story. 😰
    When that one person destroys you with their cold cruel scandalous ways,,, you will never be the same and you can't help but to protect yourself from & your future from everyone you meet.
    Life's best and good....feels forever gone and over.
    You just take it one day at a time....like waitin to die!😔
    I don't know when or how to recover but I do know like the man in this story said..... I still have the rest of my life to live and I don't want to continue re-living in a relationship filled with worries, stress & getting hurt with a lying cheater!

  • @suexiong2356
    @suexiong2356 5 месяцев назад

    Thumbs up for you brother, very wise decisions, but don't bitter yourself and the mistakes you've been through from finding a good woman out there. You deserve to be happy in this life time.

  • @AJVan-cs6fw
    @AJVan-cs6fw 6 месяцев назад

    You did the right thing before it's too late, love is difficult to be trusted, no one ever be truly loved, I'm on your side, I was so dumb even my wife did cheating on me for 5 men, but still hurt so bad in very day life, you did the right things, you're the real heroes. God bless you

  • @MsBL32
    @MsBL32 6 месяцев назад

    Wow!! You really are a smart and my kind of man!! I am sorry for what happened but she doesn’t deserve your love, I hope you find happiness to fill the void!!! It takes all of our strength and dignity to move on from something so traumatized and life changing.

  • @RightPhalanges
    @RightPhalanges 6 месяцев назад

    well played brother! I applaud your determination!🤗 ladies, learn from this script!!!
    ms nancy, love ur story telling! I felt the funny moments and sadness. 😉

  • @leejmuam1
    @leejmuam1 6 месяцев назад +1

    You handled very well. This is how it should be done. Your ex-wife tsis sawm zoo. Some women have it too good and become a maum dev. Niam mos ab is not a good route.

  • @LT-sg6rr
    @LT-sg6rr 6 месяцев назад

    Such a heart-felt story. Some parts also brought back my own memories. Listening to the story, I was like, wow, the life she had is one every woman wanted. Even I wanted it. Here I am working, no luxury cars, jewelry, purses. But it's ok. Fate takes me where I am today. I am humble today for the past n current experience. We all go through things that break us. There is no perfect marriage. Like she indicated, she was lonely. What we do for one another will never be enough. Reevaluate and see what you can do or change in the next chapter of your life should you be in another relationship.

  • @cibvaj868
    @cibvaj868 6 месяцев назад

    Good job!👏 You made the right decision; live for the future!

  • @yervue5742
    @yervue5742 6 месяцев назад

    Ppl who have it to good does not know the value of love and your wife is exactly that. She has everything and she took you for granted. So sorry that she didn’t see your value and worth. She will forever regret you and never finds another man like you. I applaud you for your bravery and courage. Wish you the best.

  • @ax5717
    @ax5717 6 месяцев назад

    This lady got it way too good! Isn't everyone women's dream to be SAHM!

  • @seeyang5951
    @seeyang5951 6 месяцев назад

    So sad😢. Don't give up. Plenty of good women out there.

  • @melodievang1921
    @melodievang1921 6 месяцев назад

    Proud of you that you can move on .. me, I’m 33 years old and now I caught my husband cheating me with their wife. I don’t know what should I do at this moment because all my kids still small and I still need his support!😔

    • @leejmuam1
      @leejmuam1 6 месяцев назад

      You're only 33. Don't waste another year with that cheater. He will never change, you will only enable him to continue if you stay. Stay strong. You have a long life ahead.

  • @LorXai
    @LorXai 6 месяцев назад

    took u for granted….u deserve better! Straighten up your crown king!!!

  • @user-po4bw9jx4v
    @user-po4bw9jx4v 6 месяцев назад

    Bro, thanks for sharing your story. You are a smart person, and what you did what’s a classic man

  • @pajntaublaug9326
    @pajntaublaug9326 6 месяцев назад

    Very proud👏🏻 of cov txiv tsev no, 2-3 zaj no npaj tau zoo heev
    Tu siab tias peb npaj tau lub neej tabsis tsis xaus li peb xav kom xaus💔💔💔💔 kavtsij single thiaj tsawg kev nyuab siab💕💕💕💕
    Es thaum twg kho siab ces ua friend noj fawm li tais ci nplas hais xwb es yog hnub twg lub ntuj pub tug yog los rau yus no los mam yuav nrog yus haus kua dis ua ke os💕

  • @maivue719
    @maivue719 6 месяцев назад

    Kudos to you! You did the right thing. You’re kind enough to leave her some money and the house. Not a lot of man can do like you. Never turn back to a snake that once bit you. Moving forward is the only way to heal from the pain.

