@@ZonDAmour nah the other is just as beautiful you only said that because she lighter and have the colored eyes and that social media look. Both are equally beautiful
The fact that, despite everything, you tell your daughters to remain respectful to their aunty & grandma says alot about your character, loyalty, & integrity 👏🏾
I would cut my mom AND my sister off FOREVER! Them girls know them two birds ain’t right. That’s why Tocha solo career never went anywhere…ole basic hussy
Tamika did an amazing job singing LaTocha's parts at their concert! Although it was only three of them, their show did not miss a beat! Keep growing and glowing!!! (I saw Xscape in November 2022 on the Monica and Friends tour)
Yes, her Mom is a textbook toxic narcissist parent. One child is the golden child and the other is the ScapeGoat. Sometimes going NO CONTACT with toxic family members is the only way, sad when it be your own people.
I just really have developed such a loyal admiration and love for Tamika. She is my favorite member now. I don’t have any brothers or sisters I wish Tamika was my sister. She is so cool.
I love how you’ve taught your girls, in spite of all that’s going on, to still respect your mom and sister. Those girls LOVE you and don’t want ANYONE mistreating their mom.. ❤️
Your daughter is an intelligent young queen. She is absolutely correct. Parental favoritism can be a form of psychological abuse if the parent subjects the child to behavior that can result in mental trauma such as depression, anxiety or self-esteem issues.
Honestly, unhealthy family dynamics need to be exposed. Blood is no reason to have to accept mistreatment. I love the fact that your daughter was honest. I don’t care how much we love ppl doesn’t mean their behavior is always ok and I teach my daughter that you can respectfully let even elders know when they are wrong.
Your mom and sister thought that they can treat you any type of way all these years because you're not going to say anything you're not going to air out their business you've been protecting their business for this long so they feel like they can be shiesty and do whatever the f*** they want because they feel like you're not going to say anything but I am so glad that you stood up to them and said something I'm going through the same thing with my family not my sisters but other people in my family
So true she said that as the little girl still wanting love and acceptance. And knowing Deaconness Wig she would’ve thrown that 2 jobs etc in her face as being a “good” mom.
I really appreciate Tameka for sharing this. Parents always have a golden child that they enable to do bad things to their siblings and other family members. In some families it’s the oldest others it’s the youngest. It just depends. Latocha is at it with all the members and the group is sick of her ish. She needs to humble herself no one likes a narcissist. As an older sibling I’m not leaving first when there is danger. I need to protect my younger siblings.
I agree with your daughter that it was mental abuse...and emotional abuse when you really think about it. The way your mom whispered "She's just jealous" to your sister behind your back not validates what felt but also exhibits mental and emotional abuse. Prayers to you and your family 🙏🏾
I have so much respect for you, Tamika! Tears fell from my eyes because my heart ached for you. I’m happy you found your voice. God will truly prosper you.
It was so hard to watch your mom whisper "She's jealous" to your sister when you were trying to explain your feelings and for them to minimize your feelings by saying you were just acting. You deserve support. Glad you have your daughters.
Yeah that was really horrible. I’ve only heard of this with some of our men, but wow I would’ve never thought. Now we see why Tocha act the way she does. She’s like a big kid! It’s sad.
This sometimes happens when you find your voice and start making decisions for yourself and your family needs (children, husband). Sometimes family can’t stand to see you grow!!! Stay strong Tamika!!!
We are on your side Tamika. I could tell by your sisters body language that she was lying and same with your mother. I could see the guilt all over their faces. It’s very unfortunate and sad how your sister is behaving. Your sister is going to need you before you need her.
I have a new respect for Tamika. She is not speaking with any malice in her heart. Also, though she is speaking and standing strong this has to be hurtful.
Your daughter is on point…emotional/mental abuse should not be tolerated and or excused/downplayed…we wouldn’t want to set that example for our children to think it’s okay to be treated this way. Sometimes it’s best to walk away.
This newer generation recognizes all forms of abuse. I love how your daughters don’t play about their momma. Grandma or Auntie…they can point out the dysfunction. That’s a testament to how well you and your husband have raised them💜
Yes they seem mature, level headed, and conduct themselves like normal healthy minded young women. There’s no jealous or envious or narcissistic energy from Tamika family. Her sister family with their mother are shady twisted people trying to put up a front it shows.
Agreed!!! That hurt MYYY feelings to see her act like that towards Tamika. Like WTF was that?!!😟 But as soon as I heard her mama on the phone say, you need to hear Tosha side of it, I was like WOWWW ohhhkkk...🙄not yall need to sit down and hear each other or tell me what happened from your side so I can hear both counts of what happened.... It's really sad! They really need an Iyanla sit down for real!!! I pray that they heal from all this lifelong family dynamic trauma.
When she whispered to Tomika, "she's jealous " it irritated my soul. We have to get out of the mindset, that older people should be respected to the utmost degree or they deserve it just because they are the parent. She disrespected Tamika in front of her own child. I've had that happen to me and baby I gave my grandmother the smoke. My mother didn't want to disrespect her mother because she is from the old school, honor thy mother and thy father.....but baby I'm giving it to whoever goes at my Mom, period point blank. It really is a tough situation to navigate.
I've known Tamika since I was a child, and she's not a mean person, and I'm shocked. I pray that all this comes together for them. I'm so sorry for all of this that they're going through. Nedrea (Bee) Scott; Washington D.C.
You don't look crazy at all. You appear genuine, hurt and truthful on and off the show. We rising with you. We love originality!!! Period!!! #TeamTamika
I saw Xscape 3 a few years ago and Tamika was having a full blown conversation with a random fan who was on the front row. Tiny had to come get her, so when she said that she don't think she's better then anybody I believe her. She's definitely down to earth and cool....
Her & Tiny stood in the parking lot with my roommate & I for AT LEAST 30 minutes after a show laughing, joking & having a good time, so I second this comment.
As the only girl in a household of three brothers I know what it’s like when your mother has favorites. Everytime the boys spoke she fawned and listened but whenever it came time I spoke my mind she’d throw a fit and always say “here she go” When I have my own kids I’m gunna do what you did and not show favoritism because it was definitely discouraging. Funny thing is when my mom gets too old to look after herself it’ll 9/10 be myself that will look after her, for many reasons
To see the Scott sisters fighting is hard to watch, but to hear what Tamika has had to endure from her mom and sister all this time is absolutely heartbreaking, and I believe her 100%. She has such a big, bright personality that you just assume she's always happy. Good for her for finally standing up for herself. Loving and respecting your family does not mean subjecting yourself to abuse or painful interactions, sometimes you have to love them from afar to protect your peace. Nobody gets this many passes just because they're family. Love is a verb.
Even now with “coming clean,” Tamika is still protecting her sister. Notice how she isn’t saying most of the things her sister said and did to her. A real class act.
Tamika this is how generational curses are broken!!! You are amazing!!! Your girls are right there in the thick of this situation with you!!! Keep shining for them. I hated the way they made you look like the bad guy. Anybody with common sense could see there were so many layers to this thing. My heart goes out to you all! May God step in and completely turn this whole thing around❤️🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️ #TouchAndAgreeWithMe
Tamika you have to love your mother and sister from a distance, let them have each other. I know they've hurt you but you have your husband, children and grandchildren to get you thru it. We love you and hang in there. The sun doesn't shine everyday, nor does it rain everyday. Let go of anything that doesn't serve you.
