"She Only Cared About Herself" Pearl Interviews Guests LIVE On Their Mothers Part 2

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  • @kiqueenbees
    @kiqueenbees 2 месяца назад +31

    He failed because she said he failed. It would be good to hear his side.

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад +2

      Drug addiction, abuse, child corn, all of those are pretty big Ls.

    • @Blackstorm96
      @Blackstorm96 2 месяца назад +4

      It's interesting that you say that about this woman but when Pearl or other creators in the redpill space talk about men who were burned in a relationship nobody wants to hear the woman's side of the story. Not even saying this woman is right, just saying it's interesting.

    • @Gruff338
      @Gruff338 2 месяца назад

      @@Blackstorm96That’s all anyone hears is the woman’s point of view! . Until the laws are fair only the woman’s point of view matters

  • @Redpillcouple
    @Redpillcouple 2 месяца назад +38

    Thank you Pearl for letting my husband go on your show and share his horrible experience with feminism. You and Kevin Samuels made our marriage stronger by shedding the light on women and their responsibilities as a wife. I sure had some feminist traits myself and could have lost my marriage. After listening to you guys I had a complete turn around. I treat my husband as a leader and a man that I adore and treat as a king. I’m great full for him giving me 4 children I just adore.

    • @gregprince5283
      @gregprince5283 2 месяца назад +4

      Kudos to you on turning things around.

    • @Redpillcouple
      @Redpillcouple 2 месяца назад +4

      ⁠@@gregprince5283 I owe it all to my husband for staying with me through the tough times and Pearl and Kevin for red pilling us. The red pill community are the best chance we have to keep our families going strong and recognize the effects of feminism. If women don’t take accountability for their actions (knowingly or unknowingly) and don’t appreciate our men, no one will be able turn marriages around. Not even religion.

    • @gregprince5283
      @gregprince5283 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Redpillcouple appreciate the response. You're right. Please keep in mind God is the head of the household. It's about submission to God as it says in the book of James. When God is first then your husband can lead you effectively because He will bless the relationship. When the husband leads with a Christ like love the woman will desire to submit to his leadership. I understand if God isn't your thing. It's something that's worth looking into. I'm really filled with joy that things are well in your relationship.

    • @Redpillcouple
      @Redpillcouple 2 месяца назад +1

      @@gregprince5283 thank you for your advice sir. Well the reason why I say that even religion isn’t always able to turn marriages around is that I am a Christian, my sister is a renowned minister, our best friends are a pastor and his wife and we have several pastor friends yet even they weren’t able to help our marriage. My husband is a man of God and couldn’t have been more supportive and loving even during tough times. I would use the Bible as a weapon towards him and was a rebellious wife, even when I was strong in my faith with God as my epicenter. I was career woman and a feminist at heart. My husband was that Christ like, loving man who was grabbing at straws trying to make our marriage work. The only thing that worked was when I got red pilled. That’s when I realized that I was very much responsible for almost tearing my own house/family down. I don’t blame anyone else but myself. There are many Christian people that divorce even when they are strong in their faith, pray, fast and hold Christ in the center of their marriage. I just don’t hear many Christians hold women accountable anymore. It’s always something that the man has done wrong, like didn’t have enough faith, isn’t leading or something else along those lines. I see lots of divorces in churches as much as I see miserable marriages. I just wish the leaders of the Church community would really get to the substance of why marriages are failing in our day and age. In theory being a God loving person and having a God fearing husband should help but as you can see the divorce rate is almost as high as the general population. I feel religion doesn’t get to the root of most failing marriages which is due to feminism.

    • @theskyizblue2day431
      @theskyizblue2day431 2 месяца назад

      “I’m glad I’m not one of these women…”
      The day is far from over. Let us pray for hubby

  • @hanooi7450
    @hanooi7450 2 месяца назад +14

    Her ex-husband loved her well enough for her to earn a mechanical engineering degree while raising 3 kids. That is no small feat. Her husband must have been super supportive to reach that point. She dances around the real reason they are divorce. She probably became like her dysfunctional mom.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +4

      He was supportive because I maintained the household and children, my getting two degrees didn't disrupt his world, so he was fine with it. And he wanted me to work because he didn't like being the sole provider, which was why when I began working full time, he quit his job.

  • @9chilidog
    @9chilidog 2 месяца назад +41

    Any kind of "Abuse" charges should always be taken with a grain of salt. I've heard hundreds of sob stories, and none of them true.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +3

      Happy to send receipts. He apologizes all the time for the things he did.

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад +3

      All of them are untrue? I find that hard to believe.

