She begins by saying she is 13 years younger and proceeds to talk eloquently about her work and further education. Meanwhile he is acting and showing off like a spoiled high school boy. I hope she will leave him because she is going places and he is trying to drag her down.
My husband died three years ago. I thought I might find someone, just for fun and company. I met a number of men, and realized I was married to a unicorn. No men for me.
Maybe You Marry Young, for some reason men get salty and weirder and misogynistic by the year, SO unless they meet a Nice women Young and don't corrupt themselves by this crappy society, men tend to be more selfish by every year they live 😂😂😂
I hope that woman who was being interviewed while her 13yr older king baby was acting like a 5 year old put in front of a camera, leaves his behind. Even in public, he's disrespecting her while she's talking about her feelings.
As far as I have seen, males who date childrens aka teenagers and 20 something women are usually mentally immature. They see children and young women equal to them and see nothing wrong with dating them. It's a sign of pedo behaviour and immaturity.
His pet peeve is laziness yet when asked to elaborate on what he means by that, he can’t be asked to answer for himself and instead delegates to the so-called “lazy” woman. The irony and lack of self-awareness of astounding.
TF did I just watch in the second clip? She's talking so passionately and he's awkwardly unzipping his jacket and showing a stupid jersey?? Literal 3 and 4 year old babies have more maturity, decorum, and respect
I know two women, under 35 who married in 2022, and sent the husbands, whom were not contributing adequately to the household or quality of their lives, packing before 2024 was half over. Meanwhile my mother was trying to convince me to allow my ex to live in my brand new home to have a man in it for protection and to do yard and handy work. I Since Ive known him, I’ve had to bail him out of jail twice for gun play with his boys, and pay to have him seen by a doctor, while I couldn’t get him to take me to the movies when I had weekends off. Nah. I just pay a handy man, and I carry my own pow pow.
I am sorry about your mother's horrible advice but supporting a man is the worst thing any woman can do. They will resent you for it, abuse you then cheat on you with someone who is more dependent on them.
I find it crazy how the ones that don’t have no job in their are super lazy. Have the nerve to call other people lazy this woman was working two jobs while this man I’m pretty sure barely has one or none he act like he’s in some Rapstar video playing with his jersey some of these men are very delusional. They want to control but they do not want to offer any protection guidance leadership love anything.
What that fool means "Lazy", he actually means being waited on hand and foot while the gf handles ALL the housework, emotional labor while paying half the bills. Hope the gf gets a clue and kicks this inept man child to the curb.
That 2nd girl. Oh lord. Heartbreaking. I hope her parents see that video or her friends support her, and encourage her to get away from that asshole. Heaven help her.
@@KarenJohnson-m6nshe is not in love, she was groomed, he is 13 year older something tell me he find her Even Younger that sheis RIGHT now ... Thats why this goofus want You g girls, to mold them into whatever maid they want and call that love, she can leave she seem Smart, she just need one friend, one real friend pointing out slowly WHAT HE DOES FOR HER vs what she sacrifies for him
Oh my God that old man in the second clip was absolutely disgusting. I hope she saw this video and left him. All women deserve men in their age group who will treat them like their partners in life. I hope no woman or man on earth ever dates that immature and disgusting man.
Eww that dude whose 13 yr age gap is sooooooo immature 😂😂 I see why they want younger women wtf look at how he’s acting😂 she’s way too good & pretty for him
At this point women are also quite delusional to stay with these men. It tells me they have no standards for themselves and lrobably grw up with mother that put with anything from the husband. So they just carry the tradition...
What angers me most is that the interview dude didn't check his childish behavior. Men rarely hold other men accountable. It's a global boys club. Ladies, we need the same. Stop communicating with these men and fostering their child antics. Collectively, just stop doing all the things. Wash only your clothes and the dishes you use. Don't shop for his personal items. Any household items, including groceries, only purchase what you like. He'll either step up or step out. The step out is the better option.
Thank You, i was SO annoyed by that asshole allowing the toddler to act up, a woman would have call him up "dude why are suddendly acting like this while your gf is speaking about your relationship?"
Noticed that as well. Interviewer should of told him to chill, "You had your turn, move out the way, let the lady talk." Something, he just let him act a fool.
I once dated a man who would get so heated because I have a cleaning and a meal delivery service 😂 Call me all kinds of lazy. He would get upset when he comes over because I wouldn't cook for him and lost it when I told him "I do not even cook for myself". I realised he expected me to audition for him by cooking for him etc. He had to go 👏🏾
Ooooh you said it! “Audition” by cooking is the default setting for the dusty mens in southern USA! When they ask me if I can cook, I tell them either some heinous recipe or list my favorite fast food places. They huff like the overgrown toddlers they are and waddle away. 100% success rate 😂
@@andreawilliams2095it's not lazy for him not to cook and clean, but if you have a uterus (which you do not use to do the cooking or cleaning) you are lazy. Make it make sense.
Whewww, the young woman in the 2nd clip (13 year age gap) needs to RUN! 🏃🏽♀️💨 He annoyed me by acting so childish towards her while she’s simply trying to express herself! 😒😒😒
This is exactly why she is dating him 🤭😂 Look at him, 30+ women with brain isn't going to date him. She'll also leave him when she becomes more wiser with age.