I agree but now they are locked down by BUSINESS... I wished before she entered into the deal, she would have made it clear NO discussing she and her sister's issues on the show... I know it's GREAT for ratings but this is a serious matter that requires serious attention...
Your words are indeed great advice, but knowing them the way I do, it's gonna be hard for her to do that. They're a tightly -knitted family and Mama Gloria raised them to stick together no matter what. She also raised them to keep family business inside the home and unfortunately, what we're being made aware of are those family issues that were kept "secret." This is why therapy in the Black community is OKAY and often NECESSARY!! 😪💔🙏🏾
I feel the hurt and burden that you have been carrying for the love and loyalty that you’ve shown to your family and to witness the favoritism,(not because you told us, we saw it) is heartbreaking. I just pray that your mother can rewatch this and see herself and correct her behavior towards you. Sometimes parents don’t like what they see in their children because it reminds them of themselves. I know that you’re hurting and you still want to do right by them but also understand that this is your breakthrough and victory is the result. Introducing the full fledged Tamika Scott that we have always loved and was waiting on! Do your thing Sis!❤❤❤
Tamika! I believe in YOU!! You are Loved and Supported! Period!! The way your Daughters are there to support you shows how beautiful of a job you and your husband did raising them! Your heart shines! We see it!! Prayers for reconciliations, apologies, ownership, moving forward, and healing! Love you!!
I "especially" loved how you recognized the expression on your daughter's face who has the glasses on and allowed her to speak, express herself and be heard without interrupting. That right there, speaks "volumes" about you as a Mother. That part gave me chills and brought tears all at the same time. But all in a good way. May Blessing continue to follow you and your girls and your entire family. May we all be loved and blessed 🙌 I love you all 💛
I understand what you're saying but just keep in mind that Tamika is a brand and she still has to have the main control over the comments and it's direction. As a professional she knows what she wants released and not released. Her daughters are not fully in the business so they may run on with info that's not due to be released yet. Just giving an insight on this, coming from someone in the business who has to curve things in interviews all the time.
I just did not want to believe all of the things that even the public had been saying about your sister, but now it's very easy to believe it all. I'm so sorry you all have to be subjected to loved ones that are literal blood and treat you this way. My heart truly goes out to you. I pray for you, your children, your mom, and even your sister to get through this test and see the error of their ways and come to change 🙏🏼 Much love from Newark, NJ
I am so happy Tamika’s second daughter is her rider fr. She has clearly seen her aunt and her granny seriously mistreat her mom and mentally abuse her like the daughter said. I’m glad Tamika is loved properly by someone other than mom.
Sometimes your sibling relationship can be toxic AF! And I'm proud of you for speaking & sharing your truth Tamika!! And I'm grateful you have support around you that is genuine!!!
To be honest Xscape would be a great trio! Sometimes you just have to let people go and do what they want....and when they do, be sure you close the door so they can't come back! Let her go and stay solo. Tameka its unfortunate you didn't get more lead parts cuz in my opinion, you have better vocal ability than your sibling. Stay blessed Queen!
🙏🏽Thank you for sharing additional insight with us as fans of Xscape. ♥️🙏🏽 After watching this, my heart went out to you and your family💕🙏🏽 The world should Never see and know this much about personal family matters. Communication is Healing🙏🏽 Everyone has to hold themselves Accountable for some part of the confusion. This is why Jesus said to Forgive 77x7(it’s a metaphor)! It’s ok to say “I was wrong, I hurt you with my words, my actions, Please forgive me🙏🏽and turn away and do better going forward! Love Always Always Wins❣️❣️ See, everybody has an opinion, we have to learn to Work hard a Pleasing God, Not People❣️ Tosha experienced the world judging her body negatively 🙏🏽 That hurt runs long and deep♥️🙏🏽 I’m praying for Healing over her because she was and is still beautiful. It’s a Mean O World Out here🙏🏽 All these years and still unresolved is simply allowing the enemy to bounce y’all up against every wall he can. Time to beat the enemy at his foolishness! Seriously, we All got something!!! Nobody is truly right and we are All wrong!! Forgiveness, Hugs and Love… everyone make your favorite dish, come together and start with.. I was wrong starting with…. And please find it in your heart to Forgive Me?♥️🙏🏽♥️ In front of the kids and all! No one will be Perfect! Just try to be honest with each other and Love on Each Other🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽 Cut the Embarrassment- Be real to each other. Be the example we need to bring Peace to our youth and how to Rise Above🙏🏽 And it’s enough money for Everyone! Do your Solo and help each other!! And do Xscape💕 Come on Now, Step into it ♥️ All of you have beautiful voices, Sang and Show up for Your Children and Grandchildren 🙌💕♥️🙏🏽I Love Y’all
It’s just a sad situation. There’s 3 sides to every story, but I truly believe you. I pray that you all are able to get through this, but I understand that sometimes you gotta leave people where they are.
I love how well spoken Niya is and she made a good point when Tamika was saying that in spite of the favoritism that her mom was still a good mom. “Isn’t that still mental abuse?” It doesn’t have to be physical to leave scars.
Gurl everything you have done has been out of Love....God knew you would never remove yourself from the toxicity so he allowed their heart to become obstinate (like he did Pharoah) and she removed herself from you. You see it hard to get the respect from the older siblings because you followed them blindly all your like and now that you are older with children you expect respect but instead of giving you the respect you have earned they try manipulation and intimidation. Anything bit owned where they are wrong. Continue to stay prayed up but respect your boundaries you have established As long as you know you come from place of love that includes mutual respect..let go and let God....this is a marathon not a sprint. Try to always pray before speaking and remember God said vengeance was his and he shall repay. Don't allow them to gaslight you. God will settle all of this baby girl...keep loving them and praying for them but you don't have to lay down and get walked over....You are so kind and compassionate. I felt your pain and I know this happened to you.
This was beautiful sis, it's good to see ALL of your daughters in one spot, the show made me sad, seeing everything go down like that, I pray that everything eventually works out between you and your sister, no one wins when the family feuds! i'm glad you let your daughters speak and express themselves as well. ❤☕
You are so strong Tamika. I love that you are speaking out and standing up for yourself. Mental abuse is never okay. It's worse than physical abuse because those wounds take much longer to heal. I relate to you a lot. Just remember sometimes it's best to cut the toxic people out of your life and love them from afar. Your daughters are so beautiful and intelligent. You are being the mom you deserved to have. 🖤
When I watched this episode Tamika, I knew you were telling the truth and didn’t question it for one second. I could feel it. You have done nothing wrong. Please continue to be who you are… (Your voice, charisma, and energy are always wonderful when you come on screen and it resonates through the tv). I don’t know anyone who watched this and thought you were wrong. I’m glad to see you were surrounded by family that loves you and it’s a testament to how good of a person you are
I watched last night and was taken aback by the gaslighting and mental abuse that I witnessed. I think the good thing that’s coming from this is Tamika coming to see and understand what’s been happening to her and choosing to stand up for herself. Before seeing this I was so misinformed. What I thought was way off. Seeing how the sister and mom acts is all I needed to understand the dysfunction, blame, manipulative actions, & childish behaviors that the group has had to deal with. I was like WOWWW 😮
Goodness. I feel triggered watching how they gaslighting and trying to make tameka look bad. Man is mind boggling and that mom is a demon and tocha is weak needing mom and husband approval and is jealous of tameka. Tocha a heartless bitter bitch
I felt everything in those scenes with your mom. These scenarios are real. In many families. Your mom has two daughters and they should be treated and respected equally. It’s that simple
I wish she would’ve addressed her mom calling her jealous behind her back. That was the worst part for me. My heart goes out to you Tamika ❤ I pray it gets better for y’all
@@rnbjunkie4859 I wanted her to touch on how she felt seeing it. It’s a difference assuming your mother and sister is talking behind your back, but actually seeing it is a whole other level.
