a day in my life in quarantine *alone in nyc*

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  • Опубликовано: 7 май 2020
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    Hello and welcome to my quarantine zone. In this chill vlog I show you a day in my life in quarantine alone in New York City and chat about all the emotions / anxieties / phases I’ve been having the past couple months. I try to stay busy and somewhat productive by painting, decorating my apartment, baking, doing laundry, and playing way too much Animal Crossing.
    ✰ OUTFIT ✰
    cami: cynthia rowley (cynthiarowley.com/products/ma...)
    hoop earrings: mejuri (youtube.mejuri.com/bestdressed)
    jeans: reformation (bit.ly/2YFqgWh)
    black sandals (bit.ly/3cnxse1)
    scarf i used as a face mask: thrifted
    window crystals ➭ amzn.to/2XqVsYU
    paints i used: himi gouache jelly set ➭ amzn.to/2A6vzE8
    ♫ MUSIC ♫
    off the wall by dan universe
    talk by henry hall (spoti.fi/3cgESzF)
    you (ft. geoffrey underwood) by wyattjmoran
    canada ft. alessia cara by lauv (spoti.fi/2yyRG5G)
    didn’t i by esbe ( / didnt-i )
    warm for the winter by middle school x aso
    modern loneliness by lauv (spoti.fi/2WxUB6v)
    special thanks to lauv for allowing me to use his music ♡
    his latest album: lauv.lnk.to/howimfeeling
    ✰ FAQ ✰
    what’s your name? ashley
    what’s your instagram? @best.dressed
    how old are you? 22 (born in 1998)
    how tall are you? 5'5"
    what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese
    what equipment do you use to film?
    ➭ main camera: panasonic lumix gh5s (amzn.to/2Nb0W1z)
    ➭ 12-35mm lens (amzn.to/2JiSrz7)
    ➭ mic: rode videomic pro+ (amzn.to/2QHfZBU)
    ➭ vlog camera: canon powershot g7x mark ii (amzn.to/2DfL4cZ)
    ➭ canon m50 (amzn.to/2Dp1bnk)
    ➭ editing: final cut pro
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Комментарии • 16 тыс.

  • @katyanaa
    @katyanaa 4 года назад +4713

    Ashley’s a single girl living in an apartment by herself with no pets in nyc, with her famiy being miles and miles away. She copes with it well, and that’s very inspiring.

    • @emericcson123
      @emericcson123 4 года назад +61

      captainmello I did it for like 2 weeks in NYC before having to move back to CA and woof it nearly broke me. Idk how she’s done it this long 😳

    • @TraderRobin
      @TraderRobin 4 года назад +41

      Ashley must have a LOT of battery powered vibrating toys!

    • @elielelwy
      @elielelwy 4 года назад +20

      She’s nOT SINGLE lol look at her fridge

    • @katyanaa
      @katyanaa 4 года назад +8

      Lilly ? She made a vid about being single late feb.

    • @Vidaluz09
      @Vidaluz09 4 года назад +26

      captainmello LOOK AT THE FRIDGE 15:57 👀 plus she said someone she likes recently visited her in NYC from LA

  • @isabellenatalya
    @isabellenatalya 4 года назад +14792

    Why does that fact that this girl on the internet talking to me from her shower feels so normal

    • @LaurenLiz
      @LaurenLiz 4 года назад +356

      RIGHT?! She makes it just feel okay in a way haha. If I did this I would be very fearful of a nipple "malfunction" with the curtain though...

    • @bongiubon
      @bongiubon 4 года назад +31

      Isabelle Natalya and i dont hate it

    • @verlorendot
      @verlorendot 4 года назад +12

      So true :-D, it's magic %).

    • @isabellenatalya
      @isabellenatalya 4 года назад +9

      Nam Phương. Oh my god yeah no it’s the coolest !

    • @isabellenatalya
      @isabellenatalya 4 года назад +5

      Lauren Liz hahah cutttt

  • @gulantaha9941
    @gulantaha9941 3 года назад +2790

    am I the only one who comes back to rewatch Ashley's old videos just because they motivate me and I miss seeing her on youtube

    • @generalexcuse
      @generalexcuse 3 года назад +37

      what I hv been doing for the last 3 hours

    • @clairebeane3455
      @clairebeane3455 2 года назад +15

      You are not alone friend. ❤️❤️

    • @loidhive
      @loidhive 2 года назад +6

      same!

    • @Oppsie_Loopsy
      @Oppsie_Loopsy 2 года назад +1

      Bruhh

    • @yunji3356
      @yunji3356 2 года назад +24

      i will literally have phases where i’m obsessed with ashley’s videos and cannot stop watching them

  • @iqraisnothere4868
    @iqraisnothere4868 3 года назад +6337

    I feel like I’m on the safe side of RUclips where we’re all just friends

  • @kacydeyoe9764
    @kacydeyoe9764 4 года назад +4322

    I don’t think Ashley realizes how many people she just helped by sharing her experience. Thankyou :)

    • @hanamirzana1238
      @hanamirzana1238 4 года назад +4

      Kacy Deyoe ikr omg

    • @brooklynbound0
      @brooklynbound0 4 года назад +12

      For real! I see myself in her so much and she inspired me and gave me a sense of hope. I struggle with depression and quarantine hasn’t been helping with that either.. but finding out about her channel and her videos made me feel like I can do it, becoming a freelance photographer and videographer. She really does help people 💕

    • @cuthbertmills5972
      @cuthbertmills5972 4 года назад +1

      yes

    • @silasnew15
      @silasnew15 3 года назад

      Facts!

    • @valeriamariatorres-nieves8995
      @valeriamariatorres-nieves8995 3 года назад

      I was thinking the exact same thing. She put into words what a lot of us have been feeling during this whole process. I really appreciate this realistic a authentic content. Lots of love and support for y'all from Puerto Rico!

  • @leahlovell2138
    @leahlovell2138 4 года назад +3788

    Ashley should start a podcast. Like holy shit, she’s so good at like simple conversation and it would be really interesting to see all of her opinions on everyday things and stuff like that.

  • @josie6874
    @josie6874 3 года назад +5444

    Ashley, your job is not pointless. I actually had a pretty rough evening and I came back to rewatch this video. And it made me feel better.

    • @summerkay8519
      @summerkay8519 3 года назад +41

      omg literally me rn haha this video made me feel so much better

    • @erinhudson4541
      @erinhudson4541 3 года назад +28

      literally ive rewatched this so many times and it just makes me feel so happy and calm 🪴

    • @jetsantos1409
      @jetsantos1409 3 года назад +17

      I thought I was d only one re-watching this whenever I have a down days during fckn pandemic. Hope yall doing fine now like I do!

    • @AdrienneHartLifestyleJunkie
      @AdrienneHartLifestyleJunkie 3 года назад +7

      I love this comment. Saw it before even hitting play. Brought a tear to my eye.
      Never emotional like this....wtf?!

