Inviting someone out to dinner then expecting them to pay is like inviting someone to your house for dinner and then expecting them to cook. She tried to foodie date him and it backfired.
@@janelee-xt1xs Africans who believe in reincarnation think that if you lead a good life you will come back as a lion. Evil people come back as a hyena wiyh a broken back
Women: I want to marry my best friend. Also Women: I don't want to ruin my friendship by getting in a relationship. Why does anyone pay attention to the goofy things they say?
She should have said, "I got it. My card is down, anyway." He already paid 2x, she can't pay once? Damn. This "new woman" is so selfish & entitled out here. It's going to be a bunch of old, botched body having, single, elderly women in the future.
It’s so hilarious. First girl= WELCOME TO BEING A MAN. You wanted to be seen as equals. This is the start. It ain’t no “Only when it’s convenient for you” time, it’s all the time
.. The last date I had and it was months ago, my wallet was like HEEELLLLL NO AFTER SEEING THE RESTAURANT SHE WANTED ME TO TAKE HER, DATING THESE 304's IS STRAIGHT UP SUICIDE..
I've paid for the whole meal in the past when I was the one who suggested the restaurant. my idea, my money. if the waiter had said my husband should have paid for the bill I'd have told her to stay in her lane and that tip would have been 0. Even when hubby paid for the whole meal I never ordered more than I would have had I been the one paying for it. so if all I could afford on my own was a slice of pizza, that's still what I ordered. anything else would be taking advantage of his money.
Meet a woman and about the 2nd, 3rd phone call she tells you her car needs an alternator or her furnace at her house is not working, haven't talked to her in 4 months!
After pulling that BS she pulled, he shouldn't argue with that moocher but just bounce. Based on what he said she purposely ran up the bill with her hungry belly asz
In this situation you quietly excuse yourself to the restroom and find the waiter pay your half of the bill tell him shes covering the rest and walk out ... simple OG shit 👑
I would have told her okay No problem, give me a second I’ll take care of this. Got up and go to the register and have the waiter/waitress split the bill and pay for what I ordered and then left with a good bye.
He checks the in case of emergency break glass man. I guarantee you that the minute he moves on to another woman she'll be jealous and stop being his friend. Section 8 to 8 figures? Is that 8-10 kids? Yea i got some beachfront properties in Nevada i can sell cheap 😂😂😂😂😂
Men need to start being upfront with women. "I paid for the first date out of kindness and generosity". "Second date came, you expected me to pay again? Fine, I'll pay for the second because I'm kinda a simp". "Third date is on you... and we're taking turns from here on out"
I generally pay on the first date... but I always make it clear....dont worry I got this one... you can pay for the next one... so there is absolutely no confusion!
I prefer eating at home over going out - it's cheaper and more interesting to cook together. You can be as close or distant as you want, and the conversation flows more naturally while cooking. Though I wouldn't recommend cooking for first or second dates - getting coffee or drinks is better for initial meetings. Worked really well for my current boyfriend. Guess that makes me a cheap date!
My mom and stepdad started out as friends and the relationship grew into 16 years until he passed away. The love he had for my mom was priceless. I thank him for loving my mom and showing her true love.
So he paid for 2 dates no questions asked. But because he didnt wanna keep dating her he owes her for half ? Lol you gotta be kidding me . And 2nd guy shouldve just went and paid his half and left. 10 years dude is the biggest loser...
He had to know this was a real possibility before accepting the date....I'm walking the bill up to the front...setting it down to grab my 'wallet'....and disappearing 😅
A lot of us grew up in an era where people only filmed things that were worth filming. Things they wanted people to stop and watch. People didn't film themselves eating a cheeseburger or playing jump rope.
This is why I’m seriously considering a surrogate mother to have a child or two; as it’s a $50-70K one time deal. So, you cannot be cheated on, sued for alimony or child support; you have full custody and mother of child gets paid and go back to her life. This in my opinion is by far the much cheaper option and I don’t have to worry about my assets or retirement going up in smoke because a “garden tool” decides she’s not happy and take my money, house and child(ren).
