Hi friend, thank you for your videos. Respectfully, please refrain from using the sacred name of our Savior Jesus Christ as an expletive; it is very hurtful to your supportive Christian listeners. Happy Holidays ❤
Literally. I used to have tons of good friends, now that my husband made me a stay at home wife and mother, with no worries in the world, All my friends are bitter bitches.
I married at 19 to my 27yo husband. I love older men. We've been married for 33 years. Marriage is WORK. My husband is the head and I am the neck. We work TOGETHER. We've raised our kids. Now we spoil our grandkids. This is what creating a family unit is. This is why children need two parents. I'm just tired of toxic modern single females thinking that supporting and respecting a man is stupid. I will take my "stupidity" over theirs ANY DAY. 😂
@@addaetenkamenin5853 i personally don't deal with single people period. Women are bitter and try to ruin relationships. Men are trying to mack because they see what my man has. So it's easier to deal with married people. I can ruin their lives if I'm not left alone. Choose wisely.
I’ve been married for 10 years (got married at 26) and I honestly feel like I should have gotten married sooner!! This is the best experience I’ve ever had in my life and I wouldn’t trade my hard working, providing, protecting, black king for NOTHING IN THIS WORLD!!! 🌎 ❤‼️
The lady who didnt even know her mortgage company, that was my Grandmother. One of the greatest women in the world. Strong and VERYfeminine God fearing. When my grandfather died my father and I picked up where he left off with her bills and everything. So she still went never knowing until she passed. God rest her soul.
I am a "working wife" that pays groceries and extras, but my husband has always paid our main bills -- someone recently got angry at me for not knowing who our mortgage & insurance is with -- actually told me I was "irresponsible". I considered whether she was right, but decided it was weirder for her to be concerned with my household bills than for me NOT to be! It seems to make some women angry to see a peaceful wife.
It is irresponsible, hopefully nothing happens to your husband. Crazy things happen beyond our control & it’s best to be prepared. Nothing humbles you like the sudden death of a family member. This has nothing to do with misery but preparedness. Best of Luck to you.
@@theguyarmada2178 I'm telling you, it's crazy someone would be upset that someone else has peace! All I could think is, "If I'm not worried why are you"?!!
You need to be on top of the bills and other stuff so you know what your take is. If you are not suffucating and crushing him, he will have time and energy and may find another person or project. You have to be on him - pushing, proving, accusing, manipulating, tracking, confusing, cheating, breaking and bossing him. Men are not too smart so you can easily do this. Then when he is maxed out, you can take all the documents and stuff you have, call the popo and make a speech (so you can kick him out) and get that 401K 😊. You are much better than him so show everyone just how powerful strong and independent you are. He is financially abusing you by not giving you the deets 😢
Lost her after 38 years together nearly 36 married, 3 kids, 7 cross country moves (Military). She was the model of ride or die. She made the 16 hour work days worth it, she was the reason to I would drive hours to get home.
My wife and I celebrated 24 years of marriage 2 weeks ago. We got big plans for the 25th. Our journey was challenging raising 2 sets of twins with a single in between all born in a 3 years span. Let that sink in. They all grown now and yes we’re partying together 🎉
Thank you for this. I'm so TIRED of people acting like being in a happy marriage doesn't exist today. All guys DON'T CHEAT & ALL WOMEN AREN'T HOES. BLESSINGS!!
Great. Hold on for the 10 years. You will find you can take half and even get alimony and keep thr house if you can break him down and make a case to the popo. Speak to a lawyer yo get the game. You have 4 years to pull this off and I know you will make it and show him how strong and independent you are.
@@kwadwog8168 Sir there are actually people in the world who value family and marriage that was ordained by God. I actually like and love my husband. He’s an amazing man and father. Why would I want to give that up?
Perhaps, but unfortunately, in the modern western world, when you get married you bring you, your wife, and the state into a 3 party contract that does not benefit you in any way. “No Fault” divorce, Family Courts, and her Police place the “gun” of the state in her hand aimed your head. She may never choose to pull the trigger but she always has the option to destroy you by taking half and your children. When selecting a wife you must choose wisely, but even if you do, never forget that at any time she can wake up to say “I’m not happy, I divorcing you and taking your children to Texas”. But you’re job is in Vermont. 50% of 1st time marriages end in divorce, 80% of the time initiated by women. 90% if college educated. Balance? Are you willing to flip a coin to determine whether you succeed or fail in life? Best of luck to the future of marriage in the West. There are significant reasons why marriage rates are collapsing and men are choosing to go their own way to mitigate risk. A red pill indeed.
I’m a stay at home dad. My wife took over as provider after I had an accident and broke my back. A flawless transition because she never saw me as less than the leader of our home, so yes she does make the money, and she hands me that check I pay the bills I take care of the cars I clean the house and make dinner, I raised our 5 kids after she had for 12 years. I was so blessed by the foundation she left in our home. I was raised Christian, she was not she doesn’t know it but she is a godly woman and I am so blessed. Btw, if she catch me vacuuming or doing dishes (which I always do shirtless) or god forbid in the laundry room alone… I better hold onto something.
And this is just one example why money isnt the most important factor in marrying someone. Money can't buy unconditional love & good values in a partner. Imagine if she left you after she had to take over the finances? I wish more people knew how beautiful life can be when you share it with the right person. Blessings & cheers to ya'll 🥂
Amen! My husband just talked to me about work while I cooked and served his favorite meal. He blesses me, and I bless him. I'm so happy when he comes to me!
I remember talking to my coworker 10 year ago where she said that she had been married for 20 yrs and during that time she never has put any gas in her car or washed her car or any kind car maintenance. For 20 yrs her husband was taking care of all that... For 20 yrs... Marinade on that... Some people don't know what that's like. When a man or woman find a spouse, they find a good thing.
I bet it was so simple. She told him something wrong with the car, he told her to take his car and he would deal with her car tomorrow. Black females right now can not recognize this strong and independent nonsense has ruined the community.
That’s my life right now. It started with my father. He never let me cut grass, change my oil, do anything like that growing up and I see why. I found a husband who would be INSULTED if I did those things ❤
The greatest trick the devil played on man was making the world think he didn’t exist. The greatest trick angry bitter women played on good women was making them think they were all the same.
My ex wife wanted to stay friends, my petty ass said sure just to show her how much she held me back with her decisions. She don't have words for me anymore.
My ex wife emailed me after we’d been divorced with no communication for 10 yrs. She said it took her two yrs to work up the courage to contact me and she apologized for being a shitty wife. It was so crazy that at first I thought it was one of my friends f*cking with me.
@@Oir07 42 and alone. She had a few relationships that treated her badly which I’m sure it was made her appreciate what she had…just way too late to matter.
By the time I was 20 I was married with 3 children. I never felt that I was missing out. I kept a clean house, clean kids, made dinner and went out with them and I never felt like I was a slave. Im happy that I had them young, my eldest is almost 41 and now Im a young gramma.
😢😭. But there is hope. This means from 30 you would be able to take the house if you speak with lawyer and take money till retirement and also have his retirement. Your story is so good any lawyer would be happy to have you be client in court 💪🏿💪🏿
Traditional women who make sure they guard themselves and pick good men will always win in the end over modern, progressive and feminist type of women. I can literally feel the jealousy that comes off of modern women when they look at traditional women pleasing their husbands and being normal and natural things in their femininity nature. It's like "Why is she happy being a woman like this and I'm not happy being a woman whose "empowered" and free" The answer is obvious.@@kwadwog8168
These people reflect my life. I have a 40 year and counting marriage to a wife that I look forward to coming home to every day. She's smart (2 engineering degrees), yet prioritizes our family and marriage. We've been married since our early 20's and would do it again. We're looking forward to spending retirement together.
