Speak On It The Queens Of R&B Ep. 3

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  • Опубликовано: 12 дек 2024

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  • @715Jman
    @715Jman Год назад +732

    One thing I respect about Kandi is her being able to breakdown the facts & make it make sense!

  • @Neenja7
    @Neenja7 Год назад +1743

    The fact that Tocha is so shady and she now sings gospel as a solo artist...is crazy.

    • @christinajones7696
      @christinajones7696 Год назад

      Yes, it shows how fake Tosha is in life & religion. Motown Gospel should be ashamed of giving her a Solo career.
      Yes she has a beautiful voice but she is full of a negative, spiteful, jealous, selfish, and self centered Spirit. That’s why she has not been blessed with a Solo career. Oh, and Rocky controlling her. Based on what I saw at the Motown meeting, he couldn’t manage a kids playdate. Did you see how he lied and threw her under the Bus.

    • @shevaunbryant8554
      @shevaunbryant8554 Год назад

      That's why when "Christians" condem people for listening to secular music I sigh bc most of the gospel artist are dealing with real demonds and send them out in their music just the same

    • @Livingyourbestlife2day
      @Livingyourbestlife2day Год назад +63

      karma is so real.. Let's see what happens

    • @hikama.3318
      @hikama.3318 Год назад +77

      She is trying to redeem herself but it’s not gonna work 😂

    • @dw9054
      @dw9054 Год назад +45

      It’s very telling

  • @maxielwilmore3132
    @maxielwilmore3132 Год назад +682

    No one can deny Kandi is the most logical business savy woman in this group. You’re inspiring!

  • @1991Meka
    @1991Meka Год назад +774

    I get it now...The mama is holding onto decades worth of hurt from the daddy leaving and struggling. Tocha is holding onto decades' worth of hurt from struggling to go solo, blaming everyone. Like mother, like daughter.

    • @glam2gobeauty811
      @glam2gobeauty811 Год назад +69

      Facts!!!! It's a learned behavior! Tameka is finally getting her voice after always having to stand by them wrong or right. I actually feel for Tocha even though she's wrong. Rocky is the type of man whose only supposed to be around for a season and he's overstayed his purpose for 20 plus years. Once she frees herself from the opportunist she'll finally get free from herself.

    • @karuragrant9800
      @karuragrant9800 Год назад

      Kandie and her fake laugh I'm still LaTocha all day long Kandie n her mom was messy ass he'll Kandie has a little jealousy of Tocha n her husband speaks on the group he's not in it. Everything Kandie says ain't true. They dad been gone years ago Yall some slow Assss People's They need Latocha. That's why Kandie was on Atlanta house wives for all them yrs She did money to get her stuff going LaTocha still keep ur distance and KEEP DOING YOUR THANG N YES KANDIE HAS SOME JEALOUSY OFU THAT U ARE DOING UR THANG. N TINY IS HER LITTLE PUPPET LOL. HEADLINE TOLD Y'ALL KANDIE IS MESSY WANTS N THINK SHE SLICK

    • @simplyhanifah
      @simplyhanifah Год назад +26

      You hit it right on the nose!!! Well said👏🏽🎯🎯

    • @TawneyKingBlake
      @TawneyKingBlake Год назад

      ​@@glam2gobeauty811 YES INDEED!!! I feel the same way about Tocha's husband. That shark zeroed in on her when she was struggling with low self-esteem of always being singled out as "the fat/heavy girl and he mesmerized her with more attention than the any man has ever shown her (probably even her own, Father). All he had to do was seal that deal with marriage. SHE BIT THAT POISON APPLE. He's now the puppet master.
      It's the same blueprint that all opportunists/pimps been using long before baby girl was even born.

    • @miraclesblessings5044
      @miraclesblessings5044 Год назад +20

      Doesn't the mom remind you of Evelyn Braxton? Still mad.i wonder if Mr Scott left for her best friend like Mr Braxton did?