This is why, gentlemen, you tell the waiter SEPARATE CHECKS at the very beginning. If she doesn't want that, then you know she is a worthless. If she does, she has potential and then if the date goes great, then maybe you pay both checks
The friends at 13:30... I agree with your thoughts! My last therapist said that "Love is friendship set on fire!" Instead of fearing the worst, think of what's the BEST case scenario?! I hope the questions on camera helped her to reevaluate her thoughts!
I’ve always been told that the best relationships begging as friends which leads to more. Sadly, it seems that the modern dating scene has missed out on that.
I wouldnt pay 300 for a meal for myself nonetheless on a date. This isnt even a conversation. This shit staged cuz i wouldnt b negotiating over a bill to a place you invited me to. Talk about me all you want but i bet i wouldnt even entertain that conversation
In the date video I would look at the bill figure out what I got and tell waitress to split the bill and put on my bill what I got and on her bill what she got I’m going to pay for mine and she will pay for hers period
Whoever asks, they pay. I don't care, man or women. If the man offers, that's fine, but it's not expected. That waitress' comment was uncalled for. The guy spent wayyyy too much time debating with his date about paying for half. He should have just sat back and expected her to pick up the bill, and the minute she argued, get up and out of your seat and walk out of the restaurant. If you drove there, leave. If she drove, call an uber.
@@El_Ophelia Just because you've done it, that doesn't make it commonplace. Ask 10 singe women at random if they've ever asked a guy out and how many do you think will say "Yes, I have"? If its any more than one (maybe), I'd question your grasp of reality.
This sounds really familiar, in my early/ mid 20s I had to set a 3 date rule, after 3 dates either you pay for the dates or show some serious interest. It saved me from being someone’s foodie simp. I would pay in full for 3 dates, but you wouldn’t see me a 4th time without paying, or getting intimate, when women have interest in you, they’ll put their money up.
Nahhh, he fucked up by letting her order all that shit without confronting her. He failed that test which is why she feels comfortable talking to him in a masculine tone.
I think the guy that didn't want to pay for the dinner knew in advance exactly what was going to happen. His phone was setup and recording too perfectly and it was like he was reading a script. Probably just made for content, even if the situation was real.
It sounds more like, she wanted him to pay her back for the date she paid for, and he decided that if that was the way she was going to work it, then he didn't want to date her.
14:25 reasons why I’ve always disliked the idea of female friends it’s all a scam. Playing the long game is a L because your not even like even half the time a backup plan. She don’t fuck with you like that but you still spending time and most cases money….say she changes her mind then you might as well still hold a L because someone out their made her want and desire a romance without having to “convince her” whatever that means. Women go for what they want.
I don't go out on dates because of how expensive it is. If you can't appreciate a quality date that doesn't involve the GDP of a small island nation, piss off. It's why you figure that out beforehand, not when you get there.
He paid that bill..he’s doing too much negotiating. She talking too strong for me. And that waitress would have got flamed for not minding her business.
Single women listening to single women about how to get a man is like taking financial advice from a homeless person. Also, Joy Taylor will forever be an athletes pump and dump, listen to her if you want.
Im from the south. If I invite you out somewhere (party, movies, concerts, arcade/ bowling knight, sports event.) I will pay for it and make sure you’re good and ate something.
I've never been to a place where you can wear a baseball cap and spend $300+ on the bill. Fam just learn the lesson, she didn't want you she wanted the food
Inside the friend zone, is different from looking at it from the outside. Because there maybe women looking at him thinking they are in a "relationship" So they don't consider him available.
I dont get it. Even with friends, I feel bad when they buy me food and try to offer help along with budgeting what im eating so they do over pay. To tske advantage of someone by having them fullly pay for your food while claiming im a strong woman and i deserve better....its shameful
My daughter was stressing over those state tests. I told her to do her best, but I needed her to be concerned with what gets her grades. If it doesn't help her with getting her grades up, forget them.
