Not the menstrual product thing though. I think that if she’s your enemy or a bully, let her embarrass herself, don’t give her any product stuff, things. Just let her stay in the bathroom bleeding until someone else is willing to give her something.
Basically our rules are summed up to, You can hate each other but period stuff and actual harm is off limits to be petty about, you help in those situations
I always have part of my bookbag full of pads, and when my older sister needs one, I yoink on eout and hand it to her, but she uses tampons most of the time, so I'm no help
If a guy gives you period products in the middle of the damn school hallway when they realize you need some, they’re either a dad, a teacher, or a trans man. That being said, I am the last option and I will not hesitate to help a girlie out.
I once met a childhood bully of mine in high school, I let her know quietly that she bled her pants and went to the teacher room to ask for an extra jacket and handed it to her, forgiveness is a key, don't hold into old grudges (unless it's something really bad)
If a guy is mean to you for some sexist reason, you are my sister! I do not care if I like you or who you are. After you‘re rid of him, we‘l just go back to where we were and never talk about it again.
I'm menopausal and I still carry pads in my purse. I actually thought about stopping until one day I was in the restroom at my doctor's office. A girl asked her friend for a pad and she said she didn't have one either. Grandma to the rescue!! I still carry them. You never know.
@@YvonneFobbs I am not being sarcastic or anything, but I sincerely wish you were my grandma! Your grandkids (if you have any) are so lucky to have you
@@Kai_hellfire Thank you!! I have five that I'm trying to turn into Trekkies!! Not being successful in that area but they love my red velvet cake!! They know grandma always has their back, love and something fattening on the stove!! I maybe a nerd but the southern grandma gene is stronger!!
You always intervene if you see someone abusing another woman. Even if you have to get men to help you. You never let a woman get abused and leave her there to continue to be abused!
@@Toby-z2zit should apply too, but it’s more likely that you unavoidably need to get other men help for that, what if the bullies are men and stronger than you?
I'm a girl and I never knew about "girl code" but something just makes a lot of sense now that I know about it... A couple years ago I was having the worst period cramps of all times, having nausea and everything, but I was an intern at school so I couldn't just go home. Long story short I was in line at the cafeteria and a group of girls who litteraly hated me noticed I looked like I was in pain and came to help me come out of the line and go to the nurse office. I never understood why these girls would help me, they hated me and nearly everybody knew they hated me, now it makes sense
It doesn’t matter how much or how little a girl bleeds through it is the most embarrassing thing a girl can go through, and we when get told we bleed through and you offer us help we are very thankful.
We also let other girls know if their hair/ makeup/clothing is messed up in anyway. I always carry around a compact mirror just in case someone needs it
That first two ones are really a life saver for many women. As for drunken night outs, I hope women will have more discernment on who to trust in life with their safety and security. And yes sometimes women can be drugged and mistaken for being drunk too; so the last one is a life saver too, incase someone who doesn't drink any alcohol or took low quantities of alcohol, and yet were seeming drunk; sometimes it is possible that she could have been drugged with date rape drugs or other similar drugs/meds used for drugging another surreptitiously.
I was being followed by a man when I was ten at a county fair and my parents weren’t there, I walked over to a group of girls my age and explained. They stayed with me until they could find their parents with no hesitation at all. I think of this all of the time. Especially because I’m around that guys age now.
If a girl with a hijab on has hair sticking out of it, let them know. Some don’t mind if their hair is seen, but other women do. I’m not Muslim, before people ask, I’m Christian.
There was this rude girl in my high school. She had on white pants and had dirt smeared on her but. I didn't like her, and she wasn't nice to me, but i tapped her on the shoulder and told her the dirt was slightly stained. i told her where it was and where to clean. She's been nice to me since then, not friends but more of an acquaintance.
I remember once I was at a volleyball tournament and I forgot pads. I was sitting in the bathroom like “what the hell I am going to do now” and then my friend came in and told me that that our country wants us to warm up, so i asked her if she had any pads. She sadly didn’t and left and I kid you not that less than 3 minutes later there’s my other friend handing me a pad without a single word. The ultimate “we’ve got your back” moment
Not of big fan of hugging or even touching people I know or strangers, but once a girl was SA in the middle of the street. Some guys in their early 20s went after the guy to beat him and my only instinct was to hug her. She started crying the second I hugged her. I hope she's doing fine now.
