Varjatud nartsissism, mis see on ja kuidas seda ära tunda?

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  • @liisil6hmus
    @liisil6hmus 3 года назад +17

    Wow, aamen! Aitàh, et rààgid nii olulisest teemast! 🙏 Kui hàsti öeldud ja siirad soovid, olen kindel et need aitavad kedagi kusagil! Teed tànuváárset asja!

  • @valvetreialt7905
    @valvetreialt7905 2 года назад +5

    Sellist infot isiksusehäiretest võiks meil rohkem olla.Suur aitäh nii hea video eest 😊🙏

  • @maiekarro1204
    @maiekarro1204 3 года назад +4

    Aitäh, sain mõtteainet oma probleemi lahendamisele!

  • @egle.jakimova
    @egle.jakimova Год назад +2

    Palun veel sel teemal videosid kus oleks juttu ka ärevushäirest ja paanikahäirest 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @sirjepintsaar8243
    @sirjepintsaar8243 8 месяцев назад

    Suur tänu.kõik õige🙏

  • @FullVik
    @FullVik 2 года назад +4

    Uskumatu kui tõsi see kõik tundub. Olin koos 11 aastat sellise inimesega ja aastast aastasse püüdsin end muuta sest ta polnud iial minuga rahul. Pärast 3 aastat lahus olemist süüdistab ta ikkagi kõiges mind ja vaimselt paneb tundma kui vale see oli, et ta maha jätsin. Temast paremat meest ei leia ma iial, sest ta on täiuslik. Kindlasti naised või mehed kes on sellises suhtes ei tohiks olla ükskõik kui raske on lahkuda. Sest 3 aastat hiljem olen ma sisemiselt ikka veel katki ja otsin end, sest kõik kes olin kunagi on purustatud. 😔💔

  • @MargeKaiv
    @MargeKaiv 28 дней назад

    Olen uhke ja tugev,et rebisin eest tema maskid. Mina olen tugevam kui kunagi varem😊

  • @magicmice75_369
    @magicmice75_369 Год назад +1

    jah, 15 a kogemust. Oled ise süüdi ja kui Tema midagi teeb , saad kriitika, et ükskõik mida tema teeb ei ole SINA rahul! Igas jutus on tema kannataja, teised süüdi!

  • @liiliakirikal4837
    @liiliakirikal4837 11 месяцев назад +1

    Tohutult hea kirjeldus ! Hästi ära tunda meie mõningaid poliitikuid....

  • @veronikaberg8945
    @veronikaberg8945 3 года назад +9

    Täielikult kõik õige. Mulle ütles ta et kui ta peaks mu tapma, siis mitte keegi ei usuks seda ega tuleks mite kunagi selle pealegi, sest kõik peavad teda heaks. Aitähh.

  • @MsKizzka
    @MsKizzka Год назад

    Aitäh ♥️

  • @merlekaarik1635
    @merlekaarik1635 3 года назад

    Hei! Aitäh! 🙂

  • @bethanypallo5191
    @bethanypallo5191 Год назад +2

    Kahju on tunnustada, et ma iseend sellest videost ära tunnen

  • @tiiupiibur6265
    @tiiupiibur6265 3 года назад +2

    Suured tänud :)

  • @kristiiilane9888
    @kristiiilane9888 3 года назад +1

    Väga tore oled, aitähh Sulle :)

  • @katrevallner7740
    @katrevallner7740 Год назад +1

    Nii õigel ajal tuli see video mulle.🙏 Ma saan nüüd aru miks ma olen lasknud endale nii pikalt liiga teha ja ei ole kuulanud teisi☹

  • @riinanaelapea5564
    @riinanaelapea5564 2 года назад

    Ohh küll, see on lihtsalt üks ühele kokkuvõte minu loost, mille lõpetasin just nii, et kriips ja siit läheb piir ja punkt. Ma loodan...ahh mis ma loodan... See video kindlasti aitab nii mõnelgi mõista neid situatsioone.
    Aitäh ja Ants, sa oled paljudele toeks 🙏❤️

