I'm going through this phase, I was wondering about the reason of my anger n unhappiness, thank you so much 💕💔 because of you I got to know the problem. Thank you
this kind of honesty with ourselves is very important in our life. looking for the flaws inside us and analyzing our moods and over all persona is so so important. its a greattttt kick start to boost ur higher vibrations. i think self realization and self consciousness are helping me out cuz i was also the one in ur place a week ago and i bursted out crying thinking of why is this happening to me. am i the only one? (also sometimes its ok to cry for no reason it really helps trust me) and this one action of me of letting go and a small self talk helped me so much. suddenly my energy is at peak as if nothing bad has ever happened to me till now. i dont know from where i got that kind of strength and ironically started questioning myself that how am i feeling so peaceful right now. like what just happened. but again self realization came into picture and now i know it was nobody but always ME from the very start. all the anger confusion peace. it was just me. and that really hit me. i got a new perspective. same goals but a fresh plan. we just need to know ourselves. and things will fall into place as you wish. or maybe way better than you imagined. i request everyone to talk about these issues openly bcuz even if we are separate individuals we are not alone and nobody is we all live together throughout our life and thats what really counts at the end.
I was/am really struggling with this thing, deep down I knew that my expectations were high and I needed to lower my expectations but my ego was like, 'no you are not wrong the people around you are'. Today this video really hit me hard, i will definitely try to control my ego and I'll lower my expectations. Thank you for this 🧡
This.... This is me right now. Aleena ma'am I can't express in words what I'm feeling right now after watching this entire video. I was in depression since 2009-10. My father took me to a doctor, the dr. asked me if I feel a certain way, basically he wanted to rule out depression. And I being so grreeaattt I lied to each of his question. Things became worse with time and in 2019 I experienced a meltdown and then when my parents consulted a dr. I was diagnosed with depression. I'm at a point in life where I have completed a prescribed course of drugs for depression, and now I understand how the medicines and all work because I'm a medical student. But at the same time I also understand that, medicines aren't a cure for this. Like it didn't happen in a day, it will take more or less the equal amount of time to heal and recover. For me everyday is a battle, some days are just completely intolerable. 💔 But all I can do is, keep a little extra faith in the universe, the creator and myself. Thank you so much ma'am for opening about such issues on this platform, listening to the real people's experience gives me so much of hope. 🌼✨
Ma'am even I am going through the problems which you have discussed in this video. Thanks for showing me the mirror and giving me a chance to improve myself 🎗️
This video is exactly for me ... Really! I am going through this time and i am changing ..and now missing those day that what something i had before when i used to happy without any reason and what i loss toady . And i can clearly see the difference within me. . ..when i am going through bad feeling or getting heart . I try to smile even that tough time. That smile 😊 give me a power to be strong. ❤️
You are addicted to material greed that's the cause of your all problem you just do one thing as possible as you give up your ego first then you are try to understand your family love.but one thing always you keep remember in your mind.never love to change into the lust,always make good relationship to your family .
Sometimes we are not happy from within we are badly hurt but we dont make others feel that what we have been going through because there are very few people in this world who will try to understand your circumstances...everyone needs a partner who can listen to you, understand you and support you in life...when nobody understands your feelings then you get agitated and confused...
I think , the feeling is quite very common to each individual who try to seek happiness outside. We need to look inside and know ourselves better! I also find it quite in-depth through , nobody really talks about these topics these days, people are getting hooked to Tik-tok, instagrams and all social media stuffs and somehow these things are impacting our behaviour , and we tend to make changes in other's behavior based on what we see around. The social media try to somehow project that kind of expectations for us, which lead us to control others and change accordingly. But thanks a lot for taking these kind of topics and enlightening us !!!
