0:00 Opening Song, 🎵 Your Good lies by Vividry 🎵 2:20 🎬 Show starts, Monologue, Strategic Singlehood Of Black Women 11:24 Candle of the evening Le Lebo Palo Santo, Fragrance of the evening Dior FÈVE DÉLICIEUSE 12:00 Psychology Today Article 50:15 1st Caller Kaiya age 38, 1:06:32 2nd Caller Sandra age 28, 3rd caller Marisol age 43 1:28:32 4th Callers Azelle age 31 , 5th Caller Samari age 27 1:47:08 Back to 2nd and 3rd Callers 2:00:30 Break song, 🎵 Mile High Lovin' by Rockin' For Decades 🎵 2:03:17 Overtime 2:10:10 6th Caller , 7th Caller Desiree age 19, 8th Caller Keisha age 43, 9th Caller age 25 2:25:12 10th Caller age 38 2:28:50 Closing words 2:48:50 Outro
Touché! A succinct and poignant statement. I couldn’t figure out women’s behavior-much less my own status-until I stumbled upon the godfather while separated from my wife. He awakened me to my value and clarified “exactly” the motivation and duplicity of females. With this knowledge, the four signs of a low budget woman, as far as I’m concerned, American women-especially black females-have lost their allure.
The Distinguished Gentleman was quasi telling you what unseen powers that be is fomenting the feminist agenda with sistahs being the test subjects. Rest in Power
American Gentile and Nigerian Gentile black Women are just after Money, but most Nigerian women can cook and take care of their men. God said, submit to and obey their husbands: “Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord” (Ephesians 5:22 KJV); “as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their husbands in everything” Women are so disobedient to men these days and Obedience one's are enjoying great married life. PhD --- Post Hole Digger, you are and stop acting Bougie
There's nothing better than coming home to a hot meal and tortillas(made from scratch), after a hard day's work,my wife and I we're both born in Mexico, raised in Florida,I wish that all my brotheren from all walks of life get the same treatment, I'll do anything for my wife,she deserves it.
The most featured guest on this show has to be smoke alarms with low battery warnings. Just wanted to say thanks to those alarms for always being consistent, present and making themselves know 👏
The sad truth is it’s a danger to the children those batteries need to be replaced ladies listen up that’s why it’s important have a man we take care of a lot of things
"Men get so tired of hearing how another man hurt you and hearing that the rest of us have to give a f*ck". THAT RIGHT THERE!!! 💯💯💯. Diary Of A Tired Black Man....
You don't have to be tired just don't deal with women and your problem is solved. No one wants to hear about your shit either woman are tired of men complaining too.
@@SuperTruthful The Diary Of A Tired Black Man is a movie/documentary I think every black person should see. It was on Netflix over a decade ago but it's out there.
@@SuperTruthful As far as women not wanting to hear men's shit...they don't because we are viewed as weak if they do. That is why men have the higher suicide rate and other mental and emotional issues. Please stop comparing to try to make a point.
The start of this was key. I've not missed one podcast since you started and this was the one. He's told you how the system has been set up so that you stay single. Kevin isn't the actual problem here it has been the years of tv shows films that have showed you the benefits of being single but in reality it is increasing more depression anxiety homelesnness etc. Women need to actually listen to what some men are saying AND if you don't wanna listen up just do some research on the actual numbers.
American Gentile and Nigerian Gentile black Women are just after Money, but most Nigerian women can cook and take care of their men. God said, submit to and obey their husbands: “Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord” (Ephesians 5:22 KJV); “as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their husbands in everything” Women are so disobedient to men these days and Obedience one's are enjoying great married life. PhD --- Post Hole Digger, you are and stop acting Bougie
Scandal, how to get a with murder, strong black women don't need no man, and if a man is there, it causes heartbreak and drama. That's all men are on shows targeted to women.
@@Tential1 What is a strong Black woman, woman? All women MUST obey Men, God said. Man is the head of a woman.end off. Old women must teach this to young women. ^4 Children different fathers, typical Black women style in the USA. Repent you women and Obey God. then submit to your man from day one and not day 2. Grace be with all good women out there. Men Check yourselves..... We need good women in our lives. No one wants to be alone..that's the bottom line. Satan is the god of this wicked world. Protect yourselves with the Blood of Jesus
KS is the absolute reincarnation of our Great Great Great Grandfather’s Generations. This is a lesson that with ring for decades to come. Salute to you Sir 100%
I’m from Detroit 😆 , graduated from Wayne State back in 13’ with a BS, and I’m married lol 😂 I’m 33 having my first baby in March-preparing to be a sahm to my husband who is in special education and has a large lawn care service. He was my college boyfriend back then. now he’s 37 and this is his first baby too. I’m lucky to have him. Michigan in general is absolutely not the best for dating for my generation. Everybody is worried about the wrong things. This world we live in right now is baffling.
Back in early 1999, I worked with a black woman commissioned officer. She graduated from a service academy with an Engineering Management Degree. After getting to know her, she revealed that absolutely had zero respect for her mother. She reasoned that her mother was (1) uneducated, (2) stay-at-home mother with no career, (3) ghetto (she hated her given name - said it sounded like the name of an STD), and (4) ignorant of basic personal financial responsibility. She revealed that she was a Daddy's girl and that it was her father that inspired her to excel in the classroom and in life. After she was finished talking I asked her where she grew up. She then revealed that she was a military brat raised mostly overseas. That hurt. Why? The time frame in which she grew up overseas was a completely different world compared to today. There was no Internet... The opportunity for her mother to attend college was extremely limited - correspondence courses. The only real job opportunities available to military spouses were on the base... sometimes extremely hard to come by. Her words about her mother made me feel sad. She had no clue that her mother SACRIFICED HER LIFE to care for her and her siblings while living in a foreign country. At that point, based on what she revealed about herself, I realized that she was absolutely not 'smart' and completely devoid of any knowledge or understanding of what it takes to be a wife and/or mother involved in a loving relationship. A couple of years ago I ran into her in the lobby of a building. She had retired from active duty military service and worked as a manager with a major defense contractor. I immediately noticed she had no ring on her finger...and she was about 40-60 lbs overweight. She asked me about my wife and kids... I asked her about her parents and her own family life... She told me her parents were doing well and living out their retirement down south. She told me she never married and never had any kids... Again, I could not help but feel a little down. Why? The young lady I met back in 1999 was beautiful, full of energy, sharp as a knife, funny, easy to talk to, etc. She just never got herself together. What a waste.
🤨 A 4 yr College tuition was like 700$ in 1980. That was like a week & a half of military pay checks at the lowest pay rate. As you mentioned “poor financial management skills.” No hate on her mom, however you can be extremely smart & carry yourself with class WHILE being a wife/mother. You can be fiscally responsible & not name your kid something ridiculous. I’m proud to say my child knows I’m smarter then the majority of her teachers. The older she gets the more impressed she becomes. Being a wife/mother is great an all but knowing how to be frugal, elegant & sophisticated can easily also be accomplished as well. Running a small business from from can also be done. Loving the arts & Philosophy etc. Perhaps these are the issues she had. (FYI I’m all for praising mothers but I have also seen some fairly trashy hick mothers that I would be embarrassed to call my mother as well) On a sidenote - Research has concluded that it’s not race that plays the biggest factor in getting callbacks for jobs it’s the name entirely. Same if a white person is named some thing trashy like -> Billy Ray Smith vs Nicholas Ryan. Or Jaquan vs Christian Johnson. If you have the SAME resume with Billy-Ray Smith vs Christian Johnson you WILL more likely get a call back with the name Christian Johnson. Why? It’s because of classism. If you sound like your from the projects or the Appalachian mountains vs a middle/upper-class home you will have a better turnout. She had good cause to be upset.
A lot of Black fathers push education over marriage for their daughters, it’s never talked about much. BW being independent is pushed onto them from all sides. I’m sure many of the men listening to this show every week who have daughters, push education over dependence on a man.
@@noahknight4039 - They do that out of love. Men know that they can’t support their daughters forever and they worry if they relationship doesn’t work out they will be able to provide for their selves on some level. This is their way of trying to keep their daughters cared for & not homeless when they are no longer around. Stats in our white community at least -> actually show the more educated you are the more likely you are to remain married as well.
@@noahknight4039 - Point is -> Men think logically. They know life isn’t free & don’t want to see them living off of welfare or stuck in an unhappy marriage because they aren’t capable of caring for themselves. Give dad some credit here. Sure they should ALSO push marriage however they know what they are doing.
At Thanksgiving my wife fixed my plate & her divorced aunts & single cousins were all like, " He can fix his own plate", and I didn't have to say anything. They were just hating SMH
" Single women keep women single" . This is why a married woman or even a woman in a serious relationship should not hang around Single women even family members.
Here's some food for thought. A lot of our women come onto Mr. Samuels' show and express insecurity about brothers cheating on them. Some of these same women thumb their nose at smiling at a man, fixing their man a plate, and being cooperative in a general sense; however, what these women don't understand is that their warmth, kindness, and cooperativeness differentiate them from other women, not their sexuality. Treating a man well makes him want to stay home and not stray away. The pull of good treatment is far stronger than the prospect of sex with another woman. To a decent-looking brother, sex comes a dime-a-dozen but kind, loving treatment does not. Sweetness is your power, sisters, not egocentrism, pride and contentiousness. This is coming from a reformed 'nasty batchelor' who has been married for nearly 23 years.
That’s a whole entire lie, many men cheat on their wife and girlfriend left and right. And their partners treat them right, don’t nag and give them plenty of sex. Many of you black men literally brag having multiple women on the side.
@@Lovebrix99 No, it's not a lie, perhaps that is YOUR reality. I put my comment in the context of the callers' claims and their stated unwillingness and/or reluctance to be cooperative. I keep company with well-adjusted individuals in intact families and the majority of them are in long-term marriages. So, I don't affiliate with philandering guys, but brothers who love their wives and children and are about their business. Birds of a feather flock together.
I went over to my daughters house and soon as i came in the smoke detector beep , I said how long has this been beeping, she said what's beeping, lol, they don't hear it lol.
Like a ticking clock. Your mind will cancel it out but if you listen you can hear it again. Like the beep it's been going that long there mind or hearing cancels it out 😂 more so it's a health risk. your home catches fire your French toast you and your 4 kids from 3 baby daddy and the side dude who come over for sausage session. I wouldn't risk spending the night where the smoke alarm not working nah brah. In and out. The smoke will kill you never mind the fire. Am I over reacting?
