Desperately Trying To Reignite My Love For Gardening Again...

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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024

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  • @TheMillennialGardener
    @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +68

    If you enjoyed this video, please "Like" it and share it to help spread its reach across RUclips. Thank you for watching!🙂TIMESTAMPS here:
    0:00 Everything That Went Wrong This Year
    4:03 I Want To Quit Gardening After This
    5:56 How I'm Reigniting My Love For Gardening
    8:17 Exciting New Warm Weather Crops
    13:13 Exciting New Cool Weather Crops
    17:33 Keeping Gardeners Excited To Garden
    20:31 Adventures With Dale

    • @johnbaxter189
      @johnbaxter189 2 месяца назад +8

      Get ya vitamin D levels checked if U get winter blues and get a booster if needed, also daylight light bulbs help

    • @DavidChan-bb8hf
      @DavidChan-bb8hf 2 месяца назад +3

      i started to grow dragon fruit from seed just trying to have fun
      something not going to grow where i live but just to have fun
      ill be baby them in the house like my lemon and lime

    • @marchellas4264
      @marchellas4264 2 месяца назад +1

      I feel you on this one. I am a 2nd year gardener. I'm in zone 7b. I have a big ground hog. My 🍎 trees were hit hard by pests. I just started transition to cover cropping and perennial flowers bubs.

    • @jenpalazzo5728
      @jenpalazzo5728 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@DavidChan-bb8hfI have a beautiful dragon fruit plant growing here in SE FL.

    • @karenromando4939
      @karenromando4939 2 месяца назад +2

      You also need medicine for your illness.

  • @peaceofmyhearthomestead4611
    @peaceofmyhearthomestead4611 2 месяца назад +229

    I’m a horrible gardener😂 which is why I watch channels like yours to try to be better. Started gardening about eight years ago, I barely get anything ever, the animals always get to it first. But what I learned is I just love being out there and growing it, whether I get any harvest from it or not. It helped me get through my chemo.

    • @juneramirez8580
      @juneramirez8580 2 месяца назад +12

      Well congrats on getting through chemo. My chemo was not my problem. It was the radiation damage side effects that are beating my a_ s. Any way praying you have complete healing and keep on growling!!!

    • @Omegawerewolfx
      @Omegawerewolfx 2 месяца назад +6

      Simple insect netting or a chicken wire enclosure will dramatically increase your yields.

    • @SeashellSeashell-du1sl
      @SeashellSeashell-du1sl 2 месяца назад

      @@juneramirez8580 ❤

    • @SeashellSeashell-du1sl
      @SeashellSeashell-du1sl 2 месяца назад +1

      ❤🙏

    • @Toggle_New_Top_2SeeCensored
      @Toggle_New_Top_2SeeCensored 2 месяца назад +2

      It's been my heart and lung rehab too. We got awesome rat traps but my husband has to manage those. I can get you details if interested. I use lots of peppermint oil also

  • @moiraslater8526
    @moiraslater8526 2 месяца назад +86

    It's never wrong to let your garden rest if you need a rest. It is healing for both.

    • @johndoh5182
      @johndoh5182 2 месяца назад +2

      Regenerative ag. farmers would tell you different, with the science behind them backing up what they're saying.
      If you have empty land, nothing growing on it, the natural biome is dying off. It's becoming sterile.
      Cover cropping is green manure and provides benefit over the winter, so beds should never rest unless you HAVE to because of work you're doing with it, but then you have the work of building up that soil again. Raised beds should have plenty of life in them because you're creating an ideal growing location.
      You're either going forward with soil quality or backward. Going backwards means needing a lot of additives to get your plants growing the way they were before.

    • @moiraslater8526
      @moiraslater8526 2 месяца назад

      @@johndoh5182 if I have empty soil weeds do that for me.

    • @jdgo3483
      @jdgo3483 Месяц назад +2

      I got in the funk this summer and was looking for a break. I covered part with buckwheat and 7 weeks later covered it with crimson clover that will winter over and bloom in summer. Other sections were covered with daikon radish and field peas that will winter kill.
      I have not done much in the garden for the past month but watch it grow. There is not much to worry about and I have the winter to plan for next year.

  • @tinaingram885
    @tinaingram885 Месяц назад +36

    My husband passed away 7 months ago and its truly so difficult 💔 trying to do things I enjoyed because of depression. Like gardening. God and time 😢 will help me, prayers and praying 🙏. Looking forward to winter. ❤😊

    • @teresathomley3703
      @teresathomley3703 Месяц назад +1

      My condolences and best wishes to you.❤

    • @Earthy-Artist
      @Earthy-Artist Месяц назад +1

      I'm so sorry, loss is hard, ask me how I know that. Time does help, and God helps most of all. Prayed for you, God bless✝.

    • @bycfr08
      @bycfr08 Месяц назад

      I am so sorry for your loss 🙏🏼

    • @jenniferc4083
      @jenniferc4083 Месяц назад

      My deepest sympathies on your loss.
      I have seen many posts in various facebook garden groups, where people plant a small area as a memorial garden for their loved ones.
      Pick plants that they love and set a chair or bench closeby where you can sit comfortably.
      An indoor space dedicated to their memory can help as well.

  • @jamesprigioni
    @jamesprigioni 2 месяца назад +47

    We are with ya always bro, Jersey Strong! 💪

    • @ggusta1
      @ggusta1 2 месяца назад

      I can definitely see me burning out
      That's stopped me from even starting. I don't want to do anything more than a very modest raised bed garden for the first time next year after my 'fun with basil summer'.

    • @SmoothOperator319
      @SmoothOperator319 2 месяца назад +1

      Tell the “Young King Tuck” we got his back James!

    • @SonicaLuda
      @SonicaLuda Месяц назад +1

      James in the comments!!!! Coming to you live, from Jersey! Let's go!!!

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Месяц назад +1

      We'll push through. Always do.

  • @joyfulparadise
    @joyfulparadise 2 месяца назад +59

    Most experts highlight only their successes. You were transparent with us MG. You are REAL.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +14

      This is a real garden. I work a full-time job (two, actually, this channel is a 40 hr/week commitment), and I don't have any hired help to clean things up. Everything I'm doing is attainable for a person with a full-time job, and I want people to know that, no games. I also like featuring the failures, because people learn more from the failures than the successes, and I want you to know that even a "RUclips gardening expert" messes plenty of stuff up. You're not alone. We all make mistakes and have failures, no matter how long we've been doing this.

    • @SylviaFlores-ld8ww
      @SylviaFlores-ld8ww Месяц назад +1

      I appreciate that.

  • @kingwood207
    @kingwood207 2 месяца назад +81

    So, as a second year gardener, I have to tell you that this is by far the best it has ever been for our family. My wife has had a garden for 30 years and we have never had a lot of luck with it. Retiring in the next few years I needed to get a hobby. RUclips! I subscribed early to your channel,(I bet you could look that ) and followed your advice on so many things. We have 32 San Marzano tomato plants that are still producing in the 2nd week of October. Peppers are abundant. Potato’s are on the second crop this year. Just because you’re having a bad year don’t let that get you down. What you have done for your subscribers has made up for any bad season you had. Keep on keeping on!

