I don’t talk so much anymore @havvaofficial_

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  • @Pass12380
    @Pass12380 9 месяцев назад +2989

    Me too. But I have learned that God is always there for me❤ and God is all I need.

    • @carlaspence436
      @carlaspence436 9 месяцев назад +18

      Is God real??? Where is he?

    • @carlaspence436
      @carlaspence436 9 месяцев назад +23

      I'm happy you have him😊

    • @liliesandlavenders
      @liliesandlavenders 9 месяцев назад +30

      Soo trueee Amennnn❤

    • @cupcakecutie671
      @cupcakecutie671 9 месяцев назад +38

      Aman God is the only one that will get you through anything it's hard God will prevail.

    • @desiree2299
      @desiree2299 9 месяцев назад +23

      Amen 🙏🏽 ✨️ ❤️

  • @allanlivingstone4085
    @allanlivingstone4085 9 месяцев назад +1147

    So true, when you laugh, everyone laughs with you, but when you cry, you cry alone,

    • @MarkoTiano
      @MarkoTiano 8 месяцев назад +18

      Perhaps you have to find someone that will cry with you...there is people like that out her.

    • @mirianalogara2909
      @mirianalogara2909 8 месяцев назад +10

      So sad, hopefully we all find that type of people.

    • @J.W.vanVeen
      @J.W.vanVeen 8 месяцев назад +2

      Beautiful comment @allanlivingstone4085.. And so true 😢 God bless you..

    • @KarenLazarus-e5d
      @KarenLazarus-e5d 8 месяцев назад +6

      🫂🕊️…
      Learning to reach out …
      Be still and know God ( Jesus is your best friend) the moments you feel isolated 😢… pray to the creator and yes there is a season for even emotional awareness… empathy and kindness 🫂
      Jesus said to ASK…
      Ask
      Seek
      Knock 🕊️
      Tears are prayers
      Smiles are prayers
      Laughter with God’s joy is Prayer …
      Being Awed by your reaction to your moment in the now … being present in your Now
      Intimacy is a woven fabric of all the seasons in your life…
      We are learning to wear our fabric well 🕊️
      Grateful for your share and 🫂🕊️

    • @ΕιρηνηΒοσσου
      @ΕιρηνηΒοσσου 8 месяцев назад +6

      Jesus will cry with you and laugh with you. He sympathises with you at all moments

  • @asrajjitkaur
    @asrajjitkaur 8 месяцев назад +256

    “Life has humbled me and made me very quiet.” >>> deep words 😩🙌🏼

    • @alysonhoneycutt6496
      @alysonhoneycutt6496 8 месяцев назад +1

      😂🤣. So true

    • @almightydtr
      @almightydtr 8 месяцев назад +1

      It hit different

    • @elgatofelix1011
      @elgatofelix1011 8 месяцев назад +6

      Our Creator has given us his Love , how's that grab you ?
      He sent his Son to teach us and even die for us .

    • @Mr_Goodall_CD
      @Mr_Goodall_CD 8 месяцев назад

      A humble woman? That’s rare

  • @savvylonewolf
    @savvylonewolf 7 месяцев назад +17

    Exactly what I'm feeling right now. You said it beautifully

  • @nirmailchohan1328
    @nirmailchohan1328 8 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely I hear you ❤

  • @andreeadiana3155
    @andreeadiana3155 8 месяцев назад +249

    I also learnt that I don't want to speak about my problems. I face them effectively, I bring them out to God. And if I'm sad, is ok to cry and bring it out to the Lord too! He is my strength and my rock!🙏 ❤

    • @cuhweensojuicy7886
      @cuhweensojuicy7886 8 месяцев назад +8

      This right here is how I feel yesss

    • @sw9868
      @sw9868 8 месяцев назад +8

      Yes, this is how you lament. Lament is a very powerful tool. Pour out your heart to God- all the hurt and pain- then get up and continue to trust that He's got it all under His control. 🙌🏽

    • @Dinalizz
      @Dinalizz 8 месяцев назад

      This is me

    • @faithNprayer73
      @faithNprayer73 8 месяцев назад

      YESSS, so very true. People can be so selfish and not want to hear what you're going through My brother actually told me he and his wife are too old for drama. You know what I told them? I said, I want to end my life 😔 I truly felt that. It's sad but God is always there to listen and the holy spirit will guide you 🙏 ✝️💛⚘

    • @marya494
      @marya494 8 месяцев назад +4

      ​@faithNprayer73 Please never take that action. Know that you are here for a reason, you deserve this life. May God always bless you, we love you! 🩷

  • @staygold1285
    @staygold1285 9 месяцев назад +140

    She literally spoke my heart out . Spot on sis

    • @bethlehemnegussie8547
      @bethlehemnegussie8547 8 месяцев назад +1

      💜💜💜same here, in the same boat💜💜💜

    • @adoridaktari
      @adoridaktari 8 месяцев назад +1

      At least,speak with your Creator ,pour your heart out to him,depression crawls in when you program your mind sadly,you are enough attitude, smile with yourself.