    • @eli_kampa
      @eli_kampa 3 года назад +1

      Same rn

  • @zihanlin1639
    @zihanlin1639 3 года назад +3955

    i don’t think ashley knows how many of our lives she has touched and how many of our worlds have been transformed by her

  • @micheller0918
    @micheller0918 4 года назад +6220

    The fact that Lauv gave Ashley rights to use his music without being copyright striked.. it’s AMAZING WAOW LOOK AT OUR GIRL

    • @danielamont858
      @danielamont858 4 года назад +244

      That's because Lauv is love ❤

    • @st3phanie_tran
      @st3phanie_tran 4 года назад +194

      and thats why we stan lauv 💙

    • @LekhaPReddy
      @LekhaPReddy 4 года назад +81

      iconic tbh

    • @josiesigel284
      @josiesigel284 4 года назад +68

      Michelle Liu I was just about to comment... when Canada by Lauv came on I-

    • @putritiara4606
      @putritiara4606 4 года назад +20

      I thought the same thing!!

  • @manosison
    @manosison 4 года назад +3543

    This feels like we’re in a sleepover but it’s the next day

    • @hahahamaxine
      @hahahamaxine 4 года назад +56

      kian sison omg the accuracy of this

    • @HT-cq5nn
      @HT-cq5nn 4 года назад +11

      Exactly what i was thinking 😂

    • @aubreys7549
      @aubreys7549 4 года назад +40

      how did you come up with this and why is it accurate-

    • @st4rboy26
      @st4rboy26 4 года назад +3

      omfg relate

    • @lizijohnson855
      @lizijohnson855 4 года назад

      kittercontrolbblove.link/Uu_RrSb43iwh

  • @aercce
    @aercce 3 года назад +1597

    throwback to when ashley’s sink wasn’t makeup storage

  • @iluvniley4ever1234
    @iluvniley4ever1234 2 года назад +450

    pov: its 2022, the pandemic is still ongoing, and you miss ashley's videos so you keep going back to her old videos to rewatch them cus they bring you comfort

    • @ovalday9739
      @ovalday9739 2 года назад +14

      yes, i still keep watching her vlog while wondering she comeback to youtube :( i miss her like soooo much

    • @estherlise
      @estherlise 2 года назад +13

      Same this video actually made me cry, but in a good way, I fell like she captures the felling of the pandemic perfectly. And seing her being so vunerable, and just herself in her videos makes me so happy, and I really admire her bravery. She is just inconic💕

    • @gabbym333
      @gabbym333 2 года назад +12

      @@estherlise It's strange watching this video, filmed right when the pandemic started. Two years into the pandemic and there has been so much lost. It makes me sad thinking of what the world was like before all of this started.

    • @Alex-wy6hx
      @Alex-wy6hx Год назад +1

      yes that’s me

    • @rinseventeen203
      @rinseventeen203 Год назад

      Me rn

  • @izzyfrost647
    @izzyfrost647 4 года назад +4898

    I’ve just realised after like 2+ years of following her what makes Ashley’s videos so good, especially her vlogs - she manages to make ordinary life look both real and idyllic. her content reminds me of a studio ghibli film, romanticising the little things in her life and making me want to do ordinary things because it looks so comforting and peaceful. I really value that 💗

    • @margoelizabethmiller
      @margoelizabethmiller 4 года назад +25

      Well said, Izzy!

    • @priscillavaldez5759
      @priscillavaldez5759 4 года назад +78

      her ability to see beauty in the little things yet also be like "what's the point of life" is really inspiring lmao

    • @sumaiyasamina
      @sumaiyasamina 4 года назад +16

      this comment is so spot on

    • @cad4345
      @cad4345 4 года назад +3

      omg so truee!! xx

    • @AP-jz1eh
      @AP-jz1eh 4 года назад +31

      i just discovered her the other day and i like how humble and self-aware she is. i also think her honesty and openness about her thoughts and feelings is refreshing, and it makes her relate-able, cause a lot of people actual are thinking and feeling similar things. i just see a lot of her thoughts and feelings mirrored in myself

  • @nillawaferr
    @nillawaferr 4 года назад +1580

    ashley literally just chillin in the shower having a whole conversation with us about a centipede🥺 love the energy
    edit: love you angels these are hard times so stay strong

  • @user-so7nd5zl2b
    @user-so7nd5zl2b 3 года назад +570

    This is like my comfort video. Everytime i feel messed up i come back to this

    • @moonee12
      @moonee12 3 года назад +16

      literally what I'm doing rn

    • @ardenr3533
      @ardenr3533 3 года назад +15

      me too! literally my favorite video of hers because its so raw and real (and i've seen every one of her videos so that's saying a lot)

    • @ang3lbunny
      @ang3lbunny 2 года назад +1

      same!

    • @han6061
      @han6061 3 месяца назад

      YUea...

  • @the12thstar55
    @the12thstar55 3 года назад +1021

    "Sometimes I lose my zest for life and I'm trying to get it back." This hit so hard. For a while now, I've been thinking that somehow I have this innate flaw, or was always bound to creatively 'peak' too early. I look back at my writing and the way I captured my ideas when I was younger and there is so much more vibrancy to the, as If I had a zeal that I somehow now lost. Feels good to know I am not the only one to feel like this from time to time. thank you.

    • @mirandachen8189
      @mirandachen8189 3 года назад +19

      this is so real!! as a writer i completely get this, it's so hard to feel like you have somehow lost a part of you that you can't express. i hope you are able to find that passion again. have an amazing day

    • @toasterbath6997
      @toasterbath6997 3 года назад +3

      Same here, makes me feel sad:(

    • @KitCat898
      @KitCat898 Год назад

      I’m a writer and I couldn’t agree more. Now I’m a copywriter for a living so I feel like I lost my voice. It sucks.

  • @cheyennedomingo1161
    @cheyennedomingo1161 4 года назад +19422

    just realized that ashley is the main character in an indie coming of age movie

    • @karenjaranilla9615
      @karenjaranilla9615 4 года назад +324

      Cheyenne Domingo i just watched the half of it, and the director herself described ellie chu as “the protagonist that doesn’t even know it”! i highly recommend it :)

    • @168KDW
      @168KDW 4 года назад +21

      What movie? Movie 🍿

    • @sophiafrary3019
      @sophiafrary3019 4 года назад +51

      MIATAMA2 not literally

    • @skyz6239
      @skyz6239 4 года назад +131

      i feel like she is playing that role too in her own lil movie that is her vlogs, she is a film major after all

    • @168KDW
      @168KDW 4 года назад +15

      I’ll definitely go and watch if she is on shows or movie maybe sex and the city 2020 🌃 ✨💃

  • @leah6855
    @leah6855 4 года назад +4652

    This vlog felt like facetiming a friend

    • @Giulia-zx2ki
      @Giulia-zx2ki 4 года назад +107

      It felt like facetiming a friend but much more aesthetic

    • @sharkbait8309
      @sharkbait8309 4 года назад +21

      @@Giulia-zx2ki What I want to achieve in life 😂

    • @toasterbath6997
      @toasterbath6997 3 года назад +2

      Ya :)

  • @shelyndionne
    @shelyndionne 3 года назад +397

    This is truly a cinematic masterpiece, I laughed, I cried, reflected a lil bit. You are truly talented

  • @vonschweetz4492
    @vonschweetz4492 3 года назад +331

    I don't know why, or maybe I know but just not how to put it into words, but that scene on the ending, when she was baking cookies, dancing and singing along, changing her sheets, with her thoughts at the bottom, and the song's lyrics being clearly heard---that hit differently. I felt that.

