Never heard this before but I imagine it’s a huge huge ego boost 😂. I did have my ex’s best friends call me hot. Which flattered me because at that point I didn’t consider myself good Looking at all 😂😂
She gives an interesting perspective though, about associating with toxic guys who she couldnt control in the past, meaning it could be guys who just did whatever they want and cant be reasoned or overly restrictive guys. That would be an interesting case.
@@ЯАга-я4л Most of the "toxic" guys are usually the outgoing good looking ones and part of the reason they keep chasing after them is because they know if she won't then many other women will. "hot guys" who straight up don't give a shit are like drugs to many women, they get addicted to the emotional ups and downs.
@SamBourgeois-mr4hq to control doesn't mean just "make them do what you want" or "keep them on short leash", it's also" convince them to see reason ", " be able to find compromise", "keep their negative urges in check", etc. If time and again you ask your partner not to do something you're uncomfortable with but they keep on it nonetheless, it's also "unable to control them".
@@camannwordsmith if that were the case you'd see many people controlling sexual urges, diet etc. that gives us lots of dopamine. It is a powerful man in a society of men who let lust run their brains and motives.
My ex HATED when I stuck to my schedule and went to bed at a good time so I can be up for work in the morning. She hit me with the “wow so sleep is more important than me?!” And I looked her in the eye and just said “Yes.” Edit: Thank you guys for the supportive comments. I wasn’t expecting the amount of likes or responses, and definitely wasn’t expecting how many people shared the same obstacle I did! Thank you all again!
Met a young lady in the 1980's in a club one night. We talked, danced and exchanged phone numbers. Monday morning she called me just before I was going to walk out the door to go to tech school and asked me to come spend the day with her. At the time school was more important. Glad I went that day because the information given was of great importance. The class was Consumer Electronics Repair and that day covered the area where most of the problems occur. I still think I made the right choice...
He literally sounds like a normal human. If I had made plans to hangout with the girls and then have to get up early for work or something, I ain't gonna compromise those plans last minute, why should he?
@@GoogleAreEnemyCombatants depends on what the plans are. Your significant other doesn't need to be involved in every part of your life. And maybe it was a girls night in like a sleepover or maybe a picnic and they might be uncomfortable as they want only close friends to be there. And it's especially difficult to ask for permission if they can come if it's last minute. And judging by the video example, the significant other wanted to spend time alone with them so it wouldn't work anyway
@@-brxken-7789 there's always excuses to be made. I honestly don't quite know why a woman would want to hang out with a bunch of dudes or help me study for an exam or just sit together watching the same Netflix program I am watching . . . but we wouldn't still be a species if males and females were perfectly rational.
Had a woman i just met ask me to come over after work. I told that I couldn't because I was going to watch my nephew so my brother could take his wife out for her birthday. I told her i was free pretty much the rest of the week. I explained all of this and thought it was fine. This happened within the first 2 weeks of my employment there. I kid you not, this woman did everything you can imagine to be rude for the next 3 years. I had no idea why she would be rude, because Im not a sociopath. Eventually, after a year, a coworker said that she made it sound like I laughed in her face and cut her down. I couldn't believe it. I located the cell phone i had at that time, showed me texting her a text id sent thanking her and telling her i really would like to do something, and apologizing for any inconvenience. This coworker knew immediately and soon most in the office knew she had lied through her teeth. It didn't take long for her to get called out. She was furious and made the next two years just awful. What trash
"What trash" - and that exactly applies to most women, I mean they just can't accept being rejected. Definitely not all men are behaving classy after rejection, but the intensity level in case of women is much higher.
Yep. Haven't had sex in over a year and I'm actually...kinda fine with it. Taught me how to have more self control and weirdly enough...to have standards.
@@konsyansnou8623He's implying that women don't see men as human beings. I think it's meant to be ironic, considering women constantly accuse men of seeing them as objects. I personally choose the bear over this pointless sexist debate
@TheChocoboRacer Oh right, I get the irony of the comment now. There's nothing sexist about it; it's a known fact that people always have and will talk about.
I mean that's a valid reason, I do that sometimes too.. If I expect visitors I'll do it ahead of time.. If I don't, place might be a mess, and I won't accept last minute visitors
@@gussampson5029 depends on you definition of clean. It take about 15 minutes to clean a bathroom so you're idea of clean for an entire apartment would probably run a female off unless she's dirty too lmao.
@@funtimefoxy6699 majority of women found to be like the mentioned traits, it's the general observations which seen 'bout women, this statement/phrase 'bout " don't generalize everyone" is sheer excuse to cover up hypocrisy of woman's psychological behavior traits, women generally don't like to listen truths 'bout 'em
Wanted to date this really cute girl in HS but when I asked her out she said she had a bf. She didn’t I checked with a mutual friend. Ok so one of my female friends said she could fix this and for the next week she made sure the cute girl saw us together. Holding hands. Laughing. Just being together. I had 1 class on friday with cute girl and she asked me if other girl was my girlfriend. I said yea but we broke up last night. Cute girl thought that was awful and said she had no plans for the weekend. So yea. The she wants you because another girl wants you is crazy but true.
She’s literally just appealing to a male demographic by shitting on a made up other woman. She is self aware though. She’s just aware of how to present herself to get male approval online
The "probably because another girl wants him" is almost universally true. None of my female acquaintances gave me the time of day until I was in a relationship. Then I was getting the "I dont know why, but you're looking good lately" 😂 it's nuts.
What is the psychology behind that? I’ve always noticed that and heard about it, but people like to say it isn’t true. Are men getting universally gaslighted?
@@frankjaeger1711 it is definitely true and not just for relationships. Applies to other things like finding a job as well, it is much easier to find a new job when you already have one. This is cuz it shows you are currently employable, similarly having an SO will show you are currently datable. The effect is stronger the more the new sees themselves in the current. It's not how things always work but it is absolutely a pattern of behavior.
I experienced that a year ago and everyone pointed out to me that I was the one who was wrong. I had an important exam and I had to finish it, she texted me at 10pm to go to my house and I told her that I had an important exam, to which she decided to send everything to hell. It took me a lot to realize that not everything was my fault.
