Communicating with the Opposite Gender in Islam
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- Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024
- Communicating with the Opposite Gender in Islam
Gender interactions between men and women
How to deal with the opposite gender as a Muslim
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Use PPL formula
P- Public( it should be in public)
P- Purposefull( the talk should be Purposefull)
L- limited
Do the opposite gender do the same, why it should not the same - two-way approach?
@@IlkinJamallisalaam. Yes! Ofc this applies for woman as well, for both woman and men. All for good reasons.
May Allah ﷻ reward you for your efforts. Ameen!
Ameen
Islam is perfect🙌🏻
May Allah reward you brother. Your videos educating on the miracles of Quran, meaning of life, the prophet SAW are excellent brother. May Allah reward you.
Prophet*
@@inshallkhan6799 👍
Ameen
I admire how you address all the subjects that we sometimes thinks is taboo. Thank you
Islam respects women:
Quran 2:228 ""Women shall with justice have rights the same as those exercised against them, although men have a degree of responsibility over women."
Muhammad(s): "Only a vile, dishonorable man humiliates women", “Lucky is the woman whose first child is a daughter”, "Your wives are your partners, not your servants", "Paradise lies beneath your mother's feet",
Imam Ali (AS): "Women are like flowers. They should be treated gently, kindly, and with affection”, "If a woman cries over a man that oppressed her, angels will curse him with every step he walks"
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Why did Muhammad refuse to say, "Lucky is the man whose first child is a daughter"?
@@Herman47Refuse?
@@roeen. ef2883 quotes Muhammad saying, “Lucky is the woman whose first child is a daughter." Muhammad did not say “Lucky is the man whose first child is a daughter” or even “Lucky is the parent whose first child is a daughter”
It also says IN Quran 4:34 ...And if you sense ill-conduct from your women, advise them ˹first˺, ˹if they persist,˺ do not share their beds, ˹but if they still persist, and finally strike them. 😀
@@IlkinJamalli Hii! I hope you're doing well and happy, if you don't mind, I would like to share my response on the controversial matter. Let's start off with the verse you mentioned. This is verse regards the women who are abusive themselves or who lie in huge matters. Let me give you an example or situation so you can clearly understand where I am coming from. Peter and Julie are a great couple. They're happy, loving, and are grateful to each other. One day, Julie starts becoming a bit more aggressive or rude, but Peter rules this out as mood swings or hormones, since it's never okay to automatically jump to harsh assumptions. Later as time progresses, Julie becomes more aggressive, shouting and belittling Peter regardless of him trying to kindly explain to her how her actions hurt him. After trying to communicate with Julie, he decides that he should sleep on the couch or in another room so that she may realize how hurtful she has been with her recent actions, resulting in him not sleeping in the same bed as her. Now, one day, they get into a big argument. She picks at Peter, follows him around when he tries to get away from her screaming or yelling, and she's constantly hurting him with her words, raising her hands to get her yelling through. Peter then finally goes and gently pats her wrists, but not painfully in a way she would get scared or hurt, and he says "Julie! Please! You are hurting me!" Julie slowly realizes how her actions have impacted Peter, and they make up. What I'm trying to get at is the verse is misinterpreted. Striking does not mean "beating" because beating or abusing your wife is not allowed in Islam. There are multiple hadiths of our Prophet Muhammad, saying to never hurt anyone and that those men who are of great character, are best to their wives. Major scholars of Islam have studied this verse and have said that beating your wife is never allowed , even if the husband tries to claim "oh, it's for discipline!" In fact, if this were taken to the court, and the husband claims that him beating his wife was for discipline, but she says that it was abusive, the court takes her word and punishes the husband for his abusive behavior. He is told to study is religion properly. You may say that other Muslim men are still inflicting domestic abuse on their wives, but the truth is, these husbands are ignorant and have not understood properly what Islam is or what it says. These husbands are of no representation of Islam. What are my sources? You can take a look at the video of Dr. Eyad Qunaibi titled Islam and "beating" women. He goes into detail on this controversial matter and clearly explains his evidence and reasoning in detail. Turn on English subtitles, because the video is in Arabic. If you have any confusion, please do let me know. I'd love to enlighten you any time. :)
Surah Al-Isra, Verse 32:
وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا الزِّنَا إِنَّهُ كَانَ فَاحِشَةً وَسَاءَ سَبِيلًا
And go not nigh to fornication; surely it is an indecency and an evil way.