  • @voltz9641
    @voltz9641 4 года назад +2407

    I’m a guy and I know that like 99% of her audience is female and I’m obviously not interested in all the “girl things”. I just feel like her vlogs are so comforting and as a big introvert the kind of things she talks about are really relatable like the “grinding the jaw” and the other introvert things that she talks about like at the fashion show and being really exhausted talking to people. Watching her videos might not be very “masculine” but I hope that people understand and agree with why they watch her. I’ve been thinking about it a lot but a feel like we need to break this sterotype of guys needing to not talk about things like this and never opening up or doing anything emotional. Breaking this sterotype could help so many things like the high suicide rates in young men and a lot of mental health issues overall. If you’ve read this, thanks and please don’t judge me for watching.😂😊

    • @ralizaguanlao
      @ralizaguanlao 4 года назад +189

      Voltz this is so wholesome and yes of course! best dressed content is for everyone and anyone who watches her should be against toxic masculinity. watch what u want and what makes u happy :)

    • @cara4369
      @cara4369 4 года назад +27

      @@ralizaguanlao I agree 100%

    • @nissi5522
      @nissi5522 4 года назад +79

      We love vulnerability here ❤️

    • @jayshree9037
      @jayshree9037 4 года назад +75

      No way we will judge.
      I watch her videos for her not for fashion

    • @w3jd4n
      @w3jd4n 4 года назад +33

      you go boy!

  • @myatnoepaing21
    @myatnoepaing21 4 года назад +10431

    this Channel is not just best dressed anymore, it's best expressed..

  • @Sarah-rv6pf
    @Sarah-rv6pf 9 месяцев назад +18

    pov: we are heading towards the end of 2023 and you are not really sure if the last three years really happened or if it was just a strange dream, but you find yourself missing Ashley's videos, so you go on an hours-long binge because her videos make you feel cozy and understood.

    • @everuby1438
      @everuby1438 7 месяцев назад

      Exactly what I'm doing too!

  • @wendymatthews757
    @wendymatthews757 3 года назад +94

    I am a 54 year old living with a husband and 3 kids (one home from college) and although my life is so very different from yours, I can totally relate with your emotions. The pandemic, whether with family or not has been truly stressful and life changing for everyone. Awesome video. I can’t believe I’ve been binge watching you. Your delightful.

  • @charliebob27
    @charliebob27 4 года назад +2076

    my mom died almost three years ago and one of her fav things was her lil rainbow crystal she would hang our sunniest window. every time she could, she would stand there twirling it and looking at all the rainbows it cast into our house. we lost her crystal when we moved out of our house, but this vid reminded me of those little rainbows she loved so much, and i already ordered two for myself and my siblings. thank you for this special little reminder

    • @idkaboutyoutubenames9849
      @idkaboutyoutubenames9849 4 года назад +54

      Rest In Peace, I hope that you try to maintain your happiness even with the circumstances 💗 take care of yourself

    • @aishwaryakhajuria
      @aishwaryakhajuria 4 года назад +28

      I wish she's resting in peace. ☘️☘️ this comment was so sweet, ur nice☘️

    • @annmaria988
      @annmaria988 4 года назад +7

      Hope you are feeling fine

    • @leo-rs3cj
      @leo-rs3cj 4 года назад +11

      May your mother rest in peace💗

    • @stevethea5250
      @stevethea5250 4 года назад +1

      @@idkaboutyoutubenames9849 what's her mix?

  • @nicolequintero4349
    @nicolequintero4349 4 года назад +578

    That one part where Ashley is in the shower and we’re her friend just keeping her company in the bathroom.. reminds me of my childhood friendships.

    • @fannibarat6276
      @fannibarat6276 4 года назад +4

      Nicole Quintero yes! Also it reminded me of summer camps

    • @rebeccabrodkey
      @rebeccabrodkey 4 года назад +1

      Nicole Quintero hahaha yes such good times 😭

    • @mariaduran158
      @mariaduran158 4 года назад

      You’re right! I really miss that

  • @nidhipanicker1695
    @nidhipanicker1695 2 года назад +38

    I am watching this 2022 and now looking at a 20 something girl staying alone at home and finding joy in baking cookies and singing along to old playlists makes me tear up... because even though the pandemic has calmed down... I still relate to this video. Nothing much has changed, everyone's still lonely, life is fucked up and the pandemic just helped us to realize all of that... I love you Ashley and I hope you are happier

  • @uhcallie
    @uhcallie 3 года назад +65

    i don't know why but this video just gives me so much comfort. like every time everything gets really hard and just too much i watch this video and i always feel better at least for those 20 minutes :)

  • @hani6183
    @hani6183 4 года назад +1690

    ashley feels like a warm friend that everyone needs

    • @arielk2955
      @arielk2955 4 года назад +3

      hey hanina jimineee

    • @lia-rh7qj
      @lia-rh7qj 4 года назад +1

      At some point when she smiled wide when she was doing her make up, she looked like Jungkook lol

    • @hani6183
      @hani6183 4 года назад +2

      hi ARMYs 💜

  • @dkh-pt5ml
    @dkh-pt5ml 4 года назад +1809

    i just love how open and comfortable ashley is with her viewers,, she’s always talking seriously about how she feels and what’s going on in her head with no filter just the whole truth,,, and it makes me see her not as a relatable youtuber on the internet but as real human being just like everyone else,,, which is so hard regarding other creators

    • @nicholasmitchell6025
      @nicholasmitchell6025 4 года назад +4

      en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parasocial_interaction?wprov=sfla1
      Edit for clarity: Please don't get so wrapped up in fake relationships that you forget to take care of your real life. RUclips prioritizes content creators who try to build these kinds of "relationships" because they keep you on the platform, and most youtubers just create the kind of content they want, completely oblivious to the harm they're causing. So please take care of yourself and look for relationships in the real world! ☺️

    • @debbieyedez1838
      @debbieyedez1838 4 года назад

      Christ alive u are like the people who think they know everything about a person just by watching their vids, and if the killed someone you would be fine lmaoo

    • @nicholasmitchell6025
      @nicholasmitchell6025 4 года назад +4

      @@debbieyedez1838 Christ alive you are like the people who are so disgusting they create a RUclips channel just to make a nasty comment lmaoo

    • @sonnyburgess2510
      @sonnyburgess2510 4 года назад +1

      She is just talking to herself.

    • @andingatacho9262
      @andingatacho9262 4 года назад

      Yeah. Fap now already.

  • @roseclark2232
    @roseclark2232 3 года назад +69

    the people in the apartment who were saying hi to their friends is making me cry, we were so pure then

  • @claregraveline5757
    @claregraveline5757 3 года назад +79

    shes such a main character

  • @billnyetherussianspy3489
    @billnyetherussianspy3489 4 года назад +3147

    How is it that every word out of her mouth is relatable and is consequently comforting? Her videos are the only ones I watch all the way through without skipping. I'm literally sad when they end lmao, only Ashley, I swear.

    • @stephv1563
      @stephv1563 4 года назад +22

      Bill Nye the Russian Spy she is wise beyond her years

    • @tombbbb_raid26
      @tombbbb_raid26 4 года назад +4

      Same..🥺

    • @sabrinagriffiths2612
      @sabrinagriffiths2612 4 года назад +2

      Dude same

    • @priyarajeswari716
      @priyarajeswari716 4 года назад +2

      exactly how i feel🥺

    • @743d43ladyfae
      @743d43ladyfae 4 года назад +13

      Bill Nye the Russian Spy she’s got the charm that makes you want to sit through 25 min ad

  • @angelinacortez3762
    @angelinacortez3762 4 года назад +1909

    I felt like her best friend when she was talking in the shower

    • @tristaishmael3464
      @tristaishmael3464 4 года назад +9

      Right? Like that is def something my best friends and I have done while getting ready at each other's houses ❤️

    • @lilianavelasco6835
      @lilianavelasco6835 4 года назад +2

      Same 🥺💗

    • @awkwardukulelegirl1757
      @awkwardukulelegirl1757 4 года назад +3

      That's the dream lmao Ashley's awesome

    • @annejia5382
      @annejia5382 4 года назад

      Same girl same. Like a roommate actually. Chatting together the first thing in the morning.

