Its pretty gross......you have this 20 year old calling you Daddy??? Really??? That is disgusting. He can't keep a job. Dating a stripper. Giving driving lessons??? He basically found a new daughter, just having sex with her too. It's gross. The 20 year old needs to run! No job. Stripping to pay the bills. Lee has Daddy issues. Robert has daughter issues. And Kalysta needs to just move on from it. If he hasn't been in her life, he was never her Dad anyways......so move on. Dude is WAF
@shawn6986 Exactly, you sure called it. He is emotionally immature, has delayed emotional and mental growth. That’s why he prefers a much younger woman. If he has not been in his daughters life and, not been a good father, then she needs to go on with her life, just not get caught up in his life/drama. The girlfriend is as fake as those huge caterpillars she calls eyelashes. Even the way she walked out seemed phony, and stumbling over her words, trying to make up her story as she goes along but, her brain is not sharp enough. She is out for what she can get from him, a place to stay, what ever money he can give, maybe sex. There are a lot of females like her in Atlanta. They have no boundaries. She can’t get a high value man, do she preys on lower class older men like him.
If it was a 50 year old millionaire man dating a 20 year old female would you say the same? If it's a 45 year old billionaire female dating a 19 year male would it still be different?
@@lawrencejackson4001 1. Young model looking men are not getting with wealthy women. Men are not wired that way. Women are. 2. Of course I would say the same. This is different. You have a older man, who has a daughter the same age as his daughter.....and has his girlfriend call him Daddy. You know what a sick person that is? Everything else side, that is WAF. He can't even pay his bills? Was not in his daughter's life??? Apples to APPLES.
Some of you in the comments are missing the biggest and loudest context of the first story. It has nothing to do with the young girlfriend (though a girl the age of your daughter is sort of inappropriate) there’s something heart breaking about watching your parent who was absent treat someone else better than you. He admitted that he abandoned her at 13. Are you all missing that crucial point? Let’s not be dense and unpack it as a whole
Well said. For years I've seen relationships just like the first group. Some people like being in relationships with someone older than them. It's not my preference but that's what they like. My oldest sister was 19 when she met and is still with her current husband. She's about to turn 57 and he's 76. Her husband went to school with my parents they didn't tell them to separate that was their choice and we all accepted him in with no issues. The daughter is showing her mom feelings when she needs to develop her own. Yes the dad is wrong for not being there fully from 13 to 19 but as long as he's stepped up now she should be open to accepting his relationship. And his girlfriend text was genuine she needs to be open to accepting her in not everyone is out to be trifling and she proved that when she said the dad was evicted and she did what was needed to get them another place.
@@pamelahicks8655your sister and her husband are like my parents. They are 16yrs apart and have been together since my mom was 18 and my dad was 34. My older siblings from my dad's 1st marriage are only 8-9yrs younger than my mom. My oldest niece and I are a year apart. My parents have been together since '75. Large age differences don't bother me bc I'm a product of one that was successful. My dad changed the trajectory of my mother's life. She's the most successful person in her family of her generation. I think if more people had experience with situations like that, they'd be less judgmental. God bless your sister and brother-in-law ❤
It’s so funny cuz he not doing better he’s broke😂 been broke. How you let this girl get the job then talk about you don’t wanna work cuz it’s been a long time. He’s a sorry ass man.
Regardless of how you feel about the new girlfriend, can we normalize NOT calling her out of her name? Dad should have checked you right then and there. And no I’m not taking sides. My dad was just like yours…not there for me and dating women not much older than me, and I didnt like it at all, but as I got older, I realized it wasn’t the woman’s fault. It was my dad, his poor decisions and his lack of being present in my life is what scarred me. Those were choices HE made all on his own. I pray you heal babygirl. You’re a beautiful young woman and you deserve all the healthy and reaffirming love that you need. 💜
Why is it wrong would you be okay if he was with a female his age with 8 kids by 8 different males, and beating him? The only reason the daughter didn't like the female was because of her age and her mom. In some states 14 is legal age. So if she 20 years old working legal, what's the problem?
@lawrencejackson4001 cut the bs bro. He can find a woman his age that don't fit that overexaggerated scenario u pulled out of your ass. And the fact that you used 14 yrs of age as an example of this being perfectly fine.... yea keep your pedophilic / grooming views to yourself.
Can anybody address that this man is a sicko!!! I don’t give a damn how legal she is , she’s way too young. And notice how she was crying backstage when karamo told his daughter that. She has daddy issues too 💜
The age thing has always been weird to me but to each their own. But to the kid… he’s your Dad not your man. Over 18 don’t = grown. She’ll have an issue with any person he sees. Bitterness can be contagious.
This is very disturbing. He clearly has arrested development and mental health. The daughter thinks she is using her dad, but her dad is actually using the young girl for resources and supply. The dad is out of pocket lol and the girlfriend will have to learn the hard way that this older man is a red flag and unfit to be with you he don't even take care of his daughter. My prediction is the young girlfriend will get pregnant and the father will do her dirty and not take care of the child (just like he don't take care of his daughter). It's kind of disrespectful to defend a father who doesn't take care of his child but she don't care bc she's not the mother
I don’t get why the daughter is making their relationship about his current girlfriend. Yes, dad shouldn’t be dating someone so young but she needs to stop making her a villain.
Whew chillllee! This is a mess. The daughter has a lot of pain that needs to be addressed. She probably felt abandoned by her father. Lee seems like she is mature and level headed. But the father is a DUSTY. He had no problem with his 20 year old gf stripping. That's absolutely ridiculous. If he really loved her he would have gotten 3 jobs to keep a roof over her head. I hope Lee sees him for what he is and gets far away from him.
