NO MORE DISAPPOINTMENTS explained by Hans Wilhelm

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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
  • There is a very simple and effective tool to avoid disappointments and to soften any blows of fate.
    Hans Wilhelm is a mystic, author and illustrator of 200 books for all ages with total sales of over 40 million copies in 30 languages. As a mystic he inspires audiences around the world with his life-affirming concepts to connect with their own inner wisdom.His popular RUclips videos have become an important source of inspiration and help for his over 15 million viewers.
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Комментарии • 495

  • @swathilakshmi880
    @swathilakshmi880 3 года назад +44

    I am 17 year old . I love his lectures it really meaningful .glad that I found this channel.thankyou hans Wilhelm for great lecture.❤️

  • @clccharley
    @clccharley 5 лет назад +293

    As I have heard many times when the need arises, the teacher appears. Thank you for your generous spirit

    • @fallonkeravillafana1812
      @fallonkeravillafana1812 5 лет назад +7

      yes a course in miracles

    • @lisa-marieshy9673
      @lisa-marieshy9673 5 лет назад +8

      Yes, I humbly agree 🙏💜 Thank you

    • @jesus3373
      @jesus3373 5 лет назад +4

      I was just going to say precisely the same thing. Hans is a fabulous spiritual teacher, guider, counsellor etc. Finding him was a true blessing after the Christ consciousness awakening. Sat nam ❤

    • @charlesbrisco9986
      @charlesbrisco9986 4 года назад +2

      That's awesome!!....Thank YOU sir!!😊💯

    • @angelamolnarpemberton5145
      @angelamolnarpemberton5145 4 года назад +1

      Yes this man has made a huge shift in my life’s experiences as well my friend. 😊❤️🙏

  • @shevawnprather7162
    @shevawnprather7162 11 месяцев назад +3

    Blessed are those who expect nothing for they shall not be disappointed. 🙏

  • @galvaconsultant
    @galvaconsultant 5 лет назад +178

    Hans, because of you there is a great paradigm shift in my life.
    You are a human angel...
    Love you
    Stay blessed...
    Love from India

    • @galvaconsultant
      @galvaconsultant 5 лет назад +8

      @BJ Giauque
      Thank you... Hans teachings helped me a lot to be thought less..... Which brings new dimensions of life ..
      Thank you once again.
      Stay blessed Sir

    • @jay33begin
      @jay33begin 5 лет назад +3

      Nice comment

    • @jarred333Boss
      @jarred333Boss 5 лет назад +4

      ya i love the vids

    • @christineweber7950
      @christineweber7950 3 года назад

      Same

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 лет назад +151

    *As long as we have expectations in life, we are always bound to be disappointed*

    • @TheHorsebox2
      @TheHorsebox2 5 лет назад +24

      The worst mistake we can make is to expect another soul to make us happy.

    • @karenchance6098
      @karenchance6098 5 лет назад +3

      So very true.

    • @cashflowglo7262
      @cashflowglo7262 5 лет назад +5

      The saying goes “...expectations are a lesson in disappointment. “ A.A. ( 28 years )

    • @Complotplot777
      @Complotplot777 5 лет назад +1

      @@TheHorsebox2 should we say missexpected versus missprefered ... missing other expectations or préférences is quite the same, but the second is less violent and respect freedom. Might be more open to surprises, or more curious about others... more open.You open the 'culpabilisation' side of expectations, that is very interesting... is culpability is the great part of expectations suffering ? A response about culpability or like of self estim ... is a quote of Rûmi : " Roda told me to love my ennemi, So i love myself infinitly" 😏

    • @imhigh0013
      @imhigh0013 4 года назад

      Voltaire expressed in his book Candide. Not even in schools anymore. Shameful.

  • @katme4676
    @katme4676 5 лет назад +51

    Good attitude. Reduces anxiety.

  • @kelkelliekel1
    @kelkelliekel1 5 лет назад +20

    "You might aswel teach a cat to bark, but in the end in will still say meoww!!" 🐱 loved it 😅
    Blessings 🙏🏼❤🌍

  • @RaeMae0613
    @RaeMae0613 5 лет назад +36

    I love you, Hans. I named my adopted turkey after you. ❤

  • @azurinetan5909
    @azurinetan5909 5 лет назад +49

    I love your teachings Mr. Wilhelm!