Exactly Aleena I have been there few years back have cried my heart out in the past because of just being neglected as u said that's what I thought may be I was not but negativity overpowers you sometimes u need to find your own happiness believe me or not I have not been out for any outings except for important work since COVID times started and I have no complains like I used to have earlier for not getting enough outings may be I have become quite an introvert 😉 but whatever at least I am not hurting anyone by my actions now and not being hurt by others I think I have found my inner peace and that's what we all need to find and thanks for the beautiful video ❤️
Thanks Aleena, I am really inspired, the way you explained it automatically goes into my mind . Yes , you're right , sometimes egos compelled me to be different, but it shouldn't be. Thanks for sharing, keep us motivating.
whatever you said is very relatable, i have also gone through the same situation a year back. What i was few year back and what i was becoming that time was totally different. I used to do those kind of stuff which i never thought i would do anytime, but i had lost my self control and eventually did mistakes. And i found that expectations and ego is the main cause. now i am good ,realized my mistakes and I also know that in future those circumstances will again come in life but also i know that i will overcome those situation. "Note :- Read Bhagwatgita and you will know secrets of life and solution to solve all kind of problems of your life."
Your 100% right sir. Bhagvatgeeta have all problems solutions. world's every humankind need to read this book and learn how to deal with thoughts with peace
This is just me! It feels like you are telling my story! I can even relate to that thing " they went without me" , "they are without me". I literally behaved arrogantly on these things and spoiled so many things around me. Just realised that I am doing the same mistake " controlling others, expecting more, and giving too much importance to my ego.
Wow, m feeling pretty much the same, especially today, hence, surfing through RUclips for motivational videos, it just feels like there is a big rock on my heart suffocating me, I want to talk, but can't, as everyone is too busy....or I am scared they may judge me. From your video, I learnt, that I need to talk to no one else, but me. Thnx ✨.
Your speech was fluid and somewhat cute i think. Thanks for sharing this, you mentioned a good point that helps me to think, is my ego serving or damaging me… cuz i am not a happy person but with more luck than many others already.
I am happy to know that I am not alone with this kind of problem. The more I try to connect with people the more people make distance themselves from me. This makes me sad then I realize it's better to live alone and keep our identity with us. Why to live with fake people who disperse negativity through their action. It's better to make distance yourself from people who never leave the opportunity to let you down. These people are a barrier to our success. Now I am happy to be alone. Neither do I have a problem with others nor do they have a problem with me .
❤ I am in this situation, since many months, but today i got too much out of control and ended up hurting all the family members 😥 I knw i have hurt them, i m feeling guilty about it, but i am not feeling like talking to anyone politely yet. I just feel like sitting silently in a room. And talk to no one.
It's happened with me also. when someone give me counsels for doing right work they are became foe for me right now. I thought I am right everyone against me noone is going according to me. But today I seen you and I recooll my problem through your videos but eventually I got information to escape these things and became better.
Thanks for this video ma'am I was facing the same problem but after watching ur video m feeling good nw I am more happy and feeling a peace in myself so thanq so much ma'am 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you very much for bringing this topic out in public. I can totally relate with you on this. Even I am going through the same thing in my life. But as you explained beautifully, I will definitely look in to myself and will come up with the better version of myself. Thank you once again for helping others. God bless you.
Thank you Aleena 💚🙏for sharing this.. Loved the ending part.. u r indeed doing a great job.. God bless you! Thank u once again for making me realse how to be a happier version of myself by taking action n keeping control on myself🧘♀️.. ThanK YoU AlEeNa💚🙏
My story is little bit matching to mam🥰🥰🥰.. I often think about myself that I have to become like some one else. 😍😍I was not enjoying myself as I was. But now I understand my value, my opinion. I agree with me that I don't need to be someone else now 😎😎😎I am happy being myself and it's all happen because of you🙏🙏🙏🙏thank you so much.. ❤❤❤but I am in a big situation where I understand myself in a right direction but apart of me every one are complaining with me I took this decision.... ❤❤but I am happy what I did and I will prove myself right one day.... Thank you so much mam for your motivation ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks ma'am, this video I must say an eye opener....I went through this kind of feelings and I didn't get the answers but after listening your thoughts ,I realized my mistakes which I definitely amend as early as possible 💕💕🌹 sadia from Pakistan 🌹
Yes!!!! Literary I feel you talking about my life. Actually we are too confused and couldn't understand what to do. Need to learnt about inner engineering.
