My father spent his last 7 years bedridden at home. My mother was his primary care giver (she was a nurse before she married my dad) and he never suffered from a single bed sore.
She was 57 and had breast and lung cancer and you have the NERVE to be pouting that she didn't fight hard enough because you are SO SELFISH that you would have her go through that pain and suffering to give you more time to WHAT!?!? What in the world could extra time have given you? More time to see her suffer so you could feel okay to let her go? Wow. You are the most selfish brat adult I've seen in a long time. GROW UP and think of HER instead of YOURSELF! And yeah, I do know what it is like. I found the love of my life at 46 and he got cancer and died in my arms after we had only been together 7 years. I would never have asked him to suffer for ME. I had to sign the papers to let him go. But I did it FOR HIM because he asked me not to keep him there on machines.
Wow...Vicki...where to start...you sound as though you've had a tough time with loss of loved ones. You are coming across jaded, angry & preachy. Everyone deals with death in their own way & they have the right to wish it would've ended differently. Just as I'm sure you wished it had gone differently at the end with your loved one(s). That's not wishing them alive & suffering because nobody wants that. You aren't the only person in the world who is going through these emotions right this very minute. I watched my dad die in a car wreck, watched my mum die from starvation because of alzheimers, just went to my uncle's funeral on the weekend & he died from a huge tumor throughout his chest. His wife, my aunt has dementia, is in nursing home & doesn't even know he was ill & died. I wish all of that hadn't happened. Please don't be hard on others going through the same thing. You are dealing with it the best you can, we are dealing with it the best we can. Try to be empathic & don't project your hurt feelings on people going through the same thing you are. Vicki, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your life mate.
Agreed also when tje miscarriage was brought up she show no emotional connection with the late child, Tyler seemed 2 puck up on it &he repeated the child his with you're mum safe
This one brought tears to my eyes
My father spent his last 7 years bedridden at home. My mother was his primary care giver (she was a nurse before she married my dad) and he never suffered from a single bed sore.
Your mother sounds like a very strong woman. ♥️
❤ Love that your Mom took such GREAT care of your Dad. I'm sorry for your loss.
My father cared for my mother and she got a serious bed sore from being at the hospital. They just stuck a band aid and never took care of the sore.
@@ladymomo4702 That is so terrible. I am so sorry that happened to her.
@@kathydoty8718 Thank you! He died in 2002, seems like yesterday to me. My Mom passed in 2018
Tyler, these are 5 very good ones to keep together!!!
So sad🎉, for these folks losses.
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She was 57 and had breast and lung cancer and you have the NERVE to be pouting that she didn't fight hard enough because you are SO SELFISH that you would have her go through that pain and suffering to give you more time to WHAT!?!? What in the world could extra time have given you? More time to see her suffer so you could feel okay to let her go? Wow. You are the most selfish brat adult I've seen in a long time. GROW UP and think of HER instead of YOURSELF! And yeah, I do know what it is like. I found the love of my life at 46 and he got cancer and died in my arms after we had only been together 7 years. I would never have asked him to suffer for ME. I had to sign the papers to let him go. But I did it FOR HIM because he asked me not to keep him there on machines.
Bless you. You did the right thing.
Wow...Vicki...where to start...you sound as though you've had a tough time with loss of loved ones. You are coming across jaded, angry & preachy. Everyone deals with death in their own way & they have the right to wish it would've ended differently. Just as I'm sure you wished it had gone differently at the end with your loved one(s). That's not wishing them alive & suffering because nobody wants that. You aren't the only person in the world who is going through these emotions right this very minute. I watched my dad die in a car wreck, watched my mum die from starvation because of alzheimers, just went to my uncle's funeral on the weekend & he died from a huge tumor throughout his chest. His wife, my aunt has dementia, is in nursing home & doesn't even know he was ill & died. I wish all of that hadn't happened. Please don't be hard on others going through the same thing. You are dealing with it the best you can, we are dealing with it the best we can. Try to be empathic & don't project your hurt feelings on people going through the same thing you are. Vicki, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your life mate.
😢 I am so so sorry. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Please know that your comment brought me to tears.
Agreed also when tje miscarriage was brought up she show no emotional connection with the late child, Tyler seemed 2 puck up on it &he repeated the child his with you're mum safe