Riley & Parker May Be Separated From Their Sisters Again In School | OutDaughtered

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  • Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024
  • The Busbys have some difficult desicions to make regarding the quints schooling. Should Riley move up to kindergarten and should Parker be separated from her sisters and stay at the same pre-school level.
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Комментарии • 705

  • @gi822
    @gi822 5 лет назад +5074

    Poor Parker. She’s so sweet and sensitive. I am glad they have identified her anxiety early so they can help support her.

    • @cammybear-x
      @cammybear-x 5 лет назад +8

      gi822 right!

    • @workoutwithme1121
      @workoutwithme1121 5 лет назад +34

      Lol I have very worse anxiety and my parents don't support me at all

    • @ginniekinz5401
      @ginniekinz5401 5 лет назад +29

      Yes, my parents bullied me for my anxiety and selective mutism for the early times in my life. They didn’t think that maybe it could just be my personality. Even my own aunt called me whimpy.

    • @chloeeo7978
      @chloeeo7978 5 лет назад +8

      @@workoutwithme1121 ya u have worst anxiety because ur older she's like 5

    • @jasonquinn2228
      @jasonquinn2228 5 лет назад

      @@ginniekinz5401 Oh yeah I know that experience very well

  • @mandys1038
    @mandys1038 5 лет назад +2840

    I'm glad they made the choice to move Riley up, she is very smart for her age and has done really well for herself. As for Parker, I'm glad they decided to keep her with her sisters with Parker's anxiety it just wouldn't have been right to keep her by herself.

    • @kingofqueens5128
      @kingofqueens5128 5 лет назад +97

      Especially since the only reason she might not have done as well on her testing is because of her anxiety. I'm sure she's just as capable as Hazel/Ava/Olivia.

    • @rainbowxyt5925
      @rainbowxyt5925 5 лет назад +33

      Lilah Zerambo yeah she probably knew all the answers but cause of her anxiety she didn't

    • @gloriamcinerney7383
      @gloriamcinerney7383 5 лет назад +55

      @@rainbowxyt5925 you look at her when she was younger, she and Riley were the first to advance. Parker has it in her, she's just as smart as hazel/Olivia/Ava if not, smarter. She just hates being put on the spot or under pressure because of her anxiety. I hate this too, and have always been unable to do certain things when people are looking. This is why I prefer written tests cos the focus isn't on me. And there are things to help this. The only place I like being put on the spot is when I'm in a show or something. She'll find something she is comfortable doing, and it will definitely help.

    • @rainbowxyt5925
      @rainbowxyt5925 5 лет назад +4

      Gloria McInerney yeah I can relate I hate being put on the spotlight

    • @justcalista3809
      @justcalista3809 5 лет назад +2

      Mandy S she would’ve been with Riley in Kindergarten

  • @lifeasjam515
    @lifeasjam515 5 лет назад +2558

    I’m glad she’s moving up. She’ll most likely resent her parents in the future if she’s held back because of everyone else. Children who are born in multiples want their own identities as much as they love and want to be with their siblings. Especially once they get older, they won’t always want to do everything the same... because they are so different

    • @kiahall1606
      @kiahall1606 5 лет назад +27

      She won't resent her parents. She will resent them if they moved her forward knowing she wasn't ready and struggling. I'm a twin. I was held back due to being sick so much. The only two people that were resentful was my dad and grandma at my mom for holding me back. Knowing I wasn't ready, but my mother didn't invest in my education like most parents do their child.

    • @emmathroneburg9
      @emmathroneburg9 5 лет назад +41

      I’m a triplet and me and my sister were held back a grade with my brother before starting Kindergarten because my brother wasn’t ready. This made me much older than everyone in my class and I did not like it. People in older grades treated me as younger even though I was older than them sometimes. I think that multiples should be separated if that is what their needs are, because they are all individuals and I wish that my parents had separated us instead of holding us back.

    • @catherine6510
      @catherine6510 5 лет назад +32

      Kia Hall
      Riley is clearly more advanced. She should get new opportunities and not be held back because of her sisters. I don’t mean this as a hate comment I think al the girls are smart but Riley is very intelligent for 4 years old

    • @morganlane81
      @morganlane81 5 лет назад +9

      I’m an only child so it didn’t matter, but I was a grade above what I should’ve been due to my age (I shouldn’t have started K bc I wasn’t old enough, but that was 30 years ago when they could still get away with that sort of thing lol) and I was really advanced. I think I def would’ve resented my mom if she had held me back bc I was actually still really bored even being 1 grade ahead. I wanted to graduate HS early, but she wouldn’t let me bc I would’ve only been 16 starting college. Bless her heart, I think that was just too much for her to deal with bc I was her only “baby”. 🖤 I was disappointed but being a mom now, I get the HS/college thing, but would’ve been very mad if I hadn’t been allowed to advance early on as I think it would’ve hurt my education (and my mom did realize that and that I needed to be challenged).

    • @Bibirallie
      @Bibirallie 5 лет назад +5

      I agree!!! As a twin, I am glad that my mom nurtured our independence.

