"You're just a boyfriend, not my husband"😳😲!|| Relationships & Besties|| ft Tobiloba n Ayomide🥰

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  • Опубликовано: 8 янв 2025

Комментарии • 67

  • @realtor_ayodeji
    @realtor_ayodeji 11 месяцев назад +2

    Setting of boundaries is a good start just as you said, late night conversations should reduce. It might not totally stop following the words of Ayomide "he's just your bf not husband."
    Then we should always remember that besties are besties because they've been there for eachother through thick and thin, so i don't expect them to just put a stop to it just like that.

    • @oluwaseyivictoryagbato
      @oluwaseyivictoryagbato  11 месяцев назад

      Hmmmm! Your second paragraph got me sighing deep. That's actually true. They've been there the whole while. It would all make sense if there's a balance to it.
      But telling your bf that he's just a bf and not your husband though?! 😭😭😭
      The boy fit craze o!
      😂

  • @adegbiteabigail7227
    @adegbiteabigail7227 11 месяцев назад +1

    My two cents is that the bestie sef should already be in the know from the talking stage (for an existing bestie). So you don’t start feeling “betrayed”

    • @oluwaseyivictoryagbato
      @oluwaseyivictoryagbato  11 месяцев назад

      Oro!!! But plot twist, what if the bestie's bestie goan shenk him(most definitely 😂) and the bestie didn't know until wedding proposal nko?

  • @rawcodes
    @rawcodes 11 месяцев назад +1

    Firstly, seeing you guys makes me reaffirm the fact that descent is beautiful.
    Secondly, there's no male bestie that doesn't want to chop you. whatever that means..
    Finally, your video is really nice.

  • @ayokunnumicaleb2002
    @ayokunnumicaleb2002 11 месяцев назад

    😀😀association of besties too should take caution. Very good topic and explanation from the ladies. Your submissions are awesome and true

  • @marvellousoluwagbogoloba6398
    @marvellousoluwagbogoloba6398 11 месяцев назад

    Understanding is a Necessity by each partner. Setting priorities matters too.
    It was an interesting and fun conversation, i enjoyed it Mama!💜

  • @realtor_ayodeji
    @realtor_ayodeji 11 месяцев назад

    First of all, i feel you can create a mutual connection between them (your partner and bestie). Make your bestie your partner's friend. Might be hard though but you can still try and not make it seems like a secret relationship with your bestie. The probability of it working is slim also.

    • @oluwaseyivictoryagbato
      @oluwaseyivictoryagbato  11 месяцев назад

      Yessss!!!
      True!
      Even right from the talking stage.
      But you know in this bestie-ship thing, one person(at least) dey always catch feelings😭.
      This thing hard.

  • @01Mofe_Ade
    @01Mofe_Ade 11 месяцев назад

    Setting boundaries is definitely important 💯.

  • @FavourOripelaye
    @FavourOripelaye 11 месяцев назад

    If you have best friend of a opposite sex before you get committed, you and your best friend should give yourself brain and know that there is now someone else in the picture so of course you start to set boundaries immediately. No more unnecessary attachment, but of course you can still remain friends but your partner has to be comfortable with whatever friendship you are now in so he/she doesn't feel like they have to compete

  • @aderonkeajuwon5959
    @aderonkeajuwon5959 11 месяцев назад

    Having best friend of the opposite gender outside of a relationship, where there's underlying feeling for them, or them for you is detrimental to the health of the ongoing relationship. If you don't want to respond to the feelings of the best friend because you in love with your current relationship, then make them know, and set the obstacle, gbam.

  • @the21st_sounds
    @the21st_sounds 11 месяцев назад

    Finally, SAVA joins this conversation... ❤❤

  • @akinlabidavid1359
    @akinlabidavid1359 11 месяцев назад

    Hmm, this conversation sha. Dont do what you cannot take.

  • @toluwalopegrace2215
    @toluwalopegrace2215 10 месяцев назад

    Well for me, so far your bestie has found me, your relationship yaff finish o, aunty come and be going o😅

  • @MOlanitori
    @MOlanitori 11 месяцев назад

    he's my bestie. leee to the ma oooo😂

  • @ayomidebenjamen2526
    @ayomidebenjamen2526 11 месяцев назад

    love the comboooo

  • @TheMondayFolaranmi
    @TheMondayFolaranmi 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hmmm
    Nice.