Spot on. Simply observe how many young women are stepping away from traditional career paths to pursue “influencer” focused lifestyles disguised as glamour, despite them clearly only being an adapted way of fueling consumerism/excess spending in the “new age” of social media.
A lot of black men who are high earners are race loyal and do not want Wives from Asia. I have 3 brothers a plastic surgeon, a cardiologist and an attorney. They told me so 🤷🏾♀️??
Ladies!! This is what dating with intention looks like…. On date #1, you ask him, “WHAT ARE YOUR INTENTIONS?” This question 👆🏾 will eliminate the need for other wasted dates.
I ended up having to cut momma off also-somewhat. When I left home for the military, I was always sending money home to momma (sometimes neglecting things I needed). It all came to a head when I got married. I had just had a kid and we were just starting out. Did not even have enough furniture to furnish our house. One day, I got an unexpected check for a few thousand dollars. Mom asked if I could give her half so she could get a car. My wife was incredulous when I said yes. We did not have a complete household and I did not even have my own car yet ( barely getting by on my wife‘s hooptie at the time). I ended up reversing course and saying no as we needed too many things. My mom apologized (and she was sincere) saying that she forgot I had a family now. I still sent her money in extreme emergencies but I put my family first from that day forward.
@@Christopher0632 here's the thing though: political "correctness", how people view respect and so on can be persuasive and confusing. Before my wife and I got married, we were doing fine but we had this friend. Dude was an idiot who would notice certain things and make comments. For example, I would smack her butt as I walked by, pull her in for a kiss as a surprise, she would cook dinner and bring me my plate, I would make plans, etc. Well, he would make those comments about how I was being "rude" to her. I shouldn't touch her butt, I should try to be more consensual about kissing her, she shouldn't have to subject herself to making my plate like a servant, I should respect her opinions and include her in making plans, etc. He was never overt about it, making a big deal and starting a confrontation. No, it was always little subtle comments over a long period of time. Anyways, this continued for a while and the relationship deteriorated because of it. We argued, neither thought the other cared about them, any more, etc. It got uglier and uglier until we had this big argument. Once we calmed down, we talked about it. "Why don't you do this anymore?" And "Why did you start doing that?". Well, we followed the problems back to their root (him), kicked him the f*"k out of our lives, and did a complete 180 in how we acted. Both did a deep dive into how we would act, me fully embracing masculinity as much as I could while she did the same with feminity. Not only have the problems gone away but we're both happier as people and as a couple. So... Yeah, watch out for those snakes. Their venom spreads deep.
My head is spinning after reading this article. 😡I declare I am preparing myself to be an excellent wife to my husband . Thank you …Thank You ….Thank You Mr. Samuels for all your hard work to bring the black families together…..
“The world knows how to talk to you black woman to get you to stay single and keep consuming….they know how to hit you in your extraordinarily big ego and pride.” Kevin cookin today🔥.
And yet they blame white supremcy, then say the accountability is on them yet just shrugged it off to some outside group. No BW, it is solely on you. Take responsibility!
@@CatGamer-wc2ij tf are you talking about? LOL Black men are not pervasively marriage-minded...women of ALL races want to be married. Stop lying to yourselves.
@@beinghelpful682 the problems black women create are solely on them. Not sure how you read more than that. The comment I responded to was specifically their ego btw. Which is SOLELY their problem and not white supremacy.
It’s true that the Baby Boomer women looked down on they’re mothers. My Mom was born in 1956. In my 20’s, I asked my grandmother why my mother’s relationship with her was so strained. One of the many things my grandmother told me, was that when my Mom was dating and was still living with my Grandmother, she would tell those men that my Grandmother was “the help.” She was ashamed to tell them that my Grandmother was her mother. This hurt my Grandmother deeply for the rest of her life. She shed a few tears while telling me the story…
Mom's a boomer. She's now 60 and single. She was married once for 17 yrs. The guy wanted out by 10. They divorced and 10 yrs later he's with a woman who is in her 20s. They have two kids and he's very happy. Mom hasn't had a stable relationship since then. I feel like boomers invented mainstream 304 behavior. She still focuses on looks and she has no idea. My wife and I have been together for 14+ yrs. As the child of a single mom in NY, she was a great example of what not to do.
This isn't just about keeping women independent. There are a few reasons for this war on men besides the obvious. It's about keeping families fractured. A fractured family is easier for the govt to shape and control the education of children, and more likely for them to end up incarcerated. A woman without a man is also more likely to spend than save.
Here's the thing though, it isn't happening to other ethnic groups at the same rate. No matter what the government wants or does, we own our choices. When we as a society does better the government impact is minimal on our ability to opt for marriage and nuclear families.
@@rm5282 I think the difference with other cultures is that they weren't hit with a double whammy of independent/feminism dogma and giving out government assistance like skittles. There are other poor communities, but the male isn't so villified. And there are other communities that embrace feminist/independent thinking but they are less financially dependent on the government. Agree that it is up to us at the end of the day.
You know, I'm glad you brought that up. Now I have some questions which you might want to look up the answers to. I think you will be interested in what you find. Which side freed the slaves? Which party started to end slavery? Which side voted against Jim Crow laws? Which side voted for the Civil Rights Acts? Which side voted for the desegregation of the schools? Which side had members who wore white robes as they carried crosses and ropes? Which side voted for the 1994 Crime Bill (often referred to as the "Biden Crime Bill)? Which side increased funding for traditionally Black colleges and increased how long that funding lasted before they would have to ask again? Which side voted against abortion which was originally pushed as a way of minimizing the Black population (ever wonder why those "clinics" are mostly in neighborhoods that are mostly Black? One might think they're targeting a certain demographic with their placement.)? I could go on but that's already a lot of research to look into. Though... Uh, while you're doing that. I have one last thing for you to consider. Plantations were designed with 3 major elements: 1.) Not knowing your father. 2.) No way to improve your situation no matter how hard you work. And 3.) Violence. You can also find those same conditions in many inner cities, right? Well... Which party is NOT in charge of those cities? I'm just saying. Yeah, both parties have their issues but... I mean, that's a LOT of positive things for one side and negative for the other. Just something to consider.
@@RandomPerson-nd2ey It’s pretty clear that the Democratic Party is the most powerful and corrupt political party on the face of the planet (other than the CCP). Another thing to mention is that black people are hyper-targeted by liberal (democrat) media and the narratives are shaped for our consumption. The Republican Party is also flawed and corrupt, but not nearly as much as the Democratic Party. But we are so emotionally attached to and brainwashed by the left that most won’t hear it. We should start our own party, but we lack the leadership, capital, media infrastructure, and most importantly, the will to do so.
I had to join on the strength. I am not sue how many brothers remember using the phrase "on the strength" but that's why I joined $5 a month. Mr. Samuels has been there for me in spirit and in truth. There have been times when I was down and his content hit the nail on the head and just brightened up my day! Come on. We all know the value of having someone brighten your day consistently so the least I could do is join for $5 a month. Mr. Samuels has so much content. He is worth every PENNY of that $5 monthly subscription. Kevin represents what I stand for and is promulgating my thoughts exactly contributing to the culture on his platform. The least I can do is contribute to the cause that he is addressing. Much love Mr. Samuels.
The 28 year old "Sandra" is a minority example of pretty, intelligent, & 'reasonable' woman who is a good listener. Worth the interest & courtship of a sensible Man
The more I watch you..And think back on past relationships..Bruh..I went down so many rabbit holes and now I understand part of where things went wrong..Thank you.
He doesn't have to buy into something that everyone else already knows that's how they operate in the first place. Meanwhile we owe it to ourselves to lift ourselves up regardless to whom or what.
My great-grandmother lived to the age of 96. Every 3rd Sunday we would have family dinner. It was pretty much an assembly line but the men were served first. You were also critic if you made a messy plate…lol No one really noticed or complained about making a plate it was just how we were raised. I make my husband’s plate and he always shows the most appreciation even if it’s just a sandwich. I would rather make plates than take out the garbage, do home repairs, or pump gas 🤷🏾♀️
Mr Samuels and myself is of the same age. When I first started listening to him. I thought to myself, DAMN! I could do this! Than he make these profound statements like what was said here (1:15:40). I realized than, although I am completely fully aware of everything he speaks of. He has a way of making the obvious truth; irrefutable, which is a gift that he has master very well!
I am so blessed to love and serve my husband! We were married in 10 months and have been married for almost five years! Every year I get better at loving and serving my beloved! I had to abandon and shed any type of mentality that did not allow me to be the best wife and mother. It’s no losing on this side ladies, GO ALL the way in! No insurance, no plan B’s, just an open heart! I promise the person you’ll grow into will amaze you!
Had to let my girlfriend go 2 months ago because she would not shed the mentality that she had to be a wife or mother. She was being toxic, selfish, and masculine.
@@twissol2494 no worries, when you met the one she will be a wife , and as time passes she will master being YOUR wife ! She won’t have an issue leaving selfish ways and a mindset that no longer adds to her life
Hes not lying, even my mother told me how my great grandfather owned a home in West Los Angeles, and it was a pretty sizeable home to hold all my great aunts and uncles, my grandma, and kids. But after he passed, my great grandmother had so much hate toward him, and the family (gen X, turned drug dealers/ users, gang members, etc) had no way to maintain or pay the mortage, she sold it. It was rumored he built that house with his own hands.
So many Black folks who owned homes back in the day in L.A. lost them to reverse mortgages or their children or grandchildren sold them cheap and now they're million dollar properties. And of course their descendants (who don't own anything because the money was p¡ssed away immediately) can't even afford to live in the city anymore smh.
After 2 years of this show and live call ins, I can count on one hand the amount of women that have represented themselves as wives or with great potential. That is telling from such a large sample size of random call ins.
@@beinghelpful682agreed. And the good women probably listen 👂🏽 he doesn’t often just let women on to talk about how much they agree and how they don’t fit the modern women stereotypes
Man Kevin is spot on about how women’s sons become de facto son/husbands. Shit my mom has been single throughout my childhood and adulthood and now she is in her mid 60’s. Im becoming and errand runner. She’s even moved within 5 miles of our family to be closer to us to my wife’s chagrin. I borrow her money at times. I didn’t think much of it until I started listening to Kevin and it all makes sense now. It’s not how natural progression should work between children and parents. We shouldn’t need to be covering for the basic needs of our parents at this stage of life. (Especially when their fully able to take care of themselves) I love my mom, but SHE created this situation where she has nobody else and now I have to be the one who fills the gap because of her choices. It’s not fair. I can’t help but think if she made better choices when she was younger, she wouldn’t be relying on me to this extent. She is the Boomer generation btw
In Germany, it is the prevailing attitude that parents should be there to help the children financially and not vice versa. Parents typically assist children financially to get their first home. My in-laws nearly fight us every time over who pays for dinner when we go to restaurants even though we are financially better off than them. They would never dream of taking money from their children.
