ADDRESSING THE HATE COMMENTS

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2022

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  • @EdwinSarkissian
    @EdwinSarkissian Год назад +261

    Rule number one as a creator , never go to the comment section urself. U have to learn to ignore all. U do u. Forget comments don’t let them get to u

    • @mranderson4001
      @mranderson4001 Год назад +4

      This is just content. Can make anything out of content. Ya’ll got jebaited, stay woke

    • @wunmigbadamosi2574
      @wunmigbadamosi2574 Год назад +7

      Easier said then done 😏

    • @steviealvaalbany2730
      @steviealvaalbany2730 Год назад +1

      You have no room to talk , Do you have 400 subscribers

    • @dieterrosswag933
      @dieterrosswag933 Год назад +3

      Rule number one : i don't give a f about this superficial youtubers that has nothing to offer

    • @emmyturner7385
      @emmyturner7385 Год назад +3

      If a creater doesn't go into their comment section because they fear what criticism they may get they are not ready to be on the Internet. If they go out of their way to ban everyone who doesn't agree with them they never will be.

  • @giselleg8072
    @giselleg8072 Год назад +4410

    i’ve noticed it getting bad.. what people don’t understand is that you guys get to choose what you want to show us. we will never know what goes on behind closed doors. Keep your head up bb! your REAL supporters got you

    • @marleinortiz2791
      @marleinortiz2791 Год назад +3

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @smileygirldrell4630
      @smileygirldrell4630 Год назад +18

      they obviously don't watch you guys y'all said previously you each would buy your own properties y'all were hyping each other up!! 💕💕💕💕

    • @CR-uw8kv
      @CR-uw8kv Год назад +18

      Exactly! Your words! They get to show us what they want. Now if with all the videos that we see that are posted on RUclips (after they edited the videos & chose what parts to keep) we can see Benny acting so off & bitter now imagine what he acts like when the cameras are off & he doesnt have to put up a “good face”. Poor Alondra!

    • @meganpino3971
      @meganpino3971 Год назад +6

      Yess your real supporter will always be here. F the haters❤️♥️💞💗💕

    • @Msqueen_d
      @Msqueen_d Год назад +5

      Yes it don’t even make sense but please remember you don’t have to explain your finances to anyone you are truly loved 🥰

  • @erikalugo6225
    @erikalugo6225 Год назад +116

    this video actually made me so sad bc people just don’t wanna see you and benny both growing and thriving, can’t wait to see what the future holds your beautiful family 🤍🤍🤍

  • @yesiv916
    @yesiv916 Год назад +31

    As a girl myself who struggles with mental health daily. WHEN YOU SAID “you just don’t get it” it shouldn’t open any doors for people to start hate comments. I completely understand you. My BF and I have a 18 month old, we just bought a house, I am a stay at home mom, he works full time. And I try to explain to him my mental health issues and sometimes it’s not that I don’t trust him but I just don’t want to bring it up to him because even myself, I think, why do I feel this way if I’m so blessed. No matter how we say it, NO ONE WILL EVER GET IT. Only a person who struggles with it will understand. & that is not Bennys fault. As u said, he’s stronger minded and so is my BF. he’s there for me, but his words to make me feel better will always be “look at what we have, a house, health, a baby” because he wants me to see the positive side. Benny is just trying to help and seeing that video of u two before all this hate I completely understood you both bc AGAIN, this is very very normal in a relationship where one struggles with mental health. PPL on social media think it’s ok to judge when I am sure their lives are miserable but will never ever show that bc it’s easier to say “oh Benny needs to be more supportive, mean while they are still single for a reason themselves”
    I have also brought up to my bf in me buying a house for myself. This is nothing against him, but it’s nice as women to have a source of income that no matter what will always be us. I am proud you guys did that, believe me you will never regret your own assets 🥲
    I NEVER READ NOR SPECIALLY WRITE COMMENTS but you guys deserve one. I hope you guys get through this soon ❤

  • @angelaescobar3001
    @angelaescobar3001 Год назад +3509

    I feel like it all started when you were talking about your mental health and he basically said you have no reason to be sad/ depressed because the life you have- which I feel like no guy really can understand what we go through after having a baby. I love you both and I agree people will judge your relationship because your life is on the internet for everyone to see. No one knows what happens behind closed doors. Ignore the hate. It’s impossible to be perfect and make everyone happy. Congrats on all your achievements Alo! You been through so much and deserve nothing but the best for you and your little family ❤️

    • @rhiannaaguilar3392
      @rhiannaaguilar3392 Год назад +223

      Exactly, this is when it started because of how he reacted towards her mental health struggles. He really showed that he didn’t care and was laughing. So this is why, but idk the vibe they give is like not really in love idk maybe I’m wrong. I hope they all really last and be happy!

    • @supremetrollyt8979
      @supremetrollyt8979 Год назад +49

      @@rhiannaaguilar3392 he just don’t understand it and doesn’t know about it since he doesn’t suffer from it. It’s not that he doesn’t care

    • @carolynxxv
      @carolynxxv Год назад +5

      Yup exactly

    • @rhiannaaguilar3392
      @rhiannaaguilar3392 Год назад +61

      @@supremetrollyt8979 then he needs to try to understand it instead of speaking ignorantly. But this is the reason he got all the hate.

    • @cameronaskenette3465
      @cameronaskenette3465 Год назад +12

      Even the way she words things.