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +20

      I love comments like these. Hearing that my videos are actually making a difference really makes it all worth it. The greatest thing about the gardening community is the support. We support each other. No matter what, don't stop. The worst thing that can happen is to not have a garden 😀

    • @valeriecullins4218
      @valeriecullins4218 Месяц назад

      ​@@TheMillennialGardener I love watching your show. There's things you cover that I have not even thought about. You definitely inspire me and I'm sure many other people as well. You are a great gardener and you will very soon snap out of the funk and spring back into action even better than before. ❤

  • @naomiledger1374
    @naomiledger1374 Месяц назад +5

    There's nothing like buying exciting new seeds to get your excitement levels back up again. I hope it works and you get bumper crops once more. 🤩

  • @meganmarkle3104
    @meganmarkle3104 2 месяца назад +42

    Thanks for being real.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +8

      It’s a real struggle every year. But, nothing worth doing is easy.

    • @meganmarkle3104
      @meganmarkle3104 2 месяца назад +1

      @@TheMillennialGardener tis very true.

  • @tyler4471
    @tyler4471 2 месяца назад +51

    I feel what you're saying. Just know that your videos have really inspired some of us who have never grown these things before. I built your hoop house design, and within that planted Kale, Spinach, Collard Greens, and Carrots according to your video advice. They're doing fantastic now and the netting is keeping the bugs away. While your planting yields life's "fruit" to yourself (and with setbacks, as you had described in this video), it also has served as fruit to those seeking the knowledge of a new and daunting hobby. I appreciate all the time you've taken with these informative videos, and you've enabled me to enjoy my first-ever homemade salad today, with happiness. Thanks so much, and keep your internal fire alight!

    • @heidiwheeler9917
      @heidiwheeler9917 2 месяца назад +3

      ^^^All of this!! I did also build your hoop house design for myself and my MIL, and it really blessed us both. I'm so excited that it'll allow me to extend my growing seasons!

  • @nexlvl301
    @nexlvl301 2 месяца назад +6

    This video honestly made me feel so much better, I'm also in eastern NC and have had so many of these same issues this season. This is only my second year gardening and I was getting pretty discouraged so to hear that someone whos much more experienced than me was suffering along makes me feel like maybe I didn't do to bad.

  • @sageandlovehomestead
    @sageandlovehomestead 2 месяца назад +36

    I totally feel this. It has been an awful summer for us. We had record heat so my tomatoes are not producing since July! Cooling off next week so hopefully will get a small harvest before our frost. Squash bugs took out most of my squash. Ground squirrels are awful, taking bites out of my watermelons, zucchinis, melons. They ate the tops off all my cucumber and bean sprouts. Diseases etc... I really like the idea of trying something new.

    • @baneverything5580
      @baneverything5580 2 месяца назад +1

      I have Sweet 100 Cherry Tomatoes that produce from early spring until December in Louisiana (if I cover them with light tarps during frosts) when my regular tomatoes quit when it hits 90 degrees.

    • @demetriuspowell29
      @demetriuspowell29 2 месяца назад

      Put quick dry cement on some baited fruit or vegetables trust me that'll work also add traps throughout the garden with socks stuffed with mothballs I go to war with squirrels chipmunks and possums

    • @reginafetty6374
      @reginafetty6374 2 месяца назад

      We had high heat and it was dry as well. My squash did hardly anything. Now they are producing squash. I only got 2 pumpkins. 4 messes of beans, one cucumber. It was the worst garden I have had.

    • @afriendtoo6971
      @afriendtoo6971 Месяц назад +1

      71 year old gardener here and it was the same in zone 6. A terrible year and I'm burnt out. Draught / 3 hours watering and very little harvest. Lack of rain really makes a difference when the plants roots can't get down deep. Hopefully we will all reenergize over the winter months.

  • @Rabbi393
    @Rabbi393 2 месяца назад +22

    Brother, I hear you. I've been a passionate vegetable Gardner for 55 years . Iam burned out this season and I have no explanation for it. I remember a burnout in 1996, but not like this.

    • @ruthgroves509
      @ruthgroves509 2 месяца назад +6

      My garden was the worst ever this year for both fruits and veggies. What the earwigs didnt eat, the weather killed. I didn't bother to plant my usual fall garden and I hope the earwigs are starving! 😂

    • @thebestSteven
      @thebestSteven Месяц назад +2

      Did you have a lot of problems you don't always have? This was my first year planting a garden and I have had CONSTANT problems, and I have been preparing for this for a couple years, so I did things exactly how you're "supposed" to, but I'm hearing that lots of experienced gardeners, particularly east of the mississippi, have had lots of disease and pest problems they normally don't have.

    • @cw8877
      @cw8877 Месяц назад +1

      @@thebestStevenaphids were INSANE but it’s my first year in 8b.

  • @baneverything5580
    @baneverything5580 2 месяца назад +21

    One of my basil plants was planted in 2022. It has bark. I trim it to a stem and bring it inside in winter under lights. The first year it grew in a window in winter. It was so determined to live that I`ve kept it alive as a seed producer. Bumblebees love the blooms too.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +8

      I don't think I've ever kept a basil plant that long. I do, however, have a 6 year old pepper plant. This thing is like a tree. There is barely any green on it anymore. It has practically turned to wood.

    • @baneverything5580
      @baneverything5580 2 месяца назад +1

      @@TheMillennialGardener I had a bell pepper plant for 3 years once until an early freeze froze it and 90% of my cacti (and others I collected working in a nursery & landscaping) when I was out of state. The bell pepper had bark. I`m keeping a cherry tomato plant alive right now.

  • @CharityBenz-w2y
    @CharityBenz-w2y 28 дней назад +1

    Don't fret. You found the soul of gardening. It makes optimists out of pessimists and makes heroes out of those who are willing to try, fail, and keep trying until they succeed. You are probably half my age, but that quest keeps one young and striving to conquer, as you have learned, the truly and newly unconquerable environmental conditions in which we now live.

  • @itsallawork1985
    @itsallawork1985 2 месяца назад +25

    Don't give up man! You are a huge inspiration to me and I hope to start a garden similar to yours in SC next year!

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +4

      I definitely won't quit, but I do need a slower winter. The end of summer and start of fall has been an absolute bear with things going wrong. It was a tough September.

  • @lbarmstrong1
    @lbarmstrong1 2 месяца назад +25

    A Congo line of possums, awwww, that's pretty funny if it was funny. Sorry. We had just the opposite this summer in Georgia, drought. Everything dry as a bone. I think they're manipulating the weather, and I'm not kidding. That said, you've taught me so much this year and I've tried so many things you've talked about, I can't thank you enough.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +2

      I love drought. It is easy to add water. My garden was incredible in that June drought. Best it has ever looked that far into the season 😞 I wish we had drier summers like out west.

    • @sharonabner3156
      @sharonabner3156 2 месяца назад +1

      @@TheMillennialGardenerwatch what you wish for, you can add all the water you want but anything above 90 and water doesn’t keep the plants going.

    • @cheifcreekturtle
      @cheifcreekturtle 2 месяца назад

      Right and going out in that heat to water is the pits! And if you go at dawn or dusk it’s the mosquitos eating you alive 🫠!

    • @outwest100az
      @outwest100az 2 месяца назад

      Geo-engineering is real and more people need to look into it. The GE is being used to push CCBS and it is beginning to affect all of the planet as a whole. So many gardening complaints the last couple of years like never before from all the folk I speak with. Something is going on and most of us can feel it

    • @takeshikovax6254
      @takeshikovax6254 2 месяца назад +2

      If by "they," you mean Exxon and Duke Energy, you may be correct. Anyways, same in Texas. First half of summer was wetter than usual, and now it hasn't rained in about 2 months; This is supposed to be the second wettest time of the year here. I planted a lot of perennials right at the beginning of the drought, expecting this season to be less stressful on them, lol.

