🌧 feeling insecure, social media comparison, finding balance ✨ | IVAN LAM

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  • Опубликовано: 17 янв 2025

Комментарии • 121

  • @zion4414
    @zion4414 4 года назад +153

    I was a having a bad morning coming out to my family as gay but your voice always calms me, I needed this video, I love you so much Ivan 💙

    • @IvanLamLJ
      @IvanLamLJ  4 года назад +34

      I hope you are doing well 🥺💓

    • @jeymileal-lovessora
      @jeymileal-lovessora 4 года назад +11

      Zion walker congratulations I’m so proud of you I’m here supporting you and this channel as Ivan said it’s our safe place

    • @mirazoe2025
      @mirazoe2025 4 года назад +8

      I’m so proud of you!! Sending lots of love ^^ ❤️

    • @sou_theslytherin5203
      @sou_theslytherin5203 4 года назад +7

      I'm so proud of you, sending love ❤️

    • @stevenbellusci9084
      @stevenbellusci9084 4 года назад +5

      Hope your are doing well ♥️🌈♥️

  • @Mr_Valentin.
    @Mr_Valentin. 4 года назад +63

    Feeling insecure? You are literally an angel, anyone whose being negative to you is 100% jealous i swear

  • @Light-yw8wy
    @Light-yw8wy 4 года назад +51

    His videos are one of the few things to bring me peace during this time. Thank you for this and I hope you’re staying safe ! 💛

    • @IvanLamLJ
      @IvanLamLJ  4 года назад +6

      🥺🥺🥺😭

    • @IvanLamLJ
      @IvanLamLJ  4 года назад +4

      Thanks for all the support

  • @Criszcrosscut
    @Criszcrosscut 4 года назад +22

    Imagine being insecure while looking like you. 😂 You are a precious little bean in this small space of RUclips. Im feeling kind of anxious during these times and watching your vlogs kind of calmed me down. Sending virtual hugs to you!!! 🤗

  • @tigrrlilli
    @tigrrlilli 4 года назад +6

    Something that helped me with my sleep is dimming my lights about 2 hours before bed. It really helps relax me and get me ready for sleep.

  • @kc_theversatile1453
    @kc_theversatile1453 4 года назад +6

    Not only are you one of the most underrated people on RUclips, you are also very inspirational. I've always felt very insecure about my skin and being gay, but after hearing it has uplifted me and bringing back my confidence in myself, and I just want to say thank you, for not only being relatable but also for helping me out with myself, there has a strong presence on social media for perfection and having a perfect lifestyle, pretty much having no flaws, if you ask me flaws are what make you perfect, if you're struggling with something internally or on the surface of your body you don't need to be mad about it, it's just part of life, so than you for this video and your entire channel because I needed to hear these things.❤️

  • @Waldineportelus
    @Waldineportelus 4 года назад +6

    Watching your videos is like having a therapy session with therapist.

  • @Mewkiki
    @Mewkiki 4 года назад +10

    gosh!! you literally caught me in the middle of homework wishing for something to watch. Thank you so much for this Ivan!!! Love you!

  • @sowon5422
    @sowon5422 4 года назад +1

    Ivan's videos are very therapeutic I hope u enjoy makin em as much as i enjoy watchin em

    • @IvanLamLJ
      @IvanLamLJ  4 года назад +2

      Thank u! I really enjoy making these 💓💓🥺

  • @stevenbellusci9084
    @stevenbellusci9084 4 года назад +3

    I like the way you say “doing makeup for no reason” it’s just for you,it makes you feel good 😌🥰♥️♥️

  • @evelync4807
    @evelync4807 4 года назад +1

    i love listening to your voice and what you have to say... You have this really gentle mindset and i love it so much🥺🥺🥺 i'm glad you're feeling better and yeah we definitely notice your gradual increase in both videos and overall energy💜 these sit-down-and-talk-about-life vids are my fav but take your time with uploads if you need to.. much love

  • @Faracop96
    @Faracop96 4 года назад

    your videos bring me peace like i was just working and suddenly found myself repotting my plants?? you did that

  • @monstewr1
    @monstewr1 4 года назад

    I love playing your videos when i wake up and have breakfast. I usually wake up with anxiety and this helps me get calmer, thank you!!

