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  • Опубликовано: 1 фев 2025

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  • @ericavangerven9550
    @ericavangerven9550 10 дней назад +8

    Nice video Mike! I was born in Indonesia, but grew up in the Netherlands in a Dutch family (my biological parents died when I was six month old). I became so Dutch that I would not able to live in Indonesia anymore, although I still love my birth country, it's my favorite vacation country and it somehow feels like home when I'm there. I always say I became Dutch in my head, but I am still Indonesian in my heart. As long as you don't hurt anyone with being yourself, it's good! So be who you are, that's the best you can be!

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@ericavangerven9550 I love your comment, Erica! ❤️ What beautiful words. Thank you for watching my videos and taking the time to tell me a little bit about yourself. “Be who you are, that’s the best you can be”. Words to live by. Thank you again for sharing some of your story. 😊

  • @CDLeiden
    @CDLeiden 9 дней назад +1

    Het downsizen van de woning en het schuldgevoel is meer "opgedrongen" door buitenstaanders/woningzoekers. Vaak willen ouderen wel verhuizen naar een kleinere woning, maar de huizenprijzen zijn momenteel enorm hoog. Ook bij sociale huur is er een groot probleem. Te weinig seniorenwoningen, en als ze er wel zijn dan zijn de huren ook veel hoger. Zolang men er woont mag de huur alleen verhoogt worden volgens wettelijke regels. Zodra een woning leeg komt schiet de huur enorm omhoog. Er zou veel meer beweging in de huursector komen als senioren die verhuizen naar een kleinere woning de "oude" huur mee mogen nemen en een goede verhuisvergoeding. De meest gehoorde opmerking is "zal er gek zijn, verhuizen naar een kleiner huis en dubbel zoveel huur betalen. Ik blijf lekker zitten waar ik zit".

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  9 дней назад

      Thank you so much for elaborating on this. I am grateful for your explanation. It really is a messed up situation because it prevents any movement or improvement in the market. Meanwhile, Rabobank is estimating that house prices will increase 9.2% in 2025, and 6% in 2026. ⬆️

    • @CDLeiden
      @CDLeiden 9 дней назад

      @BetterTogether-UnIr1 bizar. Overwaarde op je huis is leuk, maar alle samenhangende belastingen schieten net zo hard omhoog.
      Begrijp me goed, ik ben blij dat ik hier geboren en getogen ben, maar er zijn nu wel heel veel crisissen aan de gang die de leefbaarheid aantasten.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  9 дней назад +2

      @@CDLeidenI agree. Everyone is feeling the squeeze. With escalating taxes, people may be priced out of their own homes. The situation is unsustainable. This issue is not unique to the Netherlands. I hear similar stories from people in Australia, Canada, the U.K., the U.S….

  • @musicfromtheheart100
    @musicfromtheheart100 10 дней назад

    Hey Mike! Thank you for yet another lovely and interesting video! I think it's always beneficial to stay optimistic, especially given that there's so much in life that can easily get you down if you're not careful. I also get what you said about you speaking English most of the time, but at the same time I do hope that you don't try to actively avoid speaking Dutch for various reasons, one of which would be that you happen to be in a situation where it's pretty easy for you to learn a foreign language if you make enough of an effort. But it's all up to you, of course, just like with all the other habits you touched upon. Wishing you a beautiful day! ~Mike

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@musicfromtheheart100 Thank you. It’s always so nice to receive your comments. 😊
      I don’t avoid speaking Dutch. It’s just that I generally don’t find myself in situations in which I need to speak it for the reasons I mentioned. I speak English professionally and personally. That’s just the way my days look, or should I say, sound. 😊 And as with most expats/immigrants, the friendships I formed early on before I could speak Dutch were with other expats from all over the world, and we speak English as a common language. As I said to another viewer, I think if I had married a Dutch person or if my jobs (both with Dutch firms) required me to speak Dutch, it would have been different. This is just my experience. Exchanging Dutch greetings with neighbours or placing an order in Dutch at the market only develops my speaking skills so far. Fortunately, I have very good reading comprehension and understand Dutch if spoken to or if I watch a Dutch movie or TV show, for example.

