16:00 I made this observation halfway through my last relationship. She cooked and did a lot at the beginning of our relationship but then stopped halfway through. I counted almost 7 months without her cooking anything. Spent more money in take out food than eating anything healtier. It got to the point where I refused to buy her food anymore with my money because she got expensive. There were other things that exposed to me that got it in my head that Im over playing my part. Thankfully we split before I spent any more of myself trying to carry someone who didnt see the long term in doing better for themselves now vs later and only wanting short term success because they were comparing themselves to others. It was a losing game.
Oh you haven’t heard??!! They’re having zooms on how to quit their jobs. They even have Job Quit Specialists. And the women quitting are broke w/no 401k.
So these so called strong and independent women made it to 30 before they are crying about being too tired? I took care of a family of 4 children and two adults as a sole provider. Then i had to come home and help clean the house and do laundry because that took less time than arguing with my ex wife over not doing it. On the weekends i had to do all the yardwork and home repair on top of the improvements my ex wife wanted. Somewhere in there i had to also do all the grocery shopping and help the kids with homework. I am 56 years old and still going strong. My ex wife is gone and homeless now, my children are grown and i still make well into the six figures. I have life on easy mode now. Don't worry females, you only have 40 years to go. By the way, can all of you please look up the word strong? Because you really don't sound strong as you are whinning on the internet about being an adult.
A man don't have to give women nothing !!!!! But "P" , and that ain't nothing either, keep your money men. U have the power ! Just say no. Remember those words ??.
No lie my ex is being ran through by every man as we speak. She's had 5 different men in her life in hmmm 3 - 4 years. No one is actually committing to her, "single mom". She's about to hit 30 and she's in a panic.
The man who pretty much lost it all went wrong when he trusted in someone who had ulterior motives and really didn’t have his back to the end! But was used for her benefits. I went through the same thing recently and I will never marry ever again!
Yeap men never co-sign for nobody and that goes for your wife as well, if these ppl don't pay for what U and she put your names on U the man is responsible for paying for whatever. I have A-1 credit and there's no way in hell will I put my name on anything for anybody especially some ran through beat up chick.
It is a beautiful space when as a man you realize your worth and value. I don't bring anything to the table. I have the ability to replace the entire table and the house if it is for my woman. So until we are locked in ask me for nothing. Dates are investments and men are seeking an ROI when they take you out. It is an interview to see if you are worth allocating his assets into. Nobody gets paid at a job b4 they earn that salary.
When I was a much younger man,I did spend considerable money on dates-hey,I was trying to get laid;I wasn't wife-hunting.I learned,however,now, I do things far different.I'm way past that.I don't go near a woman who ain't worth my time.And..my money stays holstered.
MODERN WOMEN=NOT WORTH IT! ITS THE SAME OLD SONG OVER AND OVER AGAIN. ITS BLAH....BLAH....BLAH....BLAH....ALL TALK AND NO SUBSTANCE! NO THANKS LADIES. IM HAPPY ALONE
@AnthonySpade - A DNA Test needs to taken & Paternity confirmed before the father signs the Birth Certificate. In most states, once a man signs the Birth Certificate, the law says he's the legal & financial supporting father of that child, regardless of if he's the biological father of that child. I would tell any woman from day 1, if we have a child, I'm getting a DNA Paternity Test before signing the Birth Certificate.
One thing I have noticed is that women don’t seem to mature until they are about 45-50. I’m sure in a couple years, the narrative will change to, “ I’m only 35/40!” Knowing damn well she isn’t only that age, she is also bitter, uncooperative, and has already proven as to why no other man wanted her. Or, why she never qualified for the man she wanted.
I like how spade broke down the woman’s entitlement of your money say u gotta do this n that because most women will look at themselves different but a lot of women would accept the bs
A lot of women overseas are cheating , manipulative and horrible too. I am Haitian and Bahamian who have seen Haitian and Bahamian act like Western women too
Makes a bunch of sense.. I am that man.. The electrician,the plumber, the mechanic etc. I only help my loved ones now.. Not worth the headache.. Sex can't pay my bills..
If, your woman who doesn't cook taro roots, plantains, burro bananas sweet potatoes, yams, malanga, watercress, beets or doesn't have star anise, cinnamon sticks, nutmeg, ginger, garlic, black clove, green onions then leave her.
I don't know how having easy to fix meals is a toxic trait. If you work all day not always are you thinking about cooking when you get home. I understand how not knowing how to cook is a huge problem. I have easy to fix meals for when I'm too tired to cook or to take to work with me since I only get 30 mins. I cook when I feel like it. Most females can't cook to save their lives. They think they can but their food is either over or undercooked.
If a woman wants to get married, if she's not sown into you spiritually., connected over time, a proven friendship., that's a stranger pursuing marriage. That's agenda., DON'T DO IT....