It sounds like she expected you to make her your one & only priority in your life as if you have nothing else to do in your life. You made it clear that she's not your one & only priority nor is she the center of your life, so she threw a fit. Everything can't always be a man's fault & women can never nor will ever be always right.
Lol I would've said "I can either hang out with you now, or get my degree and we can be rich and hang out later" money can't buy happiness, but damn is it more comfortable to hang out in your own private home eating name brand snacks watching Netflix on a home theater system. If she can't think long term like that, that's on her.
we live in a deeply misandric gynocentric society. Most men are white knights (simps). Pastors and councilors are even worse than most people always ready to excuse the woman and blame the man. The Bible is not at all like that, dealing out blame equally.
@@bobthegamingtaco6073 Great way of putting it. The same analogy should be used when it comes to either 'buying an expensive engagement/wedding ring OR putting that money on a down payment for a nice home' (instead of having to rent or buy a shitty 'starter' home).
They will realize it in about 20 years when the sheer number of single women in their 40's and 50's will genuinely scare the younger generation of females. Right now, women are being told "be a boss babe" and it will be an amazing life! They have an army of OF girls broadcasting this sentiment, so modern women are sincerely the lowest quality in our society's history. It won't improve until our society is forced to acknowledge the failure, but we are YEARS and YEARS away from that. Whatever you do, don't get married 💯
@PyroMiniYak The only unrealistic part is having such open communication between two women without any lies or ego inflating. I grew up surrounded by women so I'm pretty tired of self destructive narratives.
Its even worse when youve been through asking for like an hour of attention a week and a hug and kiss every once in a while suddenly your victimising them while they are your fiance'. My bike gives me attention whenever i want now 😂
@@PyroMiniYak The unrealistic part here is not the mindset or the conversation. It's the fact a woman is calling another woman out on the bullshit that happens on a daily basis. Women do not keep one another in check.
@@Kira110lolmaybe because those who are sane enough to call each other out get cornered into their own circles, while the toxic girl culture stick with each other and their gossips
As a almost 49 year old man this is so close to reality that it boils my blood because I have witnessed this many times over in my dating career and I do say career because dating has become a job thanks to you ladies LOL
It’s so sad what these evil woman have turned dating into.. a miserable mess. It’s us mens fault for giving them the power to do so.. yet alone rights, logically speaking
As a guy I had to learn this the hard way. Solid life lesson. But for those of you out there who have made bad choices, you can always start making the right ones TODAY.
I've always wondered why is it the moment a guy lands himself a girlfriend after being single for years, every creature with two X chromosomes pop out of the woodwork wanting him. WTF??? It never fails.
It's the animalistic instinct. If he's with another woman, that's a sign he's a worthy man, in a tribal sense, capable of taking care of her and any children they may have.
It's because in their mind if he was chosen, it means he's got something of value. If the girlfriend is hot, they want him even more. Same happened to me when I was married to my ex wife who was easily an 8 looks wise. We would be out shopping together had our wedding bands on and she would sometimes tell me when other women would be looking at me all googly eyed lmaooo. Also when I went out alone, pretty women would approach me and tell what a shame that a hunk like me was married 😂😂😂. I couldn't believe it because I didn't and never have considered myself to be remotely attractive as a man, but yeah it was crazy. My ex would even get jealous sometimes like dude I can't control someone looking at me 😂😂😂.
I say this all the time. Whenever I’m single there’s rarely any woman around to date or even be interested, but when I’m in a relationship that no longer takes. I find women that is interested in me out of the blue. I reject them as I’m being loyal to my partner, but subconsciously my thoughts be “where was this when I was single?”
Fellas it’s the discipline that keeps them around craving more of our time. The minute you give in to their temptation & fall off they’ll be treating you like a weirdo. Keep chasing excellence, God bless 🙏🏾
"For some reason I want him more now," is probably the biggest sign you should steer clear. Women that think of you as a trophy in a competition with their friends are going to make you pretty miserable trying to turn you into their friends' idea of the perfect man.
"Preselection bias" is a natural instinct. Many women find men who are desired by other women more attractive. But just because women have this instinct doesn't mean they have to let themselves be controlled by it. The good ones don't.
@@peterkottke2570Thank you. It’s important to recognize biological drives in men and women, but also that we are not beholden to them. Too often people either ignore one or get jaded by the other
I've been stood up so many times that I have stopped trying to compromise or adjust my plans in order to meet someone. I no longer change concrete plans for things that might happen.
there *Was* hope for Humanity when we had Star Trek the Next Generation. Now we have an annoying ripoff of Futurama in Starfleet uniforms. We're fresh outta hope!
Because they don’t care about pleasing their guy, they care about being pleased. It should be a two-way street, but most women turn it into one-way very quickly.
"Time and a half! For GRAVE shift money?! Dear lord, go! I can wait!" (narrowed eyes) "You're not mad?" "If I had the opportunity to make that much money, I'd drop you like a a hot potato, baby. Honestly, I can wait another day." That man 'shit tested' the hell out of me and I passed them all. Married me ten months later.
@@vociferonheraldofthewinter2284but is “shit testing” healthy and a good thing in a relationship? Guys usually don’t like it when a woman does it to them.
@@tommyliu7020 men don't shit test, they simply live and women THINK it is a shit test. Hint for all the ladies out there. Men don't test you, we simply live and if you make our lives harder instead of easier we move on. We aren't testing you...we simply evaluate things how they are. Men are simple. Testing someone requires way more effort than we are willing to put into most things.
@@tommyliu7020 Theres good shittesting and bad shittesting. The shit you see on tiktok is the bad kind. Throwing out things that will be dealbreakers if they're not okay or are okay with is important. Find out before you marry and realize you've made a horrible mistake.
Yep .. in the majority of times .. when a woman badmouthes over a "toxic" guy ... it's just her toxicity showing she's pissed she can't control him to the degree she wants to
This is all too common. Womanesse translated: He's an asshole means I can't control him. He's a narcissist means he knew his worth. He's controlling means he had boundaries. He's a cheater means he caught her cheating. He was crazy means he wouldn't put up with her crazy ass.
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I had girls hand themselves over to me on a platter, however I couldn’t tell if we were supposed to hook up or not. Never could figure out if it’s okay to make the first move. They would get frustrated, turned off and block me. You have to be ready when they are or you don’t get another chance.