via iQuran
Thank you so much! Rhyad
Jazak Allaahu khayran Bro
Allahumma barik Akhi
Jazakallahu khair❣️
Really good view'point 👉 I'm a convert
May Allah The Almighty bless you my brother in Islam.... But please write Allah with capital A.... JazakAllah
brother. Could you please make a video on how to approach someone in an Islamic Manner for marriage ( if he is a public figure)
So if they are not supposed to talk other than what is necessary, how then should a girl /woman get to know the guy for the purposes for marriage ? Because, (in theory at least) we should have been able to trust them on character but in our modern world, there is no way we can say yes to marriage blindly as the modern man has not been raised Islamically. It is very rare to find Muslim men who have read the Quran before he is of marriageable age, such that, at a minimum of conversation level, a girl can decide/deduce if he is trustworthy character.
There are different rules when looking for marriage: If the woman's mahram is present, other things can be discussed
@@Tanitolus : But men (or rather bad men) will always hide their real character when the conversation is kept brief and short whether with a mahram or not.
@@creationsoffarzid1154that's why the woman never is the first to talk to the man. Her wali is. Men are way better at judging other men
@@creationsoffarzid1154Let me ask you one thing? Is RUclips comments a scholar? Did you research this topic in depth? Please look for knowledge from the right sources like there are many lectures and ways of the companions and prophets and hadeeth about this issue, for example one brother or sister answered you but this is not a full answer but is not wrong if I’m not mistaken, so please watch lectures about this topic or read about it and make sure you get knowledge from the right source, inshallah this benefits you,
من يتق الله يجعل له مخرجا
@@creationsoffarzid1154 that's why you need to ask his relatives, or get a mahram to ask his friends for you so that you can find out what he's like with his friends
Islam is a religion for those who think
SubhanAllah
masha ALLAH
But what can I say or do if they start a small talk with me?
I didn't believe in Islam before so I used to be very extroverted with men, I don't know how to explain to them that we can't talk or be friends anymore
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But can we talk to the opposite gender with limits in Ramadan?
There's two extremes, avoid extremism. The best conduct was demonstrated by the prophets and messengers. Ofc a prophet of Allah would never take advantage of any person!
And we also should not do anything which would result in harm occuring to an innocent person or which might be misleading or hypocritical in our interactions with other people.
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Rhyad, when men talk to men, or women talk to women, must the conversations likewise be 1) necessary, 2) to the point, and 3) respectful?
No I talk with ny friends and sometimes it's not necessary or to the point we just joke or talk about nothing important... logically
@@sisterfleur7523 Okay then, if there is still value in undertaking the conversation that you engage in, then that value exists REGARDLESS of the gender of the person whom you are speaking to.
@@Herman47 it is forbidden in Islam. Point blank ! 😂😂
Men and women should not casually talk to each other to avoid temptations. This is how 99% of people date, cheat, have relationships outside of marriage. It starts like that. Prevention is better than cure ! Not replying anymore, this is not even up for debate, so obvious, people are almost worshipping their desires nowadays instead of worshiping and following the guidance of The Most High
@@sisterfleur7523 Muhammad did not like men and women talking to each other. So he had the god of his imagination disapprove of such conversations. Do you think that Marie Curie would twice have won the Nobel Prize if she never talked to a man?
@@Herman47 😂you took your time to watch and comment, if you don’t like the message or the religion keep it moving, keep your hate to yourself.
No one is asking you to listen to it. Please go and learn to respect people and their faith.
A question for you to answer to yourself. If there is no God then who created you? And the people before you? Did we just come from nothing?