  • @lindalara6335
    @lindalara6335 Год назад +765

    I truly admire your courage to speak up and stand up for yourself, your partner and your family together. This vulnerability is empowerment. I respect you saying how you feel, how the comments make you feel and asking for them to please stop for both you and Benny, this is the epitome of effective communication. Proud of you Alondra! 🥰

    • @fabiolad87
      @fabiolad87 Год назад

      This!!!

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH Год назад

      Jesus Christ died for our sins, rose from the dead, and gives salvation to everyone who has faith in him. True faith in Jesus will have you bear good fruit and *drastically* change for the better! Those led by the Holy Spirit do not abide in wickedness. 👍🏾
      *God is ONE manifesting himself as THREE;* the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit! Bless him! *For these three are one.*
      As I am led by the Holy Spirit, nothing I state is a lie, but the truth of God. Anyone who tells you differently is misinformed or a liar. They do not know God, nor led by him.
      Anyone who *claims* to be a Christian and is against what I am doing, and where I am doing it; the Holy Spirit does not dwell within them, they lack understanding. They know not God, read his word, and their religion is in vain. Do not hear them, they will mislead you, the lost cannot guide the lost.

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH Год назад

      When you trust in God and cast your cares (worries, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts) upon him, they will be NO MORE!
      Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals!
      The world is wicked, evil, and of the devil.
      I too, was a wicked sinner of the world before I opened my heart to God. I am living proof of God's work and fruitfulness! He is an active God who hears the prayers of his! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous. The devil is a liar that comes to steal, to kill, and to destroy; that includes your relationship with God!

  • @alexisruiz7388
    @alexisruiz7388 Год назад +213

    I’m so glad your talking about this cause I didn’t understand why people think that you would ever be with someone who would not treat you like a queen you are and Benny is such a genuine and good person I mean you can definitely see it so good for you girl !

    • @veexo9115
      @veexo9115 Год назад +8

      Because many people are.. they have kids and don’t leave or take years to leave

    • @DestineyAmerie
      @DestineyAmerie Год назад

      What I don’t understand though.. is how is she saying it’s her mortgage, so she’s paying it.. yet What hers is his and his is hers.. make it make sense.. because if that was the case it wouldn’t be title her mortgage her payments.. should that be spit.?? It’s none of my business how or what goes on in their relationship.. but this is what I’m NOT understanding..

    • @shookbitch123
      @shookbitch123 Год назад

      Cuz she’s in denial she should rewatch how he used to be

    • @marilyndoll2929
      @marilyndoll2929 2 месяца назад

      Its not fun when your on the other side.Lets not forget how she came on youtube and bashed her ex knowing he had mental disorder and he got non stop hate to the point he wanted to end it.All because he said the truth of their break up.He said she was going after the guy she called friend to be with him and lift him for him.and now look, She actually had a baby with this actually friend.

  • @khuxiong6275
    @khuxiong6275 Год назад +74

    Haters will always hate. Don’t stress out about it girl. They will always try to get to you no matter what. I’m so proud of you for being so strong to even show us this side of you. Your real supports will always be here and stand with you.

  • @aimaFHS
    @aimaFHS Год назад +1167

    Love the fact that you stepped in to protect your man when you know he’s going through it right now in his personal life. Props to you Alo❤

    • @fab2064
      @fab2064 Год назад +13

      Or maybe he told her too 😂😂

    • @kimkim-xx5et
      @kimkim-xx5et Год назад +17

      @@fab2064 doing too much

    • @fab2064
      @fab2064 Год назад +2

      @@kimkim-xx5et ok Kim Kim 😁

    • @bernicebravo12
      @bernicebravo12 Год назад +19

      @@kimkim-xx5et ew that person is in every body’s comments leaving negative comments. Misery loves company lol

    • @DestineyAmerie
      @DestineyAmerie Год назад

      She be doing the most for him doing “Wifie material” things without the title

  • @beautybystephanie09
    @beautybystephanie09 Год назад +479

    Just you standing up for your man and family makes you look even more classy and exactly y he fell in love with you in the first place. You both have every right to show what you wanna show on each other’s channels. Keep your head you guys will overcome this ❤🙏🏼

    • @mireyavianey2868
      @mireyavianey2868 Год назад +5

      Periodddd

    • @recitationtohear
      @recitationtohear Год назад

      Here is the full clip : when i met dossi
      ruclips.net/video/mCfYi7634rU/видео.html

  • @rubyesmeralda1065
    @rubyesmeralda1065 Год назад +162

    I love that your speaking up and having your significant other's back, but remember you don't have to explain yourself. You're damned if you do and you're damed if you don't. Always. Everyone will always have their own opinion and you can't change that and you can't please everyone. You don't owe anyone explanations. I get you guys are on social media but just let people talk. I'm proud of you guys and congratulations on your house!

  • @aem8029
    @aem8029 Год назад +159

    😭Thank you Alondra for defending your partner !! I’m glad your sticking up for your man n putting people in their place girl !! You keep enjoying yalls blessing n keep supporting your man through this hard time for him 😢 I know how close Benny is to his family n losing a family member is never easy to begin with 🥺

  • @beverlymua
    @beverlymua Год назад +824

    I’m happy you addressed this. The way people are trying to paint Benny as a bad person is really sad. Now I see why people keep their relationship private.

