I was just going to say precisely the same thing. Hans is a fabulous spiritual teacher, guider, counsellor etc. Finding him was a true blessing after the Christ consciousness awakening. Sat nam ❤
@BJ Giauque Thank you... Hans teachings helped me a lot to be thought less..... Which brings new dimensions of life .. Thank you once again. Stay blessed Sir
@@TheHorsebox2 should we say missexpected versus missprefered ... missing other expectations or préférences is quite the same, but the second is less violent and respect freedom. Might be more open to surprises, or more curious about others... more open.You open the 'culpabilisation' side of expectations, that is very interesting... is culpability is the great part of expectations suffering ? A response about culpability or like of self estim ... is a quote of Rûmi : " Roda told me to love my ennemi, So i love myself infinitly" 😏
@@seekingtruth8074 That's nice. Not sure we need to turn it into a competition. FWIW Hinduism and Buddhism are much older "religions" than Christianity.
💖Haha .. I thought I was the only one who coined the phrase: It's impossible to be disappointed unless your OWN expectations have not been met. Thanks Hans .. always a delight to hear your words . 🌹
Same deep messaging, send across normal physical barriers, a case of God communicating on a spiritual thread the same life lessons attuned to each other plugged-in on this spiritual search engine...a 'soul' wave-length pics-up frequency, as memo 'sent' in received.
My guide once told me, “ Expectations breed resentments.” When I asked him if I should have NO EXPECTATIONS he merely smiled to me very peacefully and said nothing. At that moment I realized something I can not explain. This is a great illustration Hans, thank you. “Upgrade your expectations to preferences.” Best wishes
This brought a tear to my eye, because you just helped me figure out my problem. I am guilty of this expectation stuff. I expect way too much for what I put into others and 90% fail me because I set myself up for it. Then I'm let down, hurt, bummed. Then eventually follows the distrust in them. I have even grown to "expect" the failure. I say things like, "That figures, I knew it, typical, it never fails" etc etc.. I am going to "prefer" from now on. Thank you so much Hans !
Thank you beautiful soul. Bless all of my brothers and sisters and thank you for bringing forth the light of our creator in your own unique way that no other can. Love and the highest good to you and yours.
I really needed this because my boyfriend of 10 years dumped me and I was sincerely hoping he would marry me. I would prefer if I had a family of my own and feel I'm growing closer to it.
@@Exxnihiloo still single but happier because I have free reign to do what I like without being interrupted. Also my psycho ex is out of the picture, thank God. He tried getting revenge on me by setting me up with a random dude on Instagram just to have him get my pants. Seriously, this guy needs therapy.
@@EBThisThat WOOOW I'm glad you dodged that bullet. It's always. Great to hear people who have accepted happiness and learned how to find it in themselves. Sometimes life will separate us from what we think will make us happy to show us what true value of joy is. I'm glad you're able to enjoy your life single. Maybe one day the love you've sustained on your own can be shared/taught to another 😁😁
You are like my life coach, teacher, guidance counselor, parent trainer, therapist, and church ALL IN ONE.... I could listen to you all day everyday and I'm grateful to have discovered you on youtube. If only you were in my life sooner I wouldn't have NOT held on suffering all those years, but you're here now and I share your videos whenever I see anyone struggling. Blessings to you.
My wife expected me to be there for the baby when needed but often I couldn't do it. Same thing accounted when our second child was born. Now we are in turmoil and seeing a counselor for therapy. God bless us and angels, please help us to grow back together! This marriage must go on.
Dear Hans, your lesson on how not to be disappointed has changed my perspective on life for the better! I feel so much freer and more open now. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
Right on time! I shifted my perspective of a disappointment and said I accept where I am now, but because I know I can't or know how to do it in my own will, please may the Divine Spirit guide me. I want to be spirit driven. Then this notification pops up! Gratitude:)
*Thank You* This is *so wise* and helpful. It is just the balance that I needed when I simply jettesoned ALL my desires (and then felt inhumanly empty). Now I can desire without being attached to these desires. 💜
Yes Sirji When God is not expecting anything from us then how can we expect anything from others Filling up the heart with love Love and Respect for each and every life
Beautifully illustrated and really brings the point home for me. I have often expected a lot from me and from others only to see them unfulfilled leading to anxiety and distrust of others which eventually devalues to the relationship. A close friend said to me have high self standards and low expectations of others. I think your approach of preferences is really useful which allows for acceptance of reality for now, if you preferences are not met. Thank you for a great lesson!!