  • @ka_sailor672
    @ka_sailor672 6 месяцев назад

    Omg your wife so lucky have a love husband like you. I wish I have a husband love me and respect me like that.

  • @piamoua3649
    @piamoua3649 6 месяцев назад

    Wow! Wow! Wow!......I have nothing to say but bow-down to this gentleman.

  • @lovelyasian938
    @lovelyasian938 6 месяцев назад

    I’m so sorry of what you had to go through, I feel you! I’m glad you chose to move forward to a better future! Don’t let one bad apple ruin your chances at happiness. You can find happiness within yourself don’t let others ruin your happiness. Best of luck to your future and thanks for sharing ❤

  • @maysongyang9999
    @maysongyang9999 6 месяцев назад

    Betrayal is heartwrenching. 😢Loyalty and trust come with time.
    May laughter and positive people travel with you on your last journey.

  • @macymango4134
    @macymango4134 6 месяцев назад

    I’m glad you’re strong enough to walk away from 25 years of marriage .. it’s got to be one of the toughest and painful decisions made but the right decision .. I’ll never stay with a cheater but I don’t know if I’ll be as strong and patient as you are.. good luck & take your time, enjoy life while single not everybody is the same .

  • @hmoobs2
    @hmoobs2 6 месяцев назад

    Wow. Brother. You are so tougher and strong men. God will bless you for a better future beautiful wife again. You love her so much but You gotta let her go let her go ok.

  • @penglee8400
    @penglee8400 6 месяцев назад

    The brother of this story did the right thing to let his beloved 25 years wife go. The only way to forgive his wife is to let go and he did the right thing. Not letting go is torturing yourself slowly, so he did the right thing. Proud of you, don't lose hope keep on the future, you will never know what's lying ahead. May God be with you and a better future ahead.

  • @mkgreenluv
    @mkgreenluv 6 месяцев назад

    What a heartbreaking story! Sister Nancy, this is the 3rd story about cheating wives and the the husband filed for divorce; very sad.

  • @ThePlantedtank
    @ThePlantedtank 6 месяцев назад

    Some women just don't deserve a good life! Let that cheater go bro. There other ladies out there that'll appreciate what you did to your ex.

  • @janevwj6109
    @janevwj6109 6 месяцев назад

    Very sad…But that’s how you exit a marriage. Especially when you have a lot on the line. Don’t allow ur hard work, blood, sweat, and tears go to waste.

  • @sengyang6780
    @sengyang6780 6 месяцев назад

    Wow! Brother you did the right thing and handled the case like a professional I guess your wife will be so sorry about what she did and will miss you for the rest of her life, just let go of the past and move on with your life everything will be fine.

  • @wisteria4550
    @wisteria4550 6 месяцев назад

    Damn. Such a painful separation. Strong well, brother. You handled it very well.
    Man…I wish I have a good man with a good job to support me.
    Brother, I hope your story will inspire others to handle their cheating marriage problems.
    I gave up on men too. Now, I’m looking for a travel partner but haven’t been success. Hopefully one day God will find one for me.
    Good luck to you, brother.

  • @MonaLisa-de4cp
    @MonaLisa-de4cp 6 месяцев назад

    You're a smart and good man. Good in that you cared to save her face, which you shouldn't have. I just want a man to provide a financially stable life for me and my kids and love and treat me special on occasion like this man, but apparently that's not good enough for this woman. She really lost out. I want to know how her and her boyfriend's life is going now. I wish you the best, brother. I'm sorry this happened to you.

  • @maihouavue6440
    @maihouavue6440 6 месяцев назад

    U did a good move brother. Wish I would have been smarter and do what u did to my ex husband. Although it’s been 14 yrs now. Life has been peaceful for me. Hope u heal and continue your new journey.