Inviting someone out to dinner then expecting them to pay is like inviting someone to your house for dinner and then expecting them to cook. She tried to foodie date him and it backfired.
I would have told the waitress, this is wrong and whispered in her ear and told her this should be a spit check!
Sorry, ladies. No Foodie calls will be answered.
Women like her always say "a friend of mine" when telling these stories, but they know good and well it's them.
Big FACTS!!! She kno that happened to her!😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I didn't even think of that? Lol
That's a trick to get a free meal!! She asks a guy out and takes him to her favorite place, and he pays the bill.
a $300 MEAL! yikes.
He talks too much.
Just pay half and go.
@@blackworldtraveler3711*pay for his meal
Who in their right mind would pay over $300 for a dinner?
@@blackworldtraveler3711hell to the no,to the no no no
At the end of the first woman's story I heard a soft voice in the back of my head say, "drizzle drizzle".
Bahaha!
😂😂😂😂😂
Lol.. yes indeed
And then "grizzle grizzle"
We don't care! Drizzle Drizzle. 😂
So she had no problem pulling receipts but the second HE does it it's a problem?😂😂
The hypocrisy is real. 🚩🚩😂😂
@@rodprops 😂
She had to have done something or said something to turn this guy completely off and this is why he politely cut her
@@joannwilson9097 She knows that wouldn't paint the picture of the man being this giagantic a**hole.
Stop dealing with hyenas
hyenas arent parasitic, they are vultures. Stop insulting hyenas.
@@janelee-xt1xs please take back those words please' jaina is a mexican word for la amiguita girl friend.
@bwdubb9898 its spelled jaina. Get you're lingoo up ése
@@janelee-xt1xs Africans who believe in reincarnation think that if you lead a good life you will come back as a lion. Evil people come back as a hyena wiyh a broken back
Women: I want to marry my best friend. Also Women: I don't want to ruin my friendship by getting in a relationship. Why does anyone pay attention to the goofy things they say?
WOMEN like her use certain men as "friends" simply to take attention and money from.
She should have said, "I got it. My card is down, anyway." He already paid 2x, she can't pay once? Damn.
This "new woman" is so selfish & entitled out here. It's going to be a bunch of old, botched body having, single, elderly women in the future.
With cats.
@@SpotTheBorgCat 😆 Let's not forget the cats. Too lazy and selfish for dogs!
@@AriesBleucats require you to empty a shit box.
It’s so hilarious. First girl= WELCOME TO BEING A MAN. You wanted to be seen as equals. This is the start. It ain’t no “Only when it’s convenient for you” time, it’s all the time
never heard of a parasite?
.. The last date I had and it was months ago, my wallet was like HEEELLLLL NO AFTER SEEING THE RESTAURANT SHE WANTED ME TO TAKE HER, DATING THESE 304's IS STRAIGHT UP SUICIDE..
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 your wallet was screaming not to do it!!!
"DON'T DO IT! RECONSIDER! READ SOME LITER!"- This man's wallet
Nice, funny how they forget how they are taken care of but never try to reciprocate
That waitress should have LOST her job - he should have asked for the manager and repeated exactly what she said - that waitress was way out of bounds
Exactly, unless the manager was another woman
I've paid for the whole meal in the past when I was the one who suggested the restaurant. my idea, my money. if the waiter had said my husband should have paid for the bill I'd have told her to stay in her lane and that tip would have been 0. Even when hubby paid for the whole meal I never ordered more than I would have had I been the one paying for it. so if all I could afford on my own was a slice of pizza, that's still what I ordered. anything else would be taking advantage of his money.
Women view themselves as the prize men view women as a threat
First one sounds delusional….second one sounds insecure. People need to get their sh*t together
Not as a threat, but definitely a liability in multiple aspects
@@jwdathefax377oh well it’s the truth in a lot of cases than not
I guess that's both ways since the women have been picking the bear. 🤷
not so much as a threat but more of an unnecessary expense. cheaper to rent t&a.