  • @darii6593
    @darii6593 4 года назад +2

    I HOPE YOURE FEELING BETTER 🥺💛💛

  • @EduardoHenrique-nd1ro
    @EduardoHenrique-nd1ro 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for another video Ivan! There's no need to feel insecure! You're an inspiration! Stay awesome! Love from Brazil!

  • @acewingate6993
    @acewingate6993 4 года назад

    Such a gentle person

  • @alyshal417
    @alyshal417 4 года назад

    Love your cat and you! 💕❤️ I just love all the day, making tea, doing stuff around the house, nails, routine. Just calming and comforting. When you go to market to get florals stuff for tea. Please either take us with you or include your finds in a video. Thanks for videos 🌸🌸🌸

  • @gabriellas
    @gabriellas 4 года назад +2

    recently i had a rebound in my acne... my skin is definitely my biggest insecurity, it has been behaving for some years but not anymore i guess.
    perfect skin all over social media makes my insecurities worse, so i loved your message in the video, we are all doing our best! 🥺💕

    • @IvanLamLJ
      @IvanLamLJ  4 года назад +1

      We are! Don’t be too hard on yourself

  • @Ella-bh1dn
    @Ella-bh1dn 4 года назад +1

    I enjoy these videos so much. I can't thank you enough for sharing these bits of your life with us, it makes me feel safe and reassured that as long as I just carry on and give my best to live from one day to the next, until it gets better, is completely okay. thank you Ivan. much love from Germany ♡

  • @ye5472
    @ye5472 4 года назад

    This is so peaceful. Im here watching this while i redo my closet for fall and im loving it 🤩😙

  • @tarastrong4798
    @tarastrong4798 4 года назад +1

    You have the most beautiful skin I must learn how to make something work for my skin your so beautiful n talented I loved watching u with Edward on his show too good vibe for show

  • @dianetungol999
    @dianetungol999 4 года назад

    Awwwww it makes me happy to see you eating happily! Definitely a reminder for me to eat good. Hope you have more good meals to come!!!

  • @achetty2707
    @achetty2707 4 года назад +15

    Whoever is reading this
    I hope things get better

  • @dianbb
    @dianbb 4 года назад +5

    Aaah don't shake your nail polishes, they'll get bubbly, just roll it :) Love all black though, now I want to paint my nails haha

  • @TheMusicmaker25
    @TheMusicmaker25 4 года назад

    You are just so sweet and you always speak the truth about taking care of yourself. I thought the music on your video was very lovely. If it’s not too personal, would love for you to give a tattoo tour one day. Keep that precious smile, it’s infectious.

  • @elissacita6401
    @elissacita6401 4 года назад

    I loved this video, I just put it on in the background while doing some editing and self care and it was really chill and I love the different messages in it. I also have to try that tea bc my body gets so warm at bedtime :/

  • @hellomayajama1936
    @hellomayajama1936 4 года назад

    Right after I’m done with my final assignment, I cannot wait to binge watch all your videos!!! It’s currently 3 am over here 😭🌸

  • @nicholasjohnson5944
    @nicholasjohnson5944 4 года назад

    Thank you for your delightful vlogs!!! They put a smile to my face!!! :D Keep being your wonderful self and hugs to you for a lovely weekend, sweet Mr. Ivan!!! :D

  • @davidflores6922
    @davidflores6922 4 года назад

    Your skin is amazing already. ❤️

  • @tigrrlilli
    @tigrrlilli 4 года назад

    Also, this was a really lovely video. I love these chill vlogs you make. I would also be interested to know what you think of the purple mattress.

  • @Justgabbyyy25
    @Justgabbyyy25 4 года назад

    Whenever I watch ur videos I get sleepy 😭 ur voice is so calming lol hope you have a nice rest of ur day!!!

  • @yih
    @yih 4 года назад

    You always make me feel better about myself and your skincare tips have helped clear my acne so much, thank you for everything and stay safe x

  • @kiil1849
    @kiil1849 4 года назад

    Omg Ian is a King he makes me being pan so much easier we stan you king!!