  • @sandly5831
    @sandly5831 6 месяцев назад

    You did the right thing. It was over the minute she cheated on you. She didn't love you 💔. Lastly she didn't respect you.

  • @mklee7113
    @mklee7113 6 месяцев назад

    I’m sorry to hear your story. The other side the grass isn’t greener.

  • @leelee8608
    @leelee8608 6 месяцев назад

    What a story!!! Sorry you went through such betrayal.
    All is not lost yet brother. There’s still good women out there. Don’t lose faith in us women. Not all are bad hearted like your ex.

  • @pakouxiong4230
    @pakouxiong4230 6 месяцев назад

    I'm always dream to have a good husband who is faithful and love me but it takes me 41 years still praying🙏. I'm always find cheaters . Cas tswv ntuj muab tu zoo rau tus phem xwb. Tu siab kawg. Kuv lub neej no ua cas kuv tsi muaj hmoo li tus brother ntawm nov tus poj niam tu siab kawg.

  • @yengyang9783
    @yengyang9783 6 месяцев назад

    Li ntawv kuv thiaj tsis xav muaj ib tus best friend li ntag. Thanks for sharing you did great!

  • @user-qq4ek5lr8t
    @user-qq4ek5lr8t 6 месяцев назад

    She so lucky to have someone love her so much. He deserves someone better

  • @flyingeagleyang9186
    @flyingeagleyang9186 6 месяцев назад

    you have the right decision and very difficult time for you, I understand that family breaking up it is not easy I have the same problem
    like you at this point no one know how hard and sad?

  • @cheexiong1634
    @cheexiong1634 6 месяцев назад

    😢😢😢 wow I can feel his pain omg..but a relationship takes both side to fight work through and communication… so it’s hard

  • @monicaxyooj905
    @monicaxyooj905 6 месяцев назад

    Ooh yoo, Nancy aw!
    I'm feeling exhausted after listening to this El cheater story and will not listen to any more for a long...time. 😅😅😅

  • @davidlee5259
    @davidlee5259 6 месяцев назад

    Friend what ever happened can not stop
    Let the evil go and never bring it back.

  • @Shoua608
    @Shoua608 6 месяцев назад

    Wow! Your ex-wife really doesn’t deserve you. There are a lot of good women out there who would love to have you as their husband. Never trust anyone, especially your best friends.

  • @npaujlis-angel8889
    @npaujlis-angel8889 6 месяцев назад

    He should've exposed them in front of the guests that would've been the perfect time. But very mature and willing to do it the next day and not let his kids know how dirty the wife is. Kudos to you brother. Wish you luck and hope you find a loving wife.

  • @hersilaher1126
    @hersilaher1126 6 месяцев назад

    Such a nice kind heart man. Txhob tag kev cia siab. Cov siab ntsws puas rag li koj kuv peb no ces yeej tsis xa mus yuav pojniam yuav txiv lawm. Tabsis cia peb ua phoojywg xwb.

  • @yangxwb6493
    @yangxwb6493 6 месяцев назад

    I am proud of you brother! One thing for sure, sometimes we don’t know why woman or man do that to us, they have everything, but it seem like it is not enough for them, so we have to get up and make the decision to move forward. And I am glad that you did that. It is more healthy for you and your kids. I know that sometimes you miss her, but life goes on…best luck brother. ❤I hope you will find love again.

  • @khouvue4363
    @khouvue4363 6 месяцев назад

    I’m proud of that man’s I know how he feels because I been there in his place

  • @user-wd8br8rp9s
    @user-wd8br8rp9s 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing your story!!!

  • @mamanlo2012
    @mamanlo2012 6 месяцев назад

    La vengeance est un plat qui se mange froid. Bravo Meej.

  • @baolee945
    @baolee945 6 месяцев назад

    Wow wished I have a hubby like that.

  • @simonelor9848
    @simonelor9848 6 месяцев назад

    Sorry brother you have to go through this. There are still good heart women out there so don't feel like that because its not fair to the one that do really love u in the future. What u did was very brave though.

  • @sxv7
    @sxv7 6 месяцев назад

    Wow what a sad story!

