That's an amazing video, imo. There is SO much hate online these days, it's actually shocking to hear positivity in these conversations. Sub'ed right away. I've been married nearly 13 years and it's been the best thing to ever happen to me. We still love doing things together and chatting daily. We still miss each other when we're apart. To think so many people will never know this sort of long-lasting love is truly sad think about.
@@christoffsimply3179 Thank you 😊 I’m glad we can find some commonality with each other. There are still great, long lasting relationships out there. Commitment is not always a negative like people make it out to be. It adds a richness and depth to life that can’t happen on one’s own.
@@Tim_G_Bennett Sorry to hear you've had it messed up. You have my respect and support though. Hopefully you find happiness even after your upbringing.
It's amazing how many young, reasonably attractive, (mostly) conservative women have started to pop up on RUclips with this message - "Guys, I know it's tough out there, but don't give up!" My advice - talk to your feminist sisters. Put them in check, and men will come back. Until then, buh-bye.
Yes, direct the conversation back at the women. I wish they’d stop harping at us that “if you were a REAL man-“. I’m automatically out. Men know who men are, we don’t need a woman’s input or hear her speak. Bring back shame.
Low maintenance and laid back. The natural look is always better in my opinion. I don't really like being visually attracted because it's so superficial. It has to be there somewhat though for both parties. The older I get, the less important it is to me of course. I never thought that I would be this old trying to find another suitable girlfriend. Then I got a rude awakening with being ignored on dating apps :( I feel like if your not a 7 or above, dating apps are not going to help. It's pushing me out of my comfort zone though, and I hoping that could only mean that I'll be growing. Now I need to get past my shyness and get out there and meet someone new. I see the puppy! lol Thank you for the video. You might find this kinda of messed up but I think your going to get more men then women watching your channel. I've seen a few women start off trying to reach women and then realizing only men watch. It's weird, I'm kinda thinking women don't want to be told they are doing something wrong. They just want to be validated on their wrongdoings. That's a little harsh. Maybe you can have some input and defend women.
False drama to generate an emotional high. Knock that off ladies. It's draining when the there is no issue warranting the emotional complaints. When the relationship is going well, keep it that way. Life is good when you're both working towards the same purpose.
The same here. In my 33 years old was never quite good enough. But now I have given up and make the best of my life with the things I do control. Like gym, occasional solo trips and indulging myself in learning new skills, like fixing simple things in my car.
Somewhat amusingly, I've seen videos posted by men on how to essentially be high-maintenance to women with the assumption that women need uncertainty, drama, and excitement so they don't leave due to boredom. I don't really like this as it seems almost abusive, but a lot of women have this need for stimulation that is unfamiliar to men. While men might have a reputation for being testosterone-fueled warriors who love challenges, we don't generally love challenging women (especially after a hard day at work).
I'm 39, married 15 years. Low maintenance is awesome, especially when you're attached to your spouse's qualities. Im 5' 11", and shes a petite 5' 2" spicy latina. I call her my "little hottie"
Low maintenance for the most part yes. But i really dont want to see you in sweat pants every day. Sundresses are awesome. Even around the house. For the most part, your info sounds really good. In my opinion.
@lifewithlaur2686 it's whatever your man wants. But I would give you another nugget. Whatever you wore when you met him might be the key a few times a week.
@@lifewithlaur2686Millionaires drive old beat up Fords for a reason. This same reason applies for why I choose to look “ordinary,” but not homeless. It’s a natural deterrent to gold digging women. Every day that goes by women age like milk while I grow better.
No such thing as low or high maintenance because its nobody elses job to maintain you. A woman that isnt capable of maintaining herself is unsuited for relationships
Single guy here who is 30, but never was in a relationship. I would love to be in a relationship, and I would love that relationship to end up in a family. If there is a woman who has a lot of demands then this will have the consequence that life just turns unnecessarily complicated and I will have less ressources to spend on my vision and my children. If a woman wants to have a driven husband or if she wants to have children then it would be smart of her to learn how to be less demanding before she is in a marriage. After all this is somethig that smart men will notice before you even start dating. And he will then assume that you will be just like that once you are married and he will friendzone you before you even notice it.