@@parismichelle2952 Clearly, there's still a love for her sister and mother. I'm sure she didn't want to detail every little piece of her family business and rightfully so. She mentioned she didn't want the drama to unfold on TV but she was provoked and it just happened.
It's really dope to see you model how you are processing this for your daughter's, although this is something you are still dealing with emotionally your still ensuring you are teaching them as young women the importance of processing with respect I hope they also know or learn that there are safe ways to do that and sometimes it means you have to love folks from a distance depending on how toxic the relationship is because they lived through a lot of these moments with you and it hurts them to see you hurt in the past and present. This looks like it was therapeutic for your family, wish you the best
We gotta start calling out family for mental/emotional abuse just like your daughter said. Parents need to be held accountable for that. Sometimes we get to a point where its best to love them from a distance. Whatever you do, start protecting your peace. Show your daughters how they can protect their peace.
The saddest scene I've witnessed in a long time was her with her Mother and Sister. I don't care how hard she worked to provide financially, the emotional support is not there and it's toxic.
@Chawday 39 so heartbreaking. Sending love your way. No child deserves that. Lord knows my childhood was messed up. Seeing your parent is capable of being there for you but chooses to not be is a pain I wouldn't wish on anyone. 💔❤️💯
Your hurt could be felt through the screen in that episode. So much respect to/for you Tamika. I pray that you all can (genuinely) fix this. It's a hard thing to grow up and finally start speaking your truth when you don't have the support of those who are supposed to have your back. No disrespect to your Mom, but it didn't help with her whispering "She's jealous" about you to your sister during that scene.
That scene was so heart felt for me I went though the same things with my sister favoritism like she was better then me had me with so much low self esteem I needed therapy once we got older she went to jail twice 9 years all together an me have 7 beautiful children's an 8 beautiful grandbabies have my own food business God is Amazing YOU SO poised and you an your daughters are beautiful keep up the good work as I see you are God bless you and your beautiful family .
Truth be told they are the ones that is jealous of Tamika..esp Tocha..I believe she always been low-key jealous of her fine ass sister..cause who been fine her whole life is Tamika...
I always felt that Tamika was the realest and most relatable one. I know what you going through. My mom is like that with my sister. I'm the so-called "black sheep" but will ride for mine. Just keep doing what you doing. We can tell that you've raised some intelligent, gorgeous, and mannerable children. GOD will continue to bless you and your family.
Be down for who's down for you. I'm not saying your sister and mom isn't because I don't know them. But we gotta outgrow these notions of riding for some one because of a title that we had no control of them getting. Love what love you. Ik outgrowing titles.
I adore everything about you ... how you ensure your children remain respectful to family, how you communicate respectfully at all times, there's so much about you that I love and respect....I NEED MORE!!!!!!!
Tamika has always been my favorite member of the group. I LOVE HER VOICE! I’m glad she’s back in the spotlight and I pray that her, her mom, and sister get on good terms!!!💜
Me too! I always felt that out of the 2 sisters, Tameka was the better singer. Voice control, etc. Latocha runs be all over the place. She does too much…
Tamika, take this hug. As someone who has recently discovered some of my familial relationships can be toxic and I've had to stand up to it, it's hurtful but so worth it to stand up for yourself. All the time, every time.
Tamika you are a respectful lady hold your head up continue to be who you are your sister will have to deal with God and your mother suppose to clear this situation your are sibilings yes you argue with each other but do not hurt each other
I'm so proud of you, Tamika for standing up for yourself. I know it was hard for you to do that being that it's your family but sometimes family is worst than a friend to you and that's a hard pill to swallow when you're a loyal individual. Continue to stand in your truth bc God's got you, stay encouraged and prayed up..🙏🏿❤️ #justicefortamika30k
Love you ladies, thank you for the years of extraordinary music hats off to you legendary ladies to both groups. I am in 😭 hearing this I am praying 🙏 for you all, and with you all, God is more than able to bring you all through this all 💕.
I literally have the same relationship with my sister and my mom. I feel your pain. Just know that it is okay to leave toxic people in their comfort zone and put yourself first. This goes for mom, sis, bro, husband, whoever… you have to maintain your mental health for the sake of those babies. Don’t let demons work through family to bring you down.
I definitely can relate. My male sibling stole from my mother, lied, and got her caught up in financial distress. He painted me as the villain and was so shady he had everyone believe that I was the crazy one.. my mother used guilt to keep me imprisoned in that dysfunctional relationship. It took me 40 years to end that cycle of pain. I consider that an emotional amputation. I had to save myself so I could live. From time to time I call it phantom pain because of the good times we had.
@@herbaltrucker My sister is actually in a toxic relationship with a man that tried to kill me while I was 8months pregnant. And my sister shows no remorse for not having respect for someone that loves her dearly. My sister also tried to seduce my husband. When I discuss it with my mother, she blames me and places the responsibility on me to repair the sisterhood. I told her not to hold her breath because she would be ☠️. There are just some people that don’t deserve you. It took so much therapy for me to acknowledge that being a relative doesn’t make you family.
@@dekhiastevenson8760 yes, they totally exists. My mother is the same. This scene reopened wounds. Having a mother that will always put you last hurts. My mother is a paranoid schizophrenic. The voices in her head told her that she had to kill one of her kids in order for the rest of them to live. She selected me! Luckily after her attack I’m still here, but that same feeling of feeling unwanted was there far before her mental issues. When she was sane she showed me signs. And let’s not get on my sister…. They are two lost souls but I can’t save them. And I hope Tamika acknowledges that. She will only be hindering their growth.
You do not owe people the space to mistreat you, family or not. I realize you have to work with them, and I’m glad you are standing up for yourself. This is the year of exposure, these unhealthy family dynamics have to stop! You may think you are doing right by telling your kids to be respectful, I get that, but they are adults now, and they have a right to feel how they do about this dynamic. It DOES affect them, and you don’t want the trauma trickle into your household. Praying for you sis.
It’s so sad .I literally can relate to this because it was me ,and I too said that when o have kids I would not be this way ,even though my sister amd mother stole money from me and knew I had children and lied about cashing checks that came for me I still forgave them I could have put them in jail for forgery but didn’t,but I was the Bad guy , this is unbelievable I went through the exact same thing ,my God and my mother and father divorced and she worked two jobs and kept us in school ,when I never kept my kids from her even if I did t go I let them become it was still their grandma,now they see their grandma for who she and my sister are and I tell them to keep praying for them and I love them from a distance 😢😢
👁 👁 👄 Everything has an expiration date ( relationships friendships marriages FOOD) good while it lasted when it's time to go it's time to go👀 I haven't spoken to my mother's daughter( sister) in almost 20 years I buried💀⚰️that relationship looong time ago 👀
Sometimes, you have to let family go. Would you allow a stranger mistreat you? No one has the right because they are blood to treat you like trash. You are extremely talented. Use your beautiful voice to do other work without the group or your sister: duos, commercials, voiceovers, etc. Peace of mind is everything. I hope you get it. Your girls and you deserve it.
Baby your daughter is wise beyond her years...I love that she calls out everything for what it is but I really love on how she told her daughters to still respect them.