    • @9chilidog
      @9chilidog 2 месяца назад +1

      @@jessicabeam1152 With modern women, yes. Either 💯 not true, or important pieces are intentionally left out.
      A half truth is still not the truth.

    • @freddyfang8842
      @freddyfang8842 2 месяца назад +2

      @@hillarylooper7982 you got your degree and left him.

    • @jaykay4541
      @jaykay4541 2 месяца назад +1

      @@hillarylooper7982
      Everything was fine until he wasn’t working and you were then all of a sudden you didn’t want him.
      Plus still don’t want him.
      It comes down to vows.
      You vowed for richer or poorer but now you admit it
      “you can’t love him like he deserves”.
      That sound 100% sounds like your fault all this blaming him for you not keeping your vows is🤮

  • @spoilerman8975
    @spoilerman8975 2 месяца назад +21

    She said the good years was when she was in school and he was providing and taking care of the children. So then she gets her degrees and now the husband has problems. She's prepared her future with a good career and thrown him to the side. That's what I hear from her story. This man should be able to rewards of her degrees as well is she does because he provided while she was in school full-time. And remember she said those were the good years when everything was going great... Well what about now????

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +4

      He did reap the rewards, for the last 4 years we were together, he didn't work, cheated constantly, talked to underage girls, became violent, and got involved with heavy drug and alcohol use. So I believe he fully benefited from me putting the work in to further my education.

    • @spoilerman8975
      @spoilerman8975 2 месяца назад +4

      @@hillarylooper7982 I'm quite sure he would have a different story to tell. Your situation is very typical, in case you haven't known, of what women do when they get an education, the man is not good enough anymore and you deserve better and more than him. For better or for worse is what your marriage vows said and I absolutely believe eventually this man would have cleaned his act up. I would absolutely believe that he has a different story than you.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +3

      @@spoilerman8975 he had no intention of cleaning his act up...when DSS got involved and he was told he'd have to go to rehab and attend parenting classes, he took the money from the sale of our home and left for Puerto Rico, where he had a girlfriend in less than a month and blew through everything he had in 6 months. So, although I was the one to keep the separation in place, he wasn't exactly fighting for our family...

    • @spoilerman8975
      @spoilerman8975 2 месяца назад +2

      @@hillarylooper7982 I'd still believe his side of the story would be completely different than yours. But I am willing to stipulate that perhaps you are one of the few that is telling the truth and done everything that you could. Have a happy life and take care of the kids. And please allow them to see their father because children need a father in their life. And I hope he cleans his act up. God be with you

    • @jaykay4541
      @jaykay4541 2 месяца назад +2

      @@spoilerman8975
      It sounds super suspect that all of a sudden now it’s abuse and cheating when that wasn’t the first thing she mentioned.
      It was him not working.

  • @gowine504
    @gowine504 2 месяца назад +15

    Tell me the system is broken without telling me that the system is broken.

    • @FazeParticles
      @FazeParticles 2 месяца назад

      the system is gay. that alone is enough for revolution.

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад +4

      I completely agreed. Men need more protection in divorce lawsuits.

    • @gowine504
      @gowine504 2 месяца назад +1

      @@jessicabeam1152 marriage should be a space where both people feel a sense of safety. Obviously if people fee safer outside of marriage, then they wont get married.

  • @rodm49
    @rodm49 2 месяца назад +13

    This is a great segment Pearl 💯

    • @vSeabass
      @vSeabass 2 месяца назад +1

      Interviewing ppl in videos like this is different and Pearl is a great interviewer. It’s awesome

  • @kiqueenbees
    @kiqueenbees 2 месяца назад +9

    It looks like her husband burnt out. It happened to me as I developed an intolerance to gluten, and, grew older and didn't have the same resilience. Women tend to carry this mental clip board ticking standards' boxes, and no one gets 100%.

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад +1

      Hello? She mentioned he was a drug abuser.

  • @jesseblackwood8803
    @jesseblackwood8803 2 месяца назад +19

    She's the victim and hero of her own story. Like all of them.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +2

      I'm not a victim or a hero, I'm just a regular person doing the best I can for myself and my kids.

    • @hammerT2997
      @hammerT2997 2 месяца назад +1

      That's what it sounds like

    • @hammerT2997
      @hammerT2997 2 месяца назад

      ​@@hillarylooper7982 what would you say you did wrong in the relationship then??

