let's yap! perception is key + don't lose yourself + living abroad & more | allyiahsface girl chat
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
- Hi hoochies! Wow, it's been a little minute since we've had a girls night in! Uhg missed this... maybe we should do a wwad next???? anywho, hope you enjoyed.
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You’re the reason I’m living in my dream, luxury apartment. You’re the reason I’m making the money I make on RUclips. You’re the reason I believed that a good life was possible for me. ❤❤❤
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Okurrrrrr🎉🎉🎉🎉
Dough dash if only you knew… now YOURE the reason IM creating the life I want by posting on RUclips and I haven’t felt more alive. You made videos encouraging people to hop on and I’m on baby!!
Amazing❤
so real!
Braids are so pretty!!
Thank you baby
Yes they are❤
Love the quick discussion around discernment. Ask. Seek. Knock. If you ask the Lord for discernment; He will give it to you. Cover, guard and shield your hearts, beautiful ladies! ❤
RUclips asked me to rate your comment. I have never seen that before. I’ve seen where they ask you to rate the video but they asked me whether your comment was appropriate and what I thought of it.😮
@@Jeanniewhatnow what?? 😮
I have not finished watching but want to let you know that I thank you for sharing yourself with us. I really enjoy your vlogs and I appreciate you. Continue to be amazing!
Thank you so much 🥹🤍
i’ll forever love listening to you yap okayyy. btw the hair is eatingggg🤭
🫶🏽 thank you
I literally realized that when I wear the mathing sets at home I feel so put together. You are so right.
As a single mom I completely agree with having your own life no matter what !!! Make time even if u have to pay 💰
You saying that you don't have to "do", sometimes "just be". That spoke to me! In a new relationship, my new guy is always just saying 'thank you'. When I ask for what because i didn't do anything, he says 'for just being you, that's enough'. That is new for me girl!❤😊
Aw I love that for you ❤
Needed this calm pause in today’s reality so bad , perfect timing ! Thank you sis 😂❤
Glad I could be of service bby! 💖
19:34 Leaning towards God is the key. I don’t know for others but at times that were rough, I used to feel he wouldn’t want to hear from me, but those are the moments to lean in closer!!
You’re so well spoken ❤ been watching you genuinely being you since the beginning
Black cat energy is what Aliyah speaking about. Be your own individual even in relationships do the things that makes you uniquely you and which makes you happy and your partner is a plus in your life they supposed to ADD to your life that is all dont make them the center of your life live your life the way you lives before you met them .
THE BRAIDS!! 😍💅🏽 you look good girl, like glowing inside and out
Thank you so much!❤
I grew with you and I'm 4 years older + a mom lol! Girl you've poured into so many women without even knowing and I can't thank you enough for it! You taught me to pour into myself years ago, I go on solo dates all the time. watching your journey and taking notes is my self care lmao
This is why I truly appreciate your channel; you have such a strong sense of independence, provide a subtle insight into your love life without fully showcasing him, and reveal your authentic self.
Thank you for this 🤍✨
I love your journey and how protective but vulnerable you are. I love just having you on in the background; you created such a safe place.
Thank you 🥹❤
Hey! I love your braids. And that’s so true having a relationship with God just hits different. Makes life so much easier even when you are going through a hard time.
Thank you! I agree, it really does change everything.
Allyiah, girl with all the ISH going on in this country, you’re a positive breath I need ❤❤❤
This is the one
Happy to be that for you ❤
The put together thing is so true and it helps you feel better if you’re having a bad day. Loving the hair!
"what kinda rose colored glasses was them!?!" is SENDING ME but it's so real 😭loved this girl chat so much.
😂 glad you enjoyed
My friend's sister lives in Dubai and she says after you live there you become so spoilt because it's so safe and service is so top notch that you really get sad when you get back home and you can't get what you know you'd normally get no problem back in Dubai.
This vlog was a blessing, I am in this space of getting to know me, my likes loves and dislikes, my whole young adult to now I've been whatever people friends, family needed, Not tripping but ready to know me! So thank you for sharing your perspective on these topics, very thought provoking and encouraging. 😊
YOURE sooo right!! When my hair is done, low maintenance jewelry, and fresh clean skin! I get more complements when I’m looking simple lol
And shout out to you, baby hairs are truly unnecessary, I stopped it years ago lol I realized coming and gelling down ‘baby hairs’ was creating thinness.