  • @Hest4
    @Hest4 Год назад +24

    It’s weird 2 years later how this makes me miss quarantine somehow. I miss the world being slowed down, it feels like it’s accelerating even faster than before now. Careful what you wish for I guess.

  • @nefetei4869
    @nefetei4869 3 года назад +180

    Ok in a few years when people start making movies about this period of time, I definitely can see a lot of this in one. Like when you were doing the 7pm cheer. I don’t know why but that was so emotional.

    • @lilawebster1838
      @lilawebster1838 3 года назад +9

      same man ok tho during her walk through the city and seeing those people wave to there friends I started getting TEARY

  • @notirina8926
    @notirina8926 4 года назад +974

    When Ashley said, “Sometimes I lose my zest for life and I’m trying to get it back”, I felt that

    • @HUDSONVINTAGE
      @HUDSONVINTAGE 4 года назад

      Yup

    • @chachangx
      @chachangx 4 года назад +9

      that last line literally made me cry. i feel you, ashley

    • @Marcelasmt
      @Marcelasmt 4 года назад

      so relatable

    • @alyssazhang4313
      @alyssazhang4313 4 года назад +6

      When life forgets to give you lemons

    • @megslaver
      @megslaver 4 года назад +2

      Same, the end made me weirdly emotional. Also been thinking about the past a lot lately

  • @koayxinying8088
    @koayxinying8088 4 года назад +787

    the "sometimes I lose my zest for life and I'm trying to get it back" is literally what I've been struggling with for 2 years. For the past two years til now, I feel like I'm not really alive. Time just passes by while I watch it. Even when something exciting happens in my life I spend the whole time stressing myself out by trying to "live in the moment" and end up not enjoying anything. It's a real struggle and it's very comforting to see that I'm not the only one struggling with this c':

    • @vhehl698
      @vhehl698 4 года назад +9

      You're definitely not alone with this! I struggle with it too, but it's become better when I set myself a goal and I achieved it :)

    • @marilynalberto6257
      @marilynalberto6257 4 года назад +2

      same here

    • @Rain-sw1vf
      @Rain-sw1vf 4 года назад +8

      The past has gone and there is nothing we can do about it except let it go. We often remind ourselves or are reminded by others how we haven't been productive in the past but always remember everyday is a new day and every new day is a new opportunity. If you miss a subway you take the another one. But before anything forgive yourself for the past and heal. It's never too late to start. You might think life is too short to be taking time for yourself but life doesn't have be long it needs to be big and you can make it big on your terms and at your own speed. Even when you are stuck you are very much alive, just take the time to rest. Don't be so hard on yourself. Sending love your way.

    • @alisonlee4386
      @alisonlee4386 4 года назад +2

      omg same something amazing and fun is happening and i don't enjoy it....

    • @cassiegreen3844
      @cassiegreen3844 4 года назад +3

      @@alisonlee4386 same, it's like a permanent state of dissosociating

  • @rue_cifer
    @rue_cifer Год назад +15

    this video is so homey and cozy i always come back to it when im stressed or unsure about life. ashley is such a wonderful person. i would take a lego to the foot to be her friend

  • @macarenaugalde9915
    @macarenaugalde9915 9 месяцев назад +9

    everytime i watch this video i get smacked in the face with nostalgia. Brings me back to when i would stay in my room and paint with your videos in the background during quarantine. please post again ashley ❤. your videos made such a huge impact on me

  • @HTNPSullivan
    @HTNPSullivan 4 года назад +1897

    I've been alone in quarantine 51 days by myself because of recent heart surgery and an autoimmune condition. If I get sick, I'll probably die. People have been so helpful with grocery shopping and picking up my RX, but they never stay more than one minute - even if we're both wearing masks and are more than 12 feet apart.
    I walk my dog and so I see other humans, but I don't have face-to-face conversations. It's really getting to me and today is my birthday. I've invited my friends - and everyone on Facebook who sees my posts -- to drive up and honk or wave at me. I've also asked for someone to bring me a balloon.
    Initially, since I live on the second floor of a two-family house (nobody lives downstairs now), I thought I might throw cake at people who come to wish me Happy Birthday (I am 66 today), but then thought that might come across as hostile. So instead, I've made a big colorful sign that says, "It's My Birt'day" and I'll just wave during my calling hours, which will be noon to 2 p.m. (it's freakin' freezing here in Connecticut).
    I had to laugh about what Ashley says about showering. I have a piece of paper taped to my bathroom wall so I can check and see when is the last time I showered. I can kind of tell by how gross my hair gets. My record without a shower so far is 10 days - eeewwwww.
    But usually I shower the morning of my phone-call appointment with my therapist, which is once a week. Because we can see each other, I also put on makeup, earrings and a fresh outfit. Otherwise, I find it difficult to put any effort into my appearance.
    But listening to Ashley, I feel like I want to shower and dress up every day from now on, because it might help me from going completely bonkers. Once it actually turns into Spring, I think I will wear only dresses - I have a LOT. And hats (also have a LOT).
    Ashley, as always, I find your honesty very refreshing. Thank you for making these videos.

    • @oo3006
      @oo3006 4 года назад +117

      Happy birthday.
      Sending you a virtual hug from the UK.

    • @hifromthestudio
      @hifromthestudio 4 года назад +68

      Happy birthday!!!

    • @jessicaochale9951
      @jessicaochale9951 4 года назад +16

      Happy Birthday!

    • @aleksandraa9977
      @aleksandraa9977 4 года назад +15

      HTNPSullivan happy birthday!!:)

    • @abenaa3350
      @abenaa3350 4 года назад +17

      Happy Birthday !! Sending some love from Vancouver Canada 🇨🇦

  • @sofiag863
    @sofiag863 4 года назад +406

    anyone else appreciate the small cinematic clips of her filming herself through a mirror like when she was picking out clothes and getting ready?? also i feel like ashley is a girl in a coming of age film the way she edits her videos 🥺

    • @allgy07
      @allgy07 4 года назад +3

      I love how she is with her audience she's honest wi th her audience and shit I support where ever she goes

    • @biborkabatki6320
      @biborkabatki6320 4 года назад +1

      Omg yessdd

  • @nurulhusna6971
    @nurulhusna6971 3 года назад +69

    sometimes when i feel alone i come back to this video and it makes my life better

  • @livfoster3466
    @livfoster3466 3 года назад +108

    That one rant about having a week off and how she thought she had too much time off hurt. Ashley please take some more time off if your mental health is really deteriorating. We all love you so much and we want you to spend time for yourself. :)

  • @risainternet
    @risainternet 4 года назад +723

    “Sometimes I lose my zest for life and I’m trying to get it back.”
    I felt that in my soul, girl.