Married 45 years to 2nd wife. And if I had to do it over again , I would. She asks me all the time if she's being too clingy, I,ll tell her "yes," but don't stop.
Met my hubby in middle school, got pregnant @16 & we’ve been together ever since, we have 3 kids & I recently found out a day after thanksgiving, we’re going to be grandparents…next year we will be celebrating our 23rd Anniversary, Thank you GOD❤🙏🏽 he’s the only one who knows the obstacles we face everyday…
It was wonderful being married and having my child at 21. My husband now passed away but he was my king. Don’t let the “opportunity” pass away, it’s beautiful.
I disagree, I had over 100 women, not that i really chased them, just way things happened. 40% usa 60% Internationally. But married a virgin. Body count dont matter. Most times at least USA, got with a woman as she offer it and name shame if turn down. International, I was the rare guy, so all clammed to me.
@@sagepirotess6312you managed to do that as a man. If you were a woman, good luck with that. Body count does matter. If it didn't you wouldn't have married a virgin.
Wth does your comment even mean? The reality of life is that some relationships are temporary and some are not. That's literally the reality and nobody can argue against it. High body counts use to only exist for prostitutes and adult film stars (another kind of prostitute) along with high status folks like celebs, kings, queens etc. Then all of a sudden Post "the sexual revolution" rather the "DEVILution" or "DeEvolution" common folks began to adopt the concept that sexual lust is ok for people in general and hedonistic pleasure is ok so long as everything is consensual. This was a lie and it took decades of indoctrination to even plant this in the social realm. Not a single person is ultimately happy sleeping around with so many people unless they have mental health issues or are evil, not one. Degenerates, greedy and the mentally ill are the only folks who rack up high body counts hence why it's not the norm as they are way less people who are like this than the normal populace. I COULD have had 25+ women but only slept with 5. I always got female attention since 12 years old and was doing things since then but withheld sex until I was 18. A gf at 14 years old when I was 14 also tried to force me into her mom's apartment and she said she "had a yearning feeling to have sex with me", an exact quote. I made mistakes dating sure but one of them was not fully giving into sleeping with every woman I could have. I'm no model guy, but being tall, fit or women can tell you work out a little, having nice colored eyes, a deep voice and such will get you attention. If I could rewind time, I'd stay a virgin till I met my wife, because she's the only one who actually put work in to love me for me and prove she was just into me as a whole since Day 1. Not money, not some unrealistic idea, and she's not a feminist and she's traditional. Not a single woman made me feel like I should marry them but her.
@@drjonesey5 not about rewinding, ir being, nor being as people pleaser, what most western men are... not is it to get comfortable and just stay with someone because had xxx or its good cc but not a great partner for you. Others just need patience. Enjoy yourself til timing and right person intercepts your life.
Men and women that speak so healthy about their marriages and relationships are the ones who have chosen wisely and recognize the bigger picture of what marriage and commitment are supposed to be. Our choices and practicing good discernment determine our happiness in relationships.
Are we supposed to know who we pay our house loan to?!?! My husband works hard for his family, I don’t work. I’ll be damned if he does anything at home, my husband is fed, comes down (works from home) to a clean home, a dressed and made up wife, he gets the naughties more than regularly and guess what? We have a happy healthy marriage. Modern women are tripping, I’ve gotten shit for my traditional marriage from divorced/single women like 😂 you can’t even get a man and you want to make fun of me.
She is correct about the good relationships need to speak up more, the world is empowering whorish, degrading, greedy and foolish behavior. please more people show them decent, loving, respectful relationships are possible
I’m shocked to see wives. Actual feminine wives on video. That is so rare these days. We get shamed by the single hyenas constantly but they’re spending holidays alone and we’re making pies with a husband hugging our waist ❤
Hi!I'm also married and have been so for 14 years,I reside in Georgia.If interested in making a new friend,please don't hesitate to reach back out.If not interested,I respect that.❤
I've been with my wife for 20 years. I make the bread, she takes care of the home front. I can't remember a single time I had to clean the house. We are close to retirement now. Life is good.
Shout out to all the women who realize that you could build more wealth and travel further if you start the journey together. When you look at the people in this country who has the least wealth they are da least married. Now we understand why our community has become a hood.
My single friends go into credit cards debt hopping to a new country every month just to post on instagram. Then they come home, they’re alone, and they’re miserable. I’m raising a baby and pregnant (married OF COURSE) and that’s more rewarding. We’ll be able to travel eventually. Not important right now.
I'm so glad you did this video! I am a happy married man of 10 years. Me and my wife have been together a total of 17 years. We met each other young and college. But we both had a foundation. That marriage was very important. She has been nothing short of a blessing to me and that blessing has been bestowed on my children as well with the type of mother that she is. When I see all of these videos negatively a portraying marriage, it makes me sad! I get sad to think that so many people will not be able to experience the joy that I get the experience every day when I come home to this woman and my family! It is literally the highlight of my day every day! When you can find a good person who you love and loves you in return and in abundance. Nothing else on this planet is better than that. No job, no check, no friendship, and no social media platform!
Those negative women are "pick me's" to toxic men like Future n to their 4-5 baby daddies. They confuse me, like they would rather be a pick me to Glocktavius, Pookie n Ray Ray but dnt wanna be a "pick me" to a loving n respectable husband who protects n provides n that is loyal.
I’m a male RN and was a CNA and LVN years ago. I’ll tell ya my oldest sister convinced me to do nursing and I sometimes feel that I’m suffering in the field because I listened to her. I hate working I in a field dominated by females because they move off of emotions instead of logic.
As a male, I worked in a office full of women ,never again, they can be so catty , always complaining, always in their feelings ,to be honest ,most of them don't want to do any work , I'm not saying all women , but most of them , with men even if they don't like each other , they can still do the job , but women , your right feelings over everything.
Lol there's been a severe years ago and both men & women prefer having male cow workers or bosses Female bosses and having a staff as the main majority of female dominated tends to make workplace stressful
I think many of these women that are anti marriage are also products of fatherless homes. They don't respect the institution of marriage because they don't know what it actually looks like. They never saw this modeled in their own personal lives. This is why it is important to raise children in two parent homes as much as possible. You are the model for the next generation!
I've been married for 12 years and we have 7 kids. I'm a stay-at-home wife and he is the bad winner. I clean the home, cook the meals, I sew, and care for our kid. I also do the lawn, can work on our cars, and fix a lot of things in the home. He's perfectly capable of those things too, but I don't always want him to have to surrender his free time doing those things. No, I'm not perfect and neither is her, but we will always fight for this marriage.❤
I like how the Freudian "bad winner" slipped in there. With 12 years and 7 children, you have him by the jewels. Speak to a lawyer and some sisters and women to see your game. You can easily break him and take lime 80 to 90%. 😅
@@kwadwog8168 yikes, your bitter is showing. Who are you helping talking like that? I got married once before and so was he. Both our first spouses cheated. I never asked for anything from my ex. We had a child together and barely ever paid child support. I didn't ask for alimony, hell, we used the same lawyer. Just because you have shitty choices in women, probably because you're a half ass shitty man, it doesn't make me a bad person. In the words of every toxic woman on here, you need to "heal", lol.
@@Eddybo22 don't worry. People like him make comments like that because they are bitter and pathetic. So while I cozy with my hubby, someone who probably makes 3 times more than him, continue to be a stay-at-home wife, and raise happy productive kids, he'll still be on the internet bitter and alone making comments that don't matter and won't even be remembered in 48 hours.
@@MSANTHR0P3 🤣🤣🤣 I made the assumption he's being sarcastic knowing you probably made a typo but if he wasn't and it wasn't a mistake on your end...well, you said what you said and glad you're living a good life.