Those girls aren't looking for anything with substance, so the chance was only ever a chance at sleeping with them anyway and probably wouldn't have turned into more
@@AnnoyingNewsletters you are doing it wrong or you are reading the situation wrong. Can't tell if I don't know the whole context but believe me when I say this: it's the men's fault the majority of the time
If I get a girl friend that’s like this, I’m immediately setting boundaries. Like I want to wake up every morning to work on my music, read light novels and just exist. I can’t spend every waking moment just feed your attention, I have other duties/hobbies I need to keep track of.
@@spowdenSorry to hear that man, just out of curiosity was she just too needy for your attention or was there something else? I'm kinda going through a similar situation and trying to decide what to do
@rileybrewington9190 Mine would lash out at any minor inconvenience and refuse to ever admit to being wrong, but the main thing was still just being completely unable to functioning without me for even short periods, which basically sucked away my time and hobbies You should try talking first, try to reach a compromise (I did, but she would go back on her word) and if that fails, then take more final action
u look just like the type of guy i’d expect to be gorging red pill content 24/7 then regurgitating it on any female video like you’re machievalli. zach is gonna put it in u if u keep this up
@@GoogleAreEnemyCombatants They did word it kinda selfishly. Here: "But Zach is perfectly happy."* He has other things that make him happy and is already happy not to have to rely on you choosing his interactions.
@@GoogleAreEnemyCombatants womp womp, in this hypothetically situation (assuming she's trying to get into a situationship) he doesn't owe the girl anything... if someone doesn't like how you act they can move on, and if they don't that's on them
This is so spot on! I chased a girl I had a crush on for almost 5 years. She led me on and never gave me a chance. Then, I got into a relationship with someone else. The girl I had chased for all that time all of the sudden asks me, why am I not pursuing her. I told her, straight to her face, because I found someone else. I proudly walked away after that
Well, the video implied that he ended it with his cheating, hence, why other chick theorized that her insecurity in this situation was based on being ditched by Chad in the past.
I tried telling my mom how well this worked, and she came back with, "You don't want the kind of girl that works on." Sorry, mom. Tried to be gay but that wasn't fun. So it's these hoes or PHub.
@@scatcat420 and if you split, God forbid, they will not be there. When single, could not barely get a date, be involved, wow, they come out of the woodwork.
I have seen a few of your videos around from time to time and I must say that I never thought that I would find a chick that actually uses logic in a relationship so good for you and you have yourself a mighty fine day.
Hit the center of the target with this one! Except the subject is likely just a bit of a narcissist so she’s not likely to have any insights or accept any. She will move on to a softer target. He’s yours!
In all fairness, Jack Nicholson is one of the worst guys to take advice from. He has decades of both adultery and physical assault of several of his ex gfs under his belt.
@@dharma6525 you can either love women, or understand women (accepting them for what they do and expect from you), can't do both. And if you say you do both, i know you're lying.
Live these skits showing the real side of women's logic ( or lack of)." Putting herself on a platter"- no... wanting and receiving constant attention!! Love the ending too- it's so true!!
Zach agrees and says thank u and really appreciates the super kind compliments bc he really works hard to show others that when u really care about someone it isn't going out of your way to do something nice for someone you love. It's just how the flow should go and a normal, Loving, caring, NON-TOXIC relationship:). It's all good vibes and happy days ahead & an awesome, beautiful, amazingly, stunningly next level and game changing a relationship can be when two people are on the EXACT same page, hell same freakin letter on the same word lol
is it possible for a lady to say any of these things IRL and not get immediately b-slapped by the lady next to them? What is the actual real cost of being this up-front with the TRUTH??
I love your videos Billie. I love a self disciplined hubsand in my life because he's a very mature guy. We both had self control to wait until marriage to break our virginity together even though we was struggling with lusting temptations but I'm glad that our marriage is godly and biblical.
Even an idiot feels smart just listening to what some women say. My forehead is bursting from so many facepalms over the years. When all this crap started in the 2010s. And now in the 2020s it's getting worse and worse. 🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️
@@suryasingh9738 Maybe it started small there. But the issue of feminism serving to oppress men was already there. Wikipedia talks about different waves. However, I know that this stupidity became more and more popular in the 2010s. I see this especially in German talk shows. Women's rights activists would be ashamed of the things that are being discussed today. Both on social media and in private life. Normal interaction between men and women must be restored. Otherwise it will be the norm for children to grow up without a father or mother. And that they themselves will be disturbed by their parents' inability to have a relationship. All this bullshit started in the 2010s at least. Maybe it got going in the 00s, but definitely not earlier.
Yes, its a red flag. But I believe it can be solved with communication. No one is perfect, you aren't, your partner won't be. If she's not going to compromise, then its best for you to move on, but not without trying first.
The fact that my name is Zac and I also hit the gym, have a good night sleep because of my early morning start, and try and organise a “make up” catch up with you. Feels REALLY close to home.
It’s actually simpler. He demonstrated value by not cancelling his plans for a chance to get laid. It means he knows he can get laid easily. Women who recognize that, realize he’s valuable to other women, and ultimately, women seek valuable men.
LOL. Ms. White dress probably doesn't really want Zach. If she did, she should have kept her mouth shut, waited for the inevitable breakup, and then pounced. Asking, "If you don't want him, can I have him?" just pushed black sweatshirt into holding on. Not sure if Zach should thank her or not. 😂
I mean, it's more honest to ask flat out than to sit back and wait for them to break up. Yeah it didn't work out in this case but better to ask now than have your friend think you were waiting to "steal her man"
Zach will eventually see her for what she is, blow her back out and move on. It will be her fault because of her previous issues with men being so profound she didn't notice the win she was given.
My first girlfriend in the UK was terrible for this. My Air Force career suffered because she couldn't get with the fact that i had responsibilities to the military first and she came second. A lot of her friends with military boyfriends did the same.
"I wouldn't call that a no..." Uhm, guy literally said "I wish but I've got some friends coming over already, and I need to be up early for the gym." So yeah, he actually did say no 🤷♂️ But yeah the rest of this is spot on.
That guy below like a man who can control his emotions and urges is a powerful man'm like I could tell her no if I really wanted to the whole issue with me is I'd still rather tell my friends my plans had changed. Easy enough to refuse because i've already got plans with mine. But why would I?