Girls (friends) almost always debrief about events, and we give certain guys code names so we can talk about them without anyone knowing who we're talking about.
Basically, we protect each other in ways our society as a whole fails us. Menstrual products, making sure fellow women are safe. That's generally what girl code comes down to
One of the most important rule of girls code is that you never and i mean never go after your friend's ex even if they dont like each other anymore you dont date the ex
I had a friend who dated a guy another friend had broken up due to the relationship not working. She was chill with it, but when the relationship between those two didn’t work, they turned eyes on “the next girl in line” and chose to hate her if she did as much as stay being friends with him. Spoiler: the guy and girl are besties now.
@@black_scorpion9781yes and sometimes the girl is that reason because she toxic. Also sometimes relationships just dont work. I have friends who tried dating a few times but it never worked out. They broke up every time. Both got into a relationship and now are happy with their own partner and their own relationship just staying platonic.
Im a trans guy, so if someone bothers my friends im here for them and I know what periods are like so I always have them with me for my friends or just strangers
Quick thing if your under 18 and you see a man that makes you uncomfortable find a woman better if she has children and say “mom this man is making me feel uncomfortable” 9/10 times the most instinct will come out
Been in this situation before. Lost in an airport when I was around 10. I clearly looked lost, looking back on it, but I was super shy and didn’t quite know how to talk to people. Noticed way too many people having lingering glances and I just ran up to a parent sitting at one of the restaurant tables with two kids around my age and acted like I was her kid. She got me back to my parents, but it still freaked me out.
There are a lot of people who forget about the last one. You can tell someone they don’t look good while wearing something, without being a pos about it.
A guy tried to ask out my sister and she said "sorry I'm gay" and she grabbed her friends hand, and then her friend kissed her on the cheek and the guy walked away😂
When I give advice to my friends, I usually just say "I wouldn't do that because blah blah blah" "that outfit is nice, but it doesn't match you" or "I love you and all, but that isn't a good idea"
As you get older, you'll realize your advice actually isn't truly wanted, even if they ask you for it. In the end, people always do what they want, so save your breath.
I was in the bathroom at work when my manager/aka the girl my ex cheated on me with, not 2 weeks after i found out. Well she forgot a pad bcz oh course she would, and no matter how much i wanted to laugh and leave... it ain't me. So i gave her a damn pad. Then 2 months later some dude yelled at her so bad she was hyperventilating in the floor.... and i, knowing how a panic attack feels so i comforted her through it... im okay with being a girls girl, but she lost a great friend.
My coworkers and myself have a medical drawer at our work room. It has things like asprin, Claritin, ibuprofen, burn cream, etc. We also gave all kinds of menstrual products as well, for the other coworkers, ourselves, or customers if they ask.
Girl here, Three girls of my class hate me from what I've been told from a really close friend of mine, yet our class once went on a trip for a day and we were always close, we shared food and one even gave me a makeover, even though they hate me, I bought those girls that hate me drinks and even one of them gets me drinks for free if I ask so. Also many times if we get out period or will get it soon, we always ask no matter who, to tell us if blood leaked, and if so, we would help one another, no matter how much we hate each other, and yes, I even hung out alone with the girls that hate me. No matter how much we hate a girl, in our class, we all talk shit about everyone else from out of class and help each other out, so that's cool
And there's also the fact that there exists many girls who outright don't care about the girl code and will do everything the exact opposite... Some even go after the man of their best friends and sister ... May God bless those girls with a sense of dignity, morals and some emotions...
I've never known this to be a unwritten girl code. I just thought this was life. That we simply make the choice to make these decisions for each other.
Once, at school, I saw a girl that I don't particularly like walking around and she had a little blood on her pants. I don't like a lot of the kids at my school, though I don't think they know it, but I'm not in any beef with anybody. Since it's the right thing to do, I picked up my pace a bit to catch up to her and told her she bled through a little bit before sprinting ahead to my class because I had never done that before and my introverted ahh was terrified of the interaction lmao
Basic rules are pretty well summed up here. No matter how much you hate a girl or if she's a complete stranger you don't leave her in danger or bleeding. The rest are typically specifics on those things. Plus a few other minor things like don't lie in a way that will cost her money.
no, it’s a great thing. same thing for the opposite gender too. if a girl is being creepy or stalking a guy and the guy pretends to be your friend, go along with it.