    • @penelope.571
      @penelope.571 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yup💕

    • @Gigi30107
      @Gigi30107 8 месяцев назад

      ✔️

  • @williamramirez8097
    @williamramirez8097 9 месяцев назад +199

    I dont know who you are, but your words I felt in the depth of my soul and I want you to know you aren't alone ... every word you said I understood so well

    • @JulioGuadalupe-ui4zv
      @JulioGuadalupe-ui4zv 8 месяцев назад +9

      I think this is the problem and it continues to foster an environment that hinders wounds from healing. Lack of communication. Everyone’s thoughts and feelings are valid and should be heard. For once in my life, I’m realizing that it’s not a burden for others to hear my points of view and how I feel about certain matters. This is what we need more of and positive communication needs to be nurtured , not suppressed. As individuals we need to go out of our way to ask our friends and family how they’re feeling and what are they thinking about especially if they tend to be more introverted, such as I have been the majority of my life. i’m grateful that I’ve had family and friends that have in the past listened to me no matter how difficult it was for them to understand my points of view.

    • @CHOOSE_TO_BE_U
      @CHOOSE_TO_BE_U 8 месяцев назад +7

      I want to be able to hold a space for others. We, as humans, all need to be heard!! If we do not seek out SAFE, kind, caring, trustworthy people we are doomed to a life of isolation and overwhelming loneliness. There are good people out there, we just have to be ever so wise & discerning asking God to connect us with the right people who get us.

    • @cuhweensojuicy7886
      @cuhweensojuicy7886 8 месяцев назад +2

      Same brother blessings

    • @drnpkessler3521
      @drnpkessler3521 8 месяцев назад +7

      I am so sorry. The world is a tough place these days. I send hugs and peace to you.

    • @marijaparlov2101
      @marijaparlov2101 8 месяцев назад

      Mr.@wiliamramirez8097, I think you two should talk more, wish you both much happiness

  • @jenniferjuteram5145
    @jenniferjuteram5145 8 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely true! So I've discovered as well. Be strong ❤

  • @aryeh3701
    @aryeh3701 8 месяцев назад +1

    I feel the same way 💯Amen sista.

  • @123_iseeyou
    @123_iseeyou 8 месяцев назад +324

    She took the words right out of my mouth… Listening to her almost made me sob… My friends weren’t really my friends same goes with the majority of my family… I feel numb at times…. The only comfort I have is getting closer to GOD…🙏🏼

    • @arlene-is-here
      @arlene-is-here 8 месяцев назад +10

      Same here. I feel alone

    • @123_iseeyou
      @123_iseeyou 8 месяцев назад +8

      @@arlene-is-here I had seen a really funny episode of “I Love Lucy” of where she felt the same as us and she was crying and she said, she felt friendless. Now, I dont find it funny at all.

    • @rissas7265
      @rissas7265 8 месяцев назад +4

      I did cry and I’m still crying😢

    • @RobertButler-dp8oj
      @RobertButler-dp8oj 8 месяцев назад +6

      But why do friends act like they care when they really don’t

    • @The_Void_
      @The_Void_ 8 месяцев назад +4

      Can relate. Keep your head up 🙂

  • @Jocelynthebrownfox
    @Jocelynthebrownfox 8 месяцев назад +4

    Beautifully, and Truly Said.

  • @inesita3495
    @inesita3495 8 месяцев назад +248

    This kind of thinking means you are maturing! It hurts a little at first but it makes you more resilient

    • @jessicakrystal1986
      @jessicakrystal1986 8 месяцев назад +3

      And she’s only halfway there because she doesn’t realize how she spoke too much. She thought she was more important than us. Now she knows

    • @LP3me
      @LP3me 7 месяцев назад +4

      Exactly. I don’t know why people think this is unusual. As you get older you don’t crying to mommy and daddy whenever you had a tough day or week, you deal with it and move on. You don’t cast your problems on others so they can reassure you that you’ll be ok, you figure out that if you keep driving on, you will be ok. No need to burden others with your daily life problems. It’s called living.

