I think alot of women today confuse access with options. Sifting through hundreds of dudes on an app and getting messaged by thirsty dudes wanting to smash don't equal "options".
@@LA-wv7gf That's exactly how I use Bumble or Tinder etc. It's just so much faster to swipe everyone, then you just have to delete all the fatties and fuglies (Most), Bumble is even easier because you don't even have to delete them. If an undesirable contacts you, you can just let the message and her profile expire by not responding. The app set out to give women more power, but I think it backfired.
@@henryhall2403 I believe options for a woman are men that want to get to know you and commit to you on a serious level. It's important to note that options can only be considered options if these were men you yourself actually considered taking on as well. Not men that you use to fuel your ego.
I've literally had women say "We can have sex but I'm not cooking for you because that's special ". This "Hook Up" culture has made a lot of people clinically insane and incapable of pair bonding. We "All" definitely need some form of therapy. Keep preaching Mr. Samuels, we the people need it. Salute from Phoenix, Az.
It has devolved a lot of people into Nymphomaniacs and what's sad is they don't realize it. And that's why infidelity is high on both sides. You can't just seem to get enough.
Bumble is a huge joke. Nothing but single Mothers on there. I’ve seen women on there that got little babies. Like ma’am what are you doing here? You just gave birth smh 😂
Lol, even worse is how anti male it is. The CEO(a woman) just mandated that men couldn't judge or shame women for not measuring up or else they'll get kicked
Men compromise looks for cooperation and respect. I'm an average men, HIT and I'm looking for an average woman not someone above me on the looks scale. Men understand this concept far better, I've talked to women in my family and they rather be alone than being with an average men yet when this "dreamed" man comes around women are scared because is the real deal and there's work required to keep this man and they end up blowing it up... is quite ironic, men are willing to give up his dating potential to have children and build a legacy, women on the other hand are terrified of losing their "freedom" if you need to know just look around, can't have it all.
“Men leave their dating potential behind for children and to build legacy” exactly that. As men, Our options of mates increase as we age. I became a father at 24, and still building my lifestyle, income and career, so I’ve given up all those options that come with growth for my first born daughter and wife. We pay that cost. Women are more than willing to DIE ALONE.
as a teen, I still learn so much from Kevin. The message isnt even directed towards me but I think im learning more than the women he talks to. My confidence has gone up, my understanding of the marital world has increased, and my value ranking has been completely revamped and has become more realistic. God bless, Kevin.
You're a very wise young man for listening to the advice he gives to women and applying it for yourself. Keep holding yourself accountable for your faults and work on your weaknesses and you'll be fine. Also the most important thing is to make sure your finances are in order. No woman wants a broke man.
just want the Black community to get on the same page. Things are so f’d up and it makes me sad. So much work to do. Years and years of systematic/social etc damage to our community has got us going different ways.
There is so much more to living than work and status , it's a shame no one teaches on the value of this when we're young ! It seems to only be the conversation as we mature in life
I’m scared as hell for my and the upcoming generation. Everything is Instagram and cash flashing. “Ohh, look at how much I make. And if he can’t buy me a $100,000 dollar purse then I don’t want him.”Cardi b fooling these women. Most of these women don’t even live in the same neighborhood as millionaires🤦♂️
No they're definitely relationship material. Most women make great girlfriends. Just not good wives. So they keep attracting and dealing with dudes who don't even want marriage. Most women have good sex and provide fun company. To a high value or above average man....thats a girlfriend. Not a wife
@@kevykev388 noooooo lol don’t make me laugh. They are good enough (just about) to just stick a bf/gf tag on it to have some monogamous (you hope!) fun for awhile. But to me, bf/gf status should be a lot more serious than that, it’s one step away from marriage. Also depends if we talking little kiddy age here or 23 and above
Honestly a lady can be 20 gorgeous fit femenine all you want , she still not getting a 100% Most likely her standars are going to change at 25 and even at 30 , the key is identifying the most important traits you need in a man and deal with the rest ,stay with that man through thick and thin be patiente show empathy and gratitude that's what men do, most men all really want is a decent looking feminine woman who is nice to them ..that's an A So why should a nice man with a decent income be a B or C for you ?
@@zhanazhana1001 yea, i think its because women have a strong hive mentality, they are strongly influenced by the collective. Problem is, the collective consists of many ideas, and this creates confusion.
You are correct: “easier to be a baby mama vs wife”! I see it all the time especially among my family and friends. Thats why I’m not a baby mama because I’ve chosen to want marriage before children.
I have a man now who is telling me I am damaged...never had a man say that to me before...he was very gentle though in his delivery, I might add, and I listened...he also told me I'm free and need to let go of the heavy weighted baggage I'm carrying and holding onto
@@PassportGangI'm sure this was a rhetorical question..one that Kevin would pose and you are iterating from watching him but here's my response anyway...well since men control r relationships I have to do the work required to better myself emotionally and live life. I mean what's a girl to do when her options are few to limited at best.
@@paulatucker6972 As a man 👞 talking to (You) now in this text I will give you a (B+) for making it to the point of (listen 👂) to the man 👞............As a man I was always taught by the mature woman 👠 in my life,that if I want to know how to deal with,& some of the ends & outs, the good & bad of women,than I need to, (listen & learn) from,(women),& I still wouldn't learn all that woman 👠 knows about women...... The same principal applies to a woman 👠 wanting to learn about a man 👞............PS (You), will receive a, (A+)once you implement & install what you learn from him.
Getting married requires submission to someone else and accepting accountability for your actions. Being someone’s “momma” means you’re the authority and in control. They’re afraid....
Good show and I hope you accomplish all your endeavors you have plan while here in Los Angeles. Many people disagree with what you are saying but there's a lot of truth to what's being said. My heart goes out to the last caller, the 26 year old young lady who's an only child and has lost her mother. Kevin were very patient and you gave her some solid advice. I pray she finds a support group that provides the guidance and covering she needs.