Love the girl chatttt🎉🎉🎉🎉
I really appreciate your chit chats. I love the way you speak on things. Everything isn’t about a man or a relationship and I’ve tapped more into the things I like to do and the things I’m passionate about this year and it’s been so helpful. I love your videos and I appreciate you for being the girls girl that you are!
Regarding Expat life- I lived in Portugal a little while and still go back-and-forth. One of the things that I absolutely love is that you don’t have to watch your damn purse in the grocery store. And then no one is stealing my packages off my porch. America has turned many regular people into petty criminals. Granted there are other countries in Europe that have petty crime like cell phone stealing and purse snatching but Portugal is not there for the most part. It gives you a sense of peace to have one less thing to worry about.
Wow so funny Portugal is actually on my list of possible moves 😅
Allyiah you mentioned coloring again. One Thanksgiving I put a plastic tablecloth that had Thanksgiving themed figures that you could color. It was meant for the kids, but guess who was quietly coloring? All of the adults! So I say that to say, I completely think there is something about coloring that relieves stress! Lol!
2:50 This is the realest thing that you have ever said! I greatly appreciate you saying this bc not many people do, as a mother and a wife, I have gone through stages where I only focused on motherhood/ my marriage… nothing else, and I swear I was the unhappiest at those times.
Creating and nurturing your own identity is not selfish ladies! Love yourself!
Allyiah you truly have been making me want to chase my RUclips journey. I do my own nails and people are always telling me to share my talent. I see your old videos and how you started a where you are now and to see the growth in quality makes me feel like yes I can start and and build to be great! So I’m going to start. You’re such an inspiration for women and black girls that you can just be yourself and that’s enough. From your yappin (I LOVE IT) your beliefs and you just being you!
I think we’re our own worst critics and watching your channel and how you have bloopers and meltdowns sometimes and you bare it all and it just shows that your human! We love that! You make your HOOCHIES SO PROUD OF YOU!!!
YOU GO GIRL! Please do it!! Thank you so much🥹🤍🤍
Thank you so much, Allyiah. I really enjoyed this video. Defo felt like I was having a chat with a close friend. I am going through a transformative stage in my life and also approaching 30 this year - your encouragement and not lowering standards really resonated with me. God bless you LiLi and keep shining xxx
So glad you enjoyed, you got this girl 🤍🫶🏽
All you’re chitchats are amazing, but THIS ONE? I absolutely adore, it really spoke to my current mood
This was a girls chat that I needed before my hike today yess this will be my 4th time going since last year and Change is good! I give credit where credit is due, you have gave me so much motivation since COVID!! Just know your chit chats can never go unnoticed!!!!♥️🌹♥️
Gurl your chit chats help me so much!!❤ I feel so much better about doing something today to help me mentally instead of waddling in negativity. So, just thank you, Allyiah!!! PERIOD!!!❤
Hi Allyiah, I just wanted to say that I enrolled in my first Spanish class partly because of you! Seeing you take Spanish reminded me that it’s something I’m interested in. I was trying to learn on DuoLingo but I reorganized my apps and since it wasn’t on my home screen I forgot about it LMAOOO. I have ADHD so if it’s out of sight, it’s out of mind LOLOL 😂😂 IM SO EXCITED! Imma start leaving comments in Spanish soon as I hit lesson 4 💀💀💀 sí
Omg I’m so excited for you!!!! Period!!! We got this boo! 😅❤
Hola!!!!! 😂😂😂😂
@ Hola! Como estas n shit!!! PERIOOOODDDD
I needed this chat it’s like a sis to sis convo moment. I’m learning to deal with people and I’ve always wondered why the ignorant situations keep happening.
I feel like when you’re content with who you are and really follow your own hobbies( for me running and fashion, which I will have on my channel) everything comes your way. Especially when you are okay being alone in your own presence
This is absolutely one of the best videos. I’ve watched and rewatch and take notes. Back watching again.
As a mom , I love that you have this insight !!! Keep doing things YOU like to do. Don't ever lose yourself..❤❤❤❤
Girl listening to you speak about discipline versus motivation really met me right where I am. Wow. Just goes to show we can all learn and gain knowledge from others no matter our stages in life 🫶🏽 looking forward to your upcoming routines videos.
Yessss! I’m glad it resonated with you 🫶🏽🤍
The relationship topic was so spot on I had to find balance while in a relationship
1000% on the whole dating advice! And as a mother, if you are dating to marry and have a family, know that your child could be exactly like your partner and if you can’t see yourself having literally a replica of your partner, they’re not the one!
