Living Alone for the First Time Ever... *Almost30 Episode 3
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2022
- I'm officially going to be living on my own for the first time ever in my life! Hope you are ready for some living alone diaries! #Almost30 Episode 3!! www.capitaloneshopping.com/al... Thanks to Capital One for sponsoring a portion of this video. Avoid paying full price by getting the Capital One Shopping for free at
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My only advise for living alone is don't be afraid to call your friends when you feel lonely. My first year of college, my roommate moved out/abandoned my about two months into the first semester and I struggled pretty hard the first month, especially because I didn't know anyone that well on campus, so I didn't have anyone's room to crash in. I started calling my best friend every week and that helped a lot but it was a rough adjustment period. Don't worry, you'll get used to it eventually.
Couldn’t agree with this more!
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It sucks tho when you dont have a lot of friends… not everyone have that blessing. For me, I have always struggled with having friendship, and even lost some of the best ones I have had. So that makes me scared to live alone some day actually! Just wanted to point that out ☺️ but I totally agree with you on this one ofc.
I had a similar situation happen to me! I 100% agree with this comment. Calling my friends and family really helped me adjust. Definitely don’t be afraid to ask your friends to meet up with you to hang out, or to ask Ashley if you can visit or meet up with her and Chloe possibly. It definitely takes some getting used to, but you can do it!
The way I have watched your videos ever since you and Ashley got your first apartment together, through the apartments that you’ve moved through, then your house, and now her moving out on her own is insane. I hope Ashley enjoys her self in her new place, and Alisha definitely take this as an opportunity to begin a new era of your life. It might be scary at first but it’s gonna be so exciting!!! Love u both xo
Same though still cannot get over how long they have had channels and the journey that we have been on with them. 💙💫
This isn’t the end. It’s the beginning of a new era. You’ve got this Alisha ❤
this is so emotional to watch. we’re all growing up and i’m so proud of all of us. congratulations to both of you ladies.
Why did I get teary eyed the minute you started thanking and apologizing to Ashley for everything she had done 🥹
My advice on separating dogs is lots of play dates. Just seeing each other often will help ease the anxiety. The first week or two they’ll probably look for each other but as long as they don’t completely disappear from each other’s lives they won’t be too depressed just sad.
Girl I've lived alone since 23, moved to a whole new city for my career and I can truly say, just keep your friends close. You have a support system, just invite them over and have movie nights & such
Agreed brilliant advice. Friendship is the one consent in life yet takes so much effort and is a two way stream. Always be honest with friends have acceptance, kindness and be true to yourself and others. That is the only way you get through tough times and make new memories 💜💫
Alisha, I love the tone of these videos. It’s so obvious how much this series means to you and what an emotional stake you have in it. I’m not even nearing my 30’s but I resonate with this feeling and vibe of change and embracing it. Amazing
I’m 23 and living alone so far it’s been the best thing ever. I’ve learned to enjoy my own company. I thought it was going to be an adjustment being alone however not once have I felt lonely. Due to keeping my friends and significant other close. Good luck on your new journey Lida❤️
When living alone, remember there's a difference between being alone and feeling lonely. When alone you learn this whole new side of yourself that becomes independent and you build this new level of comfort in yourself and your environment with different routines on how to do things. When feeling lonely absolutely reach out to a friend or Ashley. Even a phone call helps with that feeling.
In complete agreement 💜✨️
This was the sweetest but also such a sad video! Wishing you both lots of luck and positive energy on this newest chapter of your lives!! 🙌🏼🥺💗
this whole video, I was on the verge of tears. I’ve been here basically since the beginning and for both apartments and the house. So excited for both of your changes and I know this will be an amazing time in both of your lives. Love you both.
so incredibly proud of you alisha, you are such an inspiration and it has been amazing seeing you grow by watching your main channel, vlog channel, and podcast. thank you so much for everything you do and being so honest and vulnerable with us
Agreed ❤
You posting randomly on this channel is like a little random gift every now and then, I love it 🎉🥰
I felt the sadness through the screen🥺 I remember watching you guys from the start and you two were like inseparable! So excited for the both of you and this new journey or your guys❤️❤️ you got this Alisha!
I’m excited for you and this new chapter in your life! Your and Ashley’s bond is amazing and so sweet to see! It’s hard living without your siblings, but it is a chance for growth and also helps you to grow even closer.
So excited to see this new era of Alisha🥰✨❤️
So happy that i was able to watch your era from looking blonde and pinterest, and renting an apartment to now, you owning your own business, having a different style and vibe (which a number of us can relate) and owning a house. Because i get to see you transform into the woman you are today and learn from your journey. Cant wait to watch more of your vids.