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +2

      @hammerT2997 here's some:
      1. Didn't communicate well with him. Whenever he was upset, I didn't want to argue, so I would just walk away or let him have his way and sweep the issues under the rug.
      2. Did too much in the relationship, I probably should've fallen back and let him take the leadership role. Instead, wherever I saw a gap, I stepped in to fill it. I took care of pretty much all of the "adult" stuff to the point of almost handicapping him, which is why now he has no idea where to begin when it comes to handling things like scheduling doctors visits, checking your credit reports, applying for apartments, going to the DMV, filing taxes, paying bills, setting up utilities. If I had allowed him to take more responsibility at that time, maybe he would've stepped in to learn and do those things.
      3. I took advice from the wrong people. I don't know if I should've taken advice from anyone, really. I stayed silent about the really bad stuff later on (to the extent that no one, not even my dad, knew how bad things were) and when I did get advice in the church, it was from women. I think maybe I should've gone to a man I trusted much earlier on.
      4. I let myself go...well, I'm not even sure that I ever held on to myself to begin with, but I was just completely oblivious to how overweight and unattractive I was. I went through bouts of losing weight, but the constant reassurance of "you're beautiful no matter your weight! Beauty is on the inside!" I guess really blinded me. And the only time my ex would bring it up (how unattractive he found me) was during arguments, then he would take it back afterwards. My aim now isn't exactly to be attractive, I suppose, as a 36yo mom, but to be myself (in the video, as in my day to day, I'm not wearing makeup, no fake anything), be at a normal weight/BMI, to be modest, practical, and healthy.
      5. I didn't understand men's needs or what makes them feel loved. I had never really seen a woman genuinely love a man, except in Disney movies or the Bible, and everything is romanticized to appeal to women, not men. I think I confused the role of mother with that of a wife, I should've let him lead. I don't know what I could've done to motivate him more. I think I shouldn't have gone back to school, but I felt so guilty when he said he felt like just a paycheck to us and I saw him working all of the time. There I was, being a stay at home mom to our 2 kids, living the life, and he's working himself to the bone and starting to resent me. He started sleeping in another room, never spending time with us. I wanted to help. I think if I had stayed at home and not gone to school, he would've been forced to stay in that provider role and eventually have gotten used to it and hopefully enjoy being so important to our family. I think I robbed him of his importance by going to school and becoming a slightly lower earner. I just thought it would improve our life, being a dual income family, so he wouldn't feel as much pressure. I think it actually made him feel devalued.
      6. Placed less importance on keeping up appearances/material things and focused more on the simple pleasures in life. I'm just as guilty as the next woman when it comes to comparing my life to other women on social media, and I let that dictate what I thought life was supposed to look like, instead of the importance of peace, health, and being content with exactly what you have been given. I focused too much on "what could be" rather than what actually was, to my own detriment.

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад +2

      I could say the same thing about the men that were interviewed. 🤷‍♀️

  • @cgoamericanpublicrecording2717
    @cgoamericanpublicrecording2717 2 месяца назад +25

    The world revolves around her it's all about her

  • @9chilidog
    @9chilidog 2 месяца назад +11

    Huh, so college rears its head again...imagine that...

  • @keitherickson8404
    @keitherickson8404 2 месяца назад +5

    ask her how long she's been a mechanical engineer? that's when she divorced hubby.

  • @dunamis333
    @dunamis333 2 месяца назад +44

    The woman is a walking contradiction! He helped her to get to where she is in her career, and yet she dumped him because she no longer respected him. He's doing well at his job, yet he's homeless. She claims to be a Christian woman, and yet she's shaking up with a boyfriend. Marriage is for better for worse. Don't believe her leaving was for the sake of the children.

    • @kiqueenbees
      @kiqueenbees 2 месяца назад +9

      No faith in the teachings of Jesus, only faith in her emotional state which to her is truth and confirmation for her decisions.

    • @dunamis333
      @dunamis333 2 месяца назад +7

      ​@@kiqueenbees She asked "Is she suppose to save her husband?" The answer is a resounding YES! She's completely ignorant of what the Word teaches with regards to this, even though she lives in the Southern Bible belt of America. Like so many deceived church goers, she thinks attending church makes her a follower of Jesus Christ. It doesn't. We have to live our lives according to the teaches of the Lord Jesus Christ. The commandment that reveals that we love the Lord with all our heart, soul and strength is to NOT divorce our spouses in order to start committing adultery with someone else. The fact she has divorced her husband and is sleeping with another man indicates she doesn't know Who Jesus is at all. "For how do you know, wife, whether you will SAVE your husband [by leading him to Christ]? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife [by leading her to Christ]?" [1Cor.7:16]

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +5

      He didn’t help me get anywhere in my career, actually. I only went back to school because he didn't like being the sole earner. Then, when he quit his job, he started obsessing over me to the point that I was forced to leave work in the middle of the day because he would threaten to break things in our home or hurt himself. But, ya know, tell yourself whatever story best fits your narrative.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@dunamis333you can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved.

