I humbly believe that Most just want the attention, titles and perks that come with Relationships, Marriage & Parenthood. Not the actual responsibility & accountability that is required for all the above to work. The emotionally unintelligent don’t comprehend this.
You are very wise! I’m 53, single never married and childfree. Not a wrinkle in sight, extremely fit, beautiful home, >$240k/year, friends and family. I’m universally attractive and have zero problem attracting men. I’ve been engaged twice, thank God I left them both. I refuse to buy into the delusions we’ve been sold about having children, marriage, love, etc. All of my married friends are now divorced single mothers.
Tera, you are spot on and we both are are on the exact same page. It is so ridiculous to consider that being single/unmarried and childfree are both selfish choices in reality, getting married and having children are both selfish choices. People get married because they want someone to grow old with, someone to complete them and someone to give them romantic love. People have children because they want unconditional love, to repair unhealed wounds from childhood and to have meaning, purpose and fulfillment in life. All of those things are truly selfish, narcissistic and egotistical to me. People are too miserable and insecure as a single and "childless" people that they must fill that empty void ultimately for their personal gain. A soon-to-be 40 year old single/unmarried and childfree man right here, zero regrets.
Do you think that having kids is what keeps people in reincarnation cycle/karmic debt on Earth? I ask because of the few passages in Bible that talk about our sins being passed onto our children (making us at fault for their difficult life affected by our own karma), and also the passages that advise us against marrying? Thank you for your sacred work, Terra 🙏
In man's reasoning mind's 🌎 they don't care if you are in love or not they just don't want you to not remain single without any children. They don't care if you have issues they think in their own reasoning minds that if you get married all of that will disappear. LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE .
Yup. I'm 47 and unmarried also not in a relationship for my own reasons. A man asked me what I was going to do with myself. I told him I'm going to live
I want freedom too I have bipolar disorder I don’t need to be having no kids they would just resent me in the end I have been dark places with this so I believe it’s selfless for me to not have kids but I’m enjoying my life
I really appreciate you Tera! Found your channel not too long ago and have watched a lot of your videos. I’m 22 and I first realised I don’t want marriage but now I’m realising I don’t want kids. I love kids though, my degree is about children and I work in a daycare (started last year) but it is really a lot, it just made me realise I couldn’t imagine doing it full-time as a mother, at least I can clock out at work! I also don’t really see the point of being in a relationship especially as a women, just looking at so many women around me as they suffer in silence in their marriages bearing everything being unappreciated! It makes me so upset. I just want a life of peace! There’s so much more I want to say but I will wrap up this comment now. I really appreciate your comment and you have made me open my eyes to so many of the normalised scams! You are so beautiful and radiant and I wish you the best. Sending love from the UK🧚🏾♀️💕🙌🏾
As a single mum i can tell everyone its no fairytale. Its really hard and challenging every day. But working on me now. Tera you are the best and keep going with the ones who are choosing the single girl journey xx❤❤❤❤
I don’t want no kids if I date someone or get married it’s gonna be in my 60s when I’m while past menopause and I stop getting my period it will be like that Meryl strep movie it’s complicated she had kids but that would be me in my 60s without the kids or I could just stay single because everyone will have like 5 kids or be widowed by then but I’m very happy single I’m going to Pilates this week and solo dates but the whole older marriage thing is a big maybe and I really don’t think I will want anyone woman should wait until their older way older to date then you won’t get pregnant done and done
Self-love starts with core values. Once you know what your values are in life, you honor those values and yourself by establishing boundaries, not letting anyone violate or disrupt your values. Instead, you only allow people and situations in your life that fit your core values. For example, if one of your core values is honesty and integrity, you would not allow someone to continually lie/cheat/let you down; it goes against your honesty and integrity value. Self-love is believing you are worthy and you actually want to see yourself thrive. You don't engage in self-sabotaging behaviors and you certainly don't let others sabotage you .
@@ViolinfanaticOriginal i always thought loving yourself was liking how you look or the way you think. Never thought of it that way, that's an interesting perspective. Thank you so much!