@@myisglim7801 You are what’s with women. He just told about a selfish mother who made her son basically into her own husband. And you still couldn’t help but feel personally attacked and had to say if she had a bunch of different men in and out of their lives (which isn’t good for a child , they need stability) that he would still complain. Enjoy the wall.
People in Japan and east Asian countries would disagree with you. You should take care of your elders. You need to maintain boundaries with your mom, but she'll naturally need you more as she grows elderly...just like you needed her when you couldn't even lift your own neck to feed yourself as a baby.
@@beinghelpful682 That is something different altogether than what is being talked about here. You are talking about your later or last stage of life years. This subject is talking about parents who expect financial assistance in their 40s and 50s--usually right when their children start working or are starting their own families because they did zero financial planning. Neglecting elders is not the subject of discussion here.
My dad, being a dark skinned black man, always told me stories about how when he would wear his blue collar uniform into office buildings to work, white and Hispanic women flirted with him, meanwhile the black women looked down upon him like they were too good for him.
Men and women. More so men, because most girls close their ears. But for some of us, he helped us “deprogram” from feminism. I’m only 21 but I could’ve been on my way to a life of loneliness and cats without men like Kevin 💔
@@charismauniversity9626because it’s a fallen world. Men and women are basically at war, and feminism is destroying us. Especially men currently. Most women don’t reap the consequences of feminism until we’re old.
So funny the Latino lady mentioned about serving your husband a plate. When my husband and I were dating, my mother fixed dinner one night and I offered to fix his plate. This is what I saw and how I was raised. He literally told me a few years later that he knew I was his wife at that very moment.
Someone in a discord I'm a part of posted a picture of a Home Economics textbook page. It felt like the ten commandments of a successful marriage. The page contained things a woman could do to make a home peaceful: having dinner hot and ready, letting the husband have the first word in a potential conversation (he might not be up for conversation on a particular evening), ensuring the home is quiet and the children are peaceful. Offering the husband lay down in a chair or a bed and offering him a beverage were other tips as well. Man alive, it sounded like heaven...
@@solusaldrain When I was in high school (early 90s) it was more about cooking, sewing, budgeting, etc. but I have heard from women older than me that they were taught the stuff you listed. Nowadays they don't even teach trade skills like they used to, but that's a conversation for another day.
Yes Family Living, Home Economy, Cooking, Sewing ... all those 7th grade through high school classes have been eliminated from public school for a couple of decades.
Evolutionary psychologist say in nature once one loses their reproductive capability which can generally be seen visually nature no longer has a vested interest in their survival.
She seemed like she had it all together. She was smart, driven and taking care of her kids. Divorced, bitter had to control everything. She was insecure, had anxiety and was the most unromantic woman I ever knew. The relationship was just, so unfulfilling. The only time she seemed genuinely concerned is when I ignored her. A friend told me she gained a lot weight when I finally ghosted her and moved out of state.
Why would men get with divorce women. Those women are certified selfish women. She couldn’t stay in her marriage or a man choose to lose half just to get away from her. Man I couldn’t.
One small correction: It’s not coming to other ethnicities, it’s already been here. Dating is very hard out here due to many subscribing to this school of thought. Of course it’s not all of them, but it’s a lot of them for sure.
100% I got told off because I wasn't part of the community and it wasn't my problem. But, it is, most women are overweight. Most women have an attitude. Most women wear too much make up. Surgeries. &c. It's not a black thing. It's just a men thing now.
The fact that these women provide this man with relevant content continuously, night after night for at least two years straight let you know that not only does the programming runs deep, but the pursuit of modern women is an absolute hopeless cause!....I took a break from watching KS for a minute, only to tune back in to the same damn 💩!!!
Hopeless bro. It's gotten to the point where the callers are redundant. Just different backgrounds. They talkn about the same shhh how they going to be rich off real estate, entrepreneurs, will travel the world, and they're single by choice. It's sad that they really don't realistic think about life at 50. Like if you make 40k a yr how does your retirement look being single without a spouse?
@@princehendrix1640 Truth be told not every woman's desire is to be married. And regardless of popular opinion you can live well off of a small pension and also can work in other fields part time to keep busy. Marriage is not the greatest institution since half the marriages fail in the USA anyway.
What she failed to account for is the psychology of pride. They have to say that they’re happy with the results because they can’t let women of other races see that they’re affected by this choice negatively. It’s the same as us men being taught to ignore pain and not say that we’re hurting/sick. Another thing is that they see single, abrasive black women as free and powerful because they want to be like that but they know that they shouldn’t because it goes against their interests.
This is the problem in relationships: - I vs we - want vs need - Independence vs family Modern women are saying "I want independence vs We need family".
1:30:00 one man hurt you, and it's usually the bad boy we all know is trouble anyway, and some good dude has to waste his ass on your trauma because you wouldn't go to a therapist and fix it yourself. If I just didn't deal with women who said they were abused by an ex, I'd never talk to women. Man... Wow... This went downhill fast.
If this was an article about women in general one would at least try and understand, but the fact that is specifically directed at black women is insidious and frankly quite upsetting.
A late 30 year old HOT Latina FB friend who’s never been married and has no kids just posted a video of herself having dinner with her Chihuahua…WTF is going on with women?
@@MexIndio1 And don’t get me started on the 45 plus year old single latinas at bars taking video selfies making duck lips like they on Star Search, like wtf!
I miss this man so much. I wonder how amazing his show would be now. In June 2023. I know it would be amazing because you could see the clear and consistently better shows while he was here. I wish he was still here.
Noah, I loved your response. I've raised my girls to be strong Black women but also to remember that they are women. (FBI)....years before KS , whom I totally endorse was ever on the scene. I'm not saying this for props; just being 100 with you. I've raised my daughters to get an education so they could take care of themselves because I realize that life is hard, and if they decide to marry or not, they won't belong to the streets. I'm a father, and I love my girls, but education is a blessing, but being a beautiful woman who brings something to the table is priceless!! They are both what KS would call adjustable 6's (nowhere's near big Shirley), Preparing them for life is my job, and realizing that shit happens in relationships is what any good dad would or should do. If either of them should decide that they don't want to take the route of marriage (that's their decision), but like any good father, you can only give them the truth, and pray they listen. I hope other fathers like myself understand we are working against a system rigged against us, but the struggle is real!!!
Men, the best thing y’all can do is make yourselves high earners. Let women know what your requirements are and what you won’t tolerate. And if you have to exercise options so be it.
To answer the question Kevin asked Sandra. "Do you think that college educated black women have heard of the concept of family and wealth generationally?" Yes. they have heard this. However, that's not what they are consistently hearing. Having a routine is very important and what's out of sight is out of mind. Consistently hearing something is different than having heard something before.
I've been talking to black women for 20 years about the benefits of marriage. I was called pick me and a host of other names. Most black women are not able to be helped. Kevin, you are sorely missed.
Tom- being paid to carry water for massa. Like Clarence "I took your voting rights away," Beady bead, Elder, Jesse lee, and other 4 or 5 well paid water carriers. Can't forget Senator Tom black gums Scott of South Carolina that voted against the voting rights bill.
@@bgood4449 do you honestly think that without the voting rights bill some Bill Connor looking Sheriff will keep you from voting on Election Day? What exactly do you think will happen? What so called obstacles you THINK white people will put in place that will stop you from voting?
Also, question for the Ladies…. WHY DO YOU DO THIS?: Men/KS : Gives a SOLID explanation/reason to an issue or problem backed by statistics/facts that is inarguably TRUE. Women : “I’m not disagreeing…” or “That may be true…” “BUT I FEEL……” and proceed to go on to disagree or argue against with what the Man just said?!?! 🙃 (slap sound) Is the TRUTH that hard to accept?!?! Like WTF?! 🧐
Woman lead with what they feel. That's one of the major genetic differences between women and men. Also one of the main reasons they have a hard time dealing with logic. 2 + 2 doesn't always equal 4 to them. Their mind says well what kind of 2 is it? 2 to the 10th power? Is it decimal point .2? Etc. Nooo it's 2! Nothing else to it! Lol
Someone please design Kevin an extension he can add to the chat where viewers can tap and let him know we can’t hear the conversation. Every conversation is vital to many of us.
The black nuclear family has been under psychological attack for so long. I’m happy people are recognizing this and I hope we are not too far gone to fix our community…I have a very diverse friend group & Lots of my non black acquaintances suggest similar things to me as the lady in the article talks about btw. It all sounded so familiar. This is definitely more of a men vs women opposed to one race vs another race…. I see this concept as alarming when ANY woman puts so much emphasis on this topic
You are correct. Global corporate banking (new world) order managed by elites who’d prefer for you to be wage slaves in perpetuity. Easy to accomplish by separating men and women while pushing materialism and consumerism upon the masses. Socialist policies to keep you from rebelling. Etc. etc. This is all by design, but humans are too low IQ (collectively) to recognize what’s going on. Oh well
Psychological attack is the perfect way to describe it. And with modern technologies, the attacks have become automated, more efficient, and more widespread on continuous timelines.
@@Underratedcommentator this is true. Older generations ( even my parents) had a house together, land , gardening, strong foundation , means to live without debt, the gov , etc. If a situation came about where the government crumbled , they would been able to cut all losses & survive together off of what they have. A lot of us cannot say the same.
The 1/16/2022 Psychology Today article (@35:00) that Kevin used to kick off this show was written by a 67 year old never married, childless, Ph.D white woman. Her test sample was so low it couldn't be considered a legit research sample. I was surprised the magazine sank so low to published anything.
@@wiseonwords ain't that the freaking truth?! There was another study that argued that promiscuous women are happier than women in relationships. The thing is that they compared them to those in "bad" relationships. After reading that, it became obvious that they had also been comparing them to those in "good" relationships as well. When the results didn't line up with the narrative that they wanted to push, they removed the "good" relationships. Why else would they have pointed out that those relationships were "bad"?