Agreed I think this is the reason I got so emotional because I have been through many of the stages that Ashley and Alisha have. Their content is so relatable. They have inspire dus to be authentic, be real yet be vulnerable sometimes. That has empower me to be the women I am today. I such a proud viewer like many of us are of their achievements due to the effort they put into everything they accomplish. This is going to be a brilliant new chapter 🧡💫🎥
Not me getting all emotional 🥺🤧. I hope this new chapter is amazing for you both 🙌🏾
That is such a great video! Very touching! Love how you inserted all the flashbacks and memories with Ashley 🥺 Would be interesting to see your new routines and setups for living alone content! You got this!
this is so nostalgic 💕💕, ive eatched you guys for yearsssss and i can’t believe this is happening. But i know youll be okay and u got this gurl❤️
Can't wait for this new chapter, I feel like you'll grow a lot and I can't wait to see it 💖💖
Same 🥹💜
Can’t wait for this new chapter that has unlocked 💜
Honestly, this new main channel era is just to good. It’s mature without trying to be one. Still relatable but definitely opening doors to new audiences ❤🥰 Imm so excited for this chapter
Alisha good luck with your new chapter in your life, you are amazing and inspiring, I love you so much❤️
I’m 30 and have never lived alone, always lived with my family. Definitely one of my goals is to experience this type of independence!
I love living alone because I get to really know what I want to do or what I like or what I think without people around me influencing me as much (even if they mean well). It can be so healthy for your relationships. One thing I will say is make sure to remind yourself to call your friends and loved ones and check in or make sure you schedule time to hang out since you won’t spontaneously run into each other.
I'm in tears. I remember watching all the vlogs and videos in the first apartment. So glad to see you two grown
Someone tell me why I’m like tearing up watching this!!! I have been watching you and Ashley for 10 years I think! New and exciting era for both of you!
I moved to a place alone where I didn’t know anyone so you are off to a great start because you have so many friends ❤
Aww all the feels ♥️ . All the love for you both and how much you love each other is so beautiful.
definitely cried during this vid. you are both so blessed to have each other’s presence 💕
This is such an exciting time for both of you!! 😊the advice I have for living alone/moving out by yourself would be allowing yourself to feel sad. I think it's a very human thing to want to just 'get over it' and not feel any sad emotions but it's very healing to express it and move forward into the new chapter. Keeping in contact with people regularly is important, I know for me that my mental health has suffered when I felt like I was annoying people or disrupting other peoples lives and just keeping to myself. My last bit of advice is do things that make you feel safe. It can be kinda creepy at first when you hear noises etc, so I like to have some background noise to fill the space.
This video almost made me cry because all the memories that u all too living together especially living with your sister all through the years. I’m happy for the both of you. Stay strong Alisha.❤️❤️
this made me feel so emotional, i have watched you since you moved into your first apartment in OC together so to see you guys grow and spread your wings is amazing. this change will be good for you and you know that no matter the change, all the people here today watchjng this will always be here
you know what tho, you're evolving with each season. I have a feeling this next stage of life is going to be so incredible for you ❤︎anddd at least she'll be super close by!
This is my first year at college living alone and my biggest piece of advice is to learn to enjoy the calm. There’s nothing more relaxing than coming home to your own sanctuary after a hectic day.
i can’t wait to watch!!💗 so excited for this next chapter for you!!😊
I lived alone for a year and I have always felt everyone should do it. You learn so much about yourself. Your own habits, ideas, etc and you’re really able to focus on yourself. I feel like it’s funny how Ash pursuing this is also forcing you to try it out. I was tearing up toward the end of your video with all the mems 😢
First of all I want to say congratulations to Ashley and you for starting a new chapter. Second of all, the best advice I can give you for living on your own, don't be afraid to call your friends and family or have them to come and sleepover once in a while, also play music, podcasts or put on the TV during the day and while you sleep, it will make you feel less lonely. It will start to feel less terrifying after a while.
Agreed as people we are social beings and it is so important to remember that. It is fine and acceptable to phone friend and admit that youbare feeling lonely. That you are struggling emotionally asking them if they are okay because that is real pure friendship. Looking out for one another not being honest means you carry that burden alone. No one should do that to themselves. I learnt the hard way I am still learning. 💙💫
I never comment but I remember when you moved into your house and being so excited for your new start. I can’t believe that era is done now, and the next one is beginning. I’m so proud of you guys
I'm literally crying I've been watching forever and am so close with my sister I don't wanna think about us not being together!! Can't imagine how hard this is!