Ive been watching you since we were in college together and I turn 30 next year and last year you really inspired to take a chance and bet on myself 100%, now im living a life bigger than the dreams that I had. It's so cool to see the progression through the years. Thank you, love you love your life
There is contentment in loneliness normally being lonely sprouts a beautifully pure version of self love♥️
Yes AllyiahsFace you said that…keep your cup full. You don’t even have to pour it out. People love you for just you being your best self ❤
Thank you for your comments on keeping one's individuality while in a relationship. I definitely needed to hear that.
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I’ve been watching you since I was a teenager. Life happened and now I’m married and a first time mom. All I can say is getting back into your videos has really had a positive affect on my life from going to college now to start my own vlogging journey. Of course I love my husband and my son but shifting my perspective as putting myself first has done me so much good. I’m happier in life which means I can give so much more to them as well. Thank you💓
Interesting talk. I think you touched on alot of really important topics without being cliche. I can see you're doing so much better than a year ago and you're very wise for still being relatively young and you look very healthy.
I love your all around discussion especially about your daily habits your weekly habits that you want to do. I already had a book and I wrote mine out what I'm going to do. I do procrastinate😮😮 sometimes. And one of my favorite things to see you do is Cook.❤❤
22:23 yassss I try to look presentable everyday while being on campus just to make me feel good, and plus you never know who you might run into.
You are 💯 right! 12 years of marriage and 3 kids later I realised I had totally lost my own identity - slowly getting back to me and have seen how much this has positively impacted my relationship as a mother, wife etc! Small things like reading again, looking after my health and physical appearance built my confidence back tremendously ❤🎉❤
🥹 you got this mama🤍
@@allyiahsface 🥰
IM HERE AND YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL IN YOUR BRAIDS
Thank you so much❤
In a really healthy and happy relationship but I needed this reminder!! We moved to a new city last June and I think I need to put myself out there a bit more and do my own things. Thanks for always being real w us 🩷
You got this bby! 💖
Just adding to the looking put together topic. All you said and having your clothes neat matters also. I buy matching sets that you can swope the tops and bottoms that fit you well and keep it neat. How things look on your body type matters. You will look put together. Reasonable price clothes can look expensive if made well and fit well on you.
And this is another reason why I love you! It’s just you and us girlies hanging out, and barely a man in sight. You’ve become such an inspiration for me to just enjoy myself with hobbies and traveling, or doing stuff with other girlfriends. // Thank you also for the dating advice, I’m 27 and just don’t want to settle out of desperation for getting older.❤❤❤
Me time is necessary for every person whether you’re in a relationship or married or have kids. I go on solo trips twice a year without my kids and husband and I encourage my husband to do so well. It’s necessary to do things that you enjoy without anyone. It’s healthy to enjoy your own time.
23:27 this is a great tip though, especially for the days where it feels hard to show up for yourself
Ahhh love Sunday nights! I can’t wait to watch while I blow dry my hair ❤ thank you beautiful and I’m so proud of how far you’ve come xx
Hope you enjoy thank you!’
Omg and good luck on your half marathon soon!!
Thank you so much! 🫶🏽🤍
Commenting on living in Dubai. I’ve been there before and it’s the CLEANEST PLACE IVE EVER SEEN IN MY LIFE!
as a 21 year old, navigating loses in relationships , platonic and romantic, this was so need. everyone wants young love and ive found i always get wrapped up in my partner and things go left.. But it was because Ive never poured sm into myself that the overflow i produce can go into others, instead of vice versa. I asked God for a message about this exact situation and I believe you delivered it!
This feels like slumber parties while vamping. I needed this sm
Girl you are preaching I love have you have grown and matured over the years
Yesss✨ as a woman it’s so EASY to get caught up in the day-to-day however we have to be super intentional about doing the things we love 🤍🤍🤍
“You don’t have to always just do do do for your partner, you could JUST BE”. 💯 Thanks Allyiah!
A man that expects that is probably insecure within himself and needs to work on himself.
I looooved this one. Especially when you talked about leaning into God when feeling lonely. I resonate. Thank you for sharing your voice 🤍
I’m so glad it resonated with you! 🤍
Wow. I felt personally attacked when the topic of discipline and not relying on motivation but just sitting up and doing the thing came up. lol Thank you for that, Sis. The message was right on time.