The current trend of "high maintenance" revolving around gold diggers isn't the only issue, the "traditional nagging wife" is also a big issue. A constant honey do list on top of working a full time job while not getting appreciation for what you already do.
I’m an older, 6’ 6-figure guy and so are my friends. By high maintenance women you seem to be defining that as money grubbing. I can tell you we can afford women who want to spend money because that is why we earn it. The problem is high spending women don’t appreciate it. I bought my last long-term relationship girl a Lexus for her birthday. That changed her for the worst. She no longer wanted me to take her in my beloved twin turbo Porsche. I learned my lesson and am getting rid of her. My friends and I are very interested in a video on why you turned out good and how you met your husband.
yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes to "men prefer low maintenance wmen and dont invest that much anymore" thats how i think since a few years after learning more about dating. its never worth it.
High maintenance is just an excuse gold diggers use to justify their nasty behaviour. I love how women say they "dress up for themselves" and later come up with this BS amd expect men to pay. Yes I expect you to be "low maintenance" - I assume I'm dealing with an adult so I don't want and I don't have to modulate ur emotions.carry ur weight. I also expect u to dress up and look good for me hars the bare minimum both men and women can do for each other when they're in a relationship with someone they love. I will ALWAYS go to the gym, im single and i STILL want to look good. Its called self steem. Being "low maintenance" isnt an excuse for being lazy. So yes i expect you to WANT me and WANT to please me, otherwise why would u be in a relationship with me? I certainly wouldnt be with you if i didnt want those things
Correct,......HELL YES any girl with makeup nails tatoos hose ring studs etc, is 100% NO, run away quickly. No makeup no nails, now OK. keep an eye on.
Yes, vast majority of men prefer low maintenance women. Gold-diggers are overrepresented online and not actually that common. Less than 20% of women in their 20s are aiming for a man who is earning 6 figures. Vast majority of decent looking young women who are single are single because they are waiting for a man who is in top 20% of looks to commit. I agree with you that there are young women who have unrealistic expectations about man's income, but it's rare compared to the number of young women who have unrealistic expectations about man's looks.
"Less than 20% of women in their 20s are aiming for a man who is earning 6 figures." None of the "list" metrics can be mutually exclusive, and that 20% figure is a lie. Its purposely "fudged" data, by using ONLY the 6 figure income metric, and excluding the rest entirely. THAT is how they lie with real data (if your source is the same one I am thinking of). When you combine that with the Data from dating apps and All Social media, the number is closer to 90% (+-10% average) then slap relationship data from the CDC and Court data. It goes up to 100%. +- 10% still on average. That is just the United States. Not counting THE ENTIRE WEST. So no, if she has 1 metric from the list as a ruler? She has the entire rest of the "list" GUARANTEED. #passports are the ONLY option.
Men prefer women with humility,ego is a big turnoff
That's an amazing video, imo. There is SO much hate online these days, it's actually shocking to hear positivity in these conversations. Sub'ed right away. I've been married nearly 13 years and it's been the best thing to ever happen to me. We still love doing things together and chatting daily. We still miss each other when we're apart. To think so many people will never know this sort of long-lasting love is truly sad think about.
@@christoffsimply3179 Thank you 😊 I’m glad we can find some commonality with each other. There are still great, long lasting relationships out there. Commitment is not always a negative like people make it out to be. It adds a richness and depth to life that can’t happen on one’s own.
Congratulations on your relationship success!
I'm in my 40's and due to a messed up life I haven't even been on a date yet. 😔
@@Tim_G_Bennett Sorry to hear you've had it messed up. You have my respect and support though. Hopefully you find happiness even after your upbringing.