"Accept what life is showing you" is an excellent way of looking at things. It seems the same as saying, "Everything happens for a reason," so to accept that can cause you less distress when something goes wrong. I do expect certain standards from people, especially friends and family, and if they fall below those standards, I make sure they know it or they will never learn. I won't just accept unacceptable behaviour.
Wow!!! This is the root of my problems in my life right now!!! I said “omg, omg, omg” so many times hearing this!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️🌎🌎🌎🌎
I am 17 year old . I love his lectures it really meaningful .glad that I found this channel.thankyou hans Wilhelm for great lecture.❤️
As I have heard many times when the need arises, the teacher appears. Thank you for your generous spirit
yes a course in miracles
Yes, I humbly agree 🙏💜 Thank you
I was just going to say precisely the same thing. Hans is a fabulous spiritual teacher, guider, counsellor etc. Finding him was a true blessing after the Christ consciousness awakening. Sat nam ❤
That's awesome!!....Thank YOU sir!!😊💯
Yes this man has made a huge shift in my life’s experiences as well my friend. 😊❤️🙏
Hans, because of you there is a great paradigm shift in my life.
You are a human angel...
Love you
Stay blessed...
Love from India
@BJ Giauque
Thank you... Hans teachings helped me a lot to be thought less..... Which brings new dimensions of life ..
Thank you once again.
Stay blessed Sir
Nice comment
ya i love the vids
Same
*As long as we have expectations in life, we are always bound to be disappointed*
The worst mistake we can make is to expect another soul to make us happy.
So very true.
The saying goes “...expectations are a lesson in disappointment. “ A.A. ( 28 years )
@@TheHorsebox2 should we say missexpected versus missprefered ... missing other expectations or préférences is quite the same, but the second is less violent and respect freedom. Might be more open to surprises, or more curious about others... more open.You open the 'culpabilisation' side of expectations, that is very interesting... is culpability is the great part of expectations suffering ? A response about culpability or like of self estim ... is a quote of Rûmi : " Roda told me to love my ennemi, So i love myself infinitly" 😏
Voltaire expressed in his book Candide. Not even in schools anymore. Shameful.
Good attitude. Reduces anxiety.
In Buddhism, when others do you wrong or disappointe you and you forgive, you're ending the krama. Everyone we meet in our life is a buddha.
Good to know that .poya
Christianity has always taught this.
@@yaelrar.4460 Every religion has the same basics in a different story
@@seekingtruth8074 That's nice. Not sure we need to turn it into a competition. FWIW Hinduism and Buddhism are much older "religions" than Christianity.
@@yaelrar.4460 That's nice. Not sure we need to turn it into a competition. FWIW Hinduism and Buddhism are older "religions" than Christianity.
Love listening to you!!! Thanks for your wonderful messages!!! They always come in the right moment!!! Lots of blessings!!!
Awesome comment of support I'm sure hans Will like it 😆you a nice person g bless 💚
I love you, Hans. I named my adopted turkey after you. ❤
Haha, cute 😊
That's so cute. 🦃
How cute☺️🦃💓
Blessed are those who expect nothing for they shall not be disappointed. 🙏
I love your teachings Mr. Wilhelm!
"You might aswel teach a cat to bark, but in the end in will still say meoww!!" 🐱 loved it 😅
Blessings 🙏🏼❤🌍
Friendly hug 💟🇵🇹 Enlightening words from our dear wise HANS as always 🌟
💖Haha .. I thought I was the only one who coined the phrase: It's impossible to be disappointed unless your OWN expectations have not been met. Thanks Hans .. always a delight to hear your words . 🌹
Same deep messaging, send across normal physical barriers, a case of God communicating on a spiritual thread the same life lessons attuned to each other plugged-in on this spiritual search engine...a 'soul' wave-length pics-up frequency, as memo 'sent' in received.
Thank you very much Hans! “Love is the abscence of expectation.” I’ll think about that. Meow!