It be your own people! They definitely set you up and attacked you. But you held your own. I'm so sorry to see them hurt you. Especially, mama. I saw how your eyes lit up when you talked about the love you have for her. But sometimes you have to keep distance between toxic people (even family). It's not worth your sanity.
Omg yes preach you said a mouthful I definitely know about toxic family members & so call friends and you must distance yourself from that and yes i can love you from a distance i don't have to be around negative energy or situation
I’m so proud of you Tamika for raising two beautiful daughters and speaking your truth but you didn’t deserve to be done wrong at all and God got you and your daughters no matter what y’all keep shining 🌟🌟⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🌟🌟🌟🌟⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🌟
No I want her to go over to Carlos king and do a love and marriage atlanta show but never mind she can’t because he tried to steal their life story right? Smh 🤦🏾♀️ guess it has to be RHOA oooooor they could bring back R&B divas. But wait 🤔I think Carlos produced that too. Damnnnnnnnnn
@@Blessedtruly3000 I don’t believe so. She doesn’t seem to have that weakness. Her girls would definitely check her cz they seem to be very close nd protective of their family unit! U could be right tho
Side note: I can’t get over how absolutely BEAUTIFUL Tamika & her daughters are! Wow 😍💖
They’re stunning! Esp the youngest!!!
Yesssss she has some stunning girls!! 😍
Seriously 😍
@@ZonDAmour nah the other is just as beautiful you only said that because she lighter and have the colored eyes and that social media look. Both are equally beautiful
@@doneeshacunningham2949 it has nothing to do with shin complexion. The younger one is obviously prettier
It was painful to watch their mom mouth to LaTocha that Tamika is jealous of her. It broke my heart 🥺
So wrong!!
My mom is tht same way .she push the issue of sibling rivalry .no mom should av a preference
Reminds me of my grandmother and how she is with my aunts compared to my mom
I agree.
That hurt me and proved tamika was right bout latacha and Mrs Gloria
The fact that, despite everything, you tell your daughters to remain respectful to their aunty & grandma says alot about your character, loyalty, & integrity 👏🏾
Definitely
I would cut my mom AND my sister off FOREVER! Them girls know them two birds ain’t right. That’s why Tocha solo career never went anywhere…ole basic hussy
I believe every word you said . About your sister . You are a beautiful Lady i hate you felt out with Kandi. But life goes on .
Definitely!! I love that🙌🏾💯
💯 I love that and that's how it should be ♥️
I love how insightful her daughters are. They’re able to recognize that mental abuse is still abuse.
We are with you Tamika. We believe you
Love Me Some Tamika... Definitely believe her.
We’re all on her team. The only people that aren’t are the ones just like Tocha and their mom
@@CleverAOYM Exactly..
ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!
I truly believe you, just keep praying about the situation.🥰🤗🙏🏽
Tamika did an amazing job singing LaTocha's parts at their concert! Although it was only three of them, their show did not miss a beat! Keep growing and glowing!!!
(I saw Xscape in November 2022 on the Monica and Friends tour)
So the concert was done without her sister?
Great because I plan on catching them when they return to Los Angeles.
They went on tour when Kandi left the group because she didn’t want to be in the group anymore.
When did you go to the show?!
Yes they have been doin shows without her. They took her off the promo pic
You can tell, even with the shows editing that Tamika is telling 100% true 💯
Facts
Yes, her Mom is a textbook toxic narcissist parent. One child is the golden child and the other is the ScapeGoat. Sometimes going NO CONTACT with toxic family members is the only way, sad when it be your own people.
Stevie Wonder could see that Tamika was telling the truth!!!
I just really have developed such a loyal admiration and love for Tamika. She is my favorite member now. I don’t have any brothers or sisters I wish Tamika was my sister. She is so cool.
#TeamTamika
I love how you’ve taught your girls, in spite of all that’s going on, to still respect your mom and sister. Those girls LOVE you and don’t want ANYONE mistreating their mom.. ❤️
That's a hard thing for a child to watch their mom or dad be attack. Especially their Mother, natural instincts is to fight young or older.💯
That’s how I know she’s telling the truth!
Your daughter is an intelligent young queen. She is absolutely correct.
Parental favoritism can be a form of psychological abuse if the parent subjects the child to behavior that can result in mental trauma such as depression, anxiety or self-esteem issues.
I AGREE🙂
I agree
It's narcissistic abuse, any way you slice it. It's clear as day.
I agree also 😊
Absolutely
Listening to Tameka has made me gain a whole new level of respect for her. Kudos to these young queens that love their mom unconditionally as well.
I love how she set boundaries for her daughters but allowed them to express themselves. I can feel the love they have for their mother.
This is real parenting. When they feel as if they can express themselves but not too far to cross a line.
That one in the front ready to cut up lol
I don’t like the way your mom or your sister treats you. You’re amazing and you have a beautiful soul!
This made me cry, I believe you, you were very sincere!!
Me 2 i can feel the love
Tamika needs her own show. Beautiful family. God Bless you and your family 🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️
Honestly, unhealthy family dynamics need to be exposed. Blood is no reason to have to accept mistreatment. I love the fact that your daughter was honest. I don’t care how much we love ppl doesn’t mean their behavior is always ok and I teach my daughter that you can respectfully let even elders know when they are wrong.
Yes it should be but NOT IN FRONT OF THE CAMERA. IT MAKES IT WORST
I appreciate what you posted I wish more parents would teach this.
In therapy, not to the general public who only wants to tear your family with their opinions. How is this a path to healing?
Speak on it speak on it I agree
Your mom and sister thought that they can treat you any type of way all these years because you're not going to say anything you're not going to air out their business you've been protecting their business for this long so they feel like they can be shiesty and do whatever the f*** they want because they feel like you're not going to say anything but I am so glad that you stood up to them and said something I'm going through the same thing with my family not my sisters but other people in my family
We support and believe you Tamika. You are validated and loved!!!
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I ALWAYS believed her years ago, even when they tried to make her look “crazy” or said she had a mental illness. LaTocha has always had a complex.
Mom was probably jealous an just a plain mean jealous person that will never own up to what she did. Now you know never trust her again😊
U BETTA KNOW IT!!!! WE HAVE UR BACK TAMIKA!!!! When yall coming to Detroit???
Yep. And I one hundred percent believe her.
The daughter wearing glasses is very perceptive and smart. She framed the family dynamic perfectly. Impressive for such a young lady.
Right!!!
She got just like her mom
Yes I like her she’s actually very smart and realizes her mom is being abused
She called it right, it’s emotional abuse.
@@mermaid30019 she actually said mental abuse. But it’s both. Mental and emotional. I feel so bad for Tomeka
My heart really breaks for Tamika, and she is still sticking up for them. “My mama was a great mama..” baby no she was not and still currently isn’t.
So true she said that as the little girl still wanting love and acceptance.
And knowing Deaconness Wig she would’ve thrown that 2 jobs etc in her face as being a “good” mom.
Tamekia need to be on RHOA! I love her personality
I like her on the current show & they should build up on all of the women's lives ...without Tocha
I hope they add her so her bag can grow even bigger
Ain’t she the one that lied on Kandi back in the day?
Too classy
I really appreciate Tameka for sharing this. Parents always have a golden child that they enable to do bad things to their siblings and other family members. In some families it’s the oldest others it’s the youngest. It just depends. Latocha is at it with all the members and the group is sick of her ish. She needs to humble herself no one likes a narcissist. As an older sibling I’m not leaving first when there is danger. I need to protect my younger siblings.