I got so emotional looking at how fast time goes by, seeing the videos that where from the beginning. Mi consejo, don’t be afraid, embrace it! Living alone es liberarte ✨
Can’t wait to see how you grow in this new chapter!❤
Watching the video got me so overwhelmed since Ive watched you guys getting your first apartment together,then your first house and now Ashley is moving out!Thats so crazy,I grew up with you,aaaalll if these years of memories just hurting right now!🥺I wish the best for Ashley to her new begging🥹
@alisha been watching you since I was 8-9years old, I am 23 w my own family still watching you w my 5yr old daughter so unreal! Hahaha so proud of you!🫶🎉 you got this!💪
Praying ash gets a hot single neighbor so y’all can become neighbors 🤪😂
I’m like almost crying for you girl😭😭 I have been watching you for YEARSSS and seeing everyone grow up and mature..sigh. Ima cry😭
im sobbing while watching this video. i grew up with u guys together so this feels bittersweet for me
Honestly living alone can be hard but so rewarding. I’ve been able to find myself and my likes and dislikes ever since I started living alone and it’s made me so much stronger if that makes sense. You got this Alisha!!! ❤
This made me cry! but I am so proud of you both! Continue to blossom in your new journey's
i started watching u when i was like 14, now i’m 19 and i just moved into my own place as well after living w only my brother for 2 years and i completely understand everything ur feeling. it’s so scary, but so exciting. i’ve honestly gotten used to it very recently and i’ve been loving it so much. the peace and quiet, the freedom i have to host people and do whatever i want and play music however i want, and it’s just such a wonderful opportunity for me to learn how to enjoy my own space and time alone and how to find and protect my peace. i hope u find that soon as well❤️
honestly i LOVE living alone, it's so much fun!!! take time to plan out fun things you're excited to do alone and schedule it in! also It gives me so much peace knowing that if I'm ever feeling super lonely or anything, i can call a friend and ask to come over so I'm never really alone :)
Feels like an end of an era. Can’t believe today is finally here but I know this new chapter in your life is going to be filled with incredible memories. Can’t wait to see how this unfolds for you ❤
why am i crying. i have watched you guys for years upon years, this is so nostalgic💗
I felt like the first month of living alone was so stressful and scary and honestly very lonely, but then after that I loved living alone! I could come and go as I wanted and I could walk around the house in whatever I wanted😂 moving in with my boyfriend has been the best but honestly after living alone for so long, I kind of miss being on my own sometimes just because living alone really showed me who I am as a person and I figured out life on my own and it is the most humbling and amazing experience!
This is such a nostalgic video! I’ve been watching you guys since you were in the first apartment and I cried watching this. Happy for you both 🎉
tell me why i'm bawling my eyes out. i've grown up with you guys and this is so sad but so amazing for both of you
i literally love your vids alisha and this mini series has actually helped me alot since im living on my own at 17 so thank you 😊😊
Anyone else emotional?! I’ve grown up with you guys, in a weird way it feels like I’m your little sibling that’s watching this and it makes me so happy 🥹 I’m 25 now living with my brothers and although I want my own place I also don’t know how to function without them so maybe I’m not ready yet.. anyway to new wonderful beginnings 💗
Omg I love this video so much. Being here from the very beginning and watching you both grow is so crazy! I’m low key sobbing while watching this video. Love you both and the relationship you guys have. Can’t wait for what’s to come and happy for you both!
I can't wait to see what the future holds for you! It's beautiful to witness the closeness you and Ashley share. Separation from siblings can be challenging, but it can also be an opportunity for growth and a means of strengthening bonds. ✨
i lived alone my last year of college & i loooooved it. sometimes it got a little lonely but i would just go out with friends a lot more. it’s so nice though! i will say, i noticed that i would let a mess sit a little longer than usual sometimes but it’s nice to have a place all to yourself & not just a bedroom
I am lowkey crying as I watch this video. Hugs to you my Alisha Marie. Also, so happy as well for Ashley❤
I went through stages when I first lived alone; terrified of every single noise, then feeling like 'yeah this is MY space". It was definitely a period of adjustment. I would say dont feel obligated to "like" it, make sure you reach out to people if you do feel lonely or scared, and allow yourself time to adjust to a (very big) life change ❤
So proud & happy for the both of you! For living alone something that helped me was sun light, it just makes me happy lol, but also playing music, having podcasts or RUclips videos in the background. For the dogs, I made sure to give my dog some space to get use to her new home but also show her bit more love since her sister is 7 hours away. It takes time but they will get use to it
Just lots & lots of doggy dates 🐾 Congratulations to you both for your next life chapter!
Alisha this is hugee! I’m sure in a few you and Ashley will be thriving with this new lifestyle! So excited for all the future vlogs!!!
So excited for this new chapter of life for you!!!
I haven’t realized how long I’ve watched you guys grow until now🥺♥️ love the journey! Good luck to you both! You’ll do great!