One thing I don’t understand though is how comes you don’t use statements such as majority or some. You are including all, like it’s all men that will play and stress women. Or it’s all women that will get the same fulfillment from being single or childfree. It sounds like you’re advocating for single, celibate, childfree existence. At first I thought you were just trolling them. And trust me I have 0 dogs in this fight because I agree with most things you say and cause I’m gay, celibate and childfree. I’m just very curious??? Where I am at is, ppl can do whatever they want but stop bringing kids into this world y’all don’t want or arnt prepared to have because it hurts the kids so much plus it hurts society in so many ways. Women stop being with men that treat you like maids or less than. Love yourself enough where you make decisions based on sense and not just feelings or trauma. Stop telling ppl like me to get into relationships or have kids if I don’t truly want to.
@@TeraChantelleOverall, you’ve chipped the Matrix, if this continues you can free all us women who have suffered from our ignorance. May you be blessed as you bless others.
The more she hurts inside, the wider she smiles... it's like... I dropped my ice cream cone in the street, let me put on a big fake smile and pretend I didn't want that ice cream
The more she talks 🤣🤣🤣🤣the more she reveals just how hurt she is😞😞. She needs therapy; really needs therapy. But her arrogance amid her celibacy is odious.
Boy😂...yeah women listen to her ..these aunties out here telling yall its over kuz its over for them...that turmoil and Stds are not going on for everyone.. what men are you talking about i read 3 books a month and i have a 6 figure income my wife works for our company and we vacation frequently and our kids graduated college (penstae and Rutgers) we now foster have two girls now...lady u speaking your Reality. Now u trying to gwt a following with other woman like u😂 ...the internet is the problem for real😅
We've already populated the earth.......to the point of overpopulation - hence the exploitation of whole populations, environmental damage, resource wars etc
You live a very lonely life. You obviously have never really been loved unconditionally by anyone in your entire life. Success is not measured by selfishness or materialistic things or money. It’s measured by your spiritual awareness and closeness to God.
I humbly believe that Most just want the attention, titles and perks that come with Relationships, Marriage & Parenthood. Not the actual responsibility & accountability that is required for all the above to work. The emotionally unintelligent don’t comprehend this.
Speeeak sis🥹🥹🥹
Yesss!! And the emotionally intelligent people DO understand it but get called selfish and bitter 😭
What world are we living in??
You are very wise! I’m 53, single never married and childfree. Not a wrinkle in sight, extremely fit, beautiful home, >$240k/year, friends and family. I’m universally attractive and have zero problem attracting men. I’ve been engaged twice, thank God I left them both. I refuse to buy into the delusions we’ve been sold about having children, marriage, love, etc. All of my married friends are now divorced single mothers.
Most of these men out here have herpes, HIV, chlamydia, etc. They don’t get tested and they out here passing it out like Amazon packages.
Tera, you are spot on and we both are are on the exact same page. It is so ridiculous to consider that being single/unmarried and childfree are both selfish choices in reality, getting married and having children are both selfish choices. People get married because they want someone to grow old with, someone to complete them and someone to give them romantic love. People have children because they want unconditional love, to repair unhealed wounds from childhood and to have meaning, purpose and fulfillment in life. All of those things are truly selfish, narcissistic and egotistical to me. People are too miserable and insecure as a single and "childless" people that they must fill that empty void ultimately for their personal gain. A soon-to-be 40 year old single/unmarried and childfree man right here, zero regrets.
I appreciate you so much!🥹🥹🥹 it’s so rare to come to this realization in this narcissistic world😮💨📚
Child free and single GANG 😁 I’m not against companionship but I really appreciate having my peace of mind, happiness and freedom
Do you think that having kids is what keeps people in reincarnation cycle/karmic debt on Earth? I ask because of the few passages in Bible that talk about our sins being passed onto our children (making us at fault for their difficult life affected by our own karma), and also the passages that advise us against marrying? Thank you for your sacred work, Terra 🙏
I’m not child free but I’m single and I approve this message 😂💪🏽✅
In man's reasoning mind's 🌎 they don't care if you are in love or not they just don't want you to not remain single without any children. They don't care if you have issues they think in their own reasoning minds that if you get married all of that will disappear. LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE .
