I'm a latin man with a black caribbean woman who is the best thing to ever happen to me. No wonder why black women are seeking other races of men, we don't defame and demoralize women we're with. Please stop speaking for other races of men when you don't know how to treat your own women right.
Notice what you just said bro... CARRIBEAN woman, not African American woman. He's talking about American Black women and their attitudes and personalities is what he's talking about men not being attracted to.
@@RobotRebelCinema it could actually be the type of BW that are in your environment. But those stereotypes don’t apply to every American black woman. But, of course you won’t acknowledge that. And before you even say it, yes I am aware I am not even close to being attractive enough for a black man. I’m far to dark and don’t like the right stuff. Which is why I don’t mind dating and marrying the man that appreciates, values, and loves me. And I’m happy in that.
This is weird. My wife is blk and im mexican, i prefer blk wm, but i dont look down on or talk shit about hispanic women. Why do i see blk men doing this all the time? I seriously don't get it. If you don't like them, just move on, why the damn public service announcement?
Because they don’t wanna see other men of different races love us the way they refuse to. This is their last tactic to make us seem undesirable, lying on the Internet. Lol
@@Mew2Win or maybe it's because we just TREAT OUR women better as a whole? It's pretty well known us WM and other races have staying power and we take care of our women and children..
@@iapetusmiller9509 that’s them rationalizing their euqenik nature. Same way azn vvomen dislike their own men the most, even tho they have higher lQs on avg, and out earn wytte men on avg in the usa. All bc azn men are the least dimorphicaIIy Iooking men
It's self-hatred. They think they're in a better situation with the women of the men who have power. Black women have supported black men thru the darkest times, and now we're no good because social media says we aren't. Love, we still live in a white supremacist society - this is a white capitalist state. White women know black men are insecure, and they're monetizing off the rich ones. I was in a Twitter space listening to a black athlete say white coaches and trainers link the up with white, arab, and Latina women - all former colonizers. It's a way to siphon money out of our community and depopulate our race. Europeans and white Americans witnessed a decline in their population. Millions of Congolese dying and multiple wars in black countries aren't happening for no reason. It's white survival. Black male leaders worldwide are maintaining the oppression of their own ppl to be in the company of whiteness. Google the wives African leaders - many have white wives. Look at black Republicans's wives. Black men are soft and easily manipulated. They resent black women for our strength and perseverance.
Thank you. Because they’re still confused as to why we are choosing more and more to stay away. We are exhausted defending ourselves to every other group for one reason or another when we don’t bother anyone & we are the FIRST to stand up for someone or protest or March. WE JUST WANT TO BE LOVED!
The worse shithouse possible I'm from Jamaica and while good woman are everywhere Jamaican culture is so acidic it spills over on everybody all walks of life.
@@Language_guy100 black America women are fire🔥 They're damn good women as a. Majority collective. Competent smart self sufficient beautiful STRONG Educated.. You can't get better than bw.
WHAT IF BLACK WOMEN AND MEN CAN PROCREATE WITH ALL RACES AND WE HOLD NO LEGION TO EACH OTHER. WHAT IF WE ARE BOTH GOD AND WE’RE JUST MENTALLY BOXED IN (ENSLAVED) TO THINK THAT MAKING BROWN MORE PURE HAD ANY PURPOSE, LIKE COLORS OF PAINT, YOU JUST GET MORE BROWN. GOD (whoever he is to you should have unconditional love and is not racist if he is good) YOU GOD (if good) SHOULD NOT CARE WHO WE CHOOSE TO LOVE. IF YOUR GOD CARES ABOUT SKIN COLOR, YOUR GOD IS THE DEVIL. “SATAN IS THE AUTHOR OF CONFUSION.” DON’T BE WEAPONIZED BY WHITE PPL, THEY WILL STILL PLACE THEMSELVES BEFORE US ALL THE TIME, ALL THE CHANCE THEY GET. TRUE EMPOWERMENT COMES FROM GOD/FROM WITHIN. TRUE EMPOWERMENT COME FROM NOTHING. POWER IS A WEAPON AND ITS NOT IN OUT NATURE TO LOVE/WANT/NEED POWER. WE HAD SPEARE AND ARROWS. WE NEVER MADE “THE GUN” OR “NUCLEAR BOMBS”. THEY ARE GOING TO KILL US ALL WHEN WE FINALLY CHPOSE TO FULL DROWN THEM OUT AND WPRK TOGETHER. THEY ARE USING THE INTERNET TO MONITOR & MONETIZE OUR EVERY MOVE. SPEND TIME ALONE AND OFF THE WEB. ITS NOT FOR YOUR PERSONAL LIFE. THE INTERNET IS JUST ANOTHER REALM OF CONTROL.
It’s not that he doesn’t want BW he’s hurt that BW never choose him…. I used to be a BW that always choose white men because I have more in common with them they are more open to the things I like vs the typical POC…. But lately I’m starting to notice that black ppl in general are fetishes to other races…. This dude is just talking nonsense he’s hurt
@@madisonatior4414 its not about dating. I just wouldn't protect any black woman if I saw them being harmed. Obviously from all im reading its not worth putting my life on the line for y'all
Statistically that's false being that black women are the most demographic and bm have lower divorce rates with other women. These stats yall quote have been debunked. Black women dont last awith anyone
Chick just say u love yo slave master tbis the second comment I see u on u must be triggered . No other races of men are saving you guys loook at the statistic black women are the least desired of women on this planet , y’all do not have the room or options to be hating your race of men
@@tf_u_talking_about I was just about to say dat lol. They date and marry out at such high rate but they failure rate doubles. But when bw do the same their marriage rate doubles and our failure rate is cut in half 🤔 now tell me who is really the problem 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I remembered when i was a teenager, no black women wanted to date me. I was short, fat and they called me ugly. Until i started changing myself and image. I better my life and met a Japanese woman that treated me like a human being. When i brought her back to the states and rhey saw how well i treated her and changed my image, they started to try and get with me after they had baggages and kids. I dont hate black women, i just dont like what they become. Sad part, they are being lied too, saying a guy needs to be tall, have money, thuggish. When they open their eyes, it's too late for them. The good men have moved on.
Personally, pretty much all my Black female friends who are married are married to a non-Black man (including me). Never ever ever had problems getting non-Black men to commit. It’s funny when men try to tell women who isn’t hitting on or committing them.😂
That’s the minority tho. How many non black men do you think is out here looking for black women? Your personal experience don’t got nothing to do with everyone else.
The vast majority of black women will never get married anyone to commit. 80% have bastard children. 64% gave multiple baby daddies. BW had over a million more bastard children with non black men, than black men had with non black women. The problematic black men and women are almost raised by single black women.
I love seeing messages like this-it doubles down on my stance as to why I don’t allow black men to be in my dating pool of preference as a young, childfree 26y/o woman. Keep telling us how you feel-and I promise you we will keep listening 👍🏾
@@adangerousmind357 a lot of us literally don’t want it…why is that shocking? Most mothers and married women are miserable-therefore we do not WANT it, nor am I actively pursing it so…
@@babyg7796but y’all want babies out of wedlock🙄 I know not having your ass kissed is hard and hearing the ugly truth about urself is even harder so instead of being a better person to become desirable , you try to convince yourself you don’t want a husband. Yea okay….sour grapes
Latinas and white girls can have the same attitudes but the majority of them don’t. It’s a cultural problem even you have to admit that. Me being raised in a predominantly black neighborhood all my life then experiencing the world its a pretty obvious fact. Aggression has literally been burned into the culture.
You’ve never looked it up Obviously! *All other* races of women (as a group) get married at a higher rate (per year) than they get divorced.. BW are Literally the *Only one’s* who get divorced more than married.. and if yall want us to be so Pro-Whack 🧐 wouldn’t that mean BW bring our numbers down by default?? 😴
He basically said BM are trash but no other men want BW so you got to settle for a BM. This is BS these young Black women are dating out and they are not finding it hard . My niece and two of my friends daughters are married to White men.When I was young I hung out with a diverse group of people and wherever I went Latin ,Asian and White men would ask me out. But I was about Black empowerment and Black love. I finally realize BM do not want to level up they want you to date down.
Black women are the ones complaining when it comes to dating so idk where you got the part that they aren’t finding it hard. THEN DROP THE SUBJECT AND LET BM DATE WHO THEY WANT
@@mouthpeace916*sighs* It's always the dustiest, mustiest, crustiest, rustiest of the dusties, musties, crusties and rusties talking trash.😂 Stop speaking on black women's hair knowing good and well that black men literally be putting so much gel on their hair to get waves like Europeans.
I could be wrong, but I think this is only American bw and bm. because if you go to other countries and seen the world not all Black people act like this… Especially in Africa.
I agree that people have to choose better. But why don’t we talk about this in reverse. Do you know how many black men have ignore the “good” black women? I’ve had black boys/men not want to talk to me because my hair is natural, because I wear glasses, because I liked video games, because I don’t like rap, because I talk like a chick from the burbs,because I don’t wear Jordans, because I’m in bed by 9.. etc. But will prefer a quote on quote loud mouth light skin or Latina women. Then complain women ain’t shit. It goes both ways but you never hear about it. Black people period need to choose better. Men do the same thing.
@hc7092 they literally want you to be guard dogs for the cause. It's so gross at this point that I consider them 💩 consuming pets for ytes. They are so bih made they're literally looking for lez bos to defend them and I'm not with the gross unaccountability of YOUR manhood🤡. And now if you think about it, you can expect them to throw you under the bus repeatedly so have at it. All they are is treachery and they can enjoy their sewer status🤮🔥.
THIS!!!!!!!! I have been saying this for years! Black men ("good guys" and "bad boys" alike) completely ignore the good black girl/woman because she may be a bit introverted and more conservative in her style/fashion choice, and pretend that she doesn't exist...just to turn around and say that there are no good women anymore and that "all women are (fill in the blank with a derogatory name)" just because they won't take personal accountability for the fact that they've been choosing the wrong type of woman and/or chasing the "bad girl/baddie" stereotype, but they never hesitate to get up in arms about BW "dating pookies and ray rays" when they are doing the exact same thing but in reverse!
I'm a black woman in my late 20s and my wonderful husband of 8 years is white.. prior to him i dated a korean man. Bw a lot of us need to move away from this "hood" mentality and truly embrace the soft life. My own black father and grandfather told me years ago. I will never get that "soft lifestyle" if i marry within the black community. Other races of men love us and not just for sex. EDIT: I see a lot of black WIVES in the " black wife effect trend" but we're 1 in 4 to marry so 🤷. Sistas go where you're loved and appreciated. Because men are alway going to want you. Don't listen to the propaganda that you're unwanted.
U didn't even have to leave the black community all together tbh. I'm talking to well dating a nigerian man from Lagos it's like night and day. Plus they look better are smarter hardworking can cook and have this accent when the speak the English language.... 1st of all its proper English and 2 gurrrrrllll it's so sexy 😂😂😂😂😂😂
You black father and grand father were both self hating raccoons . What if ur mother thought that way about ur dad? A white man here just killed his entire family. Value isn’t determined by race. Love who you want but save the generalizations and self hatred speech. There are plenty of decent BM
@@Hadda23 lol ik I was just stating an observation. Your preferences are your preferences and u are allowed to have that right. Everyone is different. I personally love bm. I don't like white or Asian men 😕 I would get me a Puerto Rican Dominican or other afro Hispanic man but that's as far as I go. More for u I guess lol 😆 just like more for me. Moral of the story bw don't need to be trapped by the notion of black love or thar all we can get is bm so why bother with anything else. And just do what makes us happy. For me that's a nigerian for you that's your white husband.
Who said that? I've dated foreign foreign men of other races and they all Love me, treat me like a Queen, and Asked me to marry them. Yall be hating because yall cant keep up, man up or provide for your families like they can.
It’s always black women with attitude, but other race of women have attitudes and it’s not frowned upon. Spicy Latinas, white women get a pass for their attitude and their part in slavery. Oook This stigma about black women is getting old.