    • @dunamis333
      @dunamis333 2 месяца назад +9

      @@hillarylooper7982 Excuses and more excuses to justify your adultery. The Lord said "...if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.” [Mark 10:12] Your husband is clearly not well and needs help. What if it was your daughter who callled you, threatenting to harm herself. What would you do? kick her out of the house and disown her? Of cause not! You would do everything within your power to get her the help she needs because you love her. It's no different with your husband. Before God you're still married to him. You're deceiving yourself if you think otherwise. What example are you teaching your daughters? That when life gets tough bail out and do only what's in your own best interest? You can do better. Get back with your husband. The Lord is coming back very soon for those who love Him. Don't let Him come back and find you in bed with a man who's not your husband.

  • @livenotbylies
    @livenotbylies 2 месяца назад +21

    All this emotional reasoning, self-justification and self-victimization

    • @manda_musings8459
      @manda_musings8459 2 месяца назад +1

      Pretty much the daily comments
      section of a Pearl video 😉

  • @christopheryoungbeck8837
    @christopheryoungbeck8837 2 месяца назад +2

    I'm in an abusive living situation with my older sibling. He's an alcoholic and is physically violent and manipulative. He feels entitled to take whatever he wants from me and then assaults me when I confront him. He actually threatened to kill me when I told him I would call the police the other day. Needless to say I told him he needs to start looking for another place to live. He uses past charity and help towards me to justify his behavior.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +1

      My ex would always tell me "if you call the police, you might as well call the coroner, too, because that's how that's going to end."
      I sincerely hope you find safety and are able to get out of that living situation as soon as possible. Everyone should be able to have peace in their home and not live in fear.

  • @jasonray4064
    @jasonray4064 2 месяца назад +4

    Good stuff pearl .

  • @NVMFOX7SEVEN
    @NVMFOX7SEVEN 2 месяца назад +5

    “Still married” 😂

  • @chrissmith2753
    @chrissmith2753 2 месяца назад +4

    I agree with her that once a person gets to the point of divorce, you are beyond reconciling. My x thought that once she had had her fun and got out of her system what she needed to, we would get back together. Maybe I’m not as forgiving of a man say as Micheal Knowles, but some things I cannot forgive.

  • @jessicabeam1152
    @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад

    Great video Pearl! 💕

  • @newworldforward1842
    @newworldforward1842 2 месяца назад +6

    BTW, if she says he's "kinda homeless", he's homeless... And it's because he can't pay his rent. No one chooses to be homeless. Especially not with 3 kids.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +1

      Um, I'd be happy to share screenshots of our conversations of me BEGGING HIM to get his own place, because his son wants to see him. He provides no support to myself or our children.

    • @newworldforward1842
      @newworldforward1842 2 месяца назад

      @@hillarylooper7982 How does you begging him make him less homeless? Did you send him the money to pay for rent? If you pay for his rent then he'll have his own place.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +1

      The reason I said "kinda" is because he lives with his aunt one week, and the next goes to stay with his gf (the one who kicked him out). He can't live with her anymore because her family doesn't want him around her 3 kids, so he only stays at her house on the week she doesn't have her kids. Hence, the "kinda." And the man is driving one of MY cars on insurance that I pay for.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +1

      @newworldforward1842 he works a full time job. I take care of 3 children 100% of the time, I promise you he has more disposable income than I do. He doesn't even pay a phone bill. He's currently driving one of my cars that I pay the insurance on. He makes $24/25 an hour and has zero bills. I've literally sent him apartment listings, completed applications for him, followed up with the rental agents, even done 3-way calls to facilitate because he doesn't want to call and doesn't know the questions to ask. There are some aspects of it that I really cannot do for him, as he is control of his own spending and has the final say in where/when he wants to get a place to live. I have our conversations to show all of this.

    • @newworldforward1842
      @newworldforward1842 2 месяца назад

      @@hillarylooper7982 Ok, so you're entirely to blame yourself. You pay for a car, and if you want him to have somewhere to live it's really up to you. You can take all of that away and he'll have no car and no where to live. Seems to me you have his whole life in your own hands. You decide.

  •  2 месяца назад +2

    exelent!!

  • @jorgealicea2088
    @jorgealicea2088 2 месяца назад

    Wow. Nice interviews Pearl.

  • @richardgreen5637
    @richardgreen5637 2 месяца назад +4

    What's up with these women trying so hard to change their men and not going inward and sorting their own shit out.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад

      I did. I said that in the interview. I knew I couldn't change him, so I thought that if I became the perfect wife, did everything he wanted me to, it would encourage him to step up. Instead, it just made him take more of a back seat.

