I am usually a lurker. I never comment on anything. But I really needed to say this : you should not apologize for feeling. Animals are part of our family. Losing a member of the family is horrible. Take time to grieve. We will still be there. I love your channel because it's so genuine and true to what happens and who you are. I think showing what you're living is incredibly courageous and some people like spitting over the courageous ones. Seeing people I like and that inspires me share their down is something that helps me very much because it shows feeling is normal. It's healthy. You being open about your eating disorder and telling us how you cope with it encouraged me to start journaling. And it really has helped me. I guess that what I'm trying to say is that being so open is why I love your channel so much. So don't apologize and take your time. Do not feel bad about sharing with us because you'll never know how many lurkers you've helped with sharing all your experiences. Take care, Morgan.
Nicely put -- and i agree!! While we want you to be who you are, Morgan, do what you need to do, we also feel for you and Molly M. -- just keep in mind we're on your side, non cat person. You could do a video in Toby's voice, or Abby's -- then let one of the ducks take over for a third. Eventually, you may feel like taking over. Personally, I'd love to hear one of the Silkies/Crazies do a video.
There is a Japanese belief that when a cat is lost you have to ask the neighborhood cats to look for it and they will bring it back home. Talk to the cats in the neighborhood, tell them that you are very sad and worried, and describe Molly to them, ask them to please guide her home.💛
Hey Morgan. I have a story for you, and I hope you see this. My boy KitKat is the reason I found you. You see, in June 2020, Kit disappeared. In his absence, I scrolled past one of your videos with Pablo in it and I thought it was Kit. He looked JUST LIKE Kit. We tried EVERYTHING. We had given up. He wasn't coming back. One fateful September day, my mom was scrolling Facebook and there he was.... all the way across town. Three days later, we caught him and brought him home. He was gone for 97 days. He was skinnier, he was scarred, he was a bit feral... but he's been home ever since. I hope that she returns to you. More than anything. Much hope to you for the return of Molly Murder Mittens. Miracles do happen.
The same thing happened to my neighbor when I was growing up. They had a black and white cat named Seaweed with very distinct features. She had a splotch of white above her left eye, a white chest, a white tail tip, and most notably three white paws with one black paw. She loved and was loved by that family, but she also liked to roam, and eventually one time she simply didn't come back. My neighbors looked all over the neighborhood for her, never found her. Eventually they gave up, grieved, and moved on. About three years later I had moved a little ways across town (not very far, about five or six miles). I was walking by some dumpsters behind a pizza place at one point where a bunch of feral cats were scrounging for scraps when one of them caught my eye. There was no doubt in my mind; it was Seaweed. Exact same white splotches, exact same three white paws with one black paw. I told my (former) neighbors about it and they came and picked her up. Didn't need to trap her or anything, they just found her in the same area I saw her and picked her up and brought her home after three years of living wild. Cats are strange creatures, especially outdoor ones. They form bonds with you, but at the end of the day they're solitary, self-reliant creatures, and sometimes they simply decide it's time for them to leave.
I had a car a neighbor took (knowing it was mine) for over a year another time same cat years later living in a different home someone took him to s shelter 40 miles away a friend found him there
We had a cat do the same - my husband accidentally let my daughter's cat out of the house - and he felt so guilty, he went and bought her a new cat, then the missing cat showed up two months later, and then both the new cats went missing! We have no idea to this day where they went!
Mine was gone for 46 days. She'd gotten her collar caught on something, came back with it embedded into her chest... it was REALLY bad. But she pulled through, and I had her for another ten years after that. That's also why I always make it a point to advocate for breakaway collars on cats. If she'd had a breakaway, it never would have happened.
Yes it hurts Big Time... I still grieve the loss of dogs we had decades ago that were very special, even though I have a special one now which we got as a 3mth old and now is 12 yrs old ... it's ok to grieve like you said 😢 I enjoy your videos no matter what you are going through, You are Real with us 😊 Thank you for Sharing, Morgan ❤
I had one of my cats go missing once for 6 years before one day out of the blue he came home to me. It turned out a neighbour had taken him and locked him indoors and made him a house cat. He escaped one day and came back to me it was amazing and I couldn't believe it. I only had him though for a month before I noticed he has cancer and he passed away :( I'll never forget him though
That happened to a brother of mine. A neighbor liked his friendly nature and took him into her house, and wouldn't let him go. She kept him for a couple of years before he was able to get out and come home. He did have a microchip but she never checked for one. That cat never strayed far from the house and would run inside if he saw her drive past the house on her way to hers.
I"m glad that you thought about checking with your neighbors. We lost a barn cat during a blizzard one year and figured we would never see her again. It was my brother's cat (I'm guessing he was about 12 at the time) and he was beyond distraught. Then the following 4th of July when we went to a neighbors house (about 5 houses away) to watch fireworks, there she was . They loved siamese cats and decided she was theirs. They didn't want to give her back, but my brother just picked her up and left.
Imagine not wanting to give someone their pet back because it got lost and you found it. Unless the owner is abusive never ever get between them and their pet.
@@brightsalot Someone who takes their cats to the vet, will def have them chipped. Trackers on a collar are very iffy. I had a cat who'd always slip his collar, if it lasted 3 days I was in shock. He became an indoor cat, because he had that option. Barn cats usually don't do well going indoors, and the fact that Morgan got Lil barn cat as an indoor shows just how good he is to his animals.
@@JenesisDark I haven’t heard Morgan mention microchips at all in the few years I’ve been watching, so I wasn’t sure-I’m allergic to cats so I’m not familiar with their standard operating procedures. I had a little dog growing up but my parents didn’t microchip him despite giving him appropriate vet care. Thankfully it wasn’t an issue.
Never apologize for not hiding how you feel, in the latest videos you can tell you're not your usual self, i hope Molly returns or at the very least you get closure of what happened ♥
I don't know about anybody else here, but I myself tune in because of you. It's very refreshing nowadays to find someone as young as you to be authentic. You speak your mind, you show your emotions, and your love for the land. It can be hard to lose a beloved pet, companion, and coworker. Though maybe she is just visiting another farm doing some freelance work. It's just like hobo barn cat that came by and helped out for a bit. My prayers are with her, and I really hope she is safe and just found an extra good place to hunt for right now. You are a remarkable human being Morgan. That is what keeps me coming back for more. Talk about it all you want and just never forget her. I still remember every cat and dog I've had in my life with fondness, love, and yes sorrow that they are no longer with me, but it's those memories in my heart where they will live forever.