    • @beverlymua
      @beverlymua Год назад +17

      And to think Benny just lost his cousin

    • @bulletzzz3
      @bulletzzz3 Год назад +7

      People were going off on him and I was shook :(

    • @duveliaroehling6007
      @duveliaroehling6007 Год назад +9

      It made me sad when I saw the comments on there last video. Like they don't want y'all together. 😥

    • @CR-uw8kv
      @CR-uw8kv Год назад +25

      I mean its not people wanting to paint anyone as a bad guy. People are simply seeing how he has been acting throughout the months. Now if us as viewers can tell theres something wrong w him & their relationship now imagine how it really is. Benny has honestly showed his true colors these past months. When Alo did a video talking about her Mental Health benny just disregarded it as if it wasnt anything. Mentall Health & Illnesses are something very serious to handle. Especially in a relationship. Thats why you have your significant other to help you & guide you through those tough times. But benny literally said Alondra was lazy & all throughout the video looked bored as if this topic isn’t important. Its his girlfriend & mother of his only son. This hasnt been just 1 video too. You can look back at multiple videos weeks & months down & see bennys behavior. People arent trying to paint him as a bad guy. People are just seeing how Benny is actually like. It sucks because Alondra deserves so much & man that can/will be there for her in every aspect!

    • @beverlymua
      @beverlymua Год назад +10

      @@CR-uw8kv if Alondra isn’t complaining, you shouldn’t.

  • @leilanisalgado9733
    @leilanisalgado9733 Год назад +383

    Y’all bring back that energy yall had for them in the beginning of their relationship!!!! They’ve grown and developed beautifully together and there’s no need to feed hate into their love! 💯

    • @missbarbz7243
      @missbarbz7243 Год назад +6

      People started the hate when she talked about her mental health and being depressed & he disregarded her feelings and said “what do u have to be depressed for you have everything, money” & she just looked uncomfortable. That’s what’s going on. I’m surprised she doesn’t know that’s what started it.

    • @fab2064
      @fab2064 Год назад +3

      Ummm well their energy and him trying is gone 😅

    • @astrydxo
      @astrydxo Год назад

      @@missbarbz7243 maybe because she knows where he was coming from, sometimes we understand our significant other better than strangers on the internet? Maybe he hasn’t experienced mental health or knows anything about it.. its better to educate instead of judging and leaving hate

    • @missbarbz7243
      @missbarbz7243 Год назад

      @@astrydxo it came off as hate for alondra. People were defending her and telling her she deserved better. I get when someone like Benny is ignorant. Perhaps they already talked about it behind closed doors & she said so herself it did come off as insensitive but sounds like they worked through it so she wants everyone else to forget it. Some people did say really mean things which just wasn’t necessary I get that

  • @celinda16
    @celinda16 Год назад +9

    It’s so crazy this has to be said even. But You go girl ❤. It’s 2022, having separate investments , accounts etc is normal!! The fact you guys support each other on your individual goals and accomplishments is goals. Wishing your family the best !! 🎉

  • @cookingwithmamamaggie8730
    @cookingwithmamamaggie8730 Год назад +124

    I watch Benny all the time. You have to be blind not to see what a great Dad he is. I wonder where you are at times during his videos. I wonder if you are not feeling well. You are so lucky to have Benny by your side. I suffered with post partum depression, my ex husband would just leave and go out with his friends. I see Benny trying to take you out, on little vacations. Trying to lessen the load on you, to boost you up. I'm happy you guys have each other. Love your family 🥰💝 Congratulations on everything, you guys are accomplished so much. Ignore the trolls, misery loves company. You are doing great, and trust me the dark cloud is temporary, one day you will have nothing but sunshine 💛🙏🙌

  • @noemiarredondo3953
    @noemiarredondo3953 Год назад +430

    This is the true definition of STAND BY YOUR MAN!!! You tell them babygirl!!! Plus no need to explain yourself Mama's, you don't own anyone any explanation, you ppl are always going to make their own assumptions, just keep living y'all BEST lives.. Love you guy's!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @andiipaz690
    @andiipaz690 Год назад +593

    People forget that 20 minutes of a video is nothing compared to 24 hours that a day has!! Love you both❤️

    • @CR-uw8kv
      @CR-uw8kv Год назад +19

      If what we see in those 20 minutes is Benny acting miserable & bitter now imagine what he actually acts like throughout the day when the camera isnt recording…

    • @lulue8306
      @lulue8306 Год назад +1

      B and A FOREVER 🌹

    • @blackjack444....
      @blackjack444.... Год назад

      Oh shit SNL cout chasen 😂

  • @rebeccasanchez8411
    @rebeccasanchez8411 Год назад +85

    Attagirl Alondra! Sometimes people need to be reminded how hard it is to have a career on Social Media. Sometimes people's actions and comments are stemmed from what they are going through as well. And sometimes there are those that get paid to talk sh!+ on Social Media. You, Benny, and the baby are a beautiful family. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your lives with the RUclips community and thank you for inspiring not only the Hispanic/Latin community, but other communities in striving for their own goals. Much love to you and the family 😘🥰 🤗😍🤩😊

  • @dayanarivera6849
    @dayanarivera6849 Год назад +9

    That is so sad. I’ve watched you for years way before Benni and you got together, you definitely have grown so much! People don’t get he’s your back bone and he’s helped you so much! I wish you guys the best and hope all those bad vibes go away!!! Love you guys ❤

  • @lifewithtanya991
    @lifewithtanya991 Год назад +359

    Finally it’s been addressed, I felt so bad for Benny. So many people coming for him don’t even know what happens behind closed doors. Be better DO BETTER YALL! Stop the hate comments . We know nothing about them only what they chose to show us !!!!