It's not a stigma it's a fact and there's a difference between the majority which most black women have an attitude to a minority of women in other groups.
@@dred9174 So not true. All women have attitudes ... Black men in IR relationships should stop lying and pretending their lives/wives are "perfect" with other women because it is not. Maybe they are just willing to work harder to stay with that person because that is what they want.
@@bria1660 who said it is perfect it's better but not perfect. Black American women are the only women who have bad attitudes and take pride in being difficult. I see why so many black American men are looking for black women across the Diaspora.
BM the most "desired" men in the galaxy please go. As the days continue less and less BW care and their investment into BM is decreasing by the second.
The irony of this statement is BM leaves to go explore other options and BW has a problem with that. The sad part is, its a simple fix, both BM and BW need to stop treating each other like enemies, pick better partners out of the group while rejecting the negative stereotypes. If we did that, this mess would never happen and everyone would be in a better place across the board
@@marilainedictan4851 That’s a good thing😅no men in this society should be marrying you predatory modern women. It’s a good thing black men are getting divorced😂
@@zookey7769this is not caring. This is more like obsessive behavior. Gloating about someone else’s situation, etc. if this is what y’all call care… ummm NO THANKS! 😂😂
I'm white I can say hands down that black woman are the most loyal woman out there without them you black men ain't nothink, I like how yall think like there's cues of woman from other races lining up for yous aswell when in reality that's not the case
Bro how many did you date and why did these relationships end? This is crazy talk. How you managed to generalize an entire race of women. That's impressive.
@@joschmo4497Playing advocate here but that guy in the video managed to generalise a whole group of women despite not having met all of them. In light of that, I think it's fair for the original commenter to do the same.
@@hannayaya7413 I am so tired of people not understanding what a generalization is, I really am tired of that. It's not a difficult concept to understand. You don't need to meet every member of a group to generalize, because generalization means something applies in the general case, not in every case, Jesus Christ and this is your first language. I'm so tired of having to explain this to people. People have 2 eyes. BuT yOu dIdNt mEeT eVeRy pErSon. You don't need to, because exceptions don't break a rule. Ok great, "but mom he did it first". Never mind what's true or reasonable. Childish mentality.
@@adangerousmind357 I hope ALL black women find someone who fills their life with happiness and love regardless of color. Especially the women in your family.
For black women its either have high standards, be alone, or settle for a man who brings you shame and drama. We as black women need to maintain our self respect. Even it means being alone. Dont settle for anything that doesnt feel right to you. Your own company is better. And a bote to the man this video. If men in others countries dont want us its due to the smear campaign thats gone on about us. We are beautiful people and only kind people. And its sad that black men have tried to controlled the way others see bw and even how some of us see ourselves.
BM, as a collective, are mentally, physically and emotionally abusive. They are on a campaign to discourage other men from dating BW. Glad to see other races of men not falling for the lies.
Aaand black men’s options are be alone, be step daddy or date out!! 🤷🏽♂️ No self respecting man will provide for another man’s seed. All that mess y’all talking would be cool *IF* Your childless rates were anywhere close to black men (60%) *OR* Or.. this gonna sound crazy but.. have self respect & high standards *BEFORE* You have kids & Trauma!! 😮
Men of other cultures want us. Its bw who are the least likely to date out. When other men want us, its because of personality, strength, knowledge, how resourceful we can be, how feminine we are, tenacity, fun, and witty caring we are. When the ww that bm get with like them its because of skin tone, good kissers, pipe game,his do rag, he is a good dancer, his hair texture and if they cant find anything they say its his "culture" or swagger.
@@ChrissyReam You don’t know how to find statistics 📊 do You?? Cause the *Facts* would say that’s BS!! 1% of *Anybody* (not black) in America marries BW. You’re not race loyal You’re *Not wanted* beyond the bedroom 🥱
It’s so sad just a couples years back when black men were being targeted by police, black women stood right beside them. It’s not all black men bashing black women. For the one’s who are it’s very shameful!
He speaks the truth but you black women who arr unable to self reflect and take accoutnability for your actions and negativd characteristics that havr driven black men away ffom you all. The truth hurts but it is correction.
I'm tired of people who speak on blacks assuming that all of us subscribe to "hip hop culture" there are a lot of decent black people out here We just aren't wasting our lives on social media... wake up people... we're being lied to.... there are alot of great black women and black men out there that are capable of loving eachother!
All the decent black women are married black men already know that why do you think passport bros exist. Shit all the VW at the college I go to are with Pookies and Ray Ray they couldn't care less about the guys trying to get a college education.
Facts. First decent comment on here that doesn't generalize both sexes! When we don't subscribe to the toxic culture we're actually decent people like everyone else!
Black women this is not true. Stop staying committed to black men who does not value you. It took some time but I eventually got the courage to date outside of my race. I’m happily engage to be married to the man of my dreams in a year. ❤❤
As a human, and a Black man, I am happy for you and wish you nothing but the best. You will find that most brothers will wish you the best if you have found happiness. I just wish that went both ways. My two cents worth. Peace!
@@sysbmeternal Right! Why not just go get the real thing? I’m going to keep it a buck, black men were cursed with the worse race of women that Satan ever 💩 out of his kingdom!
im white but I share blood with 2 brothers who are serbian, venezuelan, and my nephew is Nigerian. and im already half serbian. my type of women is black, literally put 99 super models who happen to be white and 1 black woman im choosing her .
It is very sad when your platform is made about the disdain you have for black women. Why not make your platform off the other women you love and leave black women out of it. You don't like us OK point made. Now spend your energy on something more positive. 😊
You’re already wrong by assuming all black women have an attitude, that saying is so played out and you’re gas lighting btw. Secondly for you as a black man to speak as a nation on behalf of other men outside black men is not wise and sadly it holds no weight. As a Ghanaian myself I’ve noticed black men here in America can be very divisive when it comes to issues like these and don’t like accountability. Not all but a good handful. No one likes to deal with an attitude regardless of Race obviously. Oh and Sisters it’s not extremely difficult you just have to be open minded and not closed minded when dating. Stop letting these internet gurus tell you otherwise. Just come to Africa ladies lol and you will see the dynamic and interactions are so much different. That’s a fact.
Its black American culture hun. Not race. This is a never ending fight amongst black Americans. Stay away. Dont get involved and dont let them poison your culture
@@noonesishome The only one who would poison anything is the ghetto hoodra*s majority of Black American men aren't dealing with them anymore because of their degenerate behavior we've just decided to leave them to their own destruction hence the rapid increase in homelessness for Black American women.
@@madisonatior4414 1 there are more black men in college than in prison. 2 it's well documented that Black Americans are targeted by police while they'll let other groups of people walk away with a warning when they're caught. They're also 3 times more likely to be found guilty of the same exact crime a white person committed (typical all white juries) 3: Black Men lead America in exonerations because charges were false because it is pretty common for the police to plant evidence in order to get an arrest. 4: as I stated hood rat* are the ones always getting into trouble and coincidentally hood rat* are also the type of men Black American women are attracted to they'll tell you themselves they prefer the drug dealers and scammers over the 9-5 men.
Child I was a single mother in school working minimum wage job and men of other races were still coming after me but I was younger and afraid of what men would say being loyal to them so I turned them down I have six friends married to white asian and Hispanic men one Indian who were also single mothers. Don’t believe the bull and yes I too am married and yes to a wonderful black man who would never speak no foolishness like this.. ladies feel free to date marry and love whoever is is willing to love you in return…..
I have been married to my Black husband for 40 years. Vast majority of women in my family are also married to good Black men. They do exist but are hard to find. Sad but many Black men (under 50) do not value good Black women today but will settle for "anything" not Black.
Omg! Girl I’m jealous😩I’m becoming obsessed with Arab men recently. With most of them, money is not an issue. No struggle 50/50, light bill nonsense and they are fine AF😍
My bro is getting cooked in these comments by pretty much 70% of the people... The self-hatred in Stockholm syndrome is real with this one...what a shame
@@barrybradsher5531Statistically speaking that used to be the case. Now Black Women are dating outside and no longer waiting on Black Men who statistically don’t want to get married.
Times have changed... Obviously. It's perfectly okay to learn, change, and apply your lessons. Our attitude is attached to our frustration of being with broke Dusty Men. Take the dust out of the equation and the attitude seems to go bye bye, and that's a FACT according to the stats concerning BW/WM unions unions...
Why are you picking these men you can't separate who you are from who you with and why you can't get another race of man and if you did why did you come back to bm
@@user-ws2fj6ie9u that's bc 86% of bw is trash and stop comparing women to men we don't get pregnant so who should be worrying more about picking better oh I forget bw don't care about the kids they care about government assistance and section 8
Ladies it’s okay to date outside your race. Racial loyalty is just a segment of patriarchy. Men worry about what we do because we are the only ones who can keep their version of a male going so every race of male pushes race loyalty on women. Without women’s race loyalty they can’t claim to be the top male at this or that. It’s all bull. We’re all humans from different regions.
I meet a lot of men from other races that want black women. I have heard black women say that with other men they feel like they dont be that strong black woman and dont have to argue with their non black spouse because they ate better providers, communicators, lovers and supportive. I have to agree because talking to and respecting black men has gotten me no where. I try to be sympathetic of their feelings but i get shut down. I meet way more black men with nasty attitudes then black women with attitudes.
....lmao blk women are to funny no matter what yall do its blk men fault🤣🤣 example yall will date 5 black thugs then date outside the race and pick a NORMAL man then say "see blk men were the issue" 🤣🤣moron you are the issue you refuse to date normal blk men ...lust over thugs...then convinced urself b.m were the issue after dating a normal stable white man .....of course it will work BEC HE IS NORMAL DUHHH if u dated a normal b.m you would have same outcome
and i can use many more examples 🤣🤣 blk women are the cause of each problem in blk community and i can prove it 100% nobody can refute any of my claims on the matter
Want sexually. My business partner is white and "dates" alot of black women. By date I mean sleeps with alot of black women. I'm actually shocked at how many he gets. He said they're by far the easiest to sleep with if you're white and they see money. I've seen him 1 night so many it would make your head spin. He makes it a point to go by his condo with them before any date starts. He already has a nice car. He said they get sold with the illusion after seeing those things and start thinking they've hit the jackpot. He sleeps with them and then on to the next. I asked why he doesn't be with any of them exclusively because some are fine and seem intelligent. He said he couldn't bring them home to his family. I hadn't even thought about that side. A white mother is way less accepting of their son dating a black woman. Even white women that date black men try to push their sons away from black women. I've seen it personally.
@@MaleficHumanShit is wild they consistently turn down the stable black men call them lame, corny and boring then they'll date a man of a different race with the same damn qualities as the black men they constantly turned down! These women are stuck on stupid and it's time for us to move on.
And sadly for BM the way these WM are snatching up black women is scary.... ladies don't believe the lies this guy is spewing... if you want a good black man they are out there I just pray he finds you before Chad does 😅..lol its real out here I pulled up to a nice restaurant on a Saturday night to grab some food to go and the car I pulled up to had a handsome couple (black woman , white man) then as I'm walking in another interracial couple come walking out (white man, black woman) lastly as I was inside I spotted another white man with a black woman on a date (and I live in a prestigious area so these weren't unequipped men and women)... long story short as I walked out I saw a black couple and the way I passed a silent sigh of relief..lol ( I don't mind interracial dating and I understand why black women are being selected by these men but it was also nice to see our own...lol... peace and love
*GOOOO* WE Don’t want You here Take Your KIDS with you or drop em at they daddy houseS 😂 BM just need to see the 3-4 decent BW left but y’all hiding them in the back
Mam, Blk Women have been dating out, that's never been the issue. Their issue is Most Men of other races do not prefer Blk Women as their first choice for marraige 😂😂😂. Everybody knows this but Blk Women
And lots of those Black men are dying alone in care facilities alone! No wife, no fiancé, no brother, no sister, no mom and no dad, no friends or acquaintances all alone. So, what did that 6 figures, college degree, own home, no baby mommas, etc. When in that facility, I am sure he wished he had a child, a baby momma or wife, someone to call his own to talk to, comfort him, listen to him and hold his hand. All those materialistic things is nothing when you are sick; then you realise what are the most important things in life.