My God there’s so much truth in this one, and I’m sure that much of it also applies to men as well but maybe not everything. Men think way differently, obviously. But that final part was so insanely true that I couldn’t help but laugh and think about how many times it’s happened to me.
Lol the last part is very true. I don’t date because of my religion but when I posted about my engagement I got so many messages from random accounts who knew me. One of them even sent messages to my wife (she was still my fiancé at the time) saying that I cheated with her. Very bizarre
“If you don’t want him, can I have him?” 😅😂 she saying straight facts
I wouldn’t blame her for wanting him
Never heard this before but I imagine it’s a huge huge ego boost 😂. I did have my ex’s best friends call me hot. Which flattered me because at that point I didn’t consider myself good
Looking at all 😂😂
LOL, women passing a man around like a piece of meat. Bhaaa hahaha😂 such entitlement!
@@falcon5751 You are lucky because if the hive mind turns against you, your so-called 1-on-1 private relationship is over.
Sounds like a conversation with a Tsundere. "NO! YOU CAN'T HAVE HIM, HE'S MINE!! after another woman shows any interest.
"Because you can't control him" Yep, that one right there.
She gives an interesting perspective though, about associating with toxic guys who she couldnt control in the past, meaning it could be guys who just did whatever they want and cant be reasoned or overly restrictive guys. That would be an interesting case.
@@ЯАга-я4л
Most of the "toxic" guys are usually the outgoing good looking ones and part of the reason they keep chasing after them is because they know if she won't then many other women will. "hot guys" who straight up don't give a shit are like drugs to many women, they get addicted to the emotional ups and downs.
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There is more to it than that. He is telling her she isn't the most important thing in his life. To self-centered females, that's the kiss of death.
@SamBourgeois-mr4hq to control doesn't mean just "make them do what you want" or "keep them on short leash", it's also" convince them to see reason ", " be able to find compromise", "keep their negative urges in check", etc. If time and again you ask your partner not to do something you're uncomfortable with but they keep on it nonetheless, it's also "unable to control them".
A man who can control his emotions and urges is a powerful man!
That's...a normal human. We're not wild animals.
@@camannwordsmith Debatable
@@camannwordsmith if that were the case you'd see many people controlling sexual urges, diet etc. that gives us lots of dopamine. It is a powerful man in a society of men who let lust run their brains and motives.
Powerful well adjusted guy who has friends and doesn't have OCD obsession with you, a nd guess what she couldn't cope with that with that either
@@camannwordsmith some are
My ex HATED when I stuck to my schedule and went to bed at a good time so I can be up for work in the morning. She hit me with the “wow so sleep is more important than me?!” And I looked her in the eye and just said “Yes.”
Edit: Thank you guys for the supportive comments. I wasn’t expecting the amount of likes or responses, and definitely wasn’t expecting how many people shared the same obstacle I did! Thank you all again!
she said after a good 8 hours of sleep. Good on you for getting a good nights rest
@@Mattar03 meanwhile she stays up all night watching tik toks and struggles to find work but hates on me for prioritizing 🤷🏽♂️
Met a young lady in the 1980's in a club one night. We talked, danced and exchanged phone numbers. Monday morning she called me just before I was going to walk out the door to go to tech school and asked me to come spend the day with her. At the time school was more important. Glad I went that day because the information given was of great importance. The class was Consumer Electronics Repair and that day covered the area where most of the problems occur. I still think I made the right choice...
@@donotneed2250 and if she didn’t understand that, you definitely did make the right choice
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He literally sounds like a normal human. If I had made plans to hangout with the girls and then have to get up early for work or something, I ain't gonna compromise those plans last minute, why should he?
Why can't your significant other come over, too, though? Why is it either or?
@@GoogleAreEnemyCombatants depends on what the plans are. Your significant other doesn't need to be involved in every part of your life. And maybe it was a girls night in like a sleepover or maybe a picnic and they might be uncomfortable as they want only close friends to be there. And it's especially difficult to ask for permission if they can come if it's last minute. And judging by the video example, the significant other wanted to spend time alone with them so it wouldn't work anyway
@@-brxken-7789 there's always excuses to be made. I honestly don't quite know why a woman would want to hang out with a bunch of dudes or help me study for an exam or just sit together watching the same Netflix program I am watching . . . but we wouldn't still be a species if males and females were perfectly rational.
@@GoogleAreEnemyCombatants I do not understand the point you are trying to convey
@@GoogleAreEnemyCombatants Guy's my age?
Had a woman i just met ask me to come over after work. I told that I couldn't because I was going to watch my nephew so my brother could take his wife out for her birthday. I told her i was free pretty much the rest of the week. I explained all of this and thought it was fine. This happened within the first 2 weeks of my employment there. I kid you not, this woman did everything you can imagine to be rude for the next 3 years. I had no idea why she would be rude, because Im not a sociopath. Eventually, after a year, a coworker said that she made it sound like I laughed in her face and cut her down. I couldn't believe it. I located the cell phone i had at that time, showed me texting her a text id sent thanking her and telling her i really would like to do something, and apologizing for any inconvenience. This coworker knew immediately and soon most in the office knew she had lied through her teeth. It didn't take long for her to get called out. She was furious and made the next two years just awful. What trash
"What trash" - and that exactly applies to most women, I mean they just can't accept being rejected. Definitely not all men are behaving classy after rejection, but the intensity level in case of women is much higher.
Lame ah bot response
At least she reaped what she'd sown in the end.
Yeah, some people are so entitled that can't take a no for an answer.
@@piratecody44 ???
Women realizing that gatekeeping sex doesn't work anymore 😂
gotta fight for that C-01 permit o7
In fact, it's an instant red flag and deal breaker.
It never has been worked.
Its only working on naive men.
Yep. Haven't had sex in over a year and I'm actually...kinda fine with it. Taught me how to have more self control and weirdly enough...to have standards.
@@shiro4833 Not even standards... How about dignity... basic human dignity to not devalue yourself to be just a sex object.
Basically, she won't play with her toy nor let you have it. Lots of wisdom in this skit
So we are not even fucking human here?
@@Melon-ALL-Free meaning?