Living Single was a great 👍🏾 show! Watched every episode multiple times! You should not forget that in the end the girlfriends all found a man to become a his wife!
That was a television show we’re they often provide the public with a tidy ending. In reality, the chances of you and all your girlfriends getting married is very slim and even more slim if you are black.
After they all had been ran thru after riding the CC Bodycount absolutely matters. Anything over 5 means she can’t pairbond. Higher the bodycount higher the divorce rate = facts
Here’s what I don’t understand; When they say they’ve been single or they haven’t dated in years. But when asked when’s the last time they had sausage session it’s at most ‘a month ago etc.’ A man hears this and to hear women say that the next guy to date them seriously is gonna be asked to spend $$ on her and ‘court’ her waiting for box that she’s already giving away for free to some dude (or dudes)who don’t even know her birthday. This is what sexual liberation has done. Men don’t care to give any thing more than the bare minimum. Because you’re already giving your body to some one else for free. How we look spending a premium on a garage sale item? Why won’t men commit? Because we aren’t required to.
Sexual liberation is a lie. Ive been a truck driver since 02 as the years have progressed I have seen less and less "un-lady like behavior" in cars. I haven't been flashed since 2016.
So you're just going to forget the financial support that they all get from Simps? I mean, I get what you're talking about, but this is a whole section of their existence that we're not addressing right here in this conversation.
@Freedom Forever I thank God for social media, bcuz it shows me who the WIVES are.......if a chick is on social media ALL DAY, I'm out.......she ain't the one......🏃♂️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@mcole442 Bro, you got to look at it as a blessing. All these women showing who they are in real time and hd. Imagine you got married before this era to a woman, only to find out through relationship disrespect, that only thing keeping your woman from being debauched was social norms of the time and NOT her character. Now you 10, 20 years in and built a life and family with a harlot.
One of women’s biggest problems is that they take relationship advice (about what men want and what men are) from other women that most times don’t have their best interests at heart. Instead of listening to the men that are actually looking for women worth marrying. Miserable women keep other women single. Period.
Men want to marry a woman to lock her in his house and then go out and have fun with other women while his wife stays in home as a slave this is what they want
I've been telling black women for years that they are being targeted. Most of them dont want to hear it. It's much deeper than you think... MUCH DEEPER
@jay bey...in Harlem where I live there are so many fatherless boys. I see some mothers yell and curse them out in front of everybody. They fear the females raising them. The bad attitude has to change.
@@glammaog1love56 I tell everyone be accountable look at yourself before anyone else. Some men and women dont even know what happiness looks for themselves you dont even deserve it until you grow up fully and balance yourself. I see little children when I talk to people. Everyone wants their way all the time. Thinking they dont have to work at life. Unfortunately women with children (plural) really don't get too many second chances at a whole family. The government has blurred the lines of gender roles in relationships. Women have been to by song and media that the sex does not run out; but it does. Men have been told you have to be young, rich and good looking to get with a women. Now, the little boys (men) want sluts and the little girl ( women) want simps. In the past generations MEN used to want women who are an asset not a liability. Women that I saw when I grew up prefer men that led and took care of the household while they relaxed and let the men do all the heavy lifting. They had really no financial responsibility but maybe their car note. Most of them retired together. If a man is leading a women will get what she NEEDS and sometime what she WANTS. The wants are the extras.
WOW!, so true. My sister in-law's best friend (White Feminist) encouraged her to leave her husband. After she divorced him her friend, the independent White Feminist, started dating her ex husband. They had their first child right before the pandemic. It's messed up but you reap what you sow.
What Kevin is saying stays true for other races and other countries. I am from the poorer half of Europe yet the discourse is the same and it took me at least 5 years to deprogram myself. All around me was saying I will be free if I have a job and please my employer, if I break standards by going out drinking and hooking up, buying myself shoes and phones. Bullshit!
I think it’s beautiful to serve your King. The Sundanese women wash there husbands hands & feet after a long day at work & serve their food. I always thought this was beautiful & peaceful gesture, home should be a sanctuary.
Being single for them is a defensive trait to protect them from being let down from the men they put in “work” to get or give time too! It’s all about them and their feeling and what they want.
This is confusing. Shouldn’t someone put their feelings and what they want above a hypothetical man? It would be different doing that in a relationship. But if you’re single I don’t see the issue.
Time stamps
0:00 Opening Song, 🎵 Your Good lies by Vividry 🎵
2:20 🎬 Show starts, Monologue, Strategic Singlehood Of Black Women
11:24 Candle of the evening Le Lebo Palo Santo, Fragrance of the evening Dior FÈVE DÉLICIEUSE
12:00 Psychology Today Article
50:15 1st Caller Kaiya age 38,
1:06:32 2nd Caller Sandra age 28, 3rd caller Marisol age 43
1:28:32 4th Callers Azelle age 31 , 5th Caller Samari age 27
1:47:08 Back to 2nd and 3rd Callers
2:00:30 Break song, 🎵 Mile High Lovin' by Rockin' For Decades 🎵
2:03:17 Overtime
2:10:10 6th Caller , 7th Caller Desiree age 19, 8th Caller Keisha age 43, 9th Caller age 25
2:25:12 10th Caller age 38
2:28:50 Closing words
2:48:50 Outro
Thank You!! 😉
Good looks
God's work
You have my respect. Thank you for taking the time.
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RIP Kevin.
You have left us with a literal treasure trove of content. Thank you!
He sure did, I'm going through the entire Live archive while at work, pure gold.
Touché! A succinct and poignant statement. I couldn’t figure out women’s behavior-much less my own status-until I stumbled upon the godfather while separated from my wife. He awakened me to my value and clarified “exactly” the motivation and duplicity of females. With this knowledge, the four signs of a low budget woman, as far as I’m concerned, American women-especially black females-have lost their allure.
@@larrytaylor9954 for me they haven't lost the allure, I just learned which ones to avoid. Unfortunately that's the majority of them.
The Distinguished Gentleman was quasi telling you what unseen powers that be is fomenting the feminist agenda with sistahs being the test subjects. Rest in Power
A woman that fixes a man a plate is similar to a man putting air in a woman's tire... it's called chivalry reciprocated.
American Gentile and Nigerian Gentile black Women are just after Money, but most Nigerian women can cook and take care of their men.
God said, submit to and obey their husbands: “Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord” (Ephesians 5:22 KJV); “as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their husbands in everything”
Women are so disobedient to men these days and Obedience one's are enjoying great married life.
PhD --- Post Hole Digger, you are and stop acting Bougie
And it’s not forced. It’s natural. And quite beneficial.
Crickets from the detractors on your comment.
Damn! This statement I’m stealing.
@@jamesj2022 If you sow nothing, you reap nothing.
I love that Marisol is the go to name for Hispanic women in his analogies and she comes in and immediately proves him right
I felt like she was just agreeing with him cuz she didn’t wanna get called out!
@@reese85 I sense that’s what most do tbh.
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@@Dev1cted it was taking her way to long to answer his questions
That or Esmeralda
There's nothing better than coming home to a hot meal and tortillas(made from scratch), after a hard day's work,my wife and I we're both born in Mexico, raised in Florida,I wish that all my brotheren from all walks of life get the same treatment, I'll do anything for my wife,she deserves it.
I love cooking for my husband too Home cooked healthy meals. Im a African American woman married to a beautiful strong African American man.
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Samn here man, alot of young guys just dont get it.
That is just perfect. Salute brother
@@rfreeman7139 thank you Rfreeman let’s shut down the nonsense that black women don’t serve their men. We do..
“Talk to me like I’m 4 years old or a cocker spaniel.”
I love this quote so much! It really clears the word salads.
Right, it's even more elementary than the KISS acronym, Keep.It.Simple.Stupid.
It's almost like reverse psychology, asking someone to dumb it down in an attempt to get them to articulate the point.
Marriaging? Huh?
He knows that if you can’t explain it to a 4 year old, you really don’t know what you’re talking about
The most featured guest on this show has to be smoke alarms with low battery warnings. Just wanted to say thanks to those alarms for always being consistent, present and making themselves know 👏
Really annoying
@@richarddastardly6845 And by annoying you mean peak human technology and the most reliable method of getting to know a woman's relationship status.
Adam Carolla brought that up, it is basically a pure sign of a home without a man it it.
They probably throw a hat or shirt over it to mute it a little lol. It would be hard to sleep.
The sad truth is it’s a danger to the children those batteries need to be replaced ladies listen up that’s why it’s important have a man we take care of a lot of things
"Men get so tired of hearing how another man hurt you and hearing that the rest of us have to give a f*ck". THAT RIGHT THERE!!! 💯💯💯. Diary Of A Tired Black Man....
You don't have to be tired just don't deal with women and your problem is solved. No one wants to hear about your shit either woman are tired of men complaining too.
@@SuperTruthful The Diary Of A Tired Black Man is a movie/documentary I think every black person should see. It was on Netflix over a decade ago but it's out there.
@@SuperTruthful As far as women not wanting to hear men's shit...they don't because we are viewed as weak if they do. That is why men have the higher suicide rate and other mental and emotional issues. Please stop comparing to try to make a point.
@@SuperTruthful what exactly do men complain about?
@@SuperTruthful Men complaints about women are valid though.
The start of this was key. I've not missed one podcast since you started and this was the one. He's told you how the system has been set up so that you stay single. Kevin isn't the actual problem here it has been the years of tv shows films that have showed you the benefits of being single but in reality it is increasing more depression anxiety homelesnness etc.
Women need to actually listen to what some men are saying AND if you don't wanna listen up just do some research on the actual numbers.
Listen? Research? Sheeiit
American Gentile and Nigerian Gentile black Women are just after Money, but most Nigerian women can cook and take care of their men.
God said, submit to and obey their husbands: “Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord” (Ephesians 5:22 KJV); “as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their husbands in everything”
Women are so disobedient to men these days and Obedience one's are enjoying great married life.
PhD --- Post Hole Digger, you are and stop acting Bougie
@@maninthehills7134 🤣
Scandal, how to get a with murder, strong black women don't need no man, and if a man is there, it causes heartbreak and drama. That's all men are on shows targeted to women.
@@Tential1 What is a strong Black woman, woman? All women MUST obey Men, God said. Man is the head of a woman.end off. Old women must teach this to young women. ^4 Children different fathers, typical Black women style in the USA. Repent you women and Obey God. then submit to your man from day one and not day 2. Grace be with all good women out there.