  • @jjjjjj1135
    @jjjjjj1135 6 месяцев назад

    I got into makeup just watching you. I feel free tbh

  • @devilisindadetails2491
    @devilisindadetails2491 4 года назад

    Luv you so much, you are precious & i hate to see u struggle, major Hug & lots of luv your way Ivan 🥰💜😘🤟🏻

  • @Amanda-ik1wv
    @Amanda-ik1wv 4 года назад +1

    I drink skullcap tea with goji berries to help me sleep and relax before bed and I try and do a little bit of meditation, even if it's just counting my breaths, which is hard with my husband around sometimes. Thanks for another video, I always love your thoughtfulness and advice.
    Ps for some reason I think you and Wonho would actually be a cute match lol.

  • @retto1155
    @retto1155 4 года назад +1

    I was touching up my own black nail polish as I was watching this lol >< you're radiant as always, love you buddy

  • @tanabab3z
    @tanabab3z 4 года назад +1

    Love you Ivan😽❤️

  • @jeymileal-lovessora
    @jeymileal-lovessora 4 года назад

    Ivan don’t feel insecure because you are beautiful the way you are and also this Tuesday it marks the 10 th year since my grandpa passed I try to stay strong just like you told me but I can’t I just end up Breaking into tears but you are here to here to heal my heart so pretty much Tuesday I’ll light a candle 🕯 for my grandpa and just pray and cry all day that hope he is doing okay up in that beautiful paradise which is heaven and also I love you don’t feel insecure and just let your inner self shine brighter each day I hope I get to meet you one day I have some news that I have been taking sessions of therapy to help me with my life and things that are just to much for me but your videos help me out to get me into a happy place and also you are like part of my family and my little world that I have in my mind you are like angle that offers me a shoulder to cry on and warm arms when I’m feeling cold thanks for existing my beautiful prince and angle I’m doing okay but Tuesday will be the saddest day of my life due to my grandpa death anniversary

  • @Nana-kv1uz
    @Nana-kv1uz 4 года назад

    I just looooove listening to you talk. Thank you so much for making videos like this! I really appreciate you talking about things that are kind of stigmatised but should be talked about more (if that makes any sense😅)

  • @lizmtz1024
    @lizmtz1024 4 года назад

    Te amo Ivan❤❤

  • @ankitabhosale6834
    @ankitabhosale6834 4 года назад

    your a wonho fan!!!!!!! omg isnt is new music bop!!!

  • @sowon5422
    @sowon5422 4 года назад

    I need a Ivan podcast

  • @stefano9880
    @stefano9880 4 года назад

    I needed this video today ❤️ Thank you

  • @HazalElise
    @HazalElise 4 года назад +1

    it's past midnight here, perfect timing

  • @miguelmartinez9687
    @miguelmartinez9687 4 года назад +2

    The visuals you serve always snatch me bald💖😍

  • @sanelemakhathini6990
    @sanelemakhathini6990 4 года назад +1

    Love you❤❤❤

  • @lou868
    @lou868 4 года назад

    Thank you Ivan 💛

  • @ssayuriss
    @ssayuriss 4 года назад

    could you upload that makeup looks because it was bomb

  • @bellakosa9974
    @bellakosa9974 4 года назад +2

    So handsome💗

  • @perfectmeee7638
    @perfectmeee7638 4 года назад +2

    I clicked so fast , i just love you and your vive💛💜

  • @davidwoodford7304
    @davidwoodford7304 3 года назад

    I loved The Iron Giant!

  • @atikahrockslikecrazy
    @atikahrockslikecrazy 4 года назад +4

    Lol i forgot you're a wonho stan and was shook when i see him in this video

  • @mayad6842
    @mayad6842 3 года назад

    Pensaba que sólo a mi me pasaban cosas así pero ya te vi tirar la mitad del té ya me siento mejor 😌😌. Eres cute😄

  • @ye5472
    @ye5472 4 года назад +1

    thank god im not the only one who thinks like that about princess movies

  • @humbleguccigirl
    @humbleguccigirl 4 года назад

    Your food looks yummy. I hope you will keep up with cooking if you can. Food helps keep our mindset positive and I hope it's helpfull for you too 💕
    I love your working out space. It's really cute 🥺
    Sending you lots of positive energy and love for this these hard times ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Victoria-yo6pm
    @Victoria-yo6pm 4 года назад +3

    The close up of wonho’s bicep had me dead

  • @lifeasderrick5256
    @lifeasderrick5256 4 года назад +1

    I love you ❤️

  • @Julie-jf4zm
    @Julie-jf4zm 4 года назад

    Thank you for being so lovely and wholesome! Can't say that about every other youtuber to be honest :/

  • @AsamiAri
    @AsamiAri 3 года назад

    Coming out as gay is not easy, but by watching this video I realized that I'm not alone. Thank you ivan for making this video

  • @cretnotonic
    @cretnotonic 3 года назад

    Where are those contacts from?

