Why Toxic People Find A True INFJ Arrogant
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- Why Toxic People Find A True INFJ Arrogant. INFJs are the most compassionate, gentle, kind, and considerate people on the planet. However, why do toxic people choose to misinterpret their actions and resent them for being arrogant?
INFJs never intend to make someone look bad or remind them of their insecurities. However, they would no longer care to defend their intentions to others because no matter how they explain it, toxic people would still choose to misunderstand them anyway. As an INFJ, do you still care to defend yourself from others? Did they believe you?
What Does It Mean To Be INFJ?
The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people.
00:00 INTRO
00:17 10 The INFJ's brutal honesty would seem rude
01:28 09 Toxic people would hate them for always "wanting to be right"
02:38 08 Toxic people think INFJs are attention-seeking
03:56 07 They find the INFJ intimidating
04:49 06 They resent the INFJ for talking over them
05:54 05 They thought INFJs exaggerate their abilities
07:00 04 Toxic people hate to be proven wrong
08:09 03 They are firm with their boundaries
09:01 02 INFJs are very assertive regarding issues they care about
10:23 01 The INFJ gives an air of superiority
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What Does It Mean To Be INFJ?
The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people.
00:00 INTRO
00:17 10 The INFJ's brutal honesty would seem rude
01:28 09 Toxic people would hate them for always "wanting to be right"
02:38 08 Toxic people think INFJs are attention-seeking
03:56 07 They find the INFJ intimidating
04:49 06 They resent the INFJ for talking over them
05:54 05 They thought INFJs exaggerate their abilities
07:00 04 Toxic people hate to be proven wrong
08:09 03 They are firm with their boundaries
09:01 02 INFJs are very assertive regarding issues they care about
10:23 01 The INFJ gives an air of superiority
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I am a narcissist worst nightmare .
toxic people find us arrogant ... that's a good thing ... lol
Right on the money , my last manager accused me of being arrogant within my first week and I was thinking "bro I'm literally just existing" I hadn't even said much to anyone hardly at that point 🤣🤣🤣
@@gmailacct9496 seems like ur presence hurted his Genitals 🤣🤣
Very Sensitive manger ...
@@gmailacct9496these idiots out here make it so i have to work from home. i honestly cant stand alot of people these days. i stay away so i dont break necks
“Social media made you all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it.” Mike Tyson
That's valid, I do unintentionally rub some people the wrong way, but I try to remind myself that says more about them than it does about me, and try to give them the benefit of the doubt.
I relate to that...it reflects more on them than myself...
I think we all do that maybe it's that whole turbulent assertive thing where I missed out on all the assertive and doubled down on the turbulent but I almost enjoy that sometimes not that it's my intention but once it's done I can sit in and sort of enjoy the squirming and shifting uncomfortable myself the whole thing because I know people are thinking about it then and when that's my goal people to consider something they might tend to justify or disregard without consideration because honestly as long as I accomplished my goal of getting them to think about what I said those feelings aren't my responsibility I've got more than I can easily contend with plus that's the way it's supposed to work anyhow feelings are what nature and gives us to make sure that we act appropriately for any given situation and I hate them honestly I used to suppress them pretty well but not So Much Anymore but they are almost always problematic they make us behave quite erratically sometimes or at the very least with clouded judgment and a lot of times just to Nature reflex rather than a thoughtful ring of numerous options any of which in a lot of cases is a better choice than whatever the reflexive knee-jerk response is and we don't need any help there I think like so many other things they used to serve a very good purposes and served us well for a long time but now not so much because the brains despite being questionable interpreters sometimes is a much better thing to make decisions with that's for damn sure anyhow. We've got so much genetic baggage most of which we don't need anymore and though it served as well in the past some things in particular like the ability to store fat which kept you alive in the winter now it's killing us and I think the most obvious one to me is tribalism the motherism of all other isms and the progenitor to all the others like the races and sexism classes and and so on but it's not any of that it's part of The Human Condition it's simply a preference for One's Own in group this who look like you because it's from a time when stranger really did mean Danger and it's hard work part of the human condition and nobody's exempt but there's an easy way to get around it using self-awareness and mindfulness and we're the only animal that really can just stop ignore our impulse and rationalize things to ourselves or others and Ponder a while before deciding on a course of action which is almost 100% of the time going to be a better things to do. Humanity will never keep Pace without technology but instead the Gap just keeps widening and no telling the problems that will cause in your lifetime maybe mine too but only if it happens quick but things are changing so fast people aren't acclimating and adapting they're fairly able to keep up with the changes much less how to deal with it
I don’t know about every INFJ...