I cried watching this video so emotional, my goodness a new era for alisha marie
You and Ashley have been my RUclips inspiration for RUclips for long time - - seeing them both, have there own home brings tears in my eye’s 😢❤
You got this Alisha! Yes it is a huge change for both of you! Sometimes change is actually everything! Make your everything happen now. Keep making plans for yourself, this is your time for you! Your sister and your friends are always just a phone call away. Live your best life!
So excited for both of you! This is a huge step and definitely an end of an era, but I’m excited to watch you both grow and thrive in your own spaces and really embrace this new chapter. You have absolutely got this Alisha!! Very proud of you both and I’m honored to get to follow your journeys ☺️
I’m so happy for Ashley and I hope that you’ll grow through the experience of the loneliness, tears, and happiness of having the place all to yourself.
ok im actually crying!!!!!! the end of an era but the start of an even better one for each of you!
After my mom passed away last year and I was ready to move on and live on my own. I get SO lonely but my friends and family would always be there for me. I was so upset when I did because I lived in such a busy household but when I TELL YOU? You learn sooo much about yourself. ❤️ excited for both of you to start this journey. Love you!
As strange as Ashley moving out is going to be this new chapter is daunting yet amazing for both of you. After watching both your channel for the past five years I have seen you both turn into strong, empowered women that are authentic and humble. That have taken the rough with the smooth. 💜💫 Looking forward to the vlog content! 🎥
loving this whole new era love you Alisha
I am literally so happy for Ashley! Been watching you guys grow since videos from your first OC apartment, and I will be lying if I say I didn’t tear up watching this video :”)
The tears are rollingggg. I’m so proud and happy for you both. Love you both❤️
Im crying , im so happy for you both❤❤❤
I was crying too my girls doing big things so excited for you guys in entering this new chapter 🥹❤️
Be okay in your own company! I used to be so scared of being with myself but you have to love yourself completely alone ❤
Been following you since you too moved into your first apartment, I've literally have seen all of your vlogs, i just can't believe how fast time flies!
I feel like just yesterday Ashley asked in one of alishas vlogs :"should i make a yt channel?" but that was YEARS AGO
you are literally so beautiful- you are truly glowing inside out
I’m so excited to start this new chapter. Like always your going to crush it ❤
I have been watching Alishas videos for a long time since her first apartment with Ashley, and seeing her get the womanly face change and have some more serious changes in her life, im happy that i was here all along, i havent checked on you for some time now, but im glad i did now and im wowed with some beautiful changes and some more mature content, im loving it
Moving box! This is exciting congratulations on this new chapter for you and your sister!
Ahhh so happy for you Alisha and Ashley 🤍 I’m also starting a new era here, moving abroad by myself, was feeling so anxious and scared before I came. Now, it still feel not easy settling down but sure is exciting and refreshing. Feels like we start this new chapter together, good luck for us🤗
I'm moving into my own place this weekend and it'll be my first time living alone ever as well! I've gone from living with family to living in forms during college where I shared space with so many amazing friends so now moving into a place that's just me (and my two kittens) is a little nerve racking! Excited for this new chapter in my life, and like you, it feels like a fresh start I've been needing since graduating in May!
I love you so much I literally can’t go a day without watching or re watching your videos ♥️
I’ve been watching since you had your pink room at your parents. It has been such an incredible adventure watching you guys and growing up with you. You both are such an inspiration and I know that this new chapter may be scary, but you both are going to blossom in ways you never knew was possible. Eek!! Love you both! Mwah!❤😊😊
oh my god i’m literally trying so hard not to sob i’ve been watching both of you for years and i’m so excited to see this new era for you both
I moved out when I was 23 and have been living alone since! It’s great to have solitude and don’t ever be afraid to call people if you’re lonely! It does feel funny at first but you make it your own home and it feels so good. 💚 One thing I will say, is be careful buying food!! I always bought too much for one person in the beginning and half of it would always go bad😳
This is the end of and era for both you and ash but also a new adventure for you both and I can’t wait to watch it unfold ❤
Sometimes I feel I been growing with both of you... And now i'm crying like a baby, because it's gonna be weird but it's a fresh start. Wish you the best Alisha.. Can't wait for the new videos 💫💫🙌
I’m genuinely crying watching this because my sister and I are currently living together and idk what id do without her ❤️ I’m so excited for you both!!! I know you both will learn to love it!
For the dogs my suggestion is for you both to have lots of puppy play dates when you can make time orrrrrr get a puppyyyy 👀
I’m literally watching right now and I’m getting so emotional 😭😢💔❤️💐💐
The end of an era! But I'm so happy for the both of you.
Living alone is scary. I was depressed the first 4 months but I got used to it and now love it !
No, because I started tearing up. Change is good ❤ You both are going to thrive!!