I don't blame you at all. ❤ You deserve love. I hope one day u find the kind of love that u want and deserve. It's easy for people to point fingers at you when they didn't live your life. Wishing you the best. ❤
That’s life in general. You just have to be the best version of yourself in all situations, so that you will not regret later. Even she was forced to marry, she must be the best version of herself at all time.
It’s easier for everyone to judge. Imagine being forced to marry and stay married to someone you don’t like. Sad for the both of them they never got to experience real love.
If he was sold into marriage like you, he would’ve married multiple wives. It’s not your fault. You never loved him. No one can blame you. So unless we’ve been in her shoes, we can’t blame her. We get tochoose who we love. She didn’t.
Yes, but he never married another girl . If he doesn't want to have life with her, he already dumps to marry another lady. But now she has learned her lessons that there are not many good men out there . Hmoob tias nim no mam khuvxim ces lig dhau
@@isarili747 I understand. But he was not sold to marry her. When a woman doesn’t have a h choice, it makes her angry and bitter. And as women we need to empower eachother instead of putting eachother down. He was not a bad person. And neither was she. If your daughter was 13 or 14 and sold off to some random stranger and forced to become his wife for her entire life, how would she feel???? It’s easy for you to judge her. But put yourself or your daughter in her shoes
@@isarili747 he never married another woman or cheat on her bc he was ugly and knew he couldn't get any other woman. Even if he wanted to, which I'm sure he wants to bc she was horrible to him, he wouldn't be able to get another woman. That's why he chained her down and refused to let her go no matter how much she hated him or how badly she treated him bc he knew if he lets her go he won't be able to find another woman. He's humble, but humble bc of his physical appearance. I don't think he truly loves her, but he tolerated her bc he knew he couldn't find another woman only.
Tus vivncaus, cas pab koj tu siab ua luaj rau koj lub neej os. Ua ib sim neej nyob, peb txhua tus yug los ua ib tug ntxhais yeej ntshaw tus uas peb nyiam peb hlub os. Pab hlub tias koj ua neej nyob rau qhov chaw uas koj tsis muaj txojkev xaiv. Txhob tu tu siab rau koj lub neej thiab os mog. Yav dhau los ces yog kev kawm rau koj rau peb lawm xwb. Es ua Ib siab, naghmo hloov tsis tau lawm, tabsis yog tseem muaj txojsia nyob tagkis, hloov lub siab lub ntsws. Es pib dua tagkis mus xwb. Zam txim rau yus tus kheej, koj twb los lees tej kev uas koj tsis zoo lawm, ces forgive yourself and take one day at a time and learn from your past. Thank you for sharing your life story with us kom peb kawm tau ntawm koj os.
Why so many people bash on this lady. Imagine youre in her shoes, forced to married someone you dont like at all. Its like being kidnapped, bare children for someone you have no feelings for. I understand her completely. Her life now is bad is because shes older now.
Just show how much ppl are ignorant and lacking in common sense. These ppl that bash on her are the worst ppl to be around with since they know truth to false and right to wrong.
Agree! If it was the other way around, we all know the husband would marry a niam yau because he doesn't like her. Yet she can't divorce him and marry a txiv yau
Thanks for sharing your story sister! Such a sad story, a story of a forced married. Only ppl who are in your shoes will understand you. I can feel your sadness and pain. You were married young and were forced to married to a man u don't love. U never had the chance to explore what is bad and good in a man til u got older. Sometimes, it takes a whole lifetime to learn about the good and the bad, and sometimes it only takes a shorter amount of time to learn. Be xtra careful on your next choice or path in the future bc not a lot of men are good. Good luck sister!!!! 😊❤
Ua neej nyob yog yus khiav li cas los tsis dim lawm ces yuav tsum tau tig los sis hlub tus yus tsis nyiam kom tsim nyog txoj kev ua txwj nkawm nyob Nplaj Teb. Cov neeg coj li tus poj niam no yuav muaj kev khuv xim loj heev thiab yuav tau kev txom nyem mus rau yav tom ntev.
She was traded like a piece of property for a deal, raped, kidnapped, forced to live the rest of her life with a man who did not think twice about her feelings. She is the victim.
@@sadysongagree. I don't think it's karma, but more like making bad decisions and encounter horrible people in her life like we all do. Each and every one of us has encountered someone bad or evil at some point. Is it our karma then?