But expectations are natural... If you did things for others you Abviously expect thing's for them also... You can't stop your heart from expecting thing's... Like anyhow anyway Expectations comes out...
It happens ..you are right aleena ..I think that all the answers already spoken by our old generation that we have to eliminate four anemy of human life these are ego, greed , anger, attachment ,lust ..
You are absolutely right mam... the same things happen with me most of time.and the simple solution is that trying to change your self control your emotions.... kyunki situations jab change na ho to Hume khud ko hi change karna chaiye...🙏
You are right mam. I was also that kind of person.. Who always complaining for everthing.. Eventually i reset my mind.. Iam very happy now... Because i have taken much care about myself and began to loving my own company, and spend time for my own activities.. And House hold duties as well. No complaints about anything no worries. Then Wt recently happened is that.. All successful things are came up to me, and even my husband also..he... Taking good care of mee and apperantly began show his love towards me...(he used to told me that he loves with all his heart but never showed that towards me ) ., but now he is willing to even dance with me.😂...to all nd all things are came up to me back. ❤ Wt i hav done in my life was stopped complaining!
Its so relatable I don’t know but i was crying that someone didn’t do that the why i want but i was so hurt and sometimes i just feel to be alone and don’t want to live just so irritated by peoples around me just so tired by life
Simply, its cure is Love. When someone is feeling loneliness, irritating, missing something, actually he / she needs someone to Love. Love is heat but it is very sweet.
Thank you Aleena that's a great video which I liked the most. I facing the same problem which you explained about the anger issues, but I'm searching still for my happiness. Thanks for the video may be soon I'll change over my over thinking rather than reality..
yaaarrr aapkne meri situation bol di, everything exactly fits in my case.. recently i have realised this n u r clearing more. thank u for bring it out in this manner
I didn't know how to explain exactly this same things to anyone but when you explain all i realize that same happening with me i will try to make change within me Thank u for sharing your experience i think it will help me alot not only me but to those people who faces the same...
Mam plz making this kind of videos ...You r the only u tuber who is talking about these issues 😊Thank you so much for being there .U r seriously a gem of a person 💛
Happiness depends only on our mind, nobody can give us happiness or misery....I knew it but still i started expecting from others and used to feel the same way as you told. Thank you so much di to remind me who am i really...
Thanks alot Aleena Appi... Seriously I was suffering from the same situation and was thinking that it is happening only with me... But u made me realize that it is normal and we need to correct ourselves..... May God bless u mam😊✨
Mam I had this phase for five months. If I saw this video once , i would have changed a lot . I felt that why don't my teachers love me etc. Like these thoughts used to pile up my mind and disturbed me a lot . Thanks a lot for help
I am facing this issues since 2013 . I was owner on my school but I had been shifted another city There was bitter experience when I joined some school.I have fear and I can't listen any order .I feel so tensed due to lacking something .I still search my destiny .
Yeah .. u have explained so nicely . Thank You So Much for this video . Yes it's true tht instead of blaming other people we should think about ourselves . Happiness shld not be dependent on others . And yeah I also enjoy my own company nd happy with that ❤️
I'll be honest... You said whosoever not relating are welcome to leave ! ..I don't relate but I just can't Stop listening to youu ❤️ you have some really really great communication skills 😭 ....I too want to achieve this level . I am currently CA inter student I have my first attempt in may ....but my unlimite goal is to become youtuber ❤️
Exactly Di this happens with me also..but I am student I always try to how I live away from peoples,friends .I am introvert person, despite that I just angry on that but before 2 ,3 days i realized that and now I am feeling good and Happy 🙂 and now all are OK.
I am Pakistani اللہ پاک اپنے حبیب صلی اللہ علیہ والہ وسلم کے صدقے آپ کو کامیابیاں عطاء فرمائے اور آپ کو خوش و خرم سلامت رکھے اور آپ کی گھر والوں کو بھی صحت مند زندگی عطاء فرمائے آمین ثم آمین
It's absolutely correct mam....what you have said....in this world no one can makes you happy.....only....you....we can make ourselves happy....if we really want to....and we should do....