  • @poya111100
    @poya111100 5 лет назад +107

    In Buddhism, when others do you wrong or disappointe you and you forgive, you're ending the krama. Everyone we meet in our life is a buddha.

    • @renukagirish5791
      @renukagirish5791 5 лет назад +2

      Good to know that .poya

    • @yaelrar.4460
      @yaelrar.4460 5 лет назад +6

      Christianity has always taught this.

    • @hikingbird42
      @hikingbird42 5 лет назад +7

      @@yaelrar.4460 Every religion has the same basics in a different story

    • @tulsiijeni6550
      @tulsiijeni6550 5 лет назад +5

      @@seekingtruth8074 That's nice. Not sure we need to turn it into a competition. FWIW Hinduism and Buddhism are much older "religions" than Christianity.

    • @tulsiijeni6550
      @tulsiijeni6550 5 лет назад +3

      @@yaelrar.4460 That's nice. Not sure we need to turn it into a competition. FWIW Hinduism and Buddhism are older "religions" than Christianity.

  • @lisriver1
    @lisriver1 5 лет назад +103

    Love listening to you!!! Thanks for your wonderful messages!!! They always come in the right moment!!! Lots of blessings!!!

    • @jay33begin
      @jay33begin 5 лет назад +5

      Awesome comment of support I'm sure hans Will like it 😆you a nice person g bless 💚

  • @33fisu
    @33fisu 5 лет назад +52

    Friendly hug 💟🇵🇹 Enlightening words from our dear wise HANS as always 🌟

  • @eddiearrington8086
    @eddiearrington8086 Год назад

    Thank you beautiful soul. Bless all of my brothers and sisters and thank you for bringing forth the light of our creator in your own unique way that no other can. Love and the highest good to you and yours.

  • @pelosauve
    @pelosauve 5 лет назад +8

    My guide once told me, “ Expectations breed resentments.” When I asked him if I should have NO EXPECTATIONS he merely smiled to me very peacefully and said nothing. At that moment I realized something I can not explain.
    This is a great illustration Hans, thank you. “Upgrade your expectations to preferences.”
    Best wishes

  • @LindaCasey
    @LindaCasey 5 лет назад +32

    💖Haha .. I thought I was the only one who coined the phrase: It's impossible to be disappointed unless your OWN expectations have not been met. Thanks Hans .. always a delight to hear your words . 🌹

    • @kingdomfreedom8323
      @kingdomfreedom8323 5 лет назад +1

      Same deep messaging, send across normal physical barriers, a case of God communicating on a spiritual thread the same life lessons attuned to each other plugged-in on this spiritual search engine...a 'soul' wave-length pics-up frequency, as memo 'sent' in received.

  • @backbison
    @backbison 5 лет назад +24

    Thanks! Wish i would have heard this 25 years ago. Upward and forward, damn the torpedos.

    • @swisschocolate2350
      @swisschocolate2350 5 лет назад +3

      It's never too late

    • @kingdomfreedom8323
      @kingdomfreedom8323 5 лет назад +1

      A brave new world is approaching at a rapid rate...spinning wondrously anew, seize essentially the opportunity glorious!!

  • @Shashank_More
    @Shashank_More 2 года назад

    love ---> Compassion and emptiness , is the most powerful and stabl and enriching feeling in which i should be living in ALWAYS !

  • @thebigcountry8518
    @thebigcountry8518 5 лет назад +11

    This brought a tear to my eye, because you just helped me figure out my problem. I am guilty of this expectation stuff. I expect way too much for what I put into others and 90% fail me because I set myself up for it.
    Then I'm let down, hurt, bummed. Then eventually follows the distrust in them.
    I have even grown to "expect" the failure. I say things like, "That figures, I knew it, typical, it never fails" etc etc..
    I am going to "prefer" from now on.
    Thank you so much Hans !

