how I met my Thai boyfriend

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
  • the full story 🍵
    ☁️ HIGHLIGHTS
    0:45 observations
    1:42 about my background
    2:13 solo travel phase
    3:13 dating apps
    3:36 ideal list
    4:31 how we met
    6:05 right person any time
    6:57 culture and language
    7:20 loneliness
    7:59 past experiences
    8:33 supportive man
    9:16 tips
    10:04 disclaimer
    🍵 OTHER VIDS
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    why bkk: • why i moved to Bangkok...
    one year update: • moving to Bangkok alon...
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    email: joycehysin@gmail.com
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Комментарии • 227

  • @AndieAguilar
    @AndieAguilar Месяц назад +135

    "some are...not straight, straight up crusty" choked on my laugh right there. Congrats on cracking the code and growing!

    • @l7l7l7l77
      @l7l7l7l77 Месяц назад

      Krusty Crab vibes

    • @Mimi127hdj
      @Mimi127hdj Месяц назад

      HAHAHAHAHAHA IM CHOCKINGGG HEREEEEE !!! 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @joblessoncentrelink
      @joblessoncentrelink Месяц назад

      Her boyfriend already appeared in one her her videos. Except she didn’t announce they were going out

  • @Iamuuui
    @Iamuuui Месяц назад +43

    You have changed immensely from your first day in Thailand to now. You are so beautiful and elegant now!

  • @FloraandNote
    @FloraandNote Месяц назад +48

    I’m so happy for you guys! Being a team is definitely the key to a supportive and healthy relationship. I’m an INFJ girl but now I’m curious what an INFJ guy is like 😂

    • @joycehysin
      @joycehysin  Месяц назад +11

      learning from you and Note 😏😆

    • @joblessoncentrelink
      @joblessoncentrelink Месяц назад

      @@joycehysin the big reveal. When?

    • @CengizEyol
      @CengizEyol Месяц назад +1

      I am ENTP. who do you think would be compatible with me 😅?

    • @ggoh888
      @ggoh888 Месяц назад +2

      來自北美嘅廣東話同路人喺泰國生活緊夢想!

    • @Pessina-Aleotti-ig4mb
      @Pessina-Aleotti-ig4mb Месяц назад

      I am curious about women with small and big tits, what is that? Rewatch this video again and think… it’s absolutely terrible

  • @bakabon114
    @bakabon114 Месяц назад +24

    Congrats to you, Joyce for revealing about your lovely stories with your boyfriend!! As being one of decent Thai guys, I am more than happy and grateful to acknowledge your personal life stories😊

  • @messiahstorage9647
    @messiahstorage9647 Месяц назад +38

    Can't agree more with the 2nd tip. Like, how could you be happy with your bf/gf if you can't be happy while you're with yourself? Love it ❤

    • @manuelm5664
      @manuelm5664 Месяц назад +1

      Amen! 👍 We would be attractive if we radiate happiness from within. Avoid negative thinking of being not good enough. 😊

  • @mavieenthailande2784
    @mavieenthailande2784 9 дней назад +2

    I am french and I live in Bangkok as well. I met my thai boyfriend 3 years ago at a boardgame compétition. He is a short king but he is the most beautiful person I ever met in and out. I've been living in Thailand for almost four years before that and kinda gave up on my dating life here as a farang but there's always hope and I've never been happier in my life than since he is by my side.
    I really wish you two the best 🙏🏻☺️

  • @southpaw1755
    @southpaw1755 Месяц назад +16

    Congratulations! Everyone deserves to have someone to care for. A good relationship consists of honesty and compromise. Being in love is good too.

  • @auracaraballov
    @auracaraballov Месяц назад +4

    Thank you so much for your courage and openness in sharing your story. I’ve been in a similar situation, traveling with one-way tickets for the past three years while longing to settle down and build a relationship. This is the message I needed to not give up! Hearing your story is incredibly comforting, inspiring, and hopeful because it perfectly reflects how I’ve been feeling. I’m so happy for you and wish you a wonderful and joyful new chapter in your life!