Your 100% right sir. Bhagvatgeeta have all problems solutions. world's every humankind need to read this book and learn how to deal with aur thoughts with peace
Same thing happened with me...My ego came first whenever I am with friends and I am talking with girls.My ego think that they should talk to me first. If they don't talk with me first then I'm also not talking to them first.Ego is very bad...I'm trying to working on it but I m not getting successful.😥😩
Hey , do you know what had you tried to express? These were just the feelings that we all are having with us . And hope we'll see the real change by your micro analysis soon. Heads of to you and this experience. 👍❤
تاجدارِ ختم نبوتﷺ زندہ باد لَبَّیڪ لَبَّیڪ لَبَّیڪ یَارسُول اَللّٰهﷺ Allah bless you sister I see your video very motivated your video very nice your lectures
Such a learning curve to find ourselves out rather than finding something on others. I am in this situation and I expect bit more from others which I should reset or make it low. Your whole session was very engaging with your words which is going to make feel anyone to be changed whoever in this scenario. Thank you so much for sharing this message
U told all d things which simultaneously happens in our healthy life....which spoils our own standard , real quality of living of a person...at that time we must Hav to see deep inside us nd realise what to do what to not do,is it right for our healthy life or not ,then we wil find d ans..so thanks Allena mam for such good thought which u alws provide us 😄
Am agree with u if lowered our expectation we will stay happy but if u don't keep expectation from any one still they found different way to hurt u from there words , or passing some tone etc
Hi AlIena di I learn lots and practicing english language from you and having gratitude for you. In Jeevan vidya you can understand clearly why is it happens by inspecting youself
This was heart to heart talk Aleena.
Samina hwr you
I'm going through this phase, I was wondering about the reason of my anger n unhappiness, thank you so much 💕💔 because of you I got to know the problem. Thank you
I hope it makes it a little easier for you.
this kind of honesty with ourselves is very important in our life. looking for the flaws inside us and analyzing our moods and over all persona is so so important. its a greattttt kick start to boost ur higher vibrations. i think self realization and self consciousness are helping me out cuz i was also the one in ur place a week ago and i bursted out crying thinking of why is this happening to me. am i the only one? (also sometimes its ok to cry for no reason it really helps trust me) and this one action of me of letting go and a small self talk helped me so much. suddenly my energy is at peak as if nothing bad has ever happened to me till now. i dont know from where i got that kind of strength and ironically started questioning myself that how am i feeling so peaceful right now. like what just happened. but again self realization came into picture and now i know it was nobody but always ME from the very start. all the anger confusion peace. it was just me. and that really hit me. i got a new perspective. same goals but a fresh plan. we just need to know ourselves. and things will fall into place as you wish. or maybe way better than you imagined. i request everyone to talk about these issues openly bcuz even if we are separate individuals we are not alone and nobody is we all live together throughout our life and thats what really counts at the end.
I was/am really struggling with this thing, deep down I knew that my expectations were high and I needed to lower my expectations but my ego was like, 'no you are not wrong the people around you are'. Today this video really hit me hard, i will definitely try to control my ego and I'll lower my expectations.
Thank you for this 🧡
This.... This is me right now. Aleena ma'am I can't express in words what I'm feeling right now after watching this entire video. I was in depression since 2009-10. My father took me to a doctor, the dr. asked me if I feel a certain way, basically he wanted to rule out depression. And I being so grreeaattt I lied to each of his question. Things became worse with time and in 2019 I experienced a meltdown and then when my parents consulted a dr. I was diagnosed with depression. I'm at a point in life where I have completed a prescribed course of drugs for depression, and now I understand how the medicines and all work because I'm a medical student. But at the same time I also understand that, medicines aren't a cure for this. Like it didn't happen in a day, it will take more or less the equal amount of time to heal and recover. For me everyday is a battle, some days are just completely intolerable. 💔 But all I can do is, keep a little extra faith in the universe, the creator and myself. Thank you so much ma'am for opening about such issues on this platform, listening to the real people's experience gives me so much of hope. 🌼✨
Sister what I do.... I feel unhappy, angry without any reason....😓,,I want cry without any reason
What to do dear.....i need help
@@priyachoudhary8944 same happens with me right now
@@ankitamaske1927 i think Ye hormonal changes,periods kì vjh sẽ hota h Ya Fer
Ma'am even I am going through the problems which you have discussed in this video. Thanks for showing me the mirror and giving me a chance to improve myself 🎗️
This video is exactly for me ... Really! I am going through this time and i am changing ..and now missing those day that what something i had before when i used to happy without any reason and what i loss toady .