I had been single since 2015 when I left my husband. I decided to get in a relationship in 2022 and it didnt even last a year. This man thought I was going to parent him and his 2 children under the age of 13 and move them into my house. LOL. He had so much debt that he had to work 2 jobs and the debt was a result of his poor decisions. Theyre parasitic losers with no ambition. My 19yr old son is more responsible and ambitious than most of these cretins.
It’s always the people who are doing less or nothing, who are the most critical. They have all the time in the world to critique people but cannot see their hypocrisy. Drop the dead weight in 2026 and beyond.
My ex called me lazy despite me working full-time, paying the bills, and securing the apartment we lived in. I eventually came to my senses. Now he’s couch surfing and working on in off. Saying goodbye was definitely a win for me.
Just did the same and gave my engagement ring back. Wanted to take care grown 25+daughters while living in my house dodging bills. Have been blessed so much since he isn't here. I'm over relationships I just want peace and security.
As a creative woman , I find it very hard to share my personal space with a man. I find it very detrimental to the creative process. It goes to show no matter what a woman does, men think you aren’t enough.
I have find out that men always have an oppinion or ""sugestions" about things women do, they loveeee to audit women Jobs, but boy oh boy they do the bare minimum and want a whole parade, is a very common thing
the 13yo age gap, girl i hope she watched that clip back and was as disgusted as i’m sure we all were. consider why he is going after women 10+ years his junior-because women HIS age would never put up with that sh!t.
Beaker isn’t a threat to Tinkerbell… this dude OTOH, he doesn’t seem safe to me. He will continue to demean her until she won’t want to go out in public with him, then she will be trapped at home. I hope she gets as far away from his sorry arse as possible ASAP.
Letting you into my house and u have a shoulder pad & the audacity to call me LAZY. Men & AUDACITY, always in stock. What is the second girl doing with that fool, Girl u better enjoy ur live & leave this 👴🏾 alone.
my wife and I have reversed roles compared to the "traditional" ideas due to my illness. I take care of the home, they work. I cook the meals, do the laundry and all that. I try to keep their life as simple as possible at home cause having to go out for 40hrs a week for US is a lot of effort, so its literally the least I can do. The crazy thing is I know my Wife loves and respects me, but I see dudes with Wives that do what I do that are constantly pissy about her. like bruh
Talk to your brethren because women are evolving rapidly. No shade, but literal do NOT add value and only drain is while they constantly nag. Coach your pals because women are learning quickly that our life is more peaceful without an XY. Good luck.
Have you ever experienced this level of clarity? The moment when you look at a situation and you're so clear about how detrimental it is for you. And then you give the biggest 'hell naw'? Have you experienced that? Have you?! It is sooo liberating! I wish the young veterinarian looks at her clip and suddenly gets hers.
I dated someone 15 years my senior and I will NEVER do that again. I lived in my own apartment and I paid all of my bills on top of buy my food and went to work. He didn’t have a place let alone his own place, he said it was because he was a truck driver. They are the dirtiest people you will ever meet! He had the nerve to try to “son” me in my own house. I’m glad that didn’t last long. I’m at peace and that’s all I need right now.
The disrespectful behaviour from the man/ child was nauseating. I didn't think there was a 13 year age gap, i thought she meant to say he was 13 years old! As he acted prepubescent!😂
My ex called me a gold digger while posted up in my house paying not a single bill. When I found out he was cheating on me and booted him, he said he wanted to leave me ages ago, but couldn't because I was the only reason he wasn't homeless.
This is what happens when you date someone way older than you when you are still naive. That man knows that people his age won't tolerate any bullshit from him so he had to meet someone 13 years younger. I was once like that too, I hope she leaves before its too late
While I understand we as women want to trust and love men, WHEN are we going to learn that boyfriends shouldn’t be living with us especially when we have our own. A man helping you with repairs, contributing towards mortgage or just plain lying about those things could mean he may be able to claim some portion of ownership/investment in some states in our stuff. No man should be enjoying the fruits of your labor unless he’s your husband. Even then if legally applicable make that man sign a quit claim deed so when/if you break up, your stuff remains your stuff.
Honestly yeah. Personally, I don't think people should live with their partner like that unless they've been dating for a long time bare minimum since I know marriage isn't for everyone. Not boyfriend, girlfriend, lover. You all should be SURE about it. It's a huge decision.
That young lady with the baby who is 13 years older than her needs to get the hell away from him ASAP. She seems so intelligent and goal oriented and he is acting like a child who needs attention from his mother because he can't sit still. What is WRONG with these men? It's not that girls mature faster, it's that boys never mature ever. Old ass baby ..........
Hopefully she hasn't "trapped" herself as a caregiver because she immediately mentioned their age gap. She knows something is off. Yet she's still there.
@MsFadir She's young and still thinks that taking care of a man baby is what she's "supposed" to do. It's heartbreaking. I pray she doesn't get pregnant.
@@CuracaoCow I wonder how many women are missing out from content like this because sometimes you need to look at this situation from the outside. Almost as if you're looking at a stranger. Then it will click. Let's pray for her. Too many young women end up in situations like this out of childhood trauma. I know, maybe I'm stretching but, it was the first thing that came to my mind. The way she's goal oriented, why adding that weight to her life 🤦🏾♀️
@@MsFadir No, you're absolutely right. She may have abandonment trauma that makes her want to do whatever she needs to do to keep him around because she's afraid of being alone. That is SO many women's true story. What's horrible is that she is really mentally and emotionally intelligent and I hope she doesn't lose that while trying to hold on to that loser. She has a bright future ahead of her if she can truly realize her own worth.