  • @youavang4331
    @youavang4331 6 месяцев назад

    Good for you brother!

  • @LalaMama-b7h
    @LalaMama-b7h 6 месяцев назад

    To the brother of this story, you did everything right, so proud of you! Cheaters do not deserve second chances.

  • @naochaolor2349
    @naochaolor2349 6 месяцев назад

    You did the right things brother.

  • @Gazalle12
    @Gazalle12 6 месяцев назад

    Brother so sorry to hear that you lose your beautiful lamb to a dog.
    Brother for me, I don't think I can handle the situation like you did. However I'm proud how you handled your situation very well.
    Brother, I don't have many good friends. I only have one friend and we live far away from each other. We only see each other maybe once in a blue moon. However, I know my best friend very well.
    I always afraid men will devour my precious lamb at any time. Our precious lamb are very dumb in regarding to men. When they turn their face away from you, they will sink or be devour by others. So I always keep my eyes on my precious lamb.
    I don't drink and I don't like to invite friends to my house.
    One think I keep in mind. It doesn't matter how poor or successful you are. Your marriage is always on the watch. Someone out there literally plan to destroy your marriage at your level of life.
    Brother take care of yourself. God bless.

  • @dannymoua8668
    @dannymoua8668 6 месяцев назад

    good story and sad

  • @BaoChang-zb3zr
    @BaoChang-zb3zr Месяц назад

    Oyo why all this lady always have a good husband to love them but they still do bad thing. My whole life I just wish to have a good husband like this but unfortunately never happen to me. I work two full job plus cooking clean and taking care of my kids and I never received a good word from my husband. All I got to say is that this lady is so lucky..

  • @kongsyyang8288
    @kongsyyang8288 6 месяцев назад

    To amazing Hmong man heart unbelievable story I do had several million air American men including myself no one can’t do that,what is working for living of him? Wow!!!

    • @kongsyyang8288
      @kongsyyang8288 6 месяцев назад

      The amazing thing about only 25 years old of marriage do every one believe?

  • @Nkaissss
    @Nkaissss 6 месяцев назад

    Hello Nancy!
    But wow brother, you’re better than me. I would’ve made the situation messy if it was me 🤣 I’m glad you stayed calm and thought of your kids and let your wife keep her image in front of your kids

  • @nyc594
    @nyc594 6 месяцев назад

    Wow that takes a lot to hold your emotions for that time period before exposing the affair. You will find someone one day. We have so many Hmong women around your age. Don’t just go for the looks. Look for someone who has qualities that your ex wife didn’t have which is honesty, capability to love you for who you are, and most of all trust and respect. Good luck brother.

  • @harmonyolivia8494
    @harmonyolivia8494 6 месяцев назад

    Good for you brother....stand your ground....life too short be happy n enjoy life!!!😊

  • @chaixiong7654
    @chaixiong7654 6 месяцев назад

    Wow…. So quiet in the comments here. All I can hear are crickets or is my comment turned off. You must have done something right! Well, all joking aside. When we’re spoiled and being loved a-little too much, we start to take it for granted and forget how we got on to the pedestal. It’s takes two to tango but your ex wife step out of trust and loyalty. You did what was right for you and there’s nothing wrong with it. I’m proud you kept your head held strong and moved on. Somedays may be tougher than others but you’re going to be just fine.

  • @missysmart8620
    @missysmart8620 6 месяцев назад

    Like I always say, she forgot the hands that feed her. Life by yourself isn't all that bad so good luck to you.

  • @mobtaubhau
    @mobtaubhau 6 месяцев назад

    I feel sorry for both you and your ex-wife because your marriage of 25 yrs took so long to build and it took very little to break it. I believe if you had learned her love language before the affair, things would be different. She didn't get it from you so she sought what she needed from someone/anyone else. Do not lose hope for love in the future and I hope you will use your failed marriage as a lesson to learn about your next partner to better serve that special person.

  • @chailee6256
    @chailee6256 6 месяцев назад

    You do a good job brother proud of you and congratulations 🍾🎉🎈🎊.

  • @pangyingsayaovang620
    @pangyingsayaovang620 6 месяцев назад

    To the husband on this story. You are a great Hmong man. Your wife does not deserve your love. But there are still plenty of good women out there, don't give up on love because your wife fawked it up for you. May you find true love again and live a happy loving life for your ex-wife to be envious.