    • @bananaboyTS
      @bananaboyTS 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@LP3me😢

    • @bananaboyTS
      @bananaboyTS 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@LP3mebro its called being a human, we arent meant to go thorugh everything without community

    • @LP3me
      @LP3me 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@bananaboyTS I agree with what you’re saying bro. But I stand by what I said also. You don’t need to lay out every life problem to your friends or family, you have to learn to get through stuff on your own. But yes we aren’t meant to have community and help each other out. Neither of my parents have been involved in my life since a teenager my parents were split as a child so I’ve just had a little less people to call for help in my adult life, so I’ve learned to manage most things on my own. But, friends and family are of course more important than anything else in this world. That and belief and faith in Jesus Christ. Just my opinion.

  • @CClark-cn7mh
    @CClark-cn7mh 8 месяцев назад +1

    I feel this message.

  • @edenpuna9302
    @edenpuna9302 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is the most truest ❤

  • @mariarheadeclaro7121
    @mariarheadeclaro7121 9 месяцев назад +39

    💯true…..when it comes to my problems or burdens I keep it to myself because no one will understand it…..I talk to God all my problems and it will make me better and stronger

  • @stephaniehoward3912
    @stephaniehoward3912 9 месяцев назад +28

    Miss Lady you're spot on. Woe me to their's truth to every single word you said. Agree❤

  • @DNB7227
    @DNB7227 9 месяцев назад +225

    This is true. In my profession, I talk to many people. They'll share their life story with me. The moment I attempt to share mine, they interrupt. So I don't share much anymore. I just listen.

    • @abbeysart
      @abbeysart 8 месяцев назад +23

      I guess that's the price we pay for being good listeners

    • @thedailyshare622
      @thedailyshare622 8 месяцев назад +11

      Same. And then I went and got married with closest friends and immediate family only. They got upset I didn't tell them. It's all or nothing. Living my best life quietly and peacefully now.

    • @andreeadiana3155
      @andreeadiana3155 8 месяцев назад +5

      You are doing a great job to humanity by listening to those people! Sometimes you might be the only person who actually listened to what they had to say. Also some people need to hear themselves to be able to sort out their problems. And most people are addicted to their phones due to work, studying, pleasure, even friendship, everything was made to be done in front of a screen and when they meet people they can't contain and take turns in speaking.
      I relate to this as well and it doesn't get me anymore. I speak when is my turn and if I have something to say.
      We have 1 mouth and 2 ears.
      Blessings 🙏❤️

    • @kimjul5536
      @kimjul5536 8 месяцев назад +1

      So true...

    • @debbiewilder4738
      @debbiewilder4738 8 месяцев назад +3

      I am so sorry that happens to you. I am absolutely terrible about interrupting. I have trauma and I babble because I get disregulated and I don't listen to my son's the way that I should and it kills me. I absolutely hate it. I just wanted you to know that. Sometimes people are too messed up to hear but sometimes they don't care and that's horrible.

  • @kellyandre1963
    @kellyandre1963 8 месяцев назад +1

    💯 Agree. Thank you for being so honest. And I am sorry for your pain.

  • @dora7557
    @dora7557 8 месяцев назад

    Amen. Preach it!!

  • @pamelakilgore7836
    @pamelakilgore7836 9 месяцев назад +139

    God send herYou and people that love her in Jesus name amen

  • @alihall676
    @alihall676 9 месяцев назад +24

    Stunning message, yet very accurate. People want to be with you when the smiles are in full swing, but when life gets hard, you’re on your own. 😢

  • @andrea.campana
    @andrea.campana 9 месяцев назад +28

    This is spot-on and highly relatable.

  • @tiffanyj3245
    @tiffanyj3245 8 месяцев назад +1

    True words that hit hard.

  • @annavillalpando4872
    @annavillalpando4872 8 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely exactly how I feel 🎯

  • @-Mamba
    @-Mamba 9 месяцев назад +341

    People don't want to hear about your burdens. In case it burdens them.

    • @emilyc3218
      @emilyc3218 8 месяцев назад +12

      It's sad how true this is.

    • @chestchirecateyes
      @chestchirecateyes 8 месяцев назад +8

      But we do the same thing, don't we?

    • @er_5406
      @er_5406 8 месяцев назад +8

      I personally don't. When I love you I care for you. If I don't genuinely love you, you won't be a close friend.​@@chestchirecateyes

    • @cirella1064
      @cirella1064 8 месяцев назад +5

      @@er_5406 agreed. Im selective who I give this gift to. And so, I choose to have only 1-2 true friends.

    • @AliciatheCho
      @AliciatheCho 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@chestchirecateyesSpeak for yourself. Some people understand what emotional support means

  • @Yaya-lu8bs
    @Yaya-lu8bs 8 месяцев назад +21

    Life has taught me to share and talk to God.....he always listen.😮😮😮😮😮😮 My everything ♥ ❤ 💖 💕

  • @sherrydavis3309
    @sherrydavis3309 9 месяцев назад +14

    She is speaking my truth!!!