@@neutraliserjaninethat's the men you choose what about dealing with a bw insecurities,fears and past trauma bc they mom didn't protect her as a child maybe bw need to talk to her uncle or uncle's or older brother and her mom for allowing it to happen
so now you are representative of men's opinion from other races? she has every right not to want to date a black guy like you but when you choose to attack her just because of her choise and try to act like representative of men from other race, it says a lot about your character.
Or it says how little You research anything.. CDC statistics say BW marry out *Less than* 1% in America.. & How often do y’all make it to 24 without bastards?? 🧐 Still tryna find those numbers but in general black women are mothers before the average man is financially stable.. Why pay tripple price (marriage) for a car with 3owners & 2Accidents? Y’all are not gonna find the next Russel 😂
Not saying he's right about BM and BW but addressing the issues of what led to her being in the situation she's in he's right about that. Before you potentially bash me about how a guy mistreating a woman is her fault no its a 50/50 thing. Why because check this out. If a person is punching you in the face that never used to punch you in the face would you still want to be around that person once you found out they have no problems inflicting physical harm on anybody. Unless you love being a punching bag I strongly believe you would have the common sense to run and get away from the person before those punches end up being something more severe. See he's wrong for abusing her yes. He deserves to be locked up, but in the mean time your goal is to live a peaceful non harmful life as possible, which brings me to the other half. Why would you choose to still want to be around that knowing he saw you as nothing but a punching bag instead of treating you right. Mind you this is the same guy you picked to be your partner over somebody who never hit a woman I day in his life. Which is the good dude you probably 9/10 friendzoned because he didn't fit your hot girl checklist. See how all that works. To take it a step further as to why these kind of modern day women need to be held accountable is because who was accountable or responsible for taking care of her when she was single full blown adult with bills, rent, a house or an apartment. She is as in she's responsible for taking care of herself. That's like saying if you are hungry you are responsible for feeding yourself. Are you gonna let yourself starve? Or try to get yourself something to eat. Key word "Yourself" meaning only you, nobody else. This is why people like this need to be held accountable because everybody seems to forget that initially we are responsible to taking care of ourselves first and foremost regardless of who you are. That's the point he's making. Play crazy games you win crazy prizes.
Other races are realizing what they’re doing. They want other races to hate us. Black women, don’t listen to this mess. Date out if necessary. Go where you’re appreciated.
Well it’s good to know how BM as a whole feel about their own BW.. the only race to divine and destroy their own.. he just painted all BW with one paint brush and continue to champion the issue among us.. as if the BM are flawless..
Nobody claimed we’re flawless but what y’all hate is the *Truth!* Sorry to 💩 in your hot chocolate but these are Stats from the CDC. If it’s not a black man less than 1% (of Anybody) will marry You & You’ve *ALL* by proxy of the sisterhood Destroyed how we see You! “Not All” is fine any dandy until I poison Half your water bottles.. Stay Thirsy My friends 😂😂
@@tessy28they really should I’ve been saying this for a while blk men don’t like bw unless they are light and brown skin or completely non blk marriage rates show that even when blk men marry blk women it goes in that order light, brown and dark skin bw last. Not to mention the lengths they will go to disparage bw image and defeminize us and create trends where colorism and racism have a way in to attack bw so no the gaslighting methods used by y’all is wearing off
I’m a black woman and I don’t have an attitude lol. Actually a black man I dated who’s never dated a black woman before me said that I seem like I’m always in a good mood as if that annoyed him lmao. I swear some black men are actually racist toward black women. Like what’s with the unsolicited hate
@@jamesjackson2105 college graduate? Then u should also hate when people give their “educated- unsolicited” advice to people who wants a education, GOOFY!!
I’m a black women who gets hit on by every race, the difference between black men and women is we just don’t enjoy being fetishized so we usually don’t go for those men
This is not true! BW dating and marrying outside the race ALL the time! Sadly, many are still sitting around waiting for a Black man because they don’t want to date outside when PLENTY of other men WILL date and marry them. Black women are extremely beautiful and a lot of White men or other races are afraid to approach them for fear of rejection. I will say this, some Black women can come across as icy and that’s a problem for all races of men.
Why tf should grown ass women listen to you and no wonder why most white and non bm don’t approach some of y’all or even black men don’t approach y’all it ain’t about y’all rejecting them it’s about how y’all reject men that’s what make men not wanna approach y’all and some white dudes and non black dudes gotta act like black men and dress like black men dress and sag they pants just to get a black woman black women love that shit majority of black women don’t date other races of men unless they have our swag/tattoos/jewelry/Jordan’s and our accent.
This is facts bt I always dated outside my race since I was little so it’s no problem for me and (I don’t act as they say white) & they love it and me 😂❤
I'm one that's waiting. I've been proposed to once by a Hispanic that was my boyfriend at the time. I turned him down cause I want to fully settle down with a black man... but it's looking like I'll never get married if I want to get married by a black man. The commitment to black women isn't there. Black men don't wanna look at themselves- their self hate. They put other race women on a pedestal and go above and beyond just so she can do him "like a black woman", divorce, alimony/child support. Black women and men are fetishized but black men see it as an accomplishment but will down us when we're been treated and looked at the same lol. I've said this on another post: black people compete to be the best of the worst. Do they know how other race women feel about black men. They look dumb out here.
@@akinazarawe already are 😂 bw are divesting and it’s obvious. They just haven’t caught on to what’s happening yet. We are tired of their mess and the delusion. Now they’re over their dragging white women down 😮
I was just thinking that too. It’s ridiculous at this point. It’s like black men are begging black women to put them out of their misery and stop giving birth to them. They are upset because we won’t stop their existence.
I came to the comments bracing myself for the number of comments celebrating and encouraging this man to speak more about this. I’m so glad I’m pleasantly surprised. There are rational men left in this world. ❤
I am a BW married to a WM for 17 years now. I guess my husband didn't get the memo that I was undesired. Also BW married to WM have the lowest divorce rates of all IR marriages and BM married to WW have the highest divorce rates of all IR marriages. I know several BW who are dating/marrying outside of their race and I live in the South not sure how many are doing so outside of the South but its not as rare as this guy is trying to make people believe. I am not always on social media but there are tons of BW married to WM and non BM right here on youtube.
Right I am literally one of them and I know many bw like myself that are marrying and dating out. This uneducated and ignorant tool is such an embarrassment to BM.
It’s not that black men don’t want black women please stop with the generalizations..black men don’t want a certain type of black women … All black women are not like we see on the internet and media …..BUT IF YOU FEED INTO THAT NARRATIVE and only focus your attention on thoose types of women …that’s what you will believe Notice how the media does everything to expose the ignorant black women but gives no praise and totally ignores the good black women Similar to how men say “she ignores the good guys and goes for the bad boys “ There is enough going around about ignorant black women but it seems like black media likes to use them as talking points to feed into more negative narratives
As a black 27yr old clinical psychologist, I'd say the group of black women you are referring to can't represent black women in general because they are anecdotal. Exceptions don't make the rule. Generalities are how we determine the overall facts. EX: We would consider a plane dangerous if passengers had a 25% chance of survival. And even YOU wouldn't ride it. Most black women are single mothers and according to the US Department of Health and Human services, single mothers are more likely to abuse and neglect their children. 80% of women initiate divorce (break up the home) within this number the black divorce ranks the highest among other races: 30.8 Black women are the only women who fight with their men in public and glorify single motherhood. Over 74% of black kids are BORN to no father in the home which means "queen" spread her legs to the wrong man and he was gone before the child was even here. Black women in the US weigh more that any woman of any other race INCLUDING actual African female immigrants, despite the unhealthy western diet. Instead of getting offended, take responsibility for your "black queens" and try and be the exception. Don't defend foolishness.
@@MarkelBeverley who is glorifying single motherhood ?? Where is this and how is it expressed ?? I just find it funny how men talk about single motherhood without mentioning the fathers as if the fathers had little to no role in creating a single mother …
@@MarkelBeverley again this is systemic..I’m not Defending the behavior but what we have is a group of men who complain about the behavior without understanding why it is the way it is I’m sure your knowledgeable in generational curses right ??? So understand that….
@@MarkelBeverley it’s almost as if black men hold black women accountable for their fathers uncles and forefathers for walking out the homes …. If you wanna better understand where I stand on this watch the dr Umar cover with “Six the goddiss” Then you will understand…..black men complain about these issues yet…dont promote anything healthy to help cure the issues …. It’s very individualistic….. You cannot ignore the fact that young black boys and girls are given the wrong negative messages in our communities and by black men not doing anything at at….nothing happens I’m not saying black women don’t have our own issues ….. But instead of focusing on this issue at hand ….it seems as though you tailored off into trying to prove why YOU already feel black women are of lower value instead of addressing the issue with the media… If your stance is good black women aren’t the rule …then good black men aren’t the rule either ..is this what we are putting out …??? No It’s not that they aren’t the rule …it’s that the media dosent leave space for the good to be seen and spread ..because negativity SELLS not only to our pockets but our emotions … The agenda is not to come as a collective and highlight our good …. “The art of war “…conquer and divide….and it’s working really well…systems are at play and agendas are being driven …but most people don’t look at that and find solutions more than they whine and complain and about the opposite gender ….if we got out of our feelings and put some real action and work in our communities we would strive …starting with the children ….. Black men and black women are hurting as and adopted a “save myself “ attitude…. And what’s worse is we absolutely hate when our egos are being checked at the door …especially by the opposite gender . …. this “podcast era “ is nothing but internet “frat groups “…this is really what our young men have doubled down too
Actually since we're trying to be honest here, as a white man I have thought about dating black women, and the more I thought about it the more I came to the realization that it's not the black women that make me not want to date them. It's their male relatives that make me not want to get involved in the whole extended family experience. I feel the black men would make me feel less welcomed than the black women. Not sure if that's an irrational thought and feeling, but its where I currently am in my head space.
You honestly just have to ignore them. Don't let that stop you. My Polish fiance adores me, i'm Nigerian and he has taken me to Poland many times. I'm literally the love of his life. His family love me too. The people who are truly important will be happy for you. I wish you luck.😊
I encourage you to date black women if that what your heart desires. Statistics show that black women and white men have the best and longest relationships across the board of all relationships (interracial and non interracial). Also some of us black women come from good families that are nothing like the disrespectful clown who made this video and the ones agreeing with him. Especially those of us from Caribbean and African cultures. The stats don’t lie we make the best couples: ruclips.net/video/sQQbw9w_u1Y/видео.htmlsi=JOvLWciUPYkhKYr9
Hmm it's funny cause I'm actually shying away from dating my own countrymen from the same reason. For context I'm black , but I live in Africa, and I really don't like the way the perfect african wife is expected to be so subservient , silent , pliable , a pushover etc etc... I have been taught this for years by my own mother , who frequently reminds me of how my future husband's relatives would blame me and her for any mistakes... That's why I'm thinking of dating outside now , I have witnessed it myself and do not want to have that cultural experience from my in-laws. Men are treated like kings just for being male , as compared to women who have all these impossible standards to live up to in order to be considered good wives and mothers.
The gag is my white and Latina friends have the worst attitudes 😂 I’m constantly telling them to be more respectful to their man. Since everyone has a phone with a camera they want to broadcast their 2 cents. Date and marry the man who loves and respects you.
Haven’t you noticed it’s always black men (and sometimes women) telling black women that other races of men don’t want them? Ladies, seriously, can you name or send me at least 5 videos of non black men telling block women they don’t want them? You’ll have a better chance of finding multiple videos of black men saying non black men don’t want you than you would find an equal amount of videos of non black men saying they don’t want you LOL
@@adangerousmind357 I was going to say the same thing. You can easily see from statistics. Plus just podcast in general where BW have said themselves that they feel the least desired.