These modern women would blindly follow their supervisor, manager, or team leader at work. But would push back on following their husband. I hope these modern woman stay single and alone.
My wife and I have been together for 17 years today married for 13.5 years today. I am 80 ish % happy now and there have been years that it was bad but we made it work. We both went into the relationship with goals and things we knew needed to be worked on. We did the work and made it through the bad years stronger. There were times that I wanted to give and times she wanted to give up but we put in the work. I think too many people are afraid of putting in the work or want to chase the next thing/person. To me it feels like we are in a throw away society in every aspect, we all need to put in the work including working on ourselves to be better.
I sure don't hide my happy! ❤ I have *no* desire to go out to the clubs, or any of that running around nonsense. At home w/ my husband is much more comfy! :) Why are we called pick me's? The lady who said that spoke the truth! I love sitting w/ elders and hearing stories of their lives when they were my age. IMHO, my mom wired me to be domestic. As early as 6th grade, my classmates knew I would be a housewife/ stay at home mom. "Happy wife, happy life" is such a crock of sh**! Belly full, b*lls empty. (Sorry if that's too harsh for the feminists, not sorry)!
As a single man, I do not like club life - at all. And I'm not downing those who visit a club occasionally. I'm speaking of the lifestyle where club IS life. So when I see all these single people disparage marriage, as though partying and bed hopping is life's greatest joy, they look dumb and spiritually malnourished to me.
Amen to that! My husband and I have been married for 47 years, 3 children, 10 grandchildren, and because of his kidney, we are back down to 1 great-grandson. My husband is my rock. He is retired now, but has always worked, and I have been a housewife since 1980. Even now, at 10 pm. he's out to pick up our grandson. He was 28, and I was 20, when we married. We established our life together, because we both wanted a partner when we got to the age we are now. I never wanted to be on my own, he was on his own, for 7 years, in law school. I was either with my parents, or I was a live-in nanny. I took college courses, to help me when I had children.
Hi!I'm also married and have been so for 14 years,I live in Georgia.If interested in making a new friend,please don't hesitate to reach back out.If not interested,I respect that.❤
My husband paid all the bills and he died very suddenly. I didn't even know the password to his computer to figure out who we owed what to. Dealing with grief while trying to track down credit card companies and banks was mind-blowing. I should have had my husband clue me in. You never think you are going to be widowed and clueless.
This is a very real reality, two people in my family loss there husbands somewhat unexpectedly imahgine if they didn't know how to pay bills and bank statements, conduct business. They would of been in a tremendous mess. It's wonderful to see women at home wives but they must be equipped with life skills if they become widowed or divorced. Life happens and we should always be quiktified to adapt to life changes
Married 11 years two days ago!! Naw that man doesn't have to worry 😊 and when little brother come over i treat him just the same so he know what type of woman to look for. Yall hungry? Let me do this load of laundry and ill make some homemade Milanese. Take ya shoes off and stay out my kitchen until i call you for dinner😂
@@esthernichols4451thank you. I came to say this. I don’t know about these other faiths, but in Christianity, marriage is a covenant between El, the Man and the Woman. And that’s why El says, “I hate divorce”
Been married since 19, almost 9 years now to my husband. We got married my 3rd yr in college and we have 2 sons in elementary. People were judging me getting married young and not having enough dating experience. They said I hopped on the first train, and told me it would derail me from being a Doctor. But I put love and family first and my mom agreed with me. Now I'm less than 2 years out from going to medical school and my kids can say they had mommy and daddy in the home. While those that judged me are unmarried single mothers 10 yrs later. I can honestly say, I feel The lady who said she can say "that's not my problem." It's a wonderful thing when you don't have to think about the HOW and whatever needs to get done just happens. The benefits of making wise decisions in a relationship is priceless. Shout out to all the Married folks, stay blessed and stay thriving!
The reason the good relationships are out there but nobody sees them is because those ppl are too busy enjoying each other and their life. They aren’t worried about social media and understand that it’s the downfall of most relationships nowadays
This comment needs to be pinned! My husband and I are very discreet, and we love our little slice of peace by keeping such a low profile. We don't even take many pictures because we just live in the moment, nor are we very active on social media. We live a simple life and that's the way we like it. Most people would call it "boring" but we love it over here!❤️🙏🏿
In my culture as a woman, every stages growing has its own obligation and responsibilities. This how Filipino parents taught their kids to prepare them to be responsible person. Automatically, once parents not around, older siblings will take charge the household and younger siblings will follow. One member family member get sick,one sibling will take charge to take care of her/him and we'll do it with love and respect. May be one of the reasons why Filipino nurses in demand.
Love ❤️ This coffee ☕️. This brought back some great memories. My daughter's mother was a great wife, I was 22 and she was 20 when we married. She handled all the bills and stuff while I was at work. She didn't want me in the kitchen, she said that's her job. The house was clean, food was ready, wife was clean, daughter was clean etc etc etc. She was a great 1. Again good Content.
I had an ex i dated for 6 years and i was going to marry her at the age of 20. But she had a baby behind my back and laughed in my face when i broke down. Fast forward 3 years later she hit me up apologizing for treating me like shit and cheating on me. She wasn’t appreciative of the little things i did for her and she had been in multiple relationships with guys that couldn’t compare and treated her badly. As for the baby the guy don’t even claim the baby nor her. And he also beat her. She wanted to talk about starting over and i told her that there was no way in HELL we were getting back together. Should’ve appreciated me when i was there. But then I’ve learned most women don’t appreciate a man until he is gone. By the time they realize they had a good man they tend to come back to reconcile but by then it’s too late. That woman broke me and turned me into a man that i never thought i would become and because of that i tolerate less bs from any woman. Learned to be the guy to drop a relationship if its not beneficial for me and not stay to satisfy a woman who can’t be satisfied.
Hi!I'm also married and have been so for 14 years,I reside in Georgia.If interested in making a new friend,please don't hesitate to reach back out!If not interested,I respect that.❤
My brother i have been watching your channel for quite some time and this video for me hits deeper. I try to hold on to what little hope that i have but for myself being through many pain Rollercoasters in my life its hard to push forward knowing if i have a great woman or not. I appreciate your hard work on pushing these vids out 🙌🏾
I was with my wife for a total of 29yrs before she passed. High school to 24yrs of marriage. I worked, she worked. Raised 2 sons to adulthood. My wife was always complimented on her beauty and youthful look. Why you ask because she didn't have to stress . She didn't have to hold down kids, jobs, bills, and life by herself. She had me and I had her.
6:52 is what me and my wife talk about all the time. Young chicks are doing to backwards. Your suppose to establish yourself then have your fun. As soon as I got out the military me and my wife start pushing to get to our goals. Year 1 build that credit up Year 2 house built, building and reviewing our budget Year 3 wife took on house duties so I can focus on work Year 4 massive pay increase, wife ain't working no more Year 5 sell first house made 80k on it, my wife at home business up Year 6 dream house built, my job throwing cash, wife at home doing what she loves Year 7 house already gained 100k in equity, this property taxes ain't no joke but we doing what we want everyday cash not even in the discussion Year 8 800 credit scores, profolio getting started, 401k popin, saving looking nice, no debt, I'm happy wife happy no kids Now we have fun planning trips and all that jazz we have nothing else to do or worry about we sitting pretty and it was easy as hell
I got married at 23, over 15 years, staying at home, and 2 children later, I am the happiest that I have ever been; I could work, but my husband doesn't want his wife out there, at the war front, just like him. He allows me to do anything that I want, but as far as I'm concerned, what he says goes, no matter how I feel about it. There is no 50/50, we both give 100% to our home, and each other. Sure, there are ups and downs, but because we are committed, we deal with things as a team, which greatly lessens the burden on each of us. Also, because duty comes first in our marriage, love easily follows- in fact, we find ourselves falling in love over and again. God is the foundation of our home.