Hats off to Tamika for raising such smart young, respectful women ❤
You know she has a whole husband rightb
They are truly raising some beautiful babies ❤😊
@@MarauderM00gi we talking about Tamika rn though, stay on topic bookie😘
@@Whowantlasagna shut your goofy ass up
I agree with your daughter that it was mental abuse...and emotional abuse when you really think about it. The way your mom whispered "She's just jealous" to your sister behind your back not validates what felt but also exhibits mental and emotional abuse. Prayers to you and your family 🙏🏾
I have so much respect for you, Tamika! Tears fell from my eyes because my heart ached for you. I’m happy you found your voice. God will truly prosper you.
It was so hard to watch your mom whisper "She's jealous" to your sister when you were trying to explain your feelings and for them to minimize your feelings by saying you were just acting. You deserve support. Glad you have your daughters.
That really pissed me off and confirmed a lot for me
God knew she needed her daughters
God will handle it. He always have a way of bringing ppl back to you who has wronged you.
Yeah that was really horrible. I’ve only heard of this with some of our men, but wow I would’ve never thought. Now we see why Tocha act the way she does. She’s like a big kid! It’s sad.
Yes omg I was hoping that was for drama ratings purposes n not her acting like that towards her daughter in real life 😢that’s sickening
This sometimes happens when you find your voice and start making decisions for yourself and your family needs (children, husband). Sometimes family can’t stand to see you grow!!!
Stay strong Tamika!!!
Yup!
Baby listen💞
Exactly!
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Shid I needed ths word.
We are on your side Tamika. I could tell by your sisters body language that she was lying and same with your mother. I could see the guilt all over their faces. It’s very unfortunate and sad how your sister is behaving. Your sister is going to need you before you need her.
Well said 🤎
Exactly, unfortunately this type of thing happens all the time
In that order.💯🙏🏽
You could definitely tell Tocha was LYING, lol.
@@MessyyMissyy yes, that's so sad that they team up on her like that. They should be ashamed of themselves.
Hats off to Tamika...her daughters are well loved and it shows through their maturity and respect and love for their mom.
I have a new respect for Tamika. She is not speaking with any malice in her heart. Also, though she is speaking and standing strong this has to be hurtful.
Tamika & her girls needs their own reality show.... Look how beautiful and poised her daughters are! That show would be a good time!
I agree
That was psychological abuse. I'm so glad you have a platform to share your story. I love you, my sister.
It's beautiful to see a mother being a parent a role model and guiding your children...
Your daughter is on point…emotional/mental abuse should not be tolerated and or excused/downplayed…we wouldn’t want to set that example for our children to think it’s okay to be treated this way. Sometimes it’s best to walk away.
Tamika is a beautiful forgiving woman who's dealing with people who won't take accountability !!!! Hope she finds peace 💞🙏
This newer generation recognizes all forms of abuse. I love how your daughters don’t play about their momma. Grandma or Auntie…they can point out the dysfunction. That’s a testament to how well you and your husband have raised them💜
Yesssss so true
This newer generation does not bite their tongue rightfully so
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You are setting a wonderful example for your daughters. Sometimes you can't help everyone, even siblings. So proud of you and your girls.
Hats off to you Tamika for raising very mature and insightful young ladies...
Yes...
Yes they seem mature, level headed, and conduct themselves like normal healthy minded young women. There’s no jealous or envious or narcissistic energy from Tamika family. Her sister family with their mother are shady twisted people trying to put up a front it shows.
Your youngest daughter is smart and explained how she feels very eloquently in a respectful way. Everyone is hurt in the process
I'm glad she is speaking up for herself. It was painful to see her mother act that way.
Agreed!!! That hurt MYYY feelings to see her act like that towards Tamika. Like WTF was that?!!😟 But as soon as I heard her mama on the phone say, you need to hear Tosha side of it, I was like WOWWW ohhhkkk...🙄not yall need to sit down and hear each other or tell me what happened from your side so I can hear both counts of what happened.... It's really sad! They really need an Iyanla sit down for real!!! I pray that they heal from all this lifelong family dynamic trauma.
When she whispered to Tomika, "she's jealous " it irritated my soul. We have to get out of the mindset, that older people should be respected to the utmost degree or they deserve it just because they are the parent. She disrespected Tamika in front of her own child. I've had that happen to me and baby I gave my grandmother the smoke. My mother didn't want to disrespect her mother because she is from the old school, honor thy mother and thy father.....but baby I'm giving it to whoever goes at my Mom, period point blank. It really is a tough situation to navigate.
Yeah her momma got issues!
I've known Tamika since I was a child, and she's not a mean person, and I'm shocked. I pray that all this comes together for them. I'm so sorry for all of this that they're going through.
Nedrea (Bee) Scott; Washington D.C.
You don't look crazy at all. You appear genuine, hurt and truthful on and off the show. We rising with you. We love originality!!! Period!!! #TeamTamika
Her girls are drop dead gorgeous!!! We love you Tamika!!!! Keep being you!!!
I saw Xscape 3 a few years ago and Tamika was having a full blown conversation with a random fan who was on the front row. Tiny had to come get her, so when she said that she don't think she's better then anybody I believe her. She's definitely down to earth and cool....
Tamika Scott is Very Down To Earth And Really Cool🌹🌹🌹💯💯💯♥️♥️♥️A Sweetheart
@@pookkie1040 she was smiling and talking, just really engaged in the conversation. She seemed very genuine while having the conversation.
@@anetragoolsby2436 She is Fun Loving Woman...I Love Her Personality And She Always Give Me Good Advice
That was hard to watch. It’s clear that your mom has a favorite. My feelings were hurt for you. I believe everything that you said
Her & Tiny stood in the parking lot with my roommate & I for AT LEAST 30 minutes after a show laughing, joking & having a good time, so I second this comment.
As the only girl in a household of three brothers I know what it’s like when your mother has favorites.
Everytime the boys spoke she fawned and listened but whenever it came time I spoke my mind she’d throw a fit and always say “here she go”
When I have my own kids I’m gunna do what you did and not show favoritism because it was definitely discouraging.
Funny thing is when my mom gets too old to look after herself it’ll 9/10 be myself that will look after her, for many reasons
Parents have favorites, lol. You might love them the same but you're going to like/connect with another moreso than the other, lol.
To see the Scott sisters fighting is hard to watch, but to hear what Tamika has had to endure from her mom and sister all this time is absolutely heartbreaking, and I believe her 100%. She has such a big, bright personality that you just assume she's always happy. Good for her for finally standing up for herself. Loving and respecting your family does not mean subjecting yourself to abuse or painful interactions, sometimes you have to love them from afar to protect your peace. Nobody gets this many passes just because they're family. Love is a verb.
Yes!!!
Latoucha must me putting alot of coins n her Mama's pocket. Mama ain't gonna bit the hand the feeds her needs & wants. Sorry Tamika .
THIS‼️💯
@@tammywilliams1569 It definitely shows !!
And sometimes you just have to let go of family too, all the way. Sorry, not sorry, it gets that bad sometimes!
Baby girl spoke truth about Abuse💕
Set boundaries & don’t allow NO ONE to break them🙏🏾💕
U
Smart girl
Even now with “coming clean,” Tamika is still protecting her sister. Notice how she isn’t saying most of the things her sister said and did to her. A real class act.