@@Cdrop63 i do not think he hate's women, some women can not handle his harsh truth. I appreciate how kevin tell women to seek help, most women are triggered by unresolved issues, insecurities, and some women are just bitter and will not accept nothing. Kevin is helping me and i can respect him for his honesty
@@natashaford914 Very well said. My exact sentiments. Some come to him as he’s a therapist and he has to remind them that he isn’t one and to get therapy. I have never heard someone tell us to get therapy as much as I have before watching this show. It’s needed
@@Cdrop63 I don't thinks he hates women. He enjoys talking to women. This is one reason why he's on RUclips. I don't agree with everything he says but I will say 95% of it I do. I really feel sad for a lot of these young women. I'm older than his base who calls in with their concerns. I see the confusion they have and unfortunately many have not been taught how to conduct themselves with the kind of man they seek. What a lot of women fell to realize is it's not that hard to meet a so called "High Value Man", this is the term that I presume is being used today. I prefer the term "High Performance Man". What do I mean? The man is on the move and constantly out performing the average brother among his peers and beyond intellectually, socially, economically, politically, spiritually, and etc. and etc. What makes a man valuable to a woman and what makes a woman valuable to a man? Marriage can be challenging and you have to ask yourself what is it about this person that your willing to bring into your space and be committed too???
As a real estate agent, I tell my seller clients that if your property is not selling 95% of the time it's because it's priced too high. Keep that in mind ladies, you can apply the same logic in the dating world. You ladies can get your own appraisals and have your own opinion of value out here but ultimately the value is what the market or sexual market place in this case decides it is & also how much someone is willing to pay for it. You can list & try to sell your property for whatever price you want to, but that doesn't mean that it's going to sell & that somebody is going to make an offer at the price you want just because you feel that's what it's worth. The market decides. Just to give you a little real estate analogy.
Back in the day...My husband and I use to start out on date night at the old folks club because the drinks were strong and cheap. Then we’d go to the younger folks club with watered down more expensive drinks and only buy one or two drinks, lol. On a good night, we’d end up back at the old folks club. 😎
Thank you Godfather! I've been saying this to my gfs for some time now. Stop rejecting good guys "Bs" because you're waiting for an "A", better yet because you believe you deserve an "A" when you're not even making the grade yourself!!!! Stop it! "B" is enough for me! I deal in reality not fantasy.
Guess what Even if she settle for a (B), she'll dump him at the first chance of getting an (A). But she'll soon find out the A just want to smash and dash.
@@womansphere4349 I was going to respond the same to @Natalie305. I really need us to come to terms with the fact that not everyone you select is for you and vice versa. Pay attention, learn from it ,and move on.
@@Mrs.T305 true indeed. However, we all know that common sense is not so common for some folks. If it was we wouldn't be engaged in this discussion. Indeed moving make you single. Moving on also makes you available, free from whatever maybe interfering with being found/finding yours, gaining whatever life lesson was needed. The point is to deal in reality and be unstuck from our fantasized life.
I don't know why some of these women act like looks don't matter. I've gotten out of tickets, gotten cars and several proposals before I was 30. I'm 49 now and yes I still get away with some things but only 1 proposal in 3 yrs that I turned down. But my grandparents especially my granddad told me about being pure for a man . I was raised to be a housewife because of my looks. I got pregnant at 15 and will never forget how my granddad said you've messed up your chances of finding the best possible husband ain't no man worth a damn gonna want you. My grandma said whelp baby the deed is done you gonna have to work harder to find a good man and learn to hold your tongue more, you might find a old man with some money to marry you because there's a new batch of fresh young women coming out every year. Yes men rate and so do women
Wow...so a man your age is worthless if doesn't have 6 figures? What are the young men supposed to do as they are just entering into life and older experienced men are using money as a carrot to manipulate and use. KS’s message is so disrespectful and misleading to younger black men mating with younger black girls and growing together and creating a foundation together. KS is capturing the younger women for his older male clients who are wealthy. Disgusting.
Yep! Thats why I hate the phrase "black dont crack". I always thought that phrase referred to black women/men being well off into our 50s and 60s no wrinkles. But in recent years, folks are now saying "black dont crack" trying to relate it to long term or old age beauty....and it simply doesn't work that way lol
I own a armed security company. If you start this club in SC/GA. Let me get that easy work, I'll take it, 40 and up don't fight cut and shoot and they go home by 1130. I would love that work.🤣🤣
Not gonna lie, there is a club in ATL called Whiskey Mistress. On the weekends, it may as well be a 40 & up club. A bunch of professionals go there, doctors, lawyers, professors, teachers, govt workers, etc. When you walk inside you just feel the "more mature" vibe. Same thing for another club here called Club Bolt. It definitely has hole in the wall vibes, but it's a big club with an older crowd. The app for older folks is called Silver Singles. Lol.
My parents raised three kids (separately) off canned beans and rice lol 😂. Less than $80k. People have NO idea how much it costs to raise a single child into a success, not simply just survive to adulthood.
100$ in 1985 is equal to 247.42 today. That means one would have to make 148,800$, to have the same purchasing power your father had back in the 80’s. And only 10% of men make that... Inflation sucks man.
A babymama has to face the fact and reality that: The baby father thought she was good enough to have sex with, but upon learning because of her, a child exists to carry forward the father's lineage; even this fact, he didn't think she was good enough to marry. That is why feminists say in a patriarchy no one cares about the women and children, only the men matter in that system.
When a woman get married she is susceptible accountability of a wife standards from raised beliefs to world wide beliefs standards of a wife. Her motive/ character becomes visible for judgement...a baby mama can play the victim role or doormat herself to baby daddy and no one can say she's not wrong and force to be sympathetic
Salute to you sir , nothing has impeded your grind. All the bs outside noise ( all those derogatory comments) you are a role model for young black men.
Facts.💯 He just being really nice. Most women don't even have a clue. I just want to know why women raised the bar so high where they can even reach. Now every women have to live up to their own standards. They have live up to the lifestyle they asking for.