When she said he tried to have s3x with her and she refused, but eventually just lay there like a dead lifeless person for him to do his business. Come on!!!!! How could anyone not feel bad for her and still aaid these mean things to her! She got forced to marry him when she was only 13!
I actually feel bad for this couple. The husband did force himself on her and she had to bare so much at such a young age. Depression carried out for so many years for both of them, so you can’t blame her for showing no love for him as she was suffering too. She was so desperate for love that jumped on love when she finally received it. I hope she finds it in herself to just learn to love herself.
Hmong women back in the days did not have a voice. Imagined being forced to marry someone you dont like and your own family refusing to help you. You have no support and no foundations to help you. This lady felt helpless and had so much resentment because she was forced to live a life she didnt choose. No matter how much the other person loves you, if your heart isnt in it, its not in it. I witness my moms suffering and i know how this woman felt.
It's sad that she was sold, she is the victim and i feel for that. But this story sounds more like regret. She regrets never loving her husband. Regardless of how they ended up married, she only remembers how much she hated her husband no matter how nice or how much he loved her. Because he felt guilty for forcing her to marry and stay in the marriage, he did not expect her to love him. He was the one always doing everything in the marriage. I mean yes, she was robbed of her freedom to chose someone she loved, but the fact that she hated someone who has treated her with love she now regrets. 😢 She shouldn't punish herself so much, but i think it's because she dinally realized that no one woild treat her as good as her first husband.
Poj ntsuam tsis mob vim koj twb tsis hlub nws nes, ces hnub no tus koj uv2 ua rau koj mob tshuav tuag ces koj paub tau tias koj tsis hlub koj tus txiv uas tuag koj txiv mob siab npaum li koj ntag mas . Hnub no koj mam paub ces lig2 lawm os
Neeg tsis sawm zoo tiag li os yom, cas yus yuav ntshaw tej tus txiv zoo2 hlub2 yus ua luaj, pog no npam lawm xwb vim nws tsim nws tus txiv xub thawj heev dhau.
Tus niam tseb aw.....kuv xav tias txawm li cas los koj yeej tsis dim thiab nrauj tsis tau lawm ces ntshe qhov zoo tshaj kawg tau ua ib siab lam hlub nws kom tag tiam no lawm xwb os.....mloog yeej hlub koj tias koj tau tus txiv tsis raws siab xav, ho hlub koj tus txiv tias cas koj ho yuav ua tau siab phem ua luaj tsis pab hlub nws me2 thiab es kom nws ho txhob tu2 siab tuag kiag los nws tsis qhia koj na.
These type of men are no true victim. If you know straight out someone doesn't like you, why would you still marry them? You are asking for it and here is the consequence- a life filled with resentment and bitterness. Honestly, do you really think love can be forced? The kids ought to be ashamed of themselves too blaming their mother when she is a victim in many ways including by her parents and a system that failed her. What a mess up!!!
Tus niam tsev no ces lub neej piam tag ib sim los twb yog tim nws niam thiab nws txiv moo. Kuv tsis feel sorry rau tus txiv tsev. Vim nws yeej txaus siab los nyob lub neej li ntawd ne. Pab tsis tau. Qhuab yuam ib tug neeg los ua txij nkawm mas yuam kev deb thiab txhaum loj heev . Kev hlub yuam tsis tau. Kom peb tau taub. Tus niam tsev no lub neej ces nrog nws khuv xim nws ib tiam neej yug los tsis tsim nyog kiag li. @@monkeybanana9269
@@monkeybanana9269 amen! I agree with what you’re saying!!! This woman was sold to a random stranger to save her family and forced to stay with him for the rest of her life without her consent. She lived a sad life
Koj txiv yeej xaiv tsis yuam kev rau koj. Koj tus siab thiab khuv xim koj tus txiv ab tsis nas? Nws tuag lawm ces koj tau lub npe zoo lawm los más? Zaum no ces yog koj zeeg, ib leeg yeej yuav tau quaj, raug tsim uas ntej yuav tso lub ntiaj teb no tseg.
So sad mus yuav tus yus tsis hlub tsis nyiam mas laj laj ua neej tseem nws hlub yus li tsis muaj nqis😢😢. Pab koj tu siab kawg thiab pa hlub nws kawg vim nws tau cev tsis tau lub siab tu siab tas ib neej😢😢. Nyias tu nyias siab vim tsis tau tus hlub raws siab xav ua neej nrog kua muag tas tiam😢.