  • @angelinamendez5027
    @angelinamendez5027 Год назад +358

    Kandi is a whole show by herself! 😂 Go girl! 🙌🏾

  • @washinc1
    @washinc1 Год назад +215

    This is why Kandi is such a successful business woman. She’s all about taking care of business, and give no FK’s about who don’t like it. Keep the personal feelings out of it, and get the money!!!

    • @latoyajohnson8695
      @latoyajohnson8695 Год назад +5

      That’s what I’m saying and Kandi is ALL ABOUT THE BENJAMINS BBY!!

    • @babybluepradas1
      @babybluepradas1 8 месяцев назад +1

      Lets not 4get kandi dont mind giving advice on business

  • @Trkstar831
    @Trkstar831 Год назад +381

    That cut away to Tiny reading that "if you had an a** to kiss " text and her laughing and saying "hayle nawl" cracks me up every time they insert it lol

    • @nmsmiaa
      @nmsmiaa Год назад +20

      I loved when tiny laughed and said that 😂

    • @pafena
      @pafena Год назад +12

      Me too girl, that was funny af 😅

    • @ziahni19
      @ziahni19 Год назад +10

      Everytime!!!! I replay the scene for that part cause I be dying 😂😂😂

    • @diamondd4235
      @diamondd4235 Год назад +7

      Everytime! 😂Tiny be the funniest 😂😂

    • @thatsseauxnish_
      @thatsseauxnish_ Год назад +1

      Same😂😂😂

  • @marlynhunter6384
    @marlynhunter6384 Год назад +53

    This is why Kandi CONTINUES to secure the bag! She keeps the emotions and feelings out of the business dealings of the group. Both groups could learn a lot from her.

  • @andreac.6196
    @andreac.6196 Год назад +710

    When I say I LOVE that Kandi goes back and explains everything after each episode! And Blaze has Kandi’s entire face … so pretty!

  • @formershadow
    @formershadow Год назад +573

    Kandi won on Masked Singer for a reason and KILLED each and every song. She can sing and I love her voice. The texture of her voice IS Xscape’s sound. I don’t care what anybody says.

    • @santinodamian3274
      @santinodamian3274 Год назад +32

      And let’s not Forget She is a Multi Millionaire for a Reason and She is Loved by a lot of Megastar Artist that She Worked with before in a Song or an Album like Ariana, Mariah, TLC and the List Goes On, She is Humble and very Down to Earth in Real Life but I can’t say the same with LieTocha even if She is Infront of the Camera or in Real Life with Her Wackass Husband, She is just not Likeable and that’s Why Her Solo Career never Blow Up Back in the Day and also that’s Why She doesn’t have the Career Kandi got and She is not even making any Millions and that’s Why She stole from Her own Sister “Allegedly” Just Saying 😊🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @aletacannon3833
      @aletacannon3833 Год назад +13

      Exactly but time she stepped out on the voice to sing I knew it was her by her unique voice

    • @sawyersgirl5142
      @sawyersgirl5142 Год назад +11

      And Patti LaBelle, Gladys Knight and Chaka Khan lost. What's your point?

    • @babybluepradas1
      @babybluepradas1 Год назад +7

      U bttr speak on it and speak a word soon as the knight angel open her and started singing i knew it was kandi😊😊😊

    •  Год назад +25

      These are facts. I truly don't understand the hate. She's rooted in foundation - financially, business- wise, vocally. She's really a powerhouse. I hate that she's not getting her flowers because she's really entertaining and gives us so many layers and game.

  • @protectedmusiclover850
    @protectedmusiclover850 Год назад +99

    Kandi can definitely sing! She can write the hell outta a hit song! And she's the smartest, yet the realest! She's fun and has her RIGHT MIND!

    • @TheSingingMystic87
      @TheSingingMystic87 Год назад +6

      Exactly. A no-singing azz person wouldn’t be able to create a cultural phenomenon that lead to the creation of Britney Spears (with T-Boz). Y’all don’t hear the similarities?? Mhmm. Thank about it for a moment!