Most African American black men* the mindset of other races and how they view looking for a wife is very different, Black men focus more on beauty, where as a wealthy man from another race would like you to be at least educated. Go to Africa and look at the wealthiest men, their wives are a 6 at best
@@Thisistheway2050 LOL Facts. In the end, the women felt li9ke they won. I saw it as a fall. If they did not intervene they would have died. 4 days lost 5 days hungry with pigs & they finally got in the last week on being there. LOL
dude, you're 40 and up nightclub skit was awesome. It was a comedy set! I was cooking dinner couldn't stop laughing! And I'm over 40 by a long stretch.
I think there is a fundamental disconnect in expectations. Women after women on this show act out the same thing over and over again. They are masculine, combative, often either in a danger zone or in No ones land, with children, history of drama and failed relationships and still flaunting their standards, when really your standard should realistically be "Is he alive and willing to tolerate me ?". That's about it. They confuse hook ups and LTR, try to play the virgin card (no sex before marriage), use insults, guilt and blame. Just like a poor sales person would push to sell junk, not realizing that it's all in a bad faith. How do you expect to be happy when deep down you know that only a sucker would accept that kind of deal and if you have a sucker for a husband how does it reflect on you ? Also there is a buyer's remorse when sooner or later this sucker would realize what he got himself into and just like in a song "F...ck this sh*t, I'm out" would play out over and over again.
I'm realizing that women give themselves extra points for things that men don't value, and maybe that's how women tend to overvalue themselves, and then elevate their worth above some men. I learned in my marriage that men have a completely different currency system than women, and women finding out the exchange rate for some their accomplishments, deeds, works etc is not what they expected in a relationship. Every man is not the same, but women should learn his value system and hit his top items and she'll be gold to him. I used to do a bunch of stuff for my husband that he didn't value, and not enough of the things he did value. I felt unappreciated because I thought I was already doing a lot. Once I switched, it made him happier and I was happier too because then I felt more appreciated, and it's crazy cuz I really was now doing a lot less stuff for him. But those fewer things were higher value to him, than a bunch of the low value things. Then I got more in return from him too. KS advice is just is not for single women, it's helps us married women too keep things in perspective too.
@@independ4416 that's dumb. You seem like the type that need pics and illustrations because words confuse you. That was a very good outline she gave and you need the specifics of her relationship to understand the principle things? Amazing.
I've found that when a word enters the lexicon, it slowly becomes overused. Then it becomes misused. Then it becomes totally useless because it loses all meaning.
PREACH!!! KS , ME AT 21 ,i purposely don't indulge in HU, bcuz I know my friends who do ,and almost all say they feel hollow and can't connect, plus the quality of both parties depreciates with use, and SO MANY GIRLS ARE JUST HAVING RANDOM SEX ,LIKE FUCKING HELL...STOP!!
Top notch work with the 26 yr old orphaned lady Kevin 👌 Just like a real father would advise his daughter. I'm still amazed at how some people still think you hate women.
The ones who hate him ,only hate him bc they hate the truth. when they hear it they are triggered, simply bc they are not used to uncomfortable truths.
The ones that hate are big avid watchers of these "Level Up" coaches like Sheraseven and Chloe and Michaela Pink and Pink Pill. Ever read comments in their videos? It's sickening!
This truly is one of the best topics he put out!!! Too many women especially black women are told they could get 100% of everything they want. And even if they find a man of value who’s a “B” they still keep thinking that they could get a “better B” or an “A” only to realize that the man they left was most likely they’re best option in life and they missed out.
Sex with different people leads to soul ties...you cannot commit to a life partner because you give your spirit/soul to each person you've had sex with and receive their demons!!! Some people need to have deliverance!!!!
Godfather kudos for being willing to promote a perspective on black mating and dating dynamics challenging the accepted "myths" and "presumptions". My perspective on the opposition and criticisms that have increased with your channels success mirrors the biblical and philosophical truisms on the reception and reactions "prophets" have gotten; "And Jesus said to them, "A prophet is not without honor, except in his own country, and among his own kin, and in his own house." Mark 6:4
I stumbled upon this channel about a month ago and I am completely fascinated with it! Kevin is so spot on! I'm 51 and I can't relate at all to these women. After binge watching KS vids I have come to realize why I have been proposed to by every guy I ever dated. It's because I care what men want! Wow. And.. I thought I was normal. These woman here only care about what they want and have no ability to put themselves in the guys shoes. I'm just blown away! Great channel and great advise. Hats off to you Kevin👍
I'll never forgot when I was in my early 20s working at Starbucks and the topic of dating came up. This women, who was my supervisor, said she couldn't date a man taking the bus. She was in her late 20s with a child also taking the bus. She said "we both can't be taking the bus. One of us has to have something more going on." I'm thinking back then, how do you manage to get that guy when you don't have anything going on?
I noticed "narcissistic" is the new buzzword they are applying to everything now. Most of these critics dont have an original thought but have to mirror talking points they've heard in passing that they try to apply to people and situations that are usually completely out of context.
Why can't women accept that most men in general are average joes? Just most people in society aren't multi millionaires who drive sports cars and live in mansions.
Most aren't trying to marry any of these women. They just want to sleep with them. Getting them knocked up is so that they can eat the resources coming in from the "government man" that they know they'd never be.
Most relationships in Black America start out as relations not relationships. They aren't even two people genuinely interested in each other beyond sex and really don't know each other. Black women purposefully choose the men who cant help.
@Duece Lee Music date you a black male from America, you will soon realize that the BLACK MAN IS THE BLACK WOMEN'S REFLECTION. Good luck we will not miss them
@@natashaford914 He's not a foreign woman. You misinterpreted his comment. He's implying ,that he's an American expat thriving outside of western culture woman BS.
I think alot of women today confuse access with options. Sifting through hundreds of dudes on an app and getting messaged by thirsty dudes wanting to smash don't equal "options".