  • @chrissmith2753
    @chrissmith2753 2 месяца назад +3

    I don’t understand people that comment on other people they never met and don’t know the first thing about. Before the internet you had neighbors that would stick their noses in every one else’s business. Didn’t know the entire story of any situation, yet still thought they knew enough to get involved. I know bloggers are dependent on these type of people, but personally I have no use for them. I listen to hear others story’s, yet don’t feel like I have enough information to comment one way or another.

  • @chris7257
    @chris7257 2 месяца назад +1

    More content like this!

  • @yaseenmuwwakkil9907
    @yaseenmuwwakkil9907 2 месяца назад +12

    Kevin Samuel's and Pearl. A balance to America

  • @arkantim828
    @arkantim828 2 месяца назад

    The first impression is the most correct.The first movement of the soul is the most noble.Unfortunately, few people listen to them.

  • @urdude67
    @urdude67 2 месяца назад +1

    first woman needs to drop responsibilty for fixing ex to be a good dad. impossible dynamic

  • @JimKJeffries
    @JimKJeffries 2 месяца назад +5

    The closest she got to honest was her silence about her quality as a mother.

  • @JimiJames528
    @JimiJames528 2 месяца назад +2

    I like this format. Much more eye opening than other formats where they're just dunking on 304s with the IQ of an eggplant.

  • @hamzabourriz4279
    @hamzabourriz4279 2 месяца назад +36

    *this woman is walking red flag*

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +2

      Thanks, I'm aware

    • @hamzabourriz4279
      @hamzabourriz4279 2 месяца назад

      yes we can see that you're very aware no doubt @@hillarylooper7982

    • @khrisstake2210
      @khrisstake2210 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@hillarylooper7982😅 does your boyfriend have children? Do y'all talk about marriage?

    • @gilgamesh6135
      @gilgamesh6135 2 месяца назад +2

      How? She is saying that he is a drug abuser? I am confuse?

  • @brycehope1468
    @brycehope1468 2 месяца назад

    I don’t think you (Pearl and Co) realise just how powerful these interviews are! Most men don’t speak about these things for rightful fear of being told that they are in the wrong! Very rarely will most get the chance to outright say what they want without judgement!
    I praise your work! 😊

  • @aaiem7p
    @aaiem7p 2 месяца назад +1

    .
    People need to be really careful about alienating others. It comes back to bite you when you're an adult.

  • @ernestomarquez6655
    @ernestomarquez6655 2 месяца назад +16

    First woman interviewed sounds like a deadbeat. Just because she has a job it doesn’t mean it’s all good when her marriage is destroyed?

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +2

      No, it's "all good" because I and our 3 children don't have to live with an emotionally unstable, violent person. My job has nothing to do with it.

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад +2

      She never said that it was “all good.” She’s trying to do the best she can with the shit show that she’s in.

  • @TurnUpTony
    @TurnUpTony 2 месяца назад

    I like this woman she sounds smart and aware

  • @cosmelucio8099
    @cosmelucio8099 2 месяца назад

    When did you start interviewing people?

  • @danczrz8
    @danczrz8 2 месяца назад

    Hello

  • @Smoke_C
    @Smoke_C 2 месяца назад +13

    Absolute nonsense. Not a single specific reason for leaving the marriage except it was “for the sake of the children”. An overused cliché. I’m not buying the substance abuse angle as she took the cue from Pearl. And now she’s shacking up. Was that also for the children’s sake?

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +1

      Where did I say I was "shacking up"??? My boyfriend and I do not live together. And it doesn't matter what reason I would have given, none of you jaded souls would've believed it was valid. The man had held a gun to my head, tell me where the "til death do us part" means that the one you're making the vow to is allowed to determine your death?

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад +1

      Even if she gave specifics you wouldn’t believe her because all men are saints apparently and all women are demons.

    • @manda_musings8459
      @manda_musings8459 2 месяца назад

      @@hillarylooper7982it honestly doesn’t matter what you say here. Someone even made a comment that you simply saying “hi nice to meet you” was a 🚩red flag lol. There’s no way to win with these guys. But that doesn’t mean their bs can’t be thrown right back at them. They love being victims of witchy women anyway lol

    • @manda_musings8459
      @manda_musings8459 2 месяца назад +1

      @@jessicabeam1152that is the case here. Not in real life too much though, in my experience. These incels are an interesting but funny breed online fawning over phony pearl 😂

    • @Smoke_C
      @Smoke_C 2 месяца назад +2

      @@manda_musings8459you don’t know anything about me so your opinion is like a fart in the wind. I’m not a Pearl fan but you spending your life energy trying to smear her in multiple videos on multiple channels is no better than what those incels are doing.