  • @bethanypryor8561
    @bethanypryor8561 5 лет назад +453

    They may be quintuplets but they are 5 individual girls. They should be able to be treated differently. I feel that Adam and Danielle have made the right decision

  • @lorenq.abella4812
    @lorenq.abella4812 5 лет назад +2222

    Parker is quite but very observant.. she is an introvert but she will be an artist or scientist someday she likes to figure things out by her self... hope u will have a one on one date with her just the 3 of u Adam & Danielle & make her decide where ur going what she will be eating stuff like that.... Thank u

    • @henryhewitt4971
      @henryhewitt4971 5 лет назад +42

      Loren Q.Abella she’s 4 calm down

    • @hyprs
      @hyprs 5 лет назад +22

      Being introvert and suffering from anxiety is totally different. As an introvert myself, and yes you are right about the scientist part, I think Parker's case looks more like the anxiety than her being an introvert, which need to be cured.

    • @gloriamcinerney7383
      @gloriamcinerney7383 5 лет назад +19

      @@hyprs not cured. Helped. You can't just cure anxiety, you do therapies and techniques to help it and not let it take over your life. I'm sure Parker will adjust in her own time..

    • @hyprs
      @hyprs 5 лет назад +3

      @@gloriamcinerney7383 sorry for my poor english. Yes i think she needs the therapist to help her.

    • @gloriamcinerney7383
      @gloriamcinerney7383 5 лет назад +8

      @@hyprs knowing Danielle and Adam, they will do whatever they can to make sure Parker has the help she needs..

  • @manhat7691
    @manhat7691 5 лет назад +3318

    *"Im gonna scratch u if u dont give me the crayon "*

    • @nrn1574
      @nrn1574 5 лет назад +59

      Ava 🤣

    • @emmaschnapp6744
      @emmaschnapp6744 5 лет назад +40

      Manha Tariq omg lol sisterly love

    • @kiahall1606
      @kiahall1606 5 лет назад +35

      😂😂😂 how I use to talk to my twin sister, and sometimes still do.

    • @Jellicious11
      @Jellicious11 5 лет назад +55

      It's a crayon now. Teen years it'll be the lip gloss and fights 😂

    • @hopeleann1668
      @hopeleann1668 5 лет назад +26

      That’s some next level threatening there 😂😂

  • @dolphindreamer8739
    @dolphindreamer8739 5 лет назад +1392

    "Riley still has temper tantrums"
    ...about *eating fruit*

    • @deidarayeah777111873
      @deidarayeah777111873 5 лет назад +36

      Dolphin Dreamer she wants that fruit

    • @PRINCESSOFNABOO
      @PRINCESSOFNABOO 5 лет назад +4

      Hahahahahhahha

    • @darlenehutchins7429
      @darlenehutchins7429 5 лет назад +6

      I wonder if she has that behavior in other places too.

    • @dolphindreamer8739
      @dolphindreamer8739 5 лет назад +58

      Jaelyn Voudrie I know that’s the joke... They’re such great parents their kids have tantrums about wanting to eat *healthy* food!

    • @rebeccacountryman7120
      @rebeccacountryman7120 5 лет назад +7

      Dolphin Dreamer and my four year old has temper tantrums about grilled cheese sandwich’s 🤷🏽‍♀️.

  • @ppearllllll
    @ppearllllll 5 лет назад +1282

    I feel sorry for both of these girls. Just seeing their sad little faces is sad. 😭😭

    • @mathuramanisuntharan5441
      @mathuramanisuntharan5441 5 лет назад +12

      Same it make me cry

    • @amycastle8236
      @amycastle8236 4 года назад +4

      Lachlan Macquarie no it’s not.

    • @gamespc7880
      @gamespc7880 4 года назад +2

      @Lachlan Macquarie ok why don't you put yourself in either the parents shoes or the kids and see what it would be like because afterwards you might want to change your comment. Seriously grow up bad parents are ones that don't care at all what their kids, and always think about themselves first. My one friend has parents like that and if it wasn't for me she would have never evened went to a highschool dance or any parties when she was younger. My other friend had rely on their friends to pick them up if they wanted to hangout, even the time I took him to a parade guess who also went to the same parade his parents but did they offer to take us both there since we were all going to the same parade no. So you see the only bad parents are the ones who don't care what their kids are doing as long as they're safe.

  • @gracecarver4452
    @gracecarver4452 5 лет назад +558

    I feel for Parker so much! It’s hard when you’re naturally just an observant, introverted person and the rest of your siblings are extroverted. You can tell she’s such a smart girl and just because she doesn’t always say stuff or express it she knows what’s going on around her. She’s gonna grow up to be such an amazing girl along with the rest of her sisters.

    • @user-rc1fc2oq2c
      @user-rc1fc2oq2c 5 лет назад +8

      How about she just doesnt like the camera, just wants to be with her family where she feels comfortable and safe ....nothing wrong with parker...shes as smart as a whip. They will see..

    • @RoyalUK2023
      @RoyalUK2023 4 года назад

      @@user-rc1fc2oq2c if that was the problem she wouldn't have problems at school. But she does has problems at school.

    • @gamespc7880
      @gamespc7880 4 года назад +2

      @@RoyalUK2023 I agree her anxiety doesn't care about the cameras. Just look at the video of the Christmas play at school when she started crying that had nothing to do with the cameras it was because she was not only up on the stage in front of her family but also a lot of people she didn't even know. Also where she was standing was to the left of where her parents were sitting. I mean they don't have the cameras around all the time.

