32:02 I've been around Ohio and that area for a long time. 'Wheat fields' are just not a thing. You'll see endless rows of corn and beans (with some cows for spice) that go on until you're completely sick of the sight, but I don't think I've ever seen wheat in that entire state.
Oh and they wanted money from you from the beginning and now they got it they are probably laughing at you behind your back over getting what they wanted from you to nice kinda stupid
Can't find an alternative route that could've been taken. OP would have the right to defend themselves and the Husband. Waiting and merely pointing to a potential paternity test won't work, Mother and Daughter would refuse citing some vague principle and there'd be no resolution until that wedding. OP could've have waited until the wedding and if Mother and Daughter actually went through with their threats OP could then do the very same exposure. But that would be a play for a much larger audience, i doubt Mother as well as Daughter would want that. OP could tell Mom and daughter about how they know about this Julian dude but that might possibly endanger him, as they'd want to remove that threat to their scheme, possibly theaten what's left of his career or something. Another Issue lies with OPs Husband. If i was in his shoes and my wife was a bit wavering because she'd feel bad because telling the truth would expose these evil crones as evil crones and thereby humiliate them, i might be taking things into my own hands and expose them in the same manner. Can't make it quite as clean since more of my family would be aware and maybe not all of the wifes, leading to some new drama there but i'd be seeing myself well within my rights to defend myself from that slander. If my Wife wasn't fast enough to pull that trigger, i would do it myself. No, the Situation needed to be resolved before the wedding and infront of all the people who might be involved; that is, the Family, who needed rigid evidence in order to not leave any doubt, lest it'd be prolonging that issue by casting doubt in the minds of some. I'd acknowledge that the humiliation would be a bad thing to do and that i would have done it differently *if* i had seen a better choice.
“I know they were going to extort money from you, but I disagree with you humiliating them…” Really? Goodbye. See you when you’re dealing with anything close to similar.
Story 1: OP should have invited the mother and sister to a neutral place for their meeting, not their home. Also, there wasn't any need for OP to think up a plan. OP's fiance could demand a paternity test, given the mom's and sister's threats.
OP is a doormat to the end. Nora problem is Nora’s doing, so who cares. OP is such a sucker that her mom & Nora are going to scam her out of all her money. OP should have let Nora wallow in the consequences of her own actions because she’s not even really sorry about everything she did, she’s just sorry she got caught.
AITA for refusing to forgive my mom & sister after they spread lies to ruin my wedding?
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32:02 I've been around Ohio and that area for a long time. 'Wheat fields' are just not a thing. You'll see endless rows of corn and beans (with some cows for spice) that go on until you're completely sick of the sight, but I don't think I've ever seen wheat in that entire state.
Asian writers, they think USA bread basket is all wheat. Not a mixture of grain. Where do they think high fructose corn sugar comes from? The Mayan?
Oh and they wanted money from you from the beginning and now they got it they are probably laughing at you behind your back over getting what they wanted from you to nice kinda stupid
Can't find an alternative route that could've been taken. OP would have the right to defend themselves and the Husband. Waiting and merely pointing to a potential paternity test won't work, Mother and Daughter would refuse citing some vague principle and there'd be no resolution until that wedding.
OP could've have waited until the wedding and if Mother and Daughter actually went through with their threats OP could then do the very same exposure. But that would be a play for a much larger audience, i doubt Mother as well as Daughter would want that.
OP could tell Mom and daughter about how they know about this Julian dude but that might possibly endanger him, as they'd want to remove that threat to their scheme, possibly theaten what's left of his career or something.
Another Issue lies with OPs Husband. If i was in his shoes and my wife was a bit wavering because she'd feel bad because telling the truth would expose these evil crones as evil crones and thereby humiliate them, i might be taking things into my own hands and expose them in the same manner. Can't make it quite as clean since more of my family would be aware and maybe not all of the wifes, leading to some new drama there but i'd be seeing myself well within my rights to defend myself from that slander. If my Wife wasn't fast enough to pull that trigger, i would do it myself.
No, the Situation needed to be resolved before the wedding and infront of all the people who might be involved; that is, the Family, who needed rigid evidence in order to not leave any doubt, lest it'd be prolonging that issue by casting doubt in the minds of some.
I'd acknowledge that the humiliation would be a bad thing to do and that i would have done it differently *if* i had seen a better choice.
Was OP’s sister really pregnant?
“I know they were going to extort money from you, but I disagree with you humiliating them…”
Really? Goodbye. See you when you’re dealing with anything close to similar.
Story 1: OP should have invited the mother and sister to a neutral place for their meeting, not their home. Also, there wasn't any need for OP to think up a plan. OP's fiance could demand a paternity test, given the mom's and sister's threats.
OP is a doormat to the end. Nora problem is Nora’s doing, so who cares. OP is such a sucker that her mom & Nora are going to scam her out of all her money. OP should have let Nora wallow in the consequences of her own actions because she’s not even really sorry about everything she did, she’s just sorry she got caught.