  • @freeyourmind8305
    @freeyourmind8305 4 года назад +5

    My wife expected me to be there for the baby when needed but often I couldn't do it. Same thing accounted when our second child was born. Now we are in turmoil and seeing a counselor for therapy. God bless us and angels, please help us to grow back together! This marriage must go on.

    • @roddiemc91
      @roddiemc91 24 дня назад

      Free your mind -You could try showing up.

  • @verengelhardt2442
    @verengelhardt2442 5 лет назад +12

    Everything is so much clearer when you explain this. Thank you Hans for doing this all for us.

  • @evaholzer1
    @evaholzer1 5 лет назад

    ... thank you so much HansWilhelm...💙💚💚🍀🍒🍒💜💜🍀🍀🍒

  • @bettycooper369
    @bettycooper369 5 лет назад +15

    This is agreement #1 of the four agreements book, too. Life changing book.

  • @EBThisThat
    @EBThisThat 5 лет назад +22

    I really needed this because my boyfriend of 10 years dumped me and I was sincerely hoping he would marry me. I would prefer if I had a family of my own and feel I'm growing closer to it.

    • @rodericklong1488
      @rodericklong1488 2 года назад

      After 2 years have passed how have things changed?

    • @EBThisThat
      @EBThisThat 2 года назад

      @@rodericklong1488 still single but happier because I have free reign to do what I like without being interrupted. Also my psycho ex is out of the picture, thank God. He tried getting revenge on me by setting me up with a random dude on Instagram just to have him get my pants. Seriously, this guy needs therapy.

    • @rodericklong1488
      @rodericklong1488 2 года назад

      @@EBThisThat WOOOW I'm glad you dodged that bullet. It's always. Great to hear people who have accepted happiness and learned how to find it in themselves. Sometimes life will separate us from what we think will make us happy to show us what true value of joy is. I'm glad you're able to enjoy your life single. Maybe one day the love you've sustained on your own can be shared/taught to another 😁😁

  • @aartih8280
    @aartih8280 3 года назад +1

    Yes Sirji
    When God is not expecting anything from us then how can we expect anything from others
    Filling up the heart with love
    Love and Respect for each and every life

  • @michio
    @michio 5 лет назад +2

    Hans where have you been all my life? Thank you bringing me fresh new perspectives! You are truly a Godsend :D

  • @ruthselden8637
    @ruthselden8637 6 месяцев назад

    What a GREAT VIDEO this was! What Hans taught today was very helpful and inspiring. Thank you, Hans and please keep the lessons coming.

  • @NatureHubzimbabwe
    @NatureHubzimbabwe Год назад

    Following life explained from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 thank you Hans🙏🏾

  • @PaolinaLive
    @PaolinaLive 5 лет назад +16

    Right on time. Blessed be. Thank You for Your good energy and beautiful and peaceful presence. Keep going.

  • @zeph537
    @zeph537 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you so much Hans. You have played a huge part in my awakening. I didn't ask for it, it hit me like a rock and I turned to you ♥

  • @leahketay
    @leahketay Год назад

    Dear Hans, your lesson on how not to be disappointed has changed my perspective on life for the better! I feel so much freer and more open now. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

  • @AishaRaQuel
    @AishaRaQuel 5 лет назад +15

    this is life-changing, it shifts the whole perspective. thank you 🙏🏾

  • @wndywoo
    @wndywoo 5 лет назад +1

    You are like my life coach, teacher, guidance counselor, parent trainer, therapist, and church ALL IN ONE.... I could listen to you all day everyday and I'm grateful to have discovered you on youtube. If only you were in my life sooner I wouldn't have NOT held on suffering all those years, but you're here now and I share your videos whenever I see anyone struggling. Blessings to you.

  • @kingdomfreedom8323
    @kingdomfreedom8323 5 лет назад

    Thank you Hans...for having been with us.

  • @mxhmagicY33
    @mxhmagicY33 Год назад

    Thank you so much Hans Wilhelm ! 🙏🏽

  • @Tibbisman
    @Tibbisman 5 лет назад +20

    Fantastic lesson, very well presented and easy to understand! I will work now to internalize all this.