Dont blame your husband. He loved you dearly no matter how much you hate him. He was willing to sacrifice his life for you, hoping someday you would make it fair in returning some loves but only a wish. Now you found someone you love, but he doesnt love you. You still forgive him because you love him. Now you experience exactly what your previous x had went through. I feel bad for those heartless people.. only realize it when it's already too late..
No, you forget that she didn't force the new guy to marry her. He wanted her as much as she wanted him too, but he's just an a$$hole. She got unlucky with picking new spouse, so that's her only fault. Get it right.
We never know how our partners would turn out. It's a 50/50 chance they'll turn out to love us wholeheartedly or they don't. In her case, her new lover didn't love her truly. It's not karma. I'm sure u have relationships where the other partner didn't love u wholeheartedly too. Would u say it's your karma too then?
You didn't listen well. She couldn't devoice or else she would get disown. Common shit hmong put on the women to force them for things they never agree to.
hahaha 👏👏👏👏👏 nyuam qhov ntxim li ko xwb koj twb zoo2 siab tia lub ntuj nim muab tau ib tug txiv raw2 koj lub siab ntshaw koj nyiam2 rau koj lawm no ne twb tau tu raw nkau li koj lub siab nyiam siab ntshaw lawm ca tsi uv tiag naj es tseem muab nrauj lawm thiab maj 😄😄😄😄😄
You can only reap what you sow in life…a good person will not fall to do good all his/her life. With that being sad, she’s not a good person either…she’s been selfish and not thinking about what his father did to save her whole family from being killed crossing the Mekong River…😩!
xum yuav tus hlub yus tsis xum yuav tham hluas nkauj os tus viv ncaus aw peb mas hlub hlub koj tus txiv qub li koj puas xav tias mob nws thiab os viv ncaus aw
I totally understand where this woman is coming from. She was sold and forced to marry someone she didn’t like. I feel sorry for her. At the same time, I do feel for the husband as well. She never loved him, they had wonderful children together and their children loved their dad, but their mom was tutoring their dad through out their lives. Feel sorry for him. To bad for them both.💔😢
Niag neej tsis sawm zoo ces tsim nyog tau ris txojkev npam li ko tiag ! koj yuav hais dabtsi li ko tias hauv ntiajteb no yeej tsis muaj ib tug txiv neej zoo es koj ne koj puas yog neeg zoo thiab ? hais lus yuav tsum saib zaub rau ntsev thiab ma ? thaum koj tsim lwm tus cuag li luag tsis yog neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws hnub no koj ho raug lwm tus tsim koj cas koj ho txawj txeem thiab tu siab.
Vuag!!! Tus niam tsev, thaum ub koj hais tias koj niam koj txiv yuam koj yuav tus txiv, tab sis twb tuaj nyob teb chaws America for so long es koj twb paub tias koj tsis hlub nws why divorce him, let him go!! You never humbled yourself and accept the reality of marriage to him. So sorry for him of dying from broken hearted because of unloved from the wrong woman that he devoted his life for so long!!😢😢. You may had been happier that he was dead, the reason why his children’s crying so hard because they knew, saw their mother behavior was tortures their father ever since😢😢. May him rest in peace!❤️
Sister koj tsim ib tus neeg mob siab ces yuav Muaj lwm tus tsim koj mob siab thiab os nawv, I didn’t feel any sorry for you that was you deserve for it
I understand her. I was forced to marry my husband in the USA but I was not as bad as her, I learn to love him as time pass by, but deep inside still hurt.
21:44 this woman deserves what she wants. Always remember some handsome man have black heart. Karma caught up on her for real. Feel so sad for the husband that she don't love him..😢😢😢😢
First off, we must remember that she never chose her first husband. She was sold into marriage, we can’t blame her for feeling how she feels. Women never had a right back in the day.
Would u have married him and loved him then if u think she was so horrible and didn't deserve his love? Quit blaming her when you're not even in her shoes.
Also, if u said she deserved what she got, then the same goes to the husband too. He deserved that treatment from her for forcing her to marry him and chained her all those yrs.
Idk why all life stories of these Hmong widows has the same mind concept! Can u Hmong widows wait at least 10 yrs b4 u really decide to remarried? U need to make sure the next relationship is well off. Smh…
U dont appreciate what u have in front of u....this what u get. God is teaching u a lesson that love isnt perfect as u want. Love is never guaranteed. Stop complaining.
Heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim !!!! Tabsis tu siab koj yeej ib txwm tsis muaj txoj kev xaiv thaum pib los lawm xwb...