Dear Morgan, Please do not feel a need or pressure to put out only upbeat videos. The kind strangers who watch your content are here for you. We are grateful you share your farm life with this community. All to say, thank you, I am so sorry Molly Mittens hasn't returned and please go easy on yourself. 🤗🇨🇦
We will all miss Molly. Morgan, you have every right to be grieving…and as I’ve said before, we appreciate that you always wear your heart on your sleeve…it makes you genuine. Take any time you need, we will all wait
No matter where Molly is, she will always be with you. In your heart, in your memories, she is part of you. The love, joy, laughs, will soon outweigh your grief again. You will be able to reflect on the memories of her in your mind with a gentle smile, and a tender heart. You are doing it right. You experienced the great joy of a significant bond. You experienced love. The connection you shared will heal you, give it time. Take care of yourself as best you can, Morgan.
Morgan, I can absolutely guarantee you that losing any animal, in any way at all, is devastating - and like you said, it's a mark of a life well-loved. However, when it's old age or sickness, and you can "see it coming," it just feels different. It hurts like hell, but you could anticipate it a bit more, and pre-grieve, so to speak. Cherish your critters, because you don't know when their day will come, but plan for and expect many years more! 💞
There's a strong possibility that she is just on an extended cat mission. The domestic cat still has a tremendous amount of wild still in them. Once they get the urge to roam, they will, especially for outdoor cats. It can be weeks, or months. Once the first frost happens, which should be coming up soon, she may just turn up.
My cat is like that, he goes missing for week or two and then shows up meowing like nothing happens but rn as it gets colder at night he's always around. He also keeps close cause one of my other cats passed in a tragic accident that no one would predict cause it wasn't like him at all to roam that far, he always kept close to the house and never went out more far than behind out gate, he was more keeping close cat then a roaming one 😪
My aunt’s cat would attack everything outside, but was a lovable lap cat inside. She went missing and came back 2 years later. She shortly passed away a few weeks from natural causes.
While visiting a farm in a neighboring state, my husband and I adopted an adolescent barn cat that the farmer was about to throw into the river in a bag of rocks. He had great personality and as a barn cat had learned to fend for himself. When we went on vacation for a week our friend, who was feeding our cats, said he quit showing up at mealtime. A year later we discovered that he had become the resident barn cat for a neighbor a few miles away.
It´s not inappropiorate to talk about grief, sadness and depression. It´s an important thing about being human. Never hide these feelings inside. Talking about and acknowledging them is vital for healing. I think these types of videos helps a lot of people, therefore they are important. So sorry for your loss ❤
I think that making this confession proves that you are a very sensitive person. And the love and attachment that you show to your animals honours you and show how a real human being should be!!!
Taking time to be sad is really hecking important. Thank you for talking about this, and being brave enough to feel those difficult feelings. You're a good example to us all. As hard as things are now, pushing those feelings away would hurt you for a lot longer.
As some others have mentioned in here, we had our cat (Zelda) decide to go on an "unscheduled vacation". It lasted for over a month. She then showed up one morning, FATTER than she was when she went missing. Don't lose hope yet. Cats are such an odd creature and have the capability to surprise us to no end.
Poor Molly. I'm so sorry. It's ok to feel the feelings, even if it hurts. Ginny really wants to comfort you in a very warm and friendly way. I bet she needs that too.
I have an indoor cat and two barn cats. I totally get the “gut punch” when you realize something is just not right. I am grieving with you on the loss of mama Molly. Don’t listen to the toads of bad karma! We are with you from central Utah. ❤️❤️❤️
The not knowing is so very hard. It hurts and you keep looking and you will catch a movement out of the corner of your eye and happy relief flashes for a second even though you know the reality. Edit: The timing is also difficult with the launch of the Toby book. The depressed feelings at a time you should be celebrating something you worked on creating for so long. If you need a break, your fans will understand.
Someone once said the fact that we grieve so deeply is proof of deep love. Keep being you and sharing all that feels comfortable. There are many here who care about you and your farm.
I'm just loving how Jinny is loving you as you are sitting there talking to us. Animals know Morgan. Just let her comfort you and it will help you.Those of us that have been with you for a while, have seen you struggle with cat allergies, but you hung in there because you loved them like you do with all your animals. You are an awesome person, Morgan. If it helps you to unload onto us we are here to listen to as you work your way through this. We love what you and Allison are doing. ❤❤
I feel for you, Morgan. We lost our cat Bea this spring after a long illness. It was at the end of a six month period where I lost my mother, brother-in-law, younger sister and cousin. I cried more over the cat than any of the others. She was a part of my everyday life and left a significant whole. As time passes I remember more of the good times with Bea and the hurt is a little less. Take care of yourself, Morgan.
I'm grateful that you chose to let this podcast see the light of day. You've built a community of folks here who care about the life of your farm, and about you, and you've done that by living (to a certain degree) as Jessica says, "in a glass house." You share a lot of wisdom in this video about grief, the importance of expression, and a life well lived. When it comes down to it, the reason many of us come here is stated right there in your theme song: "It's got a soul, this here ole' farm..." Thank you for sharing your soul with us, and for letting us witness and hold a bit of this with you. We love you, Molly, wherever you may roam.
I think as someone who has gotten into farming later in life it’s a much more difficult experience than someone who has experienced the loss of “livestock”(as much as she was a coworker). There is no shame in the emotions you feel about her as you move forward. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
We’re here to see the highs AND the lows of the farm life. Thank you for being real and vulnerable with us - it takes a lot of bravery and strength to do that m, especially on a public platform. Give your self the space to breathe and grieve in the ways that feel best to you. We’re here to support you for all of it! ❤
My beloved Kushie got trapped under a neighbor’s house for almost a week. I was devastated is an understatement. Good on you for speaking on mental health, grieving, as a man. We need more of this. May Bast heal your heart. ❤
it took me over 15 years to get a dog because i feared the day i would have to say goodbye. real men share feels. keep being open and honest. its good for everyone
This is one of my favorite videos. I’m a guy who really struggles to show his emotions. I needed to see this. Thank you 🙏 You are one of my favorite people. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤
This whole community is behind you Morgan, and I send my deepest condolences for your loss. I seriously commend you for your honesty and vulnerability in this video. Thank you for sharing, I'm sure theres more than one person who watches you who probably feel very comforted by your words here. Time heals all wounds and this community of supporters will be behind you the entire way ❤
Sending you deepest sympathy for the loss of Molly. I lost my 24.5 year old cat and it was devastating. I lived with him longer than with my children. The only way it could have been worse would have been if I had not known what happened to him. Grief is such a hard and convoluted path, but one day it will be easier to carry this loss in your heart. Thank you for being open, sharing grief as well as joy, thru your experiences and for giving us an important reminder of the fleeting nature of life. Be easy on yourself as you grieve.