But I don’t try to “Be Right”...
I actively avoid being wrong and attempt to find the right and correct perspective from all perspectives...
In a game theory “infinite long game theory philosophical position while simultaneously maintaining the correct healthy short game position.”
Thus I don’t play the short game but use the short game for the long game and always play the infinity game not the material gain first game.
Right is right and does not change.
We are not attached to our personal position and we are usually happy to recognize our errors before the errors become mistakes.
Whereas most people are egotistically attached to their positions and agendas and they want to believe that they are right regardless of the facts, details and evidence...
Which is how cognitive dissonance and cognitive biases function.
INFJ’s actively look for their cognitive dissonance and cognitive biases...
So we are always moving forward towards the ultimate correct perspective and understanding...
Word of warning, most narc's are actually psychologists (cause they know there's something wrong with them, so, try to fix themselves) - the devil isn't called the deceiver for nothing. Obviously, they love to study INFJ's or empaths (what they don't have/without/lack) know your enemies in order to destroy them. No love and no morals. Which is why they know so much and have gathered a lot of knowledge, but they will never understand the true meaning of love. None of the wicked will understand cause their hearts have become calloused.
Crappy people dont like the truth
Brilliant video! It accurately explains what us INFJs experience when dealing with most people, receiving contempt and resentment by simply being devoted to speak the truth and hold onto universal moral principles that the world has started abandoning long time ago. As much as it is a blessing to always be aware of everything that surrounds us, as well as being very self-aware, it is also not easy to be an INFJ in today's tainted corrupted world. Unfortunately, it comes at a huge price.
It does come at a huge price but others are paying a higher price possibly as they are always on the edge trying to maintain status quo. We can choose to turn our attention towards more healthy grounds and feel mentally light deep within. As an INFJ, we may not need substance abuse or hang onto people, power and other external crutches to validate our own notions, values and principles..
Well said, of course, my fellow INFJ- ha! I was particularly moved by this video, and your comment.
INFJ'S like to be brutally honest, but demand you're cognisant of their feelings and tactful with them. 🙄
INFJs cannot handle the same brutal honesty they freely dish out. They are very clumsy with how they treat people but demand people are careful with how they treat them. I'm so over it🙄
I used to wonder why INFJs claim no one understands them. Again, I'm so over the hypocrisy of this type.
@@lawrencebolt3540 as a fellow INFJ..i totally get your point. However, there is ONE huge difference between hypocrites and INFJs. From early on i tried to follow what makes others happy as that is my immediate reaction. Till i got exhausted and did not realise I was stretching myself thin. Now much older, i have started paying attention to what ARE my needs and seek out those who 'get me'. Now I feel open to feedback and few who have known me since long know my triggers and i know theirs. As an INFJ, i can now take criticism from those who really care and just nod a 'yes' to those who don't knowing it's all ok. People are free to voice their opinions. Also my mind expanded hugely by spending time in Nature and with animals. In the human world for an INFJ it's like walking a tightrope and it did feel like I was always playing catch up...
This video and the comments here feels like I'm finally somewhat understood, the people/community here feels like I've found a home.
We lead by example unconciously. Everyone is full of shite but we try to bring the gold to the surface.
Well mostly everyone, yeah your right
Whoever makes these videos has got to be one of the most intelligent people in the world, in my opinion. 🙏🙌
Word of warning, most narc's are actually psychologists (cause they know there's something wrong with them, so, try to fix themselves) - the devil isn't called the deceiver for nothing. Obviously, they love to study INFJ's or empaths (what they don't have/without/lack) know your enemies in order to destroy them. No love and no morals. Which is why they know so much and have gathered a lot of knowledge, but they will never understand the true meaning of love. None of the wicked will understand cause their hearts have become calloused.