  • @vSeabass
    @vSeabass 2 месяца назад

    Substance abuse usually leads to problems in the bedroom which absolutely cannot happen. I swear to god guys if you are pleasing your woman regularly she’s not goin anywhere that is a 100% fact

  • @ohmyv3gatron
    @ohmyv3gatron 2 месяца назад

    she said get to a position where you can help then said he's been getting promotions...promotions don't roll over every 2-3 months lol

  • @jamesdellaneve9005
    @jamesdellaneve9005 2 месяца назад

    I work in aerospace. Most of the female engineers that I know were close to their dads.

  • @aamirsiddiqi
    @aamirsiddiqi 2 месяца назад +1

    Alimony and child support has made these modern woman ungrateful and horrible . Remove alimony and child support the problem will self correct . But in the mean time, become passport bros and take your future elsewhere.

  • @fndmntl5341
    @fndmntl5341 2 месяца назад

    "nice to speak to you in person" already a red flag

  • @jessicabeam1152
    @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад

    If she were to file a police report, wouldn’t her husband know and start harming her even more?

  • @orlandobellomo1413
    @orlandobellomo1413 Месяц назад

    “Get a dog die alone” red flag Central

  • @FAVanguard
    @FAVanguard 2 месяца назад +1

    8:30
    In the replies she's accusing him of abuse, cheating consrantly and talking to underage girls YET would still like him to come to see the kids.
    Also mentions how he's living with a gf and homeless implying she took his home.
    Also claims when he was making good money, he helped her go back to school and only work part time.
    But when he fell, and she could now sustain herself she left.
    Her excuses in the comments does not align with what she said in the video. The most serious thing she could say about his behaviour is "anger and controlling", after saying "7 to 9 good years" at 12:00
    *Put yourself first men, women put themselves first when you fall, when you no longer benefit them*

    • @coltercannington766
      @coltercannington766 2 месяца назад

      Thank you 🫡
      And if you notice when Pearl asked, "would your ex-husband's story differ from yours?"
      The woman immediately focused on the imaginative side of her brain and thinking style (watch the 👀's)... It was almost a little panic as well, like "OH 💩, will Pearl get in contact with him for his side now...? I better do some damage control!"
      And if they had a "good marriage and family "for 7-9yrs before", what 'life-event' caused him to think substance abuse was a good idea, or what drove him to starting the habit...? Did he start as a coping mechanism in order to "keep up with some unspoken (by her) demand, or something related...?"
      I would LOVE💯 to hear his side!!!

  • @udynes4457
    @udynes4457 2 месяца назад +4

    Hilary Clinton!

  • @deanjacobs1766
    @deanjacobs1766 2 месяца назад +1

    Did either one of them have affairs while married?

  • @kiqueenbees
    @kiqueenbees 2 месяца назад +3

    What was the substance abuse?

    • @rogerwalker3969
      @rogerwalker3969 2 месяца назад +1

      Beef Jerky.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +3

      Meth, in addition to a long list of others, but the one that completely ruined our relationship was meth.

  • @Android-bq5iz
    @Android-bq5iz 2 месяца назад

    All RUclips videos are out of sink audio and videos don't match up , wonder if we're being monitored in a new way?

  • @user-yb5jk8lf2u
    @user-yb5jk8lf2u 2 месяца назад

    The man from the north west and his sister, a real life Hansel and gretel.

  • @Gruff338
    @Gruff338 2 месяца назад

    She an affirmative action hire basically.

  • @OlrakM
    @OlrakM 2 месяца назад +1

    What is the Biblical Reason for her Divorce ? Did I miss that?

  • @johndavis8874
    @johndavis8874 2 месяца назад +1

    My mother was extreme feminist liberal which I didn't even know what that was until I got older, I am 60 years old, she was bipolar I'm pretty sure and then became an alcoholic. Boy do I have some stories. And my father put up with this, he sent me to private schools thinking that would help.

  • @livenotbylies
    @livenotbylies 2 месяца назад +19

    This woman is so full of crap

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +1

      Thanks, right back at ya.

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад +1

      How would you know?

    • @livenotbylies
      @livenotbylies 2 месяца назад +1

      @@jessicabeam1152 actions speak louder than words. She is on here publicly seeking attention and smearing the father of her children. She is actively harming her children and their father to feed her own narcissism

    • @manda_musings8459
      @manda_musings8459 2 месяца назад

      @@livenotbyliesaction speak louder than words….. meanwhile, pearl: 🥸

    • @manda_musings8459
      @manda_musings8459 2 месяца назад

      @@livenotbyliesoh man thank you for that! I needed a laugh today badly 😂

  • @byronhall2678
    @byronhall2678 2 месяца назад +1

    O so it was her mother and fathers fault and her ex 😮, many men self sooth with drugs / alcohol

  • @Heavy.is.the.head83
    @Heavy.is.the.head83 2 месяца назад +4

    "Are you a good mother?"
    "Uhhhh majsjsbsb 10min later... jajssjbsbsjsjkksksksn skuccywbsbe I make them change clothes"

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад +2

      And, if she succinctly said she was, you would say that she’s arrogant.