Dude, thank you for sharing! I have had a hard time coping with the loss of one of my cats. He lived here for years, outdoors except for feeding inside and he's always there to greet me in the mornings, arriving home from work and nightly. He got hit by a car and i had to bury him a few weeks back. The sadness was profound and i don't care what anyone says, that cat meant a lot to me. I can relate and i appreciate you being authentic and sharing your feelings.
We had our Panther/Princess missing for 4 days last year - and it made my heart hurt. Thanks for being open and vulnerable. You are a normal pet owner, even if you do try to disguise it as a barn animal/cat. Thanks also for sharing!
For what it’s worth what I’ve come to understand about grief is that it’s a dark hole that never goes away, but you learn to absorb it in your life. You’ll get there, and we’re here for you .
Both my grandson 11yr-5yr are so upset crying over Molly and when I hear them say their prayers there is Molly being prayed for by them. They love you...
I'm so sorry for your loss. On Sept 7, I lost my cat after 20 years, so I feel your pain. You are helping me get through it, by knowing someone else understands the pain. I love your videos and look forward to them. BTW: I feel you're more of a cat person than you think😊.
Wow, 20 years. It's obvious you took wonderful care of your cat. ❤ I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope the wonderful memories you have of your cat will bring you peace as you move through your grief.
Morgan this is okay for you to feel what you feel and just keep it real with us. I appreciate your honesty. You tell us whatever you want/need to tell us and let us be here for you.
Morgan, I am crying for you. I can understand how you are feeling. Celebrate the fact that her time on the farm with you gave her purpose and was good for both of you.
Grief and mourning is not just for human relationships, it is for any of our loves . Talking through it like you are is healthy for you and for all those who follow you.
I appreciate you sharing your thoughts with us. You have a right to feel sad and depressed. Our pets are family. Molly was family. The price of love is grief. So very sorry for your precious loss. We miss seeing her too.😢💔
Nobody on here will judge you for being depressed or sad, and if someone can't handle this right now, they can go watch another video. I hope talking about your feelings helps you deal with it. I sure hope we'll see her again in a couple of days, but it's still ok to grief now, that's natural. This is your family.
Hey man, Im not a dog person, but man, when my sister's dog died, i cried for the first time in 20 years. that little dude was really something else - never thought i'd loved an animal that much.
Last year a friends cat I lived with and loved dearly escaped. We looked everywhere, put up posters, ran papers ads the works. Not knowing if she was out there wild and free, with another family or dead somewhere was the worst part. She came back to us after 80 days. She was living in the ceiling of a school and was living off their trash. I’m just some stranger on the internet, but I have faith she’ll find her way back to you. I absolutely love your videos and I wish you the best. Take care of yourself ❤️.
I completely understand, my first cat disappeared for 3 months, then came home and she was fine. Hope for Molly. It’s ok to grieve even for what some people call just a cat. Great quote.😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻
It's totally understandable that you're feeling down and depressed over the loss of Molly. Please don't feel like you need to keep this to yourself. Talking and shedding tears is the healthiest approach, as you've already figured out. Know that we are with you in spirit. Sending positive, healing thoughts your way. ❤
The fact society tries to cover up depression, mental health issues and more... is dishearting. I find this so refreshing you are willing to talk about it. Opening up and making this a social norm, and admitting hey this is a struggle. I will be fine, but I am not feeling myself right now. This should be the normal. We are here for you. Hopefully, Molly will show up one day in the future. But even if she does not, she will be with you always.
This is the side of farming that nobody really talks about. I’ve lost barn cats (I’ve always called them farm cats) before and it’s always very hard you get super attached to them when they are constantly by your side during chores. Thank you for sharing this experience with us even though it’s super hard and we all still have some hope that Molly will magically turn up someday
Oh Morgan, I am so very sorry for your loss. I feel like I've lost a good friend. 2023 is absolutely the worst year ever! My brother was diagnosed with stage 4 esophageal cancer, my dad passed away this summer, and I lost 3 of the cats in my feral cat colony. It compounds the pain when you don't know what happened to your cat.
I'm not sure I can say anything that hasn't been said already; I just wanted to add my voice to the chorus of supporters who obviously love you. Yes, we all love your work, but if you never made another video we would love you just the same--because of your honesty and compassion. Sending you, your wife, and all your animals good vibes from Minnesota!
My cat was put out by my family member he’s been missing 7 years now… i cried for him for days, cried even more recently this past year. I cry for the dead ferals i see… its family. My cat was my son. And that lost can never be replaced.
RIP Molly Murder Mittens 😔♥️. Barn cat or not, she was loved and she had a good life with you. Edit, AirTags? I don’t think they require batteries???? Edit-edit: they do need batteries but the batteries tend to last a year without constantly charging them. My cat is an indoor cat but he has kidney issues (resolved and managed with prescription diet) and is declawed (by a previous owner) and I worried about him all the time.
From the web: “AirTags are powered by a CR2032 battery that lasts for an entire year. CR2032 batteries are a coin-cell battery that are commonly used to power watches, calculators, toys, and many other electronic devices.”
Morgan. I am 61. I have had so many pets over the years and each one I think about. Many cats and a few dogs. Recently I became handicapped. My youngest son decided to move me with him in Texas. I gave up 9 very special chickens and a German Shepard. I also lost a cat and my parents dog during the the last year. Everyday I cry tears. Because one I miss them and two at my age I will never have another pet. I have a small black kitty. She is my world now and is loving the attention. Don’t stop feeling. Each pet has brought me so much joy. SOOOOOO MUCH JOY! I would do it all again. Each one!
We had a female cat go missing for a solid year, she walked in with a live mouse in her mouth. My Dad turned to her, and fell on his knees crying. A YEAR Morgan. Don’t give up on her.
As someone who's cat went missing this was as a child we grieved for this cat and found him 10 years later he'd moved in with an old lady this cat had survived being ran over by a three wheel car and had half of his tail removed because of this he was old when we got him . There's hope she's still out there living her best life probably by some fireplace.