  • @laninshki
    @laninshki 2 месяца назад +20

    Aww we all go through that keep your head up you’ve got this!!

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +3

      This year has been brutal. I really hope we have a dry, mild winter...but I think this one is going to be a cold one.

  • @glennm9307
    @glennm9307 2 месяца назад +2

    Lack of rain and killer heat and humidity did a number on our garden in northern Mississippi. We feel the same. Our Orange Wellington tomatoes have rebounded and determinate tomatoes are doing well. Squash and melons were a bust. Green beans are finally kicking in. Might get a few cukes this fall from a late planting. They did poorly during summer. Gardening is like golf. You have a horrible round one day but can't wait to get out there again the next day. Chin up my friend! Your experimentation and learning is part of gardening. Just think of how much knowledge you have gained since this journey started. Imagine another ten years. And thanks for sharing your gardening journey with us. I think we've all gone through what you're feeling at the moment.

  • @omegahunter9
    @omegahunter9 2 месяца назад +27

    Hardships, while they are unpleasant, introduce experience and stimulate the need to solve problems. Working through those problems, coming up with solutions and preventative measures, will make you stronger, wiser, and more resilient. Giving up is the only guarantee of failure.

    • @donhorak9417
      @donhorak9417 2 месяца назад +2

      MG is an engineer; a problem solver.

    • @MrDadGuy
      @MrDadGuy 2 месяца назад

      Every year there are hard lessons in my garden. Usually something I wanted to do really well fails and something I neglect surprises me. I planted onions among my peppers and they barely grew. I had a bed of them under shade cloth during the high heat of summer and they grew slower than any other onions I had grown before. I really planted a lot of onions (4x I ever have). Lesson: removed the shade cloth and onions took off...they need full sun apparently. But the bulk of them were in among other plants so .....
      But the shade cloth use I learned from this channel helped immensely on other things. Bought conduit bender for 4' wide hoops and now will use also for frost protection covering.

    • @omegahunter9
      @omegahunter9 2 месяца назад +2

      @@MrDadGuy I had a similar experience. I was unexpectedly forced out of my home due to a disaster, and unable to care for my plants daily this year. To my shock, despite the lack of weeding and pest control, all the plants grew wildly and produced more, bigger, and sweeter fruit than I had ever seen before. Unfortunately the weeds are still an issue, and I have much work awaiting me when I am able to return to living at my home.

  • @Sarah.Brown29
    @Sarah.Brown29 2 месяца назад +14

    Dude. You're allowed to be done! Take a rest, regroup. ❤

  • @veronicadoggone5660
    @veronicadoggone5660 2 месяца назад +28

    I started growing flowers in fall along with my usual fall veggies. I have sun flowers, calendula, coreopsis, zinnia and others. They keep so much of the beneificial bugs and birds around which I love watching in the garden.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +5

      That is beautiful. If only I could find a flower that repels possums and raccoons 😂

  • @emchazzie
    @emchazzie 2 месяца назад +13

    Thank you so much for sharing this video. I've always enjoyed your channel but I love you even more now. Many of these other gardening channels only show these perfect gardens and never share their failures or drawbacks. You start wondering why your the only one struggling. My garden failures this year were also extensive here in the Houston area. Heat and bugs decimated my tomatoes, squash and even my mints. So thanks again for letting me know that even the best of us have problems and that we just need to regroup and keep going. Your the best!!

  • @juliedayton8754
    @juliedayton8754 2 месяца назад +6

    Rest for you & your garden is both necessary & very biblical ❤️

  • @mommakimmins5554
    @mommakimmins5554 2 месяца назад +58

    If you're burnt out giving yourself a rest to refresh your passion is better than trying to force it, because that's how you end up making yourself hate it

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +16

      I could never hate this. It's like an argument with a spouse. You get mad at the situation, but you get over it and you make up. For me, personally, the only thing I could *hate* is having no garden. If I don't push through this, I will be totally lost in the winter. The old saying that nothing easy is worth doing is so true.

  • @cherylparker5436
    @cherylparker5436 2 месяца назад +2

    Sending prayers and love to you and your family during these horrible hurricanes and storm that you are safe!!

  • @paulspanish-he2ki
    @paulspanish-he2ki 2 месяца назад +10

    Sorry to hear about the issues you had this summer! Hang in there and plow through. You have inspired so many of us. Now, we're going to encourage you!

  • @cottagefarmflowers
    @cottagefarmflowers Месяц назад +1

    Anthony. You saved my gardening soul back in 2020. The heat was relentless and killed my plants even with shade cloth. I was DISCOURAGED. You, my friend, reinvigorated my love of gardening and got me going again. I'm planting new varieties too but I'm also growing what I love that always works for me to fend off any disappointment. Keep us posted on how the new varieties are working for you! I'm glad you haven't thrown in the towel.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Месяц назад

      I'm really glad to hear it. It's great you pushed through. Maybe you need a higher grade of shade cloth, or to put it up earlier? I will say, shade cloth is only one part of the equation, though. Mulching and drip irrigation are key. When you add all 3 of those things, you can do a lot with the heat.

  • @kathleencarter7231
    @kathleencarter7231 Месяц назад +4

    It's DEFINITELY been a different summer!! I find that for me, the more elaborate and extensive I get, the more depressed I feel when extreme weather knocks me sideways! I mentally take time off, regroup, and go back to the basics, making it simple until I am fully back into "gardening mode" once again!!

  • @debrajones7349
    @debrajones7349 2 месяца назад +1

    “I’m desperately trying to protect my four lousy persimmons”. 😂😂😂 I’m feeling the same after hail defeated me in late June. I ended up enjoying putting my energy into the few flowers that survived. Good luck with your new seed choices!

  • @martincollinsworth2703
    @martincollinsworth2703 2 месяца назад +26

    STAY STRONG, THE FAILURES MAKES US STRONGER..

    • @jamesz9365
      @jamesz9365 2 месяца назад +1

      Hell Yes!!!!

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +4

      There are failures, and then there are elements out of your control. It’s the hardest to see a year’s worth of work stolen practically overnight 🦝 Ah, Nature.

  • @vinelady9802
    @vinelady9802 2 месяца назад +1

    Myself, and many of my gardening friends, share your frustration with this years turnout. I live in CO, and every year grow hundreds of tomatoes from seed in our little greenhouse that is attached to our house. I love giving them to friends and neighbors, so much it is become a yearly tradition we all look forward to. The year started out great. Dozens of new varieties of tomatoes, strawberries, melons, beans, and squash, but by mid June most had died due to crazy weather, voles, white fly infestations, mold, virusrs, and squirrels. I am still shaking my head in dismay and am depressed. Like yourself, my plants are something to look forward to....watching them grow, the first ripe tomato, but thus year was non stop stressful. Todays world can be so angry, divided and negative, my garden was free of all that. Watching my plants struggle and wither away and not being able to fix things was awful. Conspiracy theories abound as to why gardeners across the country had a tough time this year. All I can say is thank you for sharing this video, and all your wisdom, with us. It has inspired and helped me get through some really dark stuff.

  • @YarmouthBotanicals
    @YarmouthBotanicals 2 месяца назад +11

    My fall seedlings were decimated by aphids. My summer garden similar to yours was on its way to glory until the July fry. Hang in there! Nature...