  • @ken6619
    @ken6619 Месяц назад +7

    As a fan since the beginning of your journey, I am so happy for you. Hope you have a happy life here forever.

  • @Radiancegrace
    @Radiancegrace Месяц назад +6

    As often you create another banger of a video. Conscious manifestation -act as if what is meaningful to you is already here - another way to go about it. If it’s on your heart good chance the Divine placed it there. Appreciate the genuineness of you behind your content and so happy you are with your person 🙏🏻

  • @thinking8736
    @thinking8736 Месяц назад +16

    congrats joyce on your growth

  • @JoshAwang
    @JoshAwang Месяц назад +8

    I love his mindset... "we are partners, we're on the same team".. that's always been my motto in relationships as well! Happy for you!

  • @hypnotechno
    @hypnotechno Месяц назад +11

    you've broken a thousand hearts but won the respect of just as many. Rooting for "ya gal" :)

  • @meanmalo305
    @meanmalo305 Месяц назад +5

    Im glad that you have a happy relationship and live happily in Thailand now🎉 really appreciate the last two quotes at the end 😂 hope to hear that more😅

  • @sooantonysolotraveler
    @sooantonysolotraveler 26 дней назад +1

    He was/is a very fortunate Thai guy to have you as his girlfriend and future wife. He is and will always be so proud to have you in his life.

  • @armunro
    @armunro Месяц назад +2

    Gosh what an opening up! Not sure I would share my personal life on the internet. Anyhow glad you have a stable boyfriend and are in a good situation. I have been watching your videos from the beginning and its interesting to see your journey and how your perspectives change as you go along. Life is very fluid and you have to go with the flow so yes its fine to change as you go along.

  • @callielim5323
    @callielim5323 Месяц назад +6

    So happy for you!❤

  • @nonya5441
    @nonya5441 Месяц назад +17

    Ah joyce😊 I've been watching you since u first started making reactions videos n i liked u lot because of ur genuine reaction and how the way of your explanation always logical. Somehow our opinions always match even had same favourite bl series (wbl).. although i couldn't catch up with some of ur videos i know how much u struggle since u started travelling alone so m truly happy for u dear❤ congratulations. I wish u a happy, fulfilling future ahead dear🥰

    • @joycehysin
      @joycehysin  Месяц назад +2

      appreciate your comments ~ I remember your profile picture from reaction videos 😂🙈

    • @nonya5441
      @nonya5441 Месяц назад +2

      @joycehysin could possibly be ur no. 1 fan😇❤️

  • @Hunininigxdf
    @Hunininigxdf Месяц назад

    Love the authenticity.
    Your content type is rare

  • @ninachen5625
    @ninachen5625 Месяц назад +3

    An adorable Chinese girl dating a Thai guy. Congratulations. I am Thai. Welcome to the smiling land. 🥰🥰🎉🎉

  • @wamengmoua7526
    @wamengmoua7526 Месяц назад

    Yes, you are totally correct.! Things you are wishing for is sometimes not true? It’s will come naturally when you not expecting? Congratulations on your new partnership ❤

  • @ronbeaubien
    @ronbeaubien Месяц назад +4

    To be honest, as a guy I wish we had learned more about women's cycles. I'm serious. I had no idea when I was younger as why a girl could be sweet and nice for several weeks and then be very different for a for a week or more. Us guys just don't experience anything like that. I'm pretty sure that I had ended some relationships in high school just having no real idea what she was going through.

  • @DonJ1973
    @DonJ1973 Месяц назад +2

    I'm happy for you Joyce. You're a pretty young girl and deserve happiness 😊 Enjoy being young and living your life.

  • @mkk1847
    @mkk1847 Месяц назад

    Ohh talking about period, I just subscribed to Flo and they have the function to share your period dates with partner. I think that’s really helpful to strengthen the relationship 🥰

  • @kenttaepakdee141
    @kenttaepakdee141 Месяц назад +1

    Congrats!!! So happy for You! Wishing you All the Best!