She is sitting up talking about her sister and it's not cool because you don't have to be like others
Her daughters need to stay in a child's place
She is smfh and I wanna buy some of her seasonings ...She gone win though Tamika gone win regardless.
We don’t need to know everything that was done or said to her. Maybe a reconciliation will happen soon.
Tamika this is how generational curses are broken!!! You are amazing!!! Your girls are right there in the thick of this situation with you!!! Keep shining for them. I hated the way they made you look like the bad guy. Anybody with common sense could see there were so many layers to this thing. My heart goes out to you all! May God step in and completely turn this whole thing around❤️🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️ #TouchAndAgreeWithMe
Tamika you have to love your mother and sister from a distance, let them have each other. I know they've hurt you but you have your husband, children and grandchildren to get you thru it. We love you and hang in there. The sun doesn't shine everyday, nor does it rain everyday. Let go of anything that doesn't serve you.
I agree but now they are locked down by BUSINESS...
I wished before she entered into the deal, she would have made it clear NO discussing she and her sister's issues on the show...
I know it's GREAT for ratings but this is a serious matter that requires serious attention...
Very well said, Angela!👌🏽
Amen😊💛
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Your words are indeed great advice, but knowing them the way I do, it's gonna be hard for her to do that. They're a tightly -knitted family and Mama Gloria raised them to stick together no matter what. She also raised them to keep family business inside the home and unfortunately, what we're being made aware of are those family issues that were kept "secret." This is why therapy in the Black community is OKAY and often NECESSARY!! 😪💔🙏🏾
both daughters are STUNNING
i’m here for the daughters, love their support of their mother
I feel the hurt and burden that you have been carrying for the love and loyalty that you’ve shown to your family and to witness the favoritism,(not because you told us, we saw it) is heartbreaking. I just pray that your mother can rewatch this and see herself and correct her behavior towards you. Sometimes parents don’t like what they see in their children because it reminds them of themselves. I know that you’re hurting and you still want to do right by them but also understand that this is your breakthrough and victory is the result. Introducing the full fledged Tamika Scott that we have always loved and was waiting on! Do your thing Sis!❤❤❤
I am so here for Tamika! She’s getting her SHINE! Mama has personality AND one hell of a voice! It’s your season Tamika!
She got that from the bottom of ur soul singing
Tamika! I believe in YOU!! You are Loved and Supported! Period!! The way your Daughters are there to support you shows how beautiful of a job you and your husband did raising them! Your heart shines! We see it!! Prayers for reconciliations, apologies, ownership, moving forward, and healing! Love you!!
I "especially" loved how you recognized the expression on your daughter's face who has the glasses on and allowed her to speak, express herself and be heard without interrupting. That right there, speaks "volumes" about you as a Mother. That part gave me chills and brought tears all at the same time. But all in a good way. May Blessing continue to follow you and your girls and your entire family. May we all be loved and blessed 🙌 I love you all 💛
Chills & Tears🤔…..ok
I understand what you're saying but just keep in mind that Tamika is a brand and she still has to have the main control over the comments and it's direction. As a professional she knows what she wants released and not released. Her daughters are not fully in the business so they may run on with info that's not due to be released yet. Just giving an insight on this, coming from someone in the business who has to curve things in interviews all the time.
That’s what you do!!!!! “ tell me what you’re feeling” and she did it in a respectful way.
I had tears also
I just did not want to believe all of the things that even the public had been saying about your sister, but now it's very easy to believe it all. I'm so sorry you all have to be subjected to loved ones that are literal blood and treat you this way. My heart truly goes out to you. I pray for you, your children, your mom, and even your sister to get through this test and see the error of their ways and come to change 🙏🏼 Much love from Newark, NJ
I am so happy Tamika’s second daughter is her rider fr. She has clearly seen her aunt and her granny seriously mistreat her mom and mentally abuse her like the daughter said. I’m glad Tamika is loved properly by someone other than mom.
Sometimes your sibling relationship can be toxic AF! And I'm proud of you for speaking & sharing your truth Tamika!! And I'm grateful you have support around you that is genuine!!!
Facts I barely talk to mines because of the same reason...my sister can never do any wrong in my parents eyes and now she grown and spoil.
@@keishabrown1776 I feel you. Going through the same with my sister. Sometimes I feel like I’m the black sheep of the family.
@@tracyshakur4053 I say the same thing all the time
To be honest Xscape would be a great trio! Sometimes you just have to let people go and do what they want....and when they do, be sure you close the door so they can't come back! Let her go and stay solo. Tameka its unfortunate you didn't get more lead parts cuz in my opinion, you have better vocal ability than your sibling. Stay blessed Queen!
Yep! Close the door for good! She wants to go--then let her Goooo! GIT!
Yup the door needs to be closed to Tocha in the group
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Family is always the start mess, so stay strong. She will come around soon. Money comes and goes, family is forever. She should know that.
🙏🏽Thank you for sharing additional insight with us as fans of Xscape. ♥️🙏🏽 After watching this, my heart went out to you and your family💕🙏🏽 The world should Never see and know this much about personal family matters. Communication is Healing🙏🏽 Everyone has to hold themselves Accountable for some part of the confusion. This is why Jesus said to Forgive 77x7(it’s a metaphor)! It’s ok to say “I was wrong, I hurt you with my words, my actions, Please forgive me🙏🏽and turn away and do better going forward! Love Always Always Wins❣️❣️ See, everybody has an opinion, we have to learn to Work hard a Pleasing God, Not People❣️ Tosha experienced the world judging her body negatively 🙏🏽 That hurt runs long and deep♥️🙏🏽 I’m praying for Healing over her because she was and is still beautiful. It’s a Mean O World Out here🙏🏽 All these years and still unresolved is simply allowing the enemy to bounce y’all up against every wall he can. Time to beat the enemy at his foolishness! Seriously, we All got something!!! Nobody is truly right and we are All wrong!! Forgiveness, Hugs and Love… everyone make your favorite dish, come together and start with.. I was wrong starting with…. And please find it in your heart to Forgive Me?♥️🙏🏽♥️ In front of the kids and all! No one will be Perfect! Just try to be honest with each other and Love on Each Other🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽 Cut the Embarrassment- Be real to each other. Be the example we need to bring Peace to our youth and how to Rise Above🙏🏽 And it’s enough money for Everyone! Do your Solo and help each other!! And do Xscape💕 Come on Now, Step into it ♥️ All of you have beautiful voices, Sang and Show up for Your Children and Grandchildren 🙌💕♥️🙏🏽I Love Y’all
It’s just a sad situation. There’s 3 sides to every story, but I truly believe you. I pray that you all are able to get through this, but I understand that sometimes you gotta leave people where they are.
I love how well spoken Niya is and she made a good point when Tamika was saying that in spite of the favoritism that her mom was still a good mom. “Isn’t that still mental abuse?” It doesn’t have to be physical to leave scars.
Gurl everything you have done has been out of Love....God knew you would never remove yourself from the toxicity so he allowed their heart to become obstinate (like he did Pharoah) and she removed herself from you. You see it hard to get the respect from the older siblings because you followed them blindly all your like and now that you are older with children you expect respect but instead of giving you the respect you have earned they try manipulation and intimidation. Anything bit owned where they are wrong. Continue to stay prayed up but respect your boundaries you have established
As long as you know you come from place of love that includes mutual respect..let go and let God....this is a marathon not a sprint. Try to always pray before speaking and remember God said vengeance was his and he shall repay. Don't allow them to gaslight you. God will settle all of this baby girl...keep loving them and praying for them but you don't have to lay down and get walked over....You are so kind and compassionate. I felt your pain and I know this happened to you.