  • @kansasgardener5844
    @kansasgardener5844 2 месяца назад +6

    I'm burnt out also it's not just you! It has been so hot here late this season that everything is failing! I'm about to plant my garlic and call it a year. A year of great success! First year that I grew really large onions. Second year that I grew tons of large tomatoes. I guess we have ups and downs in gardening just as we do in life. I always look at it like this, there's always next season. Happy gardening.

  • @donthompsonrealtor3294
    @donthompsonrealtor3294 2 месяца назад +9

    I believe you solve the issue. I don’t see all of your vids. But the ones I do see there is an underlying theme. It’s been my observation, you are an experimentalist and you push the edges. So, to me it looks like you’re on track again! One other thing I would say, is include some of those staples, those regular items that you know will produce. Because you might be worse off if all your new plants failed. I don’t believe they would because I know you know what you’re doing. Many of us Love you! Probably more than many however, we know there’s a hater or two out there just ignore them! You have been an inspiration to me. Thank you so much!!

  • @thegardenlikesdad
    @thegardenlikesdad Месяц назад +2

    This speaks to my soul.

  • @joshp9964
    @joshp9964 2 месяца назад +10

    Wait to u move down here to Florida. U plant stuff and it gets too hot and kills it or have a shit ton of hurricanes and hope all ur fruit trees are still here after words. A lot of ups and downs. Just have to keep ur head held high and keep going forward.

  • @americanajooma4457
    @americanajooma4457 Месяц назад +1

    You are not alone! You have provided much good advice and recommendations for your viewers. NC is a constant battle with extreme swings in temps and hungry critters all around. You have a great system for your home and you are rolling with the punches. Thanks for letting us come along for the experience. Keep up the good work.

  • @headybrew
    @headybrew 2 месяца назад +5

    We love you, Man! You are an inspiration. Do what you gotta do for you. We all get down sometimes. Men don't talk about it, but we should. I appreciate your honestly. I appreciate you. My Dad used to grow Rutabagas when I was a kid and lived in Maine. We'd eat them like mashed potatoes. I never liked them much. lol. Because I was a kid and I didn't like ANYTHING. Now I am at the edge of the Mojave desert in Southern California. And after years of living in an apartment, I finally have some room to garden. So I'm older, but I'm still learning. It's a totally different climate than you are in. But you still inspire us all. I'll make you a promise. This afternoon, I'm finally going to get my butt out there and transplant my potted pineapple plant into my tropical raised bed next to my banana trees. It's 97 degrees, and I think I think it will be OK in that bed for the winter that's soon coming. Keep the faith! Just know that no matter what, you are appreciated.

  • @ThatCoolPsychNurse
    @ThatCoolPsychNurse 2 месяца назад +4

    Thank you for being so honest and sharing both the good AND the bad of gardening. I burnt out in August and my garden has basically been abandoned. I felt so guilty until I saw your video. I will start again in the early spring and be gentle with myself.

  • @honeybadgers1996
    @honeybadgers1996 2 месяца назад +10

    I’m so sorry to learn your fruit trees were decimated by the critters. That’s heartbreaking to hear. I live 40 acres rural area and am always battling with different critters, large and tiny. Most of fruit bearing plants and trees are protected by either hardware cloth or some sort of cages within the fenced area. Also, my pups are always on the lookout for those critters when they go outside. I hear ducks are great to protect from critters and they don’t dig like chickens do. I don’t have them in my property but you may want to think about some sort of garden protectors for your future FL garden. I planted Italian Genovese basil this year and did really well. I was able to enjoy them all summer long and am still enjoying it. Basil doesn’t grow outside in my zone during the winter. So, I need to start prepping indoor basil and other herbs very very soon. Thank you for the video. That frozen bone looks wonderful. I can see Mr Dale was drooling. He’s a good boy💕

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад

      My problem is my fence. The critters are walking along the fence and then using it to leap into the trees. They don't want to touch the ground. I am thinking about getting some bird spikes, but they're insanely expensive. It would cost about $1,000 to cover the tops of the fence with spikes, and I've seen mixed reviews, too. It would be rough to spend all that money and see it not work. I'll have to figure something out.

  • @trishwheelerschoonover2254
    @trishwheelerschoonover2254 2 месяца назад +3

    It’s hard to be motivated when your state is so stressed right now. When I’m this way, I try another form of gardening (making notes, diagrams, what I want to do different next year etc.). I find it reignites my interests by walking away for a bit but I still have my head in it. I’m a perfectionist, have SADD as well, and it’s hard when things don’t work like “they are supposed to). Hang tough! You are my fav channel! ❤️

  • @Toms-garden
    @Toms-garden 2 месяца назад +18

    I’ve had similar issues. My garden is in a community shared garden area, and I was just told that next year, I’ll have to move my garden to make room for a new fire station. I’ve bought compost and manure for planting, and then news that I MIGHT NOT make it to harvest - no dates yet. I don’t know where to get any initiative.

    • @GloriaNapoles-tq8xj
      @GloriaNapoles-tq8xj 2 месяца назад +2

      That's really sad ! 🫤

    • @tannerlane9669
      @tannerlane9669 2 месяца назад

      You got to plant here for free now you have to move it …..that should be your initiative

    • @PaintingVideos
      @PaintingVideos 2 месяца назад

      If you have a small yard yourself you can do a lot in that, (?)

  • @ainamyrvold7984
    @ainamyrvold7984 2 месяца назад +6

    I am so happy you are trying rutebaga. This is a must have in Norway. We use it a lot. It is sweet and sometimes spicey. You can slice it and eat it raw. i love it raw. You can slice it and boil it and use it like a sweet potato. Rutebaga mash is also popular with salted lamb meat. It is packed with vitamin C. It is delicious. We never fry it. The ones I grow is usually 2-3 lb. Thank you for making this honest video. Thank you for all the inspiration you spread around the wolrd. All the best to you ❤

    • @cristicion3333
      @cristicion3333 2 месяца назад +2

      Yum! Thanks for the idea. I love rutabaga.

    • @nikkireigns
      @nikkireigns 2 месяца назад +3

      I love rutebaga! My grandma (Norwegian heritage) used to make it ❤ I need to grow some next year!

    • @baneverything5580
      @baneverything5580 2 месяца назад +2

      I bought cheap bulk Rutabaga seeds for deer food plots for a lot cheaper than seed packs. I throw seeds around my garden in fall and let them choose to grow where they want.

    • @cristicion3333
      @cristicion3333 2 месяца назад +2

      @@baneverything5580 I do that with daikon. 😊 I lol try it with rutabaga, too.

    • @baneverything5580
      @baneverything5580 2 месяца назад +1

      @@cristicion3333 My Daikon seeds were bulk deer food plot too. Ha! You can get some great deals that way and for sprouting seeds instead of only getting 50 or 100.

  • @puopg
    @puopg 2 месяца назад +12

    Such a good video to show the bad along with the good.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +1

      I find the failures teach more than the successes. If you've ever had issues like this, you're not alone and in good company.