Yeah, the pharisee dilema adapted for the "modern market".
@@konsyansnou8623He's implying that women don't see men as human beings. I think it's meant to be ironic, considering women constantly accuse men of seeing them as objects. I personally choose the bear over this pointless sexist debate
@TheChocoboRacer Oh right, I get the irony of the comment now. There's nothing sexist about it; it's a known fact that people always have and will talk about.
Plot twist: Zach hadnt cleaned his place and needed a plausible reason to push plans back.
I mean that's a valid reason, I do that sometimes too.. If I expect visitors I'll do it ahead of time.. If I don't, place might be a mess, and I won't accept last minute visitors
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It only takes 15 minutes for a man to clean an entire apartment. He would be done before she got there.
@@gussampson5029 That's a wild generalization.
@@gussampson5029 depends on you definition of clean. It take about 15 minutes to clean a bathroom so you're idea of clean for an entire apartment would probably run a female off unless she's dirty too lmao.
Women's double standards amaze me
It's outrageous how out of control they have gotten it has got to stop
Toxic femininity culture needs to be stopped
Some women. Some. Remember the danger of painting whole demographics with the same broad brush - you tend to get splattered.
@@funtimefoxy6699 majority of women found to be like the mentioned traits, it's the general observations which seen 'bout women, this statement/phrase 'bout " don't generalize everyone" is sheer excuse to cover up hypocrisy of woman's psychological behavior traits, women generally don't like to listen truths 'bout 'em
I agree with the sentiment of this video, but isn’t you generalising women having double standards towards men… also a double standard?
Wanted to date this really cute girl in HS but when I asked her out she said she had a bf. She didn’t I checked with a mutual friend.
Ok so one of my female friends said she could fix this and for the next week she made sure the cute girl saw us together. Holding hands. Laughing. Just being together.
I had 1 class on friday with cute girl and she asked me if other girl was my girlfriend.
I said yea but we broke up last night.
Cute girl thought that was awful and said she had no plans for the weekend.
So yea. The she wants you because another girl wants you is crazy but true.
Gives new meaning to wingman, you had a wingwoman.😉👍
Damn dude. Girl #2, your female friend, is a real one. I hope you wife that girl up, because she just dove on that grenade without a second thought.
You lost me at "female friend".
@@jaideepshekhar4621this is why we don't project
@@jaideepshekhar4621 Do you not think it's possible for men to be friends with women?
I wish more women were capable of self reflection and awareness like this.
Definitivamente 👍
She’s literally just appealing to a male demographic by shitting on a made up other woman. She is self aware though. She’s just aware of how to present herself to get male approval online
most are but chose to not be or remain silent
By then its too late and all the FUN was had
The video is fake. FFS.
The "probably because another girl wants him" is almost universally true. None of my female acquaintances gave me the time of day until I was in a relationship. Then I was getting the "I dont know why, but you're looking good lately" 😂 it's nuts.
They're natural homewreckers
then they lose interest if u persue them
What is the psychology behind that? I’ve always noticed that and heard about it, but people like to say it isn’t true. Are men getting universally gaslighted?
Indeed. Let's get some studies!
@@frankjaeger1711 it is definitely true and not just for relationships. Applies to other things like finding a job as well, it is much easier to find a new job when you already have one. This is cuz it shows you are currently employable, similarly having an SO will show you are currently datable. The effect is stronger the more the new sees themselves in the current. It's not how things always work but it is absolutely a pattern of behavior.
I experienced that a year ago and everyone pointed out to me that I was the one who was wrong. I had an important exam and I had to finish it, she texted me at 10pm to go to my house and I told her that I had an important exam, to which she decided to send everything to hell. It took me a lot to realize that not everything was my fault.
It sounds like she expected you to make her your one & only priority in your life as if you have nothing else to do in your life. You made it clear that she's not your one & only priority nor is she the center of your life, so she threw a fit. Everything can't always be a man's fault & women can never nor will ever be always right.
Lol I would've said "I can either hang out with you now, or get my degree and we can be rich and hang out later" money can't buy happiness, but damn is it more comfortable to hang out in your own private home eating name brand snacks watching Netflix on a home theater system. If she can't think long term like that, that's on her.
we live in a deeply misandric gynocentric society. Most men are white knights (simps). Pastors and councilors are even worse than most people always ready to excuse the woman and blame the man. The Bible is not at all like that, dealing out blame equally.
@@bobthegamingtaco6073 Great way of putting it. The same analogy should be used when it comes to either 'buying an expensive engagement/wedding ring OR putting that money on a down payment for a nice home' (instead of having to rent or buy a shitty 'starter' home).
Sounds like one less stupid person in your life and a passed exam. You're the winner
This girl gets it... she told it precisely like it is!
I wonder how long it will take for these women to realize that they've been fed a lie .
A depressingly long time
@@michaeldevlin7747 It's not just the men that are gonna suffer, but they will too with all these BS accusations and unrealistic standards.
Won’t happen until the “pick me” girls are all taken and raising children
They will realize it in about 20 years when the sheer number of single women in their 40's and 50's will genuinely scare the younger generation of females.
Right now, women are being told "be a boss babe" and it will be an amazing life! They have an army of OF girls broadcasting this sentiment, so modern women are sincerely the lowest quality in our society's history.
It won't improve until our society is forced to acknowledge the failure, but we are YEARS and YEARS away from that.
Whatever you do, don't get married 💯
Social engineering in da haus!
I've seen a lot of your shorts recently, and I have to keep telling myself
"No, there really are people this stupid, she's not making it up."
Not really. She’s just extra hyperbolic on her videos. These conversations aren’t realistic it’s clearly scripted with her agenda at the forefront
@PyroMiniYak The only unrealistic part is having such open communication between two women without any lies or ego inflating. I grew up surrounded by women so I'm pretty tired of self destructive narratives.
Its even worse when youve been through asking for like an hour of attention a week and a hug and kiss every once in a while suddenly your victimising them while they are your fiance'. My bike gives me attention whenever i want now 😂
@@PyroMiniYak The unrealistic part here is not the mindset or the conversation. It's the fact a woman is calling another woman out on the bullshit that happens on a daily basis.
Women do not keep one another in check.