Men Check yourselves..... We need good women in our lives. No one wants to be alone..that's the bottom line. Satan is the god of this wicked world. Protect yourselves with the Blood of Jesus
KS is the absolute reincarnation of our Great Great Great Grandfather’s Generations. This is a lesson that with ring for decades to come. Salute to you Sir 100%
I’m from Detroit 😆 , graduated from Wayne State back in 13’ with a BS, and I’m married lol 😂 I’m 33 having my first baby in March-preparing to be a sahm to my husband who is in special education and has a large lawn care service. He was my college boyfriend back then. now he’s 37 and this is his first baby too. I’m lucky to have him. Michigan in general is absolutely not the best for dating for my generation. Everybody is worried about the wrong things. This world we live in right now is baffling.
Go head sis!! I love it!
Blessings sis! You and I are 1 in 4, married to quality black men and we ain't letting go!!!!
Congratulations 🎉
Good job! Glad y’all are having y’all’s first baby together on both sides!
It’s not just an Michigan issue
Back in early 1999, I worked with a black woman commissioned officer. She graduated from a service academy with an Engineering Management Degree. After getting to know her, she revealed that absolutely had zero respect for her mother. She reasoned that her mother was (1) uneducated, (2) stay-at-home mother with no career, (3) ghetto (she hated her given name - said it sounded like the name of an STD), and (4) ignorant of basic personal financial responsibility. She revealed that she was a Daddy's girl and that it was her father that inspired her to excel in the classroom and in life. After she was finished talking I asked her where she grew up. She then revealed that she was a military brat raised mostly overseas. That hurt. Why? The time frame in which she grew up overseas was a completely different world compared to today. There was no Internet... The opportunity for her mother to attend college was extremely limited - correspondence courses. The only real job opportunities available to military spouses were on the base... sometimes extremely hard to come by. Her words about her mother made me feel sad. She had no clue that her mother SACRIFICED HER LIFE to care for her and her siblings while living in a foreign country. At that point, based on what she revealed about herself, I realized that she was absolutely not 'smart' and completely devoid of any knowledge or understanding of what it takes to be a wife and/or mother involved in a loving relationship.
A couple of years ago I ran into her in the lobby of a building. She had retired from active duty military service and worked as a manager with a major defense contractor. I immediately noticed she had no ring on her finger...and she was about 40-60 lbs overweight. She asked me about my wife and kids... I asked her about her parents and her own family life... She told me her parents were doing well and living out their retirement down south. She told me she never married and never had any kids... Again, I could not help but feel a little down. Why? The young lady I met back in 1999 was beautiful, full of energy, sharp as a knife, funny, easy to talk to, etc. She just never got herself together. What a waste.
🤨 A 4 yr College tuition was like 700$ in 1980. That was like a week & a half of military pay checks at the lowest pay rate. As you mentioned “poor financial management skills.” No hate on her mom, however you can be extremely smart & carry yourself with class WHILE being a wife/mother. You can be fiscally responsible & not name your kid something ridiculous. I’m proud to say my child knows I’m smarter then the majority of her teachers. The older she gets the more impressed she becomes. Being a wife/mother is great an all but knowing how to be frugal, elegant & sophisticated can easily also be accomplished as well. Running a small business from from can also be done. Loving the arts & Philosophy etc. Perhaps these are the issues she had. (FYI I’m all for praising mothers but I have also seen some fairly trashy hick mothers that I would be embarrassed to call my mother as well)
On a sidenote - Research has concluded that it’s not race that plays the biggest factor in getting callbacks for jobs it’s the name entirely. Same if a white person is named some thing trashy like -> Billy Ray Smith vs Nicholas Ryan. Or Jaquan vs Christian Johnson.
If you have the SAME resume with Billy-Ray Smith vs Christian Johnson you WILL more likely get a call back with the name Christian Johnson. Why? It’s because of classism. If you sound like your from the projects or the Appalachian mountains vs a middle/upper-class home you will have a better turnout. She had good cause to be upset.
A lot of Black fathers push education over marriage for their daughters, it’s never talked about much. BW being independent is pushed onto them from all sides.
I’m sure many of the men listening to this show every week who have daughters, push education over dependence on a man.
@@noahknight4039 - They do that out of love. Men know that they can’t support their daughters forever and they worry if they relationship doesn’t work out they will be able to provide for their selves on some level. This is their way of trying to keep their daughters cared for & not homeless when they are no longer around. Stats in our white community at least -> actually show the more educated you are the more likely you are to remain married as well.
@@noahknight4039 - Point is -> Men think logically. They know life isn’t free & don’t want to see them living off of welfare or stuck in an unhappy marriage because they aren’t capable of caring for themselves. Give dad some credit here. Sure they should ALSO push marriage however they know what they are doing.
Wow
At Thanksgiving my wife fixed my plate & her divorced aunts & single cousins were all like, " He can fix his own plate", and I didn't have to say anything. They were just hating SMH
Haha, my wife did the same and she's the only one of her sisters who is married. Just saying...
Tell them you don't blame them for saying that, it's something a wife would do. Which explains why they are single as french toast.
" Single women keep women single" . This is why a married woman or even a woman in a serious relationship should not hang around Single women even family members.
@@EnkiseEvolution nioce!!
They cannot relate.
Here's some food for thought. A lot of our women come onto Mr. Samuels' show and express insecurity about brothers cheating on them. Some of these same women thumb their nose at smiling at a man, fixing their man a plate, and being cooperative in a general sense; however, what these women don't understand is that their warmth, kindness, and cooperativeness differentiate them from other women, not their sexuality. Treating a man well makes him want to stay home and not stray away. The pull of good treatment is far stronger than the prospect of sex with another woman. To a decent-looking brother, sex comes a dime-a-dozen but kind, loving treatment does not. Sweetness is your power, sisters, not egocentrism, pride and contentiousness. This is coming from a reformed 'nasty batchelor' who has been married for nearly 23 years.
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Great post, 👍
That’s a whole entire lie, many men cheat on their wife and girlfriend left and right. And their partners treat them right, don’t nag and give them plenty of sex. Many of you black men literally brag having multiple women on the side.
@@Lovebrix99 No, it's not a lie, perhaps that is YOUR reality. I put my comment in the context of the callers' claims and their stated unwillingness and/or reluctance to be cooperative. I keep company with well-adjusted individuals in intact families and the majority of them are in long-term marriages. So, I don't affiliate with philandering guys, but brothers who love their wives and children and are about their business. Birds of a feather flock together.
@@bigstacks1463 That must just be you then, because it definitely does happen alot.
Y'all young thundercats out there have no idea how french toast lucky you are to have access to this man at your age.
Facts
He definitely changed my life at 25
I wish we had this information in generation X. The young guys are truly blessed with all this masculine content
It's the necessary counter to how much extra trash we have to deal with.
🤣🤣...Thundercats best 80s cartoon ever !!!
I went over to my daughters house and soon as i came in the smoke detector beep , I said how long has this been beeping, she said what's beeping, lol, they don't hear it lol.
Like a ticking clock. Your mind will cancel it out but if you listen you can hear it again. Like the beep it's been going that long there mind or hearing cancels it out 😂 more so it's a health risk. your home catches fire your French toast you and your 4 kids from 3 baby daddy and the side dude who come over for sausage session. I wouldn't risk spending the night where the smoke alarm not working nah brah. In and out. The smoke will kill you never mind the fire. Am I over reacting?
Spot on. Simply observe how many young women are stepping away from traditional career paths to pursue “influencer” focused lifestyles disguised as glamour, despite them clearly only being an adapted way of fueling consumerism/excess spending in the “new age” of social media.
I can’t wait for all of this influencer as a job bs to finally die down. So many people still look at it as a carrer aspiration
At least it lets you know just how useless ppl can really be in society. Harsh, but true.
Let them go eat their own lies.
A lot of black men who are high earners are race loyal and do not want Wives from Asia. I have 3 brothers a plastic surgeon, a cardiologist and an attorney. They told me so 🤷🏾♀️??
@Kelvin UrenaEww! Bye 👋🏽 lol
Ladies!! This is what dating with intention looks like….
On date #1, you ask him, “WHAT ARE YOUR INTENTIONS?”
This question 👆🏾 will eliminate the need for other wasted dates.
Short and sweet
That’s right !!!!
I ended up having to cut momma off also-somewhat. When I left home for the military, I was always sending money home to momma (sometimes neglecting things I needed). It all came to a head when I got married. I had just had a kid and we were just starting out. Did not even have enough furniture to furnish our house. One day, I got an unexpected check for a few thousand dollars. Mom asked if I could give her half so she could get a car. My wife was incredulous when I said yes. We did not have a complete household and I did not even have my own car yet ( barely getting by on my wife‘s hooptie at the time). I ended up reversing course and saying no as we needed too many things. My mom apologized (and she was sincere) saying that she forgot I had a family now. I still sent her money in extreme emergencies but I put my family first from that day forward.
Good compromise
In order for a relationship to succeed is the man must be masculine and the women must be feminine. This is the bases of a successful relationship.
Thank you "Captain Obvious" LOL
@@Christopher0632 😂
@AZME Obviously
@@Christopher0632 here's the thing though: political "correctness", how people view respect and so on can be persuasive and confusing.
Before my wife and I got married, we were doing fine but we had this friend. Dude was an idiot who would notice certain things and make comments.
For example, I would smack her butt as I walked by, pull her in for a kiss as a surprise, she would cook dinner and bring me my plate, I would make plans, etc.
Well, he would make those comments about how I was being "rude" to her. I shouldn't touch her butt, I should try to be more consensual about kissing her, she shouldn't have to subject herself to making my plate like a servant, I should respect her opinions and include her in making plans, etc.
He was never overt about it, making a big deal and starting a confrontation. No, it was always little subtle comments over a long period of time.
Anyways, this continued for a while and the relationship deteriorated because of it. We argued, neither thought the other cared about them, any more, etc. It got uglier and uglier until we had this big argument. Once we calmed down, we talked about it.
"Why don't you do this anymore?" And "Why did you start doing that?". Well, we followed the problems back to their root (him), kicked him the f*"k out of our lives, and did a complete 180 in how we acted. Both did a deep dive into how we would act, me fully embracing masculinity as much as I could while she did the same with feminity.
Not only have the problems gone away but we're both happier as people and as a couple.
So... Yeah, watch out for those snakes. Their venom spreads deep.
@@Christopher0632 that's not obvious these days...
