I am glad I have found someone who speaks my language: women can be great at work and home. From this episode, you can tell that she knows Soteria, they have a relationship and she creates time for her. From previous episodes, you can also tell that she is good at her job. Our generation will do better. I do not discard African style of parenting as well but the confidence and emotional stability part needs to be incorporated into African parenting. I love you, Tee. You are doing great things for the Kingdom.
I like that you mentioned that you don't just tell her to say please but you model it. Modeling is one of the ways of teachings that we as parents underestimate especially African parents. Through modeling, we will find out our weaknesses and run back to the maker for help. It reminds me of the speck vs branch in the eye. My best tip to any mom is always to look for the root cause of the behavior, focus on the solution you want your child to learn rather than shaming them. Even though shaming and spanking may work, it doesn't teach. Also, discipline is not spanking and yelling. Discipline is to teach and it's from the word disciple. Ok, I said tip not tips 😄. Bonus tip, positive parenting will influence your marriage positively😉 Thanks for sharing.
This is purposeful parenting, self esteem affects faith, emotions, how she responds to life, every area of life, you are setting her up for life. Especially kids with big emotion loving correction is important. Soteria is made for greatness, she shall be a light a star to her generation IJN. Amen. Thanks for sharing.
And yes. The mirror or even bigger: selfies helped me know a lot about my beauty. I used to think that I wasn't beautiful until I had a phone, and I was already 22 years old .... that's when I started really appreciating beautiful me and I stopped thinking those wrong thoughts. YES I AM BEAUTIFUL
😅 I was also on this table. I didn't know I was beautiful till I was in my 20s as well. Even when people said I was very beautiful, I didn't believe it until I started to see myself in pictures and mirrors and and I was already in my 20's then
You always have great videos but this one was so good I took notes! I’m a mom who struggles with my own confidence and courage and I am determined my kids will not experience the same. As God works on me, I know he will give me the grace to raise them up right. Thanks Tolulope. Also since you mentioned it at the end: I’m not African born or daughter of Nigerian/African parents. I’m an American and I believe these values are universal.
Tolulope, everytime I watch your videos, I’m moved to pray in the spirit. Even when I’m struggling with my prayer life; once you start speaking and proclaiming your faith in our God, I start speaking in tongues. Thank you for this. God bless you 🙏🏽
This is really enlightening, even if i know some of them as a mother of three, i still learnt from this video. Thank you for sharing, love from South Australia
Teach your children to strive for excellence, not perfection. I wholeheartedly can attest to all you have shared. I work with kids, & have a teenager I have used & still continue to use positive parenting with. Great job.
My kids will definitely know that God's love is perfect and more ❤❤❤❤ there's a peaceful place you get that from...to remind yourself every little phase matter....this affirmation starts as soon as I can ❤
Blessed with this beauty gracing my screen🥰🥰 + word of wisdom = Tolulope Solutions 😍😍. Still very young but I never miss your videos cause I am preparing for my future as well.
I just saw her in the future seeing her in like 20years when she’s going out and she’s be saying those same affirmations you know like those hallmark movies it says years later and you see them doing things they did when they were younger. These things never leave you especially when they’re very young
Tolu the points you shared are amazing... If you are really passionate about raising kids, family etc in the ways of the Lord...."Focus on the Family podcast" is amazing.
I learnt a lot!!. Definitely coming back to watch this again in a few years from now. Thank you for sharing this mama solutions, more wisdom and God bless you.
Hie Tolu it would be soo awesome for you to write a mummy daughter Christian book that highlights how you plant the seed of Godly confidence in your daughters. It would be a great read
Mama Solutions! You have no idea how much I enjoy your sit down videos. It was your words of wisdom that drew me to your channel, and since then I have never missed a video. Thank you ma. I am indeed learning a lot now that I am yet to be a mother.