  • @vunezsa
    @vunezsa Год назад +208

    Proud of u for speaking up for yourself and your family 🫶🏻😇

  • @imaginebabe16
    @imaginebabe16 Год назад +5

    I completely agree with you, I’m sorry this even started it’s ridiculous. Sending love to you and your family ❤

  • @arianaromero3446
    @arianaromero3446 Год назад +11

    Sending you 2 lots of love❤ I’ve been a fan on Benny’s for a long time! It’s crazy to see how people are so quick to judge off of a 15min video you guys put out. Everyone’s love language is different and I can tell Benny is a giver/provider he wants the best for you and Legend. Just because he’s not all up on you or putting on this happy happy face all the time doesn’t mean he doesn’t love or care for you. I personally love how you guys do things separately to be honest. Because you guys are both growing, encouraging and helping each other. Love y’all ❤

  • @betsysanchez55
    @betsysanchez55 Год назад +94

    I’m sick and tired of seeing people drag you guys, honestly. People are filled with hate more today than ever and it’s really showing. Your decisions and your relationship are NONE of our business. You guys choose to share that and we’re grateful but people have gotten out of hand. There’s still subscribers who love you guys and support you in all you do 💕

  • @dianevega4703
    @dianevega4703 Год назад +66

    I am so sorry you felt the need to explain yourself.. society really is just horrible. It’s so sad you have to ask strangers to be kind.. it really goes to shows how unhappy everyone else is. You’re such an amazing person, you have such a kind soul and your family is absolutely beautiful. Sending you all the good vibes and blessings.

  • @muh_RI_suh
    @muh_RI_suh Год назад +13

    You have to stand up for your fam! Thank you for taking us along for the ride and sharing your lives with us! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @kedo
    @kedo Год назад +24

    This is what happens in my relationship. My man is misread by others when he is the sweetest, most giving person I’ve met in my life. People just point out the worst things based on how people react, their faces, etc. As long as you know in your heart.. including your family.. the reality...That’s all that matters! 💕

  • @michellewillis1205
    @michellewillis1205 Год назад +175

    My man isn’t very openly affectionate in front of others but behind closed doors he is the biggest love bug. People only see what you allow them to and they have no idea what happens behind closed doors. You are understood. Sending you both love. ❤

    • @axcbz.
      @axcbz. Год назад +18

      That’s the thing tho Benny has always been affectionate in videos towards her and he ain’t anymore I’m sure that’s why they say all these things about him.

    • @astrydxo
      @astrydxo Год назад +3

      @@axcbz. relationship have changes, we have babies, we mature, they’re relationship is not a soap opera it’s theirs. People need to respect what they choose to show and if they change and decide not show it anymore that’s ok. Respect peoples decisions just like you would like others to do with you!

    • @axcbz.
      @axcbz. Год назад +3

      @@astrydxo there’s no excuses we all know how we was as man towards her even with the baby in the beginning this has nothing to do with having babies maturing you can genuinely tell he is not the same do your research go back and watch the videos and compare them to now.

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH Год назад

      Jesus Christ died for our sins, rose from the dead, and gives salvation to everyone who has faith in him. True faith in Jesus will have you bear good fruit and *drastically* change for the better! Those led by the Holy Spirit do not abide in wickedness. 👍🏾
      *God is ONE manifesting himself as THREE;* the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit! Bless him! *For these three are one.*
      As I am led by the Holy Spirit, nothing I state is a lie, but the truth of God. Anyone who tells you differently is misinformed or a liar. They do not know God, nor led by him.
      Anyone who *claims* to be a Christian and is against what I am doing, and where I am doing it; the Holy Spirit does not dwell within them, they lack understanding. They know not God, read his word, and their religion is in vain. Do not hear them, they will mislead you, the lost cannot guide the lost.

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH Год назад

      When you trust in God and cast your cares (worries, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts) upon him, they will be NO MORE!
      Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals!
      The world is wicked, evil, and of the devil.
      I too, was a wicked sinner of the world before I opened my heart to God. I am living proof of God's work and fruitfulness! He is an active God who hears the prayers of his! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous. The devil is a liar that comes to steal, to kill, and to destroy; that includes your relationship with God!

  • @ILove_Idy
    @ILove_Idy Год назад +69

    Thank you !! I read those bad comments too and I was like wth! How do people go based off what they see in a 10-20 minute video and judge a person or a relationship?? He’s clearly going trough grief and he’s so nice and supportive!! Obviously what’s his is yours and what’s yours is his! Like people dumb AF!!

    • @emmyturner7385
      @emmyturner7385 Год назад

      Hey homegirl your girlboss creater is tryna pick you for the giveaway

    • @ILove_Idy
      @ILove_Idy Год назад

      @@emmyturner7385 No homegirl.. She already addressed this previously. This is a scam!

  • @selfteaching7193
    @selfteaching7193 Год назад +9

    Aw Alondra you’re such a mature, wise, patient, and kind soul 🤍✨

  • @Mielrosaa
    @Mielrosaa Год назад +3

    it all started when he literally told you there’s nothing to be depressed about when y’all have everything you’ve been wanting.. body language speaks volumes and lately he’s been a little off (AND YES IVE BEEN WATCHING SINCE THEY 1st STARTED FILMING TOGETHER)

  • @AryCazzBezo
    @AryCazzBezo Год назад +100

    You can just tell how much she loves him & love their little family 🤍

  • @nomibugg
    @nomibugg Год назад +180

    People are bored with their own lives that they try to meddle in other peoples lives. What they don’t realize is that we see 15-20 minutes of your lives. SO MUCH happens when you’re not filming. I’m glad you made this video and stood up for you and for Benny! You guys are doing amazing, keep doing what you’re doing!!! 🤍🤍🤍

    • @leonie.christina6767
      @leonie.christina6767 Год назад +1

      I don't even know why they went crazy on Benny. I watched the video and I didn't really see him acting that bad.She was also joking with him about that he's next with buying property.