Twenty two and established :0 That is a dream I wanted. Four kids is not much as two would be ideal in my opinion. She is thinking long term and that is what many individuals fail to realize. She has a great male and I am sure she will do everything to help keep the relationship healthy. Everything has it's ups and downs but she is fully correct about being forty "38" when she is well established to travel with her loving male.
My first marriage I was 21 was married 7 years really bad domestic violence but we opened business my second marriage was was a yr after my divorce been together 13 yrs he just sold a house worth a half million yesterday yes I live a good life because I treat my husband like he's gold and to me he is we just took our 12 yr old to celebrate her 12 birthday at foxwoods shopping spree room service in bed to her and jacuzzi in her room for 3 days not many people can do that let alone a 12 yr old
Hi!I'm also married&have been so for 14 years,I live in Georgia.If interested in making a new friend that isn't jealous-hearted,please don't hesitate to reach back out!If not interested,I respect that.❤(I hope nothing,but the best for you.)
This should be push more good marriages exist happy family are a thing loyalty is the best peace of mind. A happy home give you a happy life it’s takes to. I choose you every time every happy moment ever sad moment I choose you may Allah blessed us all
I hide my happy so much I have such a great black man in my life and I’m so blessed to be with him. He protects me, provides for me but most of all for this first time in my life I feel completely safe.
Hi!I'm also married&have been so for 14 years,I live in Georgia.If interested in making a new friend that you can share your joys with,,please don't hesitate to reach back out!If not interested,I respect that.❤(YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY,NEVER HIDE IT,I SURE DON'T,I STILL FEEL LIKE A NEWLYWED!)😀
That woman should have basic information about how bills are paid. I knew a woman in a similar situation and, when her husband unexpectedly died, she had no idea where insurance, billing, or banking information was because he took care of everything. It may seem great to have the man take care of all the finances but people have to realistically plan for the unexpected. I’m a single Dad. My twins know where all the financial and insurance information is just in case something happens to me.
Having 4 kids at 22 does sound hectic, but you know what sounds worse? Chasing a toddler around at 40. She’s going to be on the home stretch while some modern couples are just getting started.
I use to dread the thought of marriage, a lot of marriages that I grew up around had issues. Until, I had a coworker, I asked her how is the married life expecting a negative response. I never got it, she told me, “I love my marriage, it’s wonderful. Marriage for me is very easy.” Fast forward, I am married now, and from my observations and experience, as long I stay in my lane and allow my husband to be in his, we’re both happy. We work well together. I learned from the toxic marriages that I grew up around and avoid doing what they did wrong. Life is full of lessons, we just have to be careful that we don’t assume everything is negative especially marriage. Marriage is a gift from God but we people have a bad habit of messing it up.
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Married or single…having 4 kids at 22y/o shows you are very irresponsible 🫵🤡
Hi friend, thank you for your videos. Respectfully, please refrain from using the sacred name of our Savior Jesus Christ as an expletive; it is very hurtful to your supportive Christian listeners. Happy Holidays ❤
Brother.......... please post more of these happy wife videos. Make this a series. It's so good to see positivity for a change instead of nonsense.
Modern women hate other women's successful marriages.
They sure do. They call us married women slaves and pick me’s.
I’m so sick of these wicked witches.
Misery loves company
Facts
Literally. I used to have tons of good friends, now that my husband made me a stay at home wife and mother, with no worries in the world, All my friends are bitter bitches.
I been married 45 years . There is always up and downs . Don't believe the bull of the lonely
Don't believe that the alone are lonely.
@@TheMadMonk9FACTS...
I wanna be like you when I grow up 😂
@@marcusallen35If I wanted ups and downs I'll go to Cedar Point...
I have to agree I have 33 yrs under my belt so I definitely agree
They are not upset about her having 4 kids. They are upset about her being MARRIED!! with 4 kids.
That's the truth. Women hate young married mothers.
How dare she have 4 kids with one man and then stay with him! The AUDACITY!!!
This comment is 🔥 😅
@@richerichism 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@richerichism🗣️📣📣📣
These women who cooperate with their husband are winners and keepers
Amen
That young lady talking about how she doesn't know who the bills are paid to, looks so happy. I know why they're mad at her.
Lot of these women are clueless where the money comes from.
My wife has the same life . She don’t know where to pay most bills. I told her it s all i. A book on my desk if i die 🤷♂️
It is old green eyed monster. Jealousy.
They’re mad because she’s happy. Misery loves company.
@@glenndoleberry8418I’m sure she’s a good woman
I married at 19 to my 27yo husband. I love older men. We've been married for 33 years. Marriage is WORK. My husband is the head and I am the neck. We work TOGETHER. We've raised our kids. Now we spoil our grandkids. This is what creating a family unit is. This is why children need two parents. I'm just tired of toxic modern single females thinking that supporting and respecting a man is stupid. I will take my "stupidity" over theirs ANY DAY. 😂
Keep away from feminist misery loves company, well done for not following the crowd
You got married in a different time. Modern women are NOT like you.
Yeah seems like single women keep women single.
@@addaetenkamenin5853 i personally don't deal with single people period. Women are bitter and try to ruin relationships. Men are trying to mack because they see what my man has. So it's easier to deal with married people. I can ruin their lives if I'm not left alone. Choose wisely.
I was 21 he was 34. Now I'm 43 he's 56. We are still romantic and in love and he's the best father ever!!
I’ve been married for 10 years (got married at 26) and I honestly feel like I should have gotten married sooner!! This is the best experience I’ve ever had in my life and I wouldn’t trade my hard working, providing, protecting, black king for NOTHING IN THIS WORLD!!! 🌎 ❤‼️
More women need to hear this message.
Salute to you and your family sister. Happy for you
Don’t need to trade anything. I bet you’d still fk another man…can’t fool me sweetie
Amen! Married at 25 and feeling like I wish I had met him at 21
Enjoy da journey and become as one with your husband. when you are so focused on your family you could tell the rhythm of each other heartbeats
The lady who didnt even know her mortgage company, that was my Grandmother. One of the greatest women in the world. Strong and VERYfeminine God fearing. When my grandfather died my father and I picked up where he left off with her bills and everything. So she still went never knowing until she passed. God rest her soul.
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I am a "working wife" that pays groceries and extras, but my husband has always paid our main bills -- someone recently got angry at me for not knowing who our mortgage & insurance is with -- actually told me I was "irresponsible". I considered whether she was right, but decided it was weirder for her to be concerned with my household bills than for me NOT to be!
It seems to make some women angry to see a peaceful wife.
Misery LOVES company
It is irresponsible, hopefully nothing happens to your husband. Crazy things happen beyond our control & it’s best to be prepared. Nothing humbles you like the sudden death of a family member. This has nothing to do with misery but preparedness. Best of Luck to you.
@@theguyarmada2178 I'm telling you, it's crazy someone would be upset that someone else has peace! All I could think is, "If I'm not worried why are you"?!!
You need to be on top of the bills and other stuff so you know what your take is. If you are not suffucating and crushing him, he will have time and energy and may find another person or project. You have to be on him - pushing, proving, accusing, manipulating, tracking, confusing, cheating, breaking and bossing him. Men are not too smart so you can easily do this. Then when he is maxed out, you can take all the documents and stuff you have, call the popo and make a speech (so you can kick him out) and get that 401K 😊. You are much better than him so show everyone just how powerful strong and independent you are. He is financially abusing you by not giving you the deets 😢
🤣😂 "It seems to make some women angry to see a peaceful wife"
Happily married people are busy with careers and their children. They are not online making negative comments.