Let's stop dissing the babies and children by comparing these disgusting men to them. The babies and children I have interacted with put men like him to shame in terms of how considerate, independent and compassionate they are. They also have way more empathy and try their best to clean up after themselves even if they aren't always successful.
2:40 the way he’s showing off the number, name, and logo IDC!!!!! you’re literally working her to an early grave, help her if you’re gonna steal her youth away
It’s definitely frustrating, but I also know he spent years manipulating and gaslighting her to get to her to this place. She no longer sees herself as valuable because of him.
The second clip: Body language. No respect for her, blocking her while she talks, trying to get the attention back to him, while she is wringing her hands anxious, exhausted and fed up.
The first girl gave him the benefit of the doubt and welcomed him to her house. Since he did not come to scratch she kicked him out. As she should. For me I think she found the middle balance, taking a chance at love without letting it consume you. You gave it a shot, didn't work out. Well... will try again tomorrow. No trauma, no overstaying in an abusive relationship, no being belittled, nothing.
If it’s the US, then if he was paying her rent he can claim to be a tenant and cause her a big problem. That’s why no woman should just let a guy live with her like that. 💀
He's just so desperate for any kind of attention and couldn't stand the thought of her being able to use her voice for even a second. She's way too good for that bum.
Dated a guy 8 years older than me, we moved in together and I took care of him like I'd take care of myself, cooked, cleaned, and made sure his self-care was top-notch ( He did not reciprocate) Man cheated and he (35) moved back to his mother's house who did everything for him and more than likely will continue to do so. I have my apartment and I will continue to take care of myself until I find a partner who treats me as I treat myself or better.
Everything the second lady said was the VERY reasons why I left my husband. He was ALWAYS complaining. He was shocked when I told him I was done with the marriage. My friends were shocked that I left and blocked him. Once I am done, I am done. I told him that from the beginning of our relationship. I will try, but once I am done there is no coming back or contacting me.
The first girl good for you for spanking his audacity right out the door. Imagine him calling you lazy and then begging you not to kick him out so he could use your tesources. Now he can feel his own laziness.
3:00 omg this guy, i chose the bear, i chose 3 bears over him. Girl needs to grow up and leave him. Why doesnt she realize what a red flag the 13 year age gap is smdh
13 yr age gap?? That guy clearly specifically targeted women who are young (on purpose), so he can manipulate her into doing ALL the work in the relationship and be abusive. She should wise up and leave him cuz she clearly deserves better than a narcissist.
The way I let out a lurch sigh from the Addams family😂, not the drizzle, drizzle, I cringe because it makes me think of that man whose all over the socials with the glasses and beard talking about a woman's bbl🤢
13 year age gap relationship situation: I wonder if when she was speaking aloud trying to explain their "relationship" and she heard her own words, if it occurred to her that she was dating someone that wanted to parent her. Basically her dad. I mean she seemed to be slowly considering everything as she spoke. Hopefully she realized that dude was not worth having. Who the heck wants someone to always control your time, what you do, and how you do it. This was lowkey the job specifications of a prison guard or warden. I absolutely abhor age gap relationships. I used to tell friends and acquaintances that I won't date beyond 3 years, plus or minus. I can see someone else going 5-7 year differences, depending on their ages (anything under 25 with that gap is a no in my book), but going beyond is a reach. I say that fully aware that many people do it and feel it's fine. To me, you are two different stages in life. I would want someone I am riding the same race with. Not someone too far ahead or that feels like they've been there done that and then try to tell me why I should or shouldn't. And you can be with someone opinionated, as long as they know how to express themselves and leave it at that without trying to dictate your moves. I am not into trying to mommy anyone either. That one story about the guy trying to move forward after having a partner that mommied him? She probably realized how little reward she was receiving. Note: I'm saying all of this but I am not now nor have I been in the market in decades. This is just what I thought conceptually then and now.
The girl with the 13 year age gap, is getting what she signed up for. He’s embarrassing her in public and she me used to it. When you see foolery, to stay is to condone.
Now in my thirties I’ve realized that I’m the happiest when I’m single. I’m the most productive, in the best shape, focusing on myself & exploring new interests/hobbies. I learn & achieve so much when I’m single. Even in relationships I feel like so much of my energy is used on my partner instead of on myself. That’s problematic because like the last woman in the clip said you’re being depleted. Pouring into someone’s cup that isn’t pouring into yours. I’m only interested in relationships that add more to my life, not subtract from it.
A guy i was seeing quit his job after he stayed the night over a few nights and meeting my mini. I left him the next day. Cause ouuu no. He tried to turn me into a trick & mom ewwwwwww😮💨🤮🤮
Whew you dodged a missile!! I had a similar situation where I had a one night stand the first night of a 3-day weekend. He ended up staying the ENTIRE weekend. On day 3, I was getting ready for work and told him he had to go. He stretched out on my couch and said “Maybe I should quit my job 😊” I said, “…get out of my house 🙃” Never again!!!
I know he didn’t just say his woman who is working full time, cooking, and cleaning is “ lazy “. No she is a slave to you. You are using her as your own maid, chef, and provider.
Hey protect yourself. They all seem calm and you never truly know if they're going to leave peacefully or if they're pretending to be peaceful. Thanks for the content!