    • @MarkoTiano
      @MarkoTiano 8 месяцев назад +1

      You ll be fine, trust me. Trust in yourself...the most. We will all leave alone one day anyways. But know that you are here for a reason, one day you ll find that reason 100%

  • @babs4reel
    @babs4reel 7 месяцев назад +2

    This hit home. I feel the same way. I’m not the open happy hearted person I used to be. Life will do that.

  • @HaitianBlackGinger11
    @HaitianBlackGinger11 8 месяцев назад +69

    This is exactly where I am right now in life. You said it so eloquently.

    • @deepikajain8070
      @deepikajain8070 7 месяцев назад +2

      Same here

    • @anorganism8913
      @anorganism8913 7 месяцев назад +1

      Same here. Wow. The YT algorithm wants to save its consumers.

    • @deestefmorr
      @deestefmorr 7 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤

    • @lorettavanwyk4272
      @lorettavanwyk4272 7 месяцев назад

      Absobloominlutely true!!!

    • @jennifermckenzie14
      @jennifermckenzie14 7 месяцев назад

      Hey Haitian Black yes she did and you can hear me in her like if I was saying it. I am Trinidad and I hope that over time life will change for me and all of us who are hurting. I learn to love myself more now cause I looked out for others amd now my time is now no ones around so I do things that I love and enjoy to make me happy. I wish you all d best dont wallow in sorrow pls

  • @lowcandy8801
    @lowcandy8801 9 месяцев назад +58

    100% true. I am so so quiet that I don't talk anymore

  • @catherinepridgeon1311
    @catherinepridgeon1311 8 месяцев назад +162

    That's when I learned the POWER OF JESUS AND HE HEARS MY CRY... AMEN 👼🏾🙏🏾💙🎯...🪖🇺🇲🎖️🙋🏾💪🏾💯👼🏾🙏🏾💙🌍🎯

  • @chiquitadixon8463
    @chiquitadixon8463 9 месяцев назад +14

    This young lady is a real one. I can relate to every word she just said in how I have been living since I was a child.😢❤❤

  • @monicahawkins1388
    @monicahawkins1388 7 месяцев назад +19

    I've learned that I've never been alone, God has always been with me.
    Glory to God in Jesus name Amen.

  • @Coted1988
    @Coted1988 8 месяцев назад +1

    It's very true. She put it into words so beautifully..

  • @coleenblack1
    @coleenblack1 8 месяцев назад +45

    You described me in a nutshell. People only to hear when I'm happy and have something to give. When I'm sad I'm always on my own So I keep that side of me to myself

    • @UnnamedPodcast_Uprising
      @UnnamedPodcast_Uprising 8 месяцев назад

      This is everyone these days. Welcome to absolute individualism. Blame America.

    • @juhi4
      @juhi4 8 месяцев назад

      Truth!

  • @SkyForeman-s1b
    @SkyForeman-s1b 9 месяцев назад +13

    I feel this so deeply

  • @kjshow4173
    @kjshow4173 9 месяцев назад +43

    In 5 decades, I've learned to trust myself and both of the service dogs that I've trained. Other people? Not so much. Always move forward. Always bet on yourself.

    • @Xenazion9834
      @Xenazion9834 8 месяцев назад +2

      This hurts. I wish it was easy to do what you do.

    • @kjshow4173
      @kjshow4173 8 месяцев назад +1

      Cerebral palsy and epilepsy have given me unique windows to view the human condition. Both of my dogs have helped me stay clean and sober. One day at a time.

  • @brendacunningham5070
    @brendacunningham5070 7 месяцев назад +5

    Agreed...💚💚💚💚IT IS Divine Balance...IT IS Divine Universe GOD With Me...And No Matter Who Does Things For Me...I Know IT ALL Comes From GOD...ALL Divine Doors Will Open...ALL Divine Possibilities ARE Here For Me NOW In This NEW NOW Era And Age Transition 💚💚💚💚🦅🦅🦅🦅

  • @sherrywilliams401
    @sherrywilliams401 8 месяцев назад

    you are all you have.....and all you need. well said.

  • @anjureetun7449
    @anjureetun7449 9 месяцев назад +11

    I’m the same like you. I’ve learned the hardest way from every walks of life .And I’m very quiet and prefer keep to myself . Kudos all what you’ve just said.

    • @RobertButler-dp8oj
      @RobertButler-dp8oj 8 месяцев назад +1

      Me too. Do you agree it’s better to keep to yourself than with fake people ?

  • @bertaberta923
    @bertaberta923 9 месяцев назад +100

    There is God, healing is possible with Him❤

  • @marj6377
    @marj6377 8 месяцев назад +58

    100%!!!!! I’ve definitely felt that way. People don’t really want to hear about what ails you. “When you’re better, they want to play, and when you’re bad, you’re on your own.” Deep. Sobering.