Vivncaus aw, leej twg tsis rau koj sab khau ces yeej tsis nkag siab os mog, kuv ntseeg tias yog koj yog tus nws tsis nyiam ntshe nws twb yuav ob peb tug niam yaus lawm os, koj yeej yog ib leej ntxhais uas zoo tshaj plaws lawm, koj sacrifices koj lub neej ib tiam los cawm koj tsev neeg, kuv nkag siab koj mog.
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Kuv mloog txoj neej neeg no es kuv quaj kiag lawm os😢😢😢 5:26
Wow! Such a sad story 😢
I don't blame you at all. ❤ You deserve love. I hope one day u find the kind of love that u want and deserve. It's easy for people to point fingers at you when they didn't live your life. Wishing you the best. ❤
That’s life in general. You just have to be the best version of yourself in all situations, so that you will not regret later. Even she was forced to marry, she must be the best version of herself at all time.
It’s easier for everyone to judge. Imagine being forced to marry and stay married to someone you don’t like. Sad for the both of them they never got to experience real love.
1. G yog tim koj. Tim koj txiv muab koj muag 6 koj tus txiv.
2. Koj laus2 lawm. G zoo nkauj thiab g hluas lawm ces mus ua neej zoo 2 ces g guarantee!
Yog kawg
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If he was sold into marriage like you, he would’ve married multiple wives. It’s not your fault. You never loved him. No one can blame you. So unless we’ve been in her shoes, we can’t blame her. We get tochoose who we love. She didn’t.
Yes, but he never married another girl . If he doesn't want to have life with her, he already dumps to marry another lady. But now she has learned her lessons that there are not many good men out there . Hmoob tias nim no mam khuvxim ces lig dhau
@@isarili747 I understand. But he was not sold to marry her. When a woman doesn’t have a h choice, it makes her angry and bitter. And as women we need to empower eachother instead of putting eachother down. He was not a bad person. And neither was she.
If your daughter was 13 or 14 and sold off to some random stranger and forced to become his wife for her entire life, how would she feel???? It’s easy for you to judge her. But put yourself or your daughter in her shoes
@@lnchannel1186 I agree with you on this
@@isarili747 he never married another woman or cheat on her bc he was ugly and knew he couldn't get any other woman. Even if he wanted to, which I'm sure he wants to bc she was horrible to him, he wouldn't be able to get another woman. That's why he chained her down and refused to let her go no matter how much she hated him or how badly she treated him bc he knew if he lets her go he won't be able to find another woman. He's humble, but humble bc of his physical appearance. I don't think he truly loves her, but he tolerated her bc he knew he couldn't find another woman only.
Tus vivncaus, cas pab koj tu siab ua luaj rau koj lub neej os. Ua ib sim neej nyob, peb txhua tus yug los ua ib tug ntxhais yeej ntshaw tus uas peb nyiam peb hlub os. Pab hlub tias koj ua neej nyob rau qhov chaw uas koj tsis muaj txojkev xaiv. Txhob tu tu siab rau koj lub neej thiab os mog. Yav dhau los ces yog kev kawm rau koj rau peb lawm xwb. Es ua Ib siab, naghmo hloov tsis tau lawm, tabsis yog tseem muaj txojsia nyob tagkis, hloov lub siab lub ntsws. Es pib dua tagkis mus xwb. Zam txim rau yus tus kheej, koj twb los lees tej kev uas koj tsis zoo lawm, ces forgive yourself and take one day at a time and learn from your past. Thank you for sharing your life story with us kom peb kawm tau ntawm koj os.
Why so many people bash on this lady. Imagine youre in her shoes, forced to married someone you dont like at all. Its like being kidnapped, bare children for someone you have no feelings for. I understand her completely. Her life now is bad is because shes older now.
Agreed!
Just show how much ppl are ignorant and lacking in common sense. These ppl that bash on her are the worst ppl to be around with since they know truth to false and right to wrong.
Agree! If it was the other way around, we all know the husband would marry a niam yau because he doesn't like her.
Yet she can't divorce him and marry a txiv yau
If she did like him no one forced her to remain marry to him. One, only idiots will put themselves to let other know that they are idiot.
Vim koj tsim koj tus txiv es koj thiaj yuav tau tus los tsim koj thiab os viv ncaus aw.
What a sad story. She feels sad but its her karma. She don't deserve love because when she had it she didn't treasure it. Thanks for sharing
I agree with you...