    • @theharshtruthoutthere
      @theharshtruthoutthere Год назад

      How can we talk with wisdom, if we are missing THE FEAR OF GOD?
      It is FOOLISH to support always and everything. That`s also why sickness is ruling - suddenly we all became "so supportive".
      Dear soul, don't ye know that REAL LOVE JUDGES RIGHTEOUSLY? It`s not always and everything supporting - no. Real LOVE shows us all, our wrong goings - then places us in a test - giving us a chance to correct our wrong doings and goings and keep our feet on the NARROW - yet RIGHTEOUS path.
      Avoid deceiving others. We all shall be judge after lives on earth. ruclips.net/video/ttviqvfTBTg/видео.html
      ruclips.net/video/8PUhq3b6wYs/видео.html
      We (those in CHRIST) are called and expected to GO AND SIN NO MORE, sadly none of us are fully free nor protected to fail and backslide:
      Jeremiah 3:22 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Return, ye backsliding children, and I will heal your backslidings. Behold, we come unto thee; for thou art the LORD our God.
      Hosea 14:4 | View whole chapter | See verse in context I will heal their backsliding, I will love them freely: for mine anger is turned away from him.
      Jeremiah 8:5 | View whole chapter | See verse in context
      Why then is this people of Jerusalem slidden back by a perpetual backsliding? they hold fast deceit, they refuse to return.
      Jeremiah 31:22 | View whole chapter | See verse in context
      How long wilt thou go about, O thou backsliding daughter? for the LORD hath created a new thing in the earth, A woman shall compass a man.
      Jeremiah 3:14 | View whole chapter | See verse in context
      Turn, O backsliding children, saith the LORD; for I am married unto you: and I will take you one of a city, and two of a family, and I will bring you to Zion:
      Jeremiah 3:8 | View whole chapter | See verse in context
      And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also.
      Jeremiah 3:6 | View whole chapter | See verse in context
      The LORD said also unto me in the days of Josiah the king, Hast thou seen that which backsliding Israel hath done? she is gone up upon every high mountain and under every green tree, and there hath played the harlot.
      Jeremiah 3:12 | View whole chapter | See verse in context
      Go and proclaim these words toward the north, and say, Return, thou backsliding Israel, saith the LORD; and I will not cause mine anger to fall upon you: for I am merciful, saith the LORD, and I will not keep anger for ever.
      Let`s not be fools and take GOD`S love and longsuffering granted:
      Even though we read, that HE forgives our backsliding and calls us all back, let`s not take it all granted and just let the backsliding happening. Let`s be and getting wiser and wiser and let`s AVOID the backsliding.
      May we all shall be protected from all the temptations.
      We need laws and re-create these (and change) these to "keep" life peaceful and under control. Why don`t we try to live after the laws of GOD - HIS 10 commandments?
      Humans are intelligence , so what is stopping us? Our PRIDE? - us being without a real knowledge?
      Let me ask again: WHAT IS STOPPING US TO LIVE righteously? We clearly are able to, otherwise the LIFE OF CHRIST was pointless.
      Deuteronomy 18:11 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Or a charmer, or a consulter with familiar spirits, or a wizard, or a necromancer. Leviticus 19:31 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Regard not them that have familiar spirits, neither seek after wizards, to be defiled by them: I am the LORD your God. 2 Kings 21:6 | View whole chapter | See verse in context And he made his son pass through the fire, and observed times, and used enchantments, and dealt with familiar spirits and wizards: he wrought much wickedness in the sight of the LORD, to provoke him to anger. 1 Samuel 28:3 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Now Samuel was dead, and all Israel had lamented him, and buried him in Ramah, even in his own city. And Saul had put away those that had familiar spirits, and the wizards, out of the land. 1 Samuel 28:9 | View whole chapter | See verse in context And the woman said unto him, Behold, thou knowest what Saul hath done, how he hath cut off those that have familiar spirits, and the wizards, out of the land: wherefore then layest thou a snare for my life, to cause me to die? Leviticus 20:6 | View whole chapter | See verse in context And the soul that turneth after such as have familiar spirits, and after wizards, to go a whoring after them, I will even set my face against that soul, and will cut him off from among his people. Isaiah 19:3 | View whole chapter | See verse in context And the spirit of Egypt shall fail in the midst thereof; and I will destroy the counsel thereof: and they shall seek to the idols, and to the charmers, and to them that have familiar spirits, and to the wizards. Isaiah 8:19 | View whole chapter | See verse in context And when they shall say unto you, Seek unto them that have familiar spirits, and unto wizards that peep, and that mutter: should not a people seek unto their God? for the living to the dead? BIBLE - a spiritual book, with alive words, authorised by LIVING GOD - clear about all stuff, that had already taken place, is taking place and stuff/topics to come. Why still avoid to read and study it? And about not speaking more then 1 languages? - Well, who was the one who give us all different languages? - GOD DID, therefore we all are able to learn to speak more then 1. In fact, we are able to learn to speak all of these language given to mankind, sadly for some reasons, we decrease our own intelligent.
      Hosea 4:6 | View whole chapter | See verse in context My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children. Job 34:35 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Job hath spoken without knowledge, and his words were without wisdom. Job 4:20 | View whole chapter | See verse in context They are destroyed from morning to evening: they perish for ever without any regarding it. Isaiah 9:16 | View whole chapter | See verse in context For the leaders of this people cause them to err; and they that are led of them are destroyed. 1 Corinthians 9:21 | View whole chapter | See verse in context To them that are without law, as without law, (being not without law to God, but under the law to Christ,) that I might gain them that are without law.
      Spending lifetime on earth (up to 120 years) and end up perishing, out of ignorant? - out of not knowing?
      None of us born back into this fallen realm. No, not a singe soul of a HUMAN dose that.
      Hebrews 9:27 | View whole chapter | See verse in context And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:
      True, there is BORN AGAIN - but that means - BORN AGAIN IN THIS LIFETIME, THAT IS GIVEN TO YOU, BECOME A NEW CREATURE, WHO GOES AND NO LONGER SINS. (NO LIES, NO HATE, NO ENVY AND MORE....)
      John 3:7 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again. 1 Peter 1:23 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever. John 3:3 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
      Luke 13:5 | View whole chapter | See verse in context I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish. Luke 13:3 | View whole chapter | See verse in context I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish.
      We can`t go into an holy place (HEAVEN) while being unholy (sinners) beings. So why do we even dare to?