  • @charlottereid5173
    @charlottereid5173 5 лет назад +992

    Can we just talk about how cute they and their names are

    • @KAYELLEK
      @KAYELLEK 5 лет назад +3

      Except for poor parker

    • @charlottereid5173
      @charlottereid5173 5 лет назад +38

      @@KAYELLEK I wrote this post about Parker. I lover her name and she is so pretty

    • @KAYELLEK
      @KAYELLEK 5 лет назад +7

      Spider Møøn GACHA she’s cute but I don’t like her name 🤷🏼‍♀️ to each their own

    • @beachyxvibess9603
      @beachyxvibess9603 5 лет назад +10

      Except Hazel's name. I mean, I like the name, but Hazel doesn't suit her well.

    • @islaminlow6696
      @islaminlow6696 4 года назад +4

      I love all their names and I think that they are all so cute xxx

  • @milos5493
    @milos5493 5 лет назад +33

    I think it’s awesome that they recognized and are dealing with Parker’s anxiety early on. I have struggled with pretty severe anxiety disorder all my life and I always wonder if it would’ve helped to have gotten early intervention at a younger age.

  • @tauraward7741
    @tauraward7741 5 лет назад +39

    I’m glad they caught Parkers anxiety and shyness so early. It’ll definitely help in the future. Wish someone noticed mine during the early stages.

  • @nataleedenlinger635
    @nataleedenlinger635 5 лет назад +64

    parker is obviously intelligent but she’s scared and anxious. i feel for her she’s such a sweet girl

  • @vanessacastellon4479
    @vanessacastellon4479 5 лет назад +142

    Parker is smart but takes her time so i think its best for her to take her time instead of thinking about the fact she needs to be with her sisters and riley is more advanced so let her move up and see what others around her do so shr can mature

  • @ninatruog337
    @ninatruog337 5 лет назад +359

    "I'm gonna scratch you if you don't give me the crayon"
    What a mood 😂

  • @crystalblue3842
    @crystalblue3842 5 лет назад +48

    Parker is very intelligent, but this doesn't always show because of her anxiety

  • @anushkasrivastav5643
    @anushkasrivastav5643 5 лет назад +251

    Parker reminds me of me. I was initially very very shy, wouldn't talk to anyone in class, observe anyone around, but eventually in college i opened up a lot and achieved quiet a bit, so yeah she will be fine once she herself decides she has to fight this, because this is an inner battle, no matter how much you tell her she will only be over it once she realises it herself. She's the sweetest ❤️

    • @sumeshswami614
      @sumeshswami614 5 лет назад +2

      I think u are cute and adorable like Parker that's why u both share eachother quality's

    • @blakely6871
      @blakely6871 5 лет назад +1

      How did you fight it?

    • @sumeshswami614
      @sumeshswami614 5 лет назад +1

      @@blakely6871 just spend time with the new people talk with them and don't shy

    • @anushkasrivastav5643
      @anushkasrivastav5643 5 лет назад +2

      @@blakely6871 Just started taking leadership roles, so you have to be coordinating with a bunch of people, so now i can speak to literally anyone

    • @anushkasrivastav5643
      @anushkasrivastav5643 5 лет назад +4

      @@blakely6871 also, i told myself that other's opinion of me doesn't matter

  • @dianag9066
    @dianag9066 5 лет назад +93

    One thing...you shouldn't be talking so much about Riley "moving up" or how smart she is in front of her and all the other girls. They can HEAR you. They get that you are praising Riley up and down for being ahead of them. Think about it. 🤔

    • @sumis4120
      @sumis4120 5 лет назад +7

      Diana G I agree! And she just started KG😂 how “smart” can a KG kid be? She’s just better than the other kids!
      I’m from India & most kids here are academically sound, but that never means, they’re speeded to higher classes ...! You’re different from other kids when your IQ is higher than other kids & when you can pick up what’s NOT taught to you, on your own!

    • @colettesquillante382
      @colettesquillante382 5 лет назад +11

      I totally agree! Blows my mind how much they praise riley and tell her how smart she is infront of her and the other girls! Duh common sense not to do that

    • @szheng8488
      @szheng8488 5 лет назад +14

      I was shocked to see Riley saying "I'm very smart but my sisters are not" in one of the videos while in the car with her sisters sitting behind. She's already very bossy & I wonder how she's gonna take it if one or more of her sisters caught up and surpassed her in school in future

    • @sunshinealdc4676
      @sunshinealdc4676 3 года назад +2

      @@szheng8488 Wow her parents really need to stop talking about how smart Riley is...

    • @tammyjohnson4414
      @tammyjohnson4414 3 года назад +4

      @@RurusWorld stop speaking badly of kid, you ignorant fool

  • @jamieharvie9827
    @jamieharvie9827 5 лет назад +252

    why is adam so adamant about all the girls being in the same class like twins are typically split up in school to help them grow and develop individually

    • @Phoenix-iq8ei
      @Phoenix-iq8ei 5 лет назад +2

      I can't tell if that's supposed to be a joke or not

    • @IllHandleThis
      @IllHandleThis 5 лет назад +11

      Puppy Lover17 It’s not. Don’t play stupid.