  • @redninjaunit5775
    @redninjaunit5775 Месяц назад +1

    Congratulation Joyce!! happy for you. and look forward to your future videos!!

  • @Scholar555
    @Scholar555 Месяц назад +2

    ขอบคุณที่เล่าเรื่องราว ไทม์ไลน์ กว่าจะมาคบ พบเจอกับ แฟนคนปัจจุบัน
    ขอให้ทั้งงาน และ ความรัก ของเธอ สนับสนุนเกื้อกูลกันและกัน
    ดูแลคนในครอบครัวของ กันและกัน ให้ดี ยินดีกับเธอด้วย
    ที่มีความรัก ที่พึงพอใจ ใส่ใจ ซึ่งกันและกัน

  • @KrystianandVenus
    @KrystianandVenus Месяц назад +1

    Congrats! Looking forward to see you both on the screen, enjoy your life in Bangkok Joyce 😍

  • @_bmee
    @_bmee Месяц назад +1

    glad u met someone reliable! ❤

  • @htchpg5221
    @htchpg5221 Месяц назад +2

    Congratulations Joyce . Very happy for you and Merry Xmas .

  • @reinuttanon1418
    @reinuttanon1418 Месяц назад +1

    I've also been away as a solo traveler in foreign countries for several years. It's so true of wanting such security. (was always telling myself that I couldn't have a serious relationship cuz I am not sure where would i want to settle in -- I guess I'm one of those that have commitmennt issue...). Nevertheless, thanks for sharing!

    • @joycehysin
      @joycehysin  Месяц назад +1

      yeee I realize having a *home base* is key or have a partner to be a part of your journey and share experience and memories together 😭🤧

  • @joannlin
    @joannlin Месяц назад +2

    interesting. Thank you for sharing your personal journey. Yes, the clips from pre-bf look anxious. Post bf=glow up. Not saying that women need bfs to feel confident, but the right person can bring out the best in you by supporting you and taking care of you. I was a single gal when I moved to SF (a new city for me) from LA and I hated being single because I had to worry about work, rent, making my own meals, and when I got sick, it was the most depressing. I lived alone and I remember my lowest point was when I was trying to hang a clock on the wall by myself and went back and forth about 15 times to see if it was levelled...bc well, I lived alone. Now I have 2 boys aged 8 and 6 with my husband and we live in the bay area. He brings out the best in me and allows me to be the best version of myself.

    • @joycehysin
      @joycehysin  Месяц назад

      wowww 🤩 life is better with a man 555

    • @joannlin
      @joannlin Месяц назад

      @joycehysin what does 555 mean?!?

    • @davids4414
      @davids4414 Месяц назад

      @joannlin In Thai language the number five is pronounced “ha”, so hahaha

  • @linda_and_tony
    @linda_and_tony Месяц назад +1

    So happy for both of you! Having a support partner to help each other grow is hard to find 😊❤

  • @virintornkantaravichaiwat4368
    @virintornkantaravichaiwat4368 Месяц назад +1

    Congrats, Joyce! You look even prettier!

  • @DerekManchanda
    @DerekManchanda Месяц назад

    Hahaha your description about 1 out of 5 Thai guys are viable is bang on. It made me nervous but I back myself to be half decent 😂.

  • @supermelville7838
    @supermelville7838 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for sharing Joyce, you deserve the best.

  • @VidNibs
    @VidNibs Месяц назад +2

    "what the *market* was like" - made me chuckle :D

  • @venture.brothers
    @venture.brothers Месяц назад +2

    Happy you've found your other half!!

  • @SanSaeteurn
    @SanSaeteurn Месяц назад +1

    Our sister Joyce has a boyfriend 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 So happy for you.

  • @TheCarmenbuhs
    @TheCarmenbuhs Месяц назад +3

    so happy for you!!! im looking for one too 😂😂 so i get chuuuu❤

  • @charleszzy
    @charleszzy Месяц назад +3

    Time will tell and wish you all the best!