  • @ichaarasy
    @ichaarasy 4 года назад +1271

    i seriously love how she's so comfortable and just chill to talk to the camera whilst being on the shower hahahaha

    • @T2SM0425
      @T2SM0425 4 года назад

      Yaya n how well she covered it up 🤣

    • @bluepandaman
      @bluepandaman 4 года назад

      she’s not chill. She’s crafting all of this and understands that it will get views.

    • @sBabysKid-nk8eh
      @sBabysKid-nk8eh 4 года назад

      ichaarasy it's not that difficult 😑

  • @summitsview871
    @summitsview871 3 месяца назад +5

    I miss watching this for the first time, this was and still is one of my favourite videos of all time. Thank you for making this video Best Dressed. It will be something I'll come back to for years to come and will cry every time it ends

  • @natalie457
    @natalie457 Год назад +18

    i rewatched this today for the first time since it came out and gods i really forgot how enjoyable your videos were. that being said, you owe "us", the audience, literally nothing. live your best life, i'm sending good thoughts

  • @carolinejiang3945
    @carolinejiang3945 4 года назад +1552

    Ashley talking to us in the shower just feels like we are friends 🥰

    • @2056cosican
      @2056cosican 4 года назад +21

      I honestly loved that whole vibe going on

    • @lottevdrielleseman
      @lottevdrielleseman 4 года назад +20

      yesss right?! I just felt like I was sitting there, just chatting with her☺️ this vlog made me feel so much less lonely thank u ash🥺♥️

    • @2056cosican
      @2056cosican 4 года назад +15

      @@lottevdrielleseman ikkkkk, shes honestly the most wholesome and honest person. I live how open she is with talking and shiz so inspirational 🥺🥺😍

    • @rileybrown6153
      @rileybrown6153 4 года назад

      ummmmm

    • @2056cosican
      @2056cosican 4 года назад

      @@rileybrown6153 u alright b?

  • @Ponurakosa
    @Ponurakosa 4 года назад +1474

    You need to stop comparing yourself to others. I know it sounds soooo cliche, but its true. For example im 24 and basically i only have my degree (in a month or so) and if i compare myself to you then i would think that im a piece of shit and ive wasted my whole life. But no. My life is different, ive met different people, grown in a different envrironment etc. Someone else success doesnt mean that your success is any worse. Hang in there, its gonna be fine.

    • @HarpreetK34
      @HarpreetK34 4 года назад +35

      Thank you.

    • @dxzl9760
      @dxzl9760 4 года назад +42

      I'm 23, turning 24 in a few months and don't even have a degree yet. We have different journeys in life

    • @amayaperry
      @amayaperry 4 года назад +55

      Shit i didn’t realize how much ive been needing to read something like this. You know it in the back of your mind but it’s easy to get caught up in what other ppl have... I still haven’t finished college and in the past few years I haven’t accomplished most of what i wanted to. It’s a strange time; just trying to find peace within myself and not be so hard on myself.

    • @twincherry4958
      @twincherry4958 4 года назад

      @@dxzl9760 and you probably don't need the dent it could come with...smh

    • @taniaaramirezz
      @taniaaramirezz 4 года назад +18

      I tell my husband this all the time! You grow up a certain way, and with access to things others may not have. You may always try to compare yourself to your best friend who is the same age as you. But you took different paths and had different opportunities in life than that other person. You can’t compare your achievements, or where you are in life because of the different paths you took. It’s definitely hard to get in that mindset. I still compare myself to others, but try to get in the mindset of how we took different paths and had different opportunities in life. I’m 26 and still trying to get into this mindset. Hang in there everyone 💜

  • @Natalie_stgw
    @Natalie_stgw 2 года назад +18

    Her videos are timeless, literally art. And the music selection really adds to feel of it all.

  • @gr8thx128
    @gr8thx128 3 года назад +71

    does anyone else binge watch her videos because they're all the absolute most entertaining thing ever

  • @carinaaugust643
    @carinaaugust643 4 года назад +1310

    I love how she was casually talking about a bug while showering, like the entire vibe was so chill???? it felt like she was one of my girl friends who was catching up with me

  • @xyz7678
    @xyz7678 4 года назад +889

    I love how you're just out there taking a shower talking to us about the centipede like we're you're friend.

    • @jamesbaklik9060
      @jamesbaklik9060 4 года назад +3

      oh my god this sounds so passive aggressive after reading all the 🧚🏼‍♀️✨💖🥰💫🦋 comments on tiktok

    • @norbuuu
      @norbuuu 4 года назад +1

      Aren't we

    • @ItsSharkmon
      @ItsSharkmon 4 года назад

      *your

  • @tashmiyahasan
    @tashmiyahasan Год назад +12

    This video is so soothing, it makes me wanna cry I dont even know why.
    and I love and admire and adore ashley so freaking much, felt so bad when she was talking about how she wasnt doing okay mentally. I hope youre doing great now, Ashley.

  • @CatiaRafaela
    @CatiaRafaela 3 года назад +81

    She's so relatable- and the jealousy for her effortless looks is unbelievable!

  • @gabymarie8442
    @gabymarie8442 4 года назад +5869

    You have such a profound way of perfectly capturing what it’s like to be alive in your videos and I don’t know how or why but you have just a perfect way of putting everything and it makes me contemplate a lot which is the best thing that a RUclips video can do

    • @breadncheeseplz8713
      @breadncheeseplz8713 4 года назад +13

      Gaby Marie YES

    • @coainc
      @coainc 4 года назад +101

      this comment is so eloquently put you literally wrote out exactly how i feel about ashleys content i couldn’t have said it better

    • @sophiebuckingham6949
      @sophiebuckingham6949 4 года назад +13

      you said this perfectly

    • @LekhaPReddy
      @LekhaPReddy 4 года назад +9

      thank you for putting this in words

    • @falloncortright9487
      @falloncortright9487 4 года назад +20

      I like Ashley channel cause she feels like a real person, and that's pretty rare.

  • @loveu4life100
    @loveu4life100 4 года назад +4809

    You're so real, and I don't understand why this isn't more common.

    • @marybrown348
      @marybrown348 4 года назад +109

      Too many fake white quirky teenagers on RUclips

    • @doctorwholover1012
      @doctorwholover1012 4 года назад +101

      The extreme amount of confidence required to not only put yourself on the internet as a Personality for ppl to buy into via subscribing, but also the extreme anxiety of putting yourself out there to be judged by several million ppl (imagine first date/party with like 2 ppl u know and amp it up to 1000000% lol) I'm guessing?

    • @Faeriefungus
      @Faeriefungus 4 года назад +8

      Who liked her just outta bed hair better?:)

    • @charlietube7165
      @charlietube7165 4 года назад +11

      Wtf don't put race in this shit it's all the shit same

    • @aspassiya7593
      @aspassiya7593 4 года назад +24

      Charlie KINGSTON she’s right and it’s always the privileged ones who say “keep race out of this blah blah”

  • @jessknox2532
    @jessknox2532 11 месяцев назад +5

    This will forever be my comfort video

  • @kathrynandrew3747
    @kathrynandrew3747 7 месяцев назад +7

    I understand why she left but I wish she would come back… her artful style in everything she does is irreplaceable

  • @Ceci-db8kh
    @Ceci-db8kh 4 года назад +880

    everyone feels like in their teens rn cos we're all sad, lonely, horny and confused, n that's exactly what it felt like. we just couldn't put it into words cos we weren't mature enough to understand and admit our feelings about life, and that's okay. the human experience, no matter where you are, can be somewhat similar.