@@Kira110lolmaybe because those who are sane enough to call each other out get cornered into their own circles, while the toxic girl culture stick with each other and their gossips
As a almost 49 year old man this is so close to reality that it boils my blood because I have witnessed this many times over in my dating career and I do say career because dating has become a job thanks to you ladies LOL
That sends shivers down my spine. I rather be alone dor eternity, than going through that.
Still a good job 👍
It’s so sad what these evil woman have turned dating into.. a miserable mess. It’s us mens fault for giving them the power to do so.. yet alone rights, logically speaking
When your negative behavior drives away good people, then you deserve all the bad company you have left.
Sounds like my old boss
@@fryncyaryorvjink2140 Girlfriend or wife?
😂@@slockhrt
As a guy I had to learn this the hard way. Solid life lesson. But for those of you out there who have made bad choices, you can always start making the right ones TODAY.
I've always wondered why is it the moment a guy lands himself a girlfriend after being single for years, every creature with two X chromosomes pop out of the woodwork wanting him. WTF??? It never fails.
It's the animalistic instinct. If he's with another woman, that's a sign he's a worthy man, in a tribal sense, capable of taking care of her and any children they may have.
It's because in their mind if he was chosen, it means he's got something of value. If the girlfriend is hot, they want him even more.
Same happened to me when I was married to my ex wife who was easily an 8 looks wise. We would be out shopping together had our wedding bands on and she would sometimes tell me when other women would be looking at me all googly eyed lmaooo. Also when I went out alone, pretty women would approach me and tell what a shame that a hunk like me was married 😂😂😂.
I couldn't believe it because I didn't and never have considered myself to be remotely attractive as a man, but yeah it was crazy. My ex would even get jealous sometimes like dude I can't control someone looking at me 😂😂😂.
I say this all the time. Whenever I’m single there’s rarely any woman around to date or even be interested, but when I’m in a relationship that no longer takes. I find women that is interested in me out of the blue. I reject them as I’m being loyal to my partner, but subconsciously my thoughts be “where was this when I was single?”
@theprogram863that, also social proof, also preselection. So many related words for almost the same idea
You've been validated. Women are risk adverse and rely on second and third opinions much more than men
Fellas it’s the discipline that keeps them around craving more of our time. The minute you give in to their temptation & fall off they’ll be treating you like a weirdo. Keep chasing excellence, God bless 🙏🏾
God bless brotha, God bless us all 🙏🏼
The tricky part is them noticing you to begin with
"For some reason I want him more now," is probably the biggest sign you should steer clear. Women that think of you as a trophy in a competition with their friends are going to make you pretty miserable trying to turn you into their friends' idea of the perfect man.
I want to be a trophy
@@duckner You think you do, but you don't!
"Preselection bias" is a natural instinct. Many women find men who are desired by other women more attractive. But just because women have this instinct doesn't mean they have to let themselves be controlled by it. The good ones don't.
@@peterkottke2570 and we're more likely to see the good ones than we are to win at casino slots, right? .... *Right?*
@@peterkottke2570Thank you. It’s important to recognize biological drives in men and women, but also that we are not beholden to them.
Too often people either ignore one or get jaded by the other
I've been stood up so many times that I have stopped trying to compromise or adjust my plans in order to meet someone. I no longer change concrete plans for things that might happen.
You never should
You're late to the party but we're glad you could make it.
Or until you meet someone who can change your priorities completely.💀
@@lisprn-tt1tuThey’re the ones to stay the furthest away from
That last part...you don't know what you got until somebody else sees you're squandering. You can't make this shit up 💀 😭 🤣
It's refreshing to see an influencer who is sane, thoughtful *and* entertaining.
Perhaps there is hope for humanity after all.
there *Was* hope for Humanity when we had Star Trek the Next Generation.
Now we have an annoying ripoff of Futurama in Starfleet uniforms. We're fresh outta hope!
That fucking ending! "I want him more now", that absolutely tracks! Brilliantly done.
Perfectly done again. Well said.
It's just so fcuking easy to please a guy and yet, most women fail!
Because they don’t care about pleasing their guy, they care about being pleased.
It should be a two-way street, but most women turn it into one-way very quickly.
@@bobsmith5185
Indeed
Women don't want easy. They want a challenge hence the uncontrollable bad boy.
not really. i give my all and they same some bs reason and leave
They either fa, or get mad at how easy it is. Remember the folding chair/tv, game system meme
The moment my hubs canceled a date to pick up an overtime shift, I knew he was mine. He was SO suspicious when I was HAPPY he canceled. lol!
"Time and a half! For GRAVE shift money?! Dear lord, go! I can wait!"
(narrowed eyes) "You're not mad?"
"If I had the opportunity to make that much money, I'd drop you like a a hot potato, baby. Honestly, I can wait another day."
That man 'shit tested' the hell out of me and I passed them all. Married me ten months later.
Bahaha you knew you were with a man that would work hard to provide… smart woman
@@vociferonheraldofthewinter2284but is “shit testing” healthy and a good thing in a relationship? Guys usually don’t like it when a woman does it to them.
@@tommyliu7020 men don't shit test, they simply live and women THINK it is a shit test.
Hint for all the ladies out there. Men don't test you, we simply live and if you make our lives harder instead of easier we move on. We aren't testing you...we simply evaluate things how they are.
Men are simple. Testing someone requires way more effort than we are willing to put into most things.
@@tommyliu7020 Theres good shittesting and bad shittesting. The shit you see on tiktok is the bad kind. Throwing out things that will be dealbreakers if they're not okay or are okay with is important. Find out before you marry and realize you've made a horrible mistake.
You crack me up. I love your content. Great logical advice. I hope the ladies out there are paying attention. Thank you for supporting good men.
Yep .. in the majority of times .. when a woman badmouthes over a "toxic" guy ... it's just her toxicity showing she's pissed she can't control him to the degree she wants to
Yup. Having self respect means one is toxic appearently.
Having any male behavior seems toxic to society, thanks f3minism.
This is all too common. Womanesse translated:
He's an asshole means I can't control him.
He's a narcissist means he knew his worth.
He's controlling means he had boundaries.
He's a cheater means he caught her cheating.
He was crazy means he wouldn't put up with her crazy ass.