    • @IllHandleThis
      @IllHandleThis 5 лет назад +28

      I agree. It’s silly. They don’t need to all be together like that during school. Life isn’t like that. It will greatly help with their development to be split up. It’s not going to keep them from being close!

    • @verenakelly1789
      @verenakelly1789 5 лет назад

      I think this is the wrong way! They need each other

    • @evolutionofmoeco
      @evolutionofmoeco 5 лет назад +13

      Because he is a parent and wants to make the right decisions for his children

  • @nayeliflores5234
    @nayeliflores5234 5 лет назад +197

    At least Riley wanted health food unlike every other 4 year old who wants junk food 😂

  • @erc28
    @erc28 5 лет назад +68

    Uncle Dale: That's how we feed Bronson still 🤣

  • @jessieeads6569
    @jessieeads6569 5 лет назад +40

    As hard as it may be for all concerned ! These parents have to look at each child as an individual and do what's best for that individual to thrive and grow into the best happy person they can be!

    • @mandys1038
      @mandys1038 5 лет назад +4

      Agreed and I am glad Adam and Danielle are understanding that now.

  • @bluebirdstar879
    @bluebirdstar879 5 лет назад +160

    I feel like Riley have tantrums cause she is smart and bossy and feel like she is an adult and want to get things her way but she is just a kid and don't know how to so she get frustrated and explode = tantrums😂

    • @kittyroselevine5855
      @kittyroselevine5855 4 года назад +2

      Gotta be tougher on the smart kids lol they'll take advantage 100% to get what they want

    • @sunshinealdc4676
      @sunshinealdc4676 3 года назад

      She exactly like my one year old sister. She thinks she's an adult and can do what she wants but she's only a kid so she gets mad

    • @lovelynorcullo9207
      @lovelynorcullo9207 3 года назад +1

      Being bossy is one of the qualities of most of the smart kids because they are strong headed and independent at the same time.

  • @cellyrasa5249
    @cellyrasa5249 5 лет назад +45

    I love parker she reminds me so much of me as a child.

  • @ameliabaldwin3274
    @ameliabaldwin3274 5 лет назад +80

    Nobody take this the wrong way but sometimes Parker acts depressed

    • @centreparcslover3300
      @centreparcslover3300 5 лет назад +11

      Amelia Baldwin she has anxiety,they went to see a doctor x

    • @ameliabaldwin3274
      @ameliabaldwin3274 5 лет назад +2

      @@centreparcslover3300 I know

    • @IllHandleThis
      @IllHandleThis 5 лет назад +15

      Centre parcs Lover She seems to have depression along with the anxiety. Everyone knows she has anxiety.

    • @tiptoes9847
      @tiptoes9847 5 лет назад +7

      No Living in constant anxiety makes you have depression in the long term. I know this so well..

    • @flowerdolphin5648
      @flowerdolphin5648 4 года назад +2

      @@tiptoes9847 Yes. I know this too.

  • @manjuladobhal9512
    @manjuladobhal9512 5 лет назад +30

    I agree evey body takes their own time...

  • @blacksheep1069
    @blacksheep1069 5 лет назад +35

    Parker resemble to Riley..I know They had different face but sometimes I mistook both of them..

    • @fionaodak2583
      @fionaodak2583 5 лет назад

      That's because those two are yhe twins among the sisters

    • @annaw.114
      @annaw.114 5 лет назад +8

      Fiona Odak no they aren’t. That’s Ava and Olivia.

    • @fionaodak2583
      @fionaodak2583 5 лет назад

      @@annaw.114 Oh,thanks,didn't know

  • @bianca1685
    @bianca1685 5 лет назад +147

    I think they should definitely move Riley a whole grade if she is too advanced for preschool and I hope they are still working with the therapist for Parker cause I know she’s just as smart as everyone but she just has stuff going on for her

    • @jacquelinetribble7133
      @jacquelinetribble7133 5 лет назад +2

      There is absolutely nothing wrong with Parker. This therapy business is just going to make her think that there is. She's shy and she's quiet. SO WHAT. She's not a clone. It would be more worrying if all 5 quints were exactly the same. Give the kid a break. She's 4 years old for God's sake and a perfectly normal child.

    • @bianca1685
      @bianca1685 5 лет назад +1

      catlady paris I think there’s a different between shy and having anxiety. Like I understand that everyone isn’t going to be the same but the fact that it’s inhibiting her from answering test then it should be look at. Doesn’t mean it has to be therapist though

    • @jacquelinetribble7133
      @jacquelinetribble7133 5 лет назад

      @@bianca1685 Yep. And she's shy. She's only 4 fgs. Give the child a break

    • @tandfadams5535
      @tandfadams5535 4 года назад

      catlady paris yeah, like idk if she's just shy or has anxiety because my younger sister was like her, she'd freak out whenever people were watching her. But the parents know better then us

    • @coversbymikaila
      @coversbymikaila 3 года назад +1

      @@jacquelinetribble7133 she was diagnosed with anxiety and she needs help. Therapy is going to help her. I have anxiety too and I know how bad it can be. It’s not that she’s just shy and quiet, it’s a disorder that can become more manageable through therapy

  • @ashleykumor1825
    @ashleykumor1825 5 лет назад +32

    riley is that girl that will be in accelerated math

  • @KoiYakultGreenTea
    @KoiYakultGreenTea 4 года назад +11

    “Mimi.”
    “What?”
    “.... he’s sitting by you”

  • @kateyhero2748
    @kateyhero2748 5 лет назад +12

    "Mimi he's sitting by you" cuteness

  • @sandyg5103
    @sandyg5103 5 лет назад +91

    I wish they wouldn't talk in front of the kids.