( Do Christians And Jews and "OTHER" non-Muslims go to Heaven? )
Quran 2:62
'' Those who believe (in the Quran) and those who follow the Jewish (scriptures) and the Christians and the Sabians->ANYAllah< Is The Protector Of Monasteries, Churches, Synagogues And The Mosques )
Quran 22:40
[They are] those who have been evicted from their homes without right - only because they say, " Our Lord is God " And were it not that God checks the people, some by means of others, there would have been demolished monasteries, churches, synagogues, and mosques in which the name of God is much mentioned. And God will surely support those who support Him. Indeed, God is Powerful and Exalted in Might.
Note: Why did Allah protected Churches and Synagogues if they worship false Allah ?
( Why Are There So Many Different Religions In The World ? )
Quran 5 48
''...... If God wanted He could have made all of you a single nation.( ie single religion ) But He willed otherwise in order to test you in what He has given you (ie Scriptures) therefore try to excel one another in good deeds. Ultimately you all shall return to God then He will show you the truth of those matters in which you '' >DISPUTE verb < not noun like other religions
Islam mean "submission" to God
( The above verse saying is that God will not accept a religion from the >MUSLIM< and the Non-Muslims but total "submission" to God )
Question: How Can Muslim And the Non-Muslim "submit" to the God?
Answer: Be kind to other human beings and Do not lie, Do not steal, Do not cheat, Do not hurt others, Do not be prideful and Do the charity work.
Note: If you obeyed all the ABOVE Allah-God's moral laws "YOU" submitted to God.( ie Islam mean "submission" to God )
The only people who will enter Paradise those who '' Submitted to God '' ( ie by Good Deeds )
God does NOT accept your religion of birth but only ''Your Total'' Submission to Him.
( God Allows Interfaith Marriages And Eat Food From the Christian And Jew And Vice Versa )
Quran 5:5
''This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And lawful in marriage are chaste women from among the believers (ie Muslim ) and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) before you, when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith - his work has become worthless and he in the Hereafter will be among the losers.''
Note: > Only < Islam allows interfaith marriages (>14 hundredsSame God< but They are >ALL Corrupt< more or less, some more than others from their original foundational teaching. The older religion are MORE corrupted than newer religion.
Question to Muslim and Christian:
Does God / Allah only answer your pray ?
And God / Allah does not answer non Muslim / non Christian pray?
Did Allah '' Canceled '' all other religions Judaism and Christianity?
Quran 5:48
'' And We have revealed to you [O Muhammad] the Book in truth, confirming that which preceded it of the Scripture ( ie New and old Testament ) and as a criterion over it. So judge between them by what Allah has revealed and do not follow their inclinations away from what has come to you of the truth. >>>TO EACH OF YOU WE PRESCRIBED A LAW AND A METHODone nation>differ qualified < for to enter Paradise )
On the day of judgement God will ''NOT'' judge humanity bases on Sunni Muslim sect VS Shia Muslim sect ''NOR'' by Muslim VS non-Muslim >but< Doer of Goods VS Doer of Evils.
'' YOUR " birth in the Muslim's family is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise.
'' YOUR " religion / sect / foot long beard is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise.
The > qualification < to enter Paradise is > Faith in God and Good Work
I really did not read it fully I just want to say that if your point is that non Muslims can enter heaven then you are completely wrong as Allah said in the Quran the only religion that is accepted infront of Allah is Islam not any other else
And I don’t think you understand what Islam is? The main conditions is not what you stated the first thing is
لا اله الا الله محمد رسول الله
Every one should bear witness that there is no god expect allah and that Mohammed is the messenger of Allah if you don’t believe in Mohammed peace be upon him and you are a Christian that does not mean you are going to heaven
All scholars agree that you should be Muslim to enter heaven
Syed Sye, Please look at 7Moode's comment. Christians were in deed on the right path, but they rejected the last prophet. Christians and Jewish people cannot Follow their guiding (Actual Scriptures) because they have been altered. One of the many miracles of Quran is that it hasn't been altered in centuries. How can a Christian remain a Christian if he doesn't believe in Cristian's beliefs and Believes in Muhammad (Peace be upon him)? This is what I know, but Allah knows best.