  • @kirahodge-rochon6212
    @kirahodge-rochon6212 Год назад +448

    LaTocha is burning bridges with you all. I saw you all sing as a trio and have to say that she is extraneous (y'all killed it). If she keeps being this way, Xscape 3 may need to let her know that her services are no longer needed. Her energy is so negative and her husband is toxic. I don't blame you for not wanting him to handle Xscape business (he is shady grady).

    • @CremeDaLaCreme81
      @CremeDaLaCreme81 Год назад

      Agreed especially with her services are no longer needed. The Temptations did the exact same thing when David Ruffin thought he was bigger than the group. One monkey don’t stop no show or no money.

    • @4.carmeljwn
      @4.carmeljwn Год назад +12

      Agreed🙌🏿

    • @Beautifulme1976
      @Beautifulme1976 Год назад +34

      And the sad part is either she doesn't see it or don't care. I feel like if it don't work this time she shouldn't be allowed to come back.

  • @mickeyjnone3825
    @mickeyjnone3825 Год назад +448

    To ME! It seems that Kandi and Tiny KNOW more business savvy than the rest. No Shade! ❤ They LEARNED and Graduated on THE HUSTLE!!😘

    • @karynbrooks9920
      @karynbrooks9920 Год назад +26

      It makes that Tiny would understand the business b/c her Dad was a singer too.

    • @SweetLadySuga
      @SweetLadySuga Год назад +32

      Yep and and I think there mom's are educated on the business also.

    • @josephinemitchell8733
      @josephinemitchell8733 Год назад +21

      Right hustle!!!!!but petty and greedy...

    • @SupernoJob
      @SupernoJob Год назад +8

      No shade...JUST FACTS!!!

    • @SupernoJob
      @SupernoJob Год назад +12

      @SweetLadySuga yep..coz when u hear of them tell the stories...kandi and Tiny mummy were very instrumental in the success of the young ladies...tiny mummy found out about and secured the bag that rocky ended up thieving

  • @arielelisa9012
    @arielelisa9012 Год назад +68

    As an attorney, I hope Riley pursues both… a career in the music industry plus a JD/law license goes a long way. You can do so much and have instant credibility with a law license. Blessings!

    • @mykoniichistorychannel
      @mykoniichistorychannel Год назад +4

      I was thinking the same thing.

    • @maggieyoung8090
      @maggieyoung8090 Год назад

      Definitely agree!

    • @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518
      @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 Год назад

      Entertainment Law could be her specialty too cos in the Afrobeats Industry, a Nigerian lady bagged her law degree and spearheaded the whole Entertainment Law Industry in that country as we speak. She combined Internarinal Business with that same Law degree to impact performers and artists from singing to dancing. I hope Riley listens to her mom quick cos she's got time on her side as well.

  • @2400md
    @2400md Год назад +317

    Mom still came in wrong- I believe Tamika hit the nail on the head. Mom appears to still be very angry about her husband leaving -and sees her ex husband when she looks at her.

    • @shamay4893
      @shamay4893 Год назад +6

      Wow

    • @deonnadyson
      @deonnadyson Год назад +14

      Yass I agree and she is still very bitter...

    • @timjohnson9854
      @timjohnson9854 Год назад

      I agree 100% mom need to stay in her place. She’s trying hard to correct herself, but don’t know how to do it me myself, and I would totally cut her off.

    • @sacredmoongoddess7591
      @sacredmoongoddess7591 Год назад +17

      Yes and it’s like she puts the burden of her marriage ending on Tamika. I bet Tamika looks just like her daddy!

    • @kellyjones5509
      @kellyjones5509 Год назад +6

      People talk about Tamika's mother but the behavior of mama joyce is just as bad.