Why are you speaking directly to me girl? Especially the end! I’m an air sign too and had to learn last year to take off the rose colored glasses. 😩
Just when I thought it's been a minute since alliyah did a sit down chit chat then boom she posts
the beginning of this video was VERY gemini coded 😂 “and i ain’t gonna invite you in sorry” we love our alone time. birthday twin 🩷
Ooooo Discernment, I am literally learning this now. Had to realize just because they’re family don’t mean they won’t treat you foul..Love this chit chat beautiful ❤
the quality in this video is sooo good!! 🤩
When you said "It's a lesson learned but did you really have to learn that or go through that..." something between those lines and I felt it because I still regret something so dumb I did. I beat myself up because of that and you reminded me. I just hope one day I'll be able to just move on and forgive myself.
Don’t beat yourself up. Take accountability, and move forward. There is no need to punish yourself. You got this bby❤
Not me tryna find a matching sweats and a braider. You look stunning and no lies were told!
Girl, I needed this girl chat. You’re absolutely right, we know what we like and we often settle because of loneliness or that damn clock. Throw the clock out the window and wait for what you like and 🗣️ “be strict!” 🙌🏽🫶🏽
This was right on time. Been single for over 5 years and whew girl! Yeah. Love you so much for this reminder ❤
This was such a good chat Allyiah. Really appreciated it 💕
OOOO chile! A word!!! My hubby just asked me what do YOU like to do? What makes you happy? And I had no answer... this came right on time. I need to find myself again... I'm more than a wife!! Thank you head hoochie!!! 😊😊
I saw braids and immediately thought “a trip is coming”
Always love a girl chat video!! You always drop so many gems
I love you Alliyah is not stereotypical and stayed in places or positions she out grew it is so uplifting. And it’s so inspiring to see a woman of color and thriving and seeking the best.
any moms out there who are trying to get back to you: you're not a bad mom for having you time. you're not a bad mom for leaving the kids for an hour or 2 to pamper yourself or working out or whatever it is that makes you feel more like you. Don't lose yourself out of fear of being looked at as bad. signed: a mom trying to find herself again. ❤
My favorite show is on!! Happy Sunday! 🤍🤩
This chit chat felt like a therapy session. I love you and your authenticity 🫶🏾❤
Speak into us sis 🩵🗣️ I’m loving every bit of this. Even if you already know and believe what Alliyah is touching on in this video, WATCH AND LISTEN 🦋 just the reminder is good to hear
I love hearing you talk more about God. 💕
Ugh you’re so awesome! Thank you for being such a role model and absolute queen
Allyiah with the braids ! 😍
Period. We always ONTIME
Love that you learned all that before 30! Love that for you. Keep growing & sharing 🤍.
I agree about the decernment, girl. I learned of this late in my years in my mid 30's. I am now in my early 40's. I am living life my way no longer for others. You either going to love me or hate me😂 and I'm ok with that.
Thank you for discussing how society can shame humans for feeling lonely. In my line of work I think it’s so important that we discuss how we can combat loneliness. I see the results of not addressing loneliness everyday at work ❤
uhm yes to this feeling like a good needed therapy session! Girl you speak so well and what you say makes sense! Youre not just yapping to yap lol i love this ❤
You look beautiful, so many good gems ☺️💎 whenever your ready to launch your podcast (face 2 face) or whatever you decide to call it just know we are ready for the consistent yapping.🤍✨
This is why I love you girl!! Always so positive, authentic and dropping gems🫶🏽🫶🏽
Your content is always so refreshing. Probably only one of the only RUclipsrs I can fully watch ❤😂
The yapping really dropped some gems in here❤
I need this more than ever 🥺!! You gave great advice 🫶🏽
Great relationship advice! Don’t lose your individuality.
Motherhood is sooo true!! I lost myself with my first and finally got back to myself being me 12 yrs later had another and refused to let me go again!!! I will forever be ME …I’m also a mom and a girlfriend but I’ll never let me go!!
My dear you were not rambling or talking in circles. You spoke facts!
Take this from an older lady. Keep inspiring and encouraging others.
God bless you ❤
I love your channel as a single mother dating is on a pause. From motherhood to my career, health, projects I haven’t even gotten to really go out and Date my self on a regular! I know when I work on myself it will attract my soul mate because I’m focus on my self love and a solid foundation.
I say give me a few more years lol I’m 30! Sheesh 😂.
100 true, I'm 50 yrs young, I have a 27 and 17 year old kids and 2 grandchildren. Also started a new relationship of 5ys. I have lost myself as a mom, now my son is graduating, I have to learn to be me again. Watching you has helped, but I'm still finding me and voice. ❤ thank for the inspiration ❤