My head is spinning after reading this article. 😡I declare I am preparing myself to be an excellent wife to my husband . Thank you …Thank You ….Thank You Mr. Samuels for all your hard work to bring the black families together…..
“The world knows how to talk to you black woman to get you to stay single and keep consuming….they know how to hit you in your extraordinarily big ego and pride.” Kevin cookin today🔥.
Also, the modern church keeps Black women single. Rev. Chickenwing has more clout than a husband or serious boyfriend in the household.
@@keithburch3238 Very true.
And yet they blame white supremcy, then say the accountability is on them yet just shrugged it off to some outside group. No BW, it is solely on you. Take responsibility!
@@CatGamer-wc2ij tf are you talking about? LOL Black men are not pervasively marriage-minded...women of ALL races want to be married. Stop lying to yourselves.
@@beinghelpful682 the problems black women create are solely on them. Not sure how you read more than that. The comment I responded to was specifically their ego btw. Which is SOLELY their problem and not white supremacy.
It’s true that the Baby Boomer women looked down on they’re mothers. My Mom was born in 1956. In my 20’s, I asked my grandmother why my mother’s relationship with her was so strained. One of the many things my grandmother told me, was that when my Mom was dating and was still living with my Grandmother, she would tell those men that my Grandmother was “the help.” She was ashamed to tell them that my Grandmother was her mother. This hurt my Grandmother deeply for the rest of her life. She shed a few tears while telling me the story…
Mom's a boomer. She's now 60 and single. She was married once for 17 yrs. The guy wanted out by 10. They divorced and 10 yrs later he's with a woman who is in her 20s. They have two kids and he's very happy. Mom hasn't had a stable relationship since then. I feel like boomers invented mainstream 304 behavior. She still focuses on looks and she has no idea. My wife and I have been together for 14+ yrs. As the child of a single mom in NY, she was a great example of what not to do.
Women don't care about other people's feelings
@@sayeed7255 they don't care about anything but what other women say
That is evil
...that's horrible
This isn't just about keeping women independent. There are a few reasons for this war on men besides the obvious. It's about keeping families fractured. A fractured family is easier for the govt to shape and control the education of children, and more likely for them to end up incarcerated. A woman without a man is also more likely to spend than save.
Here's the thing though, it isn't happening to other ethnic groups at the same rate. No matter what the government wants or does, we own our choices. When we as a society does better the government impact is minimal on our ability to opt for marriage and nuclear families.
Very Intelligent response 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@rm5282 I think the difference with other cultures is that they weren't hit with a double whammy of independent/feminism dogma and giving out government assistance like skittles. There are other poor communities, but the male isn't so villified. And there are other communities that embrace feminist/independent thinking but they are less financially dependent on the government. Agree that it is up to us at the end of the day.
You know, I'm glad you brought that up. Now I have some questions which you might want to look up the answers to. I think you will be interested in what you find.
Which side freed the slaves?
Which party started to end slavery?
Which side voted against Jim Crow laws?
Which side voted for the Civil Rights Acts?
Which side voted for the desegregation of the schools?
Which side had members who wore white robes as they carried crosses and ropes?
Which side voted for the 1994 Crime Bill (often referred to as the "Biden Crime Bill)?
Which side increased funding for traditionally Black colleges and increased how long that funding lasted before they would have to ask again?
Which side voted against abortion which was originally pushed as a way of minimizing the Black population (ever wonder why those "clinics" are mostly in neighborhoods that are mostly Black? One might think they're targeting a certain demographic with their placement.)?
I could go on but that's already a lot of research to look into. Though... Uh, while you're doing that. I have one last thing for you to consider. Plantations were designed with 3 major elements:
1.) Not knowing your father.
2.) No way to improve your situation no matter how hard you work.
And 3.) Violence.
You can also find those same conditions in many inner cities, right? Well... Which party is NOT in charge of those cities?
I'm just saying. Yeah, both parties have their issues but... I mean, that's a LOT of positive things for one side and negative for the other. Just something to consider.
@@RandomPerson-nd2ey It’s pretty clear that the Democratic Party is the most powerful and corrupt political party on the face of the planet (other than the CCP).
Another thing to mention is that black people are hyper-targeted by liberal (democrat) media and the narratives are shaped for our consumption.
The Republican Party is also flawed and corrupt, but not nearly as much as the Democratic Party. But we are so emotionally attached to and brainwashed by the left that most won’t hear it.
We should start our own party, but we lack the leadership, capital, media infrastructure, and most importantly, the will to do so.
I had to join on the strength. I am not sue how many brothers remember using the phrase "on the strength" but that's why I joined $5 a month. Mr. Samuels has been there for me in spirit and in truth. There have been times when I was down and his content hit the nail on the head and just brightened up my day! Come on. We all know the value of having someone brighten your day consistently so the least I could do is join for $5 a month. Mr. Samuels has so much content. He is worth every PENNY of that $5 monthly subscription. Kevin represents what I stand for and is promulgating my thoughts exactly contributing to the culture on his platform. The least I can do is contribute to the cause that he is addressing. Much love Mr. Samuels.
@CF 1961 Los Angeles
Salute to a gentleman and a trailblazer. RIP, good brother.
Trailblazer? That's sad people didn't get this "basic" information from their parents.
@@rgood1204well that makes him a trailblazer then because he’s reinventing the wheel since it’s been changed for the last 60 years
The 28 year old "Sandra" is a minority example of pretty, intelligent, & 'reasonable' woman who is a good listener. Worth the interest & courtship of a sensible Man
The more I watch you..And think back on past relationships..Bruh..I went down so many rabbit holes and now I understand part of where things went wrong..Thank you.
I love how Kevin doesn't buy the whole "the white man's trying to keep us down" nah lady life's just tough
@far from The “white man” has nothing to do with your dating life and why you still don’t have a ring on your finger
He doesn't have to buy into something that everyone else already knows that's how they operate in the first place. Meanwhile we owe it to ourselves to lift ourselves up regardless to whom or what.
They are but that is not an excuse in this case.
My great-grandmother lived to the age of 96. Every 3rd Sunday we would have family dinner. It was pretty much an assembly line but the men were served first. You were also critic if you made a messy plate…lol No one really noticed or complained about making a plate it was just how we were raised. I make my husband’s plate and he always shows the most appreciation even if it’s just a sandwich. I would rather make plates than take out the garbage, do home repairs, or pump gas 🤷🏾♀️
I asked a woman, how is her sandwich making skills. She said either I’m really hungry or I’m being sexist. I bid her good day.
Yesss🌸🌸✨
Proud sandwich makers over here! 🙌🏾✨
A woman that fixes a ‘neat’ plate is straight wife material
This is truly an eye opener. I appreciate KS so much. It’s called Tough Love!
Winter coming for yor ass -act right now.
Mr Samuels and myself is of the same age. When I first started listening to him. I thought to myself, DAMN! I could do this! Than he make these profound statements like what was said here (1:15:40). I realized than, although I am completely fully aware of everything he speaks of. He has a way of making the obvious truth; irrefutable, which is a gift that he has master very well!
I am so blessed to love and serve my husband! We were married in 10 months and have been married for almost five years! Every year I get better at loving and serving my beloved! I had to abandon and shed any type of mentality that did not allow me to be the best wife and mother. It’s no losing on this side ladies, GO ALL the way in! No insurance, no plan B’s, just an open heart! I promise the person you’ll grow into will amaze you!
Had to let my girlfriend go 2 months ago because she would not shed the mentality that she had to be a wife or mother. She was being toxic, selfish, and masculine.
Glad to hear this though! Your winning! Keep winning!
@@twissol2494 no worries, when you met the one she will be a wife , and as time passes she will master being YOUR wife ! She won’t have an issue leaving selfish ways and a mindset that no longer adds to her life
@@chvaunbarnes3495 thanks!
Hes not lying, even my mother told me how my great grandfather owned a home in West Los Angeles, and it was a pretty sizeable home to hold all my great aunts and uncles, my grandma, and kids. But after he passed, my great grandmother had so much hate toward him, and the family (gen X, turned drug dealers/ users, gang members, etc) had no way to maintain or pay the mortage, she sold it. It was rumored he built that house with his own hands.
So many Black folks who owned homes back in the day in L.A. lost them to reverse mortgages or their children or grandchildren sold them cheap and now they're million dollar properties. And of course their descendants (who don't own anything because the money was p¡ssed away immediately) can't even afford to live in the city anymore smh.
After 2 years of this show and live call ins, I can count on one hand the amount of women that have represented themselves as wives or with great potential. That is telling from such a large sample size of random call ins.
Don't kid yourself...the sample size is not that large and half of these women calling in are looking for exposure.
TROLL ALERT
@@beinghelpful682agreed. And the good women probably listen 👂🏽 he doesn’t often just let women on to talk about how much they agree and how they don’t fit the modern women stereotypes
Man Kevin is spot on about how women’s sons become de facto son/husbands. Shit my mom has been single throughout my childhood and adulthood and now she is in her mid 60’s. Im becoming and errand runner. She’s even moved within 5 miles of our family to be closer to us to my wife’s chagrin. I borrow her money at times.
I didn’t think much of it until I started listening to Kevin and it all makes sense now. It’s not how natural progression should work between children and parents. We shouldn’t need to be covering for the basic needs of our parents at this stage of life. (Especially when their fully able to take care of themselves) I love my mom, but SHE created this situation where she has nobody else and now I have to be the one who fills the gap because of her choices. It’s not fair.
I can’t help but think if she made better choices when she was younger, she wouldn’t be relying on me to this extent. She is the Boomer generation btw
In Germany, it is the prevailing attitude that parents should be there to help the children financially and not vice versa. Parents typically assist children financially to get their first home. My in-laws nearly fight us every time over who pays for dinner when we go to restaurants even though we are financially better off than them. They would never dream of taking money from their children.
Then if she would have dated men and had them around you, you’d complain too. I wish she had the financial means to not bother you.
@@myisglim7801 You are what’s with women. He just told about a selfish mother who made her son basically into her own husband. And you still couldn’t help but feel personally attacked and had to say if she had a bunch of different men in and out of their lives (which isn’t good for a child , they need stability) that he would still complain. Enjoy the wall.
People in Japan and east Asian countries would disagree with you. You should take care of your elders. You need to maintain boundaries with your mom, but she'll naturally need you more as she grows elderly...just like you needed her when you couldn't even lift your own neck to feed yourself as a baby.