    • @musicfromtheheart100
      @musicfromtheheart100 9 дней назад

      @@BetterTogether-UnIr1 Sure, that's all quite understandable and you are hereby forgiven. Just kidding! 🙃 No, but seriously, if that's how little of an exposure you tend to get to the Dutch language, even while being surrounded by native Dutch speakers a lot of the time, then, yes, that would certainly explain it. I was just wondering about what you said in the video regarding this topic, so, thank you for going into so much detail replying to my comment. It's much appreciated. Take care now!

  • @Omaivo2904
    @Omaivo2904 10 дней назад +1

    Thank you for this little insight in you. Nothing wrong with keeping some American habits.

  • @BabzV
    @BabzV 10 дней назад +2

    Hey Mike goeiemorgen,
    This was so nice to hear you talk about your American roots and your cultural habits.
    Entrepreneurship was always one of the reasons many people moved to the US, one of the few countries where you could just set up any kind of business.
    But entrepreneurship isn't inherently an American concept though, the word alone is French and us Dutchies actually invented the Stockmarket and brought it to New- Amsterdam.
    But still, the US is still the best country to set up a business imo, less laws and stipulations around it. (more freedom in that regard)
    I personally really appreciate American positivity, it's so inherent to Americans.
    I also think Americans are really strong as a unit when you guys do unite, but unfortunately you are so devided.
    Most Americans I've met throughout my life were genuinely nice, positive and not the loud, dumb ones you see on social media. (not all of course 😉)
    Bedankt weer Mike, fijne dag. 😊🌷

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +2

      @@BabzV Hi there Babs. Thank you, as always, for watching and commenting. I love receiving and reading your considered comments.
      It’s true what you say about the Dutch and their enterprising spirit. They are master money-makers, if you ask me. 😊
      Americans, for the most part, are born optimists, often believing in the impossible, e.g. flying a man to the moon. 🌖
      It is unfortunate that the U.S. is more divided than ever. The two-party political system is largely to blame. I try to avert my eyes. 👀
      There are many loud, dumb Americans on social media. I’m doing my best to bring a bit of balance. 😉
      Thanks again for your great comments. Wishing you a wonderful rest of the week. ❤️

  • @dianesgardeninspiration
    @dianesgardeninspiration 10 дней назад +2

    This was a fun video! I’d love to see the type of food served in the Netherlands….just curious

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      @@dianesgardeninspiration Thank you, Diane. Good idea to document some of the food. 👍

  • @kristiina-f9h
    @kristiina-f9h 10 дней назад

    You are wonderful exactly as you are, Mike. ❤ Please continue sharing all that you want to share. 🎉Cheers 🎉

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      @@kristiina-f9h Thank you, my dear Kristiina. ❤️ Hugs to you from Haarlem. 😊

  • @BabzV
    @BabzV 10 дней назад +2

    Nothing wrong with being polite, there's also nothing wrong with being more direct.
    I'm personally quite direct but I also appreciate nuance.
    You can be direct without being rude and that's where the nuance comes in.
    But the good thing about Dutch directness is(imo) that it goes both ways, so when someone says you should take off your hat in your own home they're allowed to do so, but that person can in turn expect a similarly direct answer and say 'no you don't get to tell me what I wear inside my own home'.
    And that's that, both people voiced their opinion(and it's up to you what you do with that opinion) and you just move on with your day, no man overboard. 😊

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@BabzV I’m with you, Babs. It’s all about balance and nuance. Still, imo, some things are better left unsaid. I’m a firm believer in freedom of speech and the right to express one’s opinion, of course, but kindness and self-restraint are also worthy (and often underrated) attributes. Therein lies the balance and nuance, I suppose. 😊

    • @BabzV
      @BabzV 10 дней назад

      You make a good point there about certain things are better left unsaid, keep the peace, choose your battles wisely.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@BabzV I have a feeling you and I have been riding the same wavelength for years, Babs. 😊 Here’s wishing you a great day in lovely Limburg. 🌳🐄🌳🐑