    • @jacquelinebenjamin6317
      @jacquelinebenjamin6317 8 месяцев назад

      Take all you burden, joy, pain and sadness to God. God knows you and will heal and bring you peace.❤

    • @maryassumpta2230
      @maryassumpta2230 7 месяцев назад

      You are not alone. God, the Holy Spirit is in you and with you at all times. Stay Blessed ❤🙏🏾

  • @PapaCasual
    @PapaCasual 8 месяцев назад +5

    Being young is speaking, and being old is listening. Being wise is caring.

  • @danakirby2298
    @danakirby2298 8 месяцев назад

    Amen 🙏🏾. That’s the complete truth in a nut shell 👌🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @symplynice747
    @symplynice747 8 месяцев назад +54

    For me God is all i have.... Cos even i disappoint myself sometimes, but God has never disappointed me

  • @latishaosullivan5912
    @latishaosullivan5912 8 месяцев назад +32

    To be honest,the eyes say it all.
    Sadness & pain in the eyes is a giveaway!
    I’ve tried to hide pain before but it shows!
    Don’t ever suffer alone!

    • @trrt1477
      @trrt1477 8 месяцев назад +2

      There are times suffering alone is best. If no response, let them go.

  • @talithakoum1266
    @talithakoum1266 8 месяцев назад +53

    There is someone who will not only listen but also bear your burdens ❤️

    • @bariniagumbs2522
      @bariniagumbs2522 8 месяцев назад +10

      and is the one and only who really cares, And he’s name is JESUS CHRIST ❤🙏

    • @maryassumpta2230
      @maryassumpta2230 7 месяцев назад +5

      God listens

  • @gee1081
    @gee1081 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is actually a beautiful mindset to have.. its sort of like a gift....

  • @frisidasinani1805
    @frisidasinani1805 7 месяцев назад +1

    Her words hit me hard 😢 this is exactly how I feel. I was always the one who cared about everyone. My family, my friends, even as a nurse I cared about everyone. But when I got diagnosed with Leukemia 2 years ago, I found out who the real ones are. And unfortunately just a few. 😢

  • @ChiagoziemNdili-kq4iq
    @ChiagoziemNdili-kq4iq 8 месяцев назад +28

    That is why i picture the world as a me in my mothers womb...because i knew nobody and was by myself for a whole 9 months, but i kept on perfecting and developing myself😊😊

    • @OwenMaxwell-jr2ib
      @OwenMaxwell-jr2ib 8 месяцев назад +1

      Your mother nourished you and helped you grow during those 9 months .. imagine a mother drinking while you are in her belly ..
      My mother did ..
      Even if you now feel that you were all alone in that 9 months , you couldn't see the food she nourished you with and the clean water she drank to keep your environment clean ..
      You don't remember she spoke to you so that you knew who she was when you were born ..
      God's the same way ..
      We just don't sometimes realize we aren't really ever alone ..

  • @EllenExton-m6p
    @EllenExton-m6p 9 месяцев назад +67

    Fair weather friends in today's world. Relationships have really changed and people do not care.

  • @shellbellhealing
    @shellbellhealing 9 месяцев назад +69

    Learnt this too ❤ keep your problems to yourself. People always leave if you over share. They cant handle this level of pain ❤

    • @cuhweensojuicy7886
      @cuhweensojuicy7886 8 месяцев назад +3

      It's so sad and weak asf I think

    • @shamzo2492
      @shamzo2492 8 месяцев назад +5

      You're never alone. You can always confide in the Holy Spirit. He's here for you always, you just have to have the desire for the relationship. You can be guided every moment of each day and know that in spirit, you're never alone. Lots of love and blessings to you x

    • @favouragbozo8297
      @favouragbozo8297 8 месяцев назад +2

      I learnt that the hard way

    • @ΕιρηνηΒοσσου
      @ΕιρηνηΒοσσου 8 месяцев назад +4

      Give them to Jesus he cares for you and He wants you to give him your burdens so you will have rest in Him.

    • @unpredictableAB-
      @unpredictableAB- 8 месяцев назад +2

      Right, but people have the nerve to ask, " How are you doing?" If you know the person, they just want information.

  • @speedgenius9918
    @speedgenius9918 7 месяцев назад +1

    I hope she gets to meet the right people on her life.

  • @Yettobeprovedwrong
    @Yettobeprovedwrong 8 месяцев назад +1

    Please know that you are definitely not alone!

  • @The90dayvegan
    @The90dayvegan 7 месяцев назад +6

    Tis true! I was venting to a friend and she just blurted out she didn’t wanna hear my problems. From that day forward, I keep my mouth shut and just deal with it in solitude.