How is it that there aren’t more of this lady out here on RUclips?….you making a lot of sense lady
well there's at least 2 of her :)
Because she's an idiot.
@@JeanPaulFernandes looool true that
Because YT wants to spread lies instead of facts.
@@tall_black_man4998 Dadvocate, Emilywking, Mynonleatherlife, AlexanderGrace, Psychhacks, Casey Zander and if you wanna go full rogue, BetterCallGeorge
Thank you for all that you guys do !!!
Can confirm, Zach is amazing
Yea, dude. We do okay.
Nice
I just cackled 😂😂
Lmao 🤣
100%. My boy Zach is a real one.
I had girls hand themselves over to me on a platter, however I couldn’t tell if we were supposed to hook up or not. Never could figure out if it’s okay to make the first move. They would get frustrated, turned off and block me. You have to be ready when they are or you don’t get another chance.
Those girls aren't looking for anything with substance, so the chance was only ever a chance at sleeping with them anyway and probably wouldn't have turned into more
yep.. and as you get older you can look back and realize all the times you fumbled a win
Yeah, just learn game... Escalate the interaction and then it's all ok. I also screwed up many times until learning game and got the balls to escalate
But you escalate and they still get frustrated, turned off, and they still block ya?
@@AnnoyingNewsletters you are doing it wrong or you are reading the situation wrong. Can't tell if I don't know the whole context but believe me when I say this: it's the men's fault the majority of the time
Great video, woman exposing women, due respect.
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
If I get a girl friend that’s like this, I’m immediately setting boundaries. Like I want to wake up every morning to work on my music, read light novels and just exist. I can’t spend every waking moment just feed your attention, I have other duties/hobbies I need to keep track of.
Yh bro. I support u💯
Nah bro, you skip on gf like this and go straight to one who isn't. You can't retrain a self centered person.
I just broke up with someone like this, miss her but I know it was for the best
@@spowdenSorry to hear that man, just out of curiosity was she just too needy for your attention or was there something else? I'm kinda going through a similar situation and trying to decide what to do
@rileybrewington9190 Mine would lash out at any minor inconvenience and refuse to ever admit to being wrong, but the main thing was still just being completely unable to functioning without me for even short periods, which basically sucked away my time and hobbies
You should try talking first, try to reach a compromise (I did, but she would go back on her word) and if that fails, then take more final action
Zach's got options. You want him because you think you can win him over. But Zach is perfectly happy with you coming over when it suits him.
u look just like the type of guy i’d expect to be gorging red pill content 24/7 then regurgitating it on any female video like you’re machievalli. zach is gonna put it in u if u keep this up
That sounds selfish.
@@GoogleAreEnemyCombatants They did word it kinda selfishly. Here: "But Zach is perfectly happy."* He has other things that make him happy and is already happy not to have to rely on you choosing his interactions.
@@GoogleAreEnemyCombatants womp womp, in this hypothetically situation (assuming she's trying to get into a situationship) he doesn't owe the girl anything... if someone doesn't like how you act they can move on, and if they don't that's on them
@@Co_OpGreg that sounds selfish. Are you disagreeing or just acting like a @#$&?
This is so spot on! I chased a girl I had a crush on for almost 5 years. She led me on and never gave me a chance. Then, I got into a relationship with someone else. The girl I had chased for all that time all of the sudden asks me, why am I not pursuing her. I told her, straight to her face, because I found someone else. I proudly walked away after that
"I've seen this before and it always ends badly"
"Who was the one that ended it?"
Well, the video implied that he ended it with his cheating, hence, why other chick theorized that her insecurity in this situation was based on being ditched by Chad in the past.
@@danjonmillswe must have watched a different video, nothing about cheating.
Only toxic thing mentioned is her trying to control guys
Yo! If you want to pick up women, tell them you are involved. You have to have body guards to keep them away.
I used to wear a wedding ring when I went out. It worked.
I tried telling my mom how well this worked, and she came back with, "You don't want the kind of girl that works on." Sorry, mom. Tried to be gay but that wasn't fun. So it's these hoes or PHub.
@@RichardLeslieWhereatthats sad..those kind of women are trash! Run!
This is so true. I've had women hit on me when I was married. Avoid those women at all costs! smh!!
@@scatcat420 and if you split, God forbid, they will not be there. When single, could not barely get a date, be involved, wow, they come out of the woodwork.
I appreciate women like this taking the time to put these 30 sec reality checks out.
I have seen a few of your videos around from time to time and I must say that I never thought that I would find a chick that actually uses logic in a relationship so good for you and you have yourself a mighty fine day.
This touched on a ton of good points!
You know, most of your videos are spot on. Thank you for validating some feelings
BwaHahahaaaa
This is helpful in reminding me why I prefer to be single, work hard, and do what I want.
The MGTOW life is the best life. I've been a lifelong adherent and never regretted it.
Preach it. Women. Not even once.
Hit the center of the target with this one! Except the subject is likely just a bit of a narcissist so she’s not likely to have any insights or accept any. She will move on to a softer target. He’s yours!
Yo billie u be speaking facts appreciate ya
Jack Nicholson was so correct in how he defines a woman:
I just think of a man and then remove reason and accountability.
In all the immature examples, it is so. ☕
In all fairness, Jack Nicholson is one of the worst guys to take advice from. He has decades of both adultery and physical assault of several of his ex gfs under his belt.
The guy never loved One woman
Thats why
@@dharma6525 you can either love women, or understand women (accepting them for what they do and expect from you), can't do both.
And if you say you do both, i know you're lying.
@@KaiserNightcoreMusic kinda based, ngl
Live these skits showing the real side of women's logic ( or lack of)." Putting herself on a platter"- no... wanting and receiving constant attention!!
Love the ending too- it's so true!!
Zach agrees and says thank u and really appreciates the super kind compliments bc he really works hard to show others that when u really care about someone it isn't going out of your way to do something nice for someone you love. It's just how the flow should go and a normal, Loving, caring, NON-TOXIC relationship:). It's all good vibes and happy days ahead & an awesome, beautiful, amazingly, stunningly next level and game changing a relationship can be when two people are on the EXACT same page, hell same freakin letter on the same word lol
is it possible for a lady to say any of these things IRL and not get immediately b-slapped by the lady next to them? What is the actual real cost of being this up-front with the TRUTH??