@@bohlalenchabeleng1370 I don't care! He still needs to find women close enough to his age and not his daughter's age regardless. Otherwise, he should be alone for good
@@dorisgordon4020 What the fuck ever! Just because they're grown ass adults, that definitely doesn't mean go out and get with people half their age, especially the age of their son or daughter. That's not ok, period!
I think it’s so cringe when women call their boyfriend’s “daddy” or “zaddy” like ugh. I was dating this one guy & one day we were texting and I said something & he was like “that’s daddies girl” I almost threw my phone. I told him don’t ever say that shit to me again 😂 & if that’s something he is into I’m not the one for him 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
And that's his job as a father. It's not the daughter's place to interfere in her dad 's love life. It's not your place to interfere in your mom 's love life but it's hers to interfere in yours because she's the PARENT!
@@bohlalenchabeleng1370 And parents set the example for their offspring. Hopefully the father can be cool when/if his potential son-in-law is the mirror.
I know they not married yet but the Bible does state that husband and wife come before kids I don't think he loves her more it's just a different type of love
16:06 look how he was watching/ looking at her as she walked off after she gave him a kiss😩🤦🏽♀️ I honestly believe he is infatuated with her, she’s young and beautiful!! I mean that’s why a lot older men date younger women bc they’re nice arm candy & it makes them feel young and/or alive!! I get it but most of the time they don’t last!! I mean they may be truly in love but I honestly think it’s infatuation on his part. SN: he didn’t even attempt to hug his daughter when he came out he put his hand out there for a handshake. But hugged and kissed her. Like come on man. That’s your baby girl at least make an effort & don’t do shit to rub it in her face.
I feel bad for the girlfriend. The mom and daughter are brats and ugly acting. I get that the daughter deserves love but so does the father. Maybe not that young of a girl but her being so young and that’s she’s beautiful is what’s causing all the jealousy from the daughter and ex. For the ex to say the new gf looks like a messed up version of her is hilarious!! Girl bye!
They might be the same age but Kalysta is extremely immature and disrespectful. After hearing her moms msg, u can tell where she gets it from. The new gf was more than respectful.
She’s also obviously angry abt him leaving her mom but I bet her mom had cheated or something like that for him to leave her . When moms are bitter a lot of the kids end up the same way. She mad cause her mom has been upset since he left, and she’s disrespectful cause I’m sure all her mom speaks about is him and his gf and talks down on them. She is a reflection of her mother and your mother is his ex wife, you are his daughter. Mom should not be talking crap all the time abt her dad in front of her and making her feel different towards her father because mom mad she didn’t get her way. Made cause she’s prettier than the mom. U see what she said “ she looks like a less version of me “ like lmfao it’s abt bitterness . That’s what it is . Mom is bitter and daughter is too . His new gf doesn’t look like his ex wife she really tried it 😂sorry but she looks better . So sad as a mom you don’t do that u let the child and dad have time even when u first separated you being mad has nothing to do with him and his kid. She’s weird like a lot of woman who do this crap and it’s toxic . Also if babygirl found a older man and he say something I’m sure she would say “ mind your business dad I can date who I want “. Damnn typed this before he said she s carbon copy of her mom n that’s exactly what I said and I also had said the same thing he just said now too the fact that it’s because her mom bitter she’s bitter .
Jovandouglas5611, I’m sorry but that’s not totally true. When children become adults they start to form their own opinion on their parents whether or not the Mom speaks bad about the Dad or not due to mentally processing how their father moves over time. So by the time the child is now a 2O year old adult they have seen a significant amount of their parents b.s ways to form a basic opinion about them. Case in point the Dad became too distant for too long so it’s hard to feel sorry for him because he should have fought for a consistent relationship with the daughter and he would have been able to shut the ish the Mom said down with a quickness but he wasn’t around to defend himself so that’s why he is in this predicament with his daughter. Eventually as the years go by and she’s had a few more yrs added to her life as an older woman She will eventually process the good and bad about BOTH parents and will clearly see for herself how each played a part in the breakup. So Mom can’t stay the good guy forever.
When Karamo asked why he wasnt in his kids life, I KNEW he would blame the mother. Do a lot of men read the same book? They automatically blame the mom. He could've stayed in his children's lives.
He deserves to have a life too. She needs to grow up. It's her mama fault not his. All it takes is communication and growth. Separation at no fault of his is bias.
I wouldn’t say it’s her mom fault although she cheated or whatever. She’s a bxtch tho for that msg lol He shouldn’t have abandoned his daughter at the end of the day. But with that being said Dad & Lee are GROWN and they can do whatever they want. Daughter has daddy issues and is jealous of Dads relationship with Lee bcuz they are the same age so she feels like Lee is taking her place as daughter when in fact she’s not they are in a relationship despite the age gap. Daughter needs to grow up and stay out her daddy’s dating life business and focus on their father daughter relationship instead.
14:00 I don’t like the message from the mom. She said the gf was just a little girl, but yet you’re throwing shots at the “little girl”, talking about her looks, etc….. Yes, the dad may be wrong, but that’s his business.
I’m 36 and my girl is 50 I see it’s wrong in a way that he’s messing with a younger woman but if she’s mature enough to be with a older man I in a way see that it’s not wrong and I have a daughter I’ll never put any female over my daughter my daughter is my heart she the reason I breathe
Babyyyyyy yo daddy got a young one cause she don't know any better abd can get over. Within the first year she had to support him smh he making a bitter woman
That man and that 20 year old girlfriend are GROWN. Their relationship is not inappropriate bcuz they are GROWN! Lmao the daughter is suffering from daddy issues that ain’t got nothing to do with his girlfriend. I hate women like that cuz that shyt follows them into adulthood they are women who never grew up bcuz they won’t get over their daddy issues. GIRL BYE! Leave them folks alone they living life. This shyt was funny 😂😂. I went thru something similar dating a much older man whose daughter was much older than me she is like a little girl meddling in her daddy’s life. Yall ladies gotta grow up and stop worrying about the next bxtch. 😂
She should simply voice her opinion to her father and stay out. Just support him when he needs it but don’t put herself out. They’re both adults. The girlfriend is stunning and I give him props pulling this woman
When you can walk away from your child but take in “ young woman” your child age and love them, care for them, say you love them. It’s crazy. Then acknowledging it and it being 1 of the first things you say makes me know that. This isn’t ignorance, it’s a choice. You are choosing not to give love to your child on purpose because it’s obvious that you have the capacity to do so, because you are choosing it with another young lady. This message is very loud and clear to your child. I don’t choose you on purpose.