    • @tattsbykass1320
      @tattsbykass1320 Год назад

      Your still here tho 💀

  • @rubyserenity90
    @rubyserenity90 Год назад +1

    I love how transparent you are!! Thank you for discussing this! All couples goes through ups and downs and everyone does not see what you guys do 24/7 so I totally get what you're saying! God Bless Alondra & Your husband Benny.

  • @joselyntapia8461
    @joselyntapia8461 Год назад

    Yass girl I love how you stay keeping that positivity. You have really evolved on the hate comments people will try to push those who have more down but you keep striving. I send nothing but positivity and love for your fam. You give so much helpful advice for those who struggle with mental health I love it. Keep doing you boo 💚

  • @nelda9208
    @nelda9208 Год назад +60

    i’m so glad you spoke on this… i’ve been feeling so terrible reading the comments. i thought they would stop after his video but people just want hate him so bad. his vibe has obviously been off because of the lost of his family member you can clearly see it in his videos as well. i pray that you don’t let them get you down alondra. you guys have a beautiful family and im happy you found each other. im so glad you told those haters to leave you and your man alone. ( p.s baby benny is so cuteeee he gives me sm baby fever)

  • @yessicatorres1817
    @yessicatorres1817 Год назад +180

    i’m sorry people are so cruel and miserable ☹️ they take a piece of a video and SWEAR they figured out your life. so proud of you and your little family ❤️ i pray you guys keep having the blessings you guys deserve 💗🫶🏼

  • @leslievanegas8051
    @leslievanegas8051 Год назад

    i’m glad you’re addressing this so early because i watched the last video and i didn’t think benny was acting any way😂 until i read the comments and compare it to the video i’m like wow people are REACHING

  • @rosibelbenitez2308
    @rosibelbenitez2308 Год назад

    I noticed too but I never understood why . I love watching y’all when you guys post I’m genuinely happy to watch

  • @jessicac2233
    @jessicac2233 Год назад +48

    It was important that you spoke on this. I'm so glad you did and hope people can understand that you and Benny and baby have a life that is off-camera and that's fine as well. I am glad you stuck up for your man's and your relationship together. You explained in-depth and it makes sense. Love to you and the family ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @maryj976
    @maryj976 Год назад +103

    Misery loves company. Point blank period. People love to see others go through bad times even if it’s made up. Pray for them and keep thriving and glowing in your life! Alondra you are such an amazing wonderful person, mother, sister, friend, daughter.

  • @thedoopa3169
    @thedoopa3169 Год назад +10

    I never seen this channel in my life. Have no idea why it's on my feed. Honestly I look up science stuff and nerd things and this is far from my demographic. First impression by looks, I'm guilty. I thought another girl with looks and no substance. Then I started hearing her talk. And was like who's Benny. So I skimmed through a couple videos and looked up Benny. A tatted up stocky fella. That's all I have to say, not one of the several random clips did I think anything negative about anyone I have seen. Only thing I think is yall drink too much. But I'm biased about alcohol because I been sober for a while.
    Yall are some cool people, I doubt I'll watch another one of your videos but I'll like this one. As an outsider, yall are alright.

  • @savannahblues5258
    @savannahblues5258 Год назад

    i’m sorry you guys are having to deal with all of this. sending you guys love 🤎 keep your heads up. people are cruel!!

  • @jasminegarcia2300
    @jasminegarcia2300 Год назад +26

    It’s crazy! I noticed this too & I’ve been following y’all way before the relationship & it sad How ppl assume you guys are breaking up like if their right. Stay strong gurl and remember everyone has issues in their lives & sometimes they want to throw on others (idk why) I’ve noticed Benny has been a positive role model in your life & viceVersa. Keep going and just know y’all have nothing to prove just keep livin

  • @nohemidiaz6390
    @nohemidiaz6390 Год назад +198

    Smh this breaks my heart, you can see all the pain in her eyes and voice 💔 I say this all the time ppl never really know what anybody is going through and yet they still go and judge… ppl please do better 😪 There’s been a lot of times when I’ve been hella down like I can’t do this anymore kind of down & when I’m around ppl I seem like the most happiest person… be nice cuz y’all never know when your comment could be someone else’s last straw.

  • @aprilcorona5809
    @aprilcorona5809 Год назад +2

    I'm so sorry you're both going through this. No one knows everything that happens behind close doors, only you guys do. I'm happy for you, your success, and your relationship, and I support the decisions you both feel is right for your family. Sending so much love Alo!

    • @emmyturner7385
      @emmyturner7385 Год назад

      Yes for instance like how none of this is real. And behind the scenes they don't pretend to care about this manufactured drama and rather spend time counting the money they made off their stupid fans.

    • @nikkis3726
      @nikkis3726 Год назад

      @@emmyturner7385 Sounds like you’re one of her number one hater fans huh sis😂😂😂 if the shoe fits Smh

  • @stormyxxmonroe
    @stormyxxmonroe Год назад

    It’s good you addressed this . Sending love all your guys way & forget these haters they are just jealous .

  • @Leilyespindola5
    @Leilyespindola5 Год назад +111

    Its so sad how instead of keeping shit positive, everyone throws negative shit at you guys. I love you guys together ❤ may you guys continue to grow! LOVE YOU ALO 🫶🏻

  • @monarcafamily987
    @monarcafamily987 Год назад +49

    Don't let people rain on your shine. Now that you guys are growing more successful a have a genuine relationship someone will always try and break that down ! Hope you guys are well and overcome so much negative .