  • @beeblessed7732
    @beeblessed7732 Год назад +673

    Shoutout to @Kempire for making an appearance in tonight’s “Speak on itttttt” (In my Kandi voice)🐘❤️✨🐘

    • @beeblessed7732
      @beeblessed7732 Год назад +37

      Thank you Kandi for all the continued love you show to our favorite Content Creators! We FOREVER love your realness, authenticity, and integrity!✨💕

    • @hobochic4me
      @hobochic4me Год назад +12

      🐘🖤

    • @DominicanTrela
      @DominicanTrela Год назад +15

      Yessss @Kempire !!!

    • @mb1969mb
      @mb1969mb Год назад +16

      I love Kempire as much as Kandi, two of my favorite people. Straight forward and fair. Not talking in circles.

    • @suennelstyle401
      @suennelstyle401 Год назад +6

      I was so proud❤

  • @krishawnapatrice6532
    @krishawnapatrice6532 Год назад +136

    Her breakdown of why they should headline in the show explains why she has so many successful businesses

    • @countrycaliforniagirl32
      @countrycaliforniagirl32 Год назад +9

      💯💯

    • @tarzanjane9592
      @tarzanjane9592 Год назад +4

      Swv ❤❤❤❤

    • @daradiant1
      @daradiant1 Год назад +6

      ​@Tarzan JANE But they never headline, that's the problem. They have opened up, but never headlined. You have to negotiate the pay and contract like Kandi said.

    • @tarzanjane9592
      @tarzanjane9592 Год назад +4

      @@daradiant1 mona Scott should have made the terms and conditions clear. It is tv. So good drama 😆

  • @LeslieLaRay757
    @LeslieLaRay757 Год назад +292

    Kandi is really giving FREE game to all groups going forward!

    • @Dee.Mcw15
      @Dee.Mcw15 Год назад +7

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @mareelovely
      @mareelovely Год назад +6

      She really is. 👍👍👍

    • @yourshyness32
      @yourshyness32 Год назад +5

      💯💯💯

    • @Rockkin23
      @Rockkin23 Год назад +1

      Disappointed in you Kandi. It doesn't matter if you guys headline venues where there are MULTIPLE other attractions. The tour/show was about the two groups coming together and it made all the sense for both groups to share the billing. Thats all they was asking.
      You say Xscape only headline tours but the receipts show yall have upcoming shows/recent past shows where that is not the case.
      If you like to research and pull receipts you should know SWV has in fact headlined shows in the last 6 years. Also, it's tacky to discuss another artist booking fee...and I question how you have that info.
      Last thing where were those " millions and millions" of followers when you and tiny released music that flopped?

    • @keepsit100atalltime9
      @keepsit100atalltime9 Год назад

      That includes SWV

  • @shurlawhite3632
    @shurlawhite3632 Год назад +567

    Good for her getting a 9-5. Because she stayed humble, God came thru for her. 👏🏾 Leelee

    • @paquette67
      @paquette67 Год назад +46

      So much respect for Leelee ❤️❤️❤️

    • @VashtiPerry
      @VashtiPerry Год назад +15

      Right.

    • @deangelo8498
      @deangelo8498 Год назад +19

      You can walk into the grocery store and talk to LELE all day without a problem.

    • @aleenicole1872
      @aleenicole1872 Год назад +9

      Down playing them on the low, so she can say why they are more worthy of Escape being the headliner! SWV all day, They are genuine real people with real life issues, not no reality based fans here! Died hard SWV fans, get a life Kandi 🤔🤐🙃🤨😀

    • @deangelo8498
      @deangelo8498 Год назад

      @@aleenicole1872 Are SWV they headliners though? It’s just business with promoting the shows. Check the record. XSCAPE, sold out 28 shows around the country and people was screaming for more. And Kandi and Tiny have millions of online fans due their reality shows, so promoters look at the numbers of fans you have following you on line and who can drive the tickets sells.

  • @acenewb1e
    @acenewb1e Год назад +106

    I JUST LOVE the fact that Kandi is about her business and comes with the receipts

  • @NorthernBell1
    @NorthernBell1 Год назад +240

    We can all learn from Kandi ladies. Business is Business! No hard feelings. I love it. You a class act Kandi.