  • @capersradio
    @capersradio 8 месяцев назад +85

    This is so sad. There are people, such as myself, who truly understand that friendship means listening to what hurts as well as sharing the good times. I've found that, if you ask, God will send you a friend.

    • @eyewano1088
      @eyewano1088 8 месяцев назад +2

      You are lucky. You are the 1 out of 10.

    • @jeanneauger1722
      @jeanneauger1722 8 месяцев назад

      Very true! ❤

    • @SaskiaBrown-d5h
      @SaskiaBrown-d5h 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah ask god hahaha I need to tell that to the starving children! They just have to ask god! But maybe u are just more important that’s why he helped u and not the dead children ❤

  • @rejiakhatun2599
    @rejiakhatun2599 9 месяцев назад +7

    Your so true sister I agree 💯

  • @joie3142
    @joie3142 7 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve been left with life’s scars, inflicted upon me by others. I will never be quiet again!

  • @shellycintron2804
    @shellycintron2804 8 месяцев назад

    Amén Praise God 🙏🏻 🙌
    He's with us 😇🙏🏻🙌

  • @platinumstudio6735
    @platinumstudio6735 8 месяцев назад +13

    Surrender it all to God sis. You’re never alone. He will heal you beyond your understanding. Praying for you 🫶🏾

  • @maryscanlon1407
    @maryscanlon1407 9 месяцев назад +14

    I have just came across ur video for the first time and omg it feels like ur speaking about me exactly 😢😢💔. tuning in from Ireland

  • @charlisephilson5210
    @charlisephilson5210 8 месяцев назад +1

    Straight No Chaser! Yep!🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @tnt3929
    @tnt3929 8 месяцев назад

    So true!!!😢 stop telling people about your burdens and problems..feelings. They don't want to hear about it anyway.

  • @QIKWIA
    @QIKWIA 9 месяцев назад +6

    💯Right, my beautiful sister!
    Life has quieted me as i get older...
    I don't have too much to say nowadays, but i damn for sure listen more...
    I sometimes look back and realize how much fkg time I've wasted on nonsense and people i should've never even said "hello" to...
    Quiet is good now...its my peace

    • @RobertButler-dp8oj
      @RobertButler-dp8oj 8 месяцев назад +1

      How peaceful do you feel now that you listen more

    • @QIKWIA
      @QIKWIA 8 месяцев назад

      ​@RobertButler-dp8oj
      🙋🏽‍♀️
      💯 more than I used to just a little over a year ago...
      The world has sadly and tragically imploded, and "people" have fallen victim to the ills of this jacked up artificial society.
      The toxic playgrounds on SM has a lot to do with my newfound views because of the mostly fake narcissistic and hypocritical people that feed/play on it.
      I've distanced myself from it a lot, and now, i live a more peaceful, enjoyable and quieter life than before.
      My emotional, mental, physiological, physical and spiritual health are finally healing and is much stronger.
      ... the toxic energy that was once prominent in my life is dissipating..
      The calmness has brought me to a place of satisfaction and contentment.
      😂 That's why God gave us all ONE mouth and TWO ears!
      Hope i made sense😂
      Peace!🙏🏿

  • @purplebuttafly8
    @purplebuttafly8 9 месяцев назад +7

    Exactly 💯

  • @jazzyblue4047
    @jazzyblue4047 8 месяцев назад +83

    Burdens are lifted at Calvary. Jesus said, "Come to me all who are weary and heavy laden and I will give you rest." Ladies and gentlemen there is a Friend in Jesus, he Loves Y'all, Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @Andiswa-bj9zd
    @Andiswa-bj9zd 8 месяцев назад +1

    When days are dark friends are few😢😢😢

  • @ShaneshaF
    @ShaneshaF 8 месяцев назад

    Omg I so resonate with this message.

  • @tanmont3141
    @tanmont3141 9 месяцев назад +8

    OMG. Sounds exactly like me!!!! There needs to be a new definition of family out there. Sure isn't what my Dad taught me what it should be. My friends are my family!!!!!

  • @cetexjay1119
    @cetexjay1119 8 месяцев назад +8

    😢😢😢so true..I've been a widow for past 6 months now and I have seen this changes happening so quickly..nobody wants to know my burdens

    • @margaretpeelen3968
      @margaretpeelen3968 8 месяцев назад +1

      Sorry for your loss 😢

    • @cetexjay1119
      @cetexjay1119 8 месяцев назад

      @@margaretpeelen3968 thank you..much appreciated 🙏

    • @carolineroberts646
      @carolineroberts646 8 месяцев назад

      So sorry for your loss Ma'am...I pray you will find true solace in the Lord Jesus Christ!