The shared flat guy, I hope his roomates are a menace. The type that either does nothing and he's forced to do everything or the type that chases you after each and every single teneentiny task 😝
A lot of these men come to conquer. I had one living with me for a while. In MY apartment he didn’t pay for shyt. If I asked him to do the dishes while I was at work he would tell me he isn’t a b*tch. He would tell me I needed to submit to him because he was the man, head of the household 😂😂 my comeback would be submit to what?? 😂😂
Ladies please stay away from these older predatory men. This is how they all act towards younger women. A man with a 13 yr age gap jas NO GOOD intentions towards you. Believe me!! 😒
She's getting more savage by the day, she said "you're not that rich, sit down" 😂😂 Took me out. Why do women have Men living with them. Maintain your seperate spaces.
2:47 this AGAIN is why we say ALL men!!! The interviewer heard the entire imbalance in that relationship and he was absolutely ok with that. Y’all remember when he interviewed a couple where the guy spent 30k on a lm engagement ring? He had a very particular follow up question about that “what are you doing for HIM?” Here, he heard how not only is it a 13yr age gap, but she’s QUITE young, no follow up question about what’s HE doing for you?!! Ladies I Promise you, any man you think is good ask them these subliminal questions and you’ll see, plain as day, these men are ALL the same.
2nd girl broke my heart. No wonder he dates the woman much younger than him because no woman his age would tolerate that shit. She deserved better than this embarrassment of a manchild.
The 13 yr age gap relationship.. he has no respect for her. His behaviour while she’s speaking. No mam.. leave him where he is at.
I hope this young woman's family and friends are in her ear, she needs to get away from him.
she must be so embarrassed to be seen in public with an overgrown toddler. 13 years her senior and he acts like a damn kindergartener.
Right! He is not even a mature older man, but a boyish one. He knows women his age would not have the patience for his antics.
She begins by saying she is 13 years younger and proceeds to talk eloquently about her work and further education. Meanwhile he is acting and showing off like a spoiled high school boy. I hope she will leave him because she is going places and he is trying to drag her down.
He is the older one but he is the immature one. I hope she gets rid of him, he does not respect her at all.
My husband died three years ago. I thought I might find someone, just for fun and company. I met a number of men, and realized I was married to a unicorn. No men for me.
I'm glad you had a good guy in your life like that for at least some time. They exist, just rarer.
Yup i have a unicorn rn and if were to pass before me, its only women for me.
Maybe You Marry Young, for some reason men get salty and weirder and misogynistic by the year, SO unless they meet a Nice women Young and don't corrupt themselves by this crappy society, men tend to be more selfish by every year they live 😂😂😂
Unicorn yes bc many never get one
2:41 😂 how could she deal with this guy? I already was annoyed just then
I hope that woman who was being interviewed while her 13yr older king baby was acting like a 5 year old put in front of a camera, leaves his behind. Even in public, he's disrespecting her while she's talking about her feelings.
As far as I have seen, males who date childrens aka teenagers and 20 something women are usually mentally immature. They see children and young women equal to them and see nothing wrong with dating them. It's a sign of pedo behaviour and immaturity.
His pet peeve is laziness yet when asked to elaborate on what he means by that, he can’t be asked to answer for himself and instead delegates to the so-called “lazy” woman. The irony and lack of self-awareness of astounding.
Bc to these roaches, a woman=lazy=woman
That 2nd guy is a literal toddler.
But a MEAN, undermining toddler.
TF did I just watch in the second clip? She's talking so passionately and he's awkwardly unzipping his jacket and showing a stupid jersey?? Literal 3 and 4 year old babies have more maturity, decorum, and respect
He's trying to distract the viewer from what she's saying.
I was legit like ??? Is he an actual toddler? Is he fidgeting and stuff since he doesnt have his ipad with his sports themed cocomelon?
Demons girl they inhabit the flesh lol that’s what’s up with that guy
The lady with the 13 year age gap relationship actually sounds very drained and tired. I can hear it in her voice.
Yes, I heard some regret.
She literally sounds like she’s about to breakdown crying at any second..
Right?! 😥
Wtf was he doing showponying around!! No shame!!
@@saharkhalili5303 That ish was infuriating
I know two women, under 35 who married in 2022, and sent the husbands, whom were not contributing adequately to the household or quality of their lives, packing before 2024 was half over. Meanwhile my mother was trying to convince me to allow my ex to live in my brand new home to have a man in it for protection and to do yard and handy work. I Since Ive known him, I’ve had to bail him out of jail twice for gun play with his boys, and pay to have him seen by a doctor, while I couldn’t get him to take me to the movies when I had weekends off. Nah. I just pay a handy man, and I carry my own pow pow.
I am sorry about your mother's horrible advice but supporting a man is the worst thing any woman can do. They will resent you for it, abuse you then cheat on you with someone who is more dependent on them.
Same here.. I'm done with the foolishness.
the mask slips off after they get married! The switch up aint working anymore lol, women used to stay out of shame.
that is good
It's so sad how we cannot trust the women in our lives to give us good advice.