  • @kathrynphillips3710
    @kathrynphillips3710 3 года назад

    Thankyou Hans..
    As the Buddha says..
    Attachment is suffering
    God Bless one and All
    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @goldenpeanuts9
    @goldenpeanuts9 5 лет назад +12

    The presence of God resides in me~✨

  • @leonieaugustine7746
    @leonieaugustine7746 3 года назад

    Hans you are truly a silver lining to humanity right now. Thank you Sir🥰💞🧘‍♀️🤲

  • @m.m.9187
    @m.m.9187 5 лет назад +10

    Wowwww!! What a beautiful and simple wisdom! Thank you so much for this video, and all the great ones you have made! Lots of Love and Appreciation!

  • @BourneAccident
    @BourneAccident 5 лет назад

    Spot on. It's a great feeling when you don't expect anything and then are surprised and grateful when things work out.

  • @sanchitapandeyofficial
    @sanchitapandeyofficial 5 лет назад +1

    Very good video 💖

  • @RTHO0
    @RTHO0 5 лет назад +1

    I just say thank you so much!!! God Bless you Mr. wilhelm!

  • @maritzag.
    @maritzag. Год назад

    Hans, thank you so much for explaining these esoteric subjects in such a beautiful & simple way. Namaste 🧘🏻‍♀️

  • @Mysticblue333
    @Mysticblue333 5 лет назад +1

    Right on time! I shifted my perspective of a disappointment and said I accept where I am now, but because I know I can't or know how to do it in my own will, please may the Divine Spirit guide me. I want to be spirit driven. Then this notification pops up! Gratitude:)

  • @katelyn442
    @katelyn442 5 лет назад +1

    I no longer expect anything from anyone, but I have preferences. I like this ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ashishdhiman2007
    @ashishdhiman2007 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you. It was required to me at this moment. God bless everyone.

  • @sulfa5506
    @sulfa5506 3 года назад +1

    Instead of saying "I expect this to happen" > "I would prefer this to happen, but I am willing to accept whatever life shows me."

  • @nativevillagelovertiruvann6178
    @nativevillagelovertiruvann6178 5 лет назад +6

    Videos of mr. Hans, has really brought a lot of enlightenment in me. It changed a lot in me. And I am happy to see your videos again and again.

  • @domenicakuwait7411
    @domenicakuwait7411 5 лет назад +3

    Wow! Glad i watched this. Indeed, it did take weight off my shoulders and heart. Blessings Dr. Wilhelm and to all on our journey.

  • @brettany_renee_blatchley
    @brettany_renee_blatchley 5 лет назад +4

    *Thank You* This is *so wise* and helpful. It is just the balance that I needed when I simply jettesoned ALL my desires (and then felt inhumanly empty). Now I can desire without being attached to these desires. 💜

  • @leonardosojli9623
    @leonardosojli9623 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you Hans. I love you. You let the Light shine through ♥️🙏🙏♥️

  • @charlesbrisco9986
    @charlesbrisco9986 4 года назад

    Hans you've done it again my friend...THANK YOU!!🤗💯💯

  • @TheHorsebox2
    @TheHorsebox2 5 лет назад

    What a great human being.

  • @funzjag
    @funzjag 5 лет назад +1

    You are a true Blessing Hans! You always share your wisdom when I need it. Much Love to You!!!🙏

  • @codymartin5102
    @codymartin5102 5 лет назад +41

    Thank you very much Hans! “Love is the abscence of expectation.” I’ll think about that. Meow!

  • @jamesknightreading
    @jamesknightreading 5 лет назад +9

    Your little man ends up looking like he is smiling through gritted teeth, Hans. That's how I feel most of the time. :)

  • @sultanmahmood3376
    @sultanmahmood3376 5 лет назад +1

    Beautifully illustrated and really brings the point home for me. I have often expected a lot from me and from others only to see them unfulfilled leading to anxiety and distrust of others which eventually devalues to the relationship. A close friend said to me have high self standards and low expectations of others. I think your approach of preferences is really useful which allows for acceptance of reality for now, if you preferences are not met. Thank you for a great lesson!!

  • @mootbooxle
    @mootbooxle 5 лет назад +1

    Love you Hans, this is the lesson I’m going through at the moment!