It is indeed mental and emotional abuse.
And if she was at that sit down I feel she would turnt up in grandma and auntie.
Yes favorites is mental abuse it revokes negative feelings
Kids will just say it when we won't.
This was beautiful sis, it's good to see ALL of your daughters in one spot,
the show made me sad, seeing everything go down like that, I pray that everything eventually works out
between you and your sister, no one wins when the family feuds!
i'm glad you let your daughters speak and express themselves as well.
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Exactly ti ♥️
Y’all look alike. Both beautiful!
They should express themselves but the one daughter's expression was not what she wanted. She should probably not be in on the conversations.
Ti, you really look like you related to Tamika. Both of you are beautiful 😍. I hope you do a show in this.
Ya'll are really twin sisters in spirit world Lovely T.
We love you Tamika I hope we continue to see you on tv more ❤
We do,her whole vibe is cool and her personality and disposition are on point.
You are so strong Tamika. I love that you are speaking out and standing up for yourself. Mental abuse is never okay. It's worse than physical abuse because those wounds take much longer to heal. I relate to you a lot. Just remember sometimes it's best to cut the toxic people out of your life and love them from afar. Your daughters are so beautiful and intelligent. You are being the mom you deserved to have. 🖤
When I watched this episode Tamika, I knew you were telling the truth and didn’t question it for one second. I could feel it. You have done nothing wrong. Please continue to be who you are… (Your voice, charisma, and energy are always wonderful when you come on screen and it resonates through the tv). I don’t know anyone who watched this and thought you were wrong. I’m glad to see you were surrounded by family that loves you and it’s a testament to how good of a person you are
I'm loving the energy of Tameka's daughters; her daughters definitely got her back. ❤️
I watched last night and was taken aback by the gaslighting and mental abuse that I witnessed. I think the good thing that’s coming from this is Tamika coming to see and understand what’s been happening to her and choosing to stand up for herself. Before seeing this I was so misinformed. What I thought was way off. Seeing how the sister and mom acts is all I needed to understand the dysfunction, blame, manipulative actions, & childish behaviors that the group has had to deal with. I was like WOWWW 😮
U said the right words. Gaslighting and mental, emotional abuse. That mom is sick and latocha is evil
Goodness. I feel triggered watching how they gaslighting and trying to make tameka look bad. Man is mind boggling and that mom is a demon and tocha is weak needing mom and husband approval and is jealous of tameka. Tocha a heartless bitter bitch
Right?! The gaslighting from Tocha and their mother was SO triggering
it was when her mom told her sister, that tamika was jealous that's when i realize the truth
@@madamknowsbest7557 Same. Her mom gives "I put bugs in my daughter's ear and pit them against each other."
I felt everything in those scenes with your mom. These scenarios are real. In many families. Your mom has two daughters and they should be treated and respected equally. It’s that simple
Tamika has always been super gorgeous to me and her daughters are absolutely gorgeous just like their mom.
Right...
I wish she would’ve addressed her mom calling her jealous behind her back. That was the worst part for me. My heart goes out to you Tamika ❤ I pray it gets better for y’all
I think she did when she mentioned there would be whispers and giggles behind her back....
@@rnbjunkie4859 I wanted her to touch on how she felt seeing it. It’s a difference assuming your mother and sister is talking behind your back, but actually seeing it is a whole other level.
@@parismichelle2952 Clearly, there's still a love for her sister and mother. I'm sure she didn't want to detail every little piece of her family business and rightfully so. She mentioned she didn't want the drama to unfold on TV but she was provoked and it just happened.
Tamika needs to be on RHOA. Bravo and Kandi, help Tamika. God will elevate you Tamika. Keep praying Tamika, God got you.
Agreed. And she’ll actually be married
I wanna see her on RHOA as well she’s the perfect cast member to bring on.
I agree. I think she and Latocha should both be on the show. Can you imagine the storylines?
It's really dope to see you model how you are processing this for your daughter's, although this is something you are still dealing with emotionally your still ensuring you are teaching them as young women the importance of processing with respect I hope they also know or learn that there are safe ways to do that and sometimes it means you have to love folks from a distance depending on how toxic the relationship is because they lived through a lot of these moments with you and it hurts them to see you hurt in the past and present. This looks like it was therapeutic for your family, wish you the best
We gotta start calling out family for mental/emotional abuse just like your daughter said. Parents need to be held accountable for that. Sometimes we get to a point where its best to love them from a distance. Whatever you do, start protecting your peace. Show your daughters how they can protect their peace.
We do, we can’t support family to any means. Sometimes “family” don’t mean right by you
The saddest scene I've witnessed in a long time was her with her Mother and Sister. I don't care how hard she worked to provide financially, the emotional support is not there and it's toxic.
This is happening in a lot of families today. It’s not right but I’m in the same shoes as Tamika just minus the moolah.
@Chawday 39 so heartbreaking. Sending love your way. No child deserves that. Lord knows my childhood was messed up. Seeing your parent is capable of being there for you but chooses to not be is a pain I wouldn't wish on anyone. 💔❤️💯
Your hurt could be felt through the screen in that episode. So much respect to/for you Tamika. I pray that you all can (genuinely) fix this. It's a hard thing to grow up and finally start speaking your truth when you don't have the support of those who are supposed to have your back. No disrespect to your Mom, but it didn't help with her whispering "She's jealous" about you to your sister during that scene.
That scene was so heart felt for me I went though the same things with my sister favoritism like she was better then me had me with so much low self esteem I needed therapy once we got older she went to jail twice 9 years all together an me have 7 beautiful children's an 8 beautiful grandbabies have my own food business God is Amazing YOU SO poised and you an your daughters are beautiful keep up the good work as I see you are God bless you and your beautiful family .
In JESUS NAME
Truth be told they are the ones that is jealous of Tamika..esp Tocha..I believe she always been low-key jealous of her fine ass sister..cause who been fine her whole life is Tamika...
Yes. I felt that too. So sad.
You are the chosen one … modern day Cinderella ! You and your girls are beautiful inside out ❤
I always felt that Tamika was the realest and most relatable one. I know what you going through. My mom is like that with my sister. I'm the so-called "black sheep" but will ride for mine. Just keep doing what you doing. We can tell that you've raised some intelligent, gorgeous, and mannerable children. GOD will continue to bless you and your family.
Be down for who's down for you. I'm not saying your sister and mom isn't because I don't know them. But we gotta outgrow these notions of riding for some one because of a title that we had no control of them getting. Love what love you. Ik outgrowing titles.
I believe everything Tamika said - I would take a break from my sister and my mom - sometimes family will hurt you more than your enemies
So true.
When you finally find your voice you glow, that light exposes what others have been able to hide over the years. God said ENOUGH! 💙💙💙
I adore everything about you ... how you ensure your children remain respectful to family, how you communicate respectfully at all times, there's so much about you that I love and respect....I NEED MORE!!!!!!!
Tamika has always been my favorite member of the group. I LOVE HER VOICE! I’m glad she’s back in the spotlight and I pray that her, her mom, and sister get on good terms!!!💜
I’ve always loved her voice i don’t know why they try and overlook her like she doesn’t have that throak 🎉
Mine too....I love her part on who can I run too😍 I believe her!