I went to a different school for exams and I stained my skirt. this complete stranger came in up to me, put her jacket around my waist and led me to get cleaned up. Bless her soul.
When we go potty together its because we want to gossip about the boys we're with. When coming out if she's giggling and looking at you its a good sign. Then when you ask and they say "nothing" believe her you won't be able to handle the truth 😂
If a girl breaks up with her ex and she's not in good terms with him/her do NOT be friends with them either delete their number or block them and try to avoid them
If you're introduced to a guy as your girl friend's boyfriend then no matter how much we vibe you'll always be my girl friend's boyfriend maybe ex boyfriend but never my friend ✌🏻✌🏻
If A girl kisses a guy on the cheek, after not seeing them in a while, it's not because we love you, it's because we see you as family, if I love you, I will hug you
@@KAkyoinDUB2137 No one can. Only you can chose to be better. And it's really up to you if you'll be petty and mean or a nice person who save's someones day.
I was waiting to get off a bus when a lass who was sitten next to me stood up. i noticed that she had leaked onto her light blue jeans i took of my jumper handed it to her wispering that shes leaked and to tie it around her waist. Poor lass was so embarrassed but thankful
My first time bleeding through my pants was in middle school. I had no girls tell me, it was actually a very rude guy that is usually really loud and mean to everyone. I go to dump my tray after lunch and he pulls me to the side of the tray stacker. He takes his jacket off and quietly in my ear says "i think you started your period, its okay, i have 3 big sisters and its happened to them a lot" he walks me to the nurses office to get a new pair of pants and tells me to keep his jacket for the day in case anything else happens. After that a rumor started that he gave me his jacket because he liked me, and he said "so what if I do? It isn't like any of you have a chance with her anyways" I still wonder where he's at sometimes. Probably a felon honestly, but probably one of those kind felons 😂😂
As a girl once at school I had to throw up due to drinking somthing that morning besides milk and some girls in the bathroom made sure I didn’t take anything weird I didn’t even know those girls
Something to add: NEVER go for a friend's crush, ex, sibling, ect. Unless they for some reason give you permission, don't. And NEVER go for a taken guy/girl. Out of all your options, do you really have to try to destroy a relationship?
Yes, this is why I’m talking about when I mean girl code like we all have know that one distinct look that either means I’m in trouble or hate the person that’s behind me and we can kind of tell the difference and the best part is we can make it looks like we’ve been best friends our entire life in two secondsand we can act like we’re enemies and you just killed a member of my family
YOU NEVER LEAVE A GIRL ALONE WITH A MAN YOU KNOW SHES UNCOMFORTABLE WITH. IT DOESN’T MATTER IF YOU KNOW HER OR NOT, IF YOU LIKE HER OR NOT. YOU. HELP. HER. *GIRLS PROTECT GIRLS.*
if a girl ever says "she's not interested" ESPECIALLY a bigger girl, it's not because she's jealous you're hitting on her pretty friend. she was ALWAYS asked to come over and save her friends from a creep lol
When I went shopping with my best friend we always were cold and honest if something looks bad on the other like once I tried on a dress I thought looked cut but when I tried it on it looked really bad and when I opened the curtain of the changing room she just blatantly told me "girl you look like shit what's your size I saw something better" and I loved that about our friendship but we sadly lost contact after I graduated a year earlier than her and started working
Omg yes I was in an airport and a random lady asks me if I speak English I answer with a yes and she tells me there is blood in my pants I was super embarrassed
I always bring extra pads and tampons on me regardless of if I have my period or not. Just in case someone else needs one. In highschool I had an extra zip up binder that just had menstrual products in it so if anyone needed one I'd just give them that from my locker, so they didn't have to worry anyone would see me giving them one.