  • @NYAdopamine
    @NYAdopamine 6 месяцев назад

    Kas oled näinud 2 nartsissisti suhtes? Kui see üldse kuidagi algab. kas see on neile mõlemale õppetund ja võib neid arendada või on see hukk mõlemale?

  • @veronikaberg8945
    @veronikaberg8945 2 года назад +1

    Kuulasin veel kord ja ausalt kõik keda seni olen tundnud ja kes on mu millegip. maha jätnud, hüljanud - ka sõbrannad: 1 neis on kosmoenergeet ja kusjuures tema elukaaslane andis otsad selllise käitumiise järel ( kukkus trepist alla ja natukede aja pärast ..) on tegelt põhjus, et ma ei andnud alla. Hing oli sees rahulik ja jäin ka rahulikuks kuigi no ausalt!!! - see eraldatus nende häireliste keskel on tekitanud minuis hiigel küsimuse: KUS ON OMAD???! Ants, vb sina oled see omade seltskond? Aitähh. 💖💯

    • @reginaaaq
      @reginaaaq 7 месяцев назад

      Lugege tunnuste nimekirja videost, eriti esimest. Kui ikka terve rada järel ja keegi ei sobi, ehk teist köib videos juttu? Kirjeldus tubdub selline "olen vaene kannataja" stiilis. Mul on ka ohvrimentaliteet ja samuti ma ülikriitiline , ekssõpru ka palju. Aga siinsed põhjused on pigem minu enda tugev kaitsehoiak ja suur emotsionaalsus ning mh palju muud. Aga sellist kirjeldust nagu teil ma ei looks.

  • @Ur3o
    @Ur3o 3 года назад +3

    Ma tunnen Ennast Nartsissistina :/
    Mitte täielikult, aga Minus on seda :/ ja see on kohutav :/ :(
    Mai taha seda, tahan selle minevikku jätta. Aga kuidas :/?