  • @rustr2015
    @rustr2015 5 лет назад +1

    So true Mr. Wilhelm!!! Thanks for posting this!!

  • @neoadama9074
    @neoadama9074 5 лет назад

    Thank you immensely Mr. Hans Wilhelm. Many Blessings.

  • @edwinavesa170
    @edwinavesa170 5 лет назад

    Wow!!! This is the root of my problems in my life right now!!! I said “omg, omg, omg” so many times hearing this!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️🌎🌎🌎🌎

  • @marisalabonte4121
    @marisalabonte4121 5 лет назад

    Another stellar piece of wisdom! Thank you Hans for your teachings!!!

  • @dragoyolpire3274
    @dragoyolpire3274 3 года назад

    I told myself that I didn't want to be disappointed anymore. So thank you for this video 🙂👍.

  • @maruzkascloset9718
    @maruzkascloset9718 5 лет назад

    Always appear when I'm in distress. Bless You! 🌺🕊

  • @namispondjamispond9282
    @namispondjamispond9282 5 лет назад +1

    "Accept what life is showing you" is an excellent way of looking at things. It seems the same as saying, "Everything happens for a reason," so to accept that can cause you less distress when something goes wrong. I do expect certain standards from people, especially friends and family, and if they fall below those standards, I make sure they know it or they will never learn. I won't just accept unacceptable behaviour.

  • @Satsui_No_Hado
    @Satsui_No_Hado 5 лет назад +4

    So glad your back , love your videos and lessons , thank you!

  • @cldeeey7242
    @cldeeey7242 3 года назад

    Mr hans Wilhelm YOUR all videos explanation,each and Every word is so valuable,What its called Truth,Could say that experience of myself.whenever the universe would allow to all people keep Trust on this kind of topics n talk,,the world would become a better place to be live.

  • @kimmassey5882
    @kimmassey5882 2 месяца назад

    Accepting life as it is!

  • @rosfuent7929
    @rosfuent7929 4 года назад

    I loved this video..
    Preferences is the way to freedom 🕊...

  • @precioussamson2264
    @precioussamson2264 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing remain ever blessed great channel thanks for sharing remain ever blessed

  • @komaganpp3025
    @komaganpp3025 4 года назад

    Thank you....and love all living being unconditionally...let’s love guide us

  • @mkl01_99
    @mkl01_99 4 года назад

    Another great video teaching. This topic reminds me of the 4 Nobel truths of Buddhism. A good reminder here.

  • @yellowdough2001
    @yellowdough2001 3 года назад +1

    Love is the absence of all expectations ... wow

  • @cindyfultz4391
    @cindyfultz4391 5 лет назад

    Thank you again Mr. Wilhelm. I had a huge disappointment today and this was right on time. Danke Schon

  • @pritis4362
    @pritis4362 5 лет назад

    “I prefer for this meeting to be more fruitful” as opposed to “I expect this meeting to be more fruitful” .. so liberating ❤️❤️

  • @cherifelicity7658
    @cherifelicity7658 5 лет назад +3

    Message posted at the right time. 🙏🏿 thank you

  • @cindysullivan2509
    @cindysullivan2509 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much Hans!

  • @Cherrymeanscherished
    @Cherrymeanscherished 5 лет назад

    Love you Hans!

  • @shampersaud2763
    @shampersaud2763 5 лет назад

    Hans Whelm, I love you ,your wisdom and your great love for GOD. I love your video music as well.it's unique..You are awesome..Keep up the great work.

  • @beautypablotamarini7315
    @beautypablotamarini7315 5 лет назад

    THANK YOU DEAR DEAR WILHELM
    I've dismissed my expactations 51%, and try every day to let go of more, knowing it can't be 100%.
    Bulling myself to fullfil expactations of others, I've finally stopped about 2 yrs ago(51%).
    I was in own created prison.
    I should watch this every single day.