He’s not. He’s Bernie madoff Hispanic reincarnation
He just takes from Mayers Briggs - that's the genius behind the knowledge you enjoy
@@astralydial7533 oh really. I thought it was MYERS Briggs haha.
As an INFJ I hate attention, but I enjoy connecting with people. I find that when I try to conversate with the toxic people in my life, by trying to connect with them, they either role their eyes or shut me down. I now know it's because I intimidate them, and that makes me feel awesome!... INFJs, we're all awesome!
same
Thank you
10. Not for myself.
8. If people think that, they are not high on my friends list.
6. Unfortunately, I do suffer from this, at times. I have a great propensity for listening, but when I feel that I have something important to say I will often, 'get my word in edgewise'.
4. Yes. But I always crush the eggshells because my footsteps are firm.
2. No. I plant seeds. I have learned to be patient and wait for the seeds to sprout.
1. I don't defend myself against others. They are not a threat to me. If they don't understand me and try to attack, I let the violent intent bounce off me while I absorb the information.
Thank you always.
God bless everyone.
And I wholeheartedly welcome the insights and perceptions of others, ESPECIALLY if it challenges my perspective on the subject. I want to have as much "data" as possible before drawing my conclusions.
I will endeavor to post comments about my point of view in the near future on the INFJ videos. When I have the time to assess each directed question as I think they are all very interesting but already extremely intuitive, that there isn't much I could add to that level of attention to detail.
I welcome wholesome improvements in all sigma social liaisons… 😘
I definitely Understood and learned the Interrupting part of My Personality So Many Years ago. I learned to Control the Impulse and at the same Time How to interject what is True and Proper. It's Only the Weak People around Me that Don't Like Me. No. They Don't see Me as Arrogant at all. They just can't handle the Way I flat Out Lay the Trughs about them whether We are Alone or there's Other's Present. Just always Tell the Truth, Privately and Publicly, Even about Yourself and See How Many People want to be Around You. Thank God it's The Strong Smart People Who also know themselves! That's Less than a Handful! Yeah Baby! MEANINGFUL Friendships!!!
I don't giv a - What Anybody thinks of Me, hey Don't know Me. I do Draw the Line at Outright Slander and Lies though. Each Person that Pushes THAT far, finds that at Harvest Time, They Reap what they Sow! No Matter How bad they're Devastated- They are Publicly Proven Wrong if Not Worse! But Hey, I gotta Be true to Myself, more Importantly, True to God for making Me Who I am! An Honest, Shy, Quiet, Meek, Loving, Creature Who Has the Balls to Knock Your Bell Deep into the Harbor! Sorry, I didn't Mean to Boast. It Happens. I'm a Fallable Human.
Edit: Typo Correction
I happen to interrupt people a lot, which I notice, but it's very accurate in the video saying that an INFJ gets excited about a topic and don't want to forget their thoughts. That's how my mind works.
Harsh but SO true!! Thank You...for giving your insight in this matter. So many many times I have been shunned by friends and family or they have suddenly turned hostile when I was least expecting it. Half the time I am trying to understand their world from their point of view and that can be heavy to my own self. Learning consciously to self preserve and trying to disengage from others to maintain my life path...
I recently had an answer to the question "How can I ever find peace when I always feel an unexplainable pressure from everything and everyone around me?" and the sudden answer was:
"I'd rather take the time to start understanding myself, than wasting it trying to be understood by those who never will"
Life can be lonely for some, but only those who crave the acceptance of others, feel lonely. Most INFJ's know what they're capable of and there really aren't that many people who can quite grasp the scale of the impact and INFJ can make and how much they're motivated to do so.
Never change, INFJ's. It'd be a big loss for those who need you.
OMG. This is so true. Wow!!!! So many people think I want attention just for naturally glowing when I walk into a room. My style is vastly different than anyone else so is my energy.
It's never about WHO IS RIGHT but about WHAT IS RIGHT
Lol! Perfect timing! This explains the shadow banning and censorship phenomenon.