    • @BabzV
      @BabzV 9 дней назад

      Right back at ya Mike in beautiful Haarlem. 😊🌷

  • @AbeIJnst
    @AbeIJnst 7 дней назад +1

    Not having a Dutch partner or a Dutch speaking job indeed doesn't help speaking better Dutch. On the contrary, despite having an English accent, I will speak Dutch with you if your Dutch is fluent enough. But if you're searching for the correct words all the time, I'm more likely to switch to English.
    Speaking English is a virtue, maybe even a necessity, if you're Dutch. 'Benedenwoning' and 'bovenwoning' should be added to the English dictionary, can't even think of a proper translation of those words.
    Eating quickly: Yes. Preparing the meal takes more time than eating it. Very Dutch.
    I'm always polite, I've been taught so. But nevertheless direct, saves so much time.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  7 дней назад +1

      @@AbeIJnst I’m with you 101% on the words “benedenwoning” and “bovenwoning”. I’m doing my best to introduce them into English because - you’re right - there’s no English equivalent. Not only that, they just roll off the tongue in such a satisfying way. Like the word “lekker”, which I also use all the time when speaking English. It’s another deeply satisfying Dutch word.
      I’m with you, too, when it comes to finding the sweet spot of polite directness or direct politeness. 😊

  • @ottot3221
    @ottot3221 10 дней назад +1

    Did you learn to use your knife and fork like we do here or do you still do the switcheroo like people in the US seem to do in the rare cases they use them?

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@ottot3221 Gosh, Otto, this is news to me. I guess I still do the switcheroo. I have noticed, of course, that the Dutch are accustomed to eating their sandwiches open-faced with fork and knife. I tend to do the same now since the open-faced sandwiches are often too big to put together and eat with your hands. Every now and then, though, I can’t stand all the fuss, and I put everything together like a…er…sandwich…and eat it American style. I’m incorrigible, I know. 😊

    • @ottot3221
      @ottot3221 9 дней назад

      @@BetterTogether-UnIr1 When you are in a sit down restaurant or at a business dinner it's expect you know the correct etiquettes. I heard from an CIA spy who got caught because he couldn't handle his Cutlery. Anyway that is another thing you can add to the list. 😂

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  9 дней назад +1

      @ Cool story! I think if I were in the CIA, my cover would be blown well before I ever sat down for dinner. 😂

    • @ottot3221
      @ottot3221 9 дней назад

      @@BetterTogether-UnIr1 On another note, love your hats. In Arcen we have the cutest hat store ever and I started to by them due to a revolving and thinning hairline but I often rock a more American cap than the nice hats you wear. I should be more brave. 😂

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  9 дней назад +1

      @ Thank you, Otto. Nothing wrong with a classic American baseball cap.🧢 And from your photo, I’d say it suits you. But, sure, try out some other styles. I buy mine from a little shop (Cosy van Tutti) here in Haarlem run by two lovely ladies. The one in this video (my fave) is a wool/silk Stetson.

  • @Be-Es---___
    @Be-Es---___ 10 дней назад +1

    Renters are pretty good protected by law. Once you have a renter in your house, it's not easy to get them out. 😮

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      So true! Pros and cons, depending - I suppose - on what side of the equation you find yourself. Thanks for your comment. 😊

  • @Annemie43
    @Annemie43 10 дней назад +1

    Just stay who you are, Mike, your accent is charming.

  • @mavadelo
    @mavadelo 10 дней назад +1

    Talking English: I understand your reasoning but does this exiend to situations where Dutch would normally be the go to language? Speaking Dutch in every day interactions is something we would expect from people talking any other foreign language as well after all. I suspect 2:34 should read "My Dutch is improving"?? (and really, just curiosity Mike, you do you)
    And listening to American Music is probably shared by 99% of your audience.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@mavadelo Actually, I meant to say “My English is improving”. It was a tongue-in-cheek remark reflecting the fact that I speak English both professionally and personally. I do not often (ever) find myself in situations where Dutch is the go-to language. My experience might have been different had I married a Dutch person or had my occupation not required me to read and write English at an advanced technical level. Fortunately, my reading comprehension of Dutch is very good, and I understand spoken Dutch perfectly well, but I have had little opportunity or practical need to speak it.