  • @calistadanielle8817
    @calistadanielle8817 Год назад

    i love you. you are so strong for keeping your head up and speaking up against all this hate. i hope things get better for you and Benny, you guys don’t deserve any of the hate. 🥺

  • @zuleymamunozmontiel8180
    @zuleymamunozmontiel8180 Год назад +2

    Girl you and your beautiful family keep thriving. Whether or not you’re in A relationship where there’s competition no one else should care but y’all . Me and my husband compete against one another in who can do better in saving money, career, etc it’s not a way of discouraging one another but pushing each other to be better. Everybody has different perspectives and will take things differently but that is their opinion because they don’t actually live with you or Benny so they will never understand how y’all carry one another. I’m proud of you and your family. Keep your head up girl ❤

  • @catherinefemenia1876
    @catherinefemenia1876 Год назад +165

    Getting the home under your name is HUGE! You should be SOOO proud! From what I see & what you show us I love how independent you both are not only as a couple but as people !! Like you guys are a family but you guys are also Alo & Benny.. you guys also can have your own goals for yourselves ! That will obviously benefit you both as a family ! So I understand ! & again about the home.. 2 is better than 1! So you wanting to get 1 & him wanting 1 as well is great! & at the end of the day YOUR DECISION!!

  • @marybahena1170
    @marybahena1170 Год назад +222

    Stay positive, don’t let the negativity come between y’all and break your relationship. People see how good y’all are together and envy that.

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH Год назад

      Jesus Christ died for our sins, rose from the dead, and gives salvation to everyone who has faith in him. True faith in Jesus will have you bear good fruit and *drastically* change for the better! Those led by the Holy Spirit do not abide in wickedness. 👍🏾
      *God is ONE manifesting himself as THREE;* the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit! Bless him! *For these three are one.*
      As I am led by the Holy Spirit, nothing I state is a lie, but the truth of God. Anyone who tells you differently is misinformed or a liar. They do not know God, nor led by him.
      Anyone who *claims* to be a Christian and is against what I am doing, and where I am doing it; the Holy Spirit does not dwell within them, they lack understanding. They know not God, read his word, and their religion is in vain. Do not hear them, they will mislead you, the lost cannot guide the lost.

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH Год назад

      When you trust in God and cast your cares (worries, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts) upon him, they will be NO MORE!
      Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals!
      The world is wicked, evil, and of the devil.
      I too, was a wicked sinner of the world before I opened my heart to God. I am living proof of God's work and fruitfulness! He is an active God who hears the prayers of his! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous. The devil is a liar that comes to steal, to kill, and to destroy; that includes your relationship with God!

  • @sujedyramos3979
    @sujedyramos3979 Год назад +2

    You know your relationship better than anyone could know. its so sad how people are so cruel and mean. You guys look amazing girl

  • @ev__c
    @ev__c Год назад

    Love that you said something about it. Maybe people misunderstood, probably just concerned about you and your mental health but idk how people can be so mean. ☹️

  • @lidiaseei6356
    @lidiaseei6356 Год назад +25

    When married or basically married with kids, there’s no such thing as MINE or IBOUGHT. It’s always a WE! Learned that in marriage therapy.

  • @sandraprieto1797
    @sandraprieto1797 Год назад +81

    The internet is so ugly, people jump into conclusions so fast when they only see a small portion of your guys life. Don’t listen to the negative, you guys are an amazing couple & little family ❤ sending love!

  • @thescrappymillennial7057
    @thescrappymillennial7057 Год назад +6

    Ppl will always have something to say. Ppl who have a mature mindset and understanding will know what is going on with you two. Adults do things together especially those in a happy relationship. Ppl just need a reason to say something. Keep shining guys. ✨✨💕💕

  • @brieannaguerrero1139
    @brieannaguerrero1139 Год назад +1

    Girl you don’t even need to explain.. but I totally get you! 🙌🏼 trust me buying a home as an independent woman or as an individual is GOALS. I have a healthy & loving relationship with my boyfriend and both of our goals is to buy a home or property on our OWN and together lol. ❤️ I’m in the real estate industry and buying real estate together, alone or with family is so important!!
    God bless you and your family & congrats!

  • @irene652
    @irene652 Год назад +55

    Im sorry for bennys loss I hope y’all recover from all the negativity love y’all sm 💗💗

  • @laurareynna9160
    @laurareynna9160 Год назад +67

    A Queen holding it down for her King don’t allow ppl to fuck up what y’all got going on!!! I love you guys. God Bless you Alondra and your family ❤

  • @kellegaus6457
    @kellegaus6457 Год назад +1

    I am so sorry that you both are dealing with unnecessary drama, keep your head up and stay focused on your relationship and family.