    • @ellebelle6410
      @ellebelle6410 5 лет назад +13

      I agree with you SandyG. It made me sad when I saw them doing that in front of her. I was an introvert child so I can relate. And it always devastated me to hear my parents discuss what to do about me as if I didn't understand or hear them. Kids pick up on everything they hear!

    • @doyothang8863
      @doyothang8863 5 лет назад +6

      elle belle they really do! I honestly can remember stuff from when I was even 3-4 years old! My parents fought and yelled my entire life and my sister would call me a loser and say that nobody liked me because I was super shy and quiet with no friends when I was growing up (she literally wrote. Paper saying I had not a lot of friends) and I can’t even begin to explain how much it effected me and my life

    • @ellebelle6410
      @ellebelle6410 5 лет назад +2

      @@doyothang8863 My heart goes out to you Doyo... I understand what you're saying. Life sure is not easy. God bless you.

    • @doyothang8863
      @doyothang8863 5 лет назад

      elle belle aw thank you!

    • @doyothang8863
      @doyothang8863 5 лет назад

      elle belle sorry I wrote it at 7am so I messed up a lot of the grammar

  • @katiehugheslife1438
    @katiehugheslife1438 5 лет назад +15

    ‘’I am gonna scratch you if you don’t give me a crayon’’ 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @albearha
    @albearha 5 лет назад +7

    Yes. Riley AND Parker should both be moved up together, just as they were put in the advanced class to begin with based purely on observations of the teaching staff throughout the preschool year rather than on that ridiculous testing where Parker was either not answering at all or answering correctly but being marked incorrectly or answering deliberately incorrectly due to being angry she had been misheard and the mistake left uncorrected (a VERY Parker thing to do - Danielle describes how, from babydom, Parker would deliberately do the opposite of what she was told to do if she objected to it....which Danielle laughingly described as 'being stubborn....just like me"). Riley, with HER very different personality AND a year earlier, actually managed an eye-roll and an expression of near disgust at being SO INSULTED by the suggestion she couldn't tell one letter from another when the teacher asked her "Did you say P or B?" (and Parker was NOT even asked!) Forget the testing and just look at how Parker 'studied' the mechanism of the spider-in-the-box (unlike any of the others). Watch all the girls on the family bus back from first day at school THIS year and note who comes across as most 'with-it' and dominant of the quints; notice how Riley defers to Parker's conversation. Notice how, during the Halloween shopping trip to the pet store, Riley seeks Parker's favor - "Check THIS out, Park!" Riley is NOT like that with any of the other quints. Dad also says Parker "is good at everything"; Mom says that Parker is favorite playmate of ALL the quints....HIGHLY unlikely if any of them, especially Riley, view PK as in any way less competent! Parker was identifying "P for Parker" when she was barely two years old; she was reading 'Water Balloons' from the package not much later. SO, if 2 years of schooling later, she can NO LONGER identify a "P" or the color 'yellow' (as the testing seems to suggest)...does ANYONE see ANY logic in making her repeat a year of COUNTERPRODUCTIVE teaching (at least for Parker)? Obviously I believe the problem is not with Parker, but most likely with the testing, and less likely with the schooling not suiting her....quite possibly similarly to Riley, but with both girls 'acting out' their boredom in different ways typical of their personalities - Riley, aggressive; Parker, stubbornly contrary.

  • @yvonnepingleton5063
    @yvonnepingleton5063 5 лет назад +11

    Yes they should move them. Just because they were born at the same time, dosen't mean they have to be joined at the hip. They don't need to be together 24/7.

  • @kaelajehnke9212
    @kaelajehnke9212 5 лет назад +11

    Holding Parker back might help with her learning, but she might feel like an outcast from her sisters

  • @KaneaxXx
    @KaneaxXx 5 лет назад +6

    the season only had 6 episodes! we need longer seasons TLC

  • @dloui5214
    @dloui5214 4 года назад +11

    parker is a great kid. she just afraid to make mistakse , too cautious that make her seems to be a passive kid.

  • @judyivie2215
    @judyivie2215 5 лет назад +14

    Move up Riley under ghe same rule as she needs to have a situation where she may mature. So let Parker be where she may be a leader. Confidence for Parker.

  • @OneChicagoFan
    @OneChicagoFan 5 лет назад +15

    I know how Parker feels as I am victim of anxiety and still am it’s so hard to do things especially new things I struggle with new friends and socialising it just doesn’t make me feel comfortable I hope she over comes her anxiety as u get old it’s not the best thing to have and me being a 13 year old it’s hard

  • @dakotaj-l9769
    @dakotaj-l9769 5 лет назад +5

    I love how Adam and Danielle are so supportive of Parker!