The 13 years age gap woman is so casually explaining abuse while he is so comfortable acting like a child while she’s talking 😮💨
He’s a little kid. 🤦🏾♀️
Literally acting like a seven-year-old during a parent teacher conference
This is literally how my three year old brother acts when he doesn't want to eat his food
I find it crazy how the ones that don’t have no job in their are super lazy. Have the nerve to call other people lazy this woman was working two jobs while this man I’m pretty sure barely has one or none he act like he’s in some Rapstar video playing with his jersey some of these men are very delusional. They want to control but they do not want to offer any protection guidance leadership love anything.
What that fool means "Lazy", he actually means being waited on hand and foot while the gf handles ALL the housework, emotional labor while paying half the bills. Hope the gf gets a clue and kicks this inept man child to the curb.
He wasn’t even paying half the bills 😂she has her own homestead with utilities she installed herself
Get the stepping!💯
That 2nd girl. Oh lord. Heartbreaking. I hope her parents see that video or her friends support her, and encourage her to get away from that asshole. Heaven help her.
Women like that NEVER LEAVE. She is in LOVE.
@@KarenJohnson-m6nshe is not in love, she was groomed, he is 13 year older something tell me he find her Even Younger that sheis RIGHT now ... Thats why this goofus want You g girls, to mold them into whatever maid they want and call that love, she can leave she seem Smart, she just need one friend, one real friend pointing out slowly WHAT HE DOES FOR HER vs what she sacrifies for him
@@KarenJohnson-m6n they leave after they waste many years with the guy.
I bet her friends and family already hate him, and have encouraged her to break up with him. She’ll stay until she’s really had enough.
Oh my God that old man in the second clip was absolutely disgusting. I hope she saw this video and left him. All women deserve men in their age group who will treat them like their partners in life. I hope no woman or man on earth ever dates that immature and disgusting man.
I hope so too
Eww that dude whose 13 yr age gap is sooooooo immature 😂😂 I see why they want younger women wtf look at how he’s acting😂 she’s way too good & pretty for him
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She is too immature even to have any conversation with the kindergarten kids xD
13 years older and he's the one acting like a child.
I don't think I can rest until I know that that girl has broken up with that "man" Like EWW?? I rather be a nun 🙏🏼
This!!
At this point women are also quite delusional to stay with these men. It tells me they have no standards for themselves and lrobably grw up with mother that put with anything from the husband. So they just carry the tradition...
What angers me most is that the interview dude didn't check his childish behavior. Men rarely hold other men accountable. It's a global boys club. Ladies, we need the same. Stop communicating with these men and fostering their child antics. Collectively, just stop doing all the things. Wash only your clothes and the dishes you use. Don't shop for his personal items. Any household items, including groceries, only purchase what you like. He'll either step up or step out. The step out is the better option.
Thank You, i was SO annoyed by that asshole allowing the toddler to act up, a woman would have call him up "dude why are suddendly acting like this while your gf is speaking about your relationship?"
Noticed that as well. Interviewer should of told him to chill, "You had your turn, move out the way, let the lady talk." Something, he just let him act a fool.
Men: "women hate being held accountable"
Also men: *blame women for the smallest thing*
The vetenary technician woman needs to absolutely leave that guy. She deserves waaaaay better, better single than with someone like that.
I once dated a man who would get so heated because I have a cleaning and a meal delivery service 😂 Call me all kinds of lazy. He would get upset when he comes over because I wouldn't cook for him and lost it when I told him "I do not even cook for myself". I realised he expected me to audition for him by cooking for him etc. He had to go 👏🏾
Ooooh you said it! “Audition” by cooking is the default setting for the dusty mens in southern USA! When they ask me if I can cook, I tell them either some heinous recipe or list my favorite fast food places. They huff like the overgrown toddlers they are and waddle away. 100% success rate 😂
Lol
@@andreawilliams2095it's not lazy for him not to cook and clean, but if you have a uterus (which you do not use to do the cooking or cleaning) you are lazy.
Make it make sense.
Which cleaning & meal delivery services would you recommend? I mean , like , what are the company names?
They audition you because their feelings for you are all an act. Staged as hell. Out of the theatre you go, sir!
Whewww, the young woman in the 2nd clip (13 year age gap) needs to RUN! 🏃🏽♀️💨 He annoyed me by acting so childish towards her while she’s simply trying to express herself! 😒😒😒
Look at his behavior while she's expressing herself. Which grown woman will put up with that a-hole? Not effing me😂
He sounds like an infantile control freak.
This is exactly why she is dating him 🤭😂 Look at him, 30+ women with brain isn't going to date him. She'll also leave him when she becomes more wiser with age.
Hope she doesn’t get baby trapped
@@talkingtochaprithis. This is why they push young women to settle for them.
I had been single since 2015 when I left my husband. I decided to get in a relationship in 2022 and it didnt even last a year. This man thought I was going to parent him and his 2 children under the age of 13 and move them into my house. LOL. He had so much debt that he had to work 2 jobs and the debt was a result of his poor decisions. Theyre parasitic losers with no ambition. My 19yr old son is more responsible and ambitious than most of these cretins.
Haven’t come across the word cretin in a while. I’m going to be using it again now 😂
😂😂😂 so funny.
Well done! I hate men forcing their children on us.
One thing they’re gonna have is the audacity.
It’s always the people who are doing less or nothing, who are the most critical. They have all the time in the world to critique people but cannot see their hypocrisy. Drop the dead weight in 2026 and beyond.
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You mean 2025?
My ex called me lazy despite me working full-time, paying the bills, and securing the apartment we lived in. I eventually came to my senses. Now he’s couch surfing and working on in off. Saying goodbye was definitely a win for me.