  • @Th0ughtZ_
    @Th0ughtZ_ 2 месяца назад +3

    Pearl is so goddamn hot.

    • @mcc7762
      @mcc7762 2 месяца назад

      Mostly because her brain thinks more logically, which is extremely rare these days.

  • @DownTheHill3
    @DownTheHill3 2 месяца назад

    If it was abuse, he'd be in jail...women cry "abuse", but the fact is he probably had some bad habits bc she wasn't meeting his needs plain and simple. But all I'm hearing is excuses, w no personal accountability

  • @khayagift1397
    @khayagift1397 2 месяца назад +1

    She cappin

  • @mcc7762
    @mcc7762 2 месяца назад +10

    She calls her ex-husband "effeminate." She just didn't respect him, and wanted a man who she FEELS is more masculine. It makes me wonder why she was with him in the first place. I am not buying the "saving the children" angle. She has essentially painted herself as the victim, which is what we have come to expect from women today. No matter what, it is always the man's fault. I would like to hear his side, because I really think this woman lacks empathy, and a lot of female engineers, accountants, etc. tend to be very narcissistic.

    • @jaykay4541
      @jaykay4541 2 месяца назад +1

      My uncle once told me and I’ll always remember because I’ve lived it and seen it
      “a women will turn you into the exact man she would never be want”.
      I guarantee she feminized him by constantly saying she was scared of him, or he was being controlling, or felt like he was abusing her by being mean and such.
      She makes these claims to about being scared of him or “abuse” and such, like controlling,
      which one is it really though.
      Was he really a dominant man she was scared of or really that he was effeminate and being controlled constantly??
      I think we all know the answer.

  • @soup-nazi6824
    @soup-nazi6824 2 месяца назад +1

    To the guy at the end 👏👏👏-well done your b of a mother doesn't deserve to see her grandchildren because she robbed you of a relationship with your father & then had the nerve to try & wreck your marriage.Keeping a narcissist out of your life was a wise choice...

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад +1

      Who’s to say he’s telling the truth? You all say that the woman before him is a liar, but somehow he’s a victim? Yeah right. Gender bias showing.

  • @Manki-fu4ts
    @Manki-fu4ts 2 месяца назад +9

    That woman is a horrible walking red flag.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +1

      That's fine. It's not like I'm forcing anyone to be with me.

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 2 месяца назад +1

      Yeah the one with the cash app and Venmo on her screen is. I agree.

    • @manda_musings8459
      @manda_musings8459 2 месяца назад

      @@michaelangst6078thank you! The cognitive dissonance with these dudes is sort of astounding

  • @jeremyshaw3846
    @jeremyshaw3846 2 месяца назад

    He's got a Girlfriend.....and She got the kids

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +1

      Ex girlfriend, and she was married when they got together, so not really a loss. My kids are wonderful, the more time with them, the better.

  • @ghostcog
    @ghostcog 2 месяца назад

    Interesting, seems like the pattern is damage by denigration of men causing harm. Maybe a place to start a change

  • @brettmandli3914
    @brettmandli3914 2 месяца назад

    Pearl is getting hotter with age

  • @bbsqtlead4939
    @bbsqtlead4939 2 месяца назад +1

    While it would be interesting to hear his side of the story, if this woman has an engineering degree, I have to give her props. That is not an easy accomplishment.

    • @spoilerman8975
      @spoilerman8975 2 месяца назад +3

      No it's not an easy accomplishment when you have three children as well, which means she had a good man behind her all the way. But now that she graduated the problems become apparent with him. Would she still be with him without the degrees? I would love to hear his side of the story because he would say along these lines, since she got the degrees she's the one that changed and felt she could do better than him. I'm sure there's exceptions to the rule but I got to tell you this is what usually is the case in the situations.

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +1

      I didn't want to do better than him, I wanted us to be better together. He didn't want to be the sole provider, he said it made him feel like a paycheck. So I went to school for something that would be worth my while. And I didn't have his support, I just made sure my education didn't affect his routine (he worked 12 hour swing shifts). As long as I made his breakfast, lunch, and dinner, kept the house clean and his laundry ironed, I was free to go to school.