Morgan, this was beautiful. We recently lost the first dog we'd brought home as our 1 year wedding anniversary gift to each other...I was shattered. My heart goes out to you and the farm 💜 thank you for feeling safe enough to share with us and lean on us. I know for me, I feel less alone in my grief over my pup thanks to this
Been here for years Morgan and I'll keep being here. Its been 5 years since my cat went missing and it still hurts, so I understand how you're feeling.
Thank you for sharing your humanity with us. This is an example of what a loving compassionate human being should be. The depression or sadness of the loss will move on to the celebration of Molly murder mittens. Like I've said in the past I don't like cats, but I love those cats who've chosen to adopt me as family. Now I look forward to those moments that remind me of my past animals.
I'm glad you decided to share this with us. I think we all can understand your grief. Grieving is a process, whether it's a person or a pet. As i listened, i found myself really relating to your struggle. When i had to have my cat Toby put to sleep due to a severe illness, I had no one to talk to as my mom was getting cancer treatments. It was a rough time in many ways. All i can tell you is that i think its good that you're thinking about it all, and you ARE processing it. Your grief and feelings feel quite normal to me. You love Molly and the loss of her light deserves this moment. Take care, Morgan. I know many of us are thinking of you in this time.
I feel you, man. Just do what you can. I lost my husband back in 2015 and it's still a struggle to find my writing muse again. I'm glad you have a larger community to stand by you to get through this as best you can. Being an author who doesn't people well makes it hard to find those people.
Our fur babies are a very important part of our lives. I lost my 16 year old mini dachshund and am still grieving. They fill a very special role with us, whether they are indoor or outdoor pet. Allow yourself the time to grieve, with time the days will get easier to work through. Love them, enjoy them, and treasure the time that you have. ❤
I had my 18 y.o. cat go missing for over two weeks. I looked everywhere. I had resigned myself to think she was gone. She had done this before but not for long. Over two weeks later I opened by garage door to look for her and she was standing there. She looked fine. She never told me where she had hung out. My cat was an inside cat that would go out WITH me but from time to time she would go into the field but would return in an hour or so. Don't give up hope. She could be in someone's house, garage, shed....or lounging around another farm. That happens sometimes when you have a cat allowed outside. Dont give up hope. ❤😮
I really feel for you. I have had severe depression from animal loss and know it's so hard. It's so hard not knowing too. Making videos is something I CAN'T do when I'm in mourning so I am proud of your strength moving forward. I like the quote you shared about scar vs wound story. I'm sending you love!❤
This Morgan that loves his creatures and is so open about his life is the fellow we love. My heart goes out to him. The not knowing is the worst as there is that little bit of hope 😢 and we can't let go.
The joy that animals bring is worth the pain of having to say goodbye. I find healing comes quicker each time I open my heart to a new soul that needs love, and gives it in return.
From a country girl who has always taken in strays and lost her share of fur babies whether to them going missing, dying by car, or old age, I cried right along with you. It is amazing how much they of a knot they tie in our hearts and once they are gone we have to find a way to let that knot fray and weave it back. Loss is grief and seasons of grief are an absolute for those of us that love with an unbridled heart. Keep Molly close and never apologize for loving and grieving with all your heart.
Morgan, this will pass. Everything you’re feeling is normal. Your grief is justified and healthy. Feel all the feelings and embrace your experience. The grief will lighten and you’ll focus more on the great memories you have and how lucky you are to have these animals in your life. Stay honest and in the moment.
Hi Morgan! Thank you for sharing your heart with us. When I lost my parrot, I mourned for nearly a year. Our pets are that special. In reading a lot of the comments here, there’s still hope she’ll return. Grief comes in waves, one minute you’re doing fine, the next minute you’re bawling your eyes out. Just remember, somewhere between hello and goodbye, there was Love, so much Love ❤️ Grief is just Love with no place to go. Thank you for sharing your humanity. Always know we believe you’re such a good guy; you always share your love with every living life. Namaste 🙏
I am usually a lurker. I never comment on anything. But I really needed to say this : you should not apologize for feeling. Animals are part of our family. Losing a member of the family is horrible. Take time to grieve. We will still be there. I love your channel because it's so genuine and true to what happens and who you are. I think showing what you're living is incredibly courageous and some people like spitting over the courageous ones. Seeing people I like and that inspires me share their down is something that helps me very much because it shows feeling is normal. It's healthy. You being open about your eating disorder and telling us how you cope with it encouraged me to start journaling. And it really has helped me.
I guess that what I'm trying to say is that being so open is why I love your channel so much. So don't apologize and take your time. Do not feel bad about sharing with us because you'll never know how many lurkers you've helped with sharing all your experiences.
Take care, Morgan.
I agree 😊👍
Well said
Yes, agreed So Much ❤
Nicely put -- and i agree!! While we want you to be who you are, Morgan, do what you need to do, we also feel for you and Molly M. -- just keep in mind we're on your side, non cat person. You could do a video in Toby's voice, or Abby's -- then let one of the ducks take over for a third. Eventually, you may feel like taking over. Personally, I'd love to hear one of the Silkies/Crazies do a video.
I agree...I love your videos and I love your honest heart. We are grieving with you,
believe me. Your a good man Morgan. Take care of you. ❤
YES - well stated.
There is a Japanese belief that when a cat is lost you have to ask the neighborhood cats to look for it and they will bring it back home.
Talk to the cats in the neighborhood, tell them that you are very sad and worried, and describe Molly to them, ask them to please guide her home.💛
I’m so sorry for the loss of Molly. We never stop missing them, they always leave a hole in our hearts.
Hey Morgan. I have a story for you, and I hope you see this. My boy KitKat is the reason I found you. You see, in June 2020, Kit disappeared. In his absence, I scrolled past one of your videos with Pablo in it and I thought it was Kit. He looked JUST LIKE Kit. We tried EVERYTHING. We had given up. He wasn't coming back. One fateful September day, my mom was scrolling Facebook and there he was.... all the way across town. Three days later, we caught him and brought him home. He was gone for 97 days. He was skinnier, he was scarred, he was a bit feral... but he's been home ever since. I hope that she returns to you. More than anything. Much hope to you for the return of Molly Murder Mittens. Miracles do happen.
The same thing happened to my neighbor when I was growing up. They had a black and white cat named Seaweed with very distinct features. She had a splotch of white above her left eye, a white chest, a white tail tip, and most notably three white paws with one black paw. She loved and was loved by that family, but she also liked to roam, and eventually one time she simply didn't come back. My neighbors looked all over the neighborhood for her, never found her. Eventually they gave up, grieved, and moved on.