  • @tritonyeah
    @tritonyeah Месяц назад +16

    saw the intelligent investor book at the backgrd, nice!

    • @joycehysin
      @joycehysin  Месяц назад +9

      book from bf 555 🙈

    • @tritonyeah
      @tritonyeah Месяц назад +5

      @@joycehysin plus pts for bf already! sensible

  • @bernardtan3639
    @bernardtan3639 Месяц назад +5

    Congratulations! Joyce. Merry Christmas And a Happy New Year 2025. All the best and wishing both a wonderful and lasting relationship. Cheers! 🥂

  • @mesamis144
    @mesamis144 Месяц назад +1

    Thailand, like many other countries, has a larger female population. However, what makes Thailand unique is the significant number of men who transition to become women, with many of them not being attracted to women, but instead attracted to men.

  • @iBravely
    @iBravely Месяц назад

    congratulations joyce!

  • @bioninaviva
    @bioninaviva Месяц назад +4

    ยินดีด้วยนะคะ i met my boyfriend in Facebook, real love happen in everywhere

  • @Jacksymmar
    @Jacksymmar Месяц назад

    Really love your story so much 🙏

  • @CengizEyol
    @CengizEyol Месяц назад +2

    I hope I will also find my Thai girlfriend here 😂😂 I am in chiang mai at the moment. Best city in Thailand for me 🫰

  • @Jonathan-t7p5t
    @Jonathan-t7p5t Месяц назад +3

    Interesting coincidence that Saturday, Sunday, and Monday are related to Saturn, Sun, and Moon, just as they are in Western culture and where the names of our days come from.

  • @kyorind
    @kyorind Месяц назад

    my ex gf , impressed me so much when we just got together when she said , she dont need me to pamper her always, or give her everything she wants. She wants to be able to pamper herself and get the things she wants herself.. we are together because we want to ใช้ชีวิตด้วยกัน "chai chiwit duay kan".. her words make me feel so much immature compared to her, and hey i made her my wife now :)
    Most importantly stay happy~ Congratulations! so happy for you!

  • @rosskennedy3987
    @rosskennedy3987 Месяц назад +1

    Joyce, you've just broken a million hearts throughout the globe. Good luck to you.

  • @yujilee112
    @yujilee112 Месяц назад +11

    a lot of good guys are into each other lmao 😂

  • @manuelm5664
    @manuelm5664 Месяц назад

    Thanks for sharing your personal journeys. Never give up trying afyer a few failures, just like learning a new skill.
    Excellent disclaimer--One size does not fit all for sure! 😉

  • @YoyoG456
    @YoyoG456 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you Joyce for sharing your story keep it going also your sooooo Beautiful and a real sweetheart
    God Bless you and your boyfriend ❤🎉

  • @amymaddy108
    @amymaddy108 Месяц назад +2

    You're blooming and so he must be the right match for you for he brings out the best in you. Congrats. 😘😀

  • @vieri1910
    @vieri1910 Месяц назад

    you're such a positive partner.

  • @xiheang5584
    @xiheang5584 Месяц назад +1

    So happy for you!

  • @israelayoade
    @israelayoade Месяц назад +3

    Yay! congrats Joyce. I am also in Thailand now. Please let us know if you host any event.

  • @shuzhen9984
    @shuzhen9984 Месяц назад

    Happy for u!!!! ❤ this vid is so 🥹~ As a girl, i feel the struggle between being with myself vs wanting to find a companion, n i don’t have a good luck with this but i hope i can be happy with myself one day !! The crusty comment was funny af HAHAHAHAHA

  • @smkeong
    @smkeong Месяц назад +5

    Hellooo.. congratulations ~! Merry Christmas

  • @Alan_and_Shannon
    @Alan_and_Shannon Месяц назад +2

    Love it ❤️❤️

  • @choco4bia
    @choco4bia Месяц назад +3

    Hearing your lovely story I actually can relate a lot! I’m Thai but living aboard. I met my Farang bf in September 2023 also on Bumble! He made me feel secured and wanted a serious relationship with. Congratulations to you Joyce and wish you both lots of happiness in Thailand 😊

  • @wmanop
    @wmanop Месяц назад +2

    Congratulations!!!