My guide once told me, “ Expectations breed resentments.” When I asked him if I should have NO EXPECTATIONS he merely smiled to me very peacefully and said nothing. At that moment I realized something I can not explain.
This is a great illustration Hans, thank you. “Upgrade your expectations to preferences.”
Best wishes
This brought a tear to my eye, because you just helped me figure out my problem. I am guilty of this expectation stuff. I expect way too much for what I put into others and 90% fail me because I set myself up for it.
Then I'm let down, hurt, bummed. Then eventually follows the distrust in them.
I have even grown to "expect" the failure. I say things like, "That figures, I knew it, typical, it never fails" etc etc..
I am going to "prefer" from now on.
Thank you so much Hans !
Thank you beautiful soul. Bless all of my brothers and sisters and thank you for bringing forth the light of our creator in your own unique way that no other can. Love and the highest good to you and yours.
Thanks! Wish i would have heard this 25 years ago. Upward and forward, damn the torpedos.
It's never too late
A brave new world is approaching at a rapid rate...spinning wondrously anew, seize essentially the opportunity glorious!!
Everything is so much clearer when you explain this. Thank you Hans for doing this all for us.
this is life-changing, it shifts the whole perspective. thank you 🙏🏾
Right on time. Blessed be. Thank You for Your good energy and beautiful and peaceful presence. Keep going.
I really needed this because my boyfriend of 10 years dumped me and I was sincerely hoping he would marry me. I would prefer if I had a family of my own and feel I'm growing closer to it.
After 2 years have passed how have things changed?
@@Exxnihiloo still single but happier because I have free reign to do what I like without being interrupted. Also my psycho ex is out of the picture, thank God. He tried getting revenge on me by setting me up with a random dude on Instagram just to have him get my pants. Seriously, this guy needs therapy.
@@EBThisThat WOOOW I'm glad you dodged that bullet. It's always. Great to hear people who have accepted happiness and learned how to find it in themselves. Sometimes life will separate us from what we think will make us happy to show us what true value of joy is. I'm glad you're able to enjoy your life single. Maybe one day the love you've sustained on your own can be shared/taught to another 😁😁
The presence of God resides in me~✨
Fantastic lesson, very well presented and easy to understand! I will work now to internalize all this.
This is agreement #1 of the four agreements book, too. Life changing book.
Very good video 💖
You are like my life coach, teacher, guidance counselor, parent trainer, therapist, and church ALL IN ONE.... I could listen to you all day everyday and I'm grateful to have discovered you on youtube. If only you were in my life sooner I wouldn't have NOT held on suffering all those years, but you're here now and I share your videos whenever I see anyone struggling. Blessings to you.
My wife expected me to be there for the baby when needed but often I couldn't do it. Same thing accounted when our second child was born. Now we are in turmoil and seeing a counselor for therapy. God bless us and angels, please help us to grow back together! This marriage must go on.
Free your mind -You could try showing up.
Videos of mr. Hans, has really brought a lot of enlightenment in me. It changed a lot in me. And I am happy to see your videos again and again.
Dear Hans, your lesson on how not to be disappointed has changed my perspective on life for the better! I feel so much freer and more open now. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
Thank you so much Hans. You have played a huge part in my awakening. I didn't ask for it, it hit me like a rock and I turned to you ♥
Wowwww!! What a beautiful and simple wisdom! Thank you so much for this video, and all the great ones you have made! Lots of Love and Appreciation!
... thank you so much HansWilhelm...💙💚💚🍀🍒🍒💜💜🍀🍀🍒
What a GREAT VIDEO this was! What Hans taught today was very helpful and inspiring. Thank you, Hans and please keep the lessons coming.
Hans, thank you so much for explaining these esoteric subjects in such a beautiful & simple way. Namaste 🧘🏻♀️
Right on time! I shifted my perspective of a disappointment and said I accept where I am now, but because I know I can't or know how to do it in my own will, please may the Divine Spirit guide me. I want to be spirit driven. Then this notification pops up! Gratitude:)
Hans where have you been all my life? Thank you bringing me fresh new perspectives! You are truly a Godsend :D
Love is the absence of all expectations ... wow
I just say thank you so much!!! God Bless you Mr. wilhelm!
Thank you so much Hans Wilhelm ! 🙏🏽
Thank you Hans...for having been with us.
love ---> Compassion and emptiness , is the most powerful and stabl and enriching feeling in which i should be living in ALWAYS !