And i can clearly see the difference within me. . ..when i am going through bad feeling or getting heart . I try to smile even that tough time. That smile 😊 give me a power to be strong. ❤️
Thought provoking video ever.... You're a complete masterpiece ma'am... Thank you very much for making us realise the reality.. Enlightened❤️❤️❤️
You are addicted to material greed that's the cause of your all problem you just do one thing as possible as you give up your ego first then you are try to understand your family love.but one thing always you keep remember in your mind.never love to change into the lust,always make good relationship to your family .
Sometimes we are not happy from within we are badly hurt but we dont make others feel that what we have been going through because there are very few people in this world who will try to understand your circumstances...everyone needs a partner who can listen to you, understand you and support you in life...when nobody understands your feelings then you get agitated and confused...
I think , the feeling is quite very common to each individual who try to seek happiness outside. We need to look inside and know ourselves better!
I also find it quite in-depth through , nobody really talks about these topics these days, people are getting hooked to Tik-tok, instagrams and all social media stuffs and somehow these things are impacting our behaviour , and we tend to make changes in other's behavior based on what we see around. The social media try to somehow project that kind of expectations for us, which lead us to control others and change accordingly. But thanks a lot for taking these kind of topics and enlightening us !!!
Exactly Aleena I have been there few years back have cried my heart out in the past because of just being neglected as u said that's what I thought may be I was not but negativity overpowers you sometimes u need to find your own happiness believe me or not I have not been out for any outings except for important work since COVID times started and I have no complains like I used to have earlier for not getting enough outings may be I have become quite an introvert 😉 but whatever at least I am not hurting anyone by my actions now and not being hurt by others I think I have found my inner peace and that's what we all need to find and thanks for the beautiful video ❤️
Thanks Aleena, I am really inspired, the way you explained it automatically goes into my mind . Yes , you're right , sometimes egos compelled me to be different, but it shouldn't be. Thanks for sharing, keep us motivating.
Yeah, she is amazing.
Having you telling this right front of my face is better than me realizing myself somehow! Thank you Aleena!
whatever you said is very relatable, i have also gone through the same situation a year back. What i was few year back and what i was becoming that time was totally different. I used to do those kind of stuff which i never thought i would do anytime, but i had lost my self control and eventually did mistakes. And i found that expectations and ego is the main cause.
now i am good ,realized my mistakes and I also know that in future those circumstances will again come in life but also i know that i will overcome those situation.
"Note :- Read Bhagwatgita and you will know secrets of life and solution to solve all kind of problems of your life."
Your 100% right sir. Bhagvatgeeta have all problems solutions. world's every humankind need to read this book and learn how to deal with thoughts with peace
This is just me! It feels like you are telling my story! I can even relate to that thing " they went without me" , "they are without me". I literally behaved arrogantly on these things and spoiled so many things around me.
Just realised that I am doing the same mistake " controlling others, expecting more, and giving too much importance to my ego.
You are great mam .You inspired me a lot 😊😊. I am very happy to have a great teacher like you ..
Thank you so much 🙏🙏
My favourite 🤠
posted the video at the right time. I am going through something like that right now. Thank you Aleena🥰🥰
Oh my God...the way you are expressing your feelings I think everyone can relate to that...Really thanks for making this video
I played this many times. Didn't get bored even one time. Literally feeling some from mine in this...