It's amazing how many young, reasonably attractive, (mostly) conservative women have started to pop up on RUclips with this message - "Guys, I know it's tough out there, but don't give up!"
My advice - talk to your feminist sisters. Put them in check, and men will come back. Until then, buh-bye.
Yes, direct the conversation back at the women. I wish they’d stop harping at us that “if you were a REAL man-“. I’m automatically out. Men know who men are, we don’t need a woman’s input or hear her speak. Bring back shame.
Low maintenance and laid back. The natural look is always better in my opinion. I don't really like being visually attracted because it's so superficial. It has to be there somewhat though for both parties. The older I get, the less important it is to me of course. I never thought that I would be this old trying to find another suitable girlfriend. Then I got a rude awakening with being ignored on dating apps :( I feel like if your not a 7 or above, dating apps are not going to help. It's pushing me out of my comfort zone though, and I hoping that could only mean that I'll be growing. Now I need to get past my shyness and get out there and meet someone new. I see the puppy! lol Thank you for the video. You might find this kinda of messed up but I think your going to get more men then women watching your channel. I've seen a few women start off trying to reach women and then realizing only men watch. It's weird, I'm kinda thinking women don't want to be told they are doing something wrong. They just want to be validated on their wrongdoings. That's a little harsh. Maybe you can have some input and defend women.
Men value women who dont waste resources the same way women value men who have excess resources.
LLL Low body count, with low body weight and low maintenance is what we want period.
I’m stealing this, the Best comment !
False drama to generate an emotional high.
Knock that off ladies. It's draining when the there is no issue warranting the emotional complaints. When the relationship is going well, keep it that way. Life is good when you're both working towards the same purpose.
I don't think I would ever be able to live up to what women want now.
The same here. In my 33 years old was never quite good enough. But now I have given up and make the best of my life with the things I do control. Like gym, occasional solo trips and indulging myself in learning new skills, like fixing simple things in my car.
great video, Laur...love the hair
Like most men I know I got used as a disposable utility then gave up on women entirely after that experience.
Somewhat amusingly, I've seen videos posted by men on how to essentially be high-maintenance to women with the assumption that women need uncertainty, drama, and excitement so they don't leave due to boredom. I don't really like this as it seems almost abusive, but a lot of women have this need for stimulation that is unfamiliar to men. While men might have a reputation for being testosterone-fueled warriors who love challenges, we don't generally love challenging women (especially after a hard day at work).
This video is calming me.
I'm 39, married 15 years. Low maintenance is awesome, especially when you're attached to your spouse's qualities. Im 5' 11", and shes a petite 5' 2" spicy latina. I call her my "little hottie"
If a woman like that isn't taken, proceed
Low maintenance for the most part yes. But i really dont want to see you in sweat pants every day. Sundresses are awesome. Even around the house. For the most part, your info sounds really good. In my opinion.
@@BossMoss77 Thanks for the comment! I dress up when going out but around the house I’m comfy.
@lifewithlaur2686 it's whatever your man wants. But I would give you another nugget. Whatever you wore when you met him might be the key a few times a week.
@ That’s a good idea!
@@lifewithlaur2686Millionaires drive old beat up Fords for a reason. This same reason applies for why I choose to look “ordinary,” but not homeless. It’s a natural deterrent to gold digging women. Every day that goes by women age like milk while I grow better.
No such thing as low or high maintenance because its nobody elses job to maintain you. A woman that isnt capable of maintaining herself is unsuited for relationships
suited maybe not but is there still a line around the block outside of their door, yes..
"No such thing" high maintenance is an expression that means needy and overly demanding. Its a way of talking about their behaviors.
@@Sarcasmarkus someone who is needy and overly demanding is someone that doesn't know how to behave like an adult and shouldn't be in a relationship
@sleeper9638 yeppers!
Single guy here who is 30, but never was in a relationship.