@syedsye
valid points, i implore you to see at a video by Shabir Ally called: "Are Disbelievers Condemned to Hell?"
it answers most of your questions using some of the verses you have also mentioned (really impressed btw)
"you are pretty much held accountable when god's message reaches you with clarity and you digress from it." as shabir ally brilliantly explains in the video.
Moreover, The conditions of entry to paradise elsewhere in the quran also stipulates that you are not quick to dismiss new revelation from god (i.e. quran) especially when it confirms previous scripture in truth. (2:41)
"Perfectly fine" or NOT perfectly fine according to whom? A book?
Yea, well... all you have to do is to find why this "book" is special and why you should make it as a life instructor))
Of you do the research, ask questions and seek answers and knowledge with open heart and mind, you will find that this book is basically the words of God.. His instructions for humankind.
And before you judge or try to turn the thing down because it "sounds silly", try to look why 1.8 Billion people around the world believe that it's 100% the words of the Creator, you will find compelling evidences.
Even a lot of Atheists who never imagined that they may believe in the God's existence thing, are now muslims (means, submitters and in peace with God's will), and they use the book as a life instructor too))
Thank you for understanding, I wish you a good day and a better life ahead 🙂
@@-bp-aasim7224 "Yea, well... all you have to do is to find why this "book" is special and why you should make it as a life instructor))"
I have read it, there is nothing "special" about it nor is it a "life instructor" for people like me.
"Of you do the research, ask questions and seek answers and knowledge with open heart and mind, you will find that this book is basically the words of God"
I have no reason to believe that if for no other reason than the fact that I have no reason to believe any "god" exists.
"His instructions for humankind."
I don't need "instructions".
"And before you judge or try to turn the thing down because it "sounds silly", try to look why 1.8 Billion people around the world believe that it's 100% the words of the Creator"
Because they are silly too.
"you will find compelling evidences"
I have found your "evidences" lacking.
"Even a lot of Atheists who never imagined that they may believe in the God's existence thing, are now muslims"
Zero that I know of, but even atheists can be silly.
@@atheistangel007
I hope you understand me on this one bro, i apologize in advance if you feel offended but i really don't intend any offense, hope you take it as a friendly reminder or advice))
Your replies (such as "i don't need instructions" and "not instructions for people like me") show how you're not interested in being guided, God only guides whomever He wants, He is The Wise and He knows best who is fit for guidance and who is fit for being held accountable.
However, He already sent in His message that people with open hearts and really seek the truths for the sake of guidance shall find the truths and accept them, it's His promise.
That also means, arrogant people who think that they don't need instructions shall get what they want as well... and will be given only what they used to seek.
In other words, you don't need God's guidance and instructions, you will get what will lead you to other paths, and you will get what you deserve.
I'm not here to guide you or to judge you bro, it's just a reminder and i hope you take it so friendly.
I'll just ask you a question that only you and God know the answer to...
When you said that you read the book... did you mean that you read all the Qur'an? Or parts of it? Or just few cherrypicked verses?
@@-bp-aasim7224 "i apologize in advance if you feel offended"
I have been doing this for a long time...my skin is quite thick.
"hope you take it as a friendly reminder or advice))"
That depends if I consider it to be either...
"Your replies (such as "i don't need instructions" and "not instructions for people like me") show how you're not interested in being guided"
Well, that depends on what it is I'm looking to be "guided" for. Am I on a tour? Am I needing directions somewhere? Am I interested in a subject or an art where I need to be? I choose who and what guides me because only I am in control of me and my actions.
"God only guides whomever He wants"
And though I am certain this is what you and many other theists believe, I have no good reason to believe it for one. For 2, I have no good reason to believe any "god" exists. And for 3, I have read the Quran, I am not interested in anything it has to teach. Anything of merit in the Quran is not exclusive to the Quran and can be found in other far better philosophical and moral places than the Quran without all the baggage. And lastly, it is because of many of the immoral and illogical things that the Quran teaches that I adamantly oppose it, so even IF your god existed, I would want nothing to do with it.