If you know for certain that a girls partner is cheating on her, you ALWAYS tell her. I don't care if you hate her. I don't care if the guy is your own brother. Tell that poor girl.😢❤
One time the girl that hates me and i hate too gave me pads because I hadn't had any left I still don't get along with her but that was one time we respected each othe
The menstrual pad thing, we can even go out to buy it for you from our own pocket when noone in the whole bathroom has it😂😂Its weird how fast we forget that this random woman we're helping is a total stranger😅
The way i thought " of course we do" at everything
I kept saying "well, yeah". 😂😂😂
A couple "Duhs"
I mean its just natural
I am like 200
Not the menstrual product thing though. I think that if she’s your enemy or a bully, let her embarrass herself, don’t give her any product stuff, things. Just let her stay in the bathroom bleeding until someone else is willing to give her something.
exactly im not giving that b anything
Basically our rules are summed up to, You can hate each other but period stuff and actual harm is off limits to be petty about, you help in those situations
Those are the only times that we are ever getting along with our enemy group 😅
I always have part of my bookbag full of pads, and when my older sister needs one, I yoink on eout and hand it to her, but she uses tampons most of the time, so I'm no help
@@MarkjrHooperpack tampons too! I prefer pads, but it’s always nice to have options for those who use tampons!
If a guy gives you period products in the middle of the damn school hallway when they realize you need some, they’re either a dad, a teacher, or a trans man. That being said, I am the last option and I will not hesitate to help a girlie out.
Don’t date a friend’s ex unless u have their consent and is comfortable
It depends tho some people don't care at all, but off u have to así if they care or not
learnt that the hard way (it ruined my life)
like if you guys dated when you were 8 or something and your now 15
@@k-kc8xrYo people date at 8?
That probably applies to guys too wow
My BULLY literally gived me pads when i didnt have some and after asked me if everything was alright
Omg same!
I once met a childhood bully of mine in high school, I let her know quietly that she bled her pants and went to the teacher room to ask for an extra jacket and handed it to her, forgiveness is a key, don't hold into old grudges (unless it's something really bad)
At least the bully knows simple ✨girl code ✨
@@Haminationz 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚑𝚊𝚜 𝚊𝚋𝚜𝚘𝚕𝚞𝚝𝚎𝚕𝚢 𝚗𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚘 𝚍𝚘 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚘𝚛𝚒𝚐𝚒𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝. 𝚆𝚑𝚢 𝚌𝚊𝚗'𝚝 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚓𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚊𝚌𝚌𝚎𝚙𝚝 𝚜𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚠𝚑𝚘𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚘𝚖𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚋𝚎 𝚊 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚋𝚕𝚎𝚖 𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚛𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚖𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚏𝚞𝚌𝚔𝚎𝚛. 𝚈𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚜 𝚍𝚘𝚗'𝚝 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚢𝚘𝚞, 𝚜𝚝𝚏𝚞
@@Haminationz is ur life that boring that you have to pick up fights with ppl on the internet? 😂😂 what a loser
If a guy is mean to you for some sexist reason, you are my sister! I do not care if I like you or who you are. After you‘re rid of him, we‘l just go back to where we were and never talk about it again.
I'm menopausal and I still carry pads in my purse. I actually thought about stopping until one day I was in the restroom at my doctor's office. A girl asked her friend for a pad and she said she didn't have one either. Grandma to the rescue!! I still carry them. You never know.
Me too!! I also have feminine hygiene purposive in my downstairs guest bathroom. I had a hysterectomy 20 yrs ago, still keep it stocked.
You are the sweetest grandma I have met or heard of
@@Kai_hellfire Thank you!
@@YvonneFobbs I am not being sarcastic or anything, but I sincerely wish you were my grandma! Your grandkids (if you have any) are so lucky to have you
@@Kai_hellfire Thank you!! I have five that I'm trying to turn into Trekkies!! Not being successful in that area but they love my red velvet cake!! They know grandma always has their back, love and something fattening on the stove!! I maybe a nerd but the southern grandma gene is stronger!!
You always intervene if you see someone abusing another woman. Even if you have to get men to help you. You never let a woman get abused and leave her there to continue to be abused!
@@cassandraburns3792 In my neck of the woods, we don't do restraining orders! We do rifles and unsolved disappearances!