Lost her after 38 years together nearly 36 married, 3 kids, 7 cross country moves (Military). She was the model of ride or die. She made the 16 hour work days worth it, she was the reason to I would drive hours to get home.
I M sorry for your loss. Life seems too short when we lose someone this dear.
I'm sorry for your loss. 😢
Happy to know she made life worth living and loving. Know that she's still riding wit u ❤
I'm sorry for your loss. Happy to know she made life worth living and loving. Know that she's still riding wit u❤
I am very sorry for your loss, But You was Truly Blessed to have a Great Woman like that. ❤
My wife and I celebrated 24 years of marriage 2 weeks ago. We got big plans for the 25th. Our journey was challenging raising 2 sets of twins with a single in between all born in a 3 years span. Let that sink in. They all grown now and yes we’re partying together 🎉
Congrats. My wife and I will be married 18yrs in March. Such a blessing. 👍
Big up yourselves. That's mental! Wish you guys all the best you deserve it!
🎉🎉🎉that’s beautiful
That sunk in..
Damn, much respect.
That must’ve been a pressure cooker
Woww!!! This is beautiful, I pray for many more year's of blessings for you too!!
Thank you for this. I'm so TIRED of people acting like being in a happy marriage doesn't exist today. All guys DON'T CHEAT & ALL WOMEN AREN'T HOES.
BLESSINGS!!
Denzel been famous since the 70’s and not one scandal in Hollywood!!!
Denzel was NOT famous in the 70’s😂😂😂 but it’s your story
@@rwwdzzm5608 lies go back to Denzel’s first couple movies.U just haven’t saw them😂HE DID GREAT!!!!!
Methinks some tax issues...
Married 6 years and it’s the best decision I made. We have 3 children and he is amazing! No marriage is perfect but it’s definitely worth it ❤
Great. Hold on for the 10 years. You will find you can take half and even get alimony and keep thr house if you can break him down and make a case to the popo. Speak to a lawyer yo get the game. You have 4 years to pull this off and I know you will make it and show him how strong and independent you are.
@@kwadwog8168bruh what?
@@kwadwog8168 Sir there are actually people in the world who value family and marriage that was ordained by God. I actually like and love my husband. He’s an amazing man and father. Why would I want to give that up?
@@kwadwog8168please find God
@@alexusjohnson5855some people are too cynical these days.
This type of constructive content is also needed in the red pill community. Balance is needed
Exactly 💯
Amen brother!
Most redpill men would marry tomorrow if the laws change, it's not Bout the women it's the laws.
Agreed!
Perhaps, but unfortunately, in the modern western world, when you get married you bring you, your wife, and the state into a 3 party contract that does not benefit you in any way. “No Fault” divorce, Family Courts, and her Police place the “gun” of the state in her hand aimed your head. She may never choose to pull the trigger but she always has the option to destroy you by taking half and your children. When selecting a wife you must choose wisely, but even if you do, never forget that at any time she can wake up to say “I’m not happy, I divorcing you and taking your children to Texas”. But you’re job is in Vermont. 50% of 1st time marriages end in divorce, 80% of the time initiated by women. 90% if college educated. Balance? Are you willing to flip a coin to determine whether you succeed or fail in life? Best of luck to the future of marriage in the West. There are significant reasons why marriage rates are collapsing and men are choosing to go their own way to mitigate risk. A red pill indeed.
I’m a stay at home dad. My wife took over as provider after I had an accident and broke my back. A flawless transition because she never saw me as less than the leader of our home, so yes she does make the money, and she hands me that check I pay the bills I take care of the cars I clean the house and make dinner, I raised our 5 kids after she had for 12 years. I was so blessed by the foundation she left in our home. I was raised Christian, she was not she doesn’t know it but she is a godly woman and I am so blessed. Btw, if she catch me vacuuming or doing dishes (which I always do shirtless) or god forbid in the laundry room alone… I better hold onto something.
Glad to see a stay at home dad that is actually being a homemaker.
And this is just one example why money isnt the most important factor in marrying someone. Money can't buy unconditional love & good values in a partner. Imagine if she left you after she had to take over the finances? I wish more people knew how beautiful life can be when you share it with the right person. Blessings & cheers to ya'll 🥂
It's called being equally yoked.
Amen! My husband just talked to me about work while I cooked and served his favorite meal. He blesses me, and I bless him. I'm so happy when he comes to me!
I remember talking to my coworker 10 year ago where she said that she had been married for 20 yrs and during that time she never has put any gas in her car or washed her car or any kind car maintenance. For 20 yrs her husband was taking care of all that... For 20 yrs... Marinade on that... Some people don't know what that's like. When a man or woman find a spouse, they find a good thing.
I bet it was so simple. She told him something wrong with the car, he told her to take his car and he would deal with her car tomorrow. Black females right now can not recognize this strong and independent nonsense has ruined the community.
some *married* people also don't even know what that's like lulz 🤷
not *all* marriages are a good marriage... just saying
I see your point but it doesn’t hurt to have the information incase something happens but as you stated you’re in a happy relationship so why worry
That’s my life right now. It started with my father. He never let me cut grass, change my oil, do anything like that growing up and I see why. I found a husband who would be INSULTED if I did those things ❤
@@sarahnovella4971 go away with your miserable thinking
The FEW submissive and feminine ladies are A LOT happier than SO called strong and independent women.
Women are a lot happier when they don't have to be strong. When you appreciate each other its a pleasure to cater and tend to your partner
@@danilotusflowerThat's because Femininity IZ your strength
There is no path that is right for everyone. The problem with feminist is they expect every woman to walk their path with them.
The greatest trick the devil played on man was making the world think he didn’t exist. The greatest trick angry bitter women played on good women was making them think they were all the same.
There's nothing to be proud of being alone 90 percent of your life. I saw life long marriages in my family. It's a wonderful thing
Different strokes.
My ex wife wanted to stay friends, my petty ass said sure just to show her how much she held me back with her decisions. She don't have words for me anymore.
You know she kickin herself everyday ☠️🤣☠️🤣
My ex wife emailed me after we’d been divorced with no communication for 10 yrs. She said it took her two yrs to work up the courage to contact me and she apologized for being a shitty wife. It was so crazy that at first I thought it was one of my friends f*cking with me.
@@dieselhrt5492how is she doing now? 😅
@@Oir07 42 and alone. She had a few relationships that treated her badly which I’m sure it was made her appreciate what she had…just way too late to matter.
@@dieselhrt5492 😂 her fault
By the time I was 20 I was married with 3 children. I never felt that I was missing out. I kept a clean house, clean kids, made dinner and went out with them and I never felt like I was a slave. Im happy that I had them young, my eldest is almost 41 and now Im a young gramma.
😢😭. But there is hope. This means from 30 you would be able to take the house if you speak with lawyer and take money till retirement and also have his retirement. Your story is so good any lawyer would be happy to have you be client in court 💪🏿💪🏿
@@kwadwog8168stop being a weirdo telling women to divorce their husbands. 🤡🤡🤡
@@kwadwog8168why come here with this nonsense?. She talking a out being happy and here you come with foolishness. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
😂😂😂😂😂 Winningggggggggggg 🫡 to you for great life choices
Traditional women who make sure they guard themselves and pick good men will always win in the end over modern, progressive and feminist type of women. I can literally feel the jealousy that comes off of modern women when they look at traditional women pleasing their husbands and being normal and natural things in their femininity nature. It's like "Why is she happy being a woman like this and I'm not happy being a woman whose "empowered" and free" The answer is obvious.@@kwadwog8168
These people reflect my life. I have a 40 year and counting marriage to a wife that I look forward to coming home to every day. She's smart (2 engineering degrees), yet prioritizes our family and marriage. We've been married since our early 20's and would do it again. We're looking forward to spending retirement together.