About three years later I had moved a little ways across town (not very far, about five or six miles). I was walking by some dumpsters behind a pizza place at one point where a bunch of feral cats were scrounging for scraps when one of them caught my eye. There was no doubt in my mind; it was Seaweed. Exact same white splotches, exact same three white paws with one black paw. I told my (former) neighbors about it and they came and picked her up. Didn't need to trap her or anything, they just found her in the same area I saw her and picked her up and brought her home after three years of living wild.
Cats are strange creatures, especially outdoor ones. They form bonds with you, but at the end of the day they're solitary, self-reliant creatures, and sometimes they simply decide it's time for them to leave.
We just lost one of our cats for 28 days just recently. He showed back up like nothing happened. Dont let go of hope.
I had a car a neighbor took (knowing it was mine) for over a year another time same cat years later living in a different home someone took him to s shelter 40 miles away a friend found him there
We had a cat do the same - my husband accidentally let my daughter's cat out of the house - and he felt so guilty, he went and bought her a new cat, then the missing cat showed up two months later, and then both the new cats went missing! We have no idea to this day where they went!
Mine was gone for 46 days. She'd gotten her collar caught on something, came back with it embedded into her chest... it was REALLY bad. But she pulled through, and I had her for another ten years after that.
That's also why I always make it a point to advocate for breakaway collars on cats. If she'd had a breakaway, it never would have happened.
Yes it hurts Big Time... I still grieve the loss of dogs we had decades ago that were very special, even though I have a special one now which we got as a 3mth old and now is 12 yrs old ... it's ok to grieve like you said 😢 I enjoy your videos no matter what you are going through, You are Real with us 😊 Thank you for Sharing, Morgan ❤
I had one relative where the cat was gone for 2 years and just showed up like nothing happened. It feels like some kind of sick cosmic joke.
I had one of my cats go missing once for 6 years before one day out of the blue he came home to me. It turned out a neighbour had taken him and locked him indoors and made him a house cat. He escaped one day and came back to me it was amazing and I couldn't believe it. I only had him though for a month before I noticed he has cancer and he passed away :( I'll never forget him though
He came back to the home he loved.🐈..and you...blessings from Western Australia 💗🇦🇺🐨🦘🦘
Maybe he knew he was dying and wanted to say goodbye to you.
@worakai - THAT is truly a miracle! I hope you beat that neighbor's ass for stealing 6 years of life with your cat.
That happened to a brother of mine. A neighbor liked his friendly nature and took him into her house, and wouldn't let him go. She kept him for a couple of years before he was able to get out and come home. He did have a microchip but she never checked for one. That cat never strayed far from the house and would run inside if he saw her drive past the house on her way to hers.
@@Jaynes-Path it's mad how some people will take a family pet(family member) without thinking about the pain they put the cat and family through
I"m glad that you thought about checking with your neighbors. We lost a barn cat during a blizzard one year and figured we would never see her again. It was my brother's cat (I'm guessing he was about 12 at the time) and he was beyond distraught. Then the following 4th of July when we went to a neighbors house (about 5 houses away) to watch fireworks, there she was . They loved siamese cats and decided she was theirs. They didn't want to give her back, but my brother just picked her up and left.
Good. Screw them!
😂😂he was 12!! Ya Im glad he took the kitty back!
Imagine not wanting to give someone their pet back because it got lost and you found it. Unless the owner is abusive never ever get between them and their pet.
I think a storybook for Molly would be a beautiful tribute. Whenever you're ready.
Not knowing what has happened to your feline friend is the worst part. We feel your pain, Morgan.
I'm so sorry for your pain, I know it's hard, my sweet kitty passed away and it took me a long time. Good luck 😢
You should get a tracker for the rest of the cats and dogs like an airtag that lasts a year
it would most definitly be an implant instead of a collar. collars, even the "breakable" ones are dangerous for cats because hang themselves w/ it.
I’d hope they at least get microchipped. A geo-locator of some sort would definitely be beneficial too.
@@brightsalot Someone who takes their cats to the vet, will def have them chipped. Trackers on a collar are very iffy. I had a cat who'd always slip his collar, if it lasted 3 days I was in shock. He became an indoor cat, because he had that option. Barn cats usually don't do well going indoors, and the fact that Morgan got Lil barn cat as an indoor shows just how good he is to his animals.
Wish I had a time capsule! 💊 FF to the video you’ll post about Mollys return to the farm… ❤
@@JenesisDark I haven’t heard Morgan mention microchips at all in the few years I’ve been watching, so I wasn’t sure-I’m allergic to cats so I’m not familiar with their standard operating procedures. I had a little dog growing up but my parents didn’t microchip him despite giving him appropriate vet care. Thankfully it wasn’t an issue.
Never apologize for not hiding how you feel, in the latest videos you can tell you're not your usual self, i hope Molly returns or at the very least you get closure of what happened ♥
I don't know about anybody else here, but I myself tune in because of you. It's very refreshing nowadays to find someone as young as you to be authentic. You speak your mind, you show your emotions, and your love for the land.
It can be hard to lose a beloved pet, companion, and coworker.
Though maybe she is just visiting another farm doing some freelance work. It's just like hobo barn cat that came by and helped out for a bit.
My prayers are with her, and I really hope she is safe and just found an extra good place to hunt for right now.
You are a remarkable human being Morgan. That is what keeps me coming back for more. Talk about it all you want and just never forget her. I still remember every cat and dog I've had in my life with fondness, love, and yes sorrow that they are no longer with me, but it's those memories in my heart where they will live forever.
Dear Morgan,
Please do not feel a need or pressure to put out only upbeat videos. The kind strangers who watch your content are here for you. We are grateful you share your farm life with this community. All to say, thank you, I am so sorry Molly Mittens hasn't returned and please go easy on yourself. 🤗🇨🇦
😀👍 I agree 💯%
We will all miss Molly. Morgan, you have every right to be grieving…and as I’ve said before, we appreciate that you always wear your heart on your sleeve…it makes you genuine. Take any time you need, we will all wait
100% agree!!!
Came to say exactly this. 💔😭♥️♥️♥️♥️
@@alisonbufarale3406😥👍
Not only that, we're here to hold you up on the days you're feeling down. Us anxious, depression prone must stick together!!! 🎉🎉
No matter where Molly is, she will always be with you. In your heart, in your memories, she is part of you. The love, joy, laughs, will soon outweigh your grief again. You will be able to reflect on the memories of her in your mind with a gentle smile, and a tender heart. You are doing it right. You experienced the great joy of a significant bond. You experienced love. The connection you shared will heal you, give it time. Take care of yourself as best you can, Morgan.