  • @Lizriv1725
    @Lizriv1725 Год назад

    Hate comments definitely plays a big part in mental
    Health smh ppls are so mean! I’m so happy for you n your family girl ❤️

  • @lexirose19
    @lexirose19 Год назад +5

    I'm happy you addressed this. People where really coming up with stories in their heads! I was soooo confused when I saw all the comments. I understand the concern but it really went to far. I wish yall the best!!! ❤

  • @MrJustinbieberfan4ev
    @MrJustinbieberfan4ev Год назад +5

    God bless you guys 🙏🏽
    I saw the comments & it broke me for you. It's so sad & im so happy that you guys are good & Benny takes over when you're not in the mood❤ I wish I had that at home. You guys got this & the REAL ones love you guys ! ❤

  • @GringaTingz214
    @GringaTingz214 Год назад +3

    These are the same people who were encouraging your relationship in the beginning when you left your other relationship. People love feeding into drama and it’s so sad to me how people love to focus on the negative rather than your happiness. People should be happy that as a woman and mother you’ve purchased a home that will benefit you and your family regardless of your relationship status. I’m a little older. I see things differently than a lot of younger viewers. Wishing you all the best and continued success and happiness, you deserve it! ❤

  • @alyssalanderos9668
    @alyssalanderos9668 Год назад +1

    Benny is the best! Alo has a great man taking care of her. I love how you handled this and addressed it some people just cant stand to see other people happy! Sending love to you 3!!!❤

  • @vanessaguzman4729
    @vanessaguzman4729 Год назад +9

    I’m actually soooo HAPPY that u posted this because the hate really was getting out of hand! And for no reason.. I love Benny and the both of you together, I don’t understand why people gotta throw dirt on someone else’s relationship! Glad u guys are doing well!

  • @jasminecampos3081
    @jasminecampos3081 Год назад +37

    Girl!!! Honestly you and Benny do not need to explain yourself people out here thinking they know your life!!! You guys keep doing you ❤ You guys are fucken killing it right now people are just hating because they see you guys accomplishing goals they wish they could accomplish. But since there are to busy putting out negativity they can’t accomplish anything. Love you Guys and wish you both nothing but the BEST!!!

  • @fredysanchez1947
    @fredysanchez1947 Год назад

    We love you and Benny!!! Fr y’all are goals!

  • @TreisiGomez
    @TreisiGomez Год назад

    Aww thats so sad that people are trying to bring yall down
    yalll are one now specially as a family
    as long as yall good thats all that matters screw everyone else
    also love that your addressing them bullies

  • @lizsousa3178
    @lizsousa3178 Год назад +32

    I’m glad your addressing this ❤ people really need to practice that saying if you don’t got nothing nice to say then don’t say nothing at all ! But sending nothing but positive vibes to y’all ❤

  • @soitsjesse
    @soitsjesse Год назад +6

    Benny is such a sweetheart & has treated Alondra so good since day one.
    If you don’t like an influencer then don’t watch them. It’s that simple.
    You never know what someone is going through when the cameras are off.
    I’m so proud of you for purchasing your home. It’s such an exciting moment. Don’t let these rude disgusting humans ruin such a good moment & accomplishment.
    Sending so much love & positivity your way ♥️

  • @noeliarosales5706
    @noeliarosales5706 Год назад +58

    I see where you’re coming from. It has definitely gone out of hand and that’s the issue with todays society there will always been expectations for everything. If you don’t breathe right there will be hate… if you don’t eat right, there will be hate.. the point being hate will always be there. Please don’t let it get to you I know it can become overwhelming. The content and awareness you bring truly positively impacts your viewers, followers and even the haters! You’re truly an inspiration and same goes for Benny. Sending many blessings to the both you! Y’all got this! 🫶 keep doing what y’all love cause at the end this is your life and just because you’re content creators doesn’t mean the public gets a say in everything you do! You are human like all of us and sadly people fail to realize that.

  • @iloverain98
    @iloverain98 Год назад +75

    People don’t realize that you become ONE when you have a partner. Love u Alo sending positive energy ✨🫶🏼

    • @hey.a5162
      @hey.a5162 Год назад

      Yes🙌 Haters don’t like to see people happy and successful, they only come for the drama when families are struggling and put in their two cents🤢

    • @CalmnessHeartsease
      @CalmnessHeartsease Год назад +4

      U become one when ur married under God not with a boyfriend

    • @rosaavila8967
      @rosaavila8967 Год назад

      @@CalmnessHeartsease I agree with you on that being married and buying home together is definitely becomes ONE.

  • @cristalvelasquez5357
    @cristalvelasquez5357 Год назад

    I love you so much Alo!! You can definitely see Benny is very much supportive in your little family, just as much as you support him! ❤ Y’all are everything these haters ain’t and that’s why they put their unnecessary comments. You guys deserve to prosper as individuals as well in order to build an empire as a couple! I love you guys so much and keep grinding mama ❣️😘
    You guys got this ☺️

  • @evycasanas996
    @evycasanas996 Год назад

    Praying for peace and love! Stay strong 💪 you two are a blessed and beautiful family. You were both blessed with a gorgeous gift of life…your little bundle of joy who’s growing so fast because you both take such great care of him. Always remember that your love for each other out ways any hater that is ignorant! Love ❤️ you guys!! 🥰🙌🙏🏼

  • @Ravenletiara
    @Ravenletiara Год назад +18

    Alondra, you are FLOURISHING!!! Don’t let anyone take this monumental moment of your life away from you! You’re happy and blessed and people will always be envious & jealous but that just means you’re doing exactly what you’re supposed to be doing!! I love you sm!!💕💕

  • @melmiramontes1026
    @melmiramontes1026 Год назад +37

    I’m glad you addressed it because it has been showing a lot of socials and it’s not right for them to have wrong ideas ,keep your head up girly 🥺 ! I love your channel so much and it helps me so much watching you talk about mental health .
    sadly they will always have something to say, they don’t or know see all your happy moments no relationship is perfect .
    they will always wanna have theories ! You guys are such a beautiful family 🤍🤍‼️the real ones will last and know what’s up

  • @alliek4993
    @alliek4993 Год назад +18

    YOURE TRENDING AGAIN GIRLY 🎉❤ don’t let these lame ass haters get to u, they hating bc they’re jealous- real recognizes real so please keep going with youtube, we love you!