What if a man being abused
@@Toby-z2zit should apply too, but it’s more likely that you unavoidably need to get other men help for that, what if the bullies are men and stronger than you?
@@gabrielaaguilera2770 ok also another thing
Why not just gwt a steknger women
I'm a girl and I never knew about "girl code" but something just makes a lot of sense now that I know about it...
A couple years ago I was having the worst period cramps of all times, having nausea and everything, but I was an intern at school so I couldn't just go home. Long story short I was in line at the cafeteria and a group of girls who litteraly hated me noticed I looked like I was in pain and came to help me come out of the line and go to the nurse office. I never understood why these girls would help me, they hated me and nearly everybody knew they hated me, now it makes sense
I can't have periods anymore and I carry menstrual products anyways. It's been helpful more times than I can count
If any strange adult gets close to any kid i always go talk with the kid and ask if they know the person and help if needed
But aren't you an stranger yourself to begin with?
@@NicholasVictor-j1pyeah i agree what if there there for the same reason you are
It doesn’t matter how much or how little a girl bleeds through it is the most embarrassing thing a girl can go through, and we when get told we bleed through and you offer us help we are very thankful.
One I think should be big is telling a girl about rumors, like if people are spreading stuff about her
Feel like that should go for both boys and girls though
We also let other girls know if their hair/ makeup/clothing is messed up in anyway. I always carry around a compact mirror just in case someone needs it
First thing I thought of is protecting each other from creepy guys. Every woman knows "the look".
The period one is so true, no matter how you know the person you give it cause we all know the pain of not having one when you need it
That first two ones are really a life saver for many women.
As for drunken night outs, I hope women will have more discernment on who to trust in life with their safety and security.
And yes sometimes women can be drugged and mistaken for being drunk too; so the last one is a life saver too, incase someone who doesn't drink any alcohol or took low quantities of alcohol, and yet were seeming drunk; sometimes it is possible that she could have been drugged with date rape drugs or other similar drugs/meds used for drugging another surreptitiously.
So true
As a guy, I have taken notes. Gotta look out for my girlies
I was being followed by a man when I was ten at a county fair and my parents weren’t there, I walked over to a group of girls my age and explained. They stayed with me until they could find their parents with no hesitation at all. I think of this all of the time. Especially because I’m around that guys age now.
If a girl with a hijab on has hair sticking out of it, let them know. Some don’t mind if their hair is seen, but other women do. I’m not Muslim, before people ask, I’m Christian.
There was this rude girl in my high school. She had on white pants and had dirt smeared on her but. I didn't like her, and she wasn't nice to me, but i tapped her on the shoulder and told her the dirt was slightly stained. i told her where it was and where to clean.
She's been nice to me since then, not friends but more of an acquaintance.
I remember once I was at a volleyball tournament and I forgot pads. I was sitting in the bathroom like “what the hell I am going to do now” and then my friend came in and told me that that our country wants us to warm up, so i asked her if she had any pads. She sadly didn’t and left and I kid you not that less than 3 minutes later there’s my other friend handing me a pad without a single word. The ultimate “we’ve got your back” moment
Not of big fan of hugging or even touching people I know or strangers, but once a girl was SA in the middle of the street. Some guys in their early 20s went after the guy to beat him and my only instinct was to hug her. She started crying the second I hugged her. I hope she's doing fine now.
Girls (friends) almost always debrief about events, and we give certain guys code names so we can talk about them without anyone knowing who we're talking about.
Omg yes and those names are sometimes so absurd you would have never guessed who is it 😂
More like if your friend comes up to u with a fake story u just go along with it
If she acts dalulu join in it 😂😂
I've got 1 group of friends I shouldn't be around when tired, our craziness just bounces off each other and it never ends well 😂
Basically, we protect each other in ways our society as a whole fails us. Menstrual products, making sure fellow women are safe. That's generally what girl code comes down to
One of the most important rule of girls code is that you never and i mean never go after your friend's ex even if they dont like each other anymore you dont date the ex
I had a friend who dated a guy another friend had broken up due to the relationship not working. She was chill with it, but when the relationship between those two didn’t work, they turned eyes on “the next girl in line” and chose to hate her if she did as much as stay being friends with him.
Spoiler: the guy and girl are besties now.
