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The Foundation of Healthy Relationships | Pastor Jabin Chavez
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- Опубликовано: 22 сен 2019
- Part three of the series "Show Me Your Friends"
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Watching in 2022. This message is fire
23:20 my soul is worth more than the whole world
Real talk for a world in real need
😂😂😂😂 LOL best response ever to the creepy guys text.. what are wearing... the full armor of GOD ❤️❤️❤️ awesome and Amen
The Holy Spirit moving at the end with that song ♥️😭 so good
2:30 your closest friends shape you
Wow! Thank you pastor for the absolutely amazing message💛💛💛
Thank you for the message.
21:30 spirit led self image
LOVE
Thank you....I so needed this right now!❤❤❤
Ok first of all ~ I agree with mostly everything Pastor Jabin is saying.
However, at the 28 min mark, when he started talking about "abuse" and ... "Why doesn't she just leave" and he started stating his reasons. . . "You let him, you don't know how much your worth is, you allow it!" ?? WOW!! That is completely naive!
OH MY!! Please hear me Ladies...this mentality is 100% theologically wrong*!
His abuse toward you, has absolutely NOTHING /zero/zilch/nada to do with YOU/your worth/you feeling unloving/ you feel like you deserve it!!!
That is like saying the Hebrews who were oppressed/abused by Pharoah and his co-horts, should have just felt God's worth in their life and it was all their fault! C'mon, that is unbiblical ! God-forbid--NOOO!
The focus needs to get off the victim and onto the abuser. PERIOD!
Pastor Jabin, do you not realize .... abusers (the kind of men who control and oppress women) in their evil sinful mind, LOVE "the challenge" from women who stick up for their children and stand their ground toward the abuse?? They can in turn BLAME her for being firm against his behavior---she's the problem! She won't submit! She needs to respect more! Justifying, rationalizing, spiritualizing the abuse and continue to hold her captive with their FAKE APOLOGIES!!!
She, in turn is captive and fearful* of his next move and is told by pastoral authority figures, that it IS HER FAULT!
NO
it
isn't --
Period!
We as the church, must ...Get the focus on the right person --- the ABUSER! ◄
Ladies....Please listen to this reality from anyone in these wonderful ministries---and I challenge you Pastor Jabin and your staff to educate yourself to better equip the church to help the victim instead of victimizing her AGAIN!!:
Pastor Chris Moles- from Peaceworks and The Safest Place: Domestic abuse and The Church
facebook.com/groups/TheSafestPlaceDomesticAbuseAndTheChurch/
Joy Forrest from Called To Peace Ministries
facebook.com/search/top/?q=called%20to%20peace%20ministries&epa=SEARCH_BOX
Give Her WIngs
facebook.com/giveherwingstofly/
Psalm 82 initiative
facebook.com/Psalm82Initiative/
Their posts will help you get a better grip on helping victims instead of victimizing.
Which insistently, the month of October is...
#domesticviolencewarenessmonth #DVAM #stopthesilence #calledtopeace
►►► It is important to know that love does not co-exist with fear and torment (*1 John 4:18*). Tell THAT to the ABUSER!!
Really wish you could have focused on "R.E.S.P.E.C.T." as well, that is the foundation of healthy relationships--when marriages are unheathy!
Thank you for this. I stand in agreement over everything you said