  • @TinMan445
    @TinMan445 2 месяца назад +3

    I always appreciate our harsh Canadian winters. Full of motivation from spring to fall😂

  • @user-ef2hk9lu9d
    @user-ef2hk9lu9d 2 месяца назад +14

    It’s part of gardening and farming. I’ve always said if farmers and gardeners weren’t farming and gardening, they would be in Vegas gambling. Every season is a gamble. You get too much rain. Not enough rain. The Japanese Beatles tried to wipe you up, but if they don’t come, then it’s the grasshoppers. And if the possums don’t get your fruit, the two legged possums do. It’s all part of growing things. I’ve been gardening on and off for 50 years and I’ve always considered every season of crapshoot.

    • @demetriuspowell29
      @demetriuspowell29 2 месяца назад

      Yup I've came up with a system that works for squirrels possums deer and other critters

  • @pnc455
    @pnc455 2 месяца назад

    Oh my goodness, I am so sad your having this struggle when u have helped he so much. I do alot of the things u suggest. It's ok to rest. I am going to try citrus in south texas because of u. Maybe flowers. Thank you so much for what u have done for me.

  • @MikeG-mp2sj
    @MikeG-mp2sj 2 месяца назад +4

    Yeah, fellow Carolinian. Even the annoying Kudzu near my house looks awful and did not spread this year. I lost my blueberry bushes and grass on my backyard during the endless rain. My tomatoes though did love it all, well until Helene which was near the end of them anyway. I feel you man. Even had one of my raised garden beds collapse, probably too much rain for too long.

  • @SimplyCanningSharon
    @SimplyCanningSharon Месяц назад

    Your comment about your garden doing so well while it was hot and dry really hit home for me. 4 years ago we moved from a dry climate where irrigation was a daily task to humid Tennessee. I thought I'd love gardening where it actually rains. But it has been very hard. I admit it... I miss my desert garden. If you've got a source of water for irrigation, that desert land produces well. Less bugs, less humidity related diseases like blight, mildew etc. That sounds just like your garden early in the year during the 'dry season'. 4 years in and I'm learning... but it is a BIG learning curve.

  • @BerthaCarlos-r4d
    @BerthaCarlos-r4d 2 месяца назад +10

    Same it’s been so hard to grow things and grasshoppers birds and squirrels and heat

    • @donhorak9417
      @donhorak9417 2 месяца назад +1

      Dang grasshoppers!

    • @jamesz9365
      @jamesz9365 2 месяца назад

      @BerthaCarlos-r4d Had same problems myself. Put up fence around my garden and covered outside of 4' fence with deer netting (fencing) and the racoons stayed out. Only my doggies keep the squirrels out however. Tried some red pepper which never did anything good. Coons are gone though!! Oh yea, I feed a stray cat too, somewhat largish, punches above her weight..!

    • @demetriuspowell29
      @demetriuspowell29 2 месяца назад

      Use diatomaceous earth food grade

    • @demetriuspowell29
      @demetriuspowell29 2 месяца назад

      Combine that with tulle netting

  • @SylviaFlores-ld8ww
    @SylviaFlores-ld8ww Месяц назад

    I agree , trying new seeds or varieties is very motivating. Wishing you bright sunny days.☀️

  • @marysurbanchickengarden
    @marysurbanchickengarden 2 месяца назад +10

    In the southeast we fry mustard greens in a couple tablespoons of whatever oil you prefer. We first add 1/2 c water and let it cook out and the greens are tender, then we add our oil and let it fry stirring often.
    I had a horrible pickle worm problem over the summer but it didn't make me want to quit. I've transplanted out all the fall veggies except the onions I have started, they will go in the beds in November. I'll be 74 in January 😊

    • @eb1684
      @eb1684 2 месяца назад +2

      Spray with BT. It's organic.

    • @OscelotTheCat
      @OscelotTheCat 2 месяца назад

      Happy (very) early birthday!

    • @marysurbanchickengarden
      @marysurbanchickengarden 2 месяца назад

      @@OscelotTheCat thank you 😊

    • @marysurbanchickengarden
      @marysurbanchickengarden 2 месяца назад

      @@eb1684 I did use BT, didn't seem to phase them

    • @eb1684
      @eb1684 2 месяца назад

      @@marysurbanchickengarden We get pickle worms on our cucumbers. It seems to work on them.

  • @naxxramas5665
    @naxxramas5665 2 месяца назад +4

    I'm bad at gardening. I'm year 3 now and I'm learning what works and doesn't work for me and i like to use your videos to inspire myself to do better. Thanks for your videos!

  • @BonnieMaeRussell
    @BonnieMaeRussell 2 месяца назад +6

    I relate with your frustration. In Sacramento valley we have had the hottest driest, windiest and longest summer ever! We don’t have a high in the 80’s until this Wednesday! As of today, it’s STILL summer!! I can’t even get out to handle the bugs or weeds, birds and opossums, as well as rats!! I’ve had trouble getting any watering done as well. With arthritis issues, getting out In the heat with walking sticks has been a recipe for dehydration. My only pride is pomegranates and Meyer lemons, both of which are having bumper crops. Why don’t you go to farmer;s markets and buy your seeds fresh from fresh produce?

    • @renel7303
      @renel7303 2 месяца назад +1

      I hear you Bonnie. I'm Fresno area,it's after 3pm and just dropped to 99F. Supposed to cool later in the week to around 90F. Blah. My pomegranate tree is being decimated by squirrels! I checked it last night and there were 15 fruit on the ground, all partially gnawed on. To the rest of you pomegranates need to be cut off the tree, they don't drop unless they are rotting. The squirrels are even pulling the under ripe lemons. The squirrels 1st showed up 3-4 years ago, just one. Now it has a friend. I'm guessing babies next year. I grew nothing this year vegetable wise. I'm setting up a container system and now need to also figure out protecting everything. The arthritis is no fun. But we haven't given up!😊

    • @OscelotTheCat
      @OscelotTheCat 2 месяца назад +1

      @@renel7303 Lordy. I grew up in Fresno, moved away 24 years ago now though. It's awful to hear that it's getting so tricky to grow there. I remember how proud we were of our farms.

    • @renel7303
      @renel7303 2 месяца назад +1

      @@OscelotTheCat lucky you. I hope you have a wonderful climate. As we always say it's a great place to be from. 😉 I moved to the bay area for about 7 years and foolishly moved back about 30 years ago. I regret that decision. The weather gets hotter each year and the air quality tanks if there is a fire within 100 miles. Now I can't begin to afford to move to any other place in California that I would live in. Oh well. But at least I can grow a few things.

    • @OscelotTheCat
      @OscelotTheCat 2 месяца назад +1

      @@renel7303 *snerk* "great place to be from" got me good. XD There're some cheaper properties if you don't mind rural up near Shasta/Weed? But yeah, it's hard to afford anything that's actually near anything... anywhere... right now. x.x

  • @SusannefromBuffaloNY
    @SusannefromBuffaloNY Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for this gardening post. I'm so sorry for all your lost plants, it almost made me cry. I appreciate your videos and have learned so much because of all your hard work. Please don't stop! You have been so inspiring to me. I haven't been gardening long. Every time I grew anything the squirrels would get to it. Watching your videos made me want to try again. This year I grew 14 tomato plants and 4 cucumber (party time) plants. My husband made the trellis for growing everything up the strings and planted in grow bags. We made a cage that turned out to be 13'X15'X7' (using it as a greenhouse during the cold season). We had so much fun! The squirrels couldn't get in, it was very amusing watching them try! I will try snow peas and rattlesnake pole beans next spring. Thank you again for all your help.