Thank you Solutions. This is one of the best videos you uploaded. It's not just ordinary but extraordinarily educative. I wish many mothers especially our African mothers /ladies can put all these into practice. Parenting isn't just about producing children, it demands a lot & one can not give what she doesn't have. Congratulations to Soteria, I enjoy & appreciate her songs. Keep the good work. God bless you all.
I love the part about asking for permission before getting a kiss or hug from them. Giving them a mentally of "someone has to ask first, and i have to consent to it for it to happen" can also come in handy in the area of sexual abuse, they will have the confidence to speak up more, and if mommy and daddy ask Definitely another person must ask and not force anything. I'm enjoying this thank you 💯
This is so informative even for me.... Especially on the mirror point... I have learned so much from this. When I have my own children I definitely will keep this in mind... Thank you so much Ma for sharing these nuggets... It's golden really... God bless you and increase you in wisdom 🤗
🔥💃💃💃 Soteria is going to be a music minister like her dad, she sings beautifully 😍. God will help us raise Godly children In Jesus name. Beautiful content mama solutions
Thank you so much mama solution for this wonderful vlog. Looking forward to motherhood. Love the hair and may God continue to bless you. Expecting more of this❤️
What I know is before this video,I have always been following the teachings and upbringing of Soteria and it’s been helping me as a mom lol now my boy also says ‘you are the best mom EVER’😂😝I am still picking as much as I can especially the confidence affirmation.Thanks for the video,it’s quite helpful.More grace🙏
@@TolulopeSolutions Amen,thank you for all you do,I have also relocated so I truly need this at this time😂the land we cannot shout or flog kids🤦♀️God’s grace is all we need🙏😃
I really learnt a lot from this. Positive parenting no be beans..it has to be intentional...we should train them to be a reflection of what we want them to be...thanks mama
My 20 month old daughter looks in the mirror and says "aaaawwww, so cute" while touching her face and hair 😁 Children observe more than we give them credit for. When I need to be alone, I ask them if I can have some quiet time and it usually works. It does not sit well with me when my children are forced to be affectionate by other people or grabbing them from my arms whilst they are still trying to get over the initial shyness of meeting someone for the first time. Thanks for sharing. Very insightful.
Hi beautiful Tolu. Try curology on your face. I battle with acne and when I found out about curology my face cleared up within 3weeks . Love you and your beautiful family. I really enjoy your contents.
Thanks Solution Mama🙏💖💖 You're such a great gift 👍,God bless you for us. Please I will like to know more about how you train Soteria to be so smart expecially educational. Am an expectant Mum. I love you so much momma ❤️
Hi aunty solz 😏, great video! I love how you instill such confidence in soteria at such a young age. I'd like to ask a huge favour of you ma'am.. it's my queen's birthday in October and you mean so much to her! As a matter of fact, I got on your channel mostly because of her insistence of which I've been enjoying. It'd mean a whole lot if you accept to give her a shout out. Pls let me know it you're okay with that ma'am. Thanks 😁
Thank you so much. There was a video you made when Soteria was much younger. You recommended an app which tracks a child's growth. Please, can you remind me? I've gone back to all the videos and I can't seem to get it. Thanks in advance ma.
The part about letting them make their own mistakes within safe boundaries is one thing I used to have challenges with 🙈 Also, sometimes, we tend to help them because it is faster and less messy lol.
I am glad I have found someone who speaks my language: women can be great at work and home. From this episode, you can tell that she knows Soteria, they have a relationship and she creates time for her. From previous episodes, you can also tell that she is good at her job. Our generation will do better. I do not discard African style of parenting as well but the confidence and emotional stability part needs to be incorporated into African parenting. I love you, Tee. You are doing great things for the Kingdom.
I like that you mentioned that you don't just tell her to say please but you model it. Modeling is one of the ways of teachings that we as parents underestimate especially African parents. Through modeling, we will find out our weaknesses and run back to the maker for help. It reminds me of the speck vs branch in the eye. My best tip to any mom is always to look for the root cause of the behavior, focus on the solution you want your child to learn rather than shaming them. Even though shaming and spanking may work, it doesn't teach.