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THANK YOU
@@LA-wv7gf That's exactly how I use Bumble or Tinder etc. It's just so much faster to swipe everyone, then you just have to delete all the fatties and fuglies (Most), Bumble is even easier because you don't even have to delete them. If an undesirable contacts you, you can just let the message and her profile expire by not responding. The app set out to give women more power, but I think it backfired.
Facts
@@henryhall2403 I believe options for a woman are men that want to get to know you and commit to you on a serious level. It's important to note that options can only be considered options if these were men you yourself actually considered taking on as well. Not men that you use to fuel your ego.
I've literally had women say "We can have sex but I'm not cooking for you because that's special ". This "Hook Up" culture has made a lot of people clinically insane and incapable of pair bonding. We "All" definitely need some form of therapy. Keep preaching Mr. Samuels, we the people need it. Salute from Phoenix, Az.
Wow is all I can say...
It has devolved a lot of people into Nymphomaniacs and what's sad is they don't realize it. And that's why infidelity is high on both sides. You can't just seem to get enough.
@@Sha306Sha Crazy times we're living in!
@@D_Chief. 100 percent correct!
@@michaelspicer2651I see... I’m cooking first... I’m from Mississippi and was taught that’s a way to the man’s heart
Dear Kevin, I hope you read this in heaven. You changed so many lives for the better. Rest in Peace ! We are still rocking with you !
This man is helping me change my life. Honesty always prevails. “False Truths brings false solutions”.
Same here. 👌🏿
Yes, indeed!
@@theecarking 111111111111
So very true!
Same here bro
“Single women keep women single.” So true!
Sentence so heavy, its a palindrome🤯
And this coming from a lady y'all
To more accurate
Misery loves company!. Jus call
ah spade ah spade
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@@og_mante5138 “Single women keep women single.” not a palindrome
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Thank you!
Thanks. You're genius
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Yes thank you 🙂
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Bumble is a huge joke. Nothing but single Mothers on there. I’ve seen women on there that got little babies. Like ma’am what are you doing here? You just gave birth smh 😂
Yikes
Lol, even worse is how anti male it is. The CEO(a woman) just mandated that men couldn't judge or shame women for not measuring up or else they'll get kicked
@@MsDragonbal776 what?? 😂
@@joejoerunya8908 yup. Not even joking. Women are allowed to have all the standards in the world on the platform, but men cant
There were no men on Bumble. The site came off a little too liberal and feminist. I deleted the app in hours of downloading it.
Kevin you deserve a Red Bull endorsement.
naw he need a healthy energy drink.
You don't think that's why he's constantly drinking it in front of the camera? 😂
@@ericpowell4350 I heard him flat out say it one show something like Redbull holla at me, lol i dig it tho...
@@drmikesmith6262 lol 😆
Vemma
“are you afraid that you’ll mess up or that someone will treat you how you treat them?” Kevin hits them with the questions that makes them think.
This brotha was a national treasure.
"Folks that don't like me seem to be the most loyal watchers"
😂😂😂😂😂
Very odd indeed.
Something tells me subconsciously they know he’s right but the brainwashing got them disagreeing still
Kind of like the Howard Stern show in the 80's & 90's
That’s how Floyd Mayweather made 100s of millions of dollars 😂😂😂
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Men compromise looks for cooperation and respect. I'm an average men, HIT and I'm looking for an average woman not someone above me on the looks scale. Men understand this concept far better, I've talked to women in my family and they rather be alone than being with an average men yet when this "dreamed" man comes around women are scared because is the real deal and there's work required to keep this man and they end up blowing it up... is quite ironic, men are willing to give up his dating potential to have children and build a legacy, women on the other hand are terrified of losing their "freedom" if you need to know just look around, can't have it all.
Well Said Brother 👏
That's a whole sermon bro. Respect 💪
100 percent!!! bro
Exactly! Want to wear the pants but don't want to pay the cost.
“Men leave their dating potential behind for children and to build legacy” exactly that. As men, Our options of mates increase as we age. I became a father at 24, and still building my lifestyle, income and career, so I’ve given up all those options that come with growth for my first born daughter and wife. We pay that cost. Women are more than willing to DIE ALONE.
as a teen, I still learn so much from Kevin. The message isnt even directed towards me but I think im learning more than the women he talks to. My confidence has gone up, my understanding of the marital world has increased, and my value ranking has been completely revamped and has become more realistic. God bless, Kevin.
You're a very wise young man for listening to the advice he gives to women and applying it for yourself. Keep holding yourself accountable for your faults and work on your weaknesses and you'll be fine. Also the most important thing is to make sure your finances are in order. No woman wants a broke man.
just want the Black community to get on the same page. Things are so f’d up and it makes me sad. So much work to do. Years and years of systematic/social etc damage to our community has got us going different ways.
Don't get sad, get determined. Change your immediate environment and the rest of the black community will follow.
I agree 💯..I know KS focuses on HVM but that is not the majority. The key is getting the average BM and BW together and build from the middle out.
That’s what he’s doing if you pay attention.
@@seandon7022 Agreed because all men want what the HVM wants across all class levels.
Some of us do it to ourselves. No one else to blame.
I wish I had been taught more about relationships instead of just going to school making good grades and getting a degree.
I think alot of women would agree
Listen to Leon C. AKA M. Channel YT he talks on all good levels if you want more real life truth. All genuine content also family.
You live and you learn
There is so much more to living than work and status , it's a shame no one teaches on the value of this when we're young ! It seems to only be the conversation as we mature in life
@@coreyhaga2623 I Agree. Support Leon C.AKA M. RUclips. He's trying to get the word out on all levels.
The sound effects are priceless! - “I’m a PhD.” 😂
You're new here huh
@@KiezaDS let them enjoy the moment man doesn’t matter lol.
@@101elelky yeah it’s gonna be many more new people. Kevin gaining major steam
@@101elelky I am lol
@@KiezaDS it’s going to be 100s of them soon. KS going up lol.
most modern women are not relationship material....