    • @cetexjay1119
      @cetexjay1119 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@carolineroberts646 AMEN 🙏 Thank you and GOD BLESS YOU aswell..

    • @carolineroberts646
      @carolineroberts646 8 месяцев назад

      @@cetexjay1119 Love you with the love of the Lord.Stay strong Sis!🙏🏽💕🔥

  • @lauraflegal5848
    @lauraflegal5848 9 месяцев назад +38

    Fact. You have God. He's all I have and need.

    • @RobertButler-dp8oj
      @RobertButler-dp8oj 8 месяцев назад

      I agree. When did you first find your faith in God

    • @lauraflegal5848
      @lauraflegal5848 8 месяцев назад +1

      Robert I found my faith in God when I was about 5. I've had my trials that stretched my faith but He never left me. I've just come out of such trial that I understand how He is all we need. I honestly for many ,many years have had nobody to talk to but God was faithful every time. When it is really bad He even allows me to sit on His lap and sob on His shoulder. I can't imagine life without Him.

    • @RobertButler-dp8oj
      @RobertButler-dp8oj 8 месяцев назад

      @@lauraflegal5848
      Wow that’s a long time as I also found my faith when I was young about 10. He never leaves His children. How did your trails stretch your faith in what ways ?

    • @lauraflegal5848
      @lauraflegal5848 8 месяцев назад

      @@RobertButler-dp8oj hello Robert. My husband died 11 years ago April 6. He was my world. I was lost. I knew God was with me but I had nobody to talk to. I ended up literally running away from life. I had lost my home ,vehicle, everything material that we spent 29 years accumulating. My mom died in January of 13 my hubby in April a week before our 29 anniversary. Losing material things I knew could be replaced but people you can't replace. For 5 years I was homeless despite working. I finally came back to the area where I
      grew up.A friend helped me find a place to live and I started to finally heal. I experienced God's grace,forgiveness,His protection and His provision for me. I found how much we hinder God's plan for us. At least I didn't wonder 40 years. I've been through a journey that I don't want to go through again but if I do so be it. Losing everything is hard but had I not had God I wouldn't be here tonight. I've gained much in wisdom and I know how wealthy I am because I have the one and only God in me and with me.
      Would you like to share with me? If you want details ask . I have no shame. Its because of where I came from God revealed more and more to me all because I submitted and ask. Thank you Robeet. Your a blessing. Your reminding of how truly blessed I was and am. Sweet dreams. Laura

    • @RobertButler-dp8oj
      @RobertButler-dp8oj 8 месяцев назад

      Can I have your email so we continue our conversation or would you prefer Facebook or instagram since we are both Christian’s and can learn a lot from each other

  • @aliciabell9164
    @aliciabell9164 8 месяцев назад +1

    I feel this 100%, you aren't alone in this!

  • @liwphrisenmawlong2368
    @liwphrisenmawlong2368 7 месяцев назад

    Absolutely true... No body cares wat we're going through...

  • @judithreyes4664
    @judithreyes4664 9 месяцев назад +43

    Don’t go through life alone
    Jesus is the best friend I’ve ever had.

  • @MyhandlerisYeshua
    @MyhandlerisYeshua 8 месяцев назад +4

    I call my silence stoic now because there are those who enjoy to hear and see your pain so silence is truly golden. I rather be alone with god as my true friend 🙏

  • @meleikalopez2313
    @meleikalopez2313 7 месяцев назад +1

    I hope that everyone reading this knows that you are wonderful and worthwhile and that you deserve love and understanding. I am sending you Love.

  • @nanonano.beepbeep
    @nanonano.beepbeep 9 месяцев назад +9

    Recently hit me like a ton of bricks. I haven't spoken in weeks. And I prefer it this way.

  • @lorenzofrink6890
    @lorenzofrink6890 9 месяцев назад +9

    Amen sister

  • @CarolOToole-q6g
    @CarolOToole-q6g 9 месяцев назад +11

    Yes as we get older and wiser we learn to deal with the mistakes we make and overcome the things we are not in control of ... sometimes ..thats too much for a person to cope with ..but we will Always live in hope with GODS help

  • @DianaDivine7
    @DianaDivine7 8 месяцев назад

    It’s true sad but true !!
    Protect yourself !!