Also, discipline is not spanking and yelling. Discipline is to teach and it's from the word disciple.
Ok, I said tip not tips 😄.
Bonus tip, positive parenting will influence your marriage positively😉
Thanks for sharing.
This is purposeful parenting, self esteem affects faith, emotions, how she responds to life, every area of life, you are setting her up for life. Especially kids with big emotion loving correction is important. Soteria is made for greatness, she shall be a light a star to her generation IJN. Amen. Thanks for sharing.
And yes. The mirror or even bigger: selfies helped me know a lot about my beauty. I used to think that I wasn't beautiful until I had a phone, and I was already 22 years old .... that's when I started really appreciating beautiful me and I stopped thinking those wrong thoughts. YES I AM BEAUTIFUL
Yes you are! Thank u for sharing 💜
😅 I was also on this table. I didn't know I was beautiful till I was in my 20s as well. Even when people said I was very beautiful, I didn't believe it until I started to see myself in pictures and mirrors and and I was already in my 20's then
You always have great videos but this one was so good I took notes! I’m a mom who struggles with my own confidence and courage and I am determined my kids will not experience the same. As God works on me, I know he will give me the grace to raise them up right. Thanks Tolulope.
Also since you mentioned it at the end: I’m not African born or daughter of Nigerian/African parents. I’m an American and I believe these values are universal.
How is no one talking about the consent part in the comments? This is profound!
Tolulope, everytime I watch your videos, I’m moved to pray in the spirit. Even when I’m struggling with my prayer life; once you start speaking and proclaiming your faith in our God, I start speaking in tongues.
Thank you for this. God bless you 🙏🏽
This is really enlightening, even if i know some of them as a mother of three, i still learnt from this video. Thank you for sharing, love from South Australia
This is so adorable! Soteria singing million little miracles.... I love it 💓 The affirmations too! 🙌🏽😭
Teach your children to strive for excellence, not perfection. I wholeheartedly can attest to all you have shared. I work with kids, & have a teenager I have used & still continue to use positive parenting with. Great job.
My kids will definitely know that God's love is perfect and more ❤❤❤❤ there's a peaceful place you get that from...to remind yourself every little phase matter....this affirmation starts as soon as I can ❤
Weldone Solutions, Crux of this talk is intentional parenting , thanks a bunch for sharing, may your wealth of wisdom never run dry.
Blessed with this beauty gracing my screen🥰🥰 + word of wisdom = Tolulope Solutions 😍😍. Still very young but I never miss your videos cause I am preparing for my future as well.
I just saw her in the future seeing her in like 20years when she’s going out and she’s be saying those same affirmations you know like those hallmark movies it says years later and you see them doing things they did when they were younger. These things never leave you especially when they’re very young
Thank you . I have learnt alot. It's a new era for my toddler now. Thank God I saw this b4 she becomes two
Tolu the points you shared are amazing...
If you are really passionate about raising kids, family etc in the ways of the Lord...."Focus on the Family podcast" is amazing.
Hi, please how can i access the podcast
@@dinmadivine7068 they are on RUclips
@@ebonyelevation7705 ok thank you
I learnt a lot!!. Definitely coming back to watch this again in a few years from now.
Thank you for sharing this mama solutions, more wisdom and God bless you.
I love that.. Ooh yes she blessed, unique, strong and beautiful and always she will remain that for the glory of God ❤️❤️
Amen! Thank you
Thank you tolu.you really inspire me...this video can be converted into writting
Hie Tolu it would be soo awesome for you to write a mummy daughter Christian book that highlights how you plant the seed of Godly confidence in your daughters. It would be a great read
Mama Solutions! You have no idea how much I enjoy your sit down videos. It was your words of wisdom that drew me to your channel, and since then I have never missed a video.
Thank you ma. I am indeed learning a lot now that I am yet to be a mother.