  • @jazmincastillo5963
    @jazmincastillo5963 Год назад

    yassss girllll !!!!! Im glad you’re speaking up and you have EVERY right !
    People expect him to be smiling none stop like y’all are a normal couple .
    Like you said he is strong minded and he deals with it a different way . Ppl are weird !
    So happy for y’all ❤️❤️❤️❤️ and keep posting

  • @JJJMC
    @JJJMC Год назад +86

    People hate because of THEIR own INSECURITIES AND JEALOUSY! Please ignore it …you and Benny are wonderful together and don’t let others tell you any different! Stay strong!❤

  • @aprillinares8063
    @aprillinares8063 Год назад +18

    This makes me feel better about them because I’ve always loved them together ❤️

  • @ronniebrii4infinity497
    @ronniebrii4infinity497 Год назад

    I’m so glad you addressed this I love you both soo much an Bennys vibe may be off sometimes he is human an so are you can’t be smiling 24/7 y’all are so genuine an it’s sad that this is happening

  • @lajeannie
    @lajeannie Год назад

    Good for you Alondra!! Stand your ground. Sending you both so much love & positivity 🙏🏽🤍 always been such a big supporter of the two of you and have always enjoyed both of your videos. Good vibes only 🫶🏽

  • @jessluisa4179
    @jessluisa4179 Год назад +3

    Yasss stand up sis honestly always stand up for family. Love you both & love your positivity ❣️I pray that more blessings coming your way.

  • @monitaloves
    @monitaloves Год назад

    It’s so true!! They are more friends more then a couple. I feel like she’s always been half way in and he’s not mature enough to want more from his relationship.

  • @karinaflores1785
    @karinaflores1785 Год назад +4

    Not only do the REAL supporters appreciate this video being addressed by you in the most kindest way supporting your man, but I am sure Benny is so proud you did it. (Regardless if he didn’t ask)
    That’s what a real team do ❤
    And it shows how much you care for each other. Love your little family continent and I am here for all the Blessings coming your way.✨🙏

  • @anahiochoa1175
    @anahiochoa1175 Год назад +5

    I love that you are addressing things it’s amazing as a content created I admire and follow I love to see it. Wishing your family and you a good one ❤️

  • @Damianpro123
    @Damianpro123 Год назад +31

    she said it classy & calm she made sure even the people in the back heard it !! 💅🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @fckincakes
    @fckincakes Год назад

    I really love how your standing up for yourself your man and your relationship.! No one knows what goes on behind closed doors. People talk so much without knowing it’s sad.!

  • @pamelamelanie5125
    @pamelamelanie5125 Год назад

    alo you are such a beautiful person, I don’t understand peoples hate. your family is beautiful ❤ love you speaking up for your man!

  • @jessicasuhendra3424
    @jessicasuhendra3424 Год назад +7

    Stay strong!! You guys are the best, you both deserve it all❤

  • @mariavargas5768
    @mariavargas5768 Год назад +90

    Your video made me realize that I need to take part in commenting good and positive comments on not only your videos but everyone else's videos that I watch. I don't usually comment but I do like videos all the time. It just sucks watching good people get so much hate and seeing how that affects them. Maybe if people like me commented you would be able to see how much the good outweighs the bad. I'll be sure to add my little grain of rice to the good energy pile. Much love to you and your family. 💕 #familygoals #positiveenergy

    • @nayelixox
      @nayelixox Год назад

      Yes this!

    • @graciealcantar1111
      @graciealcantar1111 Год назад

      Yess 😊

    • @alondradessy
      @alondradessy  Год назад +6

      🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @casandraogoe8394
      @casandraogoe8394 Год назад +2

      @@alondradessy I don't care what anybody says I love and support both you and Benny I love your relationship your family is beautiful my condolences to Benny family I pray that they will be able to get through this difficult time and know that God is with them and they're not alone 🥰

  • @yolie2723
    @yolie2723 Год назад +1

    Honestly ppl will always talk . Whether ur doing good or bad . So try to just laugh about it or ignore it even tho it might not b easy . U guys r such a cute / great couple . Don’t let haters that don’t even know how u r behind closed doors get the best of u and / or ur relationship :) . Ur small fam will hopefully continue to grow and with growth comes questions and comments from ppl that rn’t always good . I wish u and ur fam nothing but the best ! Continue to love and b there for each other 💜

  • @alianisrodriguez197
    @alianisrodriguez197 Год назад

    Yes ! Defend your man! I’m glad you addressed this ❤

  • @Bl0505
    @Bl0505 Год назад +4

    I’m so sorry you have been going through this, I had no idea. Makes me so sad haters are taking time out of their day to bring someone else down

  • @brendagabriel2961
    @brendagabriel2961 Год назад +278

    You don’t have to explain yourself to social media, you know how much Benny has helped you and people will always have opinions but only YOU know what’s truly going on

    • @jsjbusta7059
      @jsjbusta7059 Год назад +4

      Nah let her speak! Like she said in the video she needs to defend her man. I would’ve done the same. And I bet Benny was happy that he has a girl like Alo :)

    • @erikadiaz7202
      @erikadiaz7202 Год назад

      Sometimes you just have too. I'm sure that if someone is making lies about you, you're going to explain yourself right?

  • @behappytoday6137
    @behappytoday6137 Год назад +1

    It’s so true what they say.. they build you up just to tear you down 😔