  • @annemieke186
    @annemieke186 10 дней назад

    Goodmorning Mike...
    Again an entire reaction from my part vanished after half an hour.
    I do hope you did not rush trough your celebration for your 1000 subscribers?
    Glass of wine, tapas, candles...good company...?
    I had a lot to say, but it comes down to: love your accent; it is charming...sometimes hearing Dutch people speaking English and not even trying to make it sound English...not so charming 😅.
    If someone is breathing down your neck...take a very small step back and lean backwords...the bigger your aura...
    Some people just do not understand personal space...they have " een bord voor hun kop".
    Laughing imagening you in a Dutch clothing store, drowning in long sleeved shirts 😂.
    Again very nice video...😊

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@annemieke186 Thank you, my dear Annemieke. ❤️ I am sorry to hear that your reactions are vanishing. Glad this one got through. 😊
      I tried my best to savor the 1000 sub celebration. I was singing throughout the day. 🎶
      Thank you for your sweet words and sound advice, especially the part about the big aura. Love that.
      Yes…haha…drowning in the long-sleeved shirts is an understatement. Until I can afford a personal tailor, I have to stock up on clothing whenever I’m in the States.

  • @matthieuvandermeer5182
    @matthieuvandermeer5182 19 часов назад

    Hoi Mike - nog een gewoonte waar je misschien niet aan gedacht hebt: Amerikanen eten bijna altijd met vork rechts en zelden met een mes erbij. Nederlanders eten meestel met een mes, en als ze goed zijn opgevoed: mes rechts en vork links.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  18 часов назад

      @@matthieuvandermeer5182 Thank you, Matthieu. That is indeed another American habit I haven’t broken. Mind you, I now eat my sandwiches with a fork and knife, which is something I never did in the States. So I am reforming, slowly but surely. 😉

  • @henkkoning2250
    @henkkoning2250 10 дней назад +1

    When i walk in a supermarket, i don’t like it when people get to close (1m distance please)

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      I’m with you Henk. I have been known to stand in line with the shopping cart BEHIND me to prevent people from bumping and nudging. 😊

  • @gertpittsfort
    @gertpittsfort 10 дней назад

    Hi Mike, so far you haven't said 'y'all' a single time 😅 The bottom line is to always be true to yourself. When it comes to optimism we can learn a thing or two from the Americans. Funny you should mention still wearing american clothes. Since 1979 all my Levi's were bought in the States, 511 size 30×32. I always travel to the US with an empty suitcase.
    When it comes to rushing through a meal, restaurant staff also make it clear that they don't want you there all evening. Thanks again for another informative and entertaining video Mike 🤠🚍

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@gertpittsfort Howdy Gert! Oops. I mean, “Good evening, Gert”. 😂 Once again - we’re twins separated at birth, I swear! Love those 511s. 30x30 for me. Thanks again for your good comment. Keep on bussin’. 😃

    • @gertpittsfort
      @gertpittsfort 10 дней назад

      @BetterTogether-UnIr1 You bet, till March 18 🚍😄

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @ Amazing, Gert! It’s just days away! And since you’re my twin brother, I would not be entirely surprised if you started your own RUclips channel once you’re retired. When you do, I’m going to be your first subscriber. 😊 That’s a promise!

    • @gertpittsfort
      @gertpittsfort 10 дней назад

      @@BetterTogether-UnIr1 😘

  • @StrawberryHills211
    @StrawberryHills211 10 дней назад

    Noting wrong with being polite.
    Love your en-suite doors btw.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      @@StrawberryHills211 👍 Thank you. 😊 The en-suite doors are a highlight of this little benedenwoning from 1901. They make it possible to open up the space for light and air or close it to create more intimacy.

    • @StrawberryHills211
      @StrawberryHills211 10 дней назад

      @ I had those in my former home, but not with the coloured glass.
      You’re so lucky your neighbour sold their floor to you! How many floors is it?