She deserves love. It isn’t fair to her to be forced to be married to someone she doesn’t want.
Peb cov niam tsev tau tus txiv hlub2 hnub tsis muaj nws lawm, txhob mus nrhiav kev nyuaj siab nawb! Txiv neej siab zoo tsawg2 xwb. Khaws yus tus txiv txojkev hlub zoo2 rau nruab siab nyob nrog yus cov menyuam xwb.
Thanks for sharing your story sister! Such a sad story, a story of a forced married. Only ppl who are in your shoes will understand you. I can feel your sadness and pain. You were married young and were forced to married to a man u don't love. U never had the chance to explore what is bad and good in a man til u got older. Sometimes, it takes a whole lifetime to learn about the good and the bad, and sometimes it only takes a shorter amount of time to learn. Be xtra careful on your next choice or path in the future bc not a lot of men are good. Good luck sister!!!! 😊❤
Ua neej nyob yog yus khiav li cas los tsis dim lawm ces yuav tsum tau tig los sis hlub tus yus tsis nyiam kom tsim nyog txoj kev ua txwj nkawm nyob Nplaj Teb.
Cov neeg coj li tus poj niam no yuav muaj kev khuv xim loj heev thiab yuav tau kev txom nyem mus rau yav tom ntev.
She was traded like a piece of property for a deal, raped, kidnapped, forced to live the rest of her life with a man who did not think twice about her feelings. She is the victim.
Amen!
I agree.
I agree! People may say she is reaping the karma but I beg differ.
@@sadysongagree. I don't think it's karma, but more like making bad decisions and encounter horrible people in her life like we all do. Each and every one of us has encountered someone bad or evil at some point. Is it our karma then?
When she said he tried to have s3x with her and she refused, but eventually just lay there like a dead lifeless person for him to do his business. Come on!!!!! How could anyone not feel bad for her and still aaid these mean things to her! She got forced to marry him when she was only 13!
Txawm yog li no kuv thiaj hlub2 kuv txiv os
I actually feel bad for this couple. The husband did force himself on her and she had to bare so much at such a young age. Depression carried out for so many years for both of them, so you can’t blame her for showing no love for him as she was suffering too.
She was so desperate for love that jumped on love when she finally received it. I hope she finds it in herself to just learn to love herself.
These kids should try to understand your situation and put themselves in your shoes....smh
Nej cov poj ntsuam muaj nyiaj ceevfaj txhob muab nyiaj rau yawg nrauj pom & paub txog. Vim lawv pluag2 ntshaw2 koj pob nyiaj xwb. Hnub twg koj nyiaj tag ces koj tsis muaj nqis rau lawv. Nej txhob mloog2 lawv dag ntxias, kavtsij mloog xovxwm txog neeg siab phem ntxias kaus nej nyiaj.
Wow smh, koj ces hmoov tag lawn os
Hmong women back in the days did not have a voice. Imagined being forced to marry someone you dont like and your own family refusing to help you. You have no support and no foundations to help you. This lady felt helpless and had so much resentment because she was forced to live a life she didnt choose. No matter how much the other person loves you, if your heart isnt in it, its not in it. I witness my moms suffering and i know how this woman felt.
Txhob dag 2 koj mam zoo siab kawg koj nrauj tsis tau nws zaum no nws muab koj nrauj kiag tsis los ib sim neej li lawm . Zoo koj siab kawg li os
It's sad that she was sold, she is the victim and i feel for that. But this story sounds more like regret. She regrets never loving her husband. Regardless of how they ended up married, she only remembers how much she hated her husband no matter how nice or how much he loved her. Because he felt guilty for forcing her to marry and stay in the marriage, he did not expect her to love him. He was the one always doing everything in the marriage.
I mean yes, she was robbed of her freedom to chose someone she loved, but the fact that she hated someone who has treated her with love she now regrets. 😢
She shouldn't punish herself so much, but i think it's because she dinally realized that no one woild treat her as good as her first husband.
Such a sad story.. we cannot judge as we are not in her shoes or his.
Poj ntsuam tsis mob vim koj twb tsis hlub nws nes, ces hnub no tus koj uv2 ua rau koj mob tshuav tuag ces koj paub tau tias koj tsis hlub koj tus txiv uas tuag koj txiv mob siab npaum li koj ntag mas . Hnub no koj mam paub ces lig2 lawm os
Neeg tsis sawm zoo tiag li os yom, cas yus yuav ntshaw tej tus txiv zoo2 hlub2 yus ua luaj, pog no npam lawm xwb vim nws tsim nws tus txiv xub thawj heev dhau.