Me too! I always felt that out of the 2 sisters, Tameka was the better singer. Voice control, etc. Latocha runs be all over the place. She does too much…
Her and Kandi for me
Mine too
Tamika, take this hug. As someone who has recently discovered some of my familial relationships can be toxic and I've had to stand up to it, it's hurtful but so worth it to stand up for yourself. All the time, every time.
100%
Tamika you are a respectful lady hold your head up continue to be who you are your sister will have to deal with God and your mother suppose to clear this situation your are sibilings yes you argue with each other but do not hurt each other
I'm so proud of you, Tamika for standing up for yourself. I know it was hard for you to do that being that it's your family but sometimes family is worst than a friend to you and that's a hard pill to swallow when you're a loyal individual. Continue to stand in your truth bc God's got you, stay encouraged and prayed up..🙏🏿❤️ #justicefortamika30k
Me too
Love you ladies, thank you for the years of extraordinary music hats off to you legendary ladies to both groups. I am in 😭 hearing this I am praying 🙏 for you all, and with you all, God is more than able to bring you all through this all 💕.
I literally have the same relationship with my sister and my mom. I feel your pain. Just know that it is okay to leave toxic people in their comfort zone and put yourself first. This goes for mom, sis, bro, husband, whoever… you have to maintain your mental health for the sake of those babies. Don’t let demons work through family to bring you down.
I can relate Gloria is definitely a narssisstic mother, I have one and I have no dealings with her it's sad but this is definitely real it exists smh
I definitely can relate. My male sibling stole from my mother, lied, and got her caught up in financial distress. He painted me as the villain and was so shady he had everyone believe that I was the crazy one.. my mother used guilt to keep me imprisoned in that dysfunctional relationship. It took me 40 years to end that cycle of pain. I consider that an emotional amputation. I had to save myself so I could live. From time to time I call it phantom pain because of the good times we had.
@@herbaltrucker My sister is actually in a toxic relationship with a man that tried to kill me while I was 8months pregnant. And my sister shows no remorse for not having respect for someone that loves her dearly. My sister also tried to seduce my husband. When I discuss it with my mother, she blames me and places the responsibility on me to repair the sisterhood. I told her not to hold her breath because she would be ☠️. There are just some people that don’t deserve you. It took so much therapy for me to acknowledge that being a relative doesn’t make you family.
@@dekhiastevenson8760 yes, they totally exists. My mother is the same. This scene reopened wounds. Having a mother that will always put you last hurts. My mother is a paranoid schizophrenic. The voices in her head told her that she had to kill one of her kids in order for the rest of them to live. She selected me! Luckily after her attack I’m still here, but that same feeling of feeling unwanted was there far before her mental issues. When she was sane she showed me signs. And let’s not get on my sister…. They are two lost souls but I can’t save them. And I hope Tamika acknowledges that. She will only be hindering their growth.
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You do not owe people the space to mistreat you, family or not. I realize you have to work with them, and I’m glad you are standing up for yourself. This is the year of exposure, these unhealthy family dynamics have to stop! You may think you are doing right by telling your kids to be respectful, I get that, but they are adults now, and they have a right to feel how they do about this dynamic. It DOES affect them, and you don’t want the trauma trickle into your household. Praying for you sis.
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It’s so sad .I literally can relate to this because it was me ,and I too said that when o have kids I would not be this way ,even though my sister amd mother stole money from me and knew I had children and lied about cashing checks that came for me I still forgave them I could have put them in jail for forgery but didn’t,but I was the
Bad guy , this is unbelievable I went through the exact same thing ,my God and my mother and father divorced and she worked two jobs and kept us in school ,when I never kept my kids from her even if I did t go I let them become it was still their grandma,now they see their grandma for who she and my sister are and I tell them to keep praying for them and I love them from a distance 😢😢
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*CAN WE JUST TALK ABOUT HOW BEAUTIFUL YOUR DAUGHTERS ARE...TAMIKA YOU ARE SO BLESSED..LOVE TO SEE YALL💕💕💕*
Beautiful 😍 Lady's you and your Daughter's ❤ 🎉GOD BLESS YOU LADIES!
WE BELIEVE YOU. WE SUPPORT YOU. 🖤
I’m glad you spoke up. Continue to advocate for yourself!
You and your daughters are beautiful.
After watching the first episode you have def gained a new fan. Sometimes you have to leave toxic family members where they are.
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👄 Everything has an expiration date ( relationships friendships marriages FOOD) good while it lasted when it's time to go it's time to go👀 I haven't spoken to my mother's daughter( sister) in almost 20 years I buried💀⚰️that relationship looong time ago 👀
Tamika is BEAUTIFULLLLLLLLL and her voice is phenomenal. Xxoo Wishing you all healing and cohesiveness.
Money and make-up
@@Mimi-cg2cw you should hurry and get you some.
Hats off to you and your daughters. What a beautiful relationship you have with them and they are clearly wise beyond their years. ❤
Sometimes, you have to let family go. Would you allow a stranger mistreat you? No one has the right because they are blood to treat you like trash. You are extremely talented. Use your beautiful voice to do other work without the group or your sister: duos, commercials, voiceovers, etc. Peace of mind is everything. I hope you get it. Your girls and you deserve it.
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 it hurt but sucess is the best revenge
@@awwyeahme2 True!
Amen!
That part
Baby your daughter is wise beyond her years...I love that she calls out everything for what it is but I really love on how she told her daughters to still respect them.
It be your own people! They definitely set you up and attacked you. But you held your own. I'm so sorry to see them hurt you. Especially, mama. I saw how your eyes lit up when you talked about the love you have for her. But sometimes you have to keep distance between toxic people (even family). It's not worth your sanity.
Exactly, sometimes you of to walk away from family for your own sanity and to save yourself. That’s what I had to do to save myself!
Exactly!! her mental health is more important, than her narc sis!!
Omg yes preach you said a mouthful I definitely know about toxic family members & so call friends and you must distance yourself from that and yes i can love you from a distance i don't have to be around negative energy or situation
I’m so proud of you Tamika for raising two beautiful daughters and speaking your truth but you didn’t deserve to be done wrong at all and God got you and your daughters no matter what y’all keep shining 🌟🌟⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🌟🌟🌟🌟⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🌟
I just love me some Tamika Scott! So real, well spoken, and just THAT girl! ❤❤❤
She is Definitely a Real One
You are NOT alone. I COMPLETELY understand the dynamics between you, your sister & mom. Unfortunately a lot of families deal with this
We need Tamika on RHOA plssss!
No I want her to go over to Carlos king and do a love and marriage atlanta show but never mind she can’t because he tried to steal their life story right? Smh 🤦🏾♀️ guess it has to be RHOA oooooor they could bring back R&B divas. But wait 🤔I think Carlos produced that too. Damnnnnnnnnn
No we don’t.. that drama
Will destroy her marriage .. if she is married
@@Blessedtruly3000 I don’t believe so. She doesn’t seem to have that weakness. Her girls would definitely check her cz they seem to be very close nd protective of their family unit! U could be right tho
Housewives would be cool
This hurts me so much…..
BTW y’all are sooooo very beautiful!!!!!
We believe you!! You and your daughters are well spoken! You’ve raised them well!
We love you Tamika! We are glad you got your story out. We appreciate your honesty. ❤🌸🙏🏽
Tamika, God knew what he was doing when he BLESSED you with 3 daughters. I’m gonna leave it at that! This made me tear up so bad ❤😢
Exactly ❤
Tamika your family is beautiful. Keep it y'all closeness together always. Always be real and supportive with each other. 😊