Just did the same and gave my engagement ring back. Wanted to take care grown 25+daughters while living in my house dodging bills. Have been blessed so much since he isn't here. I'm over relationships I just want peace and security.
As a creative woman , I find it very hard to share my personal space with a man. I find it very detrimental to the creative process. It goes to show no matter what a woman does, men think you aren’t enough.
I have find out that men always have an oppinion or ""sugestions" about things women do, they loveeee to audit women Jobs, but boy oh boy they do the bare minimum and want a whole parade, is a very common thing
the 13yo age gap, girl i hope she watched that clip back and was as disgusted as i’m sure we all were. consider why he is going after women 10+ years his junior-because women HIS age would never put up with that sh!t.
I hope that gorgeous veterinary technician lady dumps that cringe Lawrence 😶🌫️😫 girl! Come on!
2:56 Why is this grown man showing off like an African ringneck parrot? Beaker, is that you?
Beaker is useless, too. I love him though. 😊
@@ikeameltdown8012Beaker at least brings joy. That man doesn’t even do that much.
I knew this reminded me of something
Beaker isn’t a threat to Tinkerbell… this dude OTOH, he doesn’t seem safe to me. He will continue to demean her until she won’t want to go out in public with him, then she will be trapped at home. I hope she gets as far away from his sorry arse as possible ASAP.
RINGNECK PARROT 😭
Letting you into my house and u have a shoulder pad & the audacity to call me LAZY. Men & AUDACITY, always in stock. What is the second girl doing with that fool, Girl u better enjoy ur live & leave this 👴🏾 alone.
my wife and I have reversed roles compared to the "traditional" ideas due to my illness. I take care of the home, they work. I cook the meals, do the laundry and all that. I try to keep their life as simple as possible at home cause having to go out for 40hrs a week for US is a lot of effort, so its literally the least I can do.
The crazy thing is I know my Wife loves and respects me, but I see dudes with Wives that do what I do that are constantly pissy about her. like bruh
Talk to your brethren because women are evolving rapidly. No shade, but literal do NOT add value and only drain is while they constantly nag. Coach your pals because women are learning quickly that our life is more peaceful without an XY. Good luck.
2:51 Girl Run!
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Exactly because wtf is he doing?
Unfortunately he has groomed her to destroy her.
Exactly he’s so rude
Yes he wants to break her he’s jealous of her and doesn’t want her to be successful at all!
I love how your content brings women together and supports emotional health and safety. Keep up the amazing work!
Thank you too for your support 😊❤❤
Absolutely.
Have you ever experienced this level of clarity? The moment when you look at a situation and you're so clear about how detrimental it is for you. And then you give the biggest 'hell naw'? Have you experienced that? Have you?! It is sooo liberating!
I wish the young veterinarian looks at her clip and suddenly gets hers.
13 year age gap couple, by his behavior I would have guessed she was an adult and he was 8.
2. 8-year-olds don't act like that. Toddlers do.
I dated someone 15 years my senior and I will NEVER do that again. I lived in my own apartment and I paid all of my bills on top of buy my food and went to work. He didn’t have a place let alone his own place, he said it was because he was a truck driver. They are the dirtiest people you will ever meet! He had the nerve to try to “son” me in my own house. I’m glad that didn’t last long. I’m at peace and that’s all I need right now.
The disrespectful behaviour from the man/ child was nauseating. I didn't think there was a 13 year age gap, i thought she meant to say he was 13 years old! As he acted prepubescent!😂
2. That's how toddlers r, not 13-year-olds. Not even 6-year-olds. Toddlers.
My ex called me a gold digger for daring to complain that he quit a job with nothing lined up and had not found work for months.
My ex called me a gold digger while posted up in my house paying not a single bill. When I found out he was cheating on me and booted him, he said he wanted to leave me ages ago, but couldn't because I was the only reason he wasn't homeless.
This is what happens when you date someone way older than you when you are still naive. That man knows that people his age won't tolerate any bullshit from him so he had to meet someone 13 years younger. I was once like that too, I hope she leaves before its too late
"He's very particular..." Translation he is controlling.
Hmmmhmmmm
The woman with the fake eviction notice, Shera would be so proud lol 😆
While I understand we as women want to trust and love men, WHEN are we going to learn that boyfriends shouldn’t be living with us especially when we have our own. A man helping you with repairs, contributing towards mortgage or just plain lying about those things could mean he may be able to claim some portion of ownership/investment in some states in our stuff. No man should be enjoying the fruits of your labor unless he’s your husband. Even then if legally applicable make that man sign a quit claim deed so when/if you break up, your stuff remains your stuff.
Thank you ☺️
Honestly yeah. Personally, I don't think people should live with their partner like that unless they've been dating for a long time bare minimum since I know marriage isn't for everyone. Not boyfriend, girlfriend, lover. You all should be SURE about it. It's a huge decision.
That young lady with the baby who is 13 years older than her needs to get the hell away from him ASAP. She seems so intelligent and goal oriented and he is acting like a child who needs attention from his mother because he can't sit still. What is WRONG with these men? It's not that girls mature faster, it's that boys never mature ever. Old ass baby ..........
Hopefully she hasn't "trapped" herself as a caregiver because she immediately mentioned their age gap. She knows something is off. Yet she's still there.