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @ Yes, we are very fortunate. We waited 18 years for it to become available. The benedenwoning has one floor; the bovenwoning has two floors. Altogether, we have three floors now and - best of all - no upstairs or downstairs neighbours. I love my neighbours, mind you, but not living above or below me. 😆

    • @StrawberryHills211
      @StrawberryHills211 10 дней назад

      @@BetterTogether-UnIr1 especially those old houses. Krak kraak kriech 😂
      And you’ll make good profit if you want to sell it one day.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @ Yes, you understand me perfectly well. I had such nice, polite and considerate neighbors, but in such an old building - wow - I could hear every footstep and every cough, laugh and sneeze. Now, blessed silence. Worth every penny! 😊

  • @Heartburn1220
    @Heartburn1220 10 дней назад

    Another great video. I tend to be overly polite too and I'm from Texas so there is that.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@Heartburn1220 Thank you! 😊 Don’t mess with Texas…please. 😂

  • @aquarius42
    @aquarius42 10 дней назад

    Dankje wel voor je inzicht vanuit Amerika naar Nederlands toe.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      @@aquarius42 Thank you for your comment, Margo. Always good to hear from you. 😊

  • @MartinWebNatures
    @MartinWebNatures 10 дней назад

    Nice video❤ 👍

  • @sophiesmeenk1076
    @sophiesmeenk1076 10 дней назад +3

    I must say I've lost my optimism regarding the US in November last. I hope Jay Kuo will be able to restore it somewhat. But I love hearing your quirks and Americanisms. I was wondering: when we (the Dutch followers) respond in Dutch, do you put the text in google translate or are you able to follow it (more or less accurately)?

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +2

      @@sophiesmeenk1076 Hello Sophie. Always so nice to hear from you. ❤️ The result of the election was disheartening, indeed. There is some comfort knowing that more than 75,000,000 Americans did not choose this outcome. The only other consolation is that it will be over in four years. Let us hope that not too much damage is done in that time. As far as Dutch comments, I am able to follow along without translation. My Dutch comprehension is good. I can read Dutch perfectly well.

    • @sophiesmeenk1076
      @sophiesmeenk1076 10 дней назад

      @BetterTogether-UnIr1 over in 4 years 🤔 I devoutly hope so but I'm very afraid. Wat geweldig dat je Nederlands kunt lezen! Ik vind dat superknap, want het is een b**ch van een taal voor buitenlanders.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      @ 😂🤣😝 You gave me a good laugh with your “b**ch van een taal” remark. Too funny! I’ve always liked reading, so I think that’s why reading Dutch is not a problem for me. Speaking Dutch is the “b**ch” for me!

    • @sophiesmeenk1076
      @sophiesmeenk1076 10 дней назад

      @@BetterTogether-UnIr1 je kunt het! Je kunt het! 🎉🎉🎉 (Ik kan geen cheerleader pom-poms vinden 🤣

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      @@sophiesmeenk1076 Where oh where are the cheerleader 📣 pom-poms when we need them? 😆

  • @paulc8799
    @paulc8799 10 дней назад

    Oh dear, accents. I hate mine when I speak English, the funny thing it isn't a problem when I speak German, even though I'm not fluent in German anymore.
    A question for you, 'slightly' influenced by the last habit (first time I actually didn't start typing): What would you do, in the company of others, should you notice that green crud from their meal, tightly located between their teeth? An American friend wasn't too pleased when I made her aware of said situation. Took even the utmost care how I said it, shielded her from others who saw. Still can't over the way she reacted. Oh well. 😅

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      @@paulc8799 I’m with you, Paul. If I noticed green crud in my dinner companion’s teeth, I would bring it to their attention discretely, just as you did. And had you done the same to me, I would be most appreciative.
      But, as I mentioned in the video, I would never offer an unsolicited insult in the guise of directness. To me, that’s ill-mannered and inconsiderate no matter how you slice it. But that’s very different from what you are describing, which I would consider a friendly gesture. Everybody’s different, I suppose. 😊

  • @gertvanderstraaten6352
    @gertvanderstraaten6352 9 дней назад

    Meh, I've had Dutchies thinking I was German by my accent, but usually they think Limburgish. I'm from Brabant though.
    Your Dutch sounds a lot better than my Texan Sister in Law's and some of her American/NZ and UK expat friends (she met most of them in Dutch classes).

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  9 дней назад

      @@gertvanderstraaten6352 Thanks for your comment (and the compliment), Gert. Is it true that the “G”s are a bit softer in Brabant? That would suit me just fine. 😊

    • @gertvanderstraaten6352
      @gertvanderstraaten6352 9 дней назад

      @ Yes they are, in Limburg as well and Flanders.