@@adangerousmind357Yes that is true. We are statistically the least desired. Nobody should be arguing with that. Facts are facts. However, I don't believe it's solely because we're black. An attractive woman is an attractive woman you know? I think we just have a lot against us. Like 80% of us are overweight or obese, and most men of other races aren't into that. We're also known for being aggressive/attitude, and again, most men aren't digging it. They want feminine and submissive, which is what Asian women are known for and I believe that's the reason why they are the most desired.
@@ranip7644 Most of y’all overlook the fact that you’ve been aggressive to majority of BM since 1st grade.. it’s called *Trauma* & non-BM observe what We *experience* They know you don’t discriminate between destructive & productive BM when expressing Your hatred so why would You because their skin color changed? (Just my evaluation from conversations)
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
As an aside Black Relationships still continue to be produced between Black Men and Black Women. As a matter of fact there are far more "Intercultural Relationships" taking place between Blacks from different Cultural backgrounds, as opposed to Interracial Relationships. Oh, just a reminder to you jaded Black brothers, MOST of us OTHER Black Men prefer Black Women, just saying, it's a fact.
Sir, black men understand this. They are no longer willing to accept poor behavior from the black women they encounter. I have been married to a black woman for 30 years. I still would not want to have many black men coupled with some of the available women out there. We can still love black women while understanding the plight of the world.
I'm more attracted to black women than I am to white, Asian, or Indian women, but they often begin to chat with me, then disappear if I show them the real me. This is true of most women not Latinas, but I don't have much access to them. 💯
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I'm a latin man with a black caribbean woman who is the best thing to ever happen to me. No wonder why black women are seeking other races of men, we don't defame and demoralize women we're with. Please stop speaking for other races of men when you don't know how to treat your own women right.
Notice what you just said bro... CARRIBEAN woman, not African American woman. He's talking about American Black women and their attitudes and personalities is what he's talking about men not being attracted to.
Awesome❤!
@@RobotRebelCinema right you are there's a difference
@@RobotRebelCinema BM been embarrassing Black diaspora for ages
@@RobotRebelCinema it could actually be the type of BW that are in your environment. But those stereotypes don’t apply to every American black woman. But, of course you won’t acknowledge that. And before you even say it, yes I am aware I am not even close to being attractive enough for a black man. I’m
far to dark and don’t like the right stuff. Which is why I don’t mind dating and marrying the man that appreciates, values, and loves me. And I’m happy in that.
This is weird. My wife is blk and im mexican, i prefer blk wm, but i dont look down on or talk shit about hispanic women. Why do i see blk men doing this all the time? I seriously don't get it. If you don't like them, just move on, why the damn public service announcement?
😄 you're mexican tho black women prefer white men
@@rc3nyc ANYONE but a BM is best
Because they hope that other races follow them when in reality other races of men think for themselves
They are mad at their moms! 😂😂😂
Because they don’t wanna see other men of different races love us the way they refuse to. This is their last tactic to make us seem undesirable, lying on the Internet. Lol
I'm white and i damn sure don't need or want a BM speaking for me..
I love BW . 😂😂 they're top tier women imo.
Doesn't get better than a BW
I'm arab. Couldn't agree more 😂😂
Bc they like your looks & you get more bang for buck with wytte skin as a maIe💀
@@Mew2Win or maybe it's because we just TREAT OUR women better as a whole?
It's pretty well known us WM and other races have staying power and we take care of our women and children..
@@iapetusmiller9509 that’s them rationalizing their euqenik nature.
Same way azn vvomen dislike their own men the most, even tho they have higher lQs on avg, and out earn wytte men on avg in the usa.
All bc azn men are the least dimorphicaIIy Iooking men
@@iapetusmiller9509 thank you… they’ll never understand that!
As a white women its honesty sad how BM treat BW
And women of other races that they date...💔
It’s sad how badly your own men treat you!
It's self-hatred. They think they're in a better situation with the women of the men who have power. Black women have supported black men thru the darkest times, and now we're no good because social media says we aren't.
Love, we still live in a white supremacist society - this is a white capitalist state.
White women know black men are insecure, and they're monetizing off the rich ones.
I was in a Twitter space listening to a black athlete say white coaches and trainers link the up with white, arab, and Latina women - all former colonizers.
It's a way to siphon money out of our community and depopulate our race.
Europeans and white Americans witnessed a decline in their population.
Millions of Congolese dying and multiple wars in black countries aren't happening for no reason. It's white survival.
Black male leaders worldwide are maintaining the oppression of their own ppl to be in the company of whiteness.
Google the wives African leaders - many have white wives. Look at black Republicans's wives. Black men are soft and easily manipulated. They resent black women for our strength and perseverance.
Thank you. Because they’re still confused as to why we are choosing more and more to stay away. We are exhausted defending ourselves to every other group for one reason or another when we don’t bother anyone & we are the FIRST to stand up for someone or protest or March. WE JUST WANT TO BE LOVED!
Seeking validation
As a middle eastern man , ive never had a problem with black women. I recently got engaged to a jamaican woman.
The worse shithouse possible I'm from Jamaica and while good woman are everywhere Jamaican culture is so acidic it spills over on everybody all walks of life.
He’s really talking about black American women not just black women in general and congrats on getting engaged
@@Language_guy100 black America women are fire🔥
They're damn good women as a. Majority collective. Competent smart self sufficient beautiful STRONG Educated..
You can't get better than bw.
@@Language_guy100 wdym?
bw in America are BOSS ladies.
Why WOULDN'T other races want them?
I'm arab myself and I prefer BW.
Just something about BW. Hard to describe but they're really good women
I'm not a Black girl and I have no idea how this ended up on my feed, I think black women are absolutely gorg
Most non-black men don’t find Black women attractive
@@pinheadlarry4538 Who cares? Go outside dusty mf.
@@COOKIEM260cry
Hahahahaha embarrassing
You look like Pocahontas
Are the passports delayed? Aren’t y’all supposed to be gone already?
🤷🏽♀️ I’ve been asking this since last year
*best comment
The majority of them can't afford or qualify for a passport. 😂
YES… I thought they were gone already!! Like, HOW long is it gonna take!!
They can’t afford it, the kangz gotta do pay installments 😭😭
As a Samoan man, we've never had a problem with Black women.
You don't know black history. It comes from their mothers. We know not all of them act a fool
That’s cause they the same size as yall 😂 black men not big as Samoan men 😂
WHAT IF BLACK WOMEN AND MEN CAN PROCREATE WITH ALL RACES AND WE HOLD NO LEGION TO EACH OTHER. WHAT IF WE ARE BOTH GOD AND WE’RE JUST MENTALLY BOXED IN (ENSLAVED) TO THINK THAT MAKING BROWN MORE PURE HAD ANY PURPOSE, LIKE COLORS OF PAINT, YOU JUST GET MORE BROWN. GOD (whoever he is to you should have unconditional love and is not racist if he is good) YOU GOD (if good) SHOULD NOT CARE WHO WE CHOOSE TO LOVE. IF YOUR GOD CARES ABOUT SKIN COLOR, YOUR GOD IS THE DEVIL. “SATAN IS THE AUTHOR OF CONFUSION.”
DON’T BE WEAPONIZED BY WHITE PPL, THEY WILL STILL PLACE THEMSELVES BEFORE US ALL THE TIME, ALL THE CHANCE THEY GET.
TRUE EMPOWERMENT COMES FROM GOD/FROM WITHIN.
TRUE EMPOWERMENT COME FROM NOTHING. POWER IS A WEAPON AND ITS NOT IN OUT NATURE TO LOVE/WANT/NEED POWER.
WE HAD SPEARE AND ARROWS. WE NEVER MADE “THE GUN” OR “NUCLEAR BOMBS”. THEY ARE GOING TO KILL US ALL WHEN WE FINALLY CHPOSE TO FULL DROWN THEM OUT AND WPRK TOGETHER.
THEY ARE USING THE INTERNET TO MONITOR & MONETIZE OUR EVERY MOVE.
SPEND TIME ALONE AND OFF THE WEB. ITS NOT FOR YOUR PERSONAL LIFE. THE INTERNET IS JUST ANOTHER REALM OF CONTROL.
As a black woman I love you back❤
Well marry them then !!!! Why aren't yal marrying them at a high rate ? That's how we judge if you really want them PERIOD
The attitude will disappear once she's with a real man.
@@Vigilante.Era666not a BLACK BOY like yourself 😂😂
Black dudes don’t even know what a man is!!!😂
Preach! Lol. They will never understand this notion.
The most racist thing I ever heard in my life
L o l the "attitude" is just her telling him to get a job and vacuum the floor 🤣
@@Vigilante.Era666a man who isn’t black.
If you don’t want BW, why do you care who else does?
I don’t
It’s not that he doesn’t want BW he’s hurt that BW never choose him…. I used to be a BW that always choose white men because I have more in common with them they are more open to the things I like vs the typical POC…. But lately I’m starting to notice that black ppl in general are fetishes to other races…. This dude is just talking nonsense he’s hurt
@@CosplayMukbang-xm5rt Dude looks like he’ll get more women then you would hater 😂😂😂
First of all I’m a woman…. So stop typing in ur hurt feelings talking bout “dude would get more women than me” I’d fucking hope so.@@TheNightGoblin
@@CosplayMukbang-xm5rt idgaf who you is nigga go get yo husband
I'm white and i love black women, stop your hate toward bw
💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Thank you ❤
Why can’t you black males just marry your snow bunnies and leave us alone, WHY???
Insecurities
Facts. They always got our names in their mouths. 😅😅 Like boy we don’t gaf.
@@OldheadRoy43 ladies once again this is how black men feel remmber tho your not the problem their self hate is.
@@OldheadRoy43 won't u go date a becky then?
@@madisonatior4414 its not about dating. I just wouldn't protect any black woman if I saw them being harmed. Obviously from all im reading its not worth putting my life on the line for y'all
The highest rates of marriage Instability applies to when we marry black males only
Facts. BW and WM have the lowest divorce rates out of everyone.
Statistically that's false being that black women are the most demographic and bm have lower divorce rates with other women. These stats yall quote have been debunked. Black women dont last awith anyone
Chick just say u love yo slave master tbis the second comment I see u on u must be triggered . No other races of men are saving you guys loook at the statistic black women are the least desired of women on this planet , y’all do not have the room or options to be hating your race of men
@@tf_u_talking_about I was just about to say dat lol. They date and marry out at such high rate but they failure rate doubles.
But when bw do the same their marriage rate doubles and our failure rate is cut in half 🤔 now tell me who is really the problem 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yet you are least married of all groups. Even bm are more married than bw 😂😂😂😂
We as black men gotta get our shit together as a collective before we start point out flaws in others.
Exactly. We all have work to do but these divisive and calculated videos aren’t helping.
like how is it that slaves are this bold? these blk enslaved men feel so entitled its giving highly delusional
Facts 🙏🏾
No group as a collective has their shit together, so stop it
@@saints0931 Right, black men are the biggest simps that ever existed on the face of earth!
Im white with a black wife, maybe it’s not always the ladies fault man, maybe it’s a skill issue my dude lol
So u think because u have a black wife you’re better than black men this is why swirling should be banned in our community 🤣
Black man do have the swag or the skill to get a black woman . What they don’t know how to do is keep them.
Black men do have the skills to get a black woman. What they don’t know how to do is how to be respectful and loyal to them.
I remembered when i was a teenager, no black women wanted to date me. I was short, fat and they called me ugly. Until i started changing myself and image. I better my life and met a Japanese woman that treated me like a human being. When i brought her back to the states and rhey saw how well i treated her and changed my image, they started to try and get with me after they had baggages and kids. I dont hate black women, i just dont like what they become. Sad part, they are being lied too, saying a guy needs to be tall, have money, thuggish. When they open their eyes, it's too late for them. The good men have moved on.