Morgan, I can absolutely guarantee you that losing any animal, in any way at all, is devastating - and like you said, it's a mark of a life well-loved. However, when it's old age or sickness, and you can "see it coming," it just feels different. It hurts like hell, but you could anticipate it a bit more, and pre-grieve, so to speak. Cherish your critters, because you don't know when their day will come, but plan for and expect many years more! 💞
Except the meat animals. We don't care about losing those.
Well... some of us do - which helps us stay vegetarian. 😉@@zephyrwlf
There's a strong possibility that she is just on an extended cat mission. The domestic cat still has a tremendous amount of wild still in them. Once they get the urge to roam, they will, especially for outdoor cats. It can be weeks, or months. Once the first frost happens, which should be coming up soon, she may just turn up.
I'm sure molly is just enjoying her independent cat adventure!
My cat is like that, he goes missing for week or two and then shows up meowing like nothing happens but rn as it gets colder at night he's always around. He also keeps close cause one of my other cats passed in a tragic accident that no one would predict cause it wasn't like him at all to roam that far, he always kept close to the house and never went out more far than behind out gate, he was more keeping close cat then a roaming one 😪
My aunt’s cat would attack everything outside, but was a lovable lap cat inside. She went missing and came back 2 years later. She shortly passed away a few weeks from natural causes.
While visiting a farm in a neighboring state, my husband and I adopted an adolescent barn cat that the farmer was about to throw into the river in a bag of rocks. He had great personality and as a barn cat had learned to fend for himself. When we went on vacation for a week our friend, who was feeding our cats, said he quit showing up at mealtime. A year later we discovered that he had become the resident barn cat for a neighbor a few miles away.
Doubtful. She has a routine and is spayed. There are predators all around the farm. Feel bad for the GSF family but best admit what has happened.
It´s not inappropiorate to talk about grief, sadness and depression. It´s an important thing about being human. Never hide these feelings inside. Talking about and acknowledging them is vital for healing. I think these types of videos helps a lot of people, therefore they are important. So sorry for your loss ❤
I think that making this confession proves that you are a very sensitive person. And the love and attachment that you show to your animals honours you and show how a real human being should be!!!
Taking time to be sad is really hecking important. Thank you for talking about this, and being brave enough to feel those difficult feelings. You're a good example to us all. As hard as things are now, pushing those feelings away would hurt you for a lot longer.
As some others have mentioned in here, we had our cat (Zelda) decide to go on an "unscheduled vacation". It lasted for over a month. She then showed up one morning, FATTER than she was when she went missing. Don't lose hope yet. Cats are such an odd creature and have the capability to surprise us to no end.
Poor Molly. I'm so sorry. It's ok to feel the feelings, even if it hurts. Ginny really wants to comfort you in a very warm and friendly way. I bet she needs that too.
Take your time grieving. Sending you all lots of hugs. Losing a beloved cat is never easy.
I have an indoor cat and two barn cats. I totally get the “gut punch” when you realize something is just not right. I am grieving with you on the loss of mama Molly.
Don’t listen to the toads of bad karma! We are with you from central Utah. ❤️❤️❤️
The not knowing is so very hard. It hurts and you keep looking and you will catch a movement out of the corner of your eye and happy relief flashes for a second even though you know the reality. Edit: The timing is also difficult with the launch of the Toby book. The depressed feelings at a time you should be celebrating something you worked on creating for so long. If you need a break, your fans will understand.
Someone once said the fact that we grieve so deeply is proof of deep love. Keep being you and sharing all that feels comfortable. There are many here who care about you and your farm.
I'm just loving how Jinny is loving you as you are sitting there talking to us. Animals know Morgan. Just let her comfort you and it will help you.Those of us that have been with you for a while, have seen you struggle with cat allergies, but you hung in there because you loved them like you do with all your animals. You are an awesome person, Morgan. If it helps you to unload onto us we are here to listen to as you work your way through this. We love what you and Allison are doing. ❤❤
It’s okay to take a break, Morgan. We will still be here when you’re ready.
I feel for you, Morgan. We lost our cat Bea this spring after a long illness. It was at the end of a six month period where I lost my mother, brother-in-law, younger sister and cousin. I cried more over the cat than any of the others. She was a part of my everyday life and left a significant whole. As time passes I remember more of the good times with Bea and the hurt is a little less. Take care of yourself, Morgan.
I'm so sorry for your loss...what a hard time you've had. Sending you love from Western Australia 😢❤🇦🇺🐨🦘🦘🦘
💔 I know your pain 😔. Losing your best furry friend is a pain unlike anything else.
I'm grateful that you chose to let this podcast see the light of day. You've built a community of folks here who care about the life of your farm, and about you, and you've done that by living (to a certain degree) as Jessica says, "in a glass house." You share a lot of wisdom in this video about grief, the importance of expression, and a life well lived. When it comes down to it, the reason many of us come here is stated right there in your theme song: "It's got a soul, this here ole' farm..."
Thank you for sharing your soul with us, and for letting us witness and hold a bit of this with you. We love you, Molly, wherever you may roam.
I think as someone who has gotten into farming later in life it’s a much more difficult experience than someone who has experienced the loss of “livestock”(as much as she was a coworker). There is no shame in the emotions you feel about her as you move forward. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
Morgan podcasting with Ginny is like me trying to read and drink my coffee in the morning with one of my cats on my lap.
I think grief takes longer to work through when there are unknowns. Thank you for being vulnerable Morgan.
I couldn't agree more 😢
Yes! Absolutely
Had a cry while I listened. Anyone who's lost a pet understands the feeling. It's okay to process by talking about it.
We’re here to see the highs AND the lows of the farm life. Thank you for being real and vulnerable with us - it takes a lot of bravery and strength to do that m, especially on a public platform. Give your self the space to breathe and grieve in the ways that feel best to you. We’re here to support you for all of it! ❤
My beloved Kushie got trapped under a neighbor’s house for almost a week.
I was devastated is an understatement.
Good on you for speaking on mental health, grieving, as a man. We need more of this.
May Bast heal your heart. ❤
We absolutely do need a LOT more of this.
Gotta love Ginny using you as parkour equipment.