Call the waiter over and say you want to pay for what you ordered, pay, and leave her there.
And not tipping her either
dating journey = hoeing around
ExpecTAKEtions😂
Meet a woman and about the 2nd, 3rd phone call she tells you her car needs an alternator or her furnace at her house is not working, haven't talked to her in 4 months!
Yeah homie should have got up and left the arguing was pointless.
Nah. It was for likes. 😢
After pulling that BS she pulled, he shouldn't argue with that moocher but just bounce. Based on what he said she purposely ran up the bill with her hungry belly asz
More like GREEDY!
The waitress need to mind her own
In this situation you quietly excuse yourself to the restroom and find the waiter pay your half of the bill tell him shes covering the rest and walk out ... simple OG shit 👑
I am ashamed of that guy in the friend - Zone. No man could be a better fool.
I can see this happening I high-school. Shoots Evrn first year in college. But not past 24. Friendzones are for insecure men
@@dflava3805 that lady will never respect him until the day he leaves her and say you know what: I am done with you.
I would have told her okay No problem, give me a second I’ll take care of this. Got up and go to the register and have the waiter/waitress split the bill and pay for what I ordered and then left with a good bye.
Exactly. He was too busy talking and not using his actions. Would have pulled the manager into it if needed be.
@@woolvermeano.g.5522it was for clicks and likes
I've done it. 😉 I was in the car laughing all the way home. 😂😂🤣🤣
How is she going to teach people how to make something when she never made it herself; that’s a fraudulent product 😭😭
Dating "journey"...yeah, OoooKay 😂
"Riiighttt" 🤣
🎠🎠🎠🎠
Dumbest thing I ever heard.
He checks the in case of emergency break glass man. I guarantee you that the minute he moves on to another woman she'll be jealous and stop being his friend. Section 8 to 8 figures? Is that 8-10 kids? Yea i got some beachfront properties in Nevada i can sell cheap 😂😂😂😂😂
The weirdness is strong with Ms. Section 8 🤣
He did it right… he took a woman out twice got nothing out of the deal. Forget about it cut your losses.
Men need to start being upfront with women. "I paid for the first date out of kindness and generosity". "Second date came, you expected me to pay again? Fine, I'll pay for the second because I'm kinda a simp". "Third date is on you... and we're taking turns from here on out"
I generally pay on the first date... but I always make it clear....dont worry I got this one... you can pay for the next one... so there is absolutely no confusion!
Glad I only dated outside of the U.S..
Always Dutch and cheaper.
I prefer eating at home over going out - it's cheaper and more interesting to cook together. You can be as close or distant as you want, and the conversation flows more naturally while cooking. Though I wouldn't recommend cooking for first or second dates - getting coffee or drinks is better for initial meetings. Worked really well for my current boyfriend. Guess that makes me a cheap date!
You never take turns coz she will ramp the bill when its your turn... Alweys split !!!!!
honey, teach men and boy to never to anything or even lift a finger for a female. Dont even call 911.
My mom and stepdad started out as friends and the relationship grew into 16 years until he passed away. The love he had for my mom was priceless. I thank him for loving my mom and showing her true love.
"WINNING "
Charlie Sheen.....
So he paid for 2 dates no questions asked. But because he didnt wanna keep dating her he owes her for half ? Lol you gotta be kidding me . And 2nd guy shouldve just went and paid his half and left. 10 years dude is the biggest loser...
As a financial advisor, no client should pay for a consultation. Way too many liars and grifters.
He had to know this was a real possibility before accepting the date....I'm walking the bill up to the front...setting it down to grab my 'wallet'....and disappearing 😅
A lot of us grew up in an era where people only filmed things that were worth filming. Things they wanted people to stop and watch. People didn't film themselves eating a cheeseburger or playing jump rope.