  • @2cats24GOD
    @2cats24GOD 7 месяцев назад +1

    Life has humbled me and made me quiet in the world because I am someone who has spent most of her adult life with a chronic illness. Yet I still speak...to the LORD, for He always listens. And for this reason I am not on my own, for I have a Savior who totally understands my burdens. For my burderns are His. So yes, life is hard, but the joy of eternity is promised, and my faith in Christ is enough that I know that I am not all I have.
    Thank you LORD for the gift of your eternal love. I am never on my own. 🙏✝️❤

  • @AlyssaBrightmoon
    @AlyssaBrightmoon 8 месяцев назад +4

    I can relate. I dont have anyone who cares enough to hear me or be there for me when I need them. I saved myself bcuz no one else would/could. Might be sad at times but I am proud of myself for always rising from the ashes and have no one to thank but myself and my Hp for my blessings today. Ty for posting. Beautifully said. Touched my heart 🙏❤

    • @TeriHajj
      @TeriHajj 8 месяцев назад

      I hear you and you are not alone. Born alone. Die alone. Answer to God alone at the time of accountability.

  • @Samanthawishes
    @Samanthawishes 9 месяцев назад +5

    OMG 😱…. I feel you heavy on this message ‼️💯
    I mean your much younger than I,but regardless of that, Iv been in hermit mode / isolation… and I am so ok with that ‼️.. thank
    You for sharing this message ‼️ I really felt it hit my stomach .. so yeah
    God Bess you 🙏♥️‼️

  • @alexrodriguez1100
    @alexrodriguez1100 9 месяцев назад +4

    Preach Power💪💪❤️💪💪 Why I Just Listen Or Walk Away.

  • @Sskim-ue6
    @Sskim-ue6 8 месяцев назад

    Sent shivers down my entire body.

  • @jjlove13only1
    @jjlove13only1 8 месяцев назад

    I understand this so much!!! JESUS!!!❤❤❤

  • @aldonamichalczyk1878
    @aldonamichalczyk1878 9 месяцев назад +10

    you are so young and pretty, Hope you will meet good people in life, best luck

  • @trendellbrady
    @trendellbrady 9 месяцев назад +5

    Amazing beautiful woman. Don't let no one take you Joy. In if they are a true Friend they will be there when you are going through something bad. God bless you and your family Aman 🎉🎉

  • @KungPuKittyRescue
    @KungPuKittyRescue 9 месяцев назад +9

    FACTS!!! NO ONE REEEALLY CARES. NO ONE IS GOING TO BE THERE WHEN YOU NEED THEM!!
    That's why I'm a cat person. ❤

    • @Paige-Turnner
      @Paige-Turnner 8 месяцев назад

      Cast your burdens on Jesus Christ. Cats aren't going to be there forever. Jesus Christ is.

  • @Peacekindness23
    @Peacekindness23 8 месяцев назад

    The realest words I have heard in a long time. Most people are FAKE and don't care about you❤

  • @VeronicaResendiz-x4f
    @VeronicaResendiz-x4f 7 месяцев назад +1

    Praying that one day you can find another human being that you can talk to, but I really know how you feel, I’ve been there😢

  • @corinnefugal6967
    @corinnefugal6967 8 месяцев назад +9

    My father used to tell me that when you share your burdens with others, you become the burden they now have to carry…so carry it yourself.
    49 years old and that shit still stays with me.

    • @RobertButler-dp8oj
      @RobertButler-dp8oj 8 месяцев назад

      Your dad sounds like a wise man as am sure you two were very close

    • @corinnefugal6967
      @corinnefugal6967 8 месяцев назад

      @@RobertButler-dp8oj - Yeah, sure. Besties. 🙄

    • @RobertButler-dp8oj
      @RobertButler-dp8oj 8 месяцев назад

      @@corinnefugal6967 that’s nice. How old is he now and how’s he doing

    • @corinnefugal6967
      @corinnefugal6967 8 месяцев назад

      @@RobertButler-dp8oj - No idea. I severed ties 3+ years ago. Haven’t spoken since.

    • @RobertButler-dp8oj
      @RobertButler-dp8oj 8 месяцев назад

      @@corinnefugal6967 oh sorry I didn’t know. Do you mind if I ask why

  • @denisemokler3691
    @denisemokler3691 9 месяцев назад +5

    Me too I stay by myself I do not want family in my life

  • @iamcynt
    @iamcynt 8 месяцев назад +6

    In quiet, you gain wisdom. GOD is all you have. ❤

  • @vancoop3342
    @vancoop3342 8 месяцев назад

    Cannot fathom enough!!!. So true😊😊

  • @chroniclesofanexorcistbyeva
    @chroniclesofanexorcistbyeva 8 месяцев назад

    This is so true …I’m quieter now and just talk to the lord …

  • @justice8563
    @justice8563 9 месяцев назад +5

    Me too.

  • @preach_the_whole_gospel
    @preach_the_whole_gospel 8 месяцев назад

    God is all i need. Me myself and I and my Jesus ❤️🙏

  • @olliedollie23
    @olliedollie23 8 месяцев назад +1

    Well said but jst know that we also have God ❤❤