He's NOT a cat guy!
it took me over 15 years to get a dog because i feared the day i would have to say goodbye. real men share feels. keep being open and honest. its good for everyone
This is one of my favorite videos. I’m a guy who really struggles to show his emotions. I needed to see this. Thank you 🙏 You are one of my favorite people. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤
This whole community is behind you Morgan, and I send my deepest condolences for your loss. I seriously commend you for your honesty and vulnerability in this video. Thank you for sharing, I'm sure theres more than one person who watches you who probably feel very comforted by your words here. Time heals all wounds and this community of supporters will be behind you the entire way ❤
Sending you deepest sympathy for the loss of Molly. I lost my 24.5 year old cat and it was devastating. I lived with him longer than with my children. The only way it could have been worse would have been if I had not known what happened to him. Grief is such a hard and convoluted path, but one day it will be easier to carry this loss in your heart. Thank you for being open, sharing grief as well as joy, thru your experiences and for giving us an important reminder of the fleeting nature of life. Be easy on yourself as you grieve.
If you never see Molly in this life, my wish for you Morgan, is to find solace in the fact that you gave her the best life ever. Peace. 💔
Dude, thank you for sharing! I have had a hard time coping with the loss of one of my cats. He lived here for years, outdoors except for feeding inside and he's always there to greet me in the mornings, arriving home from work and nightly. He got hit by a car and i had to bury him a few weeks back. The sadness was profound and i don't care what anyone says, that cat meant a lot to me.
I can relate and i appreciate you being authentic and sharing your feelings.
We had our Panther/Princess missing for 4 days last year - and it made my heart hurt. Thanks for being open and vulnerable. You are a normal pet owner, even if you do try to disguise it as a barn animal/cat. Thanks also for sharing!
For your own sanity just think that someone "adopted" her and she has a good home. I'm so sorry for your loss
Don't grief because she's gone. Smile because she was here and you got to have her in your life.
Still, it would give closure to know what happened. Otherwise ur always wondering if someone has her
For what it’s worth what I’ve come to understand about grief is that it’s a dark hole that never goes away, but you learn to absorb it in your life. You’ll get there, and we’re here for you .
Both my grandson 11yr-5yr are so upset crying over Molly and when I hear them say their prayers there is Molly being prayed for by them. They love you...
I'm so sorry for your loss. On Sept 7, I lost my cat after 20 years, so I feel your pain. You are helping me get through it, by knowing someone else understands the pain.
I love your videos and look forward to them.
BTW: I feel you're more of a cat person than you think😊.
Wow, 20 years. It's obvious you took wonderful care of your cat. ❤ I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope the wonderful memories you have of your cat will bring you peace as you move through your grief.
Your honesty is what keeps me coming back. Using us as part of your therapy is part of our therapy.
Morgan this is okay for you to feel what you feel and just keep it real with us. I appreciate your honesty. You tell us whatever you want/need to tell us and let us be here for you.
You honor Molly greatly with your grief. Take care.
Morgan, I am crying for you. I can understand how you are feeling. Celebrate the fact that her time on the farm with you gave her purpose and was good for both of you.
Ginny knows how you feel and is doing her best to show you she cares.
Yes. They know when something is wrong and where they are needed by their loving humans.
Totally agree, companion animals definitely know when you are grieving, sad, or sick. They just know and do their best to lift your spirits.
Pets are not people, but they ARE Family. It hurts when they are gone.
Take comfort from the rest of your dogs and cats.
That has helped me.
So sorry for your loss. I pray she shows back up
Grief and mourning is not just for human relationships, it is for any of our loves . Talking through it like you are is healthy for you and for all those who follow you.
Very sad to hear Molly is lost.
I appreciate you sharing your thoughts with us. You have a right to feel sad and depressed. Our pets are family. Molly was family. The price of love is grief. So very sorry for your precious loss. We miss seeing her too.😢💔
My Lily cat passed away in December, and I still look for her. I miss her.
You loved her and mourning for her makes you human.
Nobody on here will judge you for being depressed or sad, and if someone can't handle this right now, they can go watch another video. I hope talking about your feelings helps you deal with it. I sure hope we'll see her again in a couple of days, but it's still ok to grief now, that's natural. This is your family.
Hey man, Im not a dog person, but man, when my sister's dog died, i cried for the first time in 20 years. that little dude was really something else - never thought i'd loved an animal that much.
I still cry over kitties I lost decades ago! You are entitled to your grief. Take whatever time you need and we'll keep supporting you. 😢
Take a break when you need it. We will be here for you when you’re back. ❤❤❤❤
Loosing a much loved pet is never easy. Especially when you don't know what happened. Closure is more difficult that way.
Sorry for your loss brother definitely gonna miss seeing that cat
Last year a friends cat I lived with and loved dearly escaped. We looked everywhere, put up posters, ran papers ads the works. Not knowing if she was out there wild and free, with another family or dead somewhere was the worst part. She came back to us after 80 days. She was living in the ceiling of a school and was living off their trash. I’m just some stranger on the internet, but I have faith she’ll find her way back to you. I absolutely love your videos and I wish you the best. Take care of yourself ❤️.
I completely understand, my first cat disappeared for 3 months, then came home and she was fine. Hope for Molly. It’s ok to grieve even for what some people call just a cat. Great quote.😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻
It's totally understandable that you're feeling down and depressed over the loss of Molly. Please don't feel like you need to keep this to yourself. Talking and shedding tears is the healthiest approach, as you've already figured out. Know that we are with you in spirit. Sending positive, healing thoughts your way. ❤
We had a cat that got on a UPS truck ,went for a ride, was gone for days, and then found his way home. You never know.
The fact society tries to cover up depression, mental health issues and more... is dishearting. I find this so refreshing you are willing to talk about it.
Opening up and making this a social norm, and admitting hey this is a struggle. I will be fine, but I am not feeling myself right now.
This should be the normal. We are here for you.
Hopefully, Molly will show up one day in the future. But even if she does not, she will be with you always.
This is the side of farming that nobody really talks about. I’ve lost barn cats (I’ve always called them farm cats) before and it’s always very hard you get super attached to them when they are constantly by your side during chores. Thank you for sharing this experience with us even though it’s super hard and we all still have some hope that Molly will magically turn up someday
Sending hugs to you and your wife on the loss of molly. Im so sorry 😢
Oh Morgan, I am so very sorry for your loss. I feel like I've lost a good friend. 2023 is absolutely the worst year ever! My brother was diagnosed with stage 4 esophageal cancer, my dad passed away this summer, and I lost 3 of the cats in my feral cat colony. It compounds the pain when you don't know what happened to your cat.
I'm not sure I can say anything that hasn't been said already; I just wanted to add my voice to the chorus of supporters who obviously love you. Yes, we all love your work, but if you never made another video we would love you just the same--because of your honesty and compassion. Sending you, your wife, and all your animals good vibes from Minnesota!