  • @meat_loves_wasabi
    @meat_loves_wasabi Месяц назад +3

    Merry Xmas Joyce.. hope u guys had a great time

  • @zhinjitui
    @zhinjitui Месяц назад +3

    Wait for you guys vlog together

  • @markholland6657
    @markholland6657 Месяц назад +2

    happy for you... life is a journey, enjoy the ride...

  • @AH_ICT
    @AH_ICT Месяц назад +2

    The intelligent investor Spotted :)

  • @metallooily7606
    @metallooily7606 Месяц назад +2

    Take care & be comfortable

  • @natashanepia
    @natashanepia Месяц назад +1

    Whoa I had no issues dating in Bangkok. They say that there’s competition but frankly it’s all about mindset/manifestation ,network and confidence:) But yeah a nice Thai guy is hard to find. The guy I was seeing had an ex who was a celebrity but I told him that I’m a rare gem so be it 😂

    • @oioi5794
      @oioi5794 17 дней назад

      na he had 2 wife’s in ubon and another over in Lao your just a bkk ting 😂 he’d rather the value of a rare gem in baht form then you love wise up about Thai men your stuck in bkk bubble lass

  • @israelayoade
    @israelayoade Месяц назад +4

    What makes other people settle down, since they are both meeting other people? For me it was because I knew I could never find any thai girl as beautiful as my wife. I won the jackpot, even till now, nah. 3 years and all.😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @redone4691
    @redone4691 Месяц назад +4

    Congratulations, Thai men are nice!

  • @karmunfong6108
    @karmunfong6108 Месяц назад +5

    I crack laughing when you said a lot decent girls end up with crusty guys, it’s either they care about personality or they don’t care about looks… 😂😂😂 I burst out laughing so hard cos that is exactly what I observed as well in bkk!! Now what happened to all the decent Thai guys??

  • @kevinp8108
    @kevinp8108 Месяц назад +5

    Unfortunately, my first experience with a Thai lady who lived in Thailand turned out to be a narcissist! After dating long distance, USA-Thailand, and meeting twice, I had to end it because of her attitude and manipulation. It was a shame because she was beautiful, had a great government job, a master's degree, and owned a house. Joyce, your boyfriend is a lucky man!

    • @bakabon114
      @bakabon114 Месяц назад

      Joyce is a lucky woman, too!!

    • @kevinp8108
      @kevinp8108 Месяц назад

      @ how can you say that when you don’t know the boyfriend unless you are her boyfriend?!

    • @bakabon114
      @bakabon114 Месяц назад

      @@kevinp8108 Joyce is the one who accepted and said "Lucky me" in her comment and from this video, you don't have to be her bf to realize that!!🥰

    • @Pessina-Aleotti-ig4mb
      @Pessina-Aleotti-ig4mb Месяц назад

      @@bakabon114you only know people when you eat 7 kilos of salt with them. Where do you know she is a good person? See how she trashes her exes and his she talks about men who are short /tall, what is that? I feel sorry for her boyfriend. Nobody leaves home to go to a foreign country if at home things were fine, this girl has no friends no family who go to visit her in Thailand that’s already a red flag. No RUclips videos can fool smart people

    • @Pessina-Aleotti-ig4mb
      @Pessina-Aleotti-ig4mb Месяц назад

      Leaving the USA holding one of the passport everybody wants to go to a sh***** country, what did you do in the USA to end up in Thailand? Why no family and no friends visit you? Thai are so naive and the less curious people on earth easy for you to fish something over there. The way you talk about your exes like they are some fruits you bought at the supermarket is terrible. Good luck! Cheers

  • @MrTongoody
    @MrTongoody Месяц назад

    Wish you happy with him.
    The rights guy is not about the look but from his heart delivered to you