You speaking on behalf of millions of black woman. Plus your relationship not 20+ years anyone can knock out 5 years…
Personally, pretty much all my Black female friends who are married are married to a non-Black man (including me). Never ever ever had problems getting non-Black men to commit. It’s funny when men try to tell women who isn’t hitting on or committing them.😂
So true. Them thinking that they have more options than WOMEN......
😂😂😂
That's just in your circle. But largely, bw are not desired. If they get lucky, GREAT 👍🏽! But that sucks for whoever was dumb enough 😅😅
That’s the minority tho. How many non black men do you think is out here looking for black women? Your personal experience don’t got nothing to do with everyone else.
@@essiethebestie1We do?
The vast majority of black women will never get married anyone to commit. 80% have bastard children. 64% gave multiple baby daddies. BW had over a million more bastard children with non black men, than black men had with non black women. The problematic black men and women are almost raised by single black women.
I love seeing messages like this-it doubles down on my stance as to why I don’t allow black men to be in my dating pool of preference as a young, childfree 26y/o woman. Keep telling us how you feel-and I promise you we will keep listening 👍🏾
I didn’t know they still made Bw without kids 😂
@@adangerousmind357 wait until you find out we also don’t want to be married 😨
@@babyg7796 sure.. & I don’t wanna win the lottery! Y’all giving up on it & not wanting it is two different things
@@adangerousmind357 a lot of us literally don’t want it…why is that shocking? Most mothers and married women are miserable-therefore we do not WANT it, nor am I actively pursing it so…
@@babyg7796but y’all want babies out of wedlock🙄 I know not having your ass kissed is hard and hearing the ugly truth about urself is even harder so instead of being a better person to become desirable , you try to convince yourself you don’t want a husband. Yea okay….sour grapes
But if a Latina and white girls have the same "attitudes" it's somehow magically okay.
White girls don't have an attitude as much as a black woman 😹, Latinas are close but don't act that way the majority of the time
Latinas and white girls can have the same attitudes but the majority of them don’t. It’s a cultural problem even you have to admit that. Me being raised in a predominantly black neighborhood all my life then experiencing the world its a pretty obvious fact. Aggression has literally been burned into the culture.
@@Infec7ed923 your antidotal story is not the general population nor does it represent it. Silly asf
@@KenKillyou miss the part where @Infec7ed923 mentioned it was a cultural problem.
@@maestromitch5534 so because he said it , I’m suppose to change my opinion?🤡 on what I believe is right?
Bruh do you have your own mind?
You say all of this as if black men aren’t the least married and first divorced amongst the men….
You’ve never looked it up Obviously! *All other* races of women (as a group) get married at a higher rate (per year) than they get divorced.. BW are Literally the *Only one’s* who get divorced more than married.. and if yall want us to be so Pro-Whack 🧐 wouldn’t that mean BW bring our numbers down by default?? 😴
Girl keep exposing them❤
Crazy how our interracial marriage & dating numbers are sky rocketing compared to the black woman whom isn’t picking up steam with any race 😂
@@JKingston-tq5ip it’s also crazy how they’re divorcing yall faster than they’re marrying yall…
@@JKingston-tq5ip this is also false. More black women are dating outside of their race
He basically said BM are trash but no other men want BW so you got to settle for a BM. This is BS these young Black women are dating out and they are not finding it hard . My niece and two of my friends daughters are married to White men.When I was young I hung out with a diverse group of people and wherever I went Latin ,Asian and White men would ask me out.
But I was about Black empowerment and Black love. I finally realize BM do not want to level up they want you to date down.
Where are the men now?. You think people dont see your attitude problem. Your men dont want you, why would other races of men do?
@@hebrewgodisrael1746 Exactly
Black women are the ones complaining when it comes to dating so idk where you got the part that they aren’t finding it hard. THEN DROP THE SUBJECT AND LET BM DATE WHO THEY WANT
@@jontrellolandoit's actually you Blk males crying on podcasts and displaying your loneliness and desperation for the world to see
@@jontrellolandocommenting that mess on this video is profoundly tonedeaf. You are the ones not allowing bw to date out without complaining about it.
The Black American woman is the most hated yet the most imitated indiviual on earth. She is God's Chosen.
How And y'all glue someone else hair on yo head?
@@mouthpeace916😂😂😂 they tell themselves this nonsense
@@lmaostrnoob they don't wanna be like them they only listen to rap music cuz they like us they are fascinated by niggas
Yea spending billions a year to wear Indian hair weave. Stop it. Ain’t nobody imitating y’all except ignorant wiggers
@@mouthpeace916*sighs*
It's always the dustiest, mustiest, crustiest, rustiest of the dusties, musties, crusties and rusties talking trash.😂
Stop speaking on black women's hair knowing good and well that black men literally be putting so much gel on their hair to get waves like Europeans.
So bw and bm competing over who can date out more . Lmfao what a joke and embarrassing 😂
So pathetic
They'll continue to mix till they go extinct
@@Michelle-ol7iobvv need todye
@@GodHimself-bp3xw meaning?
This is in black men's heads. Black women don't care. Black. only competes with his own women, not other men because he's weak,
I could be wrong, but I think this is only American bw and bm. because if you go to other countries and seen the world not all Black people act like this… Especially in Africa.
Y’all got to stop listening to EFFEMINATES… like this man
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I am a black woman and I found that man and he is Norwegian tall with blue eyes 😻
Expecting our first child ❤️
Slay gurl🎉
Congratulations! 🥳🎊🎉 Your baby is going to be so cute 🥰
@@MizzPrecious92 for some reason Iont think You’d have the same energy for a black man with a Norwegian woman 🧐
@@adangerousmind357If they happy I sure would
Ur child will look nothing like u.
Born from a Black mom Russian dad here and married to an Italian.
Have you ever dated black man ?
My ex was Russian. He liked to talk about how cute our babies would have been lol.
Mila is a pretty name ❤
@@misspretty301 no
FYI there are a lot of men from different races who date and marry black women. Perhaps part of the problem is your attitude!
Stop it
Yes I agree bw have to fix their attitudes and get in shape if they want a non bm. They also have to treat him like the prize.
There are very few men of other races checking for such over opinionated selfish women.
Its just fetish.wait till the goeniegoegoe comes out😂
@@rayjones1113 not all the time. Plus why don't you worry about the women who fetishize you over men who fetishize us.
I agree that people have to choose better. But why don’t we talk about this in reverse. Do you know how many black men have ignore the “good” black women? I’ve had black boys/men not want to talk to me because my hair is natural, because I wear glasses, because I liked video games, because I don’t like rap, because I talk like a chick from the burbs,because I don’t wear Jordans, because I’m in bed by 9.. etc. But will prefer a quote on quote loud mouth light skin or Latina women. Then complain women ain’t shit. It goes both ways but you never hear about it. Black people period need to choose better. Men do the same thing.
Exactly 🤷
It’s true. I had a black man say he wish i was more gangsta 😂 well i guess I’m not for you hun x
@hc7092 they literally want you to be guard dogs for the cause. It's so gross at this point that I consider them 💩 consuming pets for ytes. They are so bih made they're literally looking for lez bos to defend them and I'm not with the gross unaccountability of YOUR manhood🤡. And now if you think about it, you can expect them to throw you under the bus repeatedly so have at it. All they are is treachery and they can enjoy their sewer status🤮🔥.
Man stop the cap just say the guys u wanted didn’t want u back
THIS!!!!!!!! I have been saying this for years! Black men ("good guys" and "bad boys" alike) completely ignore the good black girl/woman because she may be a bit introverted and more conservative in her style/fashion choice, and pretend that she doesn't exist...just to turn around and say that there are no good women anymore and that "all women are (fill in the blank with a derogatory name)" just because they won't take personal accountability for the fact that they've been choosing the wrong type of woman and/or chasing the "bad girl/baddie" stereotype, but they never hesitate to get up in arms about BW "dating pookies and ray rays" when they are doing the exact same thing but in reverse!
these be the same mfs who be like “wHy dOn’T bLaCk wOmEn lIkE mE” 💀
Who do you ever see saying that?
@@JoshB_ “wHo dO yOu eVer sEe sAyIng ThAt”
@@JoshB_ who do you see asking “why don’t black men like me” 🤨🤨💀
@@hearts4me567_ I can post links lol
@@JoshB_ then post them tf don’t just say it 🙄🙄
I'm a black woman in my late 20s and my wonderful husband of 8 years is white.. prior to him i dated a korean man. Bw a lot of us need to move away from this "hood" mentality and truly embrace the soft life. My own black father and grandfather told me years ago. I will never get that "soft lifestyle" if i marry within the black community. Other races of men love us and not just for sex.
EDIT: I see a lot of black WIVES in the " black wife effect trend" but we're 1 in 4 to marry so 🤷. Sistas go where you're loved and appreciated. Because men are alway going to want you. Don't listen to the propaganda that you're unwanted.
U didn't even have to leave the black community all together tbh. I'm talking to well dating a nigerian man from Lagos it's like night and day. Plus they look better are smarter hardworking can cook and have this accent when the speak the English language.... 1st of all its proper English and 2 gurrrrrllll it's so sexy 😂😂😂😂😂😂
You black father and grand father were both self hating raccoons . What if ur mother thought that way about ur dad? A white man here just killed his entire family. Value isn’t determined by race. Love who you want but save the generalizations and self hatred speech. There are plenty of decent BM
@@daijourcalloway998you don’t get it not all of us want to date bm. There more for you though
@@Hadda23 lol ik I was just stating an observation. Your preferences are your preferences and u are allowed to have that right. Everyone is different. I personally love bm. I don't like white or Asian men 😕 I would get me a Puerto Rican Dominican or other afro Hispanic man but that's as far as I go. More for u I guess lol 😆 just like more for me. Moral of the story bw don't need to be trapped by the notion of black love or thar all we can get is bm so why bother with anything else. And just do what makes us happy.
For me that's a nigerian for you that's your white husband.
@@Hadda23not all Black men want bw so so so win win win😂😂
Why isn’t he happily married to a nonblack women then and happy???????
Who said that? I've dated foreign foreign men of other races and they all Love me, treat me like a Queen, and Asked me to marry them. Yall be hating because yall cant keep up, man up or provide for your families like they can.
Nah y'all go over there with different attitudes.
You treat people how they treat you.
@cleantheplatejames3648 Black women r not a monolith. 🙄
@@ethioluv1dalluS wtf are you talking about
@cleantheplatejames3648 Am I using words too big for u? Look it up. 🙄
It’s always black women with attitude, but other race of women have attitudes and it’s not frowned upon. Spicy Latinas, white women get a pass for their attitude and their part in slavery. Oook This stigma about black women is getting old.
It's not a stigma it's a fact and there's a difference between the majority which most black women have an attitude to a minority of women in other groups.
@@dred9174 So not true. All women have attitudes ... Black men in IR relationships should stop lying and pretending their lives/wives are "perfect" with other women because it is not. Maybe they are just willing to work harder to stay with that person because that is what they want.
@@bria1660 who said it is perfect it's better but not perfect. Black American women are the only women who have bad attitudes and take pride in being difficult. I see why so many black American men are looking for black women across the Diaspora.
BW literally have higher testosterone... Far more of them had these attitude problems.
@@bria1660BW literally have higher testosterone... Far more of them had these attitude problems.
This is a fact that you can't face.
BM the most "desired" men in the galaxy please go. As the days continue less and less BW care and their investment into BM is decreasing by the second.
Don’t let the door hit y’all on the way out 😂
The irony of this statement is BM leaves to go explore other options and BW has a problem with that.