When the dad said I love her with all my heart. The daughter should have asked. Do you love me with all of your heart? Who do you love the most? Who would you rather lose? PERIOD!
@@no-zb7kjeven so who gives her right to call anyone B word. With her mom only one there to raise her, we see how she did it. Her tongue is the extention of her mothers
The 20 yr old gf is very respectful and trying to create a bridge to the daughter and trying to foster a relationship. I respect her preferences for older men. The daughter needs to figure out what she is upset about. She needs to stop intertwining her anger with her father for abandoning her with her feeling jealous because he has a young woman in his life he is taking care of thats not her. She mixing all that with her mother’s bitterness. Also, I get that she is disgusted with the relationship because objectively thats a weird age gap. The dad needs to prioritize taking care of his daughter and stop letting his gf call him daddy (thats just weird and uncomfortable). He also probably should be dating someone his own age but she a legal adult, so I’m minding my business on that one. The mom should be encouraging her daughter to speak to her father and stay outta that man relationship with his gf.
Mom was bitter and still mad that he left her 😂😂 talking bout Lee a busted version of her lmao that lady was loud and obnoxious. She definitely putting the bitter bug in her daughter ear. They both wrong for getting in that man’s business lol
I remember when my dad did the same thing after he and my mom separated. He started dating a young lady with 2 kids,and she moved in with him. I didn't really care because I was married,and had just had a baby.I noticed that he would always have her kids with him,but she was never with them. To make a long story short,she was cheating on him with someone our age while he was paying all of the bills and babysitting! The daughter should be concerned, but she was out of place giving her dad ultimatums and letting them know that she disapproved of their relationship.
The daughter is to young to understand the father hasn't fully matured yet probably some kind of trauma which leads to him preferring younger ladies. I wish my father showed up at at all. Even if he was dating someone my age. Hope they figure it out though.
You think the only reason he wants a young girl is trauma, that woman is stunning, if she has a good personality as well he couldn't walk away if he wanted too,
@@LaiLaiS8who cares how the daughter feels about it it’s not her fkn business. Everybody on that stage was an adult. Mom was jealous. Daughter has daddy issues. That ain’t got nun to do with Lee. And yes Lee is BEAUTIFUL 🤩 and dad was handsome as well. Yall ppl be worried bout the wrong things. The daughter should focus on her relationship with her daddy not be in his business, that’s inappropriate.
@TheeGoddessQUEEN I understand the episode triggered you... but you can relax. I wasn't on the daughter's side either way & Never even mentioned Lee. I spoke on the father's issues and that is all. This situation has several layers.... and I spoke on 1.
Oh well I think ma stood up just like she should have!!!!!!! Karamo was wrong because no his girlfriend should have kept her WHOLE mouth completely shut and should have stayed at home on the lawn or where ever she came from 😢😢😢
I’m sorry, but his daughter seems to have an unhealthy attachment to him. She also needs to realize her dad is a very handsome man, who does not look his age. I would be looking at him if I was 20, 40 or 60. His daughter has decided she dislikes this young woman and that’s it. Her reasons don’t even make sense.
It is indeed an unhealthy attachment. The daughter has unhealed trauma of her daddy not being there so instead of focusing on rebuilding her relationship with her father she instead focuses on his personal life cuz her bitter mom had put all that bitterness in her ear which is none of her or her mama’s business cuz he’s grown and so is his girlfriend lol
.....Ok dad I hope you continue to try. lil girl stop calling people out they name. If 20 year old start calling you the B word you and ya mama gonna wanna jump her. SMH. Works both ways.
My Dad started dating his girlfriend while my mom was on her deathbed. Then moved her in the house 2 weeks after the funeral. The same house he shared with my mom for 30yrs.
Girl and it seems she really didn’t want much to do with him before he got this girlfriend and that’s not how it works. U don’t get to barely hang out with him or want much to do with him then when u see he gotta young gf you wanna do all of this and then he leave her n u back doing you and barely caring . Like girl pls go get that ged… a lot of us didn’t have our dads in our households but a lot of us love and respect our dads as adults and understand a little better the thing where mom can be bitter enough to do whatever to keep you separated … the kids never check the moms for being that bitter . Also I’m 22 I call my man daddy for years any years . Still do and I know ppl who do the same it’s not that weird as yall say lol. U wanan see where he been cause of who he’s dating now . I’m the younger one but I went after my man hard lol . I def wanted a relationship
This is a horrible situation😢 I feel for the daughter , she shouldn't feel like she's ostracized from her Dad, but he could find a woman his age IF he worked a job
When I was 18/19 I dated someone that was 33 years old and had a 16/17 year old daughter that he got custody of when she was 15. Had fallen in love and showed up from a place of love. We had beautiful family dynamics at first that we were building. Wanted to be apart of a loving family anyhow. His daughter and I got along, honestly hope the girly good she's in college out there now. We both are (21 now- back in school !) Relationship went left at some point because it didn't seem like my partner was supportive of me or my goals it was always what he wanted to see me in. Had my own place and was already living on my own in HS. He wanted me to move in so fast..... Was Never Ever a material person and listen I'm not going to complain neither , but he hit me with the "I never had a girl that doesn't know how to wear heal so you're going to learn". You know they tell you don't let a man tell or show you more than once I probably let that man break my heart all over multiple times. Distanced myself but became more attached through certain trials we experienced didn't help that he always confirmed he loved me. For sure think he took advantage of certain things I was going through emotionally. At the time and still to certain degrees I feel grateful for lessons gained, grew up with a mother that emotionally was NOT there (OD, DV and Depressed) She didn't teach me things a female should know. Found out he had done some pretty vial things to other people and best he's out of my life...At some point thought that was about to be a forever family but it's best left and that's on that didn't even know who he is... I am not blameless neither though . Just glad and grateful to be pushing forward and for god giving me strength.