Hai tau tu siab tshaj plwg li mi viv ncau😂😂😂😂
Tim koj txiv xwb os! Vim koj txiv muaj koj muag tuag kiag rau koj tus txiv lawm ne!
Txog koj zeeg quaj thiab ua siab ntev2 uv ok
Lady, you don't know what you have until it is gone.
Exactly
As if any of us do. No one knows what the future is and what's gonna happen.
Yog lawm, koj ces lwm tiam los tseem yuav npam koj os mog.
pab koj tu siab kawg li vim koj g tau hlub koj tus txiv li
Sister, don’t blame yourself so much too. It’s easy for us to judge you until we wear your shoes.
Wow that's the truth, we only change for the one we love. Sad story
Dev yeej tsis sawm zoo ces yog koj.
Tus niam tseb aw.....kuv xav tias txawm li cas los koj yeej tsis dim thiab nrauj tsis tau lawm ces ntshe qhov zoo tshaj kawg tau ua ib siab lam hlub nws kom tag tiam no lawm xwb os.....mloog yeej hlub koj tias koj tau tus txiv tsis raws siab xav, ho hlub koj tus txiv tias cas koj ho yuav ua tau siab phem ua luaj tsis pab hlub nws me2 thiab es kom nws ho txhob tu2 siab tuag kiag los nws tsis qhia koj na.
Txhob vam tus 2 thiab tus 3 yuav hlub yus tshaj, yus hlub lawv xwb tsis muaj lawv hlub yus nawb
True
Cas kj lub siab tawv ua luaj li os hlub kj tug txiv kawg😢
Xav txog Lig dhau lawm os
I listen to the whole story, and i cry because i feel very sad for the husband.
I don't pity og 1975 who forced marriages!
You didn’t feel sorry for the wife??? She was sold into marriage! She never had a choice
These type of men are no true victim. If you know straight out someone doesn't like you, why would you still marry them? You are asking for it and here is the consequence- a life filled with resentment and bitterness. Honestly, do you really think love can be forced? The kids ought to be ashamed of themselves too blaming their mother when she is a victim in many ways including by her parents and a system that failed her. What a mess up!!!
Tus niam tsev no ces lub neej piam tag ib sim los twb yog tim nws niam thiab nws txiv moo. Kuv tsis feel sorry rau tus txiv tsev. Vim nws yeej txaus siab los nyob lub neej li ntawd ne. Pab tsis tau. Qhuab yuam ib tug neeg los ua txij nkawm mas yuam kev deb thiab txhaum loj heev . Kev hlub yuam tsis tau. Kom peb tau taub. Tus niam tsev no lub neej ces nrog nws khuv xim nws ib tiam neej yug los tsis tsim nyog kiag li. @@monkeybanana9269
@@monkeybanana9269 amen! I agree with what you’re saying!!! This woman was sold to a random stranger to save her family and forced to stay with him for the rest of her life without her consent. She lived a sad life
He only wants your money. You deserve your second husband. Two evils are meant to be together. Don’t regret your choice.
Ntuj aw koj mas ntshe zoo siab li zoo siab xwb los ho
Koj tus txiv uas zoo twb yog ib sab qhov muag tsi zoo es nws thiaj txo fwj chim hlub koj heev tab sis koj tsi sawm zoo yog nws lub qhov muag Pom kev ces koj yeej paub txiv nej siab Phem
Tsam no mam paub ces lig rau koj dhau lawm os niam tai
😂😂😂 qaib qua lig koj sawv ntxov
Koj txiv yeej xaiv tsis yuam kev rau koj. Koj tus siab thiab khuv xim koj tus txiv ab tsis nas? Nws tuag lawm ces koj tau lub npe zoo lawm los más? Zaum no ces yog koj zeeg, ib leeg yeej yuav tau quaj, raug tsim uas ntej yuav tso lub ntiaj teb no tseg.