Most weak men like you aren’t either 🤷🏾♀️
I’m scared as hell for my and the upcoming generation. Everything is Instagram and cash flashing. “Ohh, look at how much I make. And if he can’t buy me a $100,000 dollar purse then I don’t want him.”Cardi b fooling these women. Most of these women don’t even live in the same neighborhood as millionaires🤦♂️
No they're definitely relationship material. Most women make great girlfriends. Just not good wives. So they keep attracting and dealing with dudes who don't even want marriage. Most women have good sex and provide fun company. To a high value or above average man....thats a girlfriend. Not a wife
@@kevykev388 Very true.
@@kevykev388 noooooo lol don’t make me laugh. They are good enough (just about) to just stick a bf/gf tag on it to have some monogamous (you hope!) fun for awhile. But to me, bf/gf status should be a lot more serious than that, it’s one step away from marriage. Also depends if we talking little kiddy age here or 23 and above
Honestly a lady can be 20 gorgeous fit femenine all you want , she still not getting a 100%
Most likely her standars are going to change at 25 and even at 30 , the key is identifying the most important traits you need in a man and deal with the rest ,stay with that man through thick and thin be patiente show empathy and gratitude
that's what men do, most men all really want is a decent looking feminine woman who is nice to them ..that's an A
So why should a nice man with a decent income be a B or C for you ?
Decent or descent?
@@frankbrennan1619 my bad 😊 thank you
Love your comment. Men are pretty simple, women, we overcomplicate you guys.
@@zhanazhana1001 yea, i think its because women have a strong hive mentality, they are strongly influenced by the collective. Problem is, the collective consists of many ideas, and this creates confusion.
Exactly 💯
You are correct: “easier to be a baby mama vs wife”! I see it all the time especially among my family and friends. Thats why I’m not a baby mama because I’ve chosen to want marriage before children.
Good for you, keep that same mantra
How are you doing with your standards? I hope you are still hanging in there and hasn't fallen into the baby mama pool.
This was actually sweet. That last call probably never heard the truth from a man in her life until then
I have a man now who is telling me I am damaged...never had a man say that to me before...he was very gentle though in his delivery, I might add, and I listened...he also told me I'm free and need to let go of the heavy weighted baggage I'm carrying and holding onto
@@paulatucker6972 ok cool so now what are you going to do about it?
@@PassportGangI'm sure this was a rhetorical question..one that Kevin would pose and you are iterating from watching him but here's my response anyway...well since men control r relationships I have to do the work required to better myself emotionally and live life. I mean what's a girl to do when her options are few to limited at best.
I agree with you,but there is a lot of women (older & young) who have never hear the real truth from a 👞 man, they all heard what they wanted to hear.
@@paulatucker6972 As a man 👞 talking to (You) now in this text I will give you a (B+) for making it to the point of (listen 👂) to the man 👞............As a man I was always taught by the mature woman 👠 in my life,that if I want to know how to deal with,& some of the ends & outs, the good & bad of women,than I need to, (listen & learn) from,(women),& I still wouldn't learn all that woman 👠 knows about women......
The same principal applies to a woman 👠 wanting to learn about a man 👞............PS (You), will receive a, (A+)once you implement & install what you learn from him.
Getting married requires submission to someone else and accepting accountability for your actions. Being someone’s “momma” means you’re the authority and in control. They’re afraid....
You hit it on the head!
Truth
Wow
Exactly
WOW!!!
Damn,he was a wise man, he'll be missed very much!!
Good show and I hope you accomplish all your endeavors you have plan while here in Los Angeles. Many people disagree with what you are saying but there's a lot of truth to what's being said.
My heart goes out to the last caller, the 26 year old young lady who's an only child and has lost her mother. Kevin were very patient and you gave her some solid advice. I pray she finds a support group that provides the guidance and covering she needs.
They swear he hates women though lol.
@@Cdrop63 i do not think he hate's women, some women can not handle his harsh truth. I appreciate how kevin tell women to seek help, most women are triggered by unresolved issues, insecurities, and some women are just bitter and will not accept nothing. Kevin is helping me and i can respect him for his honesty
@@natashaford914 Very well said. My exact sentiments. Some come to him as he’s a therapist and he has to remind them that he isn’t one and to get therapy. I have never heard someone tell us to get therapy as much as I have before watching this show. It’s needed
@@Cdrop63 I don't thinks he hates women. He enjoys talking to women. This is one reason why he's on RUclips. I don't agree with everything he says but I will say 95% of it I do.
I really feel sad for a lot of these young women. I'm older than his base who calls in with their concerns. I see the confusion they have and unfortunately many have not been taught how to conduct themselves with the kind of man they seek.
What a lot of women fell to realize is it's not that hard to meet a so called "High Value Man", this is the term that I presume is being used today. I prefer the term "High Performance Man". What do I mean? The man is on the move and constantly out performing the average brother among his peers and beyond intellectually, socially, economically, politically, spiritually, and etc. and etc.
What makes a man valuable to a woman and what makes a woman valuable to a man? Marriage can be challenging and you have to ask yourself what is it about this person that your willing to bring into your space and be committed too???
@@natashaford914 I concure.
As a real estate agent, I tell my seller clients that if your property is not selling 95% of the time it's because it's priced too high. Keep that in mind ladies, you can apply the same logic in the dating world. You ladies can get your own appraisals and have your own opinion of value out here but ultimately the value is what the market or sexual market place in this case decides it is & also how much someone is willing to pay for it. You can list & try to sell your property for whatever price you want to, but that doesn't mean that it's going to sell & that somebody is going to make an offer at the price you want just because you feel that's what it's worth. The market decides. Just to give you a little real estate analogy.
So many people were fooled by that notion of a "soulmate" and it got their heads twisted thinking that there's a 100% person out there just for them.
The 40 and up night club scenario had me cracking up.😅😅😂😂😂
Back in the day...My husband and I use to start out on date night at the old folks club because the drinks were strong and cheap. Then we’d go to the younger folks club with watered down more expensive drinks and only buy one or two drinks, lol. On a good night, we’d end up back at the old folks club. 😎
You and me both.