Their an ex for a reason
Why? They aren't in the relationship anymore.
@@black_scorpion9781yes and sometimes the girl is that reason because she toxic. Also sometimes relationships just dont work. I have friends who tried dating a few times but it never worked out. They broke up every time. Both got into a relationship and now are happy with their own partner and their own relationship just staying platonic.
@@idontknowwhattoputehtowattoshe 𝚒𝚏 𝚒𝚝 𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚍 𝚗𝚘𝚝-𝚜𝚘-𝚐𝚘𝚘𝚍, 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚐𝚒𝚛𝚕 𝚌𝚊𝚗 𝚋𝚎 𝚞𝚗𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚒𝚝
Im a trans guy, so if someone bothers my friends im here for them and I know what periods are like so I always have them with me for my friends or just strangers
It’s sad that we have to
Have some of these rules to keep each other safe
A lady tried to pay me for giving her a pad once. So that's another rule, don't accept that money and be kind to them. We've all been there.
Quick thing if your under 18 and you see a man that makes you uncomfortable find a woman better if she has children and say “mom this man is making me feel uncomfortable” 9/10 times the most instinct will come out
Been in this situation before. Lost in an airport when I was around 10. I clearly looked lost, looking back on it, but I was super shy and didn’t quite know how to talk to people. Noticed way too many people having lingering glances and I just ran up to a parent sitting at one of the restaurant tables with two kids around my age and acted like I was her kid. She got me back to my parents, but it still freaked me out.
There are a lot of people who forget about the last one.
You can tell someone they don’t look good while wearing something, without being a pos about it.
A guy tried to ask out my sister and she said "sorry I'm gay" and she grabbed her friends hand, and then her friend kissed her on the cheek and the guy walked away😂
When I give advice to my friends, I usually just say "I wouldn't do that because blah blah blah" "that outfit is nice, but it doesn't match you" or "I love you and all, but that isn't a good idea"
As you get older, you'll realize your advice actually isn't truly wanted, even if they ask you for it. In the end, people always do what they want, so save your breath.
Girl code: DON’T TELL THE GUYS WHAT WE TALK ABOUT IN THE BATHROOM WHEN WE GO ALL TOGETHER!
Guys also do help girls get away from other guys. I probably probably wouldn't catch on as quickly, but I would still try to help.
I was in the bathroom at work when my manager/aka the girl my ex cheated on me with, not 2 weeks after i found out. Well she forgot a pad bcz oh course she would, and no matter how much i wanted to laugh and leave... it ain't me. So i gave her a damn pad. Then 2 months later some dude yelled at her so bad she was hyperventilating in the floor.... and i, knowing how a panic attack feels so i comforted her through it... im okay with being a girls girl, but she lost a great friend.
It's crazy that we learned those rules out of pure instinct just because we are more empathetic and don't want that to happen with ourselves
My coworkers and myself have a medical drawer at our work room. It has things like asprin, Claritin, ibuprofen, burn cream, etc. We also gave all kinds of menstrual products as well, for the other coworkers, ourselves, or customers if they ask.
Girl here,
Three girls of my class hate me from what I've been told from a really close friend of mine, yet our class once went on a trip for a day and we were always close, we shared food and one even gave me a makeover, even though they hate me, I bought those girls that hate me drinks and even one of them gets me drinks for free if I ask so. Also many times if we get out period or will get it soon, we always ask no matter who, to tell us if blood leaked, and if so, we would help one another, no matter how much we hate each other, and yes, I even hung out alone with the girls that hate me. No matter how much we hate a girl, in our class, we all talk shit about everyone else from out of class and help each other out, so that's cool
And there's also the fact that there exists many girls who outright don't care about the girl code and will do everything the exact opposite... Some even go after the man of their best friends and sister ... May God bless those girls with a sense of dignity, morals and some emotions...
To the drunk friend one. Even if the person is "trusted" you should STILL never leave her.
We do all these. Im so grateful that other women did help me too. So thankful to them
I've never known this to be a unwritten girl code. I just thought this was life. That we simply make the choice to make these decisions for each other.