    • @toysspot1552
      @toysspot1552 Год назад +1

      Yes in deed-

    • @dw9054
      @dw9054 Год назад +1

      Business doesn’t have to negate fairness and sisterhood it should be a win win for everyone.

    • @jamiekins1961
      @jamiekins1961 Год назад +11

      ​@@dw9054 real question: how is swv "losing"? They need to fire their management if those "professionals" can't get them the touring money kandi and tiny got xscape

  • @GregThatDudeTv
    @GregThatDudeTv Год назад +264

    Kandi is definitely about the business! She explained this well!

  • @reginanyang3170
    @reginanyang3170 Год назад +35

    I just love Kandi! She is so humble and real!!

  • @stephenhawkins9476
    @stephenhawkins9476 Год назад +292

    Tea and Ki Ki's aside. Kandi went in on the business, probability and statistic aspects of touring, album sales, numbers, and demand... Smh, she understands and explained the infrastructure of the music business and how the money aspect of it works like a BOSS! I felt like I was in Finance or Economics class again!! No wonders she's Wealthy.🖤👑💎

  • @ReedMeFashion
    @ReedMeFashion Год назад +206

    Kandi is an absolute force to be reckoned with in the business world. Her intellect and business savvy have been proven time and time again, and her success is a true testament to her hard work and dedication.
    What’s truly inspiring about Kandi, though, is her commitment to advocacy and the use of receipts to back up her arguments. She’s not afraid to speak up about important issues, and she always comes prepared with the facts to support her beliefs.
    As a Taurus, Kandi embodies the traits of her sign by valuing the truth and being direct in her communication. This makes her a formidable opponent in any business or personal situation, as she is never one to shy away from speaking her mind and sticking to her beliefs.
    Overall, Kandi’s intelligence, business skills, advocacy, and Taurus traits combine to create an unstoppable force that is truly admirable. It’s no wonder that she is so highly respected and loved by many!

    • @michellehobson3714
      @michellehobson3714 Год назад +6

      Great comment💯

    • @pamelasimmons8651
      @pamelasimmons8651 Год назад +1

      ❤❤

    • @sweetbrownsuga504
      @sweetbrownsuga504 Год назад +1

      ❤💯

    • @rudolphjones4657
      @rudolphjones4657 Год назад

      Well she was a 4.0 her and Monica are some smart business women

    • @altagraciacharles6029
      @altagraciacharles6029 Год назад +5

      She needs to hold a masterclass on negotiating from a position of strength. There was so much knowledge she was dropping that ppl even the producer did not pick up on. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Pgschool37
    @Pgschool37 Год назад +60

    We need a Kandi Burris-Tucker Business course @ HBCUs across the country! She's always been very business savvy. I'd gladly take a role at working behind the scenes for her & her husband.

  • @PositivitySpeaks101
    @PositivitySpeaks101 Год назад +125

    Kandi is successful is because she is smart in business!! I like that

  • @kaygqabe6099
    @kaygqabe6099 Год назад +315

    I love how Kandi explained the whole headlining situation, it definitely makes sense now.

    • @xoangelicaf0523
      @xoangelicaf0523 Год назад +6

      I agree makes sense

    • @mrslassiter2649
      @mrslassiter2649 Год назад +1

      I’m on 2:35 in so I can’t wait to see it.

    • @pmandr29
      @pmandr29 Год назад +29

      This show was supposed to be leading up to the two groups doing a JOINT "one night only" concert, which is not the same thing as Xscape being headiners for shows of their own and needing others to open. So with that said, I'm with SWV on this.
      Edited to say: The comment Kandi made saying that, by doing so many shows, SWV is oversaturating the market CLEARLY didn't take into account the fact that the shows SWV does are GLOBAL, not strictly in the U.S., which speaks to their universal draw.