Realest thing I've heard in a while!
The reality is that many women expect men to be A's but they themselves are C's.
“Fido and Fidette” 🤣🤣🤣 I’m 45. That 40 and up scene sounds absolutely horrible! 😂
Hahaha. You caught that too? Fidette...
Thank you Godfather! I've been saying this to my gfs for some time now. Stop rejecting good guys "Bs" because you're waiting for an "A", better yet because you believe you deserve an "A" when you're not even making the grade yourself!!!! Stop it!
"B" is enough for me! I deal in reality not fantasy.
Guess what
Even if she settle for a (B), she'll dump him at the first chance of getting an (A).
But she'll soon find out the A just want to smash and dash.
@@Mrs.T305 They don't want to marry you,but they marry other women though
@@womansphere4349 I was going to respond the same to @Natalie305. I really need us to come to terms with the fact that not everyone you select is for you and vice versa. Pay attention, learn from it ,and move on.
@@LamontAdair I'm a B
@@Mrs.T305 true indeed. However, we all know that common sense is not so common for some folks. If it was we wouldn't be engaged in this discussion. Indeed moving make you single. Moving on also makes you available, free from whatever maybe interfering with being found/finding yours, gaining whatever life lesson was needed. The point is to deal in reality and be unstuck from our fantasized life.
I don't know why some of these women act like looks don't matter. I've gotten out of tickets, gotten cars and several proposals before I was 30. I'm 49 now and yes I still get away with some things but only 1 proposal in 3 yrs that I turned down. But my grandparents especially my granddad told me about being pure for a man . I was raised to be a housewife because of my looks. I got pregnant at 15 and will never forget how my granddad said you've messed up your chances of finding the best possible husband ain't no man worth a damn gonna want you. My grandma said whelp baby the deed is done you gonna have to work harder to find a good man and learn to hold your tongue more, you might find a old man with some money to marry you because there's a new batch of fresh young women coming out every year. Yes men rate and so do women
Bingo! You hit the nail on the head!! Say it louder for those at the back!!
Why did you not marry?
Girl bye you sound crazy.
But you turned down marriage? What an example for your children you are setting🤦🤦🤦
Wow...so a man your age is worthless if doesn't have 6 figures? What are the young men supposed to do as they are just entering into life and older experienced men are using money as a carrot to manipulate and use. KS’s message is so disrespectful and misleading to younger black men mating with younger black girls and growing together and creating a foundation together. KS is capturing the younger women for his older male clients who are wealthy. Disgusting.
Hands down my favorite show when it comes to the truth between men and women
“I’ve never heard of a thriving dating community in their 60’s” 🤣
Hes talking the the group of people who will create that very thing. Times are changing
@@brandenicole7 yep times are changing for the worst. Judgment day will soon come
You missing out
@@brandenicole7 he’s a guy so he’s dating younger women anyway
@passdatqueen Vonpacc 😂😂💀
PYT over time becomes PT.and then eventually she's just a thing. Lol.
Yep! Thats why I hate the phrase "black dont crack". I always thought that phrase referred to black women/men being well off into our 50s and 60s no wrinkles. But in recent years, folks are now saying "black dont crack" trying to relate it to long term or old age beauty....and it simply doesn't work that way lol
Kevin went really easy on the first caller I think he could tell she was a fragile person. That’s pretty decent of him
Walk around with a little card that says “ I GOT A PHD “🤣🤣 Kevin should be a comedian
I want a shirt that says that 😂😂
$80k for a family of 5 in LA, you’d be homeless
I own a armed security company. If you start this club in SC/GA. Let me get that easy work, I'll take it, 40 and up don't fight cut and shoot and they go home by 1130. I would love that work.🤣🤣
Not gonna lie, there is a club in ATL called Whiskey Mistress. On the weekends, it may as well be a 40 & up club. A bunch of professionals go there, doctors, lawyers, professors, teachers, govt workers, etc. When you walk inside you just feel the "more mature" vibe.
Same thing for another club here called Club Bolt. It definitely has hole in the wall vibes, but it's a big club with an older crowd.
The app for older folks is called Silver Singles. Lol.
This is my new favorite channel 😁😁
Can’t stop watching it’s really eye opening
Watching the reply I came across a new term 'the unblock fee' 🤣🤣🤣 Kevin is a pioneer!
Hey!!! I listen to this man 15 years in my marriage and I thank God!! My man is and myself is everything to us?!!!!
My parents raised three kids (separately) off canned beans and rice lol 😂. Less than $80k. People have NO idea how much it costs to raise a single child into a success, not simply just survive to adulthood.
Which state was this
@@marleyjanim5033 the five boroughs of NY. Im an 80’s baby. Father made around $60k.
100$ in 1985 is equal to 247.42 today. That means one would have to make 148,800$, to have the same purchasing power your father had back in the 80’s. And only 10% of men make that... Inflation sucks man.
@@XxxSPIKEx interesting. Thanks for the info 🙏🏾
RIIIIGHT!!!
she was being manipulative and abusive but she don’t want to get married bc her grandfather cheated
I wish people could hear what comes out of their mouth sometimes......😂😂😂😂
Being a baby mother, rather than being a wife and then a mother. This type of thinking is so backwards 🤦🏾♂️
A babymama has to face the fact and reality that:
The baby father thought she was good enough to have sex with, but upon learning because of her, a child exists to carry forward the father's lineage; even this fact, he didn't think she was good enough to marry. That is why feminists say in a patriarchy no one cares about the women and children, only the men matter in that system.
Exactly smh
Facts!
Agreed! Many are surprised I don’t have kids because I tell them I haven’t been married.
I’ve never came across a woman who weighed less than 150 pounds that was ashamed to say how much she weighs! 🤔
That should tell you everything you need to know!!
I'm 123 pounds 5’1 I gained so much weight during lockedown 😩 I was 115 lordddd
Lol!
@@sandyg9314 8 lbs? That's insane... have you thought about forced vomiting?