    • @lalakitty_xo
      @lalakitty_xo 4 года назад +6

      Teens and we're grounded from borrowing the car all Summer. Uggggh.

    • @electra3516
      @electra3516 4 года назад +19

      And some of us are still teens and have just had these feelings magnified:) But that’s really insightful. Maybe the emo music streams will spike now lol

    • @atara500
      @atara500 4 года назад +4

      when ur in ur teens still it’s all fucking doubled isn’t it 😎😎😎 i love being a teenager hOw fUn

    • @choicethetaurus
      @choicethetaurus 4 года назад

      @@atara500 wdwdwdwd ruclips.net/video/VgIaZANxsak/видео.html

    • @MissIndipendant98
      @MissIndipendant98 4 года назад +4

      I legit realized this when the quarantine started. I felt like an angry teenager with no control over my situation who couldn't leave the house. It's been so shitty as an adult to relive those feelings.

  • @ericafriedman02
    @ericafriedman02 4 года назад +609

    i love how transparent she is with her feelings abt everything

    • @jocelinem2421
      @jocelinem2421 4 года назад +3

      Erica Friedman This is why I respect and love her a lot, and why she also has lots of followers, we love a real queen 😔✊🏼

    • @maryelizabeth3055
      @maryelizabeth3055 4 года назад +3

      agreed

    • @vnzgel.19
      @vnzgel.19 4 года назад +2

      yeah feels like we are her familyyy

    • @pine-solismylemonade5542
      @pine-solismylemonade5542 4 года назад +2

      Yeah me too

  • @waddlez1824
    @waddlez1824 Год назад +16

    Coming back to my comfort youtuber, i hope ur well ashley 💗

  • @divyavijla6674
    @divyavijla6674 3 года назад +43

    Man!! I love her personality.
    Best thing about her is that she accepts herself the way she is or at least is moving in that direction.
    Power to you girl 💁♥

  • @lenicain3481
    @lenicain3481 4 года назад +3599

    am i the only one who’s watched this video like 10 times? i’m not sure why it just makes me feel really safe

    • @user-oq6ol5fi2w
      @user-oq6ol5fi2w 4 года назад +53

      same :) back to rewatch

    • @vanessadrea
      @vanessadrea 4 года назад +41

      this is my like tenth time watching, its so relaxing.

    • @ohwell7101
      @ohwell7101 4 года назад +42

      same, it's like im just listening to a close friend rant to me. its beautiful:")

    • @godsredeemed005
      @godsredeemed005 4 года назад +6

      omg same

    • @its_alyc5922
      @its_alyc5922 4 года назад +5

      so have i:) it’s just so relaxing, and real. there’s nothing fake, and it feels like i’m just sitting down and catching up with an old friend :,)

  • @kaia2749
    @kaia2749 4 года назад +790

    I’ve been wondering for what feels like ages, “how is Ashley bestdressed doing? Is she well? How’s her mental health? Is she wearing her mask?” And now I know!

    • @mundaneamazing
      @mundaneamazing 4 года назад +6

      She is pretty active on Instagram.

    • @maijakelly8335
      @maijakelly8335 4 года назад +2

      The whole mask-wearing thing in the US is so weird. In Australia, we have been recommended that only healthcare professionals and sick people or people who are really high risk get masks. Anything other than an N95 doesn't really help you, just means you're gonna touch your face more... And *touch wood* we've dealt with the pandemic pretty well compared to the US where it seems like such a shitshow. It seems horrific over there. :(

    • @adelabed9363
      @adelabed9363 4 года назад

      What are you really trying to imply

    • @blueelf217
      @blueelf217 4 года назад +2

      @@maijakelly8335 In NYC you can't go into stores without one. I wear fabric ones with filters & also disposable ones. It'll help keep me safe from others that are sick & vice versa incase I'm sick and don't know it. Our spit travels, and can stay in the air for hours, so something is better than nothing. I love how Australia & New Zealand did a great job. Unfortunately you see who's in charge in the US so we're f*cked.
      I've ordered some fun fabric masks on Etsy & other sites, so if I have to wear them, at least make it fashionable with Marvel, Disney & other designs. :)

    • @kimw8054
      @kimw8054 4 года назад

      I just love Ashley!!!

  • @HitmyKYK
    @HitmyKYK 3 месяца назад +2

    This has to be one of my biggest comfort videos on this platform. Always come back here when feeling alone. Thank you, Ashley!

  • @apmcg7834
    @apmcg7834 3 года назад +24

    "Sometimes I lose my zest for life and I'm trying to get it back" I felt that. It's interesting how we dive back into our past in order to find something we've lost and it's scary when you can't find it or realize that it wasn't what you thought it was. Nevertheless, I hope we all come out of this a little more zesty.

  • @gerliececilletabel8200
    @gerliececilletabel8200 4 года назад +2229

    I cried at that part where there was a couple stopping by to say "hi" to their friend and was like "i wish i had some friends who'd stop by for me like that" 😢

    • @abbygailhilario3868
      @abbygailhilario3868 4 года назад +55

      Same girl, I wished I have those kind of friends who would spend time just to check on me.

    • @soloinmanila
      @soloinmanila 4 года назад +13

      Same. :/

    • @qqalaxyy
      @qqalaxyy 4 года назад +33

      Dude same. I feel like I keep checking on my friends and making sure they’re okay but none have done the same :(

    • @jessicaharkley5286
      @jessicaharkley5286 4 года назад +22

      Aw you guys are loved and it’s sweet that you do the checking in. So this is me saying Hi! Checking in on you guys from the comment section :) -random friend on the internet

    • @AshleyKP24
      @AshleyKP24 3 года назад +3

      @@jessicaharkley5286 I was thinking the same thing! Hi guys!

  • @rutendo
    @rutendo 4 года назад +464

    When Ashley said: "do I like that my self esteem is that based on my appearance? No. But does it still somehow make me feel a lot better to like actually get ready and style my hair? Yes."
    I felt that 😭😭

  • @anxiety8054
    @anxiety8054 3 года назад +33

    Honestly going through the same thigs rn, i have to work 5 days a week so im not homeless, but ive been having that crisis where i feel like im just all work and no fun, like i cant enjoy my life. So im saving alot of money and in January im taking a break, getting a part time job and reconnecting with myself and getting my priorities straight. Random but i really resonated with this video so thank u❤

  • @thetubongtowns
    @thetubongtowns 4 месяца назад +3

    Watching ashleys vlog and feeling the nostalgia of lauv songs

  • @calistaburrows.fh.2026
    @calistaburrows.fh.2026 4 года назад +749

    i dont know why but im just sitting here crying about how crazy this virus is and how weird its making life, but how normal life is. ashley still posts, im still alive, i still have friends. i'm so fortunate to be safe and this video just made me happy, so so happy.