  • @carlkuss
    @carlkuss 10 дней назад

    Your English has gotten hyper clear as you pronounce each word in a kind of distinct and discrete way. I find myself doing something similar actually. Perhaps it has to do with thoughtfulness . I lived for 23 years in the Netherllands as seminarian and priest in Limburg

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      Thank you, Carl, for your kind words. 😊 Beautiful Limburg. 🌳 🐄 🐑 🌳 You must miss it.

  • @RickLane-x4j
    @RickLane-x4j 10 дней назад

    Btw, your cap is often weared on old mans heads lol... or farmers also the oldies. But it's timeless ofcourse. My dead wore also that as his daily cap or hat.

    • @RickLane-x4j
      @RickLane-x4j 10 дней назад

      Weared or worn ugh.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@RickLane-x4j Well, considering I’m an old man and grew up on an island across the street from a cornfield (farm), I guess it makes sense. 😂 Your dad had impeccable taste, if you ask me. He wore cool caps and had a son like you. 👍

    • @RickLane-x4j
      @RickLane-x4j 10 дней назад

      @@BetterTogether-UnIr1 Oops I called my dad "dead"... it sounds about the same. I always use my old technical school english and never google translate so I might make some typo's. My dad was an officer in the army. Born 1920, died in 2011. He often smiled when I was fooling around with him. Sure nice dad. Miss him and my mother too 😞... ruclips.net/video/gIlbZAP8ASQ/видео.htmlsi=Ai7krWPmbr9b_nTb

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +2

      @ No worries about the typos. I’m fluent in typos (and accents). 😉 My dad was also in the army (born 1928). He died in 1997. My mother is still alive and thriving at 93. ❤️

    • @margreetdoodeman1441
      @margreetdoodeman1441 9 дней назад

      I wonder it is a gay thing, my brother used to wear one. He did not get older than 35.

  • @petervanderwoude6316
    @petervanderwoude6316 10 дней назад

    The "easy" way to ditch your accent is to speak from less deep in your throat, or preferably from your mouth.
    Then again, you are you, stay authentic 😉

  • @HALLO63
    @HALLO63 10 дней назад

    Enjoyed your newest video, Mike🍀. How you say "onderwoning" en "bovenwoning" is marvellous. Nothing wrong with an accent. When I speak Dutch, I have a slight Frisian accent. People from the south have "een zachte G" and that sounds lovely 💕. Your optimism is needed for the next 4 years, isn't it? Won't say I'm a pessimist, but hearing Trump's inauguration speech made me feel sad and even a bit depressed. You voted for Harris, which is no surprise. You have enough common sense 💙, that was already clear to me. Don't know if you can call all these MAGA people polite? Of course I know they are as polite as a @&#%$§*😁. You seem very polite to me, but one can also be too polite and then it tends to be fake. That's not the case with you, Mike ❤. I've never been in America, but I see Americans on television and often with such a "toothpaste smile" and that seems often fake/doing polite to me. The Dutch and especially Frisians don't do that....perhaps some 😏. They are more "recht voor de raap". I like that and I'm rather direct too. Making money is more American than Dutch, despite our past as a "handelsnatie". I do something in stocks and crypto, but I don't buy the Trump coin or Tesla stocks for example.
    My impression is also that Americans are less interested in non-American things. They don't know much about the world outside the USA, am I right or wrong? It's of course logical, because the USA is soooooo much bigger than the Netherlands.
    Let's quit, because I'm writing a book here 📖😊. Warm greetings from a proud Frisian 🍀

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      @@HALLO63 Thank you for the good bedtime book! 😊 It warms my heart that you like the way I say “benedenwoning” and “bovenwoning”. I love those words, for many reasons. 😉 We don’t really have an equivalent in English. I also like the Southern “zachte G”. Yes, we will all need to be optimistic for the next four years. I did not watch the inauguration. I have decided to withdraw my attention. The great American poet Walt Whitman once said, “Dismiss what insults your soul”. I am polite, you’re right. But, trust me, you won’t find me being fake polite, certainly not if I’m crossed. 😆 Your “toothpaste smile” remark made me chuckle. I have come to value Dutch directness when it means straight talk and being transparent, honest and efficient. But not when it’s used as an excuse to insult others. That’s just rude. Punt. I think making money is plenty Dutch. Americans are more showy about it, which can be obnoxious. The Dutch are subtle, but they are highly adept at making money. Their distinguished past as tradesmen carries on, in my opinion. I think it’s probably true in general that Americans are less interested in non-American things, partly because - as you said - the country is so large and the culture and language are so dominant. Then again, it is difficult to generalize about a population of 330,000,000+ people, particularly one as diverse as the United States. I am probably not a good example of a “typical American”, whatever that may be. The very fact that I left the country and have been living in the Netherlands for almost half of my life makes me an “atypical American”. 😆 And I’m happy for that. 👍 OK, that’s enough of my bedtime book. 💤