When a woman get married she is susceptible accountability of a wife standards from raised beliefs to world wide beliefs standards of a wife. Her motive/ character becomes visible for judgement...a baby mama can play the victim role or doormat herself to baby daddy and no one can say she's not wrong and force to be sympathetic
Salute to you sir , nothing has impeded your grind. All the bs outside noise ( all those derogatory comments) you are a role model for young black men.
Facts... most men think like Kevin, ladies wake up
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Facts.💯 He just being really nice. Most women don't even have a clue. I just want to know why women raised the bar so high where they can even reach. Now every women have to live up to their own standards. They have live up to the lifestyle they asking for.
They really do....I can appreciate honesty...oh well
Most African American black men* the mindset of other races and how they view looking for a wife is very different, Black men focus more on beauty, where as a wealthy man from another race would like you to be at least educated. Go to Africa and look at the wealthiest men, their wives are a 6 at best
@@justentertainingtv9686 stfu... why other races not marrying yall in high numbers then
What the French Toast 🍞 ‼️
I'll admit I was a D when I got married. Spent 15 years doing summer school and extra credit to finally reach an A.
Good work man that’s was up it took me losing mines to get it didn’t have a pops but I’m grateful cause a lot of dudes never get it
Congratulations on passing 360k subscribers!!!
💯
The Godfather needs a merch shop, cuff links, ties, belts, and accessories.
I can't wait till he does
I agree ☝️
I'd support
🤝
He does on Amazon
Ks the Godfather. Dropping those knowledge bombs 💣
Facts
And I say again. The culture needs this man.👊🏿
That show you told that young lady on your last show was a good watch. The island season 2 loved it. Thanks bro
Wasn’t that a trip?! The women were crying before they even got off the boat! Crazy!
@@Thisistheway2050 LOL Facts. In the end, the women felt li9ke they won. I saw it as a fall. If they did not intervene they would have died. 4 days lost 5 days hungry with pigs & they finally got in the last week on being there. LOL
dude, you're 40 and up nightclub skit was awesome. It was a comedy set! I was cooking dinner couldn't stop laughing! And I'm over 40 by a long stretch.
I think there is a fundamental disconnect in expectations. Women after women on this show act out the same thing over and over again. They are masculine, combative, often either in a danger zone or in No ones land, with children, history of drama and failed relationships and still flaunting their standards, when really your standard should realistically be "Is he alive and willing to tolerate me ?". That's about it. They confuse hook ups and LTR, try to play the virgin card (no sex before marriage), use insults, guilt and blame. Just like a poor sales person would push to sell junk, not realizing that it's all in a bad faith. How do you expect to be happy when deep down you know that only a sucker would accept that kind of deal and if you have a sucker for a husband how does it reflect on you ? Also there is a buyer's remorse when sooner or later this sucker would realize what he got himself into and just like in a song "F...ck this sh*t, I'm out" would play out over and over again.
You hit it right on the money.
100% and some
Facts!!
Your comment gets 👍 x1,000,000.
Agreed 👍🔥😎
I never thought I'd set my alarm on midnight just to wake up to watch a show
lol
Funny
lol
Mayn this ish is addicting,just to hear these women time after time again all over the world who have no clue is entertaining and also scary..😂
@@RidewithDEEbesttransportation I swear this the only show I be watching. Kevin be dropping gems for men especially in his old videos.
Still tuning in, Godfather
Get that 80%! they were saying that back in the 80's and 90's..still true
There were more people complaining about "Kiss the Ring" , than listening to the message.
Lol simply bc society told them that they are equal..even queens bow to kings..
I’m not kissing Kevin ring, but I will kiss his sexy lips if he wants. 😊 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Keep it in your pants lady 😂
What’s the name of the song
😂😂 I tell that to my husband Kiss the Ring 😂 but he knows I’m playing plus he watches This channel with me 😌😆
I'm realizing that women give themselves extra points for things that men don't value, and maybe that's how women tend to overvalue themselves, and then elevate their worth above some men. I learned in my marriage that men have a completely different currency system than women, and women finding out the exchange rate for some their accomplishments, deeds, works etc is not what they expected in a relationship. Every man is not the same, but women should learn his value system and hit his top items and she'll be gold to him. I used to do a bunch of stuff for my husband that he didn't value, and not enough of the things he did value. I felt unappreciated because I thought I was already doing a lot. Once I switched, it made him happier and I was happier too because then I felt more appreciated, and it's crazy cuz I really was now doing a lot less stuff for him. But those fewer things were higher value to him, than a bunch of the low value things. Then I got more in return from him too. KS advice is just is not for single women, it's helps us married women too keep things in perspective too.
Your comment would have carried more weight if you gave specific examples of the things you were doing versus the things he wanted you to do.
Nail on the head
@@independ4416 that's dumb. You seem like the type that need pics and illustrations because words confuse you. That was a very good outline she gave and you need the specifics of her relationship to understand the principle things? Amazing.
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Thrilled to hear a smoke show is coming in a couple hours, need an uplift after that last call, that was tough.
I do agree that TOXIC is super overused and MISUSED! I HATE IT!
I've found that when a word enters the lexicon, it slowly becomes overused. Then it becomes misused. Then it becomes totally useless because it loses all meaning.
The wisdom of this knowledge has been an awakening of the truth!
40+ club: Ambulances parked outside, nap table room, rent-a-back-brace services, and a wheelchair ramp. My kind of place...lol!
I had a learning disability related to emotional traumas as a child...so a B was good for me. Never wanted a high value man...just a good man
What disability was that dear?
@@blacksilverchair3315 in my adolescent years....learning disability as I already stated....had a hard time focusing...but I did overcome it.
PREACH!!! KS , ME AT 21 ,i purposely don't indulge in HU, bcuz I know my friends who do ,and almost all say they feel hollow and can't connect, plus the quality of both parties depreciates with use, and SO MANY GIRLS ARE JUST HAVING RANDOM SEX ,LIKE FUCKING HELL...STOP!!