Hahaha zoo😂 tshaj plawg,poj niam siab pheem nyuas huaj xwb os
Koj raug yuam xwb, koj tsis muaj kev txhaum. TAB SIS, Yog koj lub siab txawj ras, tias nws yuav koj los nws twb hlub hlub koj es koj ua ib siab tig los hlub nws vim txoj kev zoo, ces koj tau zoo ntxov nawb. Nws twb sov siab zoo siab hauv lub neej ib zaug. Poj hmoob aw, Koj siab tawv dhau lawm os, koj yeej tsis muab koj txoj kev hlub rau nws li. Nws muab kev hlub kev zoo rau koj tag nrho nws lub neej los tsis yeej koj lub siab hnub no koj thiaj xav txog lig.
Until you have worn her shoes stop making negative comments about her. You don't know what it's like to be married to an abusive monster.
So sad mus yuav tus yus tsis hlub tsis nyiam mas laj laj ua neej tseem nws hlub yus li tsis muaj nqis😢😢. Pab koj tu siab kawg thiab pa hlub nws kawg vim nws tau cev tsis tau lub siab tu siab tas ib neej😢😢. Nyias tu nyias siab vim tsis tau tus hlub raws siab xav ua neej nrog kua muag tas tiam😢.
Nim qhuav ntxim xb kj nas haiv neeg muaj haiv neeg tsim
Me viv ncaus tsis muaj hnub es koj yuav tau ib tug zoo li koj niam nkauj txhav qaib nraug txhav noog lawm nawb
Poj niam tsis sawm tau zoo ces zoo li koj ko mas
Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb. Koj twb tau txoj kev koj xav2 tau lawm
Vim koj tshuav lawv nqi xwb os.
Koj twb nrhiav tus ua koj hlub es ces yeej meem hlub tiag hlub tiag ntav.
Dont blame your husband. He loved you dearly no matter how much you hate him. He was willing to sacrifice his life for you, hoping someday you would make it fair in returning some loves but only a wish. Now you found someone you love, but he doesnt love you. You still forgive him because you love him. Now you experience exactly what your previous x had went through. I feel bad for those heartless people.. only realize it when it's already too late..
No, you forget that she didn't force the new guy to marry her. He wanted her as much as she wanted him too, but he's just an a$$hole. She got unlucky with picking new spouse, so that's her only fault. Get it right.
We never know how our partners would turn out. It's a 50/50 chance they'll turn out to love us wholeheartedly or they don't. In her case, her new lover didn't love her truly. It's not karma. I'm sure u have relationships where the other partner didn't love u wholeheartedly too. Would u say it's your karma too then?
Ua rau kuv puab hlub kuv tu txiv tuaj zog lawm os
Haiv neeg muaj haiv neeg tsim ces yog li no tiag niam qhuav haum xwb koj twb nyiam nyob lub neej zoo li no ces koj thiaj tau lawm tiag
Feel sorry for you. I understand that no matter how much they love you, if you don't love them you'll never see their love.
Kuv tshai tsam zoo li no e kuv thiaj li hlub2 kuv tu txiv ua zij kuv lo yua xwb
Heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim
Tus muam aw. Lig lawm os. Koj tsis nyiam cas koj tsis nrauj thaum tseem hlua2. Ua ib siab os mog.
You didn't listen well. She couldn't devoice or else she would get disown. Common shit hmong put on the women to force them for things they never agree to.
This story made me miss my dad. 😢
Tej laus 1 txwm hais tias heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim no ces yog zoo li no los mas tus me niam tsev aws.
hahaha 👏👏👏👏👏 nyuam qhov ntxim li ko xwb koj twb zoo2 siab tia lub ntuj nim muab tau ib tug txiv raw2 koj lub siab ntshaw koj nyiam2 rau koj lawm no ne twb tau tu raw nkau li koj lub siab nyiam siab ntshaw lawm ca tsi uv tiag naj es tseem muab nrauj lawm thiab maj 😄😄😄😄😄
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Your children and other people can't blame on you all. Because you have no love, no feeling no life with him that's why.
Txob tusiab os hmoob niag niam tsev . Tej laus ib txwm piv lus hais tias . Pua xum noj xua dev xum noj quav no os mog .
Poj niam siab phêm nyuam qhuav phim xb o
Cas hais tau los kua muag ua luaj li os
Muaj tseeb tias lub ntiaj teb no yeej tsis muaj txivneej txawj hlub pojniam menyuam lawm os tamsim no na.
You can only reap what you sow in life…a good person will not fall to do good all his/her life. With that being sad, she’s not a good person either…she’s been selfish and not thinking about what his father did to save her whole family from being killed crossing the Mekong River…😩!
Ua cas koj tsis muaj koj niag txiv Dev rhov npe tom bank account thaum nws muaj koj $20k naw?