The sad part is, its a simple fix, both BM and BW need to stop treating each other like enemies, pick better partners out of the group while rejecting the negative stereotypes. If we did that, this mess would never happen and everyone would be in a better place across the board
@@D2OFFICIALRUclipsnah them divorce rates hitting black men harder
@@marilainedictan4851 That’s a good thing😅no men in this society should be marrying you predatory modern women. It’s a good thing black men are getting divorced😂
We don't need yall hyenas bw should invest in therapy
Why do you care what bw do?
There's nothing wrong with caring about somebody!
it’s obsession
@@zookey7769this is not caring. This is more like obsessive behavior. Gloating about someone else’s situation, etc.
if this is what y’all call care… ummm NO THANKS! 😂😂
I'm white I can say hands down that black woman are the most loyal woman out there without them you black men ain't nothink, I like how yall think like there's cues of woman from other races lining up for yous aswell when in reality that's not the case
Agreed if black women were as loyal as black men the amount of black people in America would be lower than the Asian population.
Bro how many did you date and why did these relationships end? This is crazy talk. How you managed to generalize an entire race of women. That's impressive.
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@@joschmo4497Playing advocate here but that guy in the video managed to generalise a whole group of women despite not having met all of them. In light of that, I think it's fair for the original commenter to do the same.
@@hannayaya7413 I am so tired of people not understanding what a generalization is, I really am tired of that. It's not a difficult concept to understand.
You don't need to meet every member of a group to generalize, because generalization means something applies in the general case, not in every case, Jesus Christ and this is your first language. I'm so tired of having to explain this to people.
People have 2 eyes. BuT yOu dIdNt mEeT eVeRy pErSon. You don't need to, because exceptions don't break a rule.
Ok great, "but mom he did it first". Never mind what's true or reasonable. Childish mentality.
Black woman married to a white man here. He LLLOOOOOVVVEEESSS my attitude. If you're weak just say that
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Take your friends to meet his friends! Bye 👋🏾
@@adangerousmind357 They have met....at our wedding lmao 🤣
@@vanhornfamily3757 I wish a *happy* swirl life on *ALL* black women.. except my family 🤣
@@adangerousmind357 I hope ALL black women find someone who fills their life with happiness and love regardless of color. Especially the women in your family.
Not in Oakland/SF😂all the good looking tech black women are with white men, this is not an exaggeration either
I can confirm this is the facts
Big facts 😂
Leave us alone! 😫
THEY CAN'T
For black women its either have high standards, be alone, or settle for a man who brings you shame and drama. We as black women need to maintain our self respect. Even it means being alone. Dont settle for anything that doesnt feel right to you. Your own company is better.
And a bote to the man this video. If men in others countries dont want us its due to the smear campaign thats gone on about us. We are beautiful people and only kind people. And its sad that black men have tried to controlled the way others see bw and even how some of us see ourselves.
BM, as a collective, are mentally, physically and emotionally abusive.
They are on a campaign to discourage other men from dating BW.
Glad to see other races of men not falling for the lies.
Aaand black men’s options are be alone, be step daddy or date out!! 🤷🏽♂️ No self respecting man will provide for another man’s seed. All that mess y’all talking would be cool *IF* Your childless rates were anywhere close to black men (60%) *OR* Or.. this gonna sound crazy but.. have self respect & high standards *BEFORE* You have kids & Trauma!! 😮
@@zerotolerance2026 Yeah it’s black men recording yall twerkin, stealing, fighting, cussing, being rude to random people.. smear campaign 💀
Men of other cultures want us. Its bw who are the least likely to date out. When other men want us, its because of personality, strength, knowledge, how resourceful we can be, how feminine we are, tenacity, fun, and witty caring we are. When the ww that bm get with like them its because of skin tone, good kissers, pipe game,his do rag, he is a good dancer, his hair texture and if they cant find anything they say its his "culture" or swagger.
@@ChrissyReam You don’t know how to find statistics 📊 do You?? Cause the *Facts* would say that’s BS!! 1% of *Anybody* (not black) in America marries BW. You’re not race loyal You’re *Not wanted* beyond the bedroom 🥱
This is embarrassing. Please stop.
It’s so sad just a couples years back when black men were being targeted by police, black women stood right beside them. It’s not all black men bashing black women. For the one’s who are it’s very shameful!
Exactly! Notice how there's no commotion over the Airman who was just shot by the cops. We don't care anymore. No more marches, PERIOD!!! 😉👌👍
Black men stood right behind black women. The women were at the forefront.
Black women can and should date out their races. You are desired choose wisely.
They only desire you guys sexually
Black women are the least desired and least married group in America. Statistics (unlike black women) don’t lie.
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@@TheNightGoblin what’s funny?
@@RR2700_ right especially when its true.
This is your black king that y’all love so much.
He’s not even wrong. Iam not black, but a lot of hood rats out here running their fuckin mouths are not what I want.
The Jealousy in our community is real 😂😂
He speaks the truth but you black women who arr unable to self reflect and take accoutnability for your actions and negativd characteristics that havr driven black men away ffom you all. The truth hurts but it is correction.
@@RiseAwakenedOne he’s speaking the truth huh? I’m laying up with my very pale Italian boyfriend right now😏
@@TheNightGoblin I’m glad you can see it in him
Twon, come get your boyfriend. Shouldn’t this bottom be focused on issues impacting Black gay males?
😂😂 wtf
I'm tired of people who speak on blacks assuming that all of us subscribe to "hip hop culture" there are a lot of decent black people out here We just aren't wasting our lives on social media... wake up people... we're being lied to.... there are alot of great black women and black men out there that are capable of loving eachother!
All the decent black women are married black men already know that why do you think passport bros exist. Shit all the VW at the college I go to are with Pookies and Ray Ray they couldn't care less about the guys trying to get a college education.
They rather beef with each other. I think they personally love each other and wanna make both sides jealous.
Facts. First decent comment on here that doesn't generalize both sexes! When we don't subscribe to the toxic culture we're actually decent people like everyone else!
I'm open to black men, but I'm definitely not going to exclude other men
Exactly, there are a lot decent black men and women who are great citizens and who doesn't subscribe to this bullshit.
Black women this is not true. Stop staying committed to black men who does not value you. It took some time but I eventually got the courage to date outside of my race. I’m happily engage to be married to the man of my dreams in a year. ❤❤
Yall are not wanted... bw are the worse
As a human, and a Black man, I am happy for you and wish you nothing but the best. You will find that most brothers will wish you the best if you have found happiness. I just wish that went both ways. My two cents worth. Peace!
u just using him for money like the rest of your black sisters
@@shanesmith-vn1riNeither do black women so what's your point 😒🙄
@@Mr.Boddieneither do, and that's exactly the problem.
Who’s going to tell him 😂😂😂😂
Okkkkkk at this point this is crazy. Okay leave the black woman alone already
Marriage between bw and wm are the most successful. More successful than marriage with bm and anyone... but i digress.
That talking point y'all keep repeating is from an unreliable source 😂😂😂
@TylerJ__
The cdc is an unrealistic source?
@TylerJ__
No answer? The cdc is an unreliable source?
@@ChrissyReam That's not from the CDC, that's from Wikipedia mam lol
@@TylerJ__ Actually it's from several repeatable sources!
As a white man I only want black women. I find them the most attractive and the best lovers. Just my preference
How do you find a group of women aged 20-29 that have to wear a wig attractive
@@sysbmeternal in every way
@@sysbmeternal Right! Why not just go get the real thing?
I’m going to keep it a buck, black men were cursed with the worse race of women that Satan ever 💩 out of his kingdom!
@@sysbmeternalYou are wrong to believe that only BW wears wig. You guys have problem with your own kind whether they have wig or their natural hair.
@@mrquick6775The crime statistics rebut your argument.
The hate between black American women and men is sad!!
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The hatred has always been one sided. Black men just tell truth about them we don’t hate them.
@@D2OFFICIALRUclips the division continues…
Bw aborted 20 million kids and counting since 1970 mostly boys purposely bw is trash
SAD!!! But love their oppressors to da mf T
im white but I share blood with 2 brothers who are serbian, venezuelan, and my nephew is Nigerian. and im already half serbian. my type of women is black, literally put 99 super models who happen to be white and 1 black woman im choosing her .
bro you're Serbian, I'm sorry
@@joschmo4497 sorry for what? and why you telling me things I already know... lol
@@NYtwoK ...hard to roast someone who doesn't even get they're being roasted
I'm saying sorry for your predicament
@@joschmo4497 scuse me? what you talkin bout dawg
It is very sad when your platform is made about the disdain you have for black women. Why not make your platform off the other women you love and leave black women out of it. You don't like us OK point made. Now spend your energy on something more positive. 😊
Black women must be special.
Because what I have noticed:
If you want you content and channel to become famous piggy back on the name of black women.
You’re already wrong by assuming all black women have an attitude, that saying is so played out and you’re gas lighting btw. Secondly for you as a black man to speak as a nation on behalf of other men outside black men is not wise and sadly it holds no weight. As a Ghanaian myself I’ve noticed black men here in America can be very divisive when it comes to issues like these and don’t like accountability. Not all but a good handful. No one likes to deal with an attitude regardless of Race obviously. Oh and Sisters it’s not extremely difficult you just have to be open minded and not closed minded when dating. Stop letting these internet gurus tell you otherwise. Just come to Africa ladies lol and you will see the dynamic and interactions are so much different. That’s a fact.
Most of you do and everyone besides black women know that.
Its black American culture hun. Not race.
This is a never ending fight amongst black Americans. Stay away. Dont get involved and dont let them poison your culture
@@noonesishome The only one who would poison anything is the ghetto hoodra*s majority of Black American men aren't dealing with them anymore because of their degenerate behavior we've just decided to leave them to their own destruction hence the rapid increase in homelessness for Black American women.
@@dred9174 so black men aren't the most incarcerated demographic in America or are they just angel's?
@@madisonatior4414 1 there are more black men in college than in prison.
2 it's well documented that Black Americans are targeted by police while they'll let other groups of people walk away with a warning when they're caught. They're also 3 times more likely to be found guilty of the same exact crime a white person committed (typical all white juries)
3: Black Men lead America in exonerations because charges were false because it is pretty common for the police to plant evidence in order to get an arrest.
4: as I stated hood rat* are the ones always getting into trouble and coincidentally hood rat* are also the type of men Black American women are attracted to they'll tell you themselves they prefer the drug dealers and scammers over the 9-5 men.
Child I was a single mother in school working minimum wage job and men of other races were still coming after me but I was younger and afraid of what men would say being loyal to them so I turned them down I have six friends married to white asian and Hispanic men one Indian who were also single mothers. Don’t believe the bull and yes I too am married and yes to a wonderful black man who would never speak no foolishness like this.. ladies feel free to date marry and love whoever is is willing to love you in return…..
Of course you're a single mother....because you (just like most black women) don't know how to choose a partner. Good enough to fuck, but not marry.
You right honey these social media gurus are striving hard to be the next Kevin Samuels. Lol
Love this black women here I’ve been married to my black husband 12yrs now 😆
I have been married to my Black husband for 40 years. Vast majority of women in my family are also married to good Black men. They do exist but are hard to find. Sad but many Black men (under 50) do not value good Black women today but will settle for "anything" not Black.
someone trying to fuck does not mean they wanted to be with you.
I see why they would say no to you cause you look like a pretty pretty princess 🌼 you naturally look like you got mascara and eyeliner on
Imagine thinking giving a mf a compliment is an insult 💀 bw logic
@@fuckableface troll logic
That happens when you spend to much time in the mirror.
Black Anerican women.
i am a black Caribbean women and never had a problem dating white men.
I marry one.
Majority of white men don't want a black women. You did doesn't mean most can.
Yeah that's who he was talking about black american women
WOW...CONGRATS😂😂
You want a doggie treat?
If this is true, you PROVE HIS ORIGINAL POINT! 😐
You don't like women, just say that 😂
I didn’t know they still made them
Dolls with the string in the back!? 😂 When they gonna give You a new catch phrase??