  • @ayomidebenjamen2526
    @ayomidebenjamen2526 11 месяцев назад

    Marry your bestie, simple, to avoid drama. Ofcourse there are some situations that with strict adherence to boundary rules and sincerity, they are good to go, but not everyone can do it, if he can do it, can his bestie do it..if not say bye bye to each other and focus on your woman, this goes for both sex btw

    • @oluwaseyivictoryagbato
      @oluwaseyivictoryagbato  11 месяцев назад

      Simple but not simple too o😭😂.
      There's an issue of what if the relationship doesn't work out, we may not be able to go back to being friends as we've "crossed the line", do you get?
      So, some actually prefer to retain the friendship so as not to lose on both ends if the relationship doesn't work out.

    • @ayomidebenjamen2526
      @ayomidebenjamen2526 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@oluwaseyivictoryagbato then one of the partners or both are not ready for a committed relationship, lol. Like i said to avoid stress, that bestie that you adore so much, marry am and save people's son and daughters from unnecessary wahala.

    • @oluwaseyivictoryagbato
      @oluwaseyivictoryagbato  11 месяцев назад

      I stan a man wey sabi wetin hin want! lol! staying with your school of thought still. I can't agree less, actually.

  • @adegbiteabigail7227
    @adegbiteabigail7227 11 месяцев назад

    I support Sisi Tobi. You can’t comman take me away from my friends because we want to do love love

  • @akanbioluwaseyi9986
    @akanbioluwaseyi9986 11 месяцев назад

    Your bestie should respect himself/herself from the moment he/she figures out that you are in love with another.

  • @olajumokeakinola
    @olajumokeakinola 10 месяцев назад

    "Bestieship" should exist within your gender. Setting boundaries for your bestie? Ko le work😅. Besties are very anyhow people (in a good and annoying way 😂😂😂😂)
    Friendship ti wa ok for the opposite gender.

    • @oluwaseyivictoryagbato
      @oluwaseyivictoryagbato  10 месяцев назад

      It's the besties are anyhow people for me actually!
      🤣
      Thank you mama.

  • @bejideelizabeth5193
    @bejideelizabeth5193 11 месяцев назад

    Interesting

  • @dotunthecreator
    @dotunthecreator 11 месяцев назад

    Ahh Emmanuel 😢.

    • @oluwaseyivictoryagbato
      @oluwaseyivictoryagbato  11 месяцев назад

      That's the only thing Dotun got out of an entire 13 minutes video!!! I'm officially tired of you😭😂.

    • @dotunthecreator
      @dotunthecreator 11 месяцев назад

      @@oluwaseyivictoryagbato 😂 I got other things too. Buh Emmanuel I stand with you

    • @adegbiteabigail7227
      @adegbiteabigail7227 11 месяцев назад

      You people had to bring Emma into this. Justice for Emmanuel please🌚

    • @rufaifatimoh4839
      @rufaifatimoh4839 11 месяцев назад

      Justice for Emmanuel ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

    • @oluwaseyivictoryagbato
      @oluwaseyivictoryagbato  11 месяцев назад

      you wee stand na! shebi iss you!!!

  • @idowuoluwatofunmi8835
    @idowuoluwatofunmi8835 11 месяцев назад

    Don't have bestie. Simple as ABC.

  • @abrahamayomide2310
    @abrahamayomide2310 11 месяцев назад

    At this point, I choose the Lord.😔

  • @dotunthecreator
    @dotunthecreator 11 месяцев назад

    Bestiee? Because of why ah ah

  • @davidoyeleyeglobal
    @davidoyeleyeglobal 11 месяцев назад

    Why is the lady in the middle looking or smiling like she is forced to be on the show. 😂

  • @OluwaferanmiADEWOJO
    @OluwaferanmiADEWOJO 10 месяцев назад

    Wait o So people Don't date there besties 😮😮😮😮
    I thought your partner is meant to be your bestfriend

  • @Murimi-s7g
    @Murimi-s7g 10 месяцев назад

    How can I contact you

  • @toluwalopegrace2215
    @toluwalopegrace2215 10 месяцев назад

    Well for me, so far your bestie has found me, your relationship yaff finish o, aunty come and be going o😅