  • @dittedatte8046
    @dittedatte8046 10 дней назад +1

    I never watch Dutch tv programs or Movies. And never liked Dutch music, nothing wrong with that. Just a matter of taste. 😊

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      You’re so right, Freckleface. 😊 May I call you Freckleface? I sincerely hope so; it’s such a great name. Thanks for your comment. It makes me feel better about confessing to my penchant for American music, movies and TV. ❤️

    • @dittedatte8046
      @dittedatte8046 10 дней назад

      @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      Ofcourse you can ☺️
      I think that American productions are more professional and well made. Dutch movies are most of the time cheap knockoffs, like Desperate Housewives and Gooische Vrouwen. Even Drag Race Holland was not much fun at all.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @ Thank you, Freckleface. 😊 You say what I don’t dare to say. ❤️

    • @dittedatte8046
      @dittedatte8046 10 дней назад

      @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      Maybe because I'm from Holland...☺️

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @ That is absolutely why. Love it! ❤️

  • @RickLane-x4j
    @RickLane-x4j 10 дней назад

    That church behind you is famous. That Saint Bavo church has a wonderful great organ. And Bach in a Jazzy way is kewl ;-) You oughtta play it on a hifi stereo set. > Une musique divine qui sonne céleste....

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@RickLane-x4j Yessiree, that Bavo kerk is the bomb! Many moons ago, the church organist, Anton Pauw, gave me a backstage pass so I could play that famous organ, the very keyboard once graced by Mozart’s deft hands! 🙌 Hey, I love that jazzy Bach. Wow! ❤️

    • @RickLane-x4j
      @RickLane-x4j 10 дней назад

      @@BetterTogether-UnIr1 Great organist ! ruclips.net/video/NoTbS17mih0/видео.htmlsi=odxUId9t-M3h6nyE

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      @ Absolutely. And a very kind man. What a beautiful video! 🎥

  • @richardbrinkerhoff
    @richardbrinkerhoff 10 дней назад

    Ah, the accent. After 51 years in the Netherlands I still have a slight American accent, but my Dutch accent in English is stronger as I almost never speak English any more.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      @@richardbrinkerhoff That’s impressive, Richard! I’ll be 87 years old before I will have been here 51 years. There’s hope yet. Maybe by then, I will be speaking Dutch exclusively and will have shed my persistent American accent. 😊 What brought you to the Netherlands so long ago, if I may ask?

    • @richardbrinkerhoff
      @richardbrinkerhoff 9 дней назад

      @@BetterTogether-UnIr1 Having spent my junior year abroad in France, my dream as to live and work in Europe. Knowing French, I thought this would be France. But on vacation in Amsterdam in 1973 I met a Dutchman who, when he heard my dream said I could live with him until I get settled. Back in the States, I gave up my job and my rent. The Dutch consulate said all I needed to do was go to the foreign police my first week. I moved in with my new Dutch friend in January of 1974. I was issued a residency permit. I made an appointment with the Bank of America whom I had contacted earlier, and got a job in the collection department. Very different from my job as an administrative assistant with Chase Manhattan in NYC, paid minimum wage, but it was a job and I could easily get by on my wages. I'd like to tell you more, but not on this open channel. If you're on Facebook I could send you a DM.