Lmfaooo The Kang has spoken 💀💀🤣🤣🤣 thank goodness ion gotta deal with this foolishness with my white Arabian husband 💀💀💀
Omg! Girl I’m jealous😩I’m becoming obsessed with Arab men recently. With most of them, money is not an issue. No struggle 50/50, light bill nonsense and they are fine AF😍
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ good for you girl yes ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Nahhhh
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@@fixthatface483I just did a video on this. I spend half my time in france, and the arab men there show nothing but love ❤❤❤
My bro is getting cooked in these comments by pretty much 70% of the people... The self-hatred in Stockholm syndrome is real with this one...what a shame
Everyone that is upset can only be mad at the statistics and they are indeed correct, whether you agree or not. Its literally the truth 🤷🏿♂️
He not getting cooked. All you see is sign language in the comments..
He is getting cooked.
@@markeyosef1579you are just refusing to see it
@@barrybradsher5531Statistically speaking that used to be the case. Now Black Women are dating outside and no longer waiting on Black Men who statistically don’t want to get married.
Times have changed... Obviously.
It's perfectly okay to learn, change, and apply your lessons.
Our attitude is attached to our frustration of being with broke Dusty Men. Take the dust out of the equation and the attitude seems to go bye bye, and that's a FACT according to the stats concerning BW/WM unions unions...
Why are you picking these men you can't separate who you are from who you with and why you can't get another race of man and if you did why did you come back to bm
If this were really going on you wouldn't be typing it in a RUclips comment section.
@@ShackbulleyThe same reason BM keeps picking the worst BW they can find and ignores quality BW.
@@user-ws2fj6ie9u that's bc 86% of bw is trash and stop comparing women to men we don't get pregnant so who should be worrying more about picking better oh I forget bw don't care about the kids they care about government assistance and section 8
Facts Sis!!;
Ladies it’s okay to date outside your race. Racial loyalty is just a segment of patriarchy. Men worry about what we do because we are the only ones who can keep their version of a male going so every race of male pushes race loyalty on women. Without women’s race loyalty they can’t claim to be the top male at this or that. It’s all bull. We’re all humans from different regions.
Men carry the seed *LIFE* Your an incubator.. BM don’t need You for Anything!! 😂 We’re fine mixing solely to eliminate The BW!!
I meet a lot of men from other races that want black women. I have heard black women say that with other men they feel like they dont be that strong black woman and dont have to argue with their non black spouse because they ate better providers, communicators, lovers and supportive. I have to agree because talking to and respecting black men has gotten me no where. I try to be sympathetic of their feelings but i get shut down. I meet way more black men with nasty attitudes then black women with attitudes.
....lmao blk women are to funny no matter what yall do its blk men fault🤣🤣
example yall will date 5 black thugs then date outside the race and pick a NORMAL man then say "see blk men were the issue"
🤣🤣moron you are the issue you refuse to date normal blk men ...lust over thugs...then convinced urself b.m were the issue after dating a normal stable white man .....of course it will work BEC HE IS NORMAL DUHHH if u dated a normal b.m you would have same outcome
and i can use many more examples 🤣🤣 blk women are the cause of each problem in blk community and i can prove it 100% nobody can refute any of my claims on the matter
Want sexually. My business partner is white and "dates" alot of black women. By date I mean sleeps with alot of black women. I'm actually shocked at how many he gets. He said they're by far the easiest to sleep with if you're white and they see money. I've seen him 1 night so many it would make your head spin. He makes it a point to go by his condo with them before any date starts. He already has a nice car. He said they get sold with the illusion after seeing those things and start thinking they've hit the jackpot. He sleeps with them and then on to the next. I asked why he doesn't be with any of them exclusively because some are fine and seem intelligent. He said he couldn't bring them home to his family. I hadn't even thought about that side. A white mother is way less accepting of their son dating a black woman. Even white women that date black men try to push their sons away from black women. I've seen it personally.
@@MaleficHumanShit is wild they consistently turn down the stable black men call them lame, corny and boring then they'll date a man of a different race with the same damn qualities as the black men they constantly turned down! These women are stuck on stupid and it's time for us to move on.
Yeah.....other races of men will f*ck you, but keep it real....none of em want you for the long haul. Studies show this. Check the census.
All i heard was "blah blah blah".
And sadly for BM the way these WM are snatching up black women is scary.... ladies don't believe the lies this guy is spewing... if you want a good black man they are out there I just pray he finds you before Chad does 😅..lol its real out here I pulled up to a nice restaurant on a Saturday night to grab some food to go and the car I pulled up to had a handsome couple (black woman , white man) then as I'm walking in another interracial couple come walking out (white man, black woman) lastly as I was inside I spotted another white man with a black woman on a date (and I live in a prestigious area so these weren't unequipped men and women)... long story short as I walked out I saw a black couple and the way I passed a silent sigh of relief..lol ( I don't mind interracial dating and I understand why black women are being selected by these men but it was also nice to see our own...lol... peace and love
Same scenario is happening in Europe.
*GOOOO* WE Don’t want You here Take Your KIDS with you or drop em at they daddy houseS 😂 BM just need to see the 3-4 decent BW left but y’all hiding them in the back
Mam, Blk Women have been dating out, that's never been the issue. Their issue is Most Men of other races do not prefer Blk Women as their first choice for marraige 😂😂😂. Everybody knows this but Blk Women
@@XRTSDFAcool
Why is it sad for BM? BM have been dating outside our race.
Young man, the women you're talking about doesn't represent all black women.
I have a dream that one day people will be judged by the content of their character and not the color of their skin.
YES and this is coming from people of the same race sad
LOUDER PLEASE😭
And lots of those Black men are dying alone in care facilities alone! No wife, no fiancé, no brother, no sister, no mom and no dad, no friends or acquaintances all alone.
So, what did that 6 figures, college degree, own home, no baby mommas, etc.
When in that facility, I am sure he wished he had a child, a baby momma or wife, someone to call his own to talk to, comfort him, listen to him and hold his hand.
All those materialistic things is nothing when you are sick; then you realise what are the most important things in life.
You do know everything you just said applies to both sides right? Just checking.
@@monstafloppa871statistics and consistent personal accounts from both genders say it's BM who are truly dying alone. Lol. But go off.
@@s.s.ss.4848Actual statistics (not the lies BW tell themselves) show that BW are the least desired and least married group in America. 😂 But go off.
That's cool I just my nurse not a bw I don't want to be around yall
@@neutraliserjaninethat's the men you choose what about dealing with a bw insecurities,fears and past trauma bc they mom didn't protect her as a child maybe bw need to talk to her uncle or uncle's or older brother and her mom for allowing it to happen
My white boyfriend loves my attitude tho 😂
@@Vigilante.Era666 nope but good try 🤣
@@taebaby100shotz6most white dudes dont look yall way they got respect for there culture most white guys date asians yall least desired globally
@@taebaby100shotz6blackcel coping
@@Basementdweller9 the blackcel😭
That’s sad . How bout you just lose the attitude no matter who you choose to date . Like why not just be positive and respectful?
If you gay just that 🎉
😂something must be wrong if he’s pointing out the flaws of a BW
This a lie if it was true blackmen wouldnt be threatened to make videos like this
Cope 😂😂😂
They threatened and in their feelings. Typical female behaviour from blk men.
take it from the fruit loop
Truth hurts, honey
@@mojo-eq4lnBut lies don’t.
so now you are representative of men's opinion from other races? she has every right not to want to date a black guy like you but when you choose to attack her just because of her choise and try to act like representative of men from other race, it says a lot about your character.
Or it says how little You research anything.. CDC statistics say BW marry out *Less than* 1% in America.. & How often do y’all make it to 24 without bastards?? 🧐 Still tryna find those numbers but in general black women are mothers before the average man is financially stable.. Why pay tripple price (marriage) for a car with 3owners & 2Accidents? Y’all are not gonna find the next Russel 😂
Not saying he's right about BM and BW but addressing the issues of what led to her being in the situation she's in he's right about that.
Before you potentially bash me about how a guy mistreating a woman is her fault no its a 50/50 thing. Why because check this out.
If a person is punching you in the face that never used to punch you in the face would you still want to be around that person once you found out they have no problems inflicting physical harm on anybody. Unless you love being a punching bag I strongly believe you would have the common sense to run and get away from the person before those punches end up being something more severe. See he's wrong for abusing her yes. He deserves to be locked up, but in the mean time your goal is to live a peaceful non harmful life as possible, which brings me to the other half. Why would you choose to still want to be around that knowing he saw you as nothing but a punching bag instead of treating you right.
Mind you this is the same guy you picked to be your partner over somebody who never hit a woman I day in his life. Which is the good dude you probably 9/10 friendzoned because he didn't fit your hot girl checklist. See how all that works.
To take it a step further as to why these kind of modern day women need to be held accountable is because who was accountable or responsible for taking care of her when she was single full blown adult with bills, rent, a house or an apartment. She is as in she's responsible for taking care of herself. That's like saying if you are hungry you are responsible for feeding yourself. Are you gonna let yourself starve? Or try to get yourself something to eat. Key word "Yourself" meaning only you, nobody else. This is why people like this need to be held accountable because everybody seems to forget that initially we are responsible to taking care of ourselves first and foremost regardless of who you are. That's the point he's making.
Play crazy games you win crazy prizes.
@@mastergamer551she just said why is he speaking for other races of men.
They know nothing about “character” 😂 it’s all materialism but their wake up call is coming smh
The comment section isn’t what Q expected 😂😂😂😂😂
He's bitter and angry - meanwhile BW like me will date out
Haha! Exactly 😂
I wish these losers move on
Other races are realizing what they’re doing. They want other races to hate us. Black women, don’t listen to this mess. Date out if necessary. Go where you’re appreciated.
Well it’s good to know how BM as a whole feel about their own BW.. the only race to divine and destroy their own.. he just painted all BW with one paint brush and continue to champion the issue among us.. as if the BM are flawless..
Nobody claimed we’re flawless but what y’all hate is the *Truth!* Sorry to 💩 in your hot chocolate but these are Stats from the CDC. If it’s not a black man less than 1% (of Anybody) will marry You & You’ve *ALL* by proxy of the sisterhood Destroyed how we see You! “Not All” is fine any dandy until I poison Half your water bottles.. Stay Thirsy My friends 😂😂
You really shouldn't be taking people like this seriously or giving any merit to their words whatsoever...
@@tessy28they really should I’ve been saying this for a while blk men don’t like bw unless they are light and brown skin or completely non blk marriage rates show that even when blk men marry blk women it goes in that order light, brown and dark skin bw last. Not to mention the lengths they will go to disparage bw image and defeminize us and create trends where colorism and racism have a way in to attack bw so no the gaslighting methods used by y’all is wearing off
I’m a black woman and I don’t have an attitude lol. Actually a black man I dated who’s never dated a black woman before me said that I seem like I’m always in a good mood as if that annoyed him lmao. I swear some black men are actually racist toward black women. Like what’s with the unsolicited hate
They’re angry we’re doing better than them in life tbh
That’s awesome don’t change for anyone !
@@user-vx8id4sc8fbtw this dude is actually a millionaire so I don’t think he’s making this video for that reason lol
@@reek1111he’s also short and a lot of women don’t like short men.
@@madebyme7590 true but it’s up to you if you wanna let that discourage you .
Oh boy, the man who doesn’t know how to punctuate his sentences is giving unsolicited advice again. Take it away buddy. 🙄
Oh the school teacher is here can’t find anything else wrong with him so gotta go for his intelligence.goofy
@@jamesjackson2105 put the bottle down and pick up a book, goofy.
@@reds.a2076 imma college graduate I just hate people that do that shit.
@@jamesjackson2105 college graduate? Then u should also hate when people give their “educated- unsolicited” advice to people who wants a education, GOOFY!!
Lol, man you can’t handle the truth.
who hurt this man?
He listened facts that triggered you.