Once again the mother messed up the relationship,, and miss led the child wit lies,, and as always the dad gets the blame. He betta not let dat 20yr old girlfriend go
Yeh your right she pushed him away with her big mouth and attitude etc and the guy couldn’t take it anymore then when separated the mum starts to plant tings in to the child’s mind and poisons them. I’ve been through all of this because my baby mama was so bitter and angry about me even though it was her that pushed me away my relationship with my daughter will never be the same.
Idc how yall flip it in these comments. That man nasty for dating someone his daughter’s age. That lady can’t even buy alcohol. If my daddy did this mess, I wouldn’t talk to him no more. This is coming from someone who was raised by a single dad.
So much to unpack here: Father : weirdo old bum who can’t raise his child and makes his young girl strip to support him. He’s immature and talks funny Daughter: damaged, a little bratty but hurt. She needs to move on or he will continue to disappoint her. Lee: young and naive. Please go find a man worth your time and leave this old creep alone Ex wife : Encourages daughters behaviour. Probably hurt that when they divorced, he divorced his child too. Has every right to be angry
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Karamo is the TRUTH! Sending the dad after his daughter was top tier!!!👏🏽👏🏽
Its pretty gross......you have this 20 year old calling you Daddy??? Really??? That is disgusting. He can't keep a job. Dating a stripper. Giving driving lessons??? He basically found a new daughter, just having sex with her too. It's gross. The 20 year old needs to run! No job. Stripping to pay the bills. Lee has Daddy issues. Robert has daughter issues. And Kalysta needs to just move on from it. If he hasn't been in her life, he was never her Dad anyways......so move on. Dude is WAF
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@shawn6986 Exactly, you sure called it. He is emotionally immature, has delayed emotional and mental growth. That’s why he prefers a much younger woman. If he has not been in his daughters life and, not been a good father, then she needs to go on with her life, just not get caught up in his life/drama. The girlfriend is as fake as those huge caterpillars she calls eyelashes. Even the way she walked out seemed phony, and stumbling over her words, trying to make up her story as she goes along but, her brain is not sharp enough. She is out for what she can get from him, a place to stay, what ever money he can give, maybe sex. There are a lot of females like her in Atlanta. They have no boundaries. She can’t get a high value man, do she preys on lower class older men like him.
Facts 💯
If it was a 50 year old millionaire man dating a 20 year old female would you say the same? If it's a 45 year old billionaire female dating a 19 year male would it still be different?
@@lawrencejackson4001 1. Young model looking men are not getting with wealthy women. Men are not wired that way. Women are. 2. Of course I would say the same. This is different. You have a older man, who has a daughter the same age as his daughter.....and has his girlfriend call him Daddy. You know what a sick person that is? Everything else side, that is WAF. He can't even pay his bills? Was not in his daughter's life??? Apples to APPLES.
Ok, let's talk about the elephant in the room. Why did she (girlfriend)have to go strip to support them? How uncomfortable is he that he can't work.
I was thinking the same thing 🤔
@@delenareed9731 Truly didn't understand this.
He lazy
Hes pimping that girl out that all it is
Some of you in the comments are missing the biggest and loudest context of the first story. It has nothing to do with the young girlfriend (though a girl the age of your daughter is sort of inappropriate) there’s something heart breaking about watching your parent who was absent treat someone else better than you. He admitted that he abandoned her at 13. Are you all missing that crucial point? Let’s not be dense and unpack it as a whole
Well said. For years I've seen relationships just like the first group. Some people like being in relationships with someone older than them. It's not my preference but that's what they like. My oldest sister was 19 when she met and is still with her current husband. She's about to turn 57 and he's 76. Her husband went to school with my parents they didn't tell them to separate that was their choice and we all accepted him in with no issues. The daughter is showing her mom feelings when she needs to develop her own. Yes the dad is wrong for not being there fully from 13 to 19 but as long as he's stepped up now she should be open to accepting his relationship. And his girlfriend text was genuine she needs to be open to accepting her in not everyone is out to be trifling and she proved that when she said the dad was evicted and she did what was needed to get them another place.
@@pamelahicks8655your sister and her husband are like my parents. They are 16yrs apart and have been together since my mom was 18 and my dad was 34. My older siblings from my dad's 1st marriage are only 8-9yrs younger than my mom. My oldest niece and I are a year apart. My parents have been together since '75. Large age differences don't bother me bc I'm a product of one that was successful. My dad changed the trajectory of my mother's life. She's the most successful person in her family of her generation. I think if more people had experience with situations like that, they'd be less judgmental. God bless your sister and brother-in-law ❤
It’s so funny cuz he not doing better he’s broke😂 been broke. How you let this girl get the job then talk about you don’t wanna work cuz it’s been a long time. He’s a sorry ass man.