The brother is right about the education system.
I’m glad to hear that more women are discovering that the ‘ATM’ is closed. There is no such thing as a free lunch (or dinner)😂
Don’t be that dude sitting on the dark for 10 years
This is why I’m seriously considering a surrogate mother to have a child or two; as it’s a $50-70K one time deal. So, you cannot be cheated on, sued for alimony or child support; you have full custody and mother of child gets paid and go back to her life. This in my opinion is by far the much cheaper option and I don’t have to worry about my assets or retirement going up in smoke because a “garden tool” decides she’s not happy and take my money, house and child(ren).
Good ideal. We would stop having as many girl babies too. 😁😐😁
No need to. It would solve for x.
Genius! 😂
Better do it legally or they can come after you for chuld support
The most important thing we can say to women is... NO.
This is why, gentlemen, you tell the waiter SEPARATE CHECKS at the very beginning.
If she doesn't want that, then you know she is a worthless.
If she does, she has potential and then if the date goes great, then maybe you pay both checks
That's a good tip for dating! 👍
All women see us as is whatever they can take from us……
"Foodie calls"
The friends at 13:30... I agree with your thoughts! My last therapist said that "Love is friendship set on fire!" Instead of fearing the worst, think of what's the BEST case scenario?! I hope the questions on camera helped her to reevaluate her thoughts!
The audacity!
I’ve always been told that the best relationships begging as friends which leads to more. Sadly, it seems that the modern dating scene has missed out on that.
whoever invites the person out pays.
Simple logic that people still don't seem to get...
The first clip straight up backfired on her😂he did right leave her alone!!! There’s no future dates or anything period!!!💯🙅🏿♂️
I wouldnt pay 300 for a meal for myself nonetheless on a date. This isnt even a conversation. This shit staged cuz i wouldnt b negotiating over a bill to a place you invited me to. Talk about me all you want but i bet i wouldnt even entertain that conversation
DRIZZLE. DRIZZLE.
In the date video I would look at the bill figure out what I got and tell waitress to split the bill and put on my bill what I got and on her bill what she got I’m going to pay for mine and she will pay for hers period
Back in my dating days, I always offered to at least to grab the tip. And then left a hefty tip to show my gratitude.
6:04 she asked you out and wants you to pay h****ll naw. Look you ask you pay h*ll she probably doesn't even have the money to pay.
Pay the bill, block her a$$, and start choosing better, drizzle drizzle! 😂
She still win if you pay the bill. Just get up pay for your portion and leave.
Whoever asks, they pay. I don't care, man or women. If the man offers, that's fine, but it's not expected. That waitress' comment was uncalled for. The guy spent wayyyy too much time debating with his date about paying for half. He should have just sat back and expected her to pick up the bill, and the minute she argued, get up and out of your seat and walk out of the restaurant. If you drove there, leave. If she drove, call an uber.
Yep check the Etiquette for Dummies Manuel.
Simple!!!
It’s rare and I mean RARE for any man to be asked out by a woman. In other words, your rule would practically guarantee that men would pay.
@@Canedude08 I've done it. It's the ethical and principled thing to do. It's also not really that complicated. Maybe you're just in the wrong circles.
@@El_Ophelia
Just because you've done it, that doesn't make it commonplace.
Ask 10 singe women at random if they've ever asked a guy out and how many do you think will say "Yes, I have"? If its any more than one (maybe), I'd question your grasp of reality.
Men been sipping too long now these woman lost they minds
She can't even add. 8 figures😂😂😂😂
I can’t stand when women say you have to pay for the whole meal because we are the men! SMH 🤦
This sounds really familiar, in my early/ mid 20s I had to set a 3 date rule, after 3 dates either you pay for the dates or show some serious interest. It saved me from being someone’s foodie simp. I would pay in full for 3 dates, but you wouldn’t see me a 4th time without paying, or getting intimate, when women have interest in you, they’ll put their money up.