@@societyisscaredofmasculine8546 i think you meant listed
His dad when he left him
@@nanayai1656facts
I’m a black women who gets hit on by every race, the difference between black men and women is we just don’t enjoy being fetishized so we usually don’t go for those men
This is not true! BW dating and marrying outside the race ALL the time! Sadly, many are still sitting around waiting for a Black man because they don’t want to date outside when PLENTY of other men WILL date and marry them. Black women are extremely beautiful and a lot of White men or other races are afraid to approach them for fear of rejection. I will say this, some Black women can come across as icy and that’s a problem for all races of men.
Where are all these sisters that are dating and marrying outside of their race? Black men are the only race willing to tolerate your bad behavior. 😂
You’re wrong. Men lie - women lie - numbers don’t lie. No one is marrying bw. Sorry 🤷🏾♂️
Why tf should grown ass women listen to you and no wonder why most white and non bm don’t approach some of y’all or even black men don’t approach y’all it ain’t about y’all rejecting them it’s about how y’all reject men that’s what make men not wanna approach y’all and some white dudes and non black dudes gotta act like black men and dress like black men dress and sag they pants just to get a black woman black women love that shit majority of black women don’t date other races of men unless they have our swag/tattoos/jewelry/Jordan’s and our accent.
This is facts bt I always dated outside my race since I was little so it’s no problem for me and (I don’t act as they say white) & they love it and me 😂❤
I'm one that's waiting. I've been proposed to once by a Hispanic that was my boyfriend at the time. I turned him down cause I want to fully settle down with a black man... but it's looking like I'll never get married if I want to get married by a black man. The commitment to black women isn't there. Black men don't wanna look at themselves- their self hate. They put other race women on a pedestal and go above and beyond just so she can do him "like a black woman", divorce, alimony/child support. Black women and men are fetishized but black men see it as an accomplishment but will down us when we're been treated and looked at the same lol. I've said this on another post: black people compete to be the best of the worst. Do they know how other race women feel about black men. They look dumb out here.
B.S. I don't have an attitude. You don't speak for me. There is a lot of non-black men flirt with me.
I agree with Bw in 5he comments, HEAR THIS ALL BM LEAVE BW COMPLETELY ALONE
Agreed BW should exit silently
@@akinazarawe already are 😂 bw are divesting and it’s obvious. They just haven’t caught on to what’s happening yet. We are tired of their mess and the delusion. Now they’re over their dragging white women down 😮
I was just thinking that too. It’s ridiculous at this point. It’s like black men are begging black women to put them out of their misery and stop giving birth to them. They are upset because we won’t stop their existence.
If we have problem with black woman tearing them down mentally and spiritually is not the way to go about it "Black Man"
I came to the comments bracing myself for the number of comments celebrating and encouraging this man to speak more about this. I’m so glad I’m pleasantly surprised. There are rational men left in this world. ❤
I am a BW married to a WM for 17 years now. I guess my husband didn't get the memo that I was undesired. Also BW married to WM have the lowest divorce rates of all IR marriages and BM married to WW have the highest divorce rates of all IR marriages. I know several BW who are dating/marrying outside of their race and I live in the South not sure how many are doing so outside of the South but its not as rare as this guy is trying to make people believe. I am not always on social media but there are tons of BW married to WM and non BM right here on youtube.
Right I am literally one of them and I know many bw like myself that are marrying and dating out. This uneducated and ignorant tool is such an embarrassment to BM.
Do you know how many bw are with wm?? This man is crazy, he must not be on social media!
I just find it so strange how no other community brings down their women like this
Because no other community has a shitty class of women
It’s not that black men don’t want black women please stop with the generalizations..black men don’t want a certain type of black women …
All black women are not like we see on the internet and media …..BUT IF YOU FEED INTO THAT NARRATIVE and only focus your attention on thoose types of women …that’s what you will believe
Notice how the media does everything to expose the ignorant black women but gives no praise and totally
ignores the good black women
Similar to how men say “she ignores the good guys and goes for the bad boys “
There is enough going around about ignorant black women but it seems like black media likes to use them as talking points to feed into more negative narratives
As a black 27yr old clinical psychologist, I'd say the group of black women you are referring to can't represent black women in general because they are anecdotal. Exceptions don't make the rule. Generalities are how we determine the overall facts. EX: We would consider a plane dangerous if passengers had a 25% chance of survival. And even YOU wouldn't ride it.
Most black women are single mothers and according to the US Department of Health and Human services, single mothers are more likely to abuse and neglect their children. 80% of women initiate divorce (break up the home) within this number the black divorce ranks the highest among other races: 30.8
Black women are the only women who fight with their men in public and glorify single motherhood. Over 74% of black kids are BORN to no father in the home which means "queen" spread her legs to the wrong man and he was gone before the child was even here. Black women in the US weigh more that any woman of any other race INCLUDING actual African female immigrants, despite the unhealthy western diet. Instead of getting offended, take responsibility for your "black queens" and try and be the exception. Don't defend foolishness.
@@MarkelBeverley who is glorifying single motherhood ?? Where is this and how is it expressed ??
I just find it funny how men talk about single motherhood without mentioning the fathers as if the fathers had little to no role in creating a single mother …
@@MarkelBeverley women initiate 80 percent of divorces….women or black women ??
@@MarkelBeverley again this is systemic..I’m not Defending the behavior but what we have is a group of men who complain about the behavior without understanding why it is the way it is
I’m sure your knowledgeable in generational curses right ??? So understand that….
@@MarkelBeverley it’s almost as if black men hold black women accountable for their fathers uncles and forefathers for walking out the homes ….
If you wanna better understand where I stand on this watch the dr Umar cover with “Six the goddiss”
Then you will understand…..black men complain about these issues yet…dont promote anything healthy to help cure the issues ….
It’s very individualistic…..
You cannot ignore the fact that young black boys and girls are given the wrong negative messages in our communities and by black men not doing anything at at….nothing happens
I’m not saying black women don’t have our own issues …..
But instead of focusing on this issue at hand ….it seems as though you tailored off into trying to prove why YOU already feel black women are of lower value instead of addressing the issue with the media…
If your stance is good black women aren’t the rule …then good black men aren’t the rule either ..is this what we are putting out …???
No
It’s not that they aren’t the rule …it’s that the media dosent leave space for the good to be seen and spread ..because negativity SELLS not only to our pockets but our emotions …
The agenda is not to come as a collective and highlight our good ….
“The art of war “…conquer and divide….and it’s working really well…systems are at play and agendas are being driven …but most people don’t look at that and find solutions more than they whine and complain and about the opposite gender ….if we got out of our feelings and put some real action and work in our communities we would strive …starting with the children …..
Black men and black women are hurting as and adopted a “save myself “ attitude….
And what’s worse is we absolutely hate when our egos are being checked at the door …especially by the opposite gender .
…. this “podcast era “ is nothing but internet “frat groups “…this is really what our young men have doubled down too
Hé needs to take care of those dark circles under his eyes.
Actually since we're trying to be honest here, as a white man I have thought about dating black women, and the more I thought about it the more I came to the realization that it's not the black women that make me not want to date them. It's their male relatives that make me not want to get involved in the whole extended family experience. I feel the black men would make me feel less welcomed than the black women. Not sure if that's an irrational thought and feeling, but its where I currently am in my head space.
You honestly just have to ignore them. Don't let that stop you. My Polish fiance adores me, i'm Nigerian and he has taken me to Poland many times. I'm literally the love of his life. His family love me too. The people who are truly important will be happy for you. I wish you luck.😊
Ignore them. If you day a BW she has to put them in their place.
Most BM are miserable and hate to see BW happy.
Go for it!
I encourage you to date black women if that what your heart desires. Statistics show that black women and white men have the best and longest relationships across the board of all relationships (interracial and non interracial). Also some of us black women come from good families that are nothing like the disrespectful clown who made this video and the ones agreeing with him. Especially those of us from Caribbean and African cultures. The stats don’t lie we make the best couples:
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Hmm it's funny cause I'm actually shying away from dating my own countrymen from the same reason. For context I'm black , but I live in Africa, and I really don't like the way the perfect african wife is expected to be so subservient , silent , pliable , a pushover etc etc... I have been taught this for years by my own mother , who frequently reminds me of how my future husband's relatives would blame me and her for any mistakes... That's why I'm thinking of dating outside now , I have witnessed it myself and do not want to have that cultural experience from my in-laws. Men are treated like kings just for being male , as compared to women who have all these impossible standards to live up to in order to be considered good wives and mothers.
That makes perfect sense. Who wants to be tied to all that drama. Distance would be the answer lol
Lmao I had to date outside my race. BLACK MEN never wanted a relationship with me. So I went where I was loved and appreciated 😮🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽
@@copyninja2549 ?
The gag is my white and Latina friends have the worst attitudes 😂 I’m constantly telling them to be more respectful to their man. Since everyone has a phone with a camera they want to broadcast their 2 cents. Date and marry the man who loves and respects you.
Boy my baby daddy Italian im black BYE
Baby daddy. Not husband?
Plus, what would be your business on this video regardless? Bye, like you said.
As soon as a pretty Italian women throws some cat his way he’s gone 😂.
Okay, but who asked ?
And if you have kids they’re Italian
@@agreatmannamedlieu Amen....of course she's a baby mama....just like MOST black american women. Good enough to bang, but not marry.
The topic was about bm failing but he decides to bring up bw. Typical. The kangs gonna kang
False African men love AA women facts ✊🏿✊🏿
Haven’t you noticed it’s always black men (and sometimes women) telling black women that other races of men don’t want them? Ladies, seriously, can you name or send me at least 5 videos of non black men telling block women they don’t want them? You’ll have a better chance of finding multiple videos of black men saying non black men don’t want you than you would find an equal amount of videos of non black men saying they don’t want you LOL
Is the CdC statistics made by black men?? Yall think we pulled this info out of thin air because it’s what YOU Do!? 😂
@@adangerousmind357 I was going to say the same thing. You can easily see from statistics. Plus just podcast in general where BW have said themselves that they feel the least desired.
@@adangerousmind357Yes that is true. We are statistically the least desired. Nobody should be arguing with that. Facts are facts. However, I don't believe it's solely because we're black. An attractive woman is an attractive woman you know? I think we just have a lot against us. Like 80% of us are overweight or obese, and most men of other races aren't into that. We're also known for being aggressive/attitude, and again, most men aren't digging it. They want feminine and submissive, which is what Asian women are known for and I believe that's the reason why they are the most desired.
@@ranip7644 Most of y’all overlook the fact that you’ve been aggressive to majority of BM since 1st grade.. it’s called *Trauma* & non-BM observe what We *experience* They know you don’t discriminate between destructive & productive BM when expressing Your hatred so why would You because their skin color changed? (Just my evaluation from conversations)
@@adangerousmind357 bw women are aggressive to bm yet bm have been causing high femicide rates for everyone..
He is talking about black American women .why do black American men continue to disrespect thier own racial group .its ridiculous
Because they want other races to hate us. It’s weird
Black wife affect. BW are amazing. No matter what internet bm trolls say.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
As an aside Black Relationships still continue to be produced between Black Men and Black Women. As a matter of fact there are far more "Intercultural Relationships" taking place between Blacks from different Cultural backgrounds, as opposed to Interracial Relationships. Oh, just a reminder to you jaded Black brothers, MOST of us OTHER Black Men prefer Black Women, just saying, it's a fact.
Sir, black men understand this. They are no longer willing to accept poor behavior from the black women they encounter. I have been married to a black woman for 30 years. I still would not want to have many black men coupled with some of the available women out there. We can still love black women while understanding the plight of the world.
@@rm5282 Well, okay.
I'm more attracted to black women than I am to white, Asian, or Indian women, but they often begin to chat with me, then disappear if I show them the real me. This is true of most women not Latinas, but I don't have much access to them. 💯
@@McKeeW10000 it is what it is buddy, a change of strategy would suffice.
Very true, over 80% are BM and BW. There is a myth out there that BM and BW no longer marry - it's cap.