Being right more often than not is a byproduct of knowing stuff. It's an advanced level of educated guesses. Making observations and understanding the subject can allow you to think critically and deductively reason. Knowing what causes what during certain conditions. Knowing how the operations work. And just being able to gather information makes it easier to have a right answer for most questions
Its quite simple we treat them the way they treat us
Yes, I totally agree with the content of this video. I am very direct and honest with those I care about, but I am misunderstood sometimes. I won't change although or become a hypocrite.
Another excellent video! Thank you!
I’m so glad I found this channel 👌. It’s changed things round a lot!
Oh so accurate 💯🎯
thanks for this video now I understand Why people treats me like they do because they are toxic and misunderstood me despite my good motives...
Very, very, very accurate video💯
My mother called me arrogant bcs I call her out on her poor money management 😂
Sometimes silence is the best option to prevent an uproar 🙀
Sophia darling ! 🐞
People gang up on us, hence we get gang stalked lol
One of my friend are toxic now I need to stay away from that kind of person..
Because they can't tie them up and control them.
Excellent video 👏 thank you 🙏
Thank you 🎯
ThankYou
Very accurate vid, have had these issues 🫤
Dear toxic people .. we also hate you ~ INFJ
As an INFJ, have I tried walking on egg shells with toxic ones? Haha! Nice question! This has really been my question too in the recent time, since I've been given cold shoulders by someone I've given nothing but nice things. And this has been making me sick for a bit of period of time recently that I couldn't understand her, but now, I have already learned to let it go.
It felt just frustrating when you seem to give extra care and respect to the older ones, and all the nice stuff you think can help strengthen your bond, but in return, I get the bad thing. I have been in this situation almost all my life, since I was a kid with my sisters, (who I feel are very different from me character-wise) and with people I used to call real friends, but later on, things just reallly got cold without a certain clear reason stated to me. And this had been the beginning of the sizzling things between us. :)) both funny and annoying, right? So, I had to just learn to let it go and accept it this bitter truth.
Besides, this makes me strong, still, no matter how I feel alone sometimes. I am already letting those wrong expectations go, because, indeed, having them all the time is just both a waste of time and money. And then, by allowing myself to be in the same sitaution again, (as I used to say to myself, it's okay, they're humans too who commit some mistakes and they need to be forgiven) but this practice doesn't allow me to become progressive in life. Of course, I am forgiving them, but not at all to that same level that it used to be between us like I should give them the same tolerance and expectation (of what they could do out of what've been done for them by me, in return to that goodness) you get the picture right?
So, that experience has been a real walking on egg shells! Hahah...
If it comforts you at all ( it does comfort me) most so call 'real friends' have betrayed each other over time but still cannot let go of the status quo! As INFJs we rather walk alone than being in 'you scratch my back, i scratch yours' situations. I do not look down or make fun of others and their friendships. Just know that it's more than meets the eye. Each person is 'alone' at the core...
humans are scum for the most part. be indifferent to most and help the rare good ones
Montgomery County cys needs too be held accountable.. they have the Strong family in this ridiculous battle that's affecting my poor innocent babies because they're hurt. I was in an abusive Narcassistic sociapathic relationship an I left omg it's been hell an m6 poor kids. Please pray for us thx for everything you tube u rock. Xo Jessica Star Strong
We will have a better way this isn't ok
Very very true
The narcissist could talk all it wants i like to stick to the facts .
true. just went through this with an insane person
I care a great deal about getting along with others, and I often believed that I was doing something wrong by inadequately communicating, or otherwise missing something that appeared to be obvious to others. It wasn't until recently, just very recently, I finally accepted at least some of the harsh truths in this video that I was struggling to accept. I came to realize the problem isn't my inability to accurately communicate, its not fault or flaw on my part that is causing problems, it's on the other end. Others have shown a lack of desire to understand, and therefore I cannot be blamed for their lack of effort when I do all I can to assist. The problem is, if I were to agree that all of those people were toxic, then I might then have to agree that just about everyone I have ever known or met is toxic. However, I have admitted to others that I have had toxic traits and behaviors in my past, so the further back I go, I could see how I may have been the toxic one.