"He is The Wise and He knows best who is fit for guidance and who is fit for being held accountable"
Again, I disagree even if it actually exists, but I have no good reason to believe it does so of course I reject that claim as well.
"However, He already sent in His message that people with open hearts and really seek the truths for the sake of guidance shall find the truths and accept them, it's His promise."
This has nothing to do with "open hearts" and everything to do with seeking the truth which is why I adamantly oppose Islam. Because though I understand that it is "true" to you and your fellow Muslims, it most certainly is not about THE truth. Finding the truth is a process, determining the truth is a method, and Islam cannot pass the method...no religion can.
"That also means, arrogant people"
And this has nothing to do with "arrogance", the fact that you keep trying to tell ME what my reasons are is quite telling...you literally have been TOLD to think the way you do, and you are a hypocrite because it is actually YOUR ego and arrogance that you have no control over that is the problem.
"you will get what will lead you to other paths, and you will get what you deserve"
Good...that's the way it should be.
"did you mean that you read all the Qur'an?"
Yes...I have read several "holy" books.
@@atheistangel007
I haven't been told anything, i was raised as someone who doesn't care for God's existence or anything.. until i decided to search for answers to my questions)
I wanted to know whether God really exists or humans just lie to themselves because they need something or someone to rely on and blame...
And this lead me to this point in my life)
I'm a true believer and i thank God everyday for it.
About guidance, you know what I'm talking about so no need to be sarcastic))
It doesn't change the fact that God knows best who is fit to be guided to His paradise.
Again, i hope that i helped with this conversation somehow... and i ask you to watch the video that i sent (up to you after all), i did send the "message" and did what i can do, everything is in the hands of The Creator anyway, and according to what's truly in your heart.
So... i still wish you (again) a good life)
If you have any questions to ask i will be glad to answer or find someone who can answer (we both will learn something either way).
Good to talk with someone who opposes Islam without insulting Allah or the prophets (peace be upon them), i admire you for that. 😁
Wow, imagine being rational enough to be able to figure out how to communicate with the opposite sex without having to be told by a book to do it.
Mmm he didn’t say anything wrong
@@nancyhajj-ali9122 To YOU perhaps...but not to a good % of the rest of the world.
But you do you bro.
I have a LOT of female friends.
More for me.
@@LearnIslamNoetic "All you did is just bashed and mocked without any argument in return."
And what do my comments say in this thread?
"You are just obsessed."
The irony.
@@atheistangel007 you fail to understand that we Muslims, seek the pleasure of Allah. What the rest of people is not important to us as it is for you. You submit to people, we don't.
@@ghafranhaque7161 "you fail to understand that we Muslims, seek the pleasure of Allah"
What do you mean I "fail to understand"??? Of course I understand that practicing theists live their life and make every decision with their chosen "god" at the very root of it all, but that does not make your "god" any more real or those folks like you any less delusional.
And tell us, what would a GOD _need?_ You suggest its "pleasure", but why would a god need pleasure? And how could petty humans even hope to please a GOD? That would be like an ant hoping to please an elephant.
"What the rest of people is not important to us as it is for you. You submit to people, we don't."
People exist, and unless you want to live on a deserted island somewhere or never leave the fuckin house, you are essentially forced to have to interact with people on a regular basis. One might hope that we would expect our fellow humans to be as _in touch with reality as possible_ don't you think? Interacting with our fellow humans is not "submitting" to them, it is being realistic in an interactive world and you live by the laws of man and fate whether you accept that or not. Your chosen "god" has nothing to do with this no matter how much you think it does and that is essentially the point.
There is no good reason for anyone to even believe your "Allah" exists, the fact that you have committed your life to a myth just means you are not in touch with reality, this means you are a potential threat to me and those I care about...do you think this is acceptable?
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