  • @kyleigh8028
    @kyleigh8028 5 лет назад +40

    The thing with kids like Riley and myself is we know the rules we just don’t like them. Also we act two different ways at home and in school so that might be the same with Ri Ri. Also we are Ri Ri and Ky Ky

    • @patriciahawkins7337
      @patriciahawkins7337 5 лет назад +1

      Kylie Tafoya that is so true. Temper tantrums don’t work at school. My teachers always told my parents how quiet and polite I was. They were shocked because I was not that way at home.

  • @lornab2555
    @lornab2555 5 лет назад +8

    I worry about Parker, she displays some struggles!

  • @junphi
    @junphi 5 лет назад +11

    “im gonna scratch u if u dont give me the crayon” 😂😂😂😂

  • @thecolakittykatsu
    @thecolakittykatsu 5 лет назад +114

    Here’s a banana for Riley -> 🍌

  • @lisalivingstone6313
    @lisalivingstone6313 5 лет назад +5

    Never ever hold a child back for the sake of others! That would be awful. Trust me as I have good experience with this!

  • @kateviolet8747
    @kateviolet8747 5 лет назад +35

    Riley yawning is adorable 😂

  • @fabi7296
    @fabi7296 5 лет назад +3

    I was extremely shy and quiet as a little girl. Honestly I wouldn’t even speak to a classmate to ask if I could borrow a pencil. That’s how it was up until I entered middle school, I guess I got tired of suppressing myself. Then i opened up a lot and “came out of my shell”. Now nobody could ever guess I was the really shy and quiet kid.

  • @mk.3654
    @mk.3654 5 лет назад +5

    I personally think they should be separate just so they don’t rely on each other. It would help them expand their friend group to people other than their sister.

  • @oodlespaos
    @oodlespaos 5 лет назад +1

    Poor Parker,I have the same anxiety and I hate it I can’t imagine being that young and having anxiety

  • @mary-annz.reynolds7778
    @mary-annz.reynolds7778 5 лет назад +3

    Keep Riley moving. Keep her busy. Let Parker move at her pace. Keep her where she feels safe to explore.

  • @idonttireeasily
    @idonttireeasily 4 года назад +2

    I get really anxious in public like Parker. I’ve been able to learn at school, but nobody knows that because I get frozen and feel like I can’t speak up about it.

  • @LillianJessen
    @LillianJessen 5 лет назад +3

    Adam has to realize that when they get out of pre school they are going to be in different classes especially in middle school and high school.

  • @srithadirisala290
    @srithadirisala290 3 года назад +2

    “I’m gonna scratch you if you don’t give me the crayon”
    Adorable

  • @ellamccarthy2190
    @ellamccarthy2190 4 года назад +3

    “I’m gonna scratch you if you don’t give me the crayon”😂

  • @c.r701
    @c.r701 4 года назад +2

    They are each individual people. makes no sense to hold one back just because of the others.

  • @AnnaThe54
    @AnnaThe54 5 лет назад +4

    How on earth do they do this as parents. Like I would lose my mind.

    • @IllHandleThis
      @IllHandleThis 5 лет назад +1

      They’ve got so much help especially behind the scenes. Plus money. They’re set.

  • @livgrace2567
    @livgrace2567 5 лет назад +25

    There all the same zodiac . But LOTS of different personalities

  • @nylshah4241
    @nylshah4241 Год назад +2

    Uncle Dale: “that’s how we feed Bronson still” 😂

  • @kimiisland9802
    @kimiisland9802 5 лет назад +19

    Maybe Parker has Autism. I have Aspergers by myself and I see some similarities. I dont think she is behind the other four, but she is just scared and uncomfortable in many situations. I would not leave her behind, because its more a social problem and not a learning issue.

    • @shielaingay5079
      @shielaingay5079 4 года назад +5

      No she doesn’t have autism

    • @tandfadams5535
      @tandfadams5535 4 года назад

      All About Movies she shows some symptoms of it, it would be interesting just to see her get testsd

  • @openwatersaldc3584
    @openwatersaldc3584 5 лет назад +4

    Parker is so smart but her anxiety just gets in the way 😢

  • @alexaddyvlogs970
    @alexaddyvlogs970 5 лет назад +6

    It’s not fair for anyone of them and hazel I think she still can’t see straight

  • @rhyliejayde9614
    @rhyliejayde9614 3 года назад +2

    Riley’s personality is ALOT like mine. I got temper tantrums over tiny things when I was around her age and I still get them now but you just have to teach her ways of getting over them and calming down, such as writing it down on paper then then throwing the paper out and once you throw the paper out it’s like a lift weighted off your shoulder. Luv u guys💕

  • @Glden_b1oom
    @Glden_b1oom 4 года назад +1

    That’s why you as parents should understand who amongst your children need you most. Not focus on the more advance one and play favorites just because one child is more intelligent than the other. I know that is something to be proud of having an very smart child but you should also be sensitive and be able to attend to the more timid one

  • @oliviadancer1237
    @oliviadancer1237 4 года назад +1

    Poor Parker.i hope her anxiety gets better soon😢

  • @biancabonn978
    @biancabonn978 5 лет назад +1

    I know a family of triplets. They always wanted to treat them exactly equal. But it turned out to be difficult, when the first girl learned to read way earlier than the others. They tried to not pay attention to her, so she never got praised for her good grades at school. She‘s got depressions now.
    But about little Parker. I don‘t know.
    She seems smart. Just too shy for tests like that. I don‘t know if repeating a grade would make that any better.

