管教｜正確使用冷靜區處理情緒失控幼兒（字幕）

[@wjsabrina1171]

超級奶爸好：我是台灣觀眾，也希望能有中文字幕，謝謝您分享這麼多育兒方法。^^

[@cameoip203]

分析得勁好！我之後試過幾次冷靜區都唔係好work, 原來係我無同個女rehearsal 🤣, 佢一入去仲更加唔冷靜，顛晒， 見到個沙漏喊得仲犀利😅。。。 仲要我坐喺度對住佢🙄. 最後都係要我cuddle佢佢先冷靜。。 即係我幫佢冷靜， 唔係自己冷靜😞, 而家聽完你講完全明白晒， next time再試過💪💪thank you so much! 🙌

[@hokeeyau]

加油呀，有時就係差個少少就南轅北轍。希望你可以分享出去啦！

[@cameoip203]

Sure thing✌also, 我想問如果我個女要求我喺度陪佢坐， 咁我應唔應該？同埋佢一路都好唔冷靜， 發晒顛又話唔想坐又話性， 咁我係咪唔好理佢，唔好同佢講咁多野住？淨係鼓勵佢calm down先？

[@hokeeyau]

避免互動，連鬧都唔好，有乜嘢冷靜咗先講

[@manchow8316]

我想問 如果有Truble 2 如果處理？

[@carmen7757]

咁如果係小朋友係外面突然情緒失控咁可以點處理？屋企有冷靜區，但系街咁點算？因為小朋友上playgroup嘅時候會突然失控，同其他小朋友有少少碰撞就郁手打人，教極佢都唔聽

[@andrewfong3231]

兩歲前可以點處理呢?

[@hokeeyau]

兩歲前都盡量呵下，好多時係因為佢語言能力有限，表達唔到，所以好暴躁

[@racheltang6260]

請問如果佢因爲眼訓而發脾氣做錯事，例如炒哂啲玩具出黎唔執，甘應唔應該去冷靜區後再叫佢執番？定應該俾佢訓左教先？

[@hokeeyau]

rachel tang 一定係冷靜咗先，因為唔冷靜都唔會瞓到覺

[@jojoster5189]

Just wanted to clarify...If the kid is crying in the calming zone, when do we introduce the timer? Thanks!

[@hokeeyau]

After he finishes crying.

[@jojoster5189]

Thanks Mr Ho

[@kiwiliu5907]

請問有中文字幕嗎?

[@wjsabrina1171]

+1+1+1^^

[@twinty70]

Thanks for your useful tactic 👍🏻 may i ask once the kid is calmed if she request for a candy / or something that she wants , what should we do as a parent please?

[@hokeeyau]

I think it is fine as long as it is not given as a reward for being calm, but I rarely give candies though

[@twinty70]

Thanks for ur reply. I must share ur video out to other parents, very informative

[@hokeeyau]

Thank you, please do share, appreciated:)

[@obsidianwoon218]

我小孩兩歲半，最近，他遇到不順他意時，就會大叫，唔知點算。每次我只能抱住他等他唔叫再放手。應該點做？

[@hokeeyau]

呢個都係好標準嘅用冷靜區情形

[@Thevenusyman]

Twins girls 1yr6mths 2個都好似未能夠完全聽明指令 因為妹妹搶姐姐手上嘅野 姐姐好冷靜甘咬對妹妹 之後妹妹就會打姐姐 睇過之前超級奶爸2嘅片同佢哋講要分享 要溫柔 但好似唔work好困擾😣😣🙏🏻

[@godlovescat]

不好意思！在分享中我未能夠清楚聽到冷靜區的「好處」？而且會否導致小朋友習慣壓抑情緒？因為：一、他不想入冷靜區，二、他想快點可以離開。

[@hokeeyau]

其實冷靜區的好處正正就是讓幼兒知道可以在裏面以一個「合理的方式」發洩自己的情緒，沒有冷靜區，孩子有機會掉東西，打人，破壞。其實如果他只是坐着抱頭痛哭，不一定要入冷靜區。
不過父母需要等小朋友冷靜後才能繼續溝通互動。簡單來說就是「孩子，待你準備好，爸爸媽媽便可以繼續和你溝通。」