    • @yerma6149
      @yerma6149 4 года назад +2

      on point

    • @atifapachezeynalli
      @atifapachezeynalli 4 года назад +5

      Cali Alaska it isn't "the virus" making your life wierd, it's the people in charge

    • @caecilia4177
      @caecilia4177 4 года назад +2

      Omg yes

    • @Freydiiis96
      @Freydiiis96 4 года назад +2

      i feel the same way! its been so crazy the last months and its to easy to forget how fortunate alot of us are. and its nice to see ashley post and just giving us her good vibes. i love it

    • @atifapachezeynalli
      @atifapachezeynalli 4 года назад

      Reoz how do you know there's a deadly virus out there? please don't tell me it's because a well dressed newswoman on a television set told you so? Do you have a degree in Virology? have you ever personally conducted a postmortem on one of the "covid19 victims" and analyzed their tissue/organ/cell/urine/feces sample under a microscope in your own laboratory? without empirical laboratory evidence you cannot simply claim that a biological organism exists.

  • @deme4194
    @deme4194 4 года назад +2141

    this vlog was literally better than any movie netflix has ever made

    • @alexis8488
      @alexis8488 4 года назад +4

      Deme royce facts

    • @leonorefuller6836
      @leonorefuller6836 4 года назад +5

      Julia Matić oh yeah they've been doing it for years! they have tons of original movies, tv shows, comedy specials, documentaries, etc.

    • @fictionaldarling
      @fictionaldarling 4 года назад +1

      idk the half of it is PRETTY good lol (but true)

    • @ft594
      @ft594 4 года назад +1

      Martin Scorsese is quaking

    • @anushribhende1086
      @anushribhende1086 4 года назад

      Facts

  • @angeliquejordan7981
    @angeliquejordan7981 2 года назад +15

    Ashley, I'm constantly rewatching your videos whenever I feel bad or anxious or lonely because it just gives me so much comfort

  • @urbi8807
    @urbi8807 10 месяцев назад +3

    did I just cry rewatching Ashley's videos? yes I love her sm

  • @keistar6815
    @keistar6815 4 года назад +490

    The first few minutes when she showers I felt like her roommate, listening to her complaints while brushing my teeth and washing my face

    • @dannyt3668
      @dannyt3668 4 года назад +4

      You're all clearly too young to remember Ferris Bueller

    • @mariaedwards1959
      @mariaedwards1959 4 года назад +1

      me too i felt like we were friends :(

    • @afellowhuman33
      @afellowhuman33 4 года назад +2

      @@dannyt3668 it felt like the morning after a sleepover with your best friend

  • @alanafay
    @alanafay 4 года назад +2464

    i know no one is ever going to see this comment, but i always end up crying when i watch ashley’s videos. she’s just so real and honest and relatable but not in a basic way. i just feel like she’s my older sister teaching me slowly how shitty life is but also how beautiful it can be. i wish she had a cat with her for company. i just love ashley so much, after finishing every video i’m like, man, it’s time i unsub from miranda sings. i’m only going to watch life changing youtube from here on out. you’re a good person ashley, if you’re reading this. i love you :)

    • @saraha.1336
      @saraha.1336 4 года назад +14

      I seen your comment

    • @anthoula-4284
      @anthoula-4284 4 года назад +13

      Sarah A. Ok but that's exactly how I feel!

    • @auuRose
      @auuRose 4 года назад +27

      I saw this comment and yes, I do so, she is honest and just herself. I think that's smg that not many youtubers show and that's why Ashley's videos just touch everyone

    • @veronicamoreno4654
      @veronicamoreno4654 4 года назад +7

      I love the way you wrote it!! I feel totally the same!

    • @cesskin7979
      @cesskin7979 4 года назад +8

      You just put my feelings into words

  • @likeaflowerinsun
    @likeaflowerinsun 2 года назад +12

    It's been a year when this video was released but I kept coming back and watch the whole video whenever I feel lost and empty. This video was release when I was dealing with my anxiety the whole quarantine season and I found comfort when Ashley posted this video. It's sad to be honest... But I was glad to feel that I was not alone and lonely. I found strength little by little and I am grateful to Ashley.

  • @kunjangchoden
    @kunjangchoden 3 года назад +12

    Whenever m depressed n thinking oh m useless n alone. I come back to watch her video. Cz she's so young, energetic n inspiring even after having no best friend n boyfriend. She's the idol!!

  • @MsMeHeartYou
    @MsMeHeartYou 4 года назад +464

    "There's not always a later"
    Man, that hit me hard.

    • @isabellenatalya
      @isabellenatalya 4 года назад

      taternoona hard facts of life💕 the present is all we have✨

  • @priyanshubharadwaj1016
    @priyanshubharadwaj1016 3 года назад +13

    Hey Ashley, I don’t know if you are going to read this message or not but your videos have helped me through some low moments of my life. I was quarantined alone in a foreign country and on some days I would randomly come back to watch your video. Your job can never be pointless :)

  • @sqrynq7815
    @sqrynq7815 3 года назад +5

    I feel so comforted and just… I can relate to Ashley on a certain level and that just makes me feel so much more better. Listening to peoples’ issues/ trauma/ any negative thing that’s happened to them makes me sort of connect. It’s sad to see others having troubles but it’s also such a great way to understand other people.

  • @hannajo40
    @hannajo40 4 года назад +1091

    "Sometimes I lose my zest for life, I'm trying to get it back"
    Why does that hit so hard

    • @sydneyforrest9949
      @sydneyforrest9949 4 года назад +2

      It do be hitting like a ton of bricks though

    • @nghtwtchmn129
      @nghtwtchmn129 4 года назад +3

      I'm not sure how this came up in my recommendations, but her feelings are pretty much universal now. Unless you are in denial about the pandemic.

  • @rvsalka
    @rvsalka 4 года назад +923

    ok just a shout-out to everyone who's skin is struggling right now, can we have a stress breakout awareness & appreciation day

    • @tiredwatermelon333
      @tiredwatermelon333 4 года назад +15

      i feel u, friend
      my skin is doing very bad

    • @freesoul5012
      @freesoul5012 4 года назад +7

      This is the comment I need♥️

    • @ghost35434
      @ghost35434 4 года назад +13

      Honestly my skin has never been this bad😣

    • @Cat-uz9yj
      @Cat-uz9yj 4 года назад +8

      THIS couldn’t be more true like nothing is happening and the stress is sooooo intense that my skin is massive strawberry/ poppy field

    • @liaruth9795
      @liaruth9795 4 года назад +7

      I always have clear skin but since lockdown it’s just going crazy 😂

  • @juryghaly
    @juryghaly 3 года назад +8

    she is the only person I can cry in front of and not be embarrassed … THAT SHOWS HOW SPECIAL SHE IS!

  • @annaburke8537
    @annaburke8537 8 месяцев назад +3

    I remember watching this during quarantine and feeling it so much...I was also living alone in the city so this is really nostalgic.

  • @ISwearToKira
    @ISwearToKira 4 года назад +1813

    her saying that she's lost her zest for life and she's trying to get it back makes me feel the weirdest sadness because she is like the coolest zestiest person I've ever seen. like if she's lost it than I know I have. I really love these videos, even just little snippets into the "mundane", because she is the least mundane person. idk

    • @grapesarego0d
      @grapesarego0d 4 года назад +5

      ISwearToKira I lost it from day 1 :p lmao

    • @marymoopoo
      @marymoopoo 3 года назад

      Being able to express it is also a sign of her openness.
      Most ppl feel this way but just don't take any time to reflect - hence just carry on doing meaningless things because society tells them it's the "normal, healthy thing" to do. And then probably have a mid-life crisis

    • @marymoopoo
      @marymoopoo 3 года назад

      Also, it's just a sign of intelligence tbh.