Once, at school, I saw a girl that I don't particularly like walking around and she had a little blood on her pants. I don't like a lot of the kids at my school, though I don't think they know it, but I'm not in any beef with anybody. Since it's the right thing to do, I picked up my pace a bit to catch up to her and told her she bled through a little bit before sprinting ahead to my class because I had never done that before and my introverted ahh was terrified of the interaction lmao
Basic rules are pretty well summed up here. No matter how much you hate a girl or if she's a complete stranger you don't leave her in danger or bleeding. The rest are typically specifics on those things. Plus a few other minor things like don't lie in a way that will cost her money.
is it strange that i do this as well to strange girls even as a guy? just out of kindness?
no, it’s a great thing. same thing for the opposite gender too. if a girl is being creepy or stalking a guy and the guy pretends to be your friend, go along with it.
@@cookiegirl1097I mean not to be that kind of person but most stalker and killers are men.
GIRLS!!!! Y’all’s cannot be spilling our secrets like that!!!
Even when you tell us you want us to be 100% honest we still filter what we actually want to say.
Just so we don't hurt your feelings
Don't date siblings without consent!
Some of my guys friends helped me through my bleed through and now I have strong respect for them
Dating your friend's ex without the friend's consent is a strict violation of girl code
tbh even with the friends consent it still feels wrong 😭
iive never ggotten this one tbh,.,.,.
I went to a different school for exams and I stained my skirt. this complete stranger came in up to me, put her jacket around my waist and led me to get cleaned up. Bless her soul.
When we go potty together its because we want to gossip about the boys we're with. When coming out if she's giggling and looking at you its a good sign. Then when you ask and they say "nothing" believe her you won't be able to handle the truth 😂
Or, we're not all gossiping drama queens and just use the restroom like it's intended to.
@@deviantly_night I don't go with my girls if my only intention is to use the bathroom.
@@deviantly_nightgossip drama queens? No! Only friends talking about their dates privately!!!
I hate when random women tell me that I have bled on my pants in a very shy and secret-coded way. It makes me feel uneasy and cringy
It’s an uncomfortable situation, but it’s better than not realising and not being able to do anything about it😅
If my worst enemy has ran outta toilet paper
I ain't giving him shit 💀
Bit of a difference but ok.
Don’t date a friend’s ex
Goes for guys too
Clearly nobody I was with knew the girl code because none of my friends even told me when I bled through my clothes
If a girl breaks up with her ex and she's not in good terms with him/her do NOT be friends with them either delete their number or block them and try to avoid them
Pretty shitty move but whatever
@@ΣπυροςΣτεφανιδης-δ3θ I meant like if he's the reason they broke up and like he did some pretty bad things
Give her honest but not mean advice? That's a death sentence
If you're introduced to a guy as your girl friend's boyfriend then no matter how much we vibe you'll always be my girl friend's boyfriend maybe ex boyfriend but never my friend ✌🏻✌🏻
POV: you get too distracted by the video and have to rewind to see what you missed
If A girl kisses a guy on the cheek, after not seeing them in a while, it's not because we love you, it's because we see you as family, if I love you, I will hug you
Don’t gatekeep cool clothes or places if someone asks you where you got your clothes you tell them and same goes for makeup, accessories, etc.
No i wouldnt give to someone i hate AND someone i dont know cuz social anxiety wouldnt let me even speak TyT
Then you petty, babe. Unless they did something to _truly_ hurt you (with all their knowledge and intent) you will give them that pad.
@@isa_zora463 who would force me to
@@KAkyoinDUB2137 No one can. Only you can chose to be better. And it's really up to you if you'll be petty and mean or a nice person who save's someones day.
I was waiting to get off a bus when a lass who was sitten next to me stood up. i noticed that she had leaked onto her light blue jeans i took of my jumper handed it to her wispering that shes leaked and to tie it around her waist. Poor lass was so embarrassed but thankful
My first time bleeding through my pants was in middle school.
I had no girls tell me, it was actually a very rude guy that is usually really loud and mean to everyone. I go to dump my tray after lunch and he pulls me to the side of the tray stacker. He takes his jacket off and quietly in my ear says "i think you started your period, its okay, i have 3 big sisters and its happened to them a lot" he walks me to the nurses office to get a new pair of pants and tells me to keep his jacket for the day in case anything else happens.
