Interesting to watch … I’m going through REMO order as court order is in France and uk and he’s doing the same owes arrears but getting married … I’m hoping the judges recognises he’s paying for a wedding but told me he can’t afford the arrears 🙄
Of course she wants to ! We live in a greedy world unfortunately. My attitude here in the uk is this - when a couple splits and a child is involved, both parents should automatically have equal rights for custody, if you’re prepared to have custody of your child for at least half the time you should pay absolutely nothing to the other party. If you feel you do not want custody of that child for at least half the time you give up your right to not pay the other party!! Here in the U.K. the mother automatically has the right of custody over the father ! There is only one reason for this - and that is to cause as much pain as possible for both party’s , and to squeeze the father financially for at least 16 - 20 years. It’s big business!! Tony Blair , David Cameron, and a number of other ex and current politicians have shares in this business set up! The CMS actually charge both parents a FEE to collect and receive money from both parents - so you see , they feed off of misery and profit from it! Another corrupted governmental organisation that only serves themselves .
More to that case. What was his access arrangements and was he being allowed to see his kids or involved as he desired? The devil is in the detail. Maintenance is only one side of the coin...
@@Paul5520 I'm not denying that bit something made the father refuse to pay maintenance for such a lengthy time and the mother never bothered going about it so clearly there was some serious dispute courts will try act like access/guardianship and maintenance are separate issues but they are not. If the mother is not lettin you see your kids or have a say in their up bringing then why should you pay her money. Vice versa of a father refuses to pay maintenance he should be refused to have a say in important decisions. The question is which came first the chicken or the egg.
No man should pay a penny to his ex unless he doesn’t want to see his children. If he wants to see his kids then no money should be paid , ever !! Custody should be 50/50. Why do these dopey women think it’s a god given right to extort the man into paying money ?? Ridiculous.
A case similar,with the Social Worker advising the husband to leave the home to give the wife space. Proceeds to become the girlfriend. proceeds to then ring the wife and say he can't afford the maintenance which for 2 children which was 20 euro a week. She stopped the maintenance and then a few years later she sent the wife a divorce paper via one of the children saying she just had to sign it They too got married in a grand country house.
Please help me…..I didn’t even know I had a child ( result of a one night stand ) until cms sent me letters demanding I pay £416 a month …. My take home pay is 1800, mortgage and bills 1300…. Plus the 416….. I am left with 80 pounds a month to live off
I live in England, my ex husband moved back to Scotland. Arrears £55k, he is trying to get out of it by going bankrupt. Arrears mounted due to DWP/CMS not using their powers and allowing the arrears to build up for 6 years!
If he hasnt got the money then he hasnt got the money. Choosing a good partner is key in avoiding these situations. There are too many women exploiting the system. I am not syaing you are btw.
what some dont realise is some people may not be able to afford to even pay 17.50 (35) per week, i know it isnt right not paying maintenance but some people may not have the money full stop, i dont have maintinane issues but when your on minimum wage and trying to pay a mortgage and life insurance ,car insurance etc there isnt much left, sometimes i could go 9 hours in work without eating anything as dont have anything to spare after paying bills and making kids lunches for school
back 18 years ago i was on a better wage in a different job but since it closed there isnt much jobs out there that pay decent wages, had to start back near minimum wage again, believe me its a struggle, that kind of money is grand if your a teen living at home with the parents and no bills but as an adult with bills its a joke
No man should pay a penny to his ex unless he doesn’t want to see his children. If he wants to see his kids then no money should be paid , ever !! Custody should be 50/50. Why do these dopey women think it’s a god given right to extort the man into paying money ?? Ridiculous.
Judge makes sense. If dude doesn't pay the thief, then the jail can become the thief. Now, That makes sense. And the child can become the reason for the theft (great for self respect).
Thanks for your video. You’re a great source of plain language law stuff, thanks a million.
€17.50 what an absolute joke.