You spoke out what I feel and felt for long. Thank you for the triggers on self realisation.
I love the way you take your name in the beginning of your every video. It's just look sumptuous everytime.💙
A lot of thanks ma'am ⚘ I can relate this thing as I am struggling with it right now...salute to your beautiful effort ❤🙏🙇♀️
i just want to thank to aleena mam whenever i went to depression after watching her videos i find my self new and more confident before
Wow, m feeling pretty much the same, especially today, hence, surfing through RUclips for motivational videos, it just feels like there is a big rock on my heart suffocating me, I want to talk, but can't, as everyone is too busy....or I am scared they may judge me.
From your video, I learnt, that I need to talk to no one else, but me.
Thnx ✨.
Di apki baten boht jldi hit krti , becoz literally ye dil se boli jati , without filters or edit , apki simple talk vid b motivational hoti ❤️❤️
Right now the same situation is mine...And after watching this video, I really felt relief... really this is one of the best video for me. 🙏🏻
sister aleena ..u r musim..start praying tahajud it will give peace to u and will make u relaxe
I will for sure ask my mumma about it … thank you dear 🙌🙏
Your speech was fluid and somewhat cute i think. Thanks for sharing this, you mentioned a good point that helps me to think, is my ego serving or damaging me… cuz i am not a happy person but with more luck than many others already.
I am happy to know that I am not alone with this kind of problem. The more I try to connect with people the more people make distance themselves from me. This makes me sad then I realize it's better to live alone and keep our identity with us. Why to live with fake people who disperse negativity through their action. It's better to make distance yourself from people who never leave the opportunity to let you down. These people are a barrier to our success. Now I am happy to be alone. Neither do I have a problem with others nor do they have a problem with me .
Aleena, this video felt like a warm hug😭..!!.... thank you will be underrated❤️
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I am in this situation, since many months, but today i got too much out of control and ended up hurting all the family members 😥
I knw i have hurt them, i m feeling guilty about it, but i am not feeling like talking to anyone politely yet. I just feel like sitting silently in a room. And talk to no one.
This videos are actually helping everyone.❤
It's happened with me also. when someone give me counsels for doing right work they are became foe for me right now. I thought I am right everyone against me noone is going according to me. But today I seen you and I recooll my problem through your videos but eventually I got information to escape these things and became better.
Thanks for this video ma'am I was facing the same problem but after watching ur video m feeling good nw I am more happy and feeling a peace in myself so thanq so much ma'am 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you very much for bringing this topic out in public. I can totally relate with you on this. Even I am going through the same thing in my life. But as you explained beautifully, I will definitely look in to myself and will come up with the better version of myself. Thank you once again for helping others. God bless you.
I can relate with every single word that you have said. I am just feeling too low.
As you said everything..now I can relate that same complications with me..but don't know if I would be able to overcome from it or not.
Thanks alot Aleena! The Message was indeed Meaningful to us & Straight to the point .
Thank you Aleena 💚🙏for sharing this.. Loved the ending part.. u r indeed doing a great job.. God bless you! Thank u once again for making me realse how to be a happier version of myself by taking action n keeping control on myself🧘♀️.. ThanK YoU AlEeNa💚🙏
Yoga se he Hoga🧘♀️🙏
My story is little bit matching to mam🥰🥰🥰.. I often think about myself that I have to become like some one else. 😍😍I was not enjoying myself as I was. But now I understand my value, my opinion. I agree with me that I don't need to be someone else now 😎😎😎I am happy being myself and it's all happen because of you🙏🙏🙏🙏thank you so much.. ❤❤❤but I am in a big situation where I understand myself in a right direction but apart of me every one are complaining with me I took this decision.... ❤❤but I am happy what I did and I will prove myself right one day.... Thank you so much mam for your motivation ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks ma'am, this video I must say an eye opener....I went through this kind of feelings and I didn't get the answers but after listening your thoughts ,I realized my mistakes which I definitely amend as early as possible 💕💕🌹 sadia from Pakistan 🌹
I watch your video on daily base to improve my Spoken English and emotional health. Thank You Aleena Ma'm for making such a nice video💐💐
Exactly same phase I m in ma'am . I really feel that my ego is controlling my mood. Your suggestions I ll definitely try. Thank you so much ma'am ☘️.