  • @EHCBunny4real
    @EHCBunny4real 5 лет назад +3

    I wish a bit of the extroverted Riley would rub off on Parker because they're socially opposite of each other.

  • @alyxantyx1236
    @alyxantyx1236 5 лет назад +1

    Just because they share DNA doesn't mean they're all going to excell in the same thing; but you can't hold one child back if they happen to shine academically.
    I have a very small age gap between my second and third children and it always puzzled me to hear teachers saying things like "T is so active but H just sits and reads" or "H likes his own company but T is so sociable"!!
    Yeah, that would be down to the fact they're different people ie: not clones of one another.
    As I always tell my children, no one is good at everything, we all have our own individual talents and interests and just because somebody else is good at something, doesn't mean we should feel pressure to do so too.
    The worst thing they can do, is discuss this type of thing infront of the children, or they're going to end up with a very insecure little lady (or ladies) on their hands and praise each one as an individual, not a group.
    As for the whining for a banana etc... Mum did the right thing (in my opinion), I wouldn't speak to my children when they addressed me in that tone and they certainly didn't get what they wanted until they could ask me in a civil tone.
    At the end of the day, I'm sure they'll make the right choices for their children; it really is the hardest 'job' on earth and to a certain degree, we're all winging it!!

  • @Videos4Diamond
    @Videos4Diamond 5 лет назад +1

    This is part of asynchronous development. My little man is still has tantrums, too. But it is why I am homeschooling...he is four and doing first grade work. This is a struggle for all parents with gifted kids.

  • @bluedoggobook9399
    @bluedoggobook9399 5 лет назад +10

    They’re their own people!.

  • @melodyherrmann
    @melodyherrmann 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yes my parents noticed my anxiety in 7th grade after 1 meeting with my teachers and like in 7th grade i wouldn't ask for help or raise my hand and i wouldn't even talk to them at all or anyone and as im going into 9th grade its getting worse because i haven't been taking my anxiety meds and in 8th grade after i moved and started public school again i wouldn't even talk to my new teachers at all i hate being ground people i dont know its rough and now that im Goin in to 9th grade its gotten way worse like i dont even raise my hand and ask for help when i need it like my anxiety has just gotten way worse and still is

  • @blissbloxburg5125
    @blissbloxburg5125 4 года назад +7

    I’m just glad that Riley was screaming cause she wanted a banana instead of candy😂

  • @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
    @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 5 лет назад +16

    Parker has the sweetest face. I love those rosy cheeks.

  • @Onedirectionlife
    @Onedirectionlife 4 года назад +2

    Every single episode Riley either wants apple juice or bananas

  • @jojomakes
    @jojomakes 5 лет назад +1

    I actually think it would be a good idea to have a Parker in a separate class. It’ll be extremely difficult for her at first, but eventually her interpersonal skills will improve over time. She’s not struggling academically or physically; just socially. The Busby’s are a huge family with tons of in-laws. This creates a comfortable “crutch” for Parker in a way. No one wants Parker to be sad or feel uncomfortable when they’re out, so they immediately go to console her, or she immediately goes to seek them. When she’s at school, she has her sisters to fall back on. It’s okay once in awhile if she’s severely panicked or in danger, but she needs to learn self soothing mechanisms. I know this probably sounds harsh, but I really don’t mean it to be. My point is just that eventually as she gets older, she’s not gonna always have her sisters or her father right next to her to swoop in and protect her. They think they’re doing the right thing because they love her so much and want her to be happy, but at some point during her preteen development years, the "enabling" will actually cause her to regress, because she’ll have grownup to be codependent on others for emotional support.

  • @erinhainey4103
    @erinhainey4103 5 лет назад +1

    I definitely agree! They all need to be treated as individuals

  • @chloe_3787
    @chloe_3787 5 лет назад +3

    It’s weird to think that RIley will graduate an entire class above her sisters. I mean, she’s obviously a very smart kid, and it’s also very apparent that she could hold her own in a grade of a bunch of kids older than her. It’s just crazy that in high school she could be saying “oh yeah, I’m a quintuplet” and there are some people who probably won’t even know. Teachers will think Ava, Olivia, Parker, and Hazel are quadruplets and Riley is their older sister 😂

    • @sunkara8158
      @sunkara8158 5 лет назад +2

      Lol yah when Riri is the second youngest of all 😅

  • @travel4328
    @travel4328 5 лет назад +2

    You should treat them as Individuals. Don’t hold them back or not do something just because you don’t want them separated from their sisters. They all go at their own speed. And tbh some kindergarteners also flip out over small stuff so Riley is totally good to going into kindergarten. I’m glad they let her strive.