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Yup.
I'm 47 and unmarried also not in a relationship for my own reasons. A man asked me what I was going to do with myself. I told him I'm going to live
@@RAJOHN-ke7mcSame here at 57, retired, single with no kids!!! The BEST decision that I ever made!!!!
"I am whole, with no holes." Goodness!!!! That's a good one
I want freedom too I have bipolar disorder I don’t need to be having no kids they would just resent me in the end I have been dark places with this so I believe it’s selfless for me to not have kids but I’m enjoying my life
Most of this is Lust people are driven by.. Ps your French tips are very classy ❤
Thank youuuu
Makes me feel so much happier, and prouder of myself to be aroace, and not straight/hetero.
I really appreciate you Tera! Found your channel not too long ago and have watched a lot of your videos. I’m 22 and I first realised I don’t want marriage but now I’m realising I don’t want kids. I love kids though, my degree is about children and I work in a daycare (started last year) but it is really a lot, it just made me realise I couldn’t imagine doing it full-time as a mother, at least I can clock out at work! I also don’t really see the point of being in a relationship especially as a women, just looking at so many women around me as they suffer in silence in their marriages bearing everything being unappreciated! It makes me so upset. I just want a life of peace! There’s so much more I want to say but I will wrap up this comment now. I really appreciate your comment and you have made me open my eyes to so many of the normalised scams! You are so beautiful and radiant and I wish you the best. Sending love from the UK🧚🏾♀️💕🙌🏾
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As a single mum i can tell everyone its no fairytale. Its really hard and challenging every day. But working on me now. Tera you are the best and keep going with the ones who are choosing the single girl journey xx❤❤❤❤
Appreciate you so much love🥹🥹❤️
I absolutely love your content. I just purchased your book. I can’t wait to read it and do a review.
I appreciate you so much love🥹🥹❤️ thank you!!!
I really enjoy your longer videos & lives. I can listen to you spit wisdom all day.
I don’t want no kids if I date someone or get married it’s gonna be in my 60s when I’m while past menopause and I stop getting my period it will be like that Meryl strep movie it’s complicated she had kids but that would be me in my 60s without the kids or I could just stay single because everyone will have like 5 kids or be widowed by then but I’m very happy single I’m going to Pilates this week and solo dates but the whole older marriage thing is a big maybe and I really don’t think I will want anyone woman should wait until their older way older to date then you won’t get pregnant done and done
Faith Commitment..Job Commitment..FamiLy Commitment ,The Embarrassment OF Last PLace ,As A Divine Servant , iN The Court OF Eternity.."Goes On". ❤
Wholeheartedly rocking with your message! Locs look so good with the curly ends too💫
appreciate you❤️
I don’t got time for that 🤣🤣☀️ the glow is freedom ❤️💛🌹
I pray 🙏🏿 this goes viral to enlighten our brothers and sisters
I needed to find this channel
How do you love yourself? Any tips?.. I love this btw
Self-love starts with core values. Once you know what your values are in life, you honor those values and yourself by establishing boundaries, not letting anyone violate or disrupt your values. Instead, you only allow people and situations in your life that fit your core values. For example, if one of your core values is honesty and integrity, you would not allow someone to continually lie/cheat/let you down; it goes against your honesty and integrity value.
Self-love is believing you are worthy and you actually want to see yourself thrive. You don't engage in self-sabotaging behaviors and you certainly don't let others sabotage you .
@@ViolinfanaticOriginal i always thought loving yourself was liking how you look or the way you think. Never thought of it that way, that's an interesting perspective. Thank you so much!
Yes sis!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Speak🗣️🗣️🗣️
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As an Ordained Rev. & top at my University. You think Like me. 😅 🤭😂🤣
I just wanna be happy. I believe this might actually be the way.