GOD Bless your covenant ❤
Married 45 years to 2nd wife. And if I had to do it over again , I would. She asks me all the time if she's being too clingy, I,ll tell her "yes," but don't stop.
Met my hubby in middle school, got pregnant @16 & we’ve been together ever since, we have 3 kids & I recently found out a day after thanksgiving, we’re going to be grandparents…next year we will be celebrating our 23rd Anniversary, Thank you GOD❤🙏🏽 he’s the only one who knows the obstacles we face everyday…
God has blessed y’all
@@victorioojocaliente2928 ❤️
Someone: 4 kids at 22 sounds like a nightmare.
Someone else: Trying to have your 1st kid at 40 sounds like a nightmare.
Right they try to shame u for waiting 😂smh
I shame neither person's journey because sometimes life just works out like that different for some. It just happens.
It was wonderful being married and having my child at 21. My husband now passed away but he was my king. Don’t let the “opportunity” pass away, it’s beautiful.
To those with high body counts, relationships are all temporary
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I disagree, I had over 100 women, not that i really chased them, just way things happened. 40% usa 60% Internationally. But married a virgin. Body count dont matter. Most times at least USA, got with a woman as she offer it and name shame if turn down. International, I was the rare guy, so all clammed to me.
@@sagepirotess6312you managed to do that as a man. If you were a woman, good luck with that. Body count does matter. If it didn't you wouldn't have married a virgin.
Wth does your comment even mean? The reality of life is that some relationships are temporary and some are not. That's literally the reality and nobody can argue against it. High body counts use to only exist for prostitutes and adult film stars (another kind of prostitute) along with high status folks like celebs, kings, queens etc. Then all of a sudden Post "the sexual revolution" rather the "DEVILution" or "DeEvolution" common folks began to adopt the concept that sexual lust is ok for people in general and hedonistic pleasure is ok so long as everything is consensual. This was a lie and it took decades of indoctrination to even plant this in the social realm.
Not a single person is ultimately happy sleeping around with so many people unless they have mental health issues or are evil, not one. Degenerates, greedy and the mentally ill are the only folks who rack up high body counts hence why it's not the norm as they are way less people who are like this than the normal populace. I COULD have had 25+ women but only slept with 5. I always got female attention since 12 years old and was doing things since then but withheld sex until I was 18. A gf at 14 years old when I was 14 also tried to force me into her mom's apartment and she said she "had a yearning feeling to have sex with me", an exact quote. I made mistakes dating sure but one of them was not fully giving into sleeping with every woman I could have. I'm no model guy, but being tall, fit or women can tell you work out a little, having nice colored eyes, a deep voice and such will get you attention.
If I could rewind time, I'd stay a virgin till I met my wife, because she's the only one who actually put work in to love me for me and prove she was just into me as a whole since Day 1. Not money, not some unrealistic idea, and she's not a feminist and she's traditional. Not a single woman made me feel like I should marry them but her.
@@drjonesey5 not about rewinding, ir being, nor being as people pleaser, what most western men are... not is it to get comfortable and just stay with someone because had xxx or its good cc but not a great partner for you. Others just need patience. Enjoy yourself til timing and right person intercepts your life.
Men and women that speak so healthy about their marriages and relationships are the ones who have chosen wisely and recognize the bigger picture of what marriage and commitment are supposed to be. Our choices and practicing good discernment determine our happiness in relationships.
Duty and sacrifice ❤ 💍
Are we supposed to know who we pay our house loan to?!?! My husband works hard for his family, I don’t work. I’ll be damned if he does anything at home, my husband is fed, comes down (works from home) to a clean home, a dressed and made up wife, he gets the naughties more than regularly and guess what? We have a happy healthy marriage. Modern women are tripping, I’ve gotten shit for my traditional marriage from divorced/single women like 😂 you can’t even get a man and you want to make fun of me.
Some women will think being able to bed men equals the ability to get a good husband at anytime.
You do work, you just don't clock in to do it. Homemaking IS work! ❤️🙏🏿
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 thank you, you can’t clock in but you definitely never clock out 😂
She is correct about the good relationships need to speak up more, the world is empowering whorish, degrading, greedy and foolish behavior. please more people show them decent, loving, respectful relationships are possible
I FIND JOY IN BEING MY HUSBAND'S PEACE!
I’m shocked to see wives. Actual feminine wives on video. That is so rare these days. We get shamed by the single hyenas constantly but they’re spending holidays alone and we’re making pies with a husband hugging our waist ❤
Hi!I'm also married and have been so for 14 years,I reside in Georgia.If interested in making a new friend,please don't hesitate to reach back out.If not interested,I respect that.❤
I'm a hell of a man and an amazing husband with a hell of a woman and an amazing wife our life is good
I've been with my wife for 20 years. I make the bread, she takes care of the home front. I can't remember a single time I had to clean the house. We are close to retirement now. Life is good.
Shout out to all the women who realize that you could build more wealth and travel further if you start the journey together. When you look at the people in this country who has the least wealth they are da least married. Now we understand why our community has become a hood.
My single friends go into credit cards debt hopping to a new country every month just to post on instagram. Then they come home, they’re alone, and they’re miserable.
I’m raising a baby and pregnant (married OF COURSE) and that’s more rewarding. We’ll be able to travel eventually. Not important right now.
@@jbb8261 congrats sister tell you're friends you can never shake a hoe tree and expect a wife to fall out of it🤣😂
@@eddieelliott1496 I’m stealing that one haha 😆
I'm single with no kids and i enjoyed watching this all the way through. Im just taking notes. Thanks for sharing 💯🤜🏾🤛🏾
Here's a tool to help you reach your marriage goals,please Google KEYS FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE AMAZING FACTS.This is a Bible Study.
1 question, in today's world, Where Are Those Women at?!!!!
Why is a married woman being called a pick me, when she has already been picked. I’m really confused. 🤔🤷🏽♀️
I'm so glad you did this video! I am a happy married man of 10 years. Me and my wife have been together a total of 17 years. We met each other young and college. But we both had a foundation. That marriage was very important. She has been nothing short of a blessing to me and that blessing has been bestowed on my children as well with the type of mother that she is. When I see all of these videos negatively a portraying marriage, it makes me sad!
I get sad to think that so many people will not be able to experience the joy that I get the experience every day when I come home to this woman and my family! It is literally the highlight of my day every day! When you can find a good person who you love and loves you in return and in abundance. Nothing else on this planet is better than that. No job, no check, no friendship, and no social media platform!
Ladies consider "pick me" as a compliment because you are married and holding the relationship together while those who are not "pick me" are single
Those negative women are "pick me's" to toxic men like Future n to their 4-5 baby daddies. They confuse me, like they would rather be a pick me to Glocktavius, Pookie n Ray Ray but dnt wanna be a "pick me" to a loving n respectable husband who protects n provides n that is loyal.
You can’t miss what you never had
With the grace and guidance of God, we've been married for 31 years.
I’m a male RN and was a CNA and LVN years ago. I’ll tell ya my oldest sister convinced me to do nursing and I sometimes feel that I’m suffering in the field because I listened to her. I hate working I in a field dominated by females because they move off of emotions instead of logic.
You sound whiny and emotional yourself. Maybe you’re the problem. Try a field where you don’t have to interact much with others
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As a male, I worked in a office full of women ,never again, they can be so catty , always complaining, always in their feelings ,to be honest ,most of them don't want to do any work , I'm not saying all women , but most of them , with men even if they don't like each other , they can still do the job , but women , your right feelings over everything.