Thank you. It was required to me at this moment. God bless everyone.
Wow! Glad i watched this. Indeed, it did take weight off my shoulders and heart. Blessings Dr. Wilhelm and to all on our journey.
Spot on. It's a great feeling when you don't expect anything and then are surprised and grateful when things work out.
Thanks for sharing remain ever blessed great channel thanks for sharing remain ever blessed
Love honour and respect for you.lesson helpful for us.
*Thank You* This is *so wise* and helpful. It is just the balance that I needed when I simply jettesoned ALL my desires (and then felt inhumanly empty). Now I can desire without being attached to these desires. 💜
Your little man ends up looking like he is smiling through gritted teeth, Hans. That's how I feel most of the time. :)
What a great human being.
Thankyou Hans..
As the Buddha says..
Attachment is suffering
God Bless one and All
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes Sirji
When God is not expecting anything from us then how can we expect anything from others
Filling up the heart with love
Love and Respect for each and every life
You are a true Blessing Hans! You always share your wisdom when I need it. Much Love to You!!!🙏
Woot Woot we love han
Hans you are truly a silver lining to humanity right now. Thank you Sir🥰💞🧘♀️🤲
Thank you so much Hans!
Beautifully illustrated and really brings the point home for me. I have often expected a lot from me and from others only to see them unfulfilled leading to anxiety and distrust of others which eventually devalues to the relationship. A close friend said to me have high self standards and low expectations of others. I think your approach of preferences is really useful which allows for acceptance of reality for now, if you preferences are not met. Thank you for a great lesson!!
Instead of saying "I expect this to happen" > "I would prefer this to happen, but I am willing to accept whatever life shows me."
Following life explained from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 thank you Hans🙏🏾
Hans you've done it again my friend...THANK YOU!!🤗💯💯
Thank you Hans. I love you. You let the Light shine through ♥️🙏🙏♥️
Thank you and bless you and bless everyone one
Brilliant Thanks
Love you Hans, this is the lesson I’m going through at the moment!
Love you Hans!
Thank You Sir...!
Thank You...!
So glad your back , love your videos and lessons , thank you!
Accepting life as it is!
Thank you....and love all living being unconditionally...let’s love guide us
Thank you immensely Mr. Hans Wilhelm. Many Blessings.
I loved this video..
Preferences is the way to freedom 🕊...
"Accept what life is showing you" is an excellent way of looking at things. It seems the same as saying, "Everything happens for a reason," so to accept that can cause you less distress when something goes wrong. I do expect certain standards from people, especially friends and family, and if they fall below those standards, I make sure they know it or they will never learn. I won't just accept unacceptable behaviour.
So true Mr. Wilhelm!!! Thanks for posting this!!
Another stellar piece of wisdom! Thank you Hans for your teachings!!!
Thank you Hans.
Thanks for this clear and insightful teaching
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
💙🌹😇
Thank you tremendously!
I like your teachings.
Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you 🙏
I reallly reallly needed this right NOW ❤️🙏🏼💐💐💐 thank you again ommmmmmmm
Another great video teaching. This topic reminds me of the 4 Nobel truths of Buddhism. A good reminder here.
Hans (The Man) Wilhelm
Cool guy . . .
You are the MAN! Thank you!! Huge help! God Bless!
thank you a lot...your teachings has already help me to accept the life as it has to be..not as i wanna be
Wow!!! This is the root of my problems in my life right now!!! I said “omg, omg, omg” so many times hearing this!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️🌎🌎🌎🌎
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
I no longer expect anything from anyone, but I have preferences. I like this ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
I love your messages simple and straight to the point. For me your timing is perfect. Just what I needed to hear ! Thank you ! With love
Thank you so much for letting me know my actual sufferings. It helps me to grow faster. God bless
Wow something as simple as changing a word is powerful
tks Hans for your wonderful message... it arrived at the right time.
Thank you for your help and love.
Your wisdom is so kind and a comfort.
Thank you....
Thank you I needed to hear that today
Message posted at the right time. 🙏🏿 thank you
Very,very good. Thank you.
Thank you Hans xx
You really are a wise man.
Thanks for this wonderful teachings