Mostly being ostracized and called names, because that's how female competition goes. She'd be called a pick-me.
I love your videos Billie. I love a self disciplined hubsand in my life because he's a very mature guy. We both had self control to wait until marriage to break our virginity together even though we was struggling with lusting temptations but I'm glad that our marriage is godly and biblical.
Based and Christ-pilled. Bless you and your family ❤
❤❤❤ Well done
Your virginity is already broken.
THANK YOU!!! Finally, a virtuous, smart(you know how to reach a public), intelligent and wise(straight-up facts!) woman!
What also tracks is the fact that she didn’t start liking him until she deemed him an “asshole”
Even an idiot feels smart just listening to what some women say. My forehead is bursting from so many facepalms over the years. When all this crap started in the 2010s. And now in the 2020s it's getting worse and worse. 🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️
Was it this bad in the 2000s? Cause I can't tell.
And it didn't seem too bad (at least for me) in the 2010s, but yeah in the 2020s it has gotten WAAAAYYYY out of hand.
@@suryasingh9738 Maybe it started small there. But the issue of feminism serving to oppress men was already there. Wikipedia talks about different waves. However, I know that this stupidity became more and more popular in the 2010s. I see this especially in German talk shows. Women's rights activists would be ashamed of the things that are being discussed today. Both on social media and in private life. Normal interaction between men and women must be restored. Otherwise it will be the norm for children to grow up without a father or mother. And that they themselves will be disturbed by their parents' inability to have a relationship. All this bullshit started in the 2010s at least. Maybe it got going in the 00s, but definitely not earlier.
This has been going on long before the 2010s, pretty much since the beginning of the species.
Early 2000’s it seems
I really enjoy your advocacy for sane relationships
Pure logic and reasoning, bravo
Golden rule my brothers, Never ever forget it.... Women always want what they can't have!!!(repeat)
Only the women that aren't even worth it.
It will never be enough. So give them NOTHING!!!!!
To the guy: RUN!!
Yes, its a red flag. But I believe it can be solved with communication. No one is perfect, you aren't, your partner won't be. If she's not going to compromise, then its best for you to move on, but not without trying first.
I wish more women saw this video
Watching doesn´t mean seeing. Knowing doesn´t mean understanding.
@@roman_kofyno True
It’s nice seeing women finally address how toxic they can be. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The fact that my name is Zac and I also hit the gym, have a good night sleep because of my early morning start, and try and organise a “make up” catch up with you. Feels REALLY close to home.
Factsss and they will say that men try to control women but they be trying to control us over nothing but feelings 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
Such Wisdom Darlin ❤
It’s actually simpler. He demonstrated value by not cancelling his plans for a chance to get laid. It means he knows he can get laid easily. Women who recognize that, realize he’s valuable to other women, and ultimately, women seek valuable men.
basically, he’s not won over by sex
Won over by how many women want them.
Poor judgment skills
This is a fictional scenario though.
Nailed it!
Thank you for really pointing that out!
What can I say, bros and barbells.
LOL. Ms. White dress probably doesn't really want Zach. If she did, she should have kept her mouth shut, waited for the inevitable breakup, and then pounced.
Asking, "If you don't want him, can I have him?" just pushed black sweatshirt into holding on.
Not sure if Zach should thank her or not. 😂
I mean, it's more honest to ask flat out than to sit back and wait for them to break up. Yeah it didn't work out in this case but better to ask now than have your friend think you were waiting to "steal her man"
where did you get the assumption they're dating?
That was kinda the point
It's the same person.
Love your videos. They always hit the nail on the head. Perfect 👌
“If you don’t want him, can I have him?”
“For some reason, I want him more now 🤔”
Nailed it 😂
Zach will eventually see her for what she is, blow her back out and move on. It will be her fault because of her previous issues with men being so profound she didn't notice the win she was given.
can confirm
But if he pumps her and dumps her then wouldn't that make her right about him?
(kidding, of course)
You’re on the right track young lady.
This is FACTS
Women don't like disciplined women either.
This is so on point! Solid content miss
“I’m literally handing it to him on a platter.” Lol!
Why is the algorithm suddenly sending me all these pickme girls and divorced dads? Google picked me for incel bait or something...
God bless you good to have some girls speaking for the Guys
My first girlfriend in the UK was terrible for this. My Air Force career suffered because she couldn't get with the fact that i had responsibilities to the military first and she came second. A lot of her friends with military boyfriends did the same.
Your channel is the healthiest on the internet.
This is so spot on 🎯
Reminds of that I am not used to a woman producing content were we men get respect, that I feel weird about you for doing so.
"I wouldn't call that a no..."
Uhm, guy literally said "I wish but I've got some friends coming over already, and I need to be up early for the gym."
So yeah, he actually did say no 🤷♂️
But yeah the rest of this is spot on.
Sounds more like a "maybe later" to me.
Perfect… Couldn’t have written that better myself.
"Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." - Al Bundy
I've been looking forward to this.
Preach the truth. Guys walk away from that expectant stuff
This is true. It’s just women don’t acknowledge it or say it out loud.
Perfect illustrated and crazy… women start to understand who the real enemy is: whispering devil inside 😅
Your insight is tremendous
That guy below like a man who can control his emotions and urges is a powerful man'm like I could tell her no if I really wanted to the whole issue with me is I'd still rather tell my friends my plans had changed.
Easy enough to refuse because i've already got plans with mine. But why would I?
My God there’s so much truth in this one, and I’m sure that much of it also applies to men as well but maybe not everything. Men think way differently, obviously. But that final part was so insanely true that I couldn’t help but laugh and think about how many times it’s happened to me.
Lol the last part is very true. I don’t date because of my religion but when I posted about my engagement I got so many messages from random accounts who knew me. One of them even sent messages to my wife (she was still my fiancé at the time) saying that I cheated with her. Very bizarre
So true. If another woman wants him she will take him. We will not wait around for you.
Wowwwww. You should bring justice to this Zach guy…cause then he’d be Zach Justice…
Been there plenty of times. These girls usually don’t have much going on, pull you away from your goals and eventually you will go your separate ways.
Glad to see more people calling out the nonsense ❤