I have got a better solution at the right time. Thanks for the conversation.
Yes!!!! Literary I feel you talking about my life. Actually we are too confused and couldn't understand what to do. Need to learnt about inner engineering.
Summary:- As expectations hurt, don't expect. Be you, by being with you!!✌️
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But expectations are natural... If you did things for others you Abviously expect thing's for them also... You can't stop your heart from expecting thing's... Like anyhow anyway Expectations comes out...
It happens ..you are right aleena ..I think that all the answers already spoken by our old generation that we have to eliminate four anemy of human life these are ego, greed , anger, attachment ,lust ..
You are absolutely right mam... the same things happen with me most of time.and the simple solution is that trying to change your self control your emotions.... kyunki situations jab change na ho to Hume khud ko hi change karna chaiye...🙏
You are right mam. I was also that kind of person.. Who always complaining for everthing..
Eventually i reset my mind.. Iam very happy now... Because i have taken much care about myself and began to loving my own company, and spend time for my own activities.. And House hold duties as well. No complaints about anything no worries.
Then Wt recently happened is that.. All successful things are came up to me, and even my husband also..he... Taking good care of mee and apperantly began show his love towards me...(he used to told me that he loves with all his heart but never showed that towards me ) ., but now he is willing to even dance with me.😂...to all nd all things are came up to me back. ❤
Wt i hav done in my life was stopped complaining!
Its so relatable I don’t know but i was crying that someone didn’t do that the why i want but i was so hurt and sometimes i just feel to be alone and don’t want to live just so irritated by peoples around me just so tired by life
Simply, its cure is Love. When someone is feeling loneliness, irritating, missing something, actually he / she needs someone to Love. Love is heat but it is very sweet.
Exactly the same situation I am Facing 🙄
I will definitely make these small changes within me🤘✌️
Thank You So Much, Aleena ❤❤❤❤❤
when the Rational & logical mind comes emotion will Stop (any kind of Emotional pleasure Blackmail you lose peace of mind) .
Totally relate to this one❤️You are a 💎
Thank you Aleena that's a great video which I liked the most. I facing the same problem which you explained about the anger issues, but I'm searching still for my happiness. Thanks for the video may be soon I'll change over my over thinking rather than reality..
Thanks for this video 💕
I love you 💗
yaaarrr aapkne meri situation bol di, everything exactly fits in my case.. recently i have realised this n u r clearing more. thank u for bring it out in this manner
It's looking like you are reading my life, exact same 100%. I will try to implement what you said
I didn't know how to explain exactly this same things to anyone but when you explain all i realize that same happening with me i will try to make change within me
Thank u for sharing your experience i think it will help me alot not only me but to those people who faces the same...
Mam plz making this kind of videos ...You r the only u tuber who is talking about these issues 😊Thank you so much for being there .U r seriously a gem of a person 💛
Happiness depends only on our mind, nobody can give us happiness or misery....I knew it but still i started expecting from others and used to feel the same way as you told. Thank you so much di to remind me who am i really...
Thanks alot Aleena Appi... Seriously I was suffering from the same situation and was thinking that it is happening only with me... But u made me realize that it is normal and we need to correct ourselves..... May God bless u mam😊✨
Mam I had this phase for five months. If I saw this video once , i would have changed a lot . I felt that why don't my teachers love me etc. Like these thoughts used to pile up my mind and disturbed me a lot . Thanks a lot for help
You are a very lovely person
Self realization is must.... Only
A nice person can find their own mistakes as you are....
Your videos are really helpful for me everytime..
Love the way you talk.
I am facing this situation from past many years and don't know when it will end or end up my life.
I am facing this issues since 2013 .
I was owner on my school but I had been shifted another city There was bitter experience when I joined some school.I have fear and I can't listen any order .I feel so tensed due to lacking something .I still search my destiny .