Regardless of how you feel about the new girlfriend, can we normalize NOT calling her out of her name? Dad should have checked you right then and there. And no I’m not taking sides. My dad was just like yours…not there for me and dating women not much older than me, and I didnt like it at all, but as I got older, I realized it wasn’t the woman’s fault. It was my dad, his poor decisions and his lack of being present in my life is what scarred me. Those were choices HE made all on his own. I pray you heal babygirl. You’re a beautiful young woman and you deserve all the healthy and reaffirming love that you need. 💜
I just love how Karamo handle situations.
i get why the daughter is angry, but she should be more angry at her dad for dating a girl the same age as her + that’s barely legal. he’s a weirdo
I agree. I would be very uncomfortable and questioning me and my dad’s relationship at the end of the day
Exactly this! The girlfriend is innocent
The daughter is sad and angry!!
Why is it wrong would you be okay if he was with a female his age with 8 kids by 8 different males, and beating him? The only reason the daughter didn't like the female was because of her age and her mom. In some states 14 is legal age. So if she 20 years old working legal, what's the problem?
@lawrencejackson4001 cut the bs bro. He can find a woman his age that don't fit that overexaggerated scenario u pulled out of your ass. And the fact that you used 14 yrs of age as an example of this being perfectly fine.... yea keep your pedophilic / grooming views to yourself.
Can anybody address that this man is a sicko!!! I don’t give a damn how legal she is , she’s way too young. And notice how she was crying backstage when karamo told his daughter that. She has daddy issues too 💜
It could look like he's sleeping with his daughter, definately not right
Who are u to judge?
I know exactly how that girl.feels.my dad is 62 dating a 28 year old and I'm 38 it's crazy
Jeeeeez
Oh hell nah I would be 38 hot 🥵
They can't handle women their age
Stay out it! When did we ever normalize interfering in our parents 's love life? Boundaries.
Dam lets go dad
She don't want a 20 year old for her stepmom it don't look good
They're both grown, there's no stepmother thing here. Lol
@@colleenlang925020 ain’t grown 😂 barely legal! That’s a child eww
She grown and needs to get over it. 20 is not a child!
It would honestly make me feel like my father is attracted to kids. Sorry not sorry.
Why would a young woman go and strip just to stay with a man twice her age.
She has daddy issues and low self esteem she’s young and still have time to work on herself if she doesn’t get pregnant by this remedial dude
WTH? Girl you can’t call your Father’s woman his B$TCH to his face now. Very OOO on that one.😮
Cuz he provides for her and she strips probably to have her own money or plus she grown and likes too. They are GROWN lol
😂😂😂😂
He laying pipe
The age thing has always been weird to me but to each their own. But to the kid… he’s your Dad not your man. Over 18 don’t = grown. She’ll have an issue with any person he sees. Bitterness can be contagious.
Real!
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No, you wouldn't
The part where she had to strip to help him is weird
Absolutely
This girl can’t tell her dad who he can chose. But he needs to be a dad to her.
True.
The father is a loser.
And a gross cradle robber
This is very disturbing. He clearly has arrested development and mental health. The daughter thinks she is using her dad, but her dad is actually using the young girl for resources and supply. The dad is out of pocket lol and the girlfriend will have to learn the hard way that this older man is a red flag and unfit to be with you he don't even take care of his daughter. My prediction is the young girlfriend will get pregnant and the father will do her dirty and not take care of the child (just like he don't take care of his daughter). It's kind of disrespectful to defend a father who doesn't take care of his child but she don't care bc she's not the mother
Excatly the father don't have shit
I don’t get why the daughter is making their relationship about his current girlfriend. Yes, dad shouldn’t be dating someone so young but she needs to stop making her a villain.
The dad’s girlfriend knows that pisses his daughter off.
Yea she was all over him for no reason
Her dad is still a child
Pretty much same thing i said when he first came out. He had a kid at 13 🤦🏽♂️
Absolutely...his conversation is juvenile...I applaud him for listening to Karamo and trying but a lot of healing needed here.
Whew chillllee! This is a mess. The daughter has a lot of pain that needs to be addressed. She probably felt abandoned by her father.
Lee seems like she is mature and level headed. But the father is a DUSTY. He had no problem with his 20 year old gf stripping. That's absolutely ridiculous. If he really loved her he would have gotten 3 jobs to keep a roof over her head. I hope Lee sees him for what he is and gets far away from him.
Girl !!!!! This is FACTS !!!!
Real talk 👄
This daughter need to mind her business. She is grown and so is her Dad. He can date whom ever she chooses to do.
@gerrimiller8727, Long as the Dad does the same if the daughter wants a man her Dad’s age especially if he’s White.
It’s disgusting
@@sherrisolomon8673 what does race have to do with it?
I totally agree
@@cheyenneoliver4170 lol what two adults getting together? Do you!
I'm with the daughter. Her dad needs to dump that 20-year-old, find women that are more age-appropriate and leave those much younger women alone
That's not her choice.
@@bohlalenchabeleng1370 I don't care! He still needs to find women close enough to his age and not his daughter's age regardless. Otherwise, he should be alone for good
@joe-dante9036 Unfortunately that's not up to you.
@@dorisgordon4020 What the fuck ever! Just because they're grown ass adults, that definitely doesn't mean go out and get with people half their age, especially the age of their son or daughter. That's not ok, period!
While i dont agree with the age difference. I dont agree with the daughter on some things & comments. She is kinda of out of line.
That not the daughters business.
I think it’s so cringe when women call their boyfriend’s “daddy” or “zaddy” like ugh. I was dating this one guy & one day we were texting and I said something & he was like “that’s daddies girl” I almost threw my phone. I told him don’t ever say that shit to me again 😂 & if that’s something he is into I’m not the one for him 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@@taylorjaye7555 I wonder when they have a child together (presumably) if that will continue it's so weird
Ewwww I cringed when I read that I hate that sh*t 🤢
Omg I agree. It sounds stupid and some men love it. I have one daddy.
I think the father would be thinking a little differently about the age issue if his daughter was dating a man his age.