  • @Joblovenuk
    @Joblovenuk Месяц назад +2

    Coming to Joyce's love life podcast

  • @dyimili3497
    @dyimili3497 День назад

    thanks for the tips and I like your video so much

  • @thongrattana6140
    @thongrattana6140 Месяц назад +8

    ผมเป็นคนไทยที่ดีใจมากๆ ที่ที่คุณมีแฟนเป็นคนไทย เพราะนั้นแสดงว่า คุณจะได้ใช้ชีวิตอยู่ในเมืองไทยตลอดไป ขอให้คุณมีความสุขตลอดไป

  • @ipurpleyou4923
    @ipurpleyou4923 21 день назад

    I can relate son much to everything you say about feelings Joyce! I hope some day I will also meet a decent person

  • @iLyncher
    @iLyncher Месяц назад +1

    That 2021-2024 glow up though

  • @aventurasdemel5063
    @aventurasdemel5063 Месяц назад

    joyce , i am so happy for you , you deserve great thins in life ,

  • @lcyoris
    @lcyoris Месяц назад

    congrats~~ just bump into the channel. nice intro and good luck

  • @aliya-lim
    @aliya-lim Месяц назад +1

    Joyce, congrats~~ be happy!!!!

  • @p00000g
    @p00000g Месяц назад +2

    I SEE THE INTELLIGENT INVESTOR 👀

  • @TheOscDude
    @TheOscDude Месяц назад

    Damn it I thought one day we will meet and I would ask you to go on a date but now it’s too late 😂 I’m happy for you! I truly am 😒

  • @elaingchen9062
    @elaingchen9062 Месяц назад +3

    希望妳一直這麼快樂自在幸福~期待看到妳的男友

  • @12Crypto168
    @12Crypto168 Месяц назад +1

    The Intelligent Investor - good choice Joyce

  • @wasantube
    @wasantube Месяц назад +2

    Now I want to see what he looks like!

  • @tashg9343
    @tashg9343 Месяц назад

    You shouldn’t have to tell your old self anything because the universe made you feel they way you did to connect with your love.

  • @sutats
    @sutats Месяц назад +2

    Such a strange video suggestion on my feed. I think it had to do with your mention of Levi's. Keep up the good work, RUclips.

  • @orawanjan3442
    @orawanjan3442 Месяц назад +2

    actually there are a lot of chinese in thailand but they are in university.

  • @mosqutio88
    @mosqutio88 Месяц назад

    Great book selection in the background! You'll be a self made millionaire in the near future!

  • @winthorpetrois
    @winthorpetrois Месяц назад +2

    I'm just here to learn what "crusty" means.

  • @punteenurut6640
    @punteenurut6640 Месяц назад +1

    Good for you hope you will find your forever home here in my country 😊

  • @fan-jc3vg
    @fan-jc3vg Месяц назад

    The fact that you met him after praying at monk 😮😮

  • @BNg-BKK
    @BNg-BKK Месяц назад +2

    Ohhhhh...you break my heart !!
    😁😄😉😊🥰🤩🤪

  • @nolifekappa6278
    @nolifekappa6278 Месяц назад

    Maybe you should do a Chula Chamchuri Samyan area vlog, haven't seen you in Chula for awhile😊

  • @tashg9343
    @tashg9343 Месяц назад +1

    Thailand is definitely not lonely for single men lol.

  • @winwinwin282828
    @winwinwin282828 Месяц назад +1

    I track my gf cycle and plan holidays accordingly 😅

  • @eugenegan2312
    @eugenegan2312 Месяц назад +4

    I am offended by the remark: short guys have to make up their imperfection to be NICE! haha - ok i am short. haha

  • @islandsnow
    @islandsnow Месяц назад +3

    Why is being short an imperfection.
    All your early videos were titled lonely in Thailand. By myself in Thailand. Single in Thailand. Almost like you were begging to be found by someone and needed a bf. Good you finally got one. Now you got more content to make about relationships

    • @nonya5441
      @nonya5441 Месяц назад +2

      Tf is wrong with u? Jealous coz u aren't in a happy relationship now that u saw one? Or u single? If so that explains lot hmm