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад

      @@spoilerman8975She just mentioned that her ex husband didn’t want to be the soul provider. That right there makes him the bad guy. He wants his cake and to eat it too. You can’t expect to have a traditional wife who submits to you if she’s going to also be doing your job. Any woman would lose respect for her man if she’s expected to wear the pants and the apron.

    • @spoilerman8975
      @spoilerman8975 2 месяца назад +1

      @@jessicabeam1152 and I'm sure he would have a different story which is usually the case!!!!! You're quick to believe the woman without hearing the man's side of the story and that's a big big problem with you chicks!!!!!!!

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад +2

      @@spoilerman8975 No, I don’t necessarily believe her story, but everyone is acting like she’s downright lying when the truth is we don’t know!!!! If you guys were to say that you were skeptical of her story, I wouldn’t object, but asserting that she’s a red flag and the one in the wrong is unfair.

  • @torib5k1
    @torib5k1 2 месяца назад +1

    Ms Pearly keep doing the good work. 🫡

  • @mattydesteno9523
    @mattydesteno9523 2 месяца назад

    Hello. ❤. You. Your. The greatest. I. Wish. I. Could. Meet. A. Women. Like. You. Your the Greatest. Matty from Australia 🌹🎶❤️

  • @canadiana0982
    @canadiana0982 2 месяца назад

    Kamala Harris doppelgänger

  • @MaxIgnoramus
    @MaxIgnoramus 2 месяца назад +1

    I don't believe her

  • @Tee55118
    @Tee55118 2 месяца назад +2

    He provided enough, then he didn’t so she dumped him. Shes all about money.

  • @zanedickson2725
    @zanedickson2725 2 месяца назад +1

    How does Pearl think she's a 6

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад

      IKR She’s way higher than that.

    • @mcc7762
      @mcc7762 2 месяца назад

      Humility is a nice quality you do not find much these days.

    • @manda_musings8459
      @manda_musings8459 2 месяца назад

      Yet she’s said Margot Robbie is at best an 8 now 😂😂😂😂. No way, even in INCEL math is she within two points of MR 💀💀💀

  • @newworldforward1842
    @newworldforward1842 2 месяца назад

    This woman has more experience than Pearl. So I don't really understand what she expects to get from calling in..

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад +1

      I didn't call in to discuss my ex, for what it's worth. The topic was "what kind of mother was your mother and what kind of mother are you?" That was what I expected to discuss, not my dad or my ex-husband.

  • @originalman5722
    @originalman5722 2 месяца назад +1

    She says the typical things they say about their ex. Lies…

  • @kevinclause4p55p5
    @kevinclause4p55p5 2 месяца назад +5

    You did not fail your kids by picking this man. Your kids wouldn't exist without his and yours unique DNA. They would be different souls entirely with a different father.

  • @neihtholmes9407
    @neihtholmes9407 2 месяца назад +2

    yeah I'm gonna pass on this 1 her story just doesnt sound 💯 I honestly don't believe her

  • @kimwarfield1587
    @kimwarfield1587 2 месяца назад +1

    It is the look of nonintelligence displayed by the host. The blank expression. Obviously has heard this story many times before.

    • @jessicabeam1152
      @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад

      Think about it though. If a woman is in an abusive living situation, how is she going to just call the police? Most of the time, the police don’t do anything.

    • @kimwarfield1587
      @kimwarfield1587 2 месяца назад +1

      @@jessicabeam1152 file a police report for documentation. Next step move in to a shelter or a relatives, restraining order to get him out or divorce. To many time now days women falsely accuse men of being abusers so they can get cash & prizes. 40% of the time women are the abusers. This is why you call the police.

  • @RG-wd6qs
    @RG-wd6qs 2 месяца назад +2

    Never feel Guilty about HIS SUBSTANCE ABUSE or mental issues. He needs to "man up" and take responsibility for his OWN actions. Sometime the only way to fix it is, Jail time!

    • @hillarylooper7982
      @hillarylooper7982 2 месяца назад

      He actually was arrested one time, for assaulting me in front of his family (his family called the police, not me). The charges were dropped. I never would've called the police on him, though, because I didn't want to ruin his chances for the rest of his life. He does need help, but he doesn't think he has a problem.

  • @jessicabeam1152
    @jessicabeam1152 2 месяца назад

    Her husband sounds like a terrible person and huge a red flag. I feel terrible for her. What a disgusting man to abuse not just her but her children!
    Watch out for me who like to drink and have mental health issues ladies! 🚩

  • @1WHATSUP1
    @1WHATSUP1 2 месяца назад +1

    TOO LONG. WAFFLE

  • @hitmeup6969
    @hitmeup6969 2 месяца назад +1

    @Hannah 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