I don’t think this father would even care
And that's his job as a father. It's not the daughter's place to interfere in her dad 's love life. It's not your place to interfere in your mom 's love life but it's hers to interfere in yours because she's the PARENT!
@@bohlalenchabeleng1370 And parents set the example for their offspring. Hopefully the father can be cool when/if his potential son-in-law is the mirror.
He loves the girl more then he loves his daughter. The daughter should just walk away from him.
I know they not married yet but the Bible does state that husband and wife come before kids I don't think he loves her more it's just a different type of love
Did she really just say that dude is uncomfortable getting a job because its been so long?🙄oh wow
Ok so I knew I wasn’t tripping I was wondering who else picked that up
16:06 look how he was watching/ looking at her as she walked off after she gave him a kiss😩🤦🏽♀️ I honestly believe he is infatuated with her, she’s young and beautiful!! I mean that’s why a lot older men date younger women bc they’re nice arm candy & it makes them feel young and/or alive!! I get it but most of the time they don’t last!! I mean they may be truly in love but I honestly think it’s infatuation on his part. SN: he didn’t even attempt to hug his daughter when he came out he put his hand out there for a handshake. But hugged and kissed her. Like come on man. That’s your baby girl at least make an effort & don’t do shit to rub it in her face.
It’s something unsaid … why would she HAVE to strip to take care of them? …
Karamooooo, you're a True Blessings to this World.. I appreciate you
I feel bad for the girlfriend. The mom and daughter are brats and ugly acting. I get that the daughter deserves love but so does the father. Maybe not that young of a girl but her being so young and that’s she’s beautiful is what’s causing all the jealousy from the daughter and ex. For the ex to say the new gf looks like a messed up version of her is hilarious!! Girl bye!
As soon as the mom spoke... I was like, ooooh... I see now! Such a mean-spirited woman. The new girlfriend was very respectful.
They might be the same age but Kalysta is extremely immature and disrespectful. After hearing her moms msg, u can tell where she gets it from. The new gf was more than respectful.
Right her mom was cheating, know talking shit. Both u leave them ALONE.
She’s also obviously angry abt him leaving her mom but I bet her mom had cheated or something like that for him to leave her . When moms are bitter a lot of the kids end up the same way. She mad cause her mom has been upset since he left, and she’s disrespectful cause I’m sure all her mom speaks about is him and his gf and talks down on them. She is a reflection of her mother and your mother is his ex wife, you are his daughter. Mom should not be talking crap all the time abt her dad in front of her and making her feel different towards her father because mom mad she didn’t get her way. Made cause she’s prettier than the mom. U see what she said “ she looks like a less version of me “ like lmfao it’s abt bitterness . That’s what it is . Mom is bitter and daughter is too . His new gf doesn’t look like his ex wife she really tried it 😂sorry but she looks better . So sad as a mom you don’t do that u let the child and dad have time even when u first separated you being mad has nothing to do with him and his kid. She’s weird like a lot of woman who do this crap and it’s toxic . Also if babygirl found a older man and he say something I’m sure she would say “ mind your business dad I can date who I want “. Damnn typed this before he said she s carbon copy of her mom n that’s exactly what I said and I also had said the same thing he just said now too the fact that it’s because her mom bitter she’s bitter .
Jovandouglas5611, I’m sorry but that’s not totally true. When children become adults they start to form their own opinion on their parents whether or not the Mom speaks bad about the Dad or not due to mentally processing how their father moves over time. So by the time the child is now a 2O year old adult they have seen a significant amount of their parents b.s ways to form a basic opinion about them. Case in point the Dad became too distant for too long so it’s hard to feel sorry for him because he should have fought for a consistent relationship with the daughter and he would have been able to shut the ish the Mom said down with a quickness but he wasn’t around to defend himself so that’s why he is in this predicament with his daughter. Eventually as the years go by and she’s had a few more yrs added to her life as an older woman She will eventually process the good and bad about BOTH parents and will clearly see for herself how each played a part in the breakup. So Mom can’t stay the good guy forever.
good content i watch you everytime you post
I can't date a person one of my kids age.
When Karamo asked why he wasnt in his kids life, I KNEW he would blame the mother. Do a lot of men read the same book? They automatically blame the mom. He could've stayed in his children's lives.
He deserves to have a life too. She needs to grow up. It's her mama fault not his. All it takes is communication and growth. Separation at no fault of his is bias.
He’s damn near a pedophile
I wouldn’t say it’s her mom fault although she cheated or whatever. She’s a bxtch tho for that msg lol He shouldn’t have abandoned his daughter at the end of the day. But with that being said Dad & Lee are GROWN and they can do whatever they want. Daughter has daddy issues and is jealous of Dads relationship with Lee bcuz they are the same age so she feels like Lee is taking her place as daughter when in fact she’s not they are in a relationship despite the age gap. Daughter needs to grow up and stay out her daddy’s dating life business and focus on their father daughter relationship instead.
Exactly well said .
It's weird that your dad dates someone his child's age.
Dad needs to be a father to his daughter and who he chooses to date is his personal choice. Daughter needs to stay out of it.
Period.
2nd story: its probably a new phone, i think she's still cheating
Where is young lady daddy🤔 most of the time young girls date older because daddy wasn't in the home
I’m 25 and dating a guy who is in his 30’s I understand daughters feelings but I’m like you can’t tell your father who to date
14:00 I don’t like the message from the mom. She said the gf was just a little girl, but yet you’re throwing shots at the “little girl”, talking about her looks, etc….. Yes, the dad may be wrong, but that’s his business.
There is no fool like an old fool.