  • @houayang7219
    @houayang7219 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks you

  • @zongyang6602
    @zongyang6602 6 месяцев назад

    U did great bro....im glad u move forward.

  • @yermoua2035
    @yermoua2035 6 месяцев назад

    Beautiful! Love yourself.

  • @xaihlub34
    @xaihlub34 6 месяцев назад

    Very satisfying story.

  • @suexiong1259
    @suexiong1259 5 месяцев назад

    I like your style brother!lol

  • @pumasyoung5219
    @pumasyoung5219 6 месяцев назад

    Brother you are a amazing man and you are very smart man brother ❤️👏👏

  • @ellasong6373
    @ellasong6373 6 месяцев назад

    How can you trust a traitor by drinking the coffee she made?

  • @hx7161
    @hx7161 6 месяцев назад

    Good for you brother! 👏 👏👏👏 I would have definitely let the whole world know but I can understand why you kept her affair a secret.

  • @khialy1239
    @khialy1239 6 месяцев назад

    Brother you do the good way

  • @yeevang1223
    @yeevang1223 6 месяцев назад

    I feel your pain and I been hurt I heard your problem.

  • @ShannenChang
    @ShannenChang 6 месяцев назад

    Muaj ib cov pojniam yeej tsi sawm zoo , muaj tus txiv hlub yus , khwv rau yus , los tseem ntxeev tau siab ! Cov es ib txwm tsi tau txoj kev hlub los ntawm ib tus Txiv neej zoo li kuv ntshaw2 los tsi tau ! Kavliam os mog , abtsi hlub koj tus kheej os tijlaug

  • @ndzaeumoua7006
    @ndzaeumoua7006 6 месяцев назад

    Vous êtes un homme bon et sérieux, bon courage monsieur 👍👏

  • @lovetoplaywithyou3530
    @lovetoplaywithyou3530 6 месяцев назад

    To this man: you need to tell your ex wife side of the family. Because if she die they will still come for you to do her funeral

  • @thestoryofmylife6979
    @thestoryofmylife6979 6 месяцев назад

    You’re a good man.

  • @kuvxwb9466
    @kuvxwb9466 6 месяцев назад

    Glad you kept your cool and slowly gather evidence. She let her temptations take the best of her so that’s her loss. You love her too much that she took you for granted. Koj twb hlub nws li qhov koj hlub tau lawm ces nws cheat on koj es koj muab nws tso lawm los tsis khuv xim kiag. There will be what ifs or could have. No matter how much of a good person she is, when it comes to cheating, she needs to go.

  • @Lifemoments54
    @Lifemoments54 6 месяцев назад

    Hmmm how sad but you have to move on. Dont dwell on the past. You can still find love and happiness with someone else

  • @nouyang4705
    @nouyang4705 6 месяцев назад

    Good job on how you settle it down

  • @zoolikuv
    @zoolikuv 6 месяцев назад

    You made the right choice.

  • @TubTxheebCaaj
    @TubTxheebCaaj 6 месяцев назад

    We want to hear from niam blia liam to see how their marriage goes.

  • @shouavang6211
    @shouavang6211 6 месяцев назад

    Brother, you are amazing man!

  • @hl6615
    @hl6615 6 месяцев назад

    Why would you feel hurt for a woman who doesn’t love you anymore.

  • @souavue9333
    @souavue9333 6 месяцев назад

    Wow so sadly

  • @nkaujnyiagchang9051
    @nkaujnyiagchang9051 6 месяцев назад

    Lub neej tusiab kawg but you make the right decision

  • @morvuetoulia
    @morvuetoulia Месяц назад

    So sad

  • @iamjay1368
    @iamjay1368 6 месяцев назад

    Why is it that these smart guys with good jobs always get cheated on by their wife.

  • @myprecious6751
    @myprecious6751 6 месяцев назад

    Brother, you're too nice. You shouldn't have given her the necklace. What you should've done is play the recording and served her the divorce paperwork for your anniversary in front all the friends and families. She's not deserving of your love and devotion..
    Your too nice