The "Help mate" woman is exactly what it means to be a help mate. When I hear the 50/50 conversation this is what I'm talking about, because even if a man can pay for every situation,for everyone in the family,these females you hear from the most are saying they not bringing anything but their presence to the relationship and don't feel they need to bring anything else,they can't even answer the question of what they bring to the relationship(which this woman just explained)without blowing a fuse which is a huge red flag,waste of time,money, resources,etc. This woman here from her presentation is worthy of the investment. 🤷🏿♂️
Where the guy who got divorced went wrong at is two places. 1. We as men got to stop making materials our worth, money comes and go, houses are a dime dozen, self-respect and self-love is the most valuable thing that no one can take from you. 2. Always get a prenuptial agreement. He needs to look at this as a lesson learned and use it to grow from his experience.
3:59 This sounds a lot like the advice my Grandpa gave me years ago, right before I started driving. I remember it like yesterday, I was helping him change the spark plugs and oil on his fishing boat. Much respect Grandpa🫡
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Second choice was definitely saying she was tired of being and adult woman, mixed with possibly wanting a loving sponsor.
My woman cooks for me I have absolutely no problem with food clothes cleaning up! I don't wash my back she does.
In other words,a sugar daddy.
Us men don’t have to do anything for you women.
16:00 I made this observation halfway through my last relationship. She cooked and did a lot at the beginning of our relationship but then stopped halfway through. I counted almost 7 months without her cooking anything. Spent more money in take out food than eating anything healtier. It got to the point where I refused to buy her food anymore with my money because she got expensive. There were other things that exposed to me that got it in my head that Im over playing my part. Thankfully we split before I spent any more of myself trying to carry someone who didnt see the long term in doing better for themselves now vs later and only wanting short term success because they were comparing themselves to others. It was a losing game.
DNA tests can be done during pregnancy with no risk to the mother or child with a blood test.
Is it just me or are these wmn refusing to be adults?...they're problem is not wanting to be grown and responsible 🤔
They like all of the freedom that comes with being an adult but they don’t want to pay for all of that responsibility that comes with it.
They’re emotion-based..easily overwhelmed & swayed. The absence of a father’s guidance shows via their behavior.
He got married to a jezebel. The other video the husband was right for not co-signing
Pink shirt is on point 3:11
Went wrong bothering with a modern American woman! ✈️✈️✈️
Maybe Asia is the best bet, because African women are also quickly getting westernized, it's frightening actually!!!
Eventually so will some Asian women,unfortunately.
@@Crezelltree4261 Already is very Westernized in larger metropolitan areas, such as Tokyo. Stick with the rural areas where City Girls cannot thrive!
Get a job and stop complaining.
Oh you haven’t heard??!! They’re having zooms on how to quit their jobs. They even have Job Quit Specialists. And the women quitting are broke w/no 401k.
Paternity testing is a no brainer.
Rule is I only spend money on my wife or 35+ years. All others, I don't spend money on.
It sounds in Atlanta most women’s are the *house wives of Atlanta* damn this shows have ruined modern women’s
A huuker cost less though 😂
400$ on a first date. Nope
Passport 📓 and take flight ✈️
So these so called strong and independent women made it to 30 before they are crying about being too tired? I took care of a family of 4 children and two adults as a sole provider. Then i had to come home and help clean the house and do laundry because that took less time than arguing with my ex wife over not doing it. On the weekends i had to do all the yardwork and home repair on top of the improvements my ex wife wanted. Somewhere in there i had to also do all the grocery shopping and help the kids with homework. I am 56 years old and still going strong. My ex wife is gone and homeless now, my children are grown and i still make well into the six figures. I have life on easy mode now. Don't worry females, you only have 40 years to go. By the way, can all of you please look up the word strong? Because you really don't sound strong as you are whinning on the internet about being an adult.
So y’all can’t be functioning adults?
At thirty a woman is on the decline. This is the wall and, yes it's undefeated. If she didn't want you in her prime, don't take her in her decline.
Major Facts!
A man don't have to give women nothing !!!!! But "P" , and that ain't nothing either, keep your money men. U have the power ! Just say no. Remember those words ??.
Yes.
Most of these women don’t have the money to pay these mechanics, they sleep with these mechanics as payment
No lie my ex is being ran through by every man as we speak. She's had 5 different men in her life in hmmm 3 - 4 years. No one is actually committing to her, "single mom". She's about to hit 30 and she's in a panic.
New age prostitution but without sexual interaction
How do you just go against your husband's advice and cosign anyway??? 🥴
The man who pretty much lost it all went wrong when he trusted in someone who had ulterior motives and really didn’t have his back to the end! But was used for her benefits. I went through the same thing recently and I will never marry ever again!
Spiritual warfare people 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
Correction, Both credit scores don't blend. That's literally the only thing you can keep separate and pristine when you get married.
That's why the loan is on the highest CS and that name is only on the loan.
Yeap men never co-sign for nobody and that goes for your wife as well, if these ppl don't pay for what U and she put your names on U the man is responsible for paying for whatever. I have A-1 credit and there's no way in hell will I put my name on anything for anybody especially some ran through beat up chick.
It is a beautiful space when as a man you realize your worth and value. I don't bring anything to the table. I have the ability to replace the entire table and the house if it is for my woman. So until we are locked in ask me for nothing. Dates are investments and men are seeking an ROI when they take you out. It is an interview to see if you are worth allocating his assets into. Nobody gets paid at a job b4 they earn that salary.