I’m 36 and my girl is 50 I see it’s wrong in a way that he’s messing with a younger woman but if she’s mature enough to be with a older man I in a way see that it’s not wrong and I have a daughter I’ll never put any female over my daughter my daughter is my heart she the reason I breathe
Babyyyyyy yo daddy got a young one cause she don't know any better abd can get over. Within the first year she had to support him smh he making a bitter woman
Men that do that are sick and nasty. IJS I like older men but not old enough to be MY FATHER
That's why God gave us a mind people need to mind their business if no one is being beaten, or forced to be with them let them be.
But it's okay for females then?
@@lawrencejackson4001eeew no leave our kids alone!
That man and that 20 year old girlfriend are GROWN. Their relationship is not inappropriate bcuz they are GROWN! Lmao the daughter is suffering from daddy issues that ain’t got nothing to do with his girlfriend. I hate women like that cuz that shyt follows them into adulthood they are women who never grew up bcuz they won’t get over their daddy issues. GIRL BYE! Leave them folks alone they living life. This shyt was funny 😂😂. I went thru something similar dating a much older man whose daughter was much older than me she is like a little girl meddling in her daddy’s life. Yall ladies gotta grow up and stop worrying about the next bxtch. 😂
Seem like you date younger than your age..you strongly agreeing..lol. pedos
She should simply voice her opinion to her father and stay out. Just support him when he needs it but don’t put herself out. They’re both adults. The girlfriend is stunning and I give him props pulling this woman
Off topic but the daughter is gorgeous 😍
The mother looks like she could be Lee’s mother! Lol and why she going in on the young girl 😮
If he done got evicted how the hell she using him they both broke 😂😂😂
I’m not ageist. Let adults be with adults. The problem here is that the father is stupid.
😂😂😂😂😂
His daughter is so disrespectful it is unreal. Calling the girlfriend out of her name is like watching a flesh eater with snake shin go live.
Well they’re the same age 🥴😩 !!!!
When you can walk away from your child but take in “ young woman” your child age and love them, care for them, say you love them. It’s crazy. Then acknowledging it and it being 1 of the first things you say makes me know that. This isn’t ignorance, it’s a choice. You are choosing not to give love to your child on purpose because it’s obvious that you have the capacity to do so, because you are choosing it with another young lady. This message is very loud and clear to your child. I don’t choose you on purpose.
Edit…..Karamo ended up telling him the same thing…..guess I should watch the whole clip first😊
He is so immature and that girl is not gonna stay with him long
They been together longer than some married so nothing last forever. So be happy while you have a life
When the dad said I love her with all my heart. The daughter should have asked. Do you love me with all of your heart? Who do you love the most? Who would you rather lose? PERIOD!
Girl yo daddy look 30 lol can pass for 25
He look 50 💀💀💀
Daughter is very disrespectful and listening to every word of her mom.
Disrespectful to a father that left her at 13…
@@no-zb7kjeven so who gives her right to call anyone B word. With her mom only one there to raise her, we see how she did it. Her tongue is the extention of her mothers
The 20 yr old gf is very respectful and trying to create a bridge to the daughter and trying to foster a relationship. I respect her preferences for older men.
The daughter needs to figure out what she is upset about. She needs to stop intertwining her anger with her father for abandoning her with her feeling jealous because he has a young woman in his life he is taking care of thats not her. She mixing all that with her mother’s bitterness. Also, I get that she is disgusted with the relationship because objectively thats a weird age gap.
The dad needs to prioritize taking care of his daughter and stop letting his gf call him daddy (thats just weird and uncomfortable). He also probably should be dating someone his own age but she a legal adult, so I’m minding my business on that one.
The mom should be encouraging her daughter to speak to her father and stay outta that man relationship with his gf.
Mom was bitter and still mad that he left her 😂😂 talking bout Lee a busted version of her lmao that lady was loud and obnoxious. She definitely putting the bitter bug in her daughter ear. They both wrong for getting in that man’s business lol
I remember when my dad did the same thing after he and my mom separated. He started dating a young lady with 2 kids,and she moved in with him. I didn't really care because I was married,and had just had a baby.I noticed that he would always have her kids with him,but she was never with them. To make a long story short,she was cheating on him with someone our age while he was paying all of the bills and babysitting! The daughter should be concerned, but she was out of place giving her dad ultimatums and letting them know that she disapproved of their relationship.
Girl dont stripp he need to get his out fine a job like he got shit
You see how they let that slide
I ain't ever ever ever going to strip to take care of NO grown $$A man...unt unt, find somebody else to do it...straight up🤨🙄
The daughter is to young to understand the father hasn't fully matured yet probably some kind of trauma which leads to him preferring younger ladies. I wish my father showed up at at all. Even if he was dating someone my age. Hope they figure it out though.
You think the only reason he wants a young girl is trauma, that woman is stunning, if she has a good personality as well he couldn't walk away if he wanted too,
@tribaltheadventurer never used the word only. The topic wasn't about who he's attracted to. The point is how the daughter feels about it.
@@LaiLaiS8who cares how the daughter feels about it it’s not her fkn business. Everybody on that stage was an adult. Mom was jealous. Daughter has daddy issues. That ain’t got nun to do with Lee. And yes Lee is BEAUTIFUL 🤩 and dad was handsome as well. Yall ppl be worried bout the wrong things. The daughter should focus on her relationship with her daddy not be in his business, that’s inappropriate.
@TheeGoddessQUEEN I understand the episode triggered you... but you can relax. I wasn't on the daughter's side either way & Never even mentioned Lee. I spoke on the father's issues and that is all. This situation has several layers.... and I spoke on 1.
That’s your dad not your man 🤷🏿♂️ yeah it’s gross but it’s not your business.
Pedo
The man doesn't owe that kid no explanation..