I’ma pray for you fam lol
I hear ya bruh...howeverrr us dudes need to get our rocks off....once that's done then we can talk abt how soulless the woman are🤣🤣
Free smoke show can't wait. Have all your sound effects ready Kevin.
Top notch work with the 26 yr old orphaned lady Kevin 👌 Just like a real father would advise his daughter. I'm still amazed at how some people still think you hate women.
I know. I think Kevin triggers them with the truth.
The ones who hate him ,only hate him bc they hate the truth. when they hear it they are triggered, simply bc they are not used to uncomfortable truths.
Yes I was thinking the same. I feel bad for her honestly, hope that conversation with Kevin helped her.
The ones that hate are big avid watchers of these "Level Up" coaches like Sheraseven and Chloe and Michaela Pink and Pink Pill. Ever read comments in their videos? It's sickening!
When you tell most women the truth they call you toxic/misogynist, nothing new.
Kevin you are a LEADER of logical humanity!
The 26 year old got me in Tears. Stay blessed sis
@Mon Deezy women are 24/7 in their emotion. They just need a little spark😂
You ready to have my baby
@Mon Deezy use it to your advantage.
@Mon Deezy yes maybe it’s because I can relate
This truly is one of the best topics he put out!!! Too many women especially black women are told they could get 100% of everything they want. And even if they find a man of value who’s a “B” they still keep thinking that they could get a “better B” or an “A” only to realize that the man they left was most likely they’re best option in life and they missed out.
Drink of the evening Redbull 🍹 as forever. Cheers KS
Keeps him up. Its late man. We older men get tired
Thanks 4 posting this JAM, MON! RELAXIN...
Sex with different people leads to soul ties...you cannot commit to a life partner because you give your spirit/soul to each person you've had sex with and receive their demons!!! Some people need to have deliverance!!!!
Amen
And a exorcism !
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That only applies to females tho
@@steelesharpensteele6252 Only Apply’s to women...okay you keep reminding yourself that u a demon boo
Good conversation..i wish everyone young woman would take this seriously
"Are you afraid to mess it up or someone will treat you the way you treat them?" ☠️ Damn!
Just found your channel and watched this video you now have another subscriber (41m). Thanks for this wisdom sir!
This episode should be called the byproduct of liberalism
Godfather kudos for being willing to promote a perspective on black mating and dating dynamics challenging the accepted "myths" and "presumptions". My perspective on the opposition and criticisms that have increased with your channels success mirrors the biblical and philosophical truisms on the reception and reactions "prophets" have gotten;
"And Jesus said to them, "A prophet is not without honor, except in his own country, and among his own kin, and in his own house." Mark 6:4
Love you brother👊
I stumbled upon this channel about a month ago and I am completely fascinated with it! Kevin is so spot on! I'm 51 and I can't relate at all to these women. After binge watching KS vids I have come to realize why I have been proposed to by every guy I ever dated. It's because I care what men want! Wow. And.. I thought I was normal. These woman here only care about what they want and have no ability to put themselves in the guys shoes. I'm just blown away! Great channel and great advise. Hats off to you Kevin👍
I'll never forgot when I was in my early 20s working at Starbucks and the topic of dating came up. This women, who was my supervisor, said she couldn't date a man taking the bus. She was in her late 20s with a child also taking the bus. She said "we both can't be taking the bus. One of us has to have something more going on." I'm thinking back then, how do you manage to get that guy when you don't have anything going on?
I noticed "narcissistic" is the new buzzword they are applying to everything now. Most of these critics dont have an original thought but have to mirror talking points they've heard in passing that they try to apply to people and situations that are usually completely out of context.
This liberalism ideology has gotten people who adhire by it have them like Orwell 1984 Group Think.. Wtf
And mysogony but they have been engaging in misandry for years esp BM smh
Why can't women accept that most men in general are average joes? Just most people in society aren't multi millionaires who drive sports cars and live in mansions.
Stepping up that music selection
Thats 40 and up club will be closing hella early like around 10 or 11...😆
Or at nine so the clientd can be home in bed sleeping at ten.
@@magnushelin007 yes. you would have to start that club opening time right after work around 5 o'clock...😆
@@JayQuarius Perhaps a cup of warm chocolate before closing instead of whiskey to send you of to 😴 ?
@@magnushelin007 Don't forget pain killers or aspirin at door as parting gifts aching joints in the morning...
Where’s the time stamp guy?
I’m always looking for him lol
Women are more scarred of marriage then they are being a baby momma
The govt don't give you free money and housing when you married
Most aren't trying to marry any of these women. They just want to sleep with them. Getting them knocked up is so that they can eat the resources coming in from the "government man" that they know they'd never be.
Keep spitting that truth Kevin.
I be like “ that spinning thing is gonna stop moving “ and it don’t !!
Yeah it's dope I bet Kevin place is put together tho
This is gem!!🔥🔥
Most of us weren't raised in a marriage setting...
Most relationships in Black America start out as relations not relationships. They aren't even two people genuinely interested in each other beyond sex and really don't know each other. Black women purposefully choose the men who cant help.
N thats by plan, to get you to think, & vote a certain way.
@@merouria6524 bingo!!! and that my friend is what alot of people don't want to talk about...
In a nut shell!!!
Not always an excuse. There resources out there.
I hope KS brings the sofa setting back someday.
Kevin, these men are going to Brazil and Colombia.
@Duece Lee Music date you a black male from America, you will soon realize that the BLACK MAN IS THE BLACK WOMEN'S REFLECTION.
Good luck we will not miss them
@Duece Lee Music she’s deflecting accountability as per usual
Im joining , I adore conservative latinas .
@@natashaford914 He's not a foreign woman. You misinterpreted his comment. He's implying ,that he's an American expat thriving outside of western culture woman BS.
And the Philippines costa rica and everywhere there are beautiful women with no attitudes
Great content Kevin🙏🏾
Loved when you shut the chat room to members only 😊😊
Damn 40 and up club sounds like a great idea