Yeah .. u have explained so nicely . Thank You So Much for this video . Yes it's true tht instead of blaming other people we should think about ourselves . Happiness shld not be dependent on others . And yeah I also enjoy my own company nd happy with that ❤️
I'll be honest... You said whosoever not relating are welcome to leave ! ..I don't relate but I just can't Stop listening to youu ❤️ you have some really really great communication skills 😭 ....I too want to achieve this level . I am currently CA inter student I have my first attempt in may ....but my unlimite goal is to become youtuber ❤️
One of the most genuine youtubers ... Love you
Exactly Di this happens with me also..but I am student I always try to how I live away from peoples,friends .I am introvert person, despite that I just angry on that but before 2 ,3 days i realized that and now I am feeling good and Happy 🙂 and now all are OK.
I am Pakistani
اللہ پاک اپنے حبیب صلی اللہ علیہ والہ وسلم کے صدقے آپ کو کامیابیاں عطاء فرمائے اور آپ کو خوش و خرم سلامت رکھے اور آپ کی گھر والوں کو بھی صحت مند زندگی عطاء فرمائے آمین ثم آمین
It's absolutely correct mam....what you have said....in this world no one can makes you happy.....only....you....we can make ourselves happy....if we really want to....and we should do....
Even I was facing the same problem previously but now I was about to come over and this video helped me a lot thanks for the video
Thank you Aleena for reminding me where was I going wrong
Your 100% right sir. Bhagvatgeeta have all problems solutions. world's every humankind need to read this book and learn how to deal with aur thoughts with peace
Same thing happened with me...My ego came first whenever I am with friends and I am talking with girls.My ego think that they should talk to me first. If they don't talk with me first then I'm also not talking to them first.Ego is very bad...I'm trying to working on it but I m not getting successful.😥😩
Hey , do you know what had you tried to express?
These were just the feelings that we all are having with us .
And hope we'll see the real change by your micro analysis soon.
Heads of to you and this experience. 👍❤
Thank you so much mam..... Same things are happening in my life as you spoke in this video.....I will definitely try to change my self....
Hey Aleena...it was very helpful...I am going through this phase
I always get to learn something from your videos. Your videos are very energetic and motivating. Please keep making vedio like this. Thanks
The main point is we need make ourselves busy.....when we are busy we don't get any time to think about anything...mainly about others.
تاجدارِ ختم نبوتﷺ زندہ باد
لَبَّیڪ لَبَّیڪ لَبَّیڪ یَارسُول اَللّٰهﷺ
Allah bless you sister I see your video very motivated your video very nice your lectures
Thank you for helping me.....
Thankyou for the correction in my life........
Such a learning curve to find ourselves out rather than finding something on others. I am in this situation and I expect bit more from others which I should reset or make it low.
Your whole session was very engaging with your words which is going to make feel anyone to be changed whoever in this scenario.
Thank you so much for sharing this message
Ma'am you have given a very helpful message through this video . It will help many of us. I really appreciate you ma'am . Lots of love from Assam .
Really needed this❤
This is something I needed to hear for so long
U told all d things which simultaneously happens in our healthy life....which spoils our own standard , real quality of living of a person...at that time we must Hav to see deep inside us nd realise what to do what to not do,is it right for our healthy life or not ,then we wil find d ans..so thanks Allena mam for such good thought which u alws provide us 😄
Thank you so much ...this is what i was looking for..
Just one thing...
Thanku beautiful soul...u explained so simply n amazingly...
I m evolving myself same way♥️🌟🌟
You are a very brave girl... Self criticism is something bold step 👌
Felt so connected with each and every word of you ❤️
Am agree with u if lowered our expectation we will stay happy but if u don't keep expectation from any one still they found different way to hurt u from there words , or passing some tone etc
You touch my heart.
Thankyou so much.....I needed this...i needed this...God bless you
Thank you so much Aleena for this amazing session
Hi AlIena di
I learn lots and practicing english language from you and having gratitude for you.
In Jeevan vidya you can understand clearly why is it happens by inspecting youself