Tab tom phim xwb.
xum yuav tus hlub yus tsis xum yuav tham hluas nkauj os tus viv ncaus aw peb mas hlub hlub koj tus txiv qub li koj puas xav tias mob nws thiab os viv ncaus aw
I totally understand where this woman is coming from. She was sold and forced to marry someone she didn’t like. I feel sorry for her. At the same time, I do feel for the husband as well. She never loved him, they had wonderful children together and their children loved their dad, but their mom was tutoring their dad through out their lives. Feel sorry for him. To bad for them both.💔😢
Me Viv ncaus tsam no kj twb tau tus kj hlub2 thiab nyiam cas ho tsis ua siab ntev li thaum kj hais rau kj tus txiv. Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb..
me niam laus aw tus yeej yog tu tuag lawm xwb os
Niag neej tsis sawm zoo ces tsim nyog tau ris txojkev npam li ko tiag ! koj yuav hais dabtsi li ko tias hauv ntiajteb no yeej tsis muaj ib tug txiv neej zoo es koj ne koj puas yog neeg zoo thiab ? hais lus yuav tsum saib zaub rau ntsev thiab ma ? thaum koj tsim lwm tus cuag li luag tsis yog neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws hnub no koj ho raug lwm tus tsim koj cas koj ho txawj txeem thiab tu siab.
Lej twb tawm tas, mam mus yuav, thiaj rov los kab paus qhuav ces thooj li no-
Twb hais rau nej cov pob ntseg tias kom tseg kiag yawg nrauj thiab poj nrauj lawv yg neeg dag ntxias nyiaj xwb no ne.
I tried so hard not to cry. But so sad. 😭
You had a wonderful loving, loyal husband but you didn’t want him. So sad. 😢
Vuag!!! Tus niam tsev, thaum ub koj hais tias koj niam koj txiv yuam koj yuav tus txiv, tab sis twb tuaj nyob teb chaws America for so long es koj twb paub tias koj tsis hlub nws why divorce him, let him go!! You never humbled yourself and accept the reality of marriage to him. So sorry for him of dying from broken hearted because of unloved from the wrong woman that he devoted his life for so long!!😢😢. You may had been happier that he was dead, the reason why his children’s crying so hard because they knew, saw their mother behavior was tortures their father ever since😢😢. May him rest in peace!❤️
Grass is not greener on the other side. Grass is greener where you water it.
Sister koj tsim ib tus neeg mob siab ces yuav Muaj lwm tus tsim koj mob siab thiab os nawv, I didn’t feel any sorry for you that was you deserve for it
I understand her. I was forced to marry my husband in the USA but I was not as bad as her, I learn to love him as time pass by, but deep inside still hurt.
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21:44 this woman deserves what she wants. Always remember some handsome man have black heart. Karma caught up on her for real. Feel so sad for the husband that she don't love him..😢😢😢😢
First off, we must remember that she never chose her first husband. She was sold into marriage, we can’t blame her for feeling how she feels. Women never had a right back in the day.
Would u have married him and loved him then if u think she was so horrible and didn't deserve his love? Quit blaming her when you're not even in her shoes.
Also, if u said she deserved what she got, then the same goes to the husband too. He deserved that treatment from her for forcing her to marry him and chained her all those yrs.
thov kom lwm tiag koj yuav yug los ntsib ib tus txiv los muab koj tsim nawj koj thiab paub
Nej cov poj ntsuam txhob xav tias nej tau npe zoo thiab nej zoo zoo nkauj es txiv nyiam nej tshaj plaws no ov. Lawv xav tau nej pob nyiaj xwb os
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Tus me Viv ncuas Koj mas tsim nyog kawg Koj tus txiv Koj twb tsis hlub Koj Yeej kiag koj tus txiv lawm os.
poj niam siab phem ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb. os
Love it when karma catches up with you
Thov kom tus thaub no tsi txhob tig rov saib tus poj niam rov tom qab so sad i feel so bad for this guy😢😢
npam nas has
Idk why all life stories of these Hmong widows has the same mind concept! Can u Hmong widows wait at least 10 yrs b4 u really decide to remarried? U need to make sure the next relationship is well off. Smh…
Mam UV twb tau tus koj nyiam nyiam ne uv tsis tuag
U dont appreciate what u have in front of u....this what u get. God is teaching u a lesson that love isnt perfect as u want. Love is never guaranteed. Stop complaining.