Lol there's been a severe years ago and both men & women prefer having male cow workers or bosses
Female bosses and having a staff as the main majority of female dominated tends to make workplace stressful
Go for nurse practitioner and open up your own practice
I think many of these women that are anti marriage are also products of fatherless homes. They don't respect the institution of marriage because they don't know what it actually looks like. They never saw this modeled in their own personal lives. This is why it is important to raise children in two parent homes as much as possible. You are the model for the next generation!
I've been married for 12 years and we have 7 kids. I'm a stay-at-home wife and he is the bad winner. I clean the home, cook the meals, I sew, and care for our kid. I also do the lawn, can work on our cars, and fix a lot of things in the home. He's perfectly capable of those things too, but I don't always want him to have to surrender his free time doing those things. No, I'm not perfect and neither is her, but we will always fight for this marriage.❤
I like how the Freudian "bad winner" slipped in there. With 12 years and 7 children, you have him by the jewels. Speak to a lawyer and some sisters and women to see your game. You can easily break him and take lime 80 to 90%. 😅
@@kwadwog8168lmao 🤣 let the woman remain happily married.
@@kwadwog8168 yikes, your bitter is showing. Who are you helping talking like that? I got married once before and so was he. Both our first spouses cheated. I never asked for anything from my ex. We had a child together and barely ever paid child support. I didn't ask for alimony, hell, we used the same lawyer. Just because you have shitty choices in women, probably because you're a half ass shitty man, it doesn't make me a bad person. In the words of every toxic woman on here, you need to "heal", lol.
@@Eddybo22 don't worry. People like him make comments like that because they are bitter and pathetic. So while I cozy with my hubby, someone who probably makes 3 times more than him, continue to be a stay-at-home wife, and raise happy productive kids, he'll still be on the internet bitter and alone making comments that don't matter and won't even be remembered in 48 hours.
@@MSANTHR0P3 🤣🤣🤣 I made the assumption he's being sarcastic knowing you probably made a typo but if he wasn't and it wasn't a mistake on your end...well, you said what you said and glad you're living a good life.
Thank you for showing the other side
These modern women would blindly follow their supervisor, manager, or team leader at work. But would push back on following their husband. I hope these modern woman stay single and alone.
Thank God there are videos showing traditional black women in marriage. I thought the world was doomed. Now I have hope. Thank you
Only 20-25% of us will ever be wives so that’s why. It’s sad. I’m married and I try to help the single ones but they do NOT want to listen.
I can respect those who appreciate and honor loving relationships ❤️ that's who they're designed for 👏🏾 they DO EXIST & gratitude matters 💯
My wife and I have been together for 17 years today married for 13.5 years today. I am 80 ish % happy now and there have been years that it was bad but we made it work. We both went into the relationship with goals and things we knew needed to be worked on. We did the work and made it through the bad years stronger. There were times that I wanted to give and times she wanted to give up but we put in the work. I think too many people are afraid of putting in the work or want to chase the next thing/person. To me it feels like we are in a throw away society in every aspect, we all need to put in the work including working on ourselves to be better.
Women NEED to know what, who, when and where bills need to be paid! If your husband is injured you’ll at least be prepared!
Those two wives look so relieved. Cooperation does wonders.
I sure don't hide my happy! ❤
I have *no* desire to go out to the clubs, or any of that running around nonsense. At home w/ my husband is much more comfy! :)
Why are we called pick me's? The lady who said that spoke the truth!
I love sitting w/ elders and hearing stories of their lives when they were my age. IMHO, my mom wired me to be domestic. As early as 6th grade, my classmates knew I would be a housewife/ stay at home mom. "Happy wife, happy life" is such a crock of sh**! Belly full, b*lls empty. (Sorry if that's too harsh for the feminists, not sorry)!
Agreed. And I'm a woman. It should be happy spouse equals happy house!!
As a single man, I do not like club life - at all. And I'm not downing those who visit a club occasionally. I'm speaking of the lifestyle where club IS life. So when I see all these single people disparage marriage, as though partying and bed hopping is life's greatest joy, they look dumb and spiritually malnourished to me.
My mentor said, "Happy spouse... happy house.
Thanks for the support
Amen to that! My husband and I have been married for 47 years, 3 children, 10 grandchildren, and because of his kidney, we are back down to 1 great-grandson. My husband is my rock. He is retired now, but has always worked, and I have been a housewife since 1980. Even now, at 10 pm. he's out to pick up our grandson. He was 28, and I was 20, when we married. We established our life together, because we both wanted a partner when we got to the age we are now. I never wanted to be on my own, he was on his own, for 7 years, in law school. I was either with my parents, or I was a live-in nanny. I took college courses, to help me when I had children.
Hi!I'm also married and have been so for 14 years,I live in Georgia.If interested in making a new friend,please don't hesitate to reach back out.If not interested,I respect that.❤
Jah bless the wives holding it down for their families
These women are like this because they have good, strong mind and wise husband's.
My husband paid all the bills and he died very suddenly. I didn't even know the password to his computer to figure out who we owed what to. Dealing with grief while trying to track down credit card companies and banks was mind-blowing. I should have had my husband clue me in. You never think you are going to be widowed and clueless.
Or divorced 😢
This is a very real reality, two people in my family loss there husbands somewhat unexpectedly imahgine if they didn't know how to pay bills and bank statements, conduct business. They would of been in a tremendous mess. It's wonderful to see women at home wives but they must be equipped with life skills if they become widowed or divorced. Life happens and we should always be quiktified to adapt to life changes
Married 11 years two days ago!! Naw that man doesn't have to worry 😊 and when little brother come over i treat him just the same so he know what type of woman to look for. Yall hungry? Let me do this load of laundry and ill make some homemade Milanese. Take ya shoes off and stay out my kitchen until i call you for dinner😂
Marriage is a contract. Almost every Faith from Christianity, Islam and even Hinduism and Buddhism speaks of this. It is what it is. It requires work.
No marriage is a covenant.
@@esthernichols4451thank you. I came to say this. I don’t know about these other faiths, but in Christianity, marriage is a covenant between El, the Man and the Woman. And that’s why El says, “I hate divorce”
@@esthernichols4451 Very true.
Been married since 19, almost 9 years now to my husband. We got married my 3rd yr in college and we have 2 sons in elementary. People were judging me getting married young and not having enough dating experience. They said I hopped on the first train, and told me it would derail me from being a Doctor. But I put love and family first and my mom agreed with me. Now I'm less than 2 years out from going to medical school and my kids can say they had mommy and daddy in the home. While those that judged me are unmarried single mothers 10 yrs later. I can honestly say, I feel The lady who said she can say "that's not my problem." It's a wonderful thing when you don't have to think about the HOW and whatever needs to get done just happens. The benefits of making wise decisions in a relationship is priceless. Shout out to all the Married folks, stay blessed and stay thriving!
The reason the good relationships are out there but nobody sees them is because those ppl are too busy enjoying each other and their life. They aren’t worried about social media and understand that it’s the downfall of most relationships nowadays
This comment needs to be pinned! My husband and I are very discreet, and we love our little slice of peace by keeping such a low profile. We don't even take many pictures because we just live in the moment, nor are we very active on social media. We live a simple life and that's the way we like it. Most people would call it "boring" but we love it over here!❤️🙏🏿
The wall is undefeated!
Thanks for making some uplifting and positive content. The constant negativity on all social media platforms wares me down sometimes
Love this one brother!!! Positivity, Women holding other women accountable by just speaking truth.
Connecting and pleasing your man is a bad thing now?
We have entered the Twilight Zone!
In my culture as a woman, every stages growing has its own obligation and responsibilities. This how Filipino parents taught their kids to prepare them to be responsible person. Automatically, once parents not around, older siblings will take charge the household and younger siblings will follow. One member family member get sick,one sibling will take charge to take care of her/him and we'll do it with love and respect. May be one of the reasons why Filipino nurses in demand.