  • @rebekahescobedo92
    @rebekahescobedo92 2 месяца назад +3

    I wanted to start a garden in our yard last year, but I had an injury to my back that took my ability to walk for a couple of months. This year I was able to put in a few beds and I got to introduce gardening to my kids. We had some rough weather and not everything survived, but the fact that we were able to start something was such a success compared to where we were this time last year. Thank you for your content!

  • @IslandTiffiney
    @IslandTiffiney 2 месяца назад +2

    I'm so sorry that you had a bad experience with your late summer gardening this year. I have to say, this has been the most incredible year for gardening in my central NC garden. Best of all, its all thanks to your experience and advice over the years! I added shade cloth, added more rain barrels, used your methods for fertilizing, seed starting, and general care throughout the year. I am so thankful for your channel my friend, you have given this homebound gardener a reason to wake up with a smile, and an eagerness to get outside and enjoy every day. I rely more heavily on your opinion of when to plant my seeds, and then plant out in my garden. Sending virtual hugs, positive vibes, and warm wishes for a kickstart back into the gardening experience.

  • @baneverything5580
    @baneverything5580 2 месяца назад +9

    My fig trees looked like the pictures....fig after fig after fig at every node. Then baby Cardinals snipped 90% of the green figs off. I bought a bunch of fine white mesh to cover the entire trees. I`ve only gotten 12 figs so far from two "previously loaded" trees because of what the flock of baby birds did. But now I know what to expect next year. I still love the birds and feed them.

    • @donhorak9417
      @donhorak9417 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes! Give them food and water away from your garden.

    • @lbarmstrong1
      @lbarmstrong1 2 месяца назад +2

      My fig (here when I moved in) is 30 feet tall and produces amazing amounts of fruit. I pick as much as I can every year even though no one in my family eats it and leave the rest for the birds. If you have any suggestions for what to do with it, let me know.

    • @baneverything5580
      @baneverything5580 2 месяца назад

      @@lbarmstrong1 You can make fig preserves and strawberry preserves by mixing them. I`d sell the fruits. You may need to trim the tree back to a normal size though.

    • @ericamartin7490
      @ericamartin7490 2 месяца назад +1

      Also try green mesh to trick the birds

    • @OscelotTheCat
      @OscelotTheCat 2 месяца назад +1

      @@lbarmstrong1 I haven't worked with figs myself, but you could try dehydrating your figs. Also jam. I'd also suggest looking at middle eastern recipes for fig things, there's probably stuff you can adapt for western canning and preservation methods, and it's used in really delicious dessert a lot so maybe that'd be a way to get it into your family's diet.

  • @ljgerken
    @ljgerken 2 месяца назад +2

    I had good luck growing Johnny's Prospera series basil in central Florida in 2022. Also try Mammoth basil too. It keeps going all Summer with partial shade in Florida. The large leaves make it nice to make lettuce wraps and have that licorice flavor, which was interesting with chicken salad. Strangely, with cucumbers in Florida, I had the best luck with Spacemaster 80, but beit alpha just did nothing. I grew one Spacemaster 80 plant from March to July in partial shade and harvested 50 cucumbers in central Florida. I am now in southeastern Indiana, zone 6B, and Spacemaster 80 came through for me again! I also grew sweet basil, mamoouth basil, and thai basil since April and these plants are now in flower to reseed for next year. I don't have the heart to pull them as the bees are just loving them. Don't forget to try some new flowers in your garden for the pollenators! I grew candy stripe zinnia, lemon drop marigolds and giant orange marigolds the height of my tomatoes (with the tomatoes), and branching red sunflowers which my cucumbers had a blast at vining all over. Flowers add special appeal and interest in the garden to occupy your view while you water, fertilize and wait for the next harvest. Plus the scents of different spices tantalize the senses. Get more engaged with your senses and plants!

  • @rebeccawolf3196
    @rebeccawolf3196 2 месяца назад +3

    This was my first year gardening and even though I didn't get much of a harvest (a few peppers, a few cucumbers and one tiny squash), I am not discouraged. I just chalk it up to learning and this is a process that takes more than one season to learn. I watch your channel and learn new things and how to do things better and yes, it is exciting. I love being outside and gardening gives me a purpose for being in my yard. I always feel awkward just being outside feeling like all my neighbors are watching me but with a garden, there is a reason to be outside (at least in my mind). Grow on gardener!

  • @caroldragon7545
    @caroldragon7545 2 месяца назад +2

    I'm 85 and have been gardening to some extent everywhere I've lived, except when I was in college. That said, I love it when catalogs arrive and I can try something new. Last year it was winged beans. which withstood the groundhog which mowed down all of my other young veggies. I lost all my tomatoes this year, for some reason, but noodle beans and mizuna greens kept me interested. Trying something new is my every year goal, and keeps gardening interesting. Good luck with your new goodies.

  • @robertantolik2146
    @robertantolik2146 2 месяца назад +4

    Don't give up brother. My year started out bad and never really got better and I'm not giving up. I had cut worms or possibly millipedes that killed 90% of my tomatoes and 100% of my cherry tomatoes. Rabbits decimated my sweet potatoes. Birds kept pecking at my peppers ripping branches off back when they were too small to take it. Kudzu beetles which I had never even seen before killed my scarlet emperor beans and moved to my Kentucky wonders which halved my bean harvest this year. Turns out my Cherokee tans got cross pollinated last year with butternut and made some kind of frankenfruit this year. Only one ginger plant actually grew out of a couple pounds of ginger planted. All of my cucumbers pickling, slicing and lemon cukes all died and we never got 1.I did try replanting cukes and tomatoes to no avail. But no pumpkins, tomatoes, cukes, sweet potatoes and hardly any beans. I'm sure there's more I forgot but I'm still trying. Also, out of 800 onion seeds I just started, only about 75 came up. Now I have to order plants. 2024 was so bad my wife is hounding me about continuing to sink money into a garden. But I'm still optimistic. Buck up buttercup. It'll get better next year

  • @bernadetteteague4859
    @bernadetteteague4859 2 месяца назад

    I know how you feel and I don't do half of the work as hard as you do. You are my inspiration that I can trust. You break it down and talk fast so that anyone can follow. Don't leave us please but get your rest. The yard is beautiful from here in Jacksonville Florida. I'm still fighting mealy bugs. Keep hope alive.

  • @Mary-had-a-lil-farm
    @Mary-had-a-lil-farm 2 месяца назад +4

    I hope you do take the rest of the growing season off and regenerate over the winter. Sometimes we just keep going and going and going and burn out so I really hope you take a break and take some time off before you get completely burnt out.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +1

      It's a double-edged sword. The one edge is that I'm burnt out and don't feel like working hard right now, but the other edge is not having a winter garden, which would be utter despair. You really have to know yourself in times like these so you can figure out what's important. I know, in the long run, I'm better off forcing myself through this period, because doing nothing would have me completely beside myself when the sun starts setting at 5PM in November.

    • @Gemma2269
      @Gemma2269 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@TheMillennialGardener and the spring clean-up would be terrible.

    • @Mary-had-a-lil-farm
      @Mary-had-a-lil-farm 2 месяца назад

      @@TheMillennialGardener yes, i agree with that. It is a double edge sword though. But you’re right you would feel terrible when it was time to harvest and you don’t have anything to harvest. You would be heartbroken as I would be too. Try those new seeds might pipe some excitement into it though that was a great idea. Very interested in how the zucchini under cover turns out. Happy fall gardening.

