Nobody's rights with their children should have to depend on their judge. Good advice to parents about getting them to think about how their move will affect their time with the other parent. However, it should be the move away parent who is having to take this into consideration. My husband had an order that restricted his child to the school district so that if either parent moved the child could not. That was a deterrent to both parents moving. However, we all know that courts are very unpredictable and could completely discard that order based on whatever criteria they choose to use or whatever criteria they choose to weight more. Thanks for your insights into these issues.
Hi Wendy. Your videos have provided me with an abundance of information, so thank you. I just moved closer to my 4 year old son (10 minute drive) however, mom is not used to a 50/50 joint custody and is beginning to get nasty and attack me with allegations. I have an attorney but during our mediation he didn't provide the mediator with my supporting documentation to dismiss these allegations, so of course mediation did not go in my favor which, was me wanting equal time with our son 5-2-2 plan, our day in court is soon, we've already sent the missing documentation to the judge, but is it to late for me to get increased parent time due to the mistake of my lawyer? I'm in California. Thanks for these videos!!! We appreciate your commitment to helping others.
I've had full custody of my kids until july 5th of this month the father now has shared custody I live 50 min away from the father of my kids I just dont see how its fair that the kids will be going to school where I live close to my home and the father will have to come and pick them up from school and drop them off 2 days out of every work week having the kids in traffic long ways back and forth. I hired a lawyer who OBVIOUSLY didnt not do his job the court order is so unreasonable it makes no sense. Not to mention the father of my kids has a really bad record he's violent and has a really bad record I've had 2 restraining orders in the past on him and during times where I have to meet up with him to pick up the kids he verbally assaults me in front of the kids and he does not follow the order. This has to change what should I do?
And the commissioner ordered me to send my son out of state for 5 weeks over summer consecutively- moving was not in best interests... and now... he thinks he is going to file for primary cudtody? I have been the stability and the primary since beginning and he is the one who filed!!!!! Frustrated and sad - injustice
My ex husband moved less than one year after divorce finalization and filed the request for modification a couple days after he got to his new residence over 500 miles away out of state!!
Nobody's rights with their children should have to depend on their judge. Good advice to parents about getting them to think about how their move will affect their time with the other parent. However, it should be the move away parent who is having to take this into consideration. My husband had an order that restricted his child to the school district so that if either parent moved the child could not. That was a deterrent to both parents moving. However, we all know that courts are very unpredictable and could completely discard that order based on whatever criteria they choose to use or whatever criteria they choose to weight more. Thanks for your insights into these issues.
Hi Wendy. Your videos have provided me with an abundance of information, so thank you. I just moved closer to my 4 year old son (10 minute drive) however, mom is not used to a 50/50 joint custody and is beginning to get nasty and attack me with allegations. I have an attorney but during our mediation he didn't provide the mediator with my supporting documentation to dismiss these allegations, so of course mediation did not go in my favor which, was me wanting equal time with our son 5-2-2 plan, our day in court is soon, we've already sent the missing documentation to the judge, but is it to late for me to get increased parent time due to the mistake of my lawyer? I'm in California. Thanks for these videos!!! We appreciate your commitment to helping others.
I've had full custody of my kids until july 5th of this month the father now has shared custody I live 50 min away from the father of my kids I just dont see how its fair that the kids will be going to school where I live close to my home and the father will have to come and pick them up from school and drop them off 2 days out of every work week having the kids in traffic long ways back and forth. I hired a lawyer who OBVIOUSLY didnt not do his job the court order is so unreasonable it makes no sense. Not to mention the father of my kids has a really bad record he's violent and has a really bad record I've had 2 restraining orders in the past on him and during times where I have to meet up with him to pick up the kids he verbally assaults me in front of the kids and he does not follow the order.
This has to change what should I do?
And the commissioner ordered me to send my son out of state for 5 weeks over summer consecutively- moving was not in best interests... and now... he thinks he is going to file for primary cudtody? I have been the stability and the primary since beginning and he is the one who filed!!!!! Frustrated and sad - injustice
Jennifer Wyatt how is it going Jennifer
What if the non custodial parent wants to move closer to the child instead of being in different states
My ex husband moved less than one year after divorce finalization and filed the request for modification a couple days after he got to his new residence over 500 miles away out of state!!
And that's 45 minutes there and 45 minutes back which is an hour and a half each time SMH