@@beinghelpful682 That is something different altogether than what is being talked about here. You are talking about your later or last stage of life years. This subject is talking about parents who expect financial assistance in their 40s and 50s--usually right when their children start working or are starting their own families because they did zero financial planning. Neglecting elders is not the subject of discussion here.
Now I'm a hour a 6 secs in.. I'm going to now send this to my son, you are awesome Kevin... spreading and teaching truth the way you do. I love it!
This is once again, an eye opener! I hate I missed him while he was alive, but I appreciate the message now. It’s not too late!!!
My dad, being a dark skinned black man, always told me stories about how when he would wear his blue collar uniform into office buildings to work, white and Hispanic women flirted with him, meanwhile the black women looked down upon him like they were too good for him.
That's facts.....and they never smile or say hi. All attitude.
@@Richking213 yup, that's exactly how he described it.
Bullshit
That true!!!
The more I watch this channel, the more I realize Kevin really was working hard to help men
Why
Men and women. More so men, because most girls close their ears. But for some of us, he helped us “deprogram” from feminism. I’m only 21 but I could’ve been on my way to a life of loneliness and cats without men like Kevin 💔
@@charismauniversity9626because it’s a fallen world. Men and women are basically at war, and feminism is destroying us. Especially men currently. Most women don’t reap the consequences of feminism until we’re old.
The community*
Watching in 2024?? Long live The Godfather!
I found him too late, sadly. But I'm so thankful for these endless treasures videos🙏 now I can't stop watching them😆
So funny the Latino lady mentioned about serving your husband a plate. When my husband and I were dating, my mother fixed dinner one night and I offered to fix his plate. This is what I saw and how I was raised. He literally told me a few years later that he knew I was his wife at that very moment.
Everything could be oh so simple
There used to be "home economics" when I was in school, but they got rid of classes like that. 🤷🏾
Someone in a discord I'm a part of posted a picture of a Home Economics textbook page. It felt like the ten commandments of a successful marriage. The page contained things a woman could do to make a home peaceful: having dinner hot and ready, letting the husband have the first word in a potential conversation (he might not be up for conversation on a particular evening), ensuring the home is quiet and the children are peaceful. Offering the husband lay down in a chair or a bed and offering him a beverage were other tips as well.
Man alive, it sounded like heaven...
@@solusaldrain When I was in high school (early 90s) it was more about cooking, sewing, budgeting, etc. but I have heard from women older than me that they were taught the stuff you listed. Nowadays they don't even teach trade skills like they used to, but that's a conversation for another day.
A lot of states aren't community property, so in a divorce, where women stayed at home, they would be homeless. Home Economics is of no use today.
Yes Family Living, Home Economy, Cooking, Sewing ... all those 7th grade through high school classes have been eliminated from public school for a couple of decades.
No doubt, alot of women feel they will make money & eat out all the time
I absolutely adore you Kevin, and I'm so grateful for this message, I'm about to send this to my daughter. Thank you!
Always remember that Mother Nature always has to answer to Father Time.
Underrated comment ☝🏽💯💯
Evolutionary psychologist say in nature once one loses their reproductive capability which can generally be seen visually nature no longer has a vested interest in their survival.
Wow, this is excellent. Whoever you are, you just nailed it. It's deeply philosophical and utterly true.
Brilliant!
That comment!!! 🔥 🔥
She seemed like she had it all together. She was smart, driven and taking care of her kids. Divorced, bitter had to control everything. She was insecure, had anxiety and was the most unromantic woman I ever knew. The relationship was just, so unfulfilling. The only time she seemed genuinely concerned is when I ignored her. A friend told me she gained a lot weight when I finally ghosted her and moved out of state.
🎉
Why would men get with divorce women. Those women are certified selfish women. She couldn’t stay in her marriage or a man choose to lose half just to get away from her. Man I couldn’t.
This man said "We're gonna roll up a twig and jump backwards over it" oh I'm crying off that 😂😂 😂😂 RIP Godfather we miss you greatly.
One small correction: It’s not coming to other ethnicities, it’s already been here. Dating is very hard out here due to many subscribing to this school of thought. Of course it’s not all of them, but it’s a lot of them for sure.
It's hard out here, but we still f***ing out here.
100% I got told off because I wasn't part of the community and it wasn't my problem. But, it is, most women are overweight. Most women have an attitude. Most women wear too much make up. Surgeries. &c. It's not a black thing. It's just a men thing now.
@@chrisadams5124If most women do these things and it's a problem, have you tried men? They might suit you better as a partner. Just being helpful.
@@beinghelpful682 or he can just do as I did, and get a non western wife, with traditional family values, and has morals... Just being helpful
Long Live The GODFATHER!!!!
Man Kevin we miss you. Your impact was so phenomenal your words and work will live on forever
The fact that these women provide this man with relevant content continuously, night after night for at least two years straight let you know that not only does the programming runs deep, but the pursuit of modern women is an absolute hopeless cause!....I took a break from watching KS for a minute, only to tune back in to the same damn 💩!!!
did you expect different
well, the archaic are dead and gone so either be alone or find yourself a man and be happy.
@@SuperTruthful shut up!!!🤫
Hopeless bro. It's gotten to the point where the callers are redundant. Just different backgrounds. They talkn about the same shhh how they going to be rich off real estate, entrepreneurs, will travel the world, and they're single by choice. It's sad that they really don't realistic think about life at 50. Like if you make 40k a yr how does your retirement look being single without a spouse?
@@princehendrix1640 Truth be told not every woman's desire is to be married. And regardless of popular opinion you can live well off of a small pension and also can work in other fields part time to keep busy. Marriage is not the greatest institution since half the marriages fail in the USA anyway.
What she failed to account for is the psychology of pride. They have to say that they’re happy with the results because they can’t let women of other races see that they’re affected by this choice negatively. It’s the same as us men being taught to ignore pain and not say that we’re hurting/sick.
Another thing is that they see single, abrasive black women as free and powerful because they want to be like that but they know that they shouldn’t because it goes against their interests.
black men, just go where you're appreciated.
Colombia se les quiere mucho
LOL we want to know where Black men are appreciated
@F W thats up to you
@@dinaramos8733 really?
@@macman9689 I'm already dating a black American man, but they are really appreciated in Colombia
The person telling him about the volume extremely improved the show's quality 👌
This is the problem in relationships:
- I vs we
- want vs need
- Independence vs family
Modern women are saying "I want independence vs We need family".
Agree 100%
You never lied. Marriage and independence are antonyms. It’s all fake majority of women don’t want marriage they want an assist.
and what are modern men saying??
@@beinghelpful682 we want families you goofy
This is it right here!!
1:30:00 one man hurt you, and it's usually the bad boy we all know is trouble anyway, and some good dude has to waste his ass on your trauma because you wouldn't go to a therapist and fix it yourself. If I just didn't deal with women who said they were abused by an ex, I'd never talk to women.
Man... Wow... This went downhill fast.
Women like to experience the dangerous man who isn’t good for them I even heard it from one woman too
If this was an article about women in general one would at least try and understand, but the fact that is specifically directed at black women is insidious and frankly quite upsetting.
A late 30 year old HOT Latina FB friend who’s never been married and has no kids just posted a video of herself having dinner with her Chihuahua…WTF is going on with women?
Dang. Now that's sad! 🤣
@@MexIndio1 And don’t get me started on the 45 plus year old single latinas at bars taking video selfies making duck lips like they on Star Search, like wtf!
@@AlexfromMiami, I'm seeing sistas have lunch with their Gucci purses thinking that's funny. Women are sad today! I'm glad to be happily married. ♥️
i was not ready for this comment💀💀😩😩😭😭 lol
And the women will comment under that FB post saying “aww so cute” while desperate simps will also give nauseating compliments too.
🔥🔥🔥He was exactly what we needed.. they took him out!!!.. R.I.P King Samuels.. smh
Yes. We are learning a lot from him. The content is gold! 🔥🔥🔥
I really miss Kevin Samuel. Please keep reposting his videos! This is awesome!
I miss this man so much. I wonder how amazing his show would be now. In June 2023. I know it would be amazing because you could see the clear and consistently better shows while he was here. I wish he was still here.
What happened???
@@charismauniversity9626he passed away a couple yrs ago
Noah, I loved your response. I've raised my girls to be strong Black women but also to remember that they are women. (FBI)....years before KS , whom I totally endorse was ever on the scene.
I'm not saying this for props; just being 100 with you.
I've raised my daughters to get an education so they could take care of themselves because I realize that life is hard, and if they decide to marry or not, they won't belong to the streets.
I'm a father, and I love my girls, but education is a blessing, but being a beautiful woman who brings something to the table is priceless!! They are both what KS would call adjustable 6's (nowhere's near big Shirley),
Preparing them for life is my job, and realizing that shit happens in relationships is what any good dad would or should do.
If either of them should decide that they don't want to take the route of marriage (that's their decision), but like any good father, you can only give them the truth, and pray they listen.
I hope other fathers like myself understand we are working against a system rigged against us, but the struggle is real!!!
Good luck on finding suitable men to be their husbands. You are helping them look, right??
Trevon you’re an awesome dad!!
I will whole heartedly donate in mass to this wife or femanine school course. Especially if it help our women make better future choices
A beeping smoke detector is a single mother's mating call.
Unwed mother.
BLack folks score
Men, the best thing y’all can do is make yourselves high earners. Let women know what your requirements are and what you won’t tolerate. And if you have to exercise options so be it.
💯💯
That you earn high does not guarantee submission!
@@FastraxCargo the more money a man makes. The more he attracts women.
To answer the question Kevin asked Sandra. "Do you think that college educated black women have heard of the concept of family and wealth generationally?" Yes. they have heard this. However, that's not what they are consistently hearing. Having a routine is very important and what's out of sight is out of mind. Consistently hearing something is different than having heard something before.
This man is saving lives
She said “she adores her husband” man that would be nice to hear one day💪🏾🤟🏾🥷
be good to a woman and you'll get that not hard ot achieve
@@SuperTruthful for an account called supertruthful, you're a bit off
@@Gintoki_Madao He's speaking the truth though?
This episode was EXACTLY for Eboni Williams!
I've been talking to black women for 20 years about the benefits of marriage.
I was called pick me and a host of other names.
Most black women are not able to be helped.
Kevin, you are sorely missed.
Been saying this for years…. FELL on deaf EARS…
It's so EASY to be WRONG...And PERSIST in being WRONG - Especially , when the cost of being wrong is PAID BY OTHERS. ~ Thomas Sowell
Tom- being paid to carry water for massa. Like Clarence "I took your voting rights away," Beady bead, Elder, Jesse lee, and other 4 or 5 well paid water carriers. Can't forget Senator Tom black gums Scott of South Carolina that voted against the voting rights bill.