Thank you Solutions. This is one of the best videos you uploaded. It's not just ordinary but extraordinarily educative. I wish many mothers especially our African mothers /ladies can put all these into practice.
Parenting isn't just about producing children, it demands a lot & one can not give what she doesn't have.
Congratulations to Soteria, I enjoy & appreciate her songs. Keep the good work. God bless you all.
This is pure gold! I loved it so much I liked it and saved it and will certainly tell people about it. Well done Solutions.
Hi Tolu! I love your parenting style and how patient you are in responding to your daughter's needs. I hope to emulate you when the time comes
I love the part about asking for permission before getting a kiss or hug from them. Giving them a mentally of "someone has to ask first, and i have to consent to it for it to happen" can also come in handy in the area of sexual abuse, they will have the confidence to speak up more, and if mommy and daddy ask Definitely another person must ask and not force anything.
I'm enjoying this thank you 💯
This is so informative even for me.... Especially on the mirror point... I have learned so much from this. When I have my own children I definitely will keep this in mind... Thank you so much Ma for sharing these nuggets... It's golden really... God bless you and increase you in wisdom 🤗
The kinda mom I want to be😩😍🥺❤️❤️
Soteria be making me blush🥺❤️❤️
🔥💃💃💃 Soteria is going to be a music minister like her dad, she sings beautifully 😍. God will help us raise Godly children In Jesus name. Beautiful content mama solutions
Video quality and background look more beautiful than ever
Thank you so much mama solution for this wonderful vlog. Looking forward to motherhood. Love the hair and may God continue to bless you. Expecting more of this❤️
What I know is before this video,I have always been following the teachings and upbringing of Soteria and it’s been helping me as a mom lol now my boy also says ‘you are the best mom EVER’😂😝I am still picking as much as I can especially the confidence affirmation.Thanks for the video,it’s quite helpful.More grace🙏
Awww so glad to hear that! The Lord strengthens us
@@TolulopeSolutions Amen,thank you for all you do,I have also relocated so I truly need this at this time😂the land we cannot shout or flog kids🤦♀️God’s grace is all we need🙏😃
It's Tolu's Godfidence for me.
I love the new hair. You look absolutely stunning 🥰🥰
I really learnt a lot from this. Positive parenting no be beans..it has to be intentional...we should train them to be a reflection of what we want them to be...thanks mama
My 20 month old daughter looks in the mirror and says "aaaawwww, so cute" while touching her face and hair 😁
Children observe more than we give them credit for. When I need to be alone, I ask them if I can have some quiet time and it usually works.
It does not sit well with me when my children are forced to be affectionate by other people or grabbing them from my arms whilst they are still trying to get over the initial shyness of meeting someone for the first time.
Thanks for sharing. Very insightful.
Learning continue 😍😍😍😍 thank you momma for this wonderful tips ❤
I gave this video a thumbs up before I started watching cos I trust that it's great content of course 😅
Thank you for your wisdom! Praying you have more grace and insight to lead her aright 🙏🏾
Awesome tip in parenting!! It really start from their young age ! Thank you Ma
Soteria is so beautiful, I pray to have my own by God's grace!!!!
Amen
Amen
Well-done sis, You're killing it!
Thanks for sharing mama👏 The mirror part just felt like it’s my toddlers you were talking about 😀
Love to know more kids are doing this 💃🏽
May I comment on this beautiful, modern and clean studio set up. Love it❤️
Glad you love it.
Thank you
Very educative. Thanks so much for this Tolu. I have a lot of learning and unlearning to do. Thanks 😊
You make very good point may God continue to guide you through the process of child upbringing and I wish you safe delivery 😁
Hi beautiful Tolu. Try curology on your face. I battle with acne and when I found out about curology my face cleared up within 3weeks . Love you and your beautiful family. I really enjoy your contents.
Would want to learn more on positive parenting .
I like the affirmation lines and how your daughter says them.