  • @confidencer6408
    @confidencer6408 4 года назад

    Thank you so much for letting me know my actual sufferings. It helps me to grow faster. God bless

  • @shawnmarkert924
    @shawnmarkert924 5 лет назад

    I love your messages simple and straight to the point. For me your timing is perfect. Just what I needed to hear ! Thank you ! With love

  • @rohanawasare7101
    @rohanawasare7101 4 года назад

    Thank u so much for such pearls of wisdom... Love from India🙏🙏🙏

  • @mayalaratsemi8378
    @mayalaratsemi8378 5 лет назад

    thank you a lot...your teachings has already help me to accept the life as it has to be..not as i wanna be

  • @barbiegirl8030
    @barbiegirl8030 5 лет назад +23

    Yes absolutely! But from my observation the root cause of all seems to stem from forgetting where we came from... ancient ppl had the knowledge of their past present and future with mind power...but in this kaliyuga it's impossible to attain that state cause of the greed, jealousy, lust and hatred that seems to rule the current world

    • @m.m.9187
      @m.m.9187 5 лет назад +10

      Barbie girl, Yes, it's possible! If you focus only in joy, kindness, love and let the world peel each other! And most of all... turn off your TV. You can find heaven on Earth!

    • @CindyAAvery
      @CindyAAvery 5 лет назад +4

      M. M. Such truth! Thank god we still do have the free will to disconnect from all the negative energy around us and go withIN!! 💚☀️💚☀️💚

    • @ellesunshine5597
      @ellesunshine5597 5 лет назад +2

      Amen 😍

    • @vden02
      @vden02 5 лет назад +3

      Barbie girl It is thick isn’t it! Those lower level energies plus the anger and hatred of self for so many is feeding into so much of what is happening in the world is mind boggling.

    • @m.m.9187
      @m.m.9187 5 лет назад +2

      @@CindyAAvery Thank you! That's such kind reply, I really appreciate!!💕

  • @danieljnolan2856
    @danieljnolan2856 5 лет назад

    You are the MAN! Thank you!! Huge help! God Bless!

  • @aartih8280
    @aartih8280 3 года назад

    God bless you
    It's amazingly clear and simple
    Love and gratitude from India

  • @kimberlythomas2296
    @kimberlythomas2296 5 лет назад

    Wow something as simple as changing a word is powerful

  • @thanto575
    @thanto575 5 лет назад +7

    I click no new video faster than the latest from Hans.

  • @ilasky2579
    @ilasky2579 5 лет назад

    Your wisdom is so kind and a comfort.
    Thank you....

  • @IntuitiveWellnessAdelaide
    @IntuitiveWellnessAdelaide 3 года назад

    I reallly reallly needed this right NOW ❤️🙏🏼💐💐💐 thank you again ommmmmmmm

  • @kimmielee8395
    @kimmielee8395 5 лет назад

    tks Hans for your wonderful message... it arrived at the right time.

  • @Whymelow
    @Whymelow 5 лет назад

    Thank you, I was on this way of thinking for a wile now, not understanding it in the way you explained it, I kept saying to myself that embracing my difficult time right now was auto-cheat myself to conformism and lazy ness, but the way you put it, make me reassure my own way of thinking, it relaxes my mind.

  • @gdgopaul
    @gdgopaul 5 лет назад +8

    Hans (The Man) Wilhelm
    Cool guy . . .

  • @paschalnwajoko.9524
    @paschalnwajoko.9524 Месяц назад

    Thank You Sir...!
    Thank You...!

  • @ucbre
    @ucbre 5 лет назад

    Thank you Hans. Very powerful.

  • @marcusgray2436
    @marcusgray2436 5 лет назад

    One of your most prolific videos I ever watched! Thanks for the enlightenment!

  • @SuzPratt11
    @SuzPratt11 5 лет назад

    Appreciation Hans 👋🏻✨

  • @malvinc473
    @malvinc473 5 лет назад

    My wife likes your videos
    This is very helpful for my wife
    very encouraging she coming out the storms of disappointed into
    A more simple joyful life she going into the free lance artist loves to paint on her terms to bring joy to those who buys her art, she prefers
    to bring joy through her art!

  • @blueblack1997
    @blueblack1997 5 лет назад

    I Love the way you put it! Simple and Divine message🙏🙏😇