Needed this today!
Thank you for this
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34:33 sameeee sis same 😅
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Ha!!! She said they have do some convincing, dancing, and bust a split. Lawd!
One thing I don’t understand though is how comes you don’t use statements such as majority or some. You are including all, like it’s all men that will play and stress women. Or it’s all women that will get the same fulfillment from being single or childfree. It sounds like you’re advocating for single, celibate, childfree existence. At first I thought you were just trolling them. And trust me I have 0 dogs in this fight because I agree with most things you say and cause I’m gay, celibate and childfree. I’m just very curious??? Where I am at is, ppl can do whatever they want but stop bringing kids into this world y’all don’t want or arnt prepared to have because it hurts the kids so much plus it hurts society in so many ways. Women stop being with men that treat you like maids or less than. Love yourself enough where you make decisions based on sense and not just feelings or trauma. Stop telling ppl like me to get into relationships or have kids if I don’t truly want to.
Thank you Tera!
Appreciate you❤️
I love you Tera!
Not I missed both lives lol I won’t miss the next
Wyd next Sunday?😂🥰
Love you ❤I wish I was as strong mentally as you are. ❤❤❤❤ it will be interesting to see if you at 43 are still childfree and not married. 😂
Stay tuned😂❤️
The Matrix is ALot About DeLusioN ,DeLuSioN iS A Part oF Protecting Divine Purpose ❤
You’re speaking similar quotes to philosophers, Neitsche, Jung. Do you read them or just tapping into that zone?
is it ok to use adult toys at least?
Folks, this is what a damaged, broken leftover w/cobwebs on the 🐈⬛ looks like. Misery loves company
Maybe if you were more attractive.rich.less misogynistic.women would find you an attractive mate
How many years have you been single tera?
Truth
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When One PLays Ones SeLF ( BooK TitLe ) ALthough Such-N-Such Percent OF The BroTheRS WiLL Not Stand Up TO The SLope.
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Is she wearing a wedding ring?
I brought myself a ring🥰
@@TeraChantelle lovely!!! 😍😍
❤❤Preach❤❤
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You probably have a father and brothers, so you’re ok without a man in your life. Not every woman is that privileged.
Praying for their healing!
@@TeraChantelleOverall, you’ve chipped the Matrix, if this continues you can free all us women who have suffered from our ignorance. May you be blessed as you bless others.
The more she hurts inside, the wider she smiles... it's like... I dropped my ice cream cone in the street, let me put on a big fake smile and pretend I didn't want that ice cream
The more she talks 🤣🤣🤣🤣the more she reveals just how hurt she is😞😞. She needs therapy; really needs therapy. But her arrogance amid her celibacy is odious.
😂😂😂
The only one crying here is you
@@1675loof 🤣🤣🤣you’re funny when triggered 🤣🤣🤣
@@ArnicaArnica-s2j same goes for you
@user-if6qt3qb4p she's is talking sense. Most of you always talking about women are hurt. No were not
Boy😂...yeah women listen to her ..these aunties out here telling yall its over kuz its over for them...that turmoil and Stds are not going on for everyone.. what men are you talking about i read 3 books a month and i have a 6 figure income my wife works for our company and we vacation frequently and our kids graduated college (penstae and Rutgers) we now foster have two girls now...lady u speaking your Reality. Now u trying to gwt a following with other woman like u😂 ...the internet is the problem for real😅
If all women take on this ideology how would we procreate to help populate the earth.
We've already populated the earth.......to the point of overpopulation - hence the exploitation of whole populations, environmental damage, resource wars etc
Earth is overpopulated. If you really want a child so bad adoption is also a choice. There's tons of children on this toxic earth that's starving
You live a very lonely life. You obviously have never really been loved unconditionally by anyone in your entire life.
Success is not measured by selfishness or materialistic things or money. It’s measured by your spiritual awareness and closeness to God.
Thanks!
Appreciate you❤️