Tarot in the times of....Grief

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

Комментарии • 28

  • @kathygeorge8878
    @kathygeorge8878 Год назад +1

    This was such a beautiful, sensitive and thought provoking video. Thank you 🙏

    • @fairlighttarot
      @fairlighttarot  Год назад +1

      Thank you! I’m glad this video resonated with you. This series is the main reason why I started this channel. It’s the kind of work I do without tarot. Thank you for watching:)

  • @seekeroflore6020
    @seekeroflore6020 Год назад +1

    Thank you for the beautiful video

  • @meninagreen5704
    @meninagreen5704 Год назад

    This was AMAZING . Thank you for your depth and gentleness. You are so perceptive.
    My husband of 32 years died 4 years ago and I am shattered by grief. Even on good days it's like lugging 400 pounds around. My life will never be whole again. The grief and GUILT go on and on.
    You helped me more than 4 years of therapy even tho she is wonderful.
    Please keep posting.

    • @fairlighttarot
      @fairlighttarot  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so sorry to hear about your husband. It must be really hard for you, after a lifetime spent together. I’m so glad this video helped out a little. These are not popular videos because I don’t show many decks and I often deal with difficult topics but, as I keep on saying, it’s thanks to comments like yours that I find the motivation to keep on posting them. In my heart I know that if I can help even just one person, it would’ve been worth it ❤️

  • @vadal4043
    @vadal4043 Год назад +2

    Incredible walk-through and explanation. I hope you will consider summarizing all your videos in a handbook we can buy from you! It's alot better than the books that just show the spreads and what the positions mean ~ you are actually providing the thought process and emotional context as the purpose of the spreads. Really, Really Good Silvia!

    • @fairlighttarot
      @fairlighttarot  Год назад +1

      Oh that’s a brilliant idea! Thank you for suggesting that:) I would love to reach more people and at this time my channel is not big enough. I’m a writer so it would be right down my alley. Thank you, this is very inspiring 🙏❤️

    • @cpearl8403
      @cpearl8403 Год назад

      @@fairlighttarot I agree that a book would be excellent!

    • @fairlighttarot
      @fairlighttarot  Год назад

      @@cpearl8403 Thank you! I think it's a very exciting idea :)

  • @becurious17
    @becurious17 Год назад +1

    I love this video and will try out this spread soon. My mother died 8 years ago when I was in my mid twenties. For me, the grief comes in waves. 🌊 Thank you for sharing a bit of your personal experience. It sounds like your friend was a wonderful and interesting person! I am a vegan and animal lover, so I relate to her in that way. I love how she spoke up for the poor kitty left out on the porch! 💓😄

    • @fairlighttarot
      @fairlighttarot  Год назад +1

      I'm sorry to hear about your mom, it's always very touching for me to read someone else's experience with grief and bereavement. And I really appreciate your kind words about my friend, she truly was a wonderful person! I hope you'll enjoy the spread. Thanks for watching :)

  • @carollidle3824
    @carollidle3824 Год назад

    Dear Silvia, thank you for this deep and meaningful video - I will be adding this spread to my tarot journal.

    • @fairlighttarot
      @fairlighttarot  Год назад

      Thank you! I’m glad this resonates with you 🙏

  • @Weaver_at_the_thresholds
    @Weaver_at_the_thresholds Год назад

    Thank you for making this video and sharing your personal experiences. It's been almost one year since my dad died. And although I think I'm handling my grief pretty well - seeing the lessons of it and positive aspects I inherited from my dad - I've come to the realization that I'm in denial of my pain and sorrow. I've skipped the first step of really, truly feeling the pain of missing him. I guess when I really acknowledge my hurt, I have to really acknowledge that he's gone....and that's damn scary.

    • @fairlighttarot
      @fairlighttarot  Год назад +1

      I’m so sorry to hear about your dad! Processing grief is always very hard because on the one hand we all go through it in a different way, on the other hand we may not even have the time to grieve, with life being so demanding. If you feel that you haven’t completely processed all the pain it’s worth revisiting your feelings of loss even after some time has gone. I wish you all the best ❤️

  • @kleri1403
    @kleri1403 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much, Silvia! That was indeed very powerful! When you were talking about your own experience with grief I felt like someone was reading my thoughts and feelings! I'm definitely going to try this spread! I honestly found this video to be very helpful on different levels! Thanks for sharing! xx

    • @fairlighttarot
      @fairlighttarot  Год назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I told myself that even if this resonates with only one person, it would’ve been worth it ❤️

  • @stephaniemckinnie
    @stephaniemckinnie Год назад +1

    What an amazing and thoughtful video! I'm sorry to hear about your significant losses! My dad also passed away from that virus 2 years on the 16th of this month. ❤ I must be part queen of swords as well because I can relate to what you said.

    • @fairlighttarot
      @fairlighttarot  Год назад

      I'm so sorry about your loss. I'm glad that my words resonated with you. I strongly believe in establishing meaningful connections in order to process our grief and tarot gives us this possibility. Thanks for watching!

    • @stephaniemckinnie
      @stephaniemckinnie Год назад

      @@fairlighttarot 💓

  • @kelvynmartin8688
    @kelvynmartin8688 Год назад

    Hi Silvia, Thank you so much, really enjoyed watching this. Thank you for your kindness for others grief .....your a very special person...I have the "When my soul whispered oracle deck" I use it a lot and i truly love it. Not sure if you know but there is a tarot and oracle shop on line here in Australia...in Queensland. its called "Tarotopia" its in Strathpine ... Rebecca is the lady who owns the store and she is lovely. Thought I would share as she has a lots of decks at good prices and I think it is only $10 to have your totally order delivered...I think anywhere in Australia. ....thank you for sharing the raw reality and your truth of losing people you love. ....Terri from Australia

    • @fairlighttarot
      @fairlighttarot  Год назад

      Thank you Terry for your kind words. I’m happy that my story resonates with people! Yes, I know Tarotopia, they have really beautiful decks in stock 🥰 Thanks for watching:)

  • @ninainanna
    @ninainanna Год назад +1

    This is so good. Thank you! I lost my mom a year ago and it has been awful.
    I wanted to ask you... when you say the first part is to identify the true nature of the person, you say 'just to.......' (at 17:08) and then I can't hear what you say?

    • @fairlighttarot
      @fairlighttarot  Год назад +2

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I think the word “really know“ got cut off in the editing. I mean more than just identifying their traits but to think of something that only they had and that most of all reminds you of them. In my case, my mom had a unique way to touch my forehead when I was little. When I identify her with the queen of Pentacles it’s a process that starts from that nurturing gesture and then expands on every little thing I remember about her. Most of the times I use two cards, not just one. I hope this helps 🙏 Thanks for watching :)

    • @ninainanna
      @ninainanna Год назад

      @@fairlighttarot Thank you. Yes, that clarifies what you meant perfectly. I love how you've chosen to see this subject and to work with it and I'll definitely give this spread a try.
      I am equally sorry for your losses too. 💚💜

  • @thetarotzebra
    @thetarotzebra Год назад

    I watched this video this morning & after I nearly went out & bought the Amenti Oracle 😅 I was so close maybe I’ll go tomorrow 😂 x