Enlightening content 💯 More Grace Solutions mamá 💖
Amazing discussion Solutions. Even though I have recently started this with my son, I just learnt so much more from this video. Thanks sis
Thank you mama, you have been a huge blessing.
I celebrate the grace of God on you ma...you inspire me ❤️
God bless you and your entire household, greatly, for the valuable contents you share with us here. Gracias. 🙌
Thanks Solution Mama🙏💖💖
You're such a great gift 👍,God bless you for us.
Please I will like to know more about how you train Soteria to be so smart expecially educational. Am an expectant Mum.
I love you so much momma ❤️
Hi aunty solz 😏, great video! I love how you instill such confidence in soteria at such a young age.
I'd like to ask a huge favour of you ma'am.. it's my queen's birthday in October and you mean so much to her! As a matter of fact, I got on your channel mostly because of her insistence of which I've been enjoying. It'd mean a whole lot if you accept to give her a shout out. Pls let me know it you're okay with that ma'am.
Thanks 😁
Thank you so much. There was a video you made when Soteria was much younger. You recommended an app which tracks a child's growth. Please, can you remind me? I've gone back to all the videos and I can't seem to get it. Thanks in advance ma.
Thank you mummy solutions. Have a 19months old son too, so can definitely relate, have really learned alot as well.🙏
Am smiling the Whole video☺️☺️☺️☺️ soteria is just so amazing...
Taking down notes for the future Kids.....💕
This new look, I love it! 😍😍😍
Your hair is beautiful,we have missed you on weaves o🥺😍
Thanks alot Tolulopesolutions for this... It's been so educative..
Loving this new hair 😍
God led me to this video today...thank you!
Solutions mama🔥🔥
Thank you for the tips, let me keep watching 🙌🙌
God bless you and your family
Thank you Mama solutions 😘
It's ur beauty for me, I was just admiring you althrough, mehn you are perfect🥰🥰🌹🌹
Aww thank u
Thank you a lot for this, I celebrate you. Pls can I know sites or materials to read on positive parenting.
I definitely learnt alot from this as an adult 🤗 Thank you
U inspire me a lot mama. Keep doing the work of the lord
God bless you Tolulope.
This is very insightful
Thank you Toluuu. God bless you.❤️🔥
Welldone Tolu. Amazing content. 💚
Very Fantastic! Thank you so much for the insight! Sure learnt alot.💓🔥
Thank you for this ma'am! God bless you ma
Thanks for sharing these amazing tips, ma'am. Everything in this video is dripping glory.
😍😍😍😍
Thank you so much for these tips solution mama, really appreciate it
Thank you very much for being a blessing ma!
So much wisdom in this video! 💃💃😍😍
This video is so informative. Thanks for sharing🙏
Love this content... Thanks for sharing Tolu.. And you look beautiful
Educating, Thanks for sharing. I learnt something
Thank you very much ..have really learnt alot from you.God bless you
Very insightful lesson, thank you for sharing
I looove the thumbnail 🤩❤️great video/content..... thanks for sharing
Love your new look.
Learning for the future
Thank you for this video, needed to listen to this, this is a crucial time for my 3 year old.
More grace
Awesome section
This is so educative. Thank you for sharing
Love the hair! 😍
I Love you. Thanks so much Mama. More Wisdom and Understanding ma
Welldone mama❤❤. Learning from now. And the hair😍😍😍
Well said good parenting you are doing well.
Thank you so much for this!!!
I learnt a lot.
God bless you.
Wow.. Thanks so much for this namesake. God bless you. I learnt alot.
Absolutely loved this ❤👏
Your hair is 👌
Momma Solutions looking cuuuteeee❤
The part about letting them make their own mistakes within safe boundaries is one thing I used to have challenges with 🙈 Also, sometimes, we tend to help them because it is faster and less messy lol.
Wendy Ologe The intentional parent coach
I look forward to parenting now🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for this video..
And oh you look amazing 😜
Thanks solutions this really changed my orientation.