  • @SelahCambias
    @SelahCambias 2 месяца назад +2

    I’m glad you’re pressing on. I’m new gardening this but I’m very inspired by your work. Because of you I planted blueberries, a persimmon, two citrus trees and then I got ten fig cuttings in March and rooted them. Nine did great. I gave away four because I wanted to share. I’ve had barely any figs this year. I think because they needed more sun ( I’m still learning!). A lady that helps with my garden, who got two of the figs I rooted, has had so many figs she brings me containers full! I’m delighted by her success. I’ve always wanted fruit trees and because of you I finally got it done. And next year it’ll be better. Sending you a big hug and gratitude. I learn so much from you. I’ll be trying some of your suggestions here next year. My basil was a mess too.

  • @deancitroni4447
    @deancitroni4447 2 месяца назад +4

    I'm with you brother. I'm stuck with doing lettuce/kale/beets right now.
    Had a horrible end of tomato season here in South Atlanta.
    Peppers did alright.
    But it has been an effort to get motivated for fall.
    We have to keep pushing!

  • @BeckyScottandDeviHenn
    @BeckyScottandDeviHenn 2 месяца назад +1

    We started out strong, then we were hit with every disease, bug, critter, weather, everything. By July, our gardens looked like prison yards. We put our garden to sleep for the winter and it looks so nice, garlic planted etc. Recalculating. Stay strong! You have been a wonderful inspiration!

  • @PamsPrettyPlants
    @PamsPrettyPlants 2 месяца назад +3

    It was a rough one here too. Ya win some ya lose some. Appreciate the honest video!!

  • @williammorell3277
    @williammorell3277 2 месяца назад +1

    Don't give up. Following your gardening advice has made this year the best year that I have ever had. Thank you. Keep up the good work.

  • @phyllissweetpea4926
    @phyllissweetpea4926 2 месяца назад +5

    Your critters appreciate all your work. Hope you rehomed those critters far enough away, and they don’t find their way back.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +4

      I moved a lot of them 2 miles away. I'm seriously wondering if it wasn't far enough. There are literally 1,000 houses in this subdivision. Can they seriously find their way back? Was Homeward Bound a documentary?

    • @donhorak9417
      @donhorak9417 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@TheMillennialGardeneryou heard about that cat that found its way home from Yellowstone to California?

    • @renel7303
      @renel7303 2 месяца назад

      ​@@TheMillennialGardenerit's illegal here to do that with wildlife. There is a rescue organization that will occasionally help out by doing that. They took the one that had invaded the garage after I trapped it but in the yard, nope. My partner tends to overfeed the outside cats so the opossums like to visit. Now it's a squirrel invasion.

    • @undergroundvideoproduction9222
      @undergroundvideoproduction9222 2 месяца назад

      @@TheMillennialGardener well. yes Homeward Bound WAS a documentary! LoL. 2 miles should be more than enough. possums have huge litters. and a single female can attract lots of males. but sense you typically don't have an issue with this, my guess is at some point soon you'll see a decline of them as you remove them, and then they'll stop. One thing I could suggest is electric wire. run it along the top of your fence. But maybe only if the problem persists.

    • @PlantObsessed
      @PlantObsessed 2 месяца назад

      Here in Illinois you can call pest control but they will euthanize them.as a rabies carrier it is illegal to remove them alive. Thank you for being a kind human.​@@TheMillennialGardener

  • @angelicareavis2016
    @angelicareavis2016 2 месяца назад +1

    So glad to hear you are overcoming big disappointment. This video encouraged us. We live in your region and this was our first year of trying to grow produce. It has gone horribly and after going away from it for some weeks, we have returned and are trying again.

  • @dimervi
    @dimervi 2 месяца назад +5

    Enjoy your videos. Thanks for your heartfelt pep talk. I will remember this when the rats eat my tomatoes again and shake it off.

  • @jaytoney3007
    @jaytoney3007 2 месяца назад +1

    Gardening was tough this year in Sylacauga, AL. June was a drought month, July brought much needed rain and then some. It rained every day from July 6 to July 30. The rain wiped out my tomatoes, cucumbers, summer squash, and melons. August was another drought month, like June, with not a single drop of rain. Pretty much the only plants that survived in my garden were herbs, peppers, and strawberries. However, by the time the weather destroyed my garden, I had brought in a bumper crop of tomatoes, twice the amount of squash grown the previous year, and I had reached my limit for eating cucumbers and was feeding them to the chickens.
    The summer heat and humidity in Alabama is bad. Even with the use of shade cloth, either the seeds wouldn’t germinate, or the seedlings burned up. It was about September 5th before I was able to take advantage of the weather, use shade cloth, and planting locations that get partial shade, to sow seeds, and get them to germinate.
    Deer are typically not a problem until the end of October. This year, they have been a nuisance since August because of the weather, so everything I plant has to be in beds with hoops and covered with netting. It keeps the cats, racoons, and possums out of the garden beds too. Between the weather, and deer, I pretty much cleared out my summer garden in the first half of August, the tomato plants in July-just before the rain came. I had already harvested more tomatoes than I could use, and had given many of them away. Then I coasted through the rest of the summer, harvesting peppers. I’m still picking peppers every week.
    For my fall garden, I have ten of sixteen raised beds planted. I have one raise bed that needs to be dug out and relocated. It gets too much shade from the chicken run. I am growing many new crops for my garden, and am growing parsnips, carrots, beets, turnips, red cabbage, Swiss chard, Dutch Cabbage, Komatsuna, Tatsoi, Yellow Heart Winter Choy, Nappa Cabbage, broccoli, cauliflower, and Pak Choi.
    That will keep me busy until winter. I start planting seed starts in January, and have many plnts in the ground about February 20th. I'm going big in the winter, planting in 15 of 16 raised beds. Raised bed number 16 is reserved for cucumbers.

  • @BOGYofOBLIVION
    @BOGYofOBLIVION 2 месяца назад +7

    Soil needs rest and so do people!

  • @jimhanson2860
    @jimhanson2860 Месяц назад +1

    It's OK to rest, take a break but never give up

  • @KennyG233
    @KennyG233 2 месяца назад +4

    Just planted radishes and bunching onions.... Squash bugs ran a muck here this year... They just kept coming... No pumpkins no butternut squash, they went after everything and destroyed it😅... Even my watermelons.
    . I did get a lot of cowpeas and okra...

  • @BobnAnne1
    @BobnAnne1 2 месяца назад +2

    I retired last year in Colorado and relied on your RUclips channel to inspire me and educate me on what and how to plant in my garden. Last year was a great success. This year we've had such constant withering heat that I've had limited success. Luckily my early planting gave me lettuce and peas and beets, and some continuous carrots. But your advice to plant potatoes and beans in August have given my garden new crops rather than empty space, and I hope to harvest these next month when I return from cleaning up my condo in St Pete FL. Don't give up. You've inspired many of us with your authenticity. Keep keeping it real. I particularly loved your episode with James Perogi of New Jersey.

  • @jeffreydustin5303
    @jeffreydustin5303 2 месяца назад +3

    "You can't control the wind, but you can adjust your sails", Leonary Nimoy as Aesop, Civilization 4. I find myself using this phrase as a mantra in my day-to-day. People will disappoint you, family will stab you in the back, friends will betray you, cars will cut you off and flip you the bird, your garden will go to weeds and ruination, your fruit will get brown rot (all my apples every year, my cherries, and all of my tomatoes too turned to brown slime), worms will infest them, and they will taste like putrid flesh, your dogs and cats will die, your wife will hate you...and you still can choose a good life despite it all. And it is hard as hell to do it...but you keep on choosing to defy entropy and shine a light into the world. Because Ragnarok will come and you will lose, but you will go down a hero fighting the whole way into oblivion. They cannot ever take away your will to resist. "To fulfill the prophecy we must defy the prophecy" - Workaholics.