Interesting to watch … I’m going through REMO order as court order is in France and uk and he’s doing the same owes arrears but getting married … I’m hoping the judges recognises he’s paying for a wedding but told me he can’t afford the arrears 🙄
Of course she wants to ! We live in a greedy world unfortunately. My attitude here in the uk is this - when a couple splits and a child is involved, both parents should automatically have equal rights for custody, if you’re prepared to have custody of your child for at least half the time you should pay absolutely nothing to the other party. If you feel you do not want custody of that child for at least half the time you give up your right to not pay the other party!! Here in the U.K. the mother automatically has the right of custody over the father ! There is only one reason for this - and that is to cause as much pain as possible for both party’s , and to squeeze the father financially for at least 16 - 20 years. It’s big business!! Tony Blair , David Cameron, and a number of other ex and current politicians have shares in this business set up! The CMS actually charge both parents a FEE to collect and receive money from both parents - so you see , they feed off of misery and profit from it! Another corrupted governmental organisation that only serves themselves .
More to that case. What was his access arrangements and was he being allowed to see his kids or involved as he desired? The devil is in the detail. Maintenance is only one side of the coin...
Kids are kids, they need to be looked after. Access is available to most father’s who apply to court.
@@Paul5520 I'm not denying that bit something made the father refuse to pay maintenance for such a lengthy time and the mother never bothered going about it so clearly there was some serious dispute courts will try act like access/guardianship and maintenance are separate issues but they are not. If the mother is not lettin you see your kids or have a say in their up bringing then why should you pay her money. Vice versa of a father refuses to pay maintenance he should be refused to have a say in important decisions. The question is which came first the chicken or the egg.
No man should pay a penny to his ex unless he doesn’t want to see his children. If he wants to see his kids then no money should be paid , ever !! Custody should be 50/50. Why do these dopey women think it’s a god given right to extort the man into paying money ?? Ridiculous.
@@dannythegreat453 Totally agree. They are exploiting the corrupt system
17.50 what a scum bag access he wouldnt take um for a mcdonalds never mind take for a days access
A case similar,with the Social Worker advising the husband to leave the home to give the wife space. Proceeds to become the girlfriend. proceeds to then ring the wife and say he can't afford the maintenance which for 2 children which was 20 euro a week. She stopped the maintenance and then a few years later she sent the wife a divorce paper via one of the children saying she just had to sign it They too got married in a grand country house.
No money for gold diggers
Please help me…..I didn’t even know I had a child ( result of a one night stand ) until cms sent me letters demanding I pay £416 a month …. My take home pay is 1800, mortgage and bills 1300…. Plus the 416….. I am left with 80 pounds a month to live off
I live in England, my ex husband moved back to Scotland. Arrears £55k, he is trying to get out of it by going bankrupt. Arrears mounted due to DWP/CMS not using their powers and allowing the arrears to build up for 6 years!
Why you want the dad to pay you for? Just allow him to have access to his children and obviously he will step up supporting them
If he hasnt got the money then he hasnt got the money. Choosing a good partner is key in avoiding these situations. There are too many women exploiting the system. I am not syaing you are btw.
what some dont realise is some people may not be able to afford to even pay 17.50 (35) per week, i know it isnt right not paying maintenance but some people may not have the money full stop, i dont have maintinane issues but when your on minimum wage and trying to pay a mortgage and life insurance ,car insurance etc there isnt much left, sometimes i could go 9 hours in work without eating anything as dont have anything to spare after paying bills and making kids lunches for school
Your kids come before your bills. Especially for the non custodial parent and he spent his money on a wedding.
back 18 years ago i was on a better wage in a different job but since it closed there isnt much jobs out there that pay decent wages, had to start back near minimum wage again, believe me its a struggle, that kind of money is grand if your a teen living at home with the parents and no bills but as an adult with bills its a joke
No man should pay a penny to his ex unless he doesn’t want to see his children. If he wants to see his kids then no money should be paid , ever !! Custody should be 50/50. Why do these dopey women think it’s a god given right to extort the man into paying money ?? Ridiculous.
Judge makes sense. If dude doesn't pay the thief, then the jail can become the thief. Now, That makes sense. And the child can become the reason for the theft (great for self respect).
Yea...don't get married again 🤣
Guys, dont get married.
What has marriage got to do with it? You still owe maintenance for the children you have created.