Its not just blacks but whites and starting to effect the others too but you already knew this.
@@bgood4449 do you honestly think that without the voting rights bill some Bill Connor looking Sheriff will keep you from voting on Election Day? What exactly do you think will happen? What so called obstacles you THINK white people will put in place that will stop you from voting?
@Christopher Surdak 💯‼️💯‼️💯‼️
Why is it a problem to say I made a mistake
Also, question for the Ladies…. WHY DO YOU DO THIS?:
Men/KS : Gives a SOLID explanation/reason to an issue or problem backed by statistics/facts that is inarguably TRUE.
Women : “I’m not disagreeing…” or “That may be true…” “BUT I FEEL……” and proceed to go on to disagree or argue against with what the Man just said?!?! 🙃 (slap sound)
Is the TRUTH that hard to accept?!?! Like WTF?! 🧐
Yes.
For most women, feelings and truth are interchangeable
Women are double minded and capricious by nature. Confusion is their best friend today.
Woman lead with what they feel. That's one of the major genetic differences between women and men. Also one of the main reasons they have a hard time dealing with logic. 2 + 2 doesn't always equal 4 to them. Their mind says well what kind of 2 is it? 2 to the 10th power? Is it decimal point .2? Etc. Nooo it's 2! Nothing else to it! Lol
They’re rebellious and backwards
Very well spoken young lady. I appreciated this conversation so much
Kevin was a blessing to Black people!
So grateful I found this guy in my 20s
Same
A lot happened between the end of slavery and today. That argument cheapens all the successful black relationships since then.
"I have bought him a Lakers jersey" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm dead!!!!
Took me out 🤣
Someone please design Kevin an extension he can add to the chat where viewers can tap and let him know we can’t hear the conversation. Every conversation is vital to many of us.
His chat room tells him the audio is down
You should check your electronics maybe there's a short some where in your audio.
RIP KS, Godfather We Will Never Forget
IKE, where did you wind up? You were so valued by Kevin!
Yeah this is a DROP THE MIC
MOMENT..
epic epic show today
Dropin knowledge as usual
Salute to the godfather
💯💯
The black nuclear family has been under psychological attack for so long. I’m happy people are recognizing this and I hope we are not too far gone to fix our community…I have a very diverse friend group & Lots of my non black acquaintances suggest similar things to me as the lady in the article talks about btw. It all sounded so familiar. This is definitely more of a men vs women opposed to one race vs another race…. I see this concept as alarming when ANY woman puts so much emphasis on this topic
100%
You are correct. Global corporate banking (new world) order managed by elites who’d prefer for you to be wage slaves in perpetuity. Easy to accomplish by separating men and women while pushing materialism and consumerism upon the masses. Socialist policies to keep you from rebelling. Etc. etc. This is all by design, but humans are too low IQ (collectively) to recognize what’s going on. Oh well
Exactly
Psychological attack is the perfect way to describe it. And with modern technologies, the attacks have become automated, more efficient, and more widespread on continuous timelines.
@@Underratedcommentator this is true. Older generations ( even my parents) had a house together, land , gardening, strong foundation , means to live without debt, the gov , etc. If a situation came about where the government crumbled , they would been able to cut all losses & survive together off of what they have. A lot of us cannot say the same.
The 1/16/2022 Psychology Today article (@35:00) that Kevin used to kick off this show was written by a 67 year old never married, childless, Ph.D white woman. Her test sample was so low it couldn't be considered a legit research sample. I was surprised the magazine sank so low to published anything.
@Vita in DC - Unfortunately, that's the kind of agenda-driven BS that passes for "research" these days!
@@wiseonwords ain't that the freaking truth?! There was another study that argued that promiscuous women are happier than women in relationships.
The thing is that they compared them to those in "bad" relationships. After reading that, it became obvious that they had also been comparing them to those in "good" relationships as well.
When the results didn't line up with the narrative that they wanted to push, they removed the "good" relationships. Why else would they have pointed out that those relationships were "bad"?
Wow
That magazine went woke. It is horrible.
Living Single was a great 👍🏾 show! Watched every episode multiple times! You should not forget that in the end the girlfriends all found a man to become a his wife!
That was a television show we’re they often provide the public with a tidy ending. In reality, the chances of you and all your girlfriends getting married is very slim and even more slim if you are black.
@@toddleonard369 💯% on that one. It’s only a television show 📺! Based somewhere in reality.
After they all had been ran thru after riding the CC
Bodycount absolutely matters. Anything over 5 means she can’t pairbond. Higher the bodycount higher the divorce rate = facts
@@associatealpha1166 Yeah! Like buying a car. Everyone wants a new car! Only a few want a car with a lot of miles on it!
TO ME, THIS IS INSANE!!!
I SAY THIS AS A 52 YEAR OLD BLACK MAN, WHO HAS TRAVELED THE PLANET 3 TIMES AND CONTINUE TO TRAVEL THE USA FOR BUSINESS...
Here’s what I don’t understand;
When they say they’ve been single or they haven’t dated in years. But when asked when’s the last time they had sausage session it’s at most ‘a month ago etc.’
A man hears this and to hear women say that the next guy to date them seriously is gonna be asked to spend $$ on her and ‘court’ her waiting for box that she’s already giving away for free to some dude (or dudes)who don’t even know her birthday. This is what sexual liberation has done. Men don’t care to give any thing more than the bare minimum. Because you’re already giving your body to some one else for free. How we look spending a premium on a garage sale item? Why won’t men commit? Because we aren’t required to.
Sexual liberation is a lie. Ive been a truck driver since 02 as the years have progressed I have seen less and less "un-lady like behavior" in cars. I haven't been flashed since 2016.
@@gmoney4236 Yeah. Their debauchery moved locations... To online
So you're just going to forget the financial support that they all get from Simps? I mean, I get what you're talking about, but this is a whole section of their existence that we're not addressing right here in this conversation.
@Freedom Forever
I thank God for social media, bcuz it shows me who the WIVES are.......if a chick is on social media ALL DAY, I'm out.......she ain't the one......🏃♂️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@mcole442 Bro, you got to look at it as a blessing. All these women showing who they are in real time and hd. Imagine you got married before this era to a woman, only to find out through relationship disrespect, that only thing keeping your woman from being debauched was social norms of the time and NOT her character. Now you 10, 20 years in and built a life and family with a harlot.
One of women’s biggest problems is that they take relationship advice (about what men want and what men are) from other women that most times don’t have their best interests at heart. Instead of listening to the men that are actually looking for women worth marrying. Miserable women keep other women single. Period.
Men want to marry a woman to lock her in his house and then go out and have fun with other women while his wife stays in home as a slave this is what they want
@@arianalushtaku4329 why you even bother to print such rubbish?
That part
@@arianalushtaku4329 only 28% of bm cheat, stop spreading lies
Troll
I'm all in for men's week. I got my holiday bonus and a hunger for knowledge. Fucking praying you would. You gotta bring it!
I've been telling black women for years that they are being targeted. Most of them dont want to hear it. It's much deeper than you think... MUCH DEEPER
@jay bey...in Harlem where I live there are so many fatherless boys. I see some mothers yell and curse them out in front of everybody. They fear the females raising them. The bad attitude has to change.
@@glammaog1love56 I tell everyone be accountable look at yourself before anyone else. Some men and women dont even know what happiness looks for themselves you dont even deserve it until you grow up fully and balance yourself. I see little children when I talk to people. Everyone wants their way all the time. Thinking they dont have to work at life. Unfortunately women with children (plural) really don't get too many second chances at a whole family. The government has blurred the lines of gender roles in relationships. Women have been to by song and media that the sex does not run out; but it does. Men have been told you have to be young, rich and good looking to get with a women. Now, the little boys (men) want sluts and the little girl ( women) want simps. In the past generations MEN used to want women who are an asset not a liability. Women that I saw when I grew up prefer men that led and took care of the household while they relaxed and let the men do all the heavy lifting. They had really no financial responsibility but maybe their car note. Most of them retired together. If a man is leading a women will get what she NEEDS and sometime what she WANTS. The wants are the extras.
Telling women being single helps avoid domestic violence is like telling people not driving a car helps avoid being in a car accidents. 🙄
WOW!, so true. My sister in-law's best friend (White Feminist) encouraged her to leave her husband. After she divorced him her friend, the independent White Feminist, started dating her ex husband. They had their first child right before the pandemic.
It's messed up but you reap what you sow.
That's nuts. But white feminists 'hate men'. Lmao. Quite literally talked her friend into letting her husband F his wife's BFF....
Holy moly. That's muddy
Oh wow, that’s something!!
I seen another black woman actually talk about a Wife’s School a few months ago! ✨🙌🏾 let’s do it!!
This would truly be awesome!!
The women that graduate would have men lining up.
What Kevin is saying stays true for other races and other countries. I am from the poorer half of Europe yet the discourse is the same and it took me at least 5 years to deprogram myself. All around me was saying I will be free if I have a job and please my employer, if I break standards by going out drinking and hooking up, buying myself shoes and phones. Bullshit!
Never met Mr Samuels but man do I miss him and wish he was still here cooking ❤ 🔥
I think it’s beautiful to serve your King. The Sundanese women wash there husbands hands & feet after a long day at work & serve their food. I always thought this was beautiful & peaceful gesture, home should be a sanctuary.
Being single for them is a defensive trait to protect them from being let down from the men they put in “work” to get or give time too! It’s all about them and their feeling and what they want.
If a woman chooses to be single and die alone than go on and let her don’t ridicule her
@@bellamonroe7322 Check your feelings before you accuse me of ridiculing someone.
Yes the selfishness is one of the pillars of the overall problem
This is confusing. Shouldn’t someone put their feelings and what they want above a hypothetical man? It would be different doing that in a relationship. But if you’re single I don’t see the issue.
@@baldwinstephone but you are ridiculing these women though. They don't want to be with men like you, they'd rather be alone. What's the problem?
That lady wrote that article because she walks in a world that allows her to say and write all that bullshit with no challenging rebuttals.
Yup. The gynocentric academic world
~Bachelor I stand..."No Man is free who is not Master of himself."
100. If you are looking for someone to complete you, you are going to end up being hurt.
In the age of electric currency, this brave man has brought back the much needed reality check.