Chisha is MARRIED🎉🎉.....Congrats brother and Goodluck. Hope that prenup is air tight. 😮
Maybe you can do a video about your experience as a married black man.
@@franklinwill22you sound jealous
Love ❤️ This coffee ☕️.
This brought back some great memories.
My daughter's mother was a great wife, I was 22 and she was 20 when we married. She handled all the bills and stuff while I was at work. She didn't want me in the kitchen, she said that's her job. The house was clean, food was ready, wife was clean, daughter was clean etc etc etc. She was a great 1. Again good Content.
what happened to her?
@@LadyAsia93 she passed
@@Lee85G I'm sorry for your loss
@LadyAsia93 thank you ❤️
Being single and being married need different mindsets.
Str8 up ! These women (majority not all)are lost and there is no finding their way out anytime soon, sad AF!
I had an ex i dated for 6 years and i was going to marry her at the age of 20. But she had a baby behind my back and laughed in my face when i broke down. Fast forward 3 years later she hit me up apologizing for treating me like shit and cheating on me. She wasn’t appreciative of the little things i did for her and she had been in multiple relationships with guys that couldn’t compare and treated her badly. As for the baby the guy don’t even claim the baby nor her. And he also beat her. She wanted to talk about starting over and i told her that there was no way in HELL we were getting back together. Should’ve appreciated me when i was there. But then I’ve learned most women don’t appreciate a man until he is gone. By the time they realize they had a good man they tend to come back to reconcile but by then it’s too late. That woman broke me and turned me into a man that i never thought i would become and because of that i tolerate less bs from any woman. Learned to be the guy to drop a relationship if its not beneficial for me and not stay to satisfy a woman who can’t be satisfied.
FACTS fam! U da prize!
19 years of marriage for my wife and I, when you work for each other, serve each other and the respect is on 💯, things work out
Keep it up with this positive content! The message is reaching those that need it!
I love this season. It actually makes me hopeful
I’m married to a man who is a very good provider I’m happy and loving him one day at a time 🙏🏾
Hi!I'm also married and have been so for 14 years,I reside in Georgia.If interested in making a new friend,please don't hesitate to reach back out!If not interested,I respect that.❤
I need that in my life scratching my back to sleep. Yesir.
My brother i have been watching your channel for quite some time and this video for me hits deeper. I try to hold on to what little hope that i have but for myself being through many pain Rollercoasters in my life its hard to push forward knowing if i have a great woman or not. I appreciate your hard work on pushing these vids out 🙌🏾
I was with my wife for a total of 29yrs before she passed. High school to 24yrs of marriage. I worked, she worked. Raised 2 sons to adulthood. My wife was always complimented on her beauty and youthful look. Why you ask because she didn't have to stress . She didn't have to hold down kids, jobs, bills, and life by herself. She had me and I had her.
This message is hated because if this becomes the norm, the toxicity would have no company.
This is definitely one of greatest videos 🔥👍🏿😁💯👏🏿❤🔥
6:52 is what me and my wife talk about all the time. Young chicks are doing to backwards. Your suppose to establish yourself then have your fun. As soon as I got out the military me and my wife start pushing to get to our goals.
Year 1 build that credit up
Year 2 house built, building and reviewing our budget
Year 3 wife took on house duties so I can focus on work
Year 4 massive pay increase, wife ain't working no more
Year 5 sell first house made 80k on it, my wife at home business up
Year 6 dream house built, my job throwing cash, wife at home doing what she loves
Year 7 house already gained 100k in equity, this property taxes ain't no joke but we doing what we want everyday cash not even in the discussion
Year 8 800 credit scores, profolio getting started, 401k popin, saving looking nice, no debt, I'm happy wife happy no kids
Now we have fun planning trips and all that jazz we have nothing else to do or worry about we sitting pretty and it was easy as hell
Im right there with you Jazzy!!!
I got married at 23, over 15 years, staying at home, and 2 children later, I am the happiest that I have ever been; I could work, but my husband doesn't want his wife out there, at the war front, just like him. He allows me to do anything that I want, but as far as I'm concerned, what he says goes, no matter how I feel about it. There is no 50/50, we both give 100% to our home, and each other. Sure, there are ups and downs, but because we are committed, we deal with things as a team, which greatly lessens the burden on each of us. Also, because duty comes first in our marriage, love easily follows- in fact, we find ourselves falling in love over and again. God is the foundation of our home.
This is the comment that I was searching for, God bless you and yours!
There is still Hope! 🎉
Twenty two and established :0 That is a dream I wanted. Four kids is not much as two would be ideal in my opinion. She is thinking long term and that is what many individuals fail to realize. She has a great male and I am sure she will do everything to help keep the relationship healthy. Everything has it's ups and downs but she is fully correct about being forty "38" when she is well established to travel with her loving male.
I love Im half way in and haven’t heard the trouble sound effect yet. You know they are doing something right
Marriage is a beautiful journey. I wasn't able to stay married longer than 18 years. I'm not sure if I'll remarry...
Social media will make you feel like marriage is the worst thing ever but I'm glad you made this video. There are still good people out there
My first marriage I was 21 was married 7 years really bad domestic violence but we opened business my second marriage was was a yr after my divorce been together 13 yrs he just sold a house worth a half million yesterday yes I live a good life because I treat my husband like he's gold and to me he is we just took our 12 yr old to celebrate her 12 birthday at foxwoods shopping spree room service in bed to her and jacuzzi in her room for 3 days not many people can do that let alone a 12 yr old
Hi!I'm also married&have been so for 14 years,I live in Georgia.If interested in making a new friend that isn't jealous-hearted,please don't hesitate to reach back out!If not interested,I respect that.❤(I hope nothing,but the best for you.)
I’m getting married next summer and boy the world is not ready for my happiness, not ready at all
This should be push more good marriages exist happy family are a thing loyalty is the best peace of mind. A happy home give you a happy life it’s takes to. I choose you every time every happy moment ever sad moment I choose you may Allah blessed us all
I hide my happy so much I have such a great black man in my life and I’m so blessed to be with him. He protects me, provides for me but most of all for this first time in my life I feel completely safe.
Hi!I'm also married&have been so for 14 years,I live in Georgia.If interested in making a new friend that you can share your joys with,,please don't hesitate to reach back out!If not interested,I respect that.❤(YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY,NEVER HIDE IT,I SURE DON'T,I STILL FEEL LIKE A NEWLYWED!)😀
@@latoyathomas9640 Hi 👋🏽 I’m so happy to hear someone else in a happy loving relationship. I live in NYC
That woman should have basic information about how bills are paid. I knew a woman in a similar situation and, when her husband unexpectedly died, she had no idea where insurance, billing, or banking information was because he took care of everything.
It may seem great to have the man take care of all the finances but people have to realistically plan for the unexpected.
I’m a single Dad. My twins know where all the financial and insurance information is just in case something happens to me.
Having 4 kids at 22 does sound hectic, but you know what sounds worse? Chasing a toddler around at 40. She’s going to be on the home stretch while some modern couples are just getting started.
I use to dread the thought of marriage, a lot of marriages that I grew up around had issues. Until, I had a coworker, I asked her how is the married life expecting a negative response. I never got it, she told me, “I love my marriage, it’s wonderful. Marriage for me is very easy.” Fast forward, I am married now, and from my observations and experience, as long I stay in my lane and allow my husband to be in his, we’re both happy. We work well together. I learned from the toxic marriages that I grew up around and avoid doing what they did wrong. Life is full of lessons, we just have to be careful that we don’t assume everything is negative especially marriage. Marriage is a gift from God but we people have a bad habit of messing it up.