    • @innerview6298
      @innerview6298 3 года назад

      Igas ühes on nartsi spekter olemas, skaalal siis vähemal või suuremal moel ja teatud inimesed on katalüsaatorid, mis need haavad esile toovad ja siis algab kaitsereaktsioon läbi ülima kontrollivajaduse. Haavatud empaat ja narts on väga levinud suhtedünaamika, sest 2 äärmust kohtusid ja õppetund saab alata. See, et sa tunnistad probleemi on juba nihe sinu arengus, kuna diagnoosi saanud narts ei tunnista enda probleeme või teeskleb. Samas süütunded on üks madalamaid emotsioone, mis blokeerib armastuse energiat, tuleb teadvustada ja end toetada nagu last arenguteel, sest iga hetk uus võimalus. Elu on momentum, keskendu sellele mida luua soovid.

  • @dotsenkodenis3619
    @dotsenkodenis3619 Год назад

    Mitte ainult koos elades.Ka koos töötades sellise inimesega on võimatu-tema kõige targem,parem ja eksimatum.Mina pidin tööd vahetama peale 3 a koos töötamist, kuna mu tervis hakkas tema pärast üles ütlema.Nüüd pole pooligi naid vaevusi mis olid siis.Järeldus-ammu oleksin pidanud kuulama enda sisemist häält mis enam ei jaksanud mind kitsta.

  • @krisrattus8707
    @krisrattus8707 Год назад +1

    Nartsisisst kuulab seda ja m6istab, et teine on nartsissist. :)

    • @reginaaaq
      @reginaaaq 7 месяцев назад

      Arvan sama 😃

  • @gunitsa1
    @gunitsa1 2 года назад +1

    Oi mai gaad..ma elan sellisega ...kuidas hirm tõuseb ja soovin põgeneda....saingi 2a Hiljem ta juurest ära mindud..et hea on nüüd elada omaette.

  • @ilonasaluvee2372
    @ilonasaluvee2372 2 года назад

    Ei iialgi ei mõtle, vaid vōrdlen teistega. Olen vabanenud ammu juba.

  • @augustsoomre4795
    @augustsoomre4795 2 года назад

    Õpetussõnad 15:3 Issanda silmad on igas paigas,
    valvates kurje ja häid.14 Mõistlik süda otsib tunnetust,
    aga alpide suu leiab toitu rumalusest.
    22 Nõupidamiseta nurjuvad kavatsused,
    aga lähevad korda paljude nõuandjate abiga.
    23 Inimesel on rõõm, kui ta suu oskab vastata,
    ja sõna õigel ajal - küll see on hea.
    24 Targal läheb elurada ülespidi,
    et ta pääseks põrgust, mis on all.

  • @estimoondust358
    @estimoondust358 2 года назад

    :D keegi oleks sellist juttu pidanud mulle rääkima umbes 30 aastat tagasi, poleks siis ehk vaja olnud 20 aastat ämbreid kolistada

  • @Past_Insanity
    @Past_Insanity 3 месяца назад

    Algklassis TULEKS juba rääkida sellisest teemast rsk

  • @sirjearm5755
    @sirjearm5755 2 года назад

    Tänud ,kuid langesin selle inimese ohvriks, proovin sellest ūle saada .

  • @inga1721
    @inga1721 10 месяцев назад

    Sellistest inimestest ei tohi mitte kunagi rahaliselt sõltuvaks saada. Nad purustavad sinu.

  • @ARI-wc6xd
    @ARI-wc6xd 2 года назад +1

    Kui kõiki neid isikuomaduse kuulda, siis me kõik oleme kes vähesel või kes suuremal määral nartsissistid. Ainult buddha ja Jesus olid vabad oma ego kütkest. Tavalised inimesed on kõik nartsissistid. :)

  • @eevaliisavahtra
    @eevaliisavahtra 3 года назад +1

    Väga hea video ning oluline ja aktuaalne teema meie ühiskonnas. Jagan ka enda isiklikku lugu suhtest nartsissistiga - ruclips.net/video/V98rvoncYjg/видео.html

  • @stout8529
    @stout8529 Год назад

    Kuulge, idikad. Ärge kammige ennast selle sogaga. See on täielik soust.