OK serious question. In hindsight where the red flags that you ignored? I believe there are always signs. People choose to ignore them.
When I was a much younger man,I did spend considerable money on dates-hey,I was trying to get laid;I wasn't wife-hunting.I learned,however,now, I do things far different.I'm way past that.I don't go near a woman who ain't worth my time.And..my money stays holstered.
Lets be straight these woman are broke as f, but look like they got ir like that.
They are tired of responsibilities..... they just want the freedom to do what they want... but someone else pays for it or makes it possible 1:25
MODERN WOMEN=NOT WORTH IT!
ITS THE SAME OLD SONG OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
ITS BLAH....BLAH....BLAH....BLAH....ALL TALK AND NO SUBSTANCE!
NO THANKS LADIES.
IM HAPPY ALONE
This is why she's married ...Great values and Pretty !!
So these ladies want a husband without being a wife, cry me a river, no one cares.
She is tired of being an adult, so now she wants someone else to be an adult for her. Yea right
The generalizing is a toxic trait.
@AnthonySpade - A DNA Test needs to taken & Paternity confirmed before the father signs the Birth Certificate. In most states, once a man signs the Birth Certificate, the law says he's the legal & financial supporting father of that child, regardless of if he's the biological father of that child. I would tell any woman from day 1, if we have a child, I'm getting a DNA Paternity Test before signing the Birth Certificate.
One thing I have noticed is that women don’t seem to mature until they are about 45-50. I’m sure in a couple years, the narrative will change to, “ I’m only 35/40!” Knowing damn well she isn’t only that age, she is also bitter, uncooperative, and has already proven as to why no other man wanted her. Or, why she never qualified for the man she wanted.
I like how spade broke down the woman’s entitlement of your money say u gotta do this n that because most women will look at themselves different but a lot of women would accept the bs
I be chasing women and money but i dont put in too much effort chasing women.
A lot of women overseas are cheating , manipulative and horrible too. I am Haitian and Bahamian who have seen Haitian and Bahamian act like Western women too
Salut brother
See... they want to do whatever they want to do but have someone else clean up the mess.... 15:22
Am so happy tat I live all by myself
Makes a bunch of sense.. I am that man.. The electrician,the plumber, the mechanic etc. I only help my loved ones now.. Not worth the headache.. Sex can't pay my bills..
If, your woman who doesn't cook taro roots, plantains, burro bananas sweet potatoes, yams, malanga, watercress, beets or doesn't have star anise, cinnamon sticks, nutmeg, ginger, garlic, black clove, green onions then leave her.
Why are immigrants on here? Don't they have their own?
Ms 'Using Phone By herself ' she left out Using the loo 🤷🏾♀️
Speaking facts Anthony speaking facts
So you are tired of being THE MEN.
Please bring Fathers back.
There are some states that make the man pay even if the DNA says he is not the father.
Trust no woman?Boy,ain't that the truth.
Facts! Facts!
I don't know how having easy to fix meals is a toxic trait. If you work all day not always are you thinking about cooking when you get home. I understand how not knowing how to cook is a huge problem. I have easy to fix meals for when I'm too tired to cook or to take to work with me since I only get 30 mins. I cook when I feel like it. Most females can't cook to save their lives. They think they can but their food is either over or undercooked.
If a woman wants to get married, if she's not sown into you spiritually., connected over time, a proven friendship., that's a stranger pursuing marriage. That's agenda., DON'T DO IT....
The "Help mate" woman is exactly what it means to be a help mate. When I hear the 50/50 conversation this is what I'm talking about, because even if a man can pay for every situation,for everyone in the family,these females you hear from the most are saying they not bringing anything but their presence to the relationship and don't feel they need to bring anything else,they can't even answer the question of what they bring to the relationship(which this woman just explained)without blowing a fuse which is a huge red flag,waste of time,money, resources,etc. This woman here from her presentation is worthy of the investment. 🤷🏿♂️
Where the guy who got divorced went wrong at is two places.
1. We as men got to stop making materials our worth, money comes and go, houses are a dime dozen, self-respect and self-love is the most valuable thing that no one can take from you.
2. Always get a prenuptial agreement. He needs to look at this as a lesson learned and use it to grow from his experience.
I absolutely agree with bossman💯
Lady if you're tired paying things the end of the day you still need a job we single Wolfman got our own bills to pay
What was Ms 'Phone Alone' offering for the table?
I seen a kung fu movie with Jet Lee where his Mom told him not to trust her or any other woman taught me alot
Timestamp 11:57 you was spitttttttting
Anthony Naruto with another 1
No marriage no losses
Preach
Women are chaos
I agree 💯
Agree 💯
You don't deserve anything but a hard way to go and the easy way to get there😂
3:59 This sounds a lot like the advice my Grandpa gave me years ago, right before I started driving. I remember it like yesterday, I was helping him change the spark plugs and oil on his fishing boat. Much respect Grandpa🫡