If you are reading this, could you tell me how often you encounter these issues? How prevalent are toxic people in your environment? I'm poor, male, 38, single, and in a small town in California in the Southern San Joaquin Valley. I'm adding those details to help determine what may be important factors. What I experience sometimes has me feeling like the world is the way I'm experiencing it in my environment, but maybe I just need to change my environment before assuming that things will be the same no matter what changes I make. Thanks.
I relate and am much older to you Dan. But always learning. Are we not? Meditation helps to get out of our personality traits and make us feel one with the Universe. Not sure about others, but quick short vacations in unfamiliar but social settings give me a lot of confidence as i mingle freely with people, exchange ideas and move on. As an INFJ, i realise people who know me like my company but they see me in certain set ways though I am so much more! So the more i meet random people in small doses, the more I am able to express myself freely and move on in life..i live in India, where it's a place of contrasts. Ultra modern thinking people and people set in their ways for generations. I understand where they come from and empathise as much as possible. Then get back to my private space to follow my leanings ( like replying to a fellow INFJ) and recharge before facing the outside world...
@@earthrooster1969 Thank you. I'll give that some thought.
Hi Dan, G'ma here. Please move ASAP. I've found spiritual treasure as a new Catholic. 🙏💝🌿
I am so this . Toxic people do say mean things . Do not know a thing . No I do not defend myself . Like cool don’t I am okay . I will live still be me with all my work and morals.
I don't have any friends who think I'm seeking attention and I can say that with certainty and I don't have anymore and therefore cannot think anything
INFJ criticism of a Narcasist would be viewed as threatening.
Screw the rggshells... use BRUTAL HONESTY always
We speak truth always but qualified with as we understand it which doesn't mean we're never wrong people just don't realize everyone is wrong all the time because we don't perceive the world like anyone else and neither does anyone else because in reality is there is no shared reality or absolute truth in a perspective-based reality where each one is unique and it requires three very important things that most people could use more of even admit that intellectual honesty introspection and humility but also the prerequisite of self-awareness so make that 4. Our brains make up almost everything we think we know based on five data streams from the outside world that require an interpretation by your brain that The Interpreter often gets wrong and it is hard to embrace that but well worth it if you do.
It sure is an ego buster and a very bitter pill and it will shake your confidence to the Core but for those who can get there Everything Changes but just for you which is important to remember I think because if you try to explain it you're just going to look like a psycho and no one will ever listen to what you have to say again.
But I could be wrong (I often am)
I have no idea what it is to walk on eggshells. I may defer talking to the point, but the point will be discussed.
You don't ever have to worry about crushing someone's pride because it's Crush proof if it's really pride. Ego hubris false Pride is not really Pride it's just arrogance poorly disguised. Here's the difference so you can tell them apart easier...
Pride is when you feel good about who you are and the things you've done in false pride is when you think that everybody else needs to acknowledge that too (because they don't)
If you eat a wonderful meal that someone else made and feel good about that meal, do your good feelings come from pride? Or if you enjoy a beautiful sunset, or listen to a great song, and feel wonderful, is it pride that made you feel good? I doubt anyone would think that. After all, what does pride have to do with the enjoyment of any of those things? Do you even need it to take pleasure in them?
In the same way, if you feel a simple, pure enjoyment in some good you have done, or just have good feelings about who you are, does pride need to be there in order for this to occur? Or is the feeling of just having done good or appreciating who you are not enough?
Our modern world is very obsessed with people "feeling proud of themselves." If someone does something they feel is good, they will make statements about how "proud" they are of themselves.
In former times, people used to instead say, "I feel humbled that I was able to do this," or "I feel grateful." They expressed a deep sense of appreciation through these statements that they were able to do what they did, and appreciation always makes anything even more wonderful.
Today, they feel "proud."
Do you really believe that the person who feels "proud" about themselves is having the same experience as the one who feels "humbled and grateful" and looks out on everything with the eyes of wonder and appreciation? Or are you perhaps confusing a healthy confidence with pride?
@@m.e.3614 Boy aren't we the contrarian today.
I'll take internet trolls for 400...
What is needlessly argumentative? Ding ding ding ding ding we have a winner.