Why is he ever going back and forth with her? And soon as she said “ he’d be want dishes “ I would have got in my car and left her.
This guy probably check almost all of the boxes, but he isnt toxic enough for her.
Great job to the man .
When someone says “you gotsta know what I mean”.
They are stupid.
So all the times weve seen women say "if he asks you out HE should pay", and now women are asking men out, why shouldnt they pay?
They believe you should pay no matter what
Nahhh, he fucked up by letting her order all that shit without confronting her. He failed that test which is why she feels comfortable talking to him in a masculine tone.
Or they messed around and she just don’t want to disclose that 11 years is a long time to know a woman
The waitress was bout to say he could split the bill😂
I think the guy that didn't want to pay for the dinner knew in advance exactly what was going to happen. His phone was setup and recording too perfectly and it was like he was reading a script. Probably just made for content, even if the situation was real.
Where the heck did you go to get a bill that high for two people.
$310 bill. That's just stupid.
She think dude a cold simp 🥶
It sounds more like, she wanted him to pay her back for the date she paid for, and he decided that if that was the way she was going to work it, then he didn't want to date her.
He dodged the freaking her "Contact for food". Equality right you don't dine and dash B.
Drizzle Drizzle 😂😂😂😂
3:50-7:02…LEAVE👋🏿
That 8 to 8, SCAM. GREAT SHOW .Keep up the good work bruh
I'd have paid for my meal and the tip line would have read "Life isn't fair"
Drizzle drizzle!!
Beautifully played!
14:25 reasons why I’ve always disliked the idea of female friends it’s all a scam. Playing the long game is a L because your not even like even half the time a backup plan. She don’t fuck with you like that but you still spending time and most cases money….say she changes her mind then you might as well still hold a L because someone out their made her want and desire a romance without having to “convince her” whatever that means. Women go for what they want.
Duuuuuude I died at the Steve Urkle comment 😂
And bet that friend zone dude is paying.
Video 2 looks like a skit. That has to be why the waitress made that comment. And he talked directly to the camera
Ugh😢... That'll do, REZZY. That'll do. Thanks for a great run!!
Where did they go and spend $320? What did they order? That is insane. Is she 300 lbs?
I don't go out on dates because of how expensive it is.
If you can't appreciate a quality date that doesn't involve the GDP of a small island nation, piss off.
It's why you figure that out beforehand, not when you get there.
$320? With her attitude she should be paying for the bill and leaving cash on the night table on the way out.
He paid that bill..he’s doing too much negotiating. She talking too strong for me. And that waitress would have got flamed for not minding her business.
Money is always the problem, it seams!
I order for dating couples to go for a coffee for a year!
Single women listening to single women about how to get a man is like taking financial advice from a homeless person. Also, Joy Taylor will forever be an athletes pump and dump, listen to her if you want.
Im from the south. If I invite you out somewhere (party, movies, concerts, arcade/ bowling knight, sports event.) I will pay for it and make sure you’re good and ate something.
This monster is coming with no reciprocity or gratitude she black of expectations
I've never been to a place where you can wear a baseball cap and spend $300+ on the bill. Fam just learn the lesson, she didn't want you she wanted the food
Inside the friend zone, is different from looking at it from the outside. Because there maybe women looking at him thinking they are in a "relationship" So they don't consider him available.
Indeed, she fu*ked around and found out.
I dont get it. Even with friends, I feel bad when they buy me food and try to offer help along with budgeting what im eating so they do over pay.
To tske advantage of someone by having them fullly pay for your food while claiming im a strong woman and i deserve better....its shameful
My daughter was stressing over those state tests. I told her to do her best, but I needed her to be concerned with what gets her grades. If it doesn't help her with getting her grades up, forget them.
The waitress would've been fired after telling the her boss.
These women are off their rocker 😂😅
He should’ve said he was going to pay for his meal let the waitress know and left.
You know what’s hilarious is I got “homies” that act like the female in the video where she invited the dude out😂😂