I would love to be in a relationship, and I would love that relationship to end up in a family. If there is a woman who has a lot of demands then this will have the consequence that life just turns unnecessarily complicated and I will have less ressources to spend on my vision and my children.
If a woman wants to have a driven husband or if she wants to have children then it would be smart of her to learn how to be less demanding before she is in a marriage. After all this is somethig that smart men will notice before you even start dating. And he will then assume that you will be just like that once you are married and he will friendzone you before you even notice it.
Heya. Didn't listen to video but read the title. As a man, yes , we do.
The current trend of "high maintenance" revolving around gold diggers isn't the only issue, the "traditional nagging wife" is also a big issue. A constant honey do list on top of working a full time job while not getting appreciation for what you already do.
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I’m an older, 6’ 6-figure guy and so are my friends. By high maintenance women you seem to be defining that as money grubbing. I can tell you we can afford women who want to spend money because that is why we earn it. The problem is high spending women don’t appreciate it. I bought my last long-term relationship girl a Lexus for her birthday. That changed her for the worst. She no longer wanted me to take her in my beloved twin turbo Porsche.
I learned my lesson and am getting rid of her.
My friends and I are very interested in a video on why you turned out good and how you met your husband.
YES
At this time, question should be, do men prefer women or ai women 😂😂😂
Rent don't buy. Get a pro every so often and live the rest of your days in peace.
"Good speech"
yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes to "men prefer low maintenance wmen and dont invest that much anymore" thats how i think since a few years after learning more about dating. its never worth it.
High maintenance is just an excuse gold diggers use to justify their nasty behaviour. I love how women say they "dress up for themselves" and later come up with this BS amd expect men to pay. Yes I expect you to be "low maintenance" - I assume I'm dealing with an adult so I don't want and I don't have to modulate ur emotions.carry ur weight. I also expect u to dress up and look good for me hars the bare minimum both men and women can do for each other when they're in a relationship with someone they love. I will ALWAYS go to the gym, im single and i STILL want to look good. Its called self steem. Being "low maintenance" isnt an excuse for being lazy. So yes i expect you to WANT me and WANT to please me, otherwise why would u be in a relationship with me? I certainly wouldnt be with you if i didnt want those things
Why on earth would they prefer high maintenance?
Correct,......HELL YES any girl with makeup nails tatoos hose ring studs etc, is 100% NO, run away quickly. No makeup no nails, now OK. keep an eye on.
Yes, vast majority of men prefer low maintenance women.
Gold-diggers are overrepresented online and not actually that common. Less than 20% of women in their 20s are aiming for a man who is earning 6 figures.
Vast majority of decent looking young women who are single are single because they are waiting for a man who is in top 20% of looks to commit.
I agree with you that there are young women who have unrealistic expectations about man's income, but it's rare compared to the number of young women who have unrealistic expectations about man's looks.
"Less than 20% of women in their 20s are aiming for a man who is earning 6 figures." None of the "list" metrics can be mutually exclusive, and that 20% figure is a lie. Its purposely "fudged" data, by using ONLY the 6 figure income metric, and excluding the rest entirely. THAT is how they lie with real data (if your source is the same one I am thinking of).
When you combine that with the Data from dating apps and All Social media, the number is closer to 90% (+-10% average) then slap relationship data from the CDC and Court data.
It goes up to 100%. +- 10% still on average.
That is just the United States. Not counting THE ENTIRE WEST.
So no, if she has 1 metric from the list as a ruler?
She has the entire rest of the "list" GUARANTEED.
#passports are the ONLY option.
lol all W are gold digger. some of them don't hide it is all. try to not pay and see 😂
@@jurassicthunder It's all about how big the shovel is, and how well it can be hidden.
20%? Where did you come up with that number?
Only when it’s fashionable to be sympathetic to men they jump on the bandwagon. Can sniff out the insincerity hope her channel fails.
Obviously