  • @RickLane-h4n
    @RickLane-h4n 9 дней назад

    Mikael, you said your English is improving. Just hear Al Stewart with a Crystal Clear and clean voice. That album, The Year Of The Cat was a Hype in the seventies 🙂 ruclips.net/video/lt-ejZgZCe8/видео.htmlsi=fKVuHJCIYt1F5L3O

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  9 дней назад +1

      @@RickLane-h4n Thank you, Mark. Great song; classic album! ❤️🎶

  • @mariavandenbosch2723
    @mariavandenbosch2723 10 дней назад +3

    After growing up in Haarlem/Aerdenhout I worked and lived in the USA for over 20 years. Even after returning to the Netherlands 21 years ago, I'm still hanging on to some of my American Habits.
    You're nr. 10 is my pet peeve. Why are people so rude? I've been brought up with politeness, courtesy and understanding. There has been a dramatic change in duch behavior and attitude sind my immigration and returning to Holland. Unfortunately.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@mariavandenbosch2723 Thank you so much, Maria. I am comforted by your response to nr. 10. I have also noticed a tendency in some people to delight in being rude with the pretense that it is being direct. I have come to appreciate the transparency and efficiency (even honesty) of Dutch directness, but I have no room for unsolicited insults.
      Thank you for watching, and thank you again for taking the time to leave a comment. I love, of course, that you grew up in Haarlem/Aerdenhout. ❤️

    • @mariavandenbosch2723
      @mariavandenbosch2723 10 дней назад

      @BetterTogether-UnIr1 It's a beautiful neighborhood to live and grow up in. Well behavior lessons credits go to my parents and our local schools.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @ Kudos to your parents and the local schools then because it is evident to me that you are a “class act”. 😊

    • @mariavandenbosch2723
      @mariavandenbosch2723 10 дней назад

      @BetterTogether-UnIr1 thank you for such a lovely compliment

    • @Bramfly
      @Bramfly 6 дней назад

      Not rude, honest and direct. No fake interest, politeness appreciated here luckily.

  • @TheHighlander71
    @TheHighlander71 10 дней назад +1

    Don't lose the optimism. It seems like a good trait to have, regardless of where you were born.
    And let's face it, American entertainment is often the best in the Western world. It's no surprise that it's so popular.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад

      I agree. Optimism is everything. I often think it’s not so much WHAT we see but HOW we see. 😊 I also agree with you about American entertainment. Say what you want about the United States (and goodness knows there’s plenty to say!), American entertainment is second to none, in my opinion. 😊

  • @RickLane-h4n
    @RickLane-h4n 10 дней назад

    Not a problem to hear your southern accent. I think when I visit Tennessee they wil notice I am a Dutchy. As I said earlier this is an old account and member 2 for you 🙂 But still Mark* ruclips.net/video/xsERVz6-xRw/видео.htmlsi=3gCUj7oSrRRIq_71

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@RickLane-h4n Thank you, Mark, for the second subscription! And thank you, as always, for the great songs. 🎶 Johnny has a song for everything, doesn’t he? Love it. ❤️ Thanks to you, I’ve been learning to play I’d Rather Die Young on the uke.

    • @RickLane-x4j
      @RickLane-x4j 10 дней назад

      @@BetterTogether-UnIr1 On the Uke.. awesome. I sent a Ukelele band from the UK with the song Wuthering Heights somewhere. Not sure via Mark 1 or Mark 2 lol.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +2

      @ Hmm.🤔 It must have been lost in the shuffle, but I just looked it up. A jazzy rendition of Wuthering Heights on multiple ukes. Awesome! 👏

  • @justmandy6572
    @justmandy6572 10 дней назад

    Hell no. Real Southern folks, you need subtitles.
    On the capitalism part, owning a home isn't really "capitalism" . What I do notice is a lack of "sense of community" as in caring for problems that people outside your own community have . If that makes sense.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  10 дней назад +1

      @@justmandy6572 Haha. 😆 Thank you, Mandy. I mean, come on, right? ❤️

  • @piepkwiep4312
    @piepkwiep4312 10 дней назад

    Ge het unne schone klak.

  • @joehoe222
    @joehoe222 9 дней назад

    The Dutch 'rudeness' always gets me. I live in the south of the Netherlands, where the directness is a little bit less than above the rivers. Still, for American standards quite direct, but less bad as in North and South Holland.

    • @BetterTogether-UnIr1
      @BetterTogether-UnIr1  9 дней назад

      @@joehoe222 Hi Joe.👋 Thanks for your comment. I confess: I love the southern comforts. 😊 Beautiful countryside down south as well. 👍