@MsFadir She's young and still thinks that taking care of a man baby is what she's "supposed" to do. It's heartbreaking. I pray she doesn't get pregnant.
@@CuracaoCow I wonder how many women are missing out from content like this because sometimes you need to look at this situation from the outside. Almost as if you're looking at a stranger. Then it will click.
Let's pray for her. Too many young women end up in situations like this out of childhood trauma. I know, maybe I'm stretching but, it was the first thing that came to my mind. The way she's goal oriented, why adding that weight to her life 🤦🏾♀️
@@MsFadir No, you're absolutely right. She may have abandonment trauma that makes her want to do whatever she needs to do to keep him around because she's afraid of being alone. That is SO many women's true story. What's horrible is that she is really mentally and emotionally intelligent and I hope she doesn't lose that while trying to hold on to that loser. She has a bright future ahead of her if she can truly realize her own worth.
Let's stop dissing the babies and children by comparing these disgusting men to them. The babies and children I have interacted with put men like him to shame in terms of how considerate, independent and compassionate they are. They also have way more empathy and try their best to clean up after themselves even if they aren't always successful.
2:28 .He's immature ! 🙄
13 year age gap dude knows he was wrong in that relationship. She could do much better.
2:40 the way he’s showing off the number, name, and logo IDC!!!!! you’re literally working her to an early grave, help her if you’re gonna steal her youth away
It's what they do. Use women as Batteries and for free labor.
That girl in the 2nd clip really IS dealing with animals full time 🙄
Is anyone else getting angry when they see young women like that 13 year age gap being that stupid? My goodness...
It’s definitely frustrating, but I also know he spent years manipulating and gaslighting her to get to her to this place. She no longer sees herself as valuable because of him.
The second clip: Body language. No respect for her, blocking her while she talks, trying to get the attention back to him, while she is wringing her hands anxious, exhausted and fed up.
The first girl gave him the benefit of the doubt and welcomed him to her house. Since he did not come to scratch she kicked him out. As she should. For me I think she found the middle balance, taking a chance at love without letting it consume you. You gave it a shot, didn't work out. Well... will try again tomorrow. No trauma, no overstaying in an abusive relationship, no being belittled, nothing.
If it’s the US, then if he was paying her rent he can claim to be a tenant and cause her a big problem. That’s why no woman should just let a guy live with her like that. 💀
He's just so desperate for any kind of attention and couldn't stand the thought of her being able to use her voice for even a second. She's way too good for that bum.
Wtf! that hag was acting up like a literal toddler while his gf was articulating their situation
Dated a guy 8 years older than me, we moved in together and I took care of him like I'd take care of myself, cooked, cleaned, and made sure his self-care was top-notch ( He did not reciprocate)
Man cheated and he (35) moved back to his mother's house who did everything for him and more than likely will continue to do so.
I have my apartment and I will continue to take care of myself until I find a partner who treats me as I treat myself or better.
thanks for making content like this your youtube channel has helped me me a lot keep up the amazing work
Glad to hear it! Thanks for your continued support ❤️☺️
Still change them locks and let the rental office know he has no business on the property.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR US IN THE BACK 🔥🔥🔥NO RING NO MOVE IN…. even with a ring lawwdd no
Everything the second lady said was the VERY reasons why I left my husband. He was ALWAYS complaining. He was shocked when I told him I was done with the marriage. My friends were shocked that I left and blocked him. Once I am done, I am done. I told him that from the beginning of our relationship. I will try, but once I am done there is no coming back or contacting me.
The first girl good for you for spanking his audacity right out the door. Imagine him calling you lazy and then begging you not to kick him out so he could use your tesources. Now he can feel his own laziness.
Women are tired 😴 honestly.
I feel so bad for that girl with the man child 13 years older than her - she needs to leave.
3:00 omg this guy, i chose the bear, i chose 3 bears over him. Girl needs to grow up and leave him. Why doesnt she realize what a red flag the 13 year age gap is smdh
I hope that second woman learns from this and leaves. Men don't get better. The boisterous behavior is shameful.
13 year age gap and childish while you are so hardworking please girl run.
"you are not that rich . . . sit down"
13 yr age gap?? That guy clearly specifically targeted women who are young (on purpose), so he can manipulate her into doing ALL the work in the relationship and be abusive. She should wise up and leave him cuz she clearly deserves better than a narcissist.
She stood on business heck I did the same thing with my ex when he tried to be a drizzle man and try to control me.💯
Same
The way I let out a lurch sigh from the Addams family😂, not the drizzle, drizzle, I cringe because it makes me think of that man whose all over the socials with the glasses and beard talking about a woman's bbl🤢
13 year age gap relationship situation: I wonder if when she was speaking aloud trying to explain their "relationship" and she heard her own words, if it occurred to her that she was dating someone that wanted to parent her. Basically her dad. I mean she seemed to be slowly considering everything as she spoke. Hopefully she realized that dude was not worth having. Who the heck wants someone to always control your time, what you do, and how you do it. This was lowkey the job specifications of a prison guard or warden.
I absolutely abhor age gap relationships. I used to tell friends and acquaintances that I won't date beyond 3 years, plus or minus. I can see someone else going 5-7 year differences, depending on their ages (anything under 25 with that gap is a no in my book), but going beyond is a reach. I say that fully aware that many people do it and feel it's fine.