  • @sophia_gb_03
    @sophia_gb_03 5 лет назад +2

    my niece had very similar behaviour at her age, she had mild autism. this may be something that they could look into

  • @nalinkumarasingha923
    @nalinkumarasingha923 3 года назад +2

    Riley and parker are so innocent and beautiful hearted kids💐💝💖

  • @kitty62862
    @kitty62862 5 лет назад +1

    I love that you’re thinking this through, rather than jumping in.
    Riley’s behavior will likely improve when she’s challenged enough. When she’s engaged at the level she needs to be. Much of her acting out can be boredom.
    Parker will benefit enormously, from being allowed to take her time. She will ultimately outgrow this phase.
    I know it might seem a little bit awkward right now, but your quints will benefit enormously from not having to be a five headed single entity 24/7.
    You won’t be hurting their relationships.
    They’re a unit at home.
    You obviously love them so much, don’t doubt yourself.

  • @hollybiegel4345
    @hollybiegel4345 5 лет назад +2

    I’m a twin. Ok...not five kids, but they aren’t going to be the same all their lives. Better to start now than wait.

  • @summerxo3203
    @summerxo3203 5 лет назад +3

    Sometimes shy kids like Parker prosper and become successful when you hold them a year

  • @veesancez
    @veesancez 5 лет назад +2

    I think she should definitely be in a separate class from her siblings but not held back

  • @meiraloraduncan8953
    @meiraloraduncan8953 5 лет назад

    It’s hard on parents of multiples to look at them as individuals and not as twins, triplets, quads, and quints. You have to decide what is best for each child both separately and as a group. With their education and development it’s more about the individual because sometimes keeping them grouped will hold some of them back and can result in problems later on.

  • @arim6074
    @arim6074 4 года назад +2

    riley’s eyes are so blue and pretty omg

  • @lolasmith7221
    @lolasmith7221 4 года назад

    I feel so bad that I kid as young as Parker goes through that much anxiety

  • @madisonlewe1057
    @madisonlewe1057 5 лет назад +1

    I don’t really see it as being separated. They’re simply given the chance to excel at the level their currently at.

  • @emilys9017
    @emilys9017 5 лет назад +1

    I don’t feel like Parker should be held back. I was exactly like her when I was a kid. Very shy but also I knew what was going on. I got special help in elementary school for math, reading, and speech. Which helped me a lot in the future.

  • @caia.3041
    @caia.3041 5 лет назад +24

    the last time i was this early it was their 1st birthday😂

  • @samuelsavel7314
    @samuelsavel7314 4 года назад +1

    Allow them to grow as they are. Their differences will iron out over time. If u keep on stressing on their differences that can become very problematic throughout their lives.

  • @ItsSusieQue96
    @ItsSusieQue96 4 года назад

    As someone the schools recommended to be moved ahead and had parents who did not do so, I can tell you do NOT hold her back. I became a discipline problem out of boredom, did NOT fit in with my classmates and was bullied and ultimately simply stopped trying for a couple years figuring if my family wanted me to be stupid, I’d oblige them. I developed anxiety disorder and depression from being forced NOT to excel. Do nit EVER hold Riley back -she may end up fearing working to her to her potential as a result. So would you hold all the rest back because of Parker’s anxiety disorder ? It’s the same thing...
    These are individuals not a matched set.

  • @ささ-s3k
    @ささ-s3k 2 года назад

    My parents didn’t know my anxiety in my childhood.

  • @tiktokcompilations5734
    @tiktokcompilations5734 4 года назад +1

    Parker is definitely where the other girls are but she is just really shy and it doesn’t show.

  • @meepboogers3353
    @meepboogers3353 4 года назад

    I'm glad that the one was okay with moving her up, cause sometimes part of the temper tantrums is just being bored so challenging her would be awesome

  • @beverleykowalewski6645
    @beverleykowalewski6645 5 лет назад +2

    Riley needs stimulation all the time. Let her fly ... don't hold her ... or any of the others back. They will fly at their own pace.

  • @brittanymcminn6813
    @brittanymcminn6813 5 лет назад +1

    I am a twin, me and my brother was kinda in a similar situation when we were starting kindergarten. One kid could move up but the other couldn’t ( i was the one that if we went through it wouldn’t move up). In my perspective i would of hated having my brother in the grade ahead of me, plus we actually liked being together so we always had a friend. But i think this situation is a little different with it being multiples. So i think they should try moving her up and if she not mature enough have her repeat kindergarten

  • @oliviadnelson
    @oliviadnelson 5 лет назад +1

    I was the exact same as Riley when I was younger. Intelligence wise I was really far ahead, however when it came to handling my emotions I struggled. I’m am so glad my parents decided to move me up despite my struggles.

  • @reginagreer7189
    @reginagreer7189 5 лет назад +8

    Simple give the child a banana with the understanding that it is part of lunch. Maybe she NEEDS to eat right now!

    • @sound4daWeb
      @sound4daWeb 4 года назад

      Riley's being a brat. I think Danielle should be more stern with her. Riley throws tantrums over the littlest things. They usually give those girls what they want when they want it. Maybe if they were taught to say please she may have gotten a Banbana.

  • @mdmwong4391
    @mdmwong4391 4 года назад +5

    Parker I especially like her, she is a very mysterious girl !