  • @TheJacquelinesnc
    @TheJacquelinesnc 4 года назад

    Hello my sunshine ☀️ 🙏❤️I hope you feel better. 💯🦋 is hard time for everybody .

  • @hebaalamri7815
    @hebaalamri7815 4 года назад

    Your voice makes me relax ..Dear Ivan please please help me I wanna you recommend me Dark circle cream I hope its strong and I have small lines wrinkle age middle 30s Thank you

  • @i123456987654
    @i123456987654 4 года назад

    ivan, your skin is clearer than my future

  • @alexis2318
    @alexis2318 4 года назад

    im learning about sleep in my psychology class so i will give you tips as learn them hehe

  • @patfranz9513
    @patfranz9513 4 года назад

    I would love to hear you in a podcast and just listen to your voice🥺

  • @uatikaura5852
    @uatikaura5852 4 года назад +2

    Ly...💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @weilovewinwin
    @weilovewinwin 4 года назад

    💗💗

  • @raskitampati3558
    @raskitampati3558 4 года назад

    ❤️❤️

  • @carlosemlisboa6584
    @carlosemlisboa6584 4 года назад +1

    Bcz the way you are, bcz of all shares ( up s and down s ) is your Chanel the only one where people „ feel „ home and safe . And y are maybee still the only one/ only famous RUclipsr beeing „ normal „

  • @ayeshakhan4426
    @ayeshakhan4426 4 года назад

    Yayyy...your videos make so happy 😊
    Ps. Do you have any plans to come to India after it's safe again? Please dooo 🥺

  • @darii6593
    @darii6593 4 года назад +1

    🥺🥺🥺💔 aw the tittle

  • @bluecandies
    @bluecandies 4 года назад +1

    Aaaaaaah THIS is what a self care video should look like 💜 and I ALWAYS love your candidness 🌈
    Also Ivan what's the name of the sweetner you used on your tea?

    • @IvanLamLJ
      @IvanLamLJ  4 года назад +2

      💓😭🥺

    • @IvanLamLJ
      @IvanLamLJ  4 года назад +3

      I use lakanto monk fruit sweetener

  • @sowon5422
    @sowon5422 4 года назад +2

    before i watch the video here s a comment for engagement

  • @sowon5422
    @sowon5422 4 года назад

    my mattress is trash and Im not buying a new one anytime soon and Im sleeping on the floor and my back feels so much better

  • @ZoeyHope
    @ZoeyHope 4 года назад +2

    U good?

  • @onayrarodriguez6576
    @onayrarodriguez6576 4 года назад

    I was wondering about you how you was ? And now just looking in RUclips I found your video. How is your parents?

  • @deekay10
    @deekay10 4 года назад

    BB 🥺

  • @marcelloleall
    @marcelloleall 4 года назад

    Wonho passa por 2 segundos na tela da tv

  • @yusofahim8451
    @yusofahim8451 4 года назад

    selamat pagi ivan

  • @dianaxcay
    @dianaxcay 4 года назад

    Why are you so cute?

  • @eng7129
    @eng7129 4 года назад

  • @dianaxcay
    @dianaxcay 4 года назад

    I better not tell you anything about the subtitles anymore, I already gave up :/

  • @darii6593
    @darii6593 4 года назад +1

    IM EARLY

    • @IvanLamLJ
      @IvanLamLJ  4 года назад +1

      Thanks for being early!

  • @alexis2318
    @alexis2318 4 года назад

    my dna aparently is more neandrethal than 82% of people so ur not alone lol

  • @kawtarrai2211
    @kawtarrai2211 4 года назад

    Pooi

  • @CFKBX
    @CFKBX 4 года назад

    You’re feeling insecure? Is that why you’re IG is turning into a thirst trap account?