I think you must be a Gen X like me but one who has a sore spot for all these narcissists in the Millennials and gen Z because it doesn't really seem like you're projecting or anything like that. Isn't something that's expressed it's something that's experienced or "owned" and as far as all that stuff about food or whatever I'll just take a pass on the irrelevant stuff and say...
I meant exactly what I said when you feel good about who you are and things you've done meaning the things in life that you've done that were accomplishments that you worked hard for and felt good about but didn't require anyone else to validate because that would be false arrogance type of pride kind of like that irresistible urge to be a contrarian on a RUclips video comment when it's absolutely not necessary so I don't think breakfast applies but I could be wrong (I often am) and as you seem to be emoticon expert so it is whatever you say it is which changes nothing because it is what it is and you can call it whatever you like. You're not one of those Neo socialist globalist libtards are you trying to redefine everything with an enlightened esoteric insight into the English language I'll take take a pass on the rest and yield back my time to the argumentative man known simply as M.E.
;)
Oh never mind I'll go ahead and use up my time.
Best to always read things in the context they were meant instead of trying to play like their Gumby or something if you read my comment carefully you'll have no trouble discovering what that is and I'm pretty sure your examples would have been well outside of the context of my statement and I'm also pretty sure you're the only one who had trouble comprehending what I was trying to say though I question whether you had a trouble comprehending or just had trouble finding someone to Gaslight and that's okay because I don't care (that's also what makes me cancel proof because IDGAF what people think about what I say or do or who I am, which is just an INFJ thing you likely wouldn't understand or want to understand) which is like a cloak of protection against narcissists and people looking to find some Fame at someone else's expense so have at: it I'm your Huckleberry have fun with it as long as you like and you have a good day
@@Rob337_aka_CancelProof I am not sure why you are so offended by some different thoughts and questions to ponder? I thought you said that one never has to worry about offending someone who does not have false pride? So why are you offended?
I was just asking some questions to consider. Did I insult you in my comment? Call you names? So since I did not accuse you of anything, why are you accusing me of all kinds of things and becoming extremely defensive?
Why is it that people today cannot ask questions and have discussions about different opinions without other people becoming extremely offended and assuming that sharing a different opinion is "argumentative" and being a "troll?" (Does it perhaps have something to do with the fact that many are experiencing life not through appreciation, but through being "proud" of themselves, like I pointed out in my first comment, and have mistook pride for true confidence?)
Isn't that what this video tried to address; how many people cannot handle a different opinion, or questions about their opinion, without becoming very offensive and thinking it is some kind of threat or an attack when it is just a rational inquiry or debate about different thoughts?
I do think the topic of being proud is a very interesting one, and I do question people's thoughts and opinions in an effort to further explore things. I do not mind if people question mine and we maturely debate. I find it to be very intriguing and interesting to share different thoughts and wrestle with those thoughts through conversation with others. It is too bad that we could not do that here.
@@m.e.3614 Who said I was offended?
I didn't so please don't try to put words in my mouth I was actually kind of amused which is why I responded and facetiousness and not anger. I'm a smart-ass it's just part of my sense of humor and being true to myself I guess I'm just stuck with it but it's okay you'll get used to it everybody does or they don't talk to me anymore and I'm okay with either option
@@m.e.3614 remember it was you who responded to my comment and took it completely out of context I suspect just to be a contrarian but that's an assumption I made that is almost always going to result in some errors and I'm not alone that's all assumptions mine yours and everyone else's too. Actually prefer conversations where people have very different viewpoints than I do because sitting in a bubble where everybody says and believes the same things that I do just doesn't do much for me because I already have that perspective but since you kind of set the tone somewhat combative I tend to just reciprocate and never worry about being able to keep up honestly which I'm sure just sounded arrogant but call it debate verbal pugilism or whatever if the conversation is not making me think then it's likely not worth having in the jury still out on this one for me
Does what a toxic people think matter?
I think my name answers the last question do I feel I need to explain myself no because what makes me cancel proof is that well I'll just say IDGAF anymore and my life got infinitely easier
Is it just me or does he seem to have a stuttering problem? Kudos to you for the video! 👍
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