Oh well I think ma stood up just like she should have!!!!!!! Karamo was wrong because no his girlfriend should have kept her WHOLE mouth completely shut and should have stayed at home on the lawn or where ever she came from 😢😢😢
I’m sorry, but his daughter seems to have an unhealthy attachment to him. She also needs to realize her dad is a very handsome man, who does not look his age. I would be looking at him if I was 20, 40 or 60. His daughter has decided she dislikes this young woman and that’s it. Her reasons don’t even make sense.
I agree
Unhealthy attachment to a man who wasn't in her life?? U sound slow
@dorisx1705, You call that an unhealthy attachment?😮 You must not have been blessed to be a Daddy’s girl.
It is indeed an unhealthy attachment. The daughter has unhealed trauma of her daddy not being there so instead of focusing on rebuilding her relationship with her father she instead focuses on his personal life cuz her bitter mom had put all that bitterness in her ear which is none of her or her mama’s business cuz he’s grown and so is his girlfriend lol
You cannot be upset because your father is dating someone your age.
And daughter you grown now and ya daddy can't pay rent
.....Ok dad I hope you continue to try. lil girl stop calling people out they name. If 20 year old start calling you the B word you and ya mama gonna wanna jump her. SMH. Works both ways.
He has NO RESPECT for his daughter and no self-respect to be dating his daughter's peer. That's just messed up.
Can we just stop and appreciate how attractive Janel is
🔥🔥🔥🔥
No grown women want a broke man to take care of we need a real man that knows how to take care of himself
The daughter has been made toxic by the mom what if roles were reversed would it be the same I highly doubt so
My Dad started dating his girlfriend while my mom was on her deathbed. Then moved her in the house 2 weeks after the funeral. The same house he shared with my mom for 30yrs.
I just hope he sticks to his word and starts showing up for his daughter.
Sounds like lust and fantasy and unresolved issues in the family
I’ve never met a Robert with sense 😂
When did they start using the “Not Like Us” instrumental 😂
Girl and it seems she really didn’t want much to do with him before he got this girlfriend and that’s not how it works. U don’t get to barely hang out with him or want much to do with him then when u see he gotta young gf you wanna do all of this and then he leave her n u back doing you and barely caring . Like girl pls go get that ged… a lot of us didn’t have our dads in our households but a lot of us love and respect our dads as adults and understand a little better the thing where mom can be bitter enough to do whatever to keep you separated … the kids never check the moms for being that bitter . Also I’m 22 I call my man daddy for years any years . Still do and I know ppl who do the same it’s not that weird as yall say lol. U wanan see where he been cause of who he’s dating now . I’m the younger one but I went after my man hard lol . I def wanted a relationship
Great channel
Her education has nothing to do with how she feels
ouuu you so messy😂😂
Whoa. She moved in with a man she knew for less than for 24 hours. Where is HER father??
He didn't even give her no love😮 I see why she feels the way she feels.
This is a horrible situation😢 I feel for the daughter , she shouldn't feel like she's ostracized from her Dad, but he could find a woman his age IF he worked a job
When I was 18/19 I dated someone that was 33 years old and had a 16/17 year old daughter that he got custody of when she was 15. Had fallen in love and showed up from a place of love. We had beautiful family dynamics at first that we were building. Wanted to be apart of a loving family anyhow. His daughter and I got along, honestly hope the girly good she's in college out there now.
We both are (21 now- back in school !) Relationship went left at some point because it didn't seem like my partner was supportive of me or my goals it was always what he wanted to see me in.
Had my own place and was already living on my own in HS. He wanted me to move in so fast.....
Was Never Ever a material person and listen I'm not going to complain neither , but he hit me with the "I never had a girl that doesn't know how to wear heal so you're going to learn". You know they tell you don't let a man tell or show you more than once I probably let that man break my heart all over multiple times. Distanced myself but became more attached through certain trials we experienced didn't help that he always confirmed he loved me. For sure think he took advantage of certain things I was going through emotionally. At the time and still to certain degrees I feel grateful for lessons gained, grew up with a mother that emotionally was NOT there (OD, DV and Depressed) She didn't teach me things a female should know. Found out he had done some pretty vial things to other people and best he's out of my life...At some point thought that was about to be a forever family but it's best left and that's on that didn't even know who he is... I am not blameless neither though . Just glad and grateful to be pushing forward and for god giving me strength.
My dad is 45 and he would even date some almost 30. Me and my sister are 22 n 24! He definitely has the choice and conscience
I feel like the dad is using her. My ex is doing the same, he’s 60 and she’s 28, she use to date or son and use to be my daughters playmate in daycare
Father is living the dream.
Once again the mother messed up the relationship,, and miss led the child wit lies,, and as always the dad gets the blame. He betta not let dat 20yr old girlfriend go
Yeh your right she pushed him away with her big mouth and attitude etc and the guy couldn’t take it anymore then when separated the mum starts to plant tings in to the child’s mind and poisons them. I’ve been through all of this because my baby mama was so bitter and angry about me even though it was her that pushed me away my relationship with my daughter will never be the same.
Karama IS THE BEST.
I wouldn’t forgive the dad
Idc how yall flip it in these comments. That man nasty for dating someone his daughter’s age. That lady can’t even buy alcohol. If my daddy did this mess, I wouldn’t talk to him no more. This is coming from someone who was raised by a single dad.
So much to unpack here:
Father : weirdo old bum who can’t raise his child and makes his young girl strip to support him. He’s immature and talks funny
Daughter: damaged, a little bratty but hurt. She needs to move on or he will continue to disappoint her.
Lee: young and naive. Please go find a man worth your time and leave this old creep alone
Ex wife : Encourages daughters behaviour. Probably hurt that when they divorced, he divorced his child too. Has every right to be angry
Both young ladies suffered from not having a father in there life
That girl IS NOT using your dad. If anything he’s using her
This man needs a real job grow up
Kalysta sounds like a hater tbh. And why white men gotta be involved.
Even if she was homeless he help her nothing wrong with helping