My cat was put out by my family member he’s been missing 7 years now… i cried for him for days, cried even more recently this past year. I cry for the dead ferals i see… its family. My cat was my son. And that lost can never be replaced.
RIP Molly Murder Mittens 😔♥️. Barn cat or not, she was loved and she had a good life with you.
Edit, AirTags? I don’t think they require batteries????
Edit-edit: they do need batteries but the batteries tend to last a year without constantly charging them.
My cat is an indoor cat but he has kidney issues (resolved and managed with prescription diet) and is declawed (by a previous owner) and I worried about him all the time.
From the web:
“AirTags are powered by a CR2032 battery that lasts for an entire year. CR2032 batteries are a coin-cell battery that are commonly used to power watches, calculators, toys, and many other electronic devices.”
@@mageofdoomsie1598thanks! I did google it afterwards XD.
Thank you for sharing, Morgan. I'm so sorry Molly is gone. We all grieve with you and will miss her presence on Gold Shaw Farm.
Morgan. I am 61. I have had so many pets over the years and each one I think about. Many cats and a few dogs. Recently I became handicapped. My youngest son decided to move me with him in Texas. I gave up 9 very special chickens and a German Shepard. I also lost a cat and my parents dog during the the last year. Everyday I cry tears. Because one I miss them and two at my age I will never have another pet. I have a small black kitty. She is my world now and is loving the attention. Don’t stop feeling. Each pet has brought me so much joy. SOOOOOO MUCH JOY! I would do it all again. Each one!
We had a female cat go missing for a solid year, she walked in with a live mouse in her mouth. My Dad turned to her, and fell on his knees crying. A YEAR Morgan. Don’t give up on her.
As someone who's cat went missing this was as a child we grieved for this cat and found him 10 years later he'd moved in with an old lady this cat had survived being ran over by a three wheel car and had half of his tail removed because of this he was old when we got him . There's hope she's still out there living her best life probably by some fireplace.
Morgan, this was beautiful. We recently lost the first dog we'd brought home as our 1 year wedding anniversary gift to each other...I was shattered. My heart goes out to you and the farm 💜 thank you for feeling safe enough to share with us and lean on us. I know for me, I feel less alone in my grief over my pup thanks to this
Been here for years Morgan and I'll keep being here. Its been 5 years since my cat went missing and it still hurts, so I understand how you're feeling.
Thank you for honoring us by sharing your sadness with us
Thank you for sharing your humanity with us. This is an example of what a loving compassionate human being should be. The depression or sadness of the loss will move on to the celebration of Molly murder mittens. Like I've said in the past I don't like cats, but I love those cats who've chosen to adopt me as family. Now I look forward to those moments that remind me of my past animals.
😢She is going to be missed by all of us who looked forward to seeing her 😢
I'm glad you decided to share this with us. I think we all can understand your grief. Grieving is a process, whether it's a person or a pet. As i listened, i found myself really relating to your struggle. When i had to have my cat Toby put to sleep due to a severe illness, I had no one to talk to as my mom was getting cancer treatments. It was a rough time in many ways.
All i can tell you is that i think its good that you're thinking about it all, and you ARE processing it.
Your grief and feelings feel quite normal to me.
You love Molly and the loss of her light deserves this moment. Take care, Morgan. I know many of us are thinking of you in this time.
Wherever life took her I hope she’s purring ☮️☮️
Morgan, that was a beautiful and well spoken message from your heart. Wish I could give you a big hug!
I feel you, man. Just do what you can. I lost my husband back in 2015 and it's still a struggle to find my writing muse again. I'm glad you have a larger community to stand by you to get through this as best you can. Being an author who doesn't people well makes it hard to find those people.
I also lost my husband in 2015 and it changed me as a person.
Our fur babies are a very important part of our lives. I lost my 16 year old mini dachshund and am still grieving. They fill a very special role with us, whether they are indoor or outdoor pet. Allow yourself the time to grieve, with time the days will get easier to work through. Love them, enjoy them, and treasure the time that you have. ❤
I had my 18 y.o. cat go missing for over two weeks. I looked everywhere. I had resigned myself to think she was gone. She had done this before but not for long.
Over two weeks later I opened by garage door to look for her and she was standing there. She looked fine. She never told me where she had hung out.
My cat was an inside cat that would go out WITH me but from time to time she would go into the field but would return in an hour or so.
Don't give up hope. She could be in someone's house, garage, shed....or lounging around another farm. That happens sometimes when you have a cat allowed outside.
Dont give up hope. ❤😮
I really feel for you. I have had severe depression from animal loss and know it's so hard. It's so hard not knowing too. Making videos is something I CAN'T do when I'm in mourning so I am proud of your strength moving forward. I like the quote you shared about scar vs wound story. I'm sending you love!❤
This Morgan that loves his creatures and is so open about his life is the fellow we love. My heart goes out to him. The not knowing is the worst as there is that little bit of hope 😢 and we can't let go.
Don't apologize for your feelings. It's heartbreaking to loose a furry family member. Wishing you the best.
The joy that animals bring is worth the pain of having to say goodbye. I find healing comes quicker each time I open my heart to a new soul that needs love, and gives it in return.
From a country girl who has always taken in strays and lost her share of fur babies whether to them going missing, dying by car, or old age, I cried right along with you. It is amazing how much they of a knot they tie in our hearts and once they are gone we have to find a way to let that knot fray and weave it back. Loss is grief and seasons of grief are an absolute for those of us that love with an unbridled heart. Keep Molly close and never apologize for loving and grieving with all your heart.
Morgan, this will pass. Everything you’re feeling is normal. Your grief is justified and healthy. Feel all the feelings and embrace your experience. The grief will lighten and you’ll focus more on the great memories you have and how lucky you are to have these animals in your life. Stay honest and in the moment.
Hi Morgan! Thank you for sharing your heart with us. When I lost my parrot, I mourned for nearly a year. Our pets are that special. In reading a lot of the comments here, there’s still hope she’ll return.
Grief comes in waves, one minute you’re doing fine, the next minute you’re bawling your eyes out. Just remember, somewhere between hello and goodbye, there was Love, so much Love ❤️ Grief is just Love with no place to go. Thank you for sharing your humanity.
Always know we believe you’re such a good guy; you always share your love with every living life. Namaste 🙏
You’ve reminded me over the years of something Ive needed to hear more often: “you do you”. That’s what I’m reminded of with your grief.