    • @jenniferrevilla5298
      @jenniferrevilla5298 Месяц назад

      Wow, that was a lot, but I do agree, it all comes down to choice. I love the wind and adjusted sail quote. 🤗🤗

  • @sharonritchie6365
    @sharonritchie6365 2 месяца назад +1

    As a kid, one of my favourite veggies was RAW rutabaga. Try it raw. I also had a disappointing gardening year in Alberta, Canada due to moving and a trip for half of August. But I’m getting super pumped for spring in the new place.

  • @deecorey2910
    @deecorey2910 2 месяца назад

    I get the planting the same thing all the time, I've decided to change things up! Has given me a renewed energy. Keep up the good work!

  • @Craft4life902
    @Craft4life902 Месяц назад

    I am so proud of you for changing your perspective. You are on the right track. Here in SC, we experienced hurricane Helene also. I have a container garden, and I was able to save my small crop of 27 containers. Swiss Chard, broccoli, collard greens, 2 types of cabbages. Hybrid and 45 day Cabbage. Turnip greens and turnips. Let's keep growing! I love your channel. Because of you I made my first modular hoop house. I have a deck my containers grow on. Thanks for you honesty, keep growing!

  • @jeffreygraf3358
    @jeffreygraf3358 Месяц назад

    Be thankful you have an extended growing season. We've already had our first hard frost.

  • @Gardenfrog
    @Gardenfrog 2 месяца назад +2

    Hey. I’m feeling a bit like that this year too. I tend to get burnt out too. When that happens I do take a break. I care for the perennials and water the houseplants and let the rest do whatever for a while. It does make more work later. This year the squirrels dug up my plants, the thistles took over, our city had major water restrictions with no outside watering, I missed out on getting a rain barrel and the voles are eating my fall veg. I know when the spring catalogs start showing up the joy will come back. The joy will come back for you soon. It’s ok to rake a break if you need it.

  • @dianalaw
    @dianalaw 2 месяца назад

    good for you finding a way to excite yourself after garden losses. I recently did the same because I'm moving and leaving my garden of 10 years and moving to a completely different climate. I sold and gave away so many plants that I loved. Dealt with the grief by planning my new garden, researching what grows in the new area and trying something new; vertical planters to get an easy start while building some beds.

  • @Theweeze100
    @Theweeze100 Месяц назад

    Hey, just want to let you know that you are a major encouragement to me during my times of being in a funk concerning my garden. Just realize, that what we go through is extremely cyclical… And what goes up, must come down. The ups and downs actually, provide a wonderful context to our life.
    Thank you for your very scientific approach to relating to the garden. I love the fact that you never give up, and continue to find creative ways to boost your interest.

  • @jtunderwood5545
    @jtunderwood5545 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for talking about SAD. Gardening has also helped me with the seasonal transitions.

  • @bradmetcalf5333
    @bradmetcalf5333 2 месяца назад +1

    This was the first year in 10 years of gardening that my wife and I went 100% all in. We had a baseball hailstorm, a derecho, and a hurricane all hit within 2 months this summer. It was so sad seeing the plants destroyed. But it does get better!!. You are our go to source for great tips and advice! don't give up brother!

  • @wendyplatts7986
    @wendyplatts7986 2 месяца назад

    You inspire me. Don't give up. Maybe cut your losses. And do a little different. Like ginger or weird stuff you don't usually grow. I'm a container gardener 200-300 pots. I try everything. I'm a very sick person. I am bedridden 75% of the time. Your one reason I keep trying. Honestly it's a struggle. Yes reduced garden is good. I am in your boat too. Thank you and dale..... i wrote this at the 1st minutes of watching.... at the end I realized you don't need my advice we are already on the same page. You help people thanks , I really needed it❤❤❤❤❤

  • @martizavala6713
    @martizavala6713 Месяц назад

    I am very sorry to hear of your struggles this year. Thank you for your honesty as it helps those of us who feel the same due to "fixable" problems such as inexperience, knowledge, etc. I know you know this but adversity helps us find solutions that can pay off big dividends and your knowledge of the basil is a perfect example. Think of the ripple effect on future gardeners as you continue to make videos and share your knowledge of the basil that is more resistant to mildews. My son was a gifted child with an IQ in 1st grade higher than his dad and me! I used this little trick to motivate or distract. A new concept to puzzle out or a new toy to explore would always energize him when he had so much in his head that he was stuck or unmotivated. You remind me so much of him and I am glad to see that you know how to keep yourself mentally healthy. Bravo! Another tip that I use for myself is to write things down as I learn them which helps me regroup my thoughts. Gentle nudge - perhaps a book is in your future! Cheers!

  • @brandywineblue
    @brandywineblue 2 месяца назад +2

    I love how you share everything warts and all. Right now I'm happy I got beans growing and greens coming. But I am so frustrated trying to get frost fabric onto the little hoop houses you showed us how to make. And I still cant afford a fence to keep the dang deer out

  • @1psyurmind200
    @1psyurmind200 Месяц назад

    You speaking the truth. But you can't give up. I love the joy you bring. Take a break but you still can share make a video chatting with us❤

  • @Sunnylane02174
    @Sunnylane02174 2 месяца назад +1

    I love how you are handling this!!! I was in the same mindset last year & I didn’t grow anything but garlic in the fall & winter. This year I’m excited to continue growing! I’ve got everything planted but my garlic! Thanks for all you do for your viewers! I’ve learned so much from you!

  • @janicejurgensen2122
    @janicejurgensen2122 Месяц назад

    What a fantastic way to get yourself out of the garden blues! Full of so many different ideas and very useful tips.

  • @aada220
    @aada220 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing yr ups & downs, it makes you a real person & whom I can relate to, what an encouragement, thank you again.

  • @BonnieKennedy-pj7tn
    @BonnieKennedy-pj7tn Месяц назад

    My weather has been good for me, but I had some personal trials that knocked me down. My garden pulled me thru. I am SO sorry for your trials. Gardens are hope. Sometimes we start all over, there is no way around it. Gardens are hope. Good luck. God bless.

  • @sandramoricle7485
    @sandramoricle7485 Месяц назад

    Thank you for this video… I’m glad I’m not the only one who goes through a seasonal funk. You were inspiring and I truly appreciate it.

  • @angelasimmons8727
    @angelasimmons8727 2 месяца назад +1

    This is my first time trying my hands at gardening, your videos have been a help to me,please don't give up we love your videos and to the people getting chemo,don't you give up either,take care everyone ❤️🙏

  • @mariekelly7325
    @mariekelly7325 2 месяца назад +1

    I am going to try to force some tulip and daffodil bulbs for the winter to cheer me up. Also refrig some chestnut seeds to pot up in the spring too. 👍❤️

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  2 месяца назад +1

      Rooting figs is how I used to have fun in winter. If you don't have any fig trees, that's a really great project. Figbid.com will have every cutting you'll ever want.

  • @chubzeee1
    @chubzeee1 2 месяца назад +2

    Sorry! I feel your pain. Perhaps a greenhouse would alleviate the rain and possum issue.