To me, you are two different stages in life. I would want someone I am riding the same race with. Not someone too far ahead or that feels like they've been there done that and then try to tell me why I should or shouldn't. And you can be with someone opinionated, as long as they know how to express themselves and leave it at that without trying to dictate your moves. I am not into trying to mommy anyone either. That one story about the guy trying to move forward after having a partner that mommied him? She probably realized how little reward she was receiving.
Note: I'm saying all of this but I am not now nor have I been in the market in decades. This is just what I thought conceptually then and now.
The Vet Tech needs to run 🏃🏼♀️
That man is too old to still be a class clown. He is doing all that with purpose. He knows what he is doing because he learned it works.
And that's why men want younger women. That young woman is not lazy. He was completely disrespectful.
Never had anyone disrespect my mind, body and soul like the leach that was attached to me.
The girl with the 13 year age gap, is getting what she signed up for. He’s embarrassing her in public and she me used to it. When you see foolery, to stay is to condone.
Men called me lazy until I left, and they were begging me to come back and begging other women to do the work I was doing. No one wanted them. 😂
Where does she live.... ill come do some chores & i have a job. Ill pay some bills. I'm trying to learn some homesteading skills. 😂😂😂
The 13 yr age difference girl should be working and partying with her friends In between time. Not keeping your father figure satisfied
A 13 year age gap, and yet as the younger one, your still dating a child… how sad
My grandmother always say "pelt dem as far as you cannot see dem" 😅
"You're not that rich, sit down!" Well said! ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Now in my thirties I’ve realized that I’m the happiest when I’m single. I’m the most productive, in the best shape, focusing on myself & exploring new interests/hobbies. I learn & achieve so much when I’m single. Even in relationships I feel like so much of my energy is used on my partner instead of on myself. That’s problematic because like the last woman in the clip said you’re being depleted. Pouring into someone’s cup that isn’t pouring into yours. I’m only interested in relationships that add more to my life, not subtract from it.
A guy i was seeing quit his job after he stayed the night over a few nights and meeting my mini. I left him the next day. Cause ouuu no. He tried to turn me into a trick & mom ewwwwwww😮💨🤮🤮
Whew you dodged a missile!! I had a similar situation where I had a one night stand the first night of a 3-day weekend. He ended up staying the ENTIRE weekend. On day 3, I was getting ready for work and told him he had to go. He stretched out on my couch and said “Maybe I should quit my job 😊” I said, “…get out of my house 🙃” Never again!!!
Yes ma'am! When my ex cut his hours at work, I moved out 2 weeks later. No sir, don't play with me! 😅😅
@@queensavage9896 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I know he didn’t just say his woman who is working full time, cooking, and cleaning is “ lazy “. No she is a slave to you. You are using her as your own maid, chef, and provider.
The guy with the Lawrence jersey is a giant child, leave.
She’s literally going to outgrow out-mature him soon
I hope so.
"This is my homestead" Power to her!
Hey protect yourself. They all seem calm and you never truly know if they're going to leave peacefully or if they're pretending to be peaceful.
Thanks for the content!
Is the first lady drunk or what??
Why is she even with this toddler??
The shared flat guy, I hope his roomates are a menace. The type that either does nothing and he's forced to do everything or the type that chases you after each and every single teneentiny task 😝
A lot of these men come to conquer. I had one living with me for a while. In MY apartment he didn’t pay for shyt. If I asked him to do the dishes while I was at work he would tell me he isn’t a b*tch. He would tell me I needed to submit to him because he was the man, head of the household 😂😂 my comeback would be submit to what?? 😂😂
God I love being single
Why are these women paying for men. They wouldnt even be with you, if you didnt have money.
Ladies please stay away from these older predatory men. This is how they all act towards younger women. A man with a 13 yr age gap jas NO GOOD intentions towards you. Believe me!! 😒
She's getting more savage by the day, she said "you're not that rich, sit down" 😂😂 Took me out.
Why do women have Men living with them. Maintain your seperate spaces.
U r doing it right, Priscilla!
2:47 this AGAIN is why we say ALL men!!! The interviewer heard the entire imbalance in that relationship and he was absolutely ok with that.
Y’all remember when he interviewed a couple where the guy spent 30k on a lm engagement ring? He had a very particular follow up question about that “what are you doing for HIM?”
Here, he heard how not only is it a 13yr age gap, but she’s QUITE young, no follow up question about what’s HE doing for you?!!
Ladies I Promise you, any man you think is good ask them these subliminal questions and you’ll see, plain as day, these men are ALL the same.
2nd girl broke my heart. No wonder he dates the woman much younger than him because no woman his age would tolerate that shit. She deserved better than this embarrassment of a manchild.
2:51 looks like she's 26 and he is 13 years old 🥴. What is she doing 🤦🏾♀️
I guess common sense is not so common anymore
What’s YOUR pet peeve about him? Why she didn’t just say “His obnoxious, immature attempts to undermine me,” I will never understand.
Because how old was she when they started dating 🤔
He looks like he might be in his mid to late 30’s.
I've told all the young women I know to watch your videos & follow your channel. Great advice. Worth watching. Thank you for educating
Thank you so much ☺️
You're welcome and thank you for posting such great content
Girl! Congrats on your 50K!!!!!!
Thank you so much 😀
My daughter and I have noticed a LOT OF MEN shopping by themselves in the grocery store!
They all look so grumpy! haha