After that a rumor started that he gave me his jacket because he liked me, and he said "so what if I do? It isn't like any of you have a chance with her anyways"
I still wonder where he's at sometimes. Probably a felon honestly, but probably one of those kind felons 😂😂
Never tell each others parents if you did something dirty
As a girl once at school I had to throw up due to drinking somthing that morning besides milk and some girls in the bathroom made sure I didn’t take anything weird I didn’t even know those girls
Something to add: NEVER go for a friend's crush, ex, sibling, ect. Unless they for some reason give you permission, don't. And NEVER go for a taken guy/girl. Out of all your options, do you really have to try to destroy a relationship?
If its your worst enemy, and theres a good reason for it, dont give them a pad
Yes, this is why I’m talking about when I mean girl code like we all have know that one distinct look that either means I’m in trouble or hate the person that’s behind me and we can kind of tell the difference and the best part is we can make it looks like we’ve been best friends our entire life in two secondsand we can act like we’re enemies and you just killed a member of my family
YOU NEVER LEAVE A GIRL ALONE WITH A MAN YOU KNOW SHES UNCOMFORTABLE WITH. IT DOESN’T MATTER IF YOU KNOW HER OR NOT, IF YOU LIKE HER OR NOT. YOU. HELP. HER. *GIRLS PROTECT GIRLS.*
*Umm I -totally- know whats going on
Dont*
All facts in this video!!!!!!
I know a lot about unwritten rules of girl code because of how close my sister and I are
The story at the start, I had already heard it from another short earlier today.
Yeah the first one happens way more often than it should😢😢
Every girl needs a bff so somebody can give her a second opinion
if a girl ever says "she's not interested" ESPECIALLY a bigger girl, it's not because she's jealous you're hitting on her pretty friend. she was ALWAYS asked to come over and save her friends from a creep lol
When I went shopping with my best friend we always were cold and honest if something looks bad on the other like once I tried on a dress I thought looked cut but when I tried it on it looked really bad and when I opened the curtain of the changing room she just blatantly told me "girl you look like shit what's your size I saw something better" and I loved that about our friendship but we sadly lost contact after I graduated a year earlier than her and started working
Haha! If i hate someone, I’d let them be embarrassed about it.
Omg yes I was in an airport and a random lady asks me if I speak English I answer with a yes and she tells me there is blood in my pants I was super embarrassed
The pad rule is so important like you don't do that u will never have friends and or have a bad rep
If someone your friends with breaks up with their boyfriend you don't date their ex even if they give permission
𝙸𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚢 𝚐𝚒𝚟𝚎 𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚖𝚒𝚜𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚒𝚜 100% 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚒𝚝, 𝚒𝚝𝚜 𝚏𝚒𝚗𝚎
Wait is that not just normal? Like why wouldn’t we????
Isn't that basic humanity?
Im never giving my worst enemy a pad.
Wow thanks a lot for exposing and possibly putting the rest of us girls in danger! 😤
I always bring extra pads and tampons on me regardless of if I have my period or not. Just in case someone else needs one. In highschool I had an extra zip up binder that just had menstrual products in it so if anyone needed one I'd just give them that from my locker, so they didn't have to worry anyone would see me giving them one.
YES.
I think for younger generations, this has not been passed along enough.
If you know for certain that a girls partner is cheating on her, you ALWAYS tell her. I don't care if you hate her. I don't care if the guy is your own brother. Tell that poor girl.😢❤
The menstrual products are so true..... except I'm always the one giving them away 😂
Don't ever steal their boyfriend. It hurts.
One time the girl that hates me and i hate too gave me pads because I hadn't had any left
I still don't get along with her but that was one time we respected each othe
Yesss
Girls help our fellow girls out no matter what 💪🏻
We also call our our friends on their bs or stupid stuff they were gonna do but I’ve heard that guys just be like yeah bro go for it
The menstrual pad thing, we can even go out to buy it for you from our own pocket when noone in the whole bathroom has it😂😂Its weird how fast we forget that this random woman we're helping is a total stranger😅
Easy thing: Eyebrow and eye language... We can literaly comunicate with just these two... Without a single word...
I’d love it if the girls I knew, knew this