  • @anitabonitasenorita3604
    @anitabonitasenorita3604 4 года назад +1750

    I really hope this girl has an amazing life, she’s an absolute original.

    • @annabellex3559
      @annabellex3559 4 года назад +7

      Ikr I love her to pieces

    • @rheathecreative5612
      @rheathecreative5612 4 года назад +12

      People don’t tend to realize how much work goes into making content, even if she doesn’t post constantly. Let us all hope that she will be as happy with herself as we are of her hard work.

    • @mehh9364
      @mehh9364 Год назад +8

      Even though she isn't posting anymore on yt, SHE'S EDITING VIDEOS AND ADS FOR GUCCI AND OTHER FANCY ASS BRANDS!
      I hope she realizes that we're happy for her and support her no matter what❤

    • @shari8157
      @shari8157 Год назад +3

      @@mehh9364wait how do yk, that’s actually really cool

    • @_yenaa_
      @_yenaa_ Год назад

      @@shari8157 oh it's on her insta and TikTok, she did a Gucci ad that everyone says feels like a ves Anderson movie lol

  • @abbybachmann5252
    @abbybachmann5252 3 года назад +18

    watching this when its been almost a year after she posted it is a really strange feeling.It's crazy that we've been living in this for so long. It still doesn't feel real to me, how did so much time go by so fast, but so slow at the same time.

  • @shrutisingha5372
    @shrutisingha5372 3 месяца назад +4

    This was the best time of RUclips🥹🥹

  • @saihahahara7784
    @saihahahara7784 4 года назад +3039

    I swear, this girl lives and breathes aesthetic. My jealousy is real-

    • @mentaxm1829
      @mentaxm1829 3 года назад +5

      samee

    • @Diana-sb4yl
      @Diana-sb4yl 3 года назад +33

      Don't be ,be your own authentic self ! Don't get so involved in her life that u forget to live yours.i came here to watch what's all the fuss about this woman's life vlog utube thingy
      Just get on with your life don't live a Truman's world

    • @mentaxm1829
      @mentaxm1829 3 года назад +11

      @@Diana-sb4yl well I wish I could do the things I want to. And honestly, she makes my life better by being pure and not being the usual youtuber

    • @mentaxm1829
      @mentaxm1829 3 года назад +3

      @@Diana-sb4yl if i could be my own self and if i could do it, i would, believe me

    • @Diana-sb4yl
      @Diana-sb4yl 3 года назад +1

      @@mentaxm1829 that's it girl ,u go do your thing.

  • @emmabrigham4211
    @emmabrigham4211 4 года назад +1028

    I feel like I just watched a movie this was so well filmed and I'm not even someone who cares about the way the shots are taken, as long as I know whats going on idc, but I'm genuinely so impressed with how creative some of your shots are while still being nice to look at. I love how relatable you are especially since you're someone I look up to and seems very put together but it's nice to being able to relate:)

  • @cocaineeic4146
    @cocaineeic4146 2 года назад +2

    everytime i come back to this vid and after i finish it it always feels like i jus finished watchin a movie luv her and miss her sm hope she's doin well

  • @raimundoolave3917
    @raimundoolave3917 3 года назад +6

    Lauv and Alessia singing Canada really sets the mood for me, thank u for being so real 🤍

  • @ffion9214
    @ffion9214 4 года назад +694

    I'm 13 and I'm home alone all day every day, when my mum is actually home on the weekend she spends all day ignoring me. I know I am super privileged during these unprecedented times- I have a roof over my head and food and ways to contact people. I hate when people say things like "others have it worse, suck it up" or "at least you're not ___". Other people have it worse, and I truly feel terrible for people who do have it worse than me. However just beacuse you have these privileges, does not mean you have to be happy or enjoy this time. This is absolute shit. You are not a bad person for not being physically or mentally able to "suck it up". You are so very strong right now- no matter what situation you're in.

    • @Super4585454
      @Super4585454 4 года назад +14

      ffion oliver sending love

    • @kisuya9224
      @kisuya9224 4 года назад +94

      if you're really 13 , you are pretty damn mature girl, youll make it though dont worry too much. The situation with your mum sucks, maybe try to find things/activities that bring you joy on your own.

    • @bxbblegxm_bujo6700
      @bxbblegxm_bujo6700 4 года назад +4

      ffion oliver I needed this so thank you 🙏🏼 and sending love and hope to you

    • @mikhalterentiev8799
      @mikhalterentiev8799 4 года назад

      @ffion oliver Sending you love❤❤❤ and it will get better! Just try to do things that make this time easier for you!👍

    • @binkbonk7199
      @binkbonk7199 4 года назад +7

      ffion oliver sending love your way. I’m sorry you have to spend this time alone but I gotta say, your perspective at 13 is way better than mine was. Kudos to you, this will all be over soon enough.

  • @Xinxere02
    @Xinxere02 4 года назад +2386

    "eye contact will do it for me at this point" LMAO FELT THAT

    • @tifanylately5897
      @tifanylately5897 3 года назад +3

      Same

    • @cre8gnr8nrg
      @cre8gnr8nrg 3 года назад +1

      As an older man I noticed LOTS of younger women wanting me to give them 'the eye' and sometimes I'll pull down my mask and smile. LOL

    • @corrinecrazycow
      @corrinecrazycow 3 года назад +5

      @@cre8gnr8nrg don’t kid yourself pal...

  • @TrangThu-hb9iy
    @TrangThu-hb9iy 2 года назад +11

    Revisiting this video for the uncountable time because I’m in quarantine, in August, 2021, and I’m facing my heightened issues while also trying to be better to myself. There’re good moments and bad ones, I’m just trying to get through/make the most out of each day. To whoever is reading this, we deserve to commit to making life better for ourselves, and we will make it.

    • @madelinerindon
      @madelinerindon 2 года назад +1

      this is something i def needed to hear 🥺 i hope you are doing well xx

  • @artemis6703
    @artemis6703 3 года назад +4

    i come back to this video every so often just to slow down and feel like myself again. the editing is just so immaculate and everything ashley says is exactly what i need to hear.

  • @xXMsCrazy9Xx
    @xXMsCrazy9Xx 4 года назад +839

    it’s amazing how this pandemic started at the worst time for everyone. so many people were so close to getting their shit together and being content with their life and then BOOM HERE’S ROOOONNNNAAAA.

    • @nooneinparticular8383
      @nooneinparticular8383 4 года назад +20

      True!!! I was about to go finished my job application when this shit happened.

    • @xXMsCrazy9Xx
      @xXMsCrazy9Xx 4 года назад +9

      no one in particular aw i’m so sorry! i feel ya tho :(

    • @emericcson123
      @emericcson123 4 года назад +18

      I had just moved from CA to NYC like Ashley and had only one month in my new job lol now I’m back in CA, super in debt and unemployed 🤟

    • @xXMsCrazy9Xx
      @xXMsCrazy9Xx 4 года назад +6

      Emily Erickson damn i’m sorry about that. it’s really sad this has affected everyone so badly. i wish you the best 😔

    • @noelle4luv
      @noelle4luv 4 года назад +11

      @@emericcson123 oh my gosh me too! I had just moved from the bay in California to Manhattan in December. I was finally feeling at home and like my life was going the way I wanted when Rona hit. I moved back to Cali in March to crash with my Mom and am also unemployed. Been really difficult but I try to stay grateful that I was able to get out of the city and can be close to family right now.