    • @mizzlalababy
      @mizzlalababy Год назад +23

      No it doesn't. It's a joint SHOW not a tour. They need to co-headline. And Kandi is dead wrong. This is SWV not Danity Kane

    • @divadoll606
      @divadoll606 Год назад +11

      ​@@pmandr29 Me too. First thing Kandi said was that SWV was on THEIR (Xscape) tour. But, now this is both groups tour, whole different situation) so co-headline.

  • @llv9111
    @llv9111 Год назад +73

    This Speak On It session should be called "Perspective". Kandi Yams, you brought wisdom, life pearls and perspective to what entertainers go through in the industry. I enjoy all your episodes but this one hits!🙏🏾💯

  • @itsjussstoy
    @itsjussstoy Год назад +231

    I love Kandi and the way she explains everything. Love this show.

  • @DiaryofaBasicBW
    @DiaryofaBasicBW Год назад +227

    Ah, I love when Kandi puts her business acumen on display. It's why there was a whole class taught behind her business decisions.

    • @viyoolacouronne6419
      @viyoolacouronne6419 Год назад +7

      And getting paid off it 😂 I like Kandi idccc what no one say

    • @eboni257
      @eboni257 Год назад +1

      ​@@viyoolacouronne6419 ❤❤❤

    • @Rocki42
      @Rocki42 Год назад +2

      @@viyoolacouronne6419 m too!

    • @WhatReally980
      @WhatReally980 Год назад +4

      That’s why her and tiny are prospering if she does have an ego she keeps it in check it’s business first because if tocha goes solo who’s going to buy it with that attitude

  • @kiristenb2013
    @kiristenb2013 Год назад +36

    I love love love Leelee she's so real and authentic.

  • @sxm76
    @sxm76 Год назад +140

    Kandi, if you read this.....I love your personality. You are one of the most relatable celebrities. You're honest, talented and humble. You also CAN sing. You have a knack for dealing with negativity head on. Much love

  • @CandicePeugh
    @CandicePeugh Год назад +428

    I was holding back tears with Tamika and her mom. It hurt my feelings listening to her mom yell at her and come down on her so bad in her house too. Smh

    • @cybergroupie4407
      @cybergroupie4407 Год назад +61

      And she wanted to talk about respect! Hmph!

    • @CandicePeugh
      @CandicePeugh Год назад +30

      @@cybergroupie4407 right! Blew my mind! I’ve been in that same situation with my mom to an extent. This show definitely brings another level of realness to all of them.

    • @wmarlon310
      @wmarlon310 Год назад +1

      Girl please no you didn’t

    • @CandicePeugh
      @CandicePeugh Год назад +26

      @@wmarlon310 I’m sorry, I didn’t what? For a second I thought you assumed you knew me…

    • @verachambersrfh2574
      @verachambersrfh2574 Год назад +25

      Tamika momma need to be ashamed of herself

  • @Luvlytoy
    @Luvlytoy Год назад +16

    The editors and producers of Speak On It is amazing!!! I love it.

  • @adebtfreemom
    @adebtfreemom Год назад +122

    I’ve learned so much about the business in just these 3 speak on it episodes. Kandi is definitely about her Biz and I love it

    • @HarmonyandHope7
      @HarmonyandHope7 Год назад +2

      Yesss, She should start Kandi Music Business University 🎉🎉

    • @shortyp1000
      @shortyp1000 Год назад +1

      Kandi's need to be clear and transparent in business is somehow looked upon as being shady?! smh Clearly anyone who thinks all parties shouldn't be on the same page and discuss the finer details of their agreement has never done business.

    • @adebtfreemom
      @adebtfreemom Год назад

      @@shortyp1000 why you replying to me? 👀 I’m talking about business tips not mess

  • @adored74
    @adored74 Год назад +216

    I love Kandi's business sense and how she is not afraid to be the boss chic in any situation. The rest of Xscape sat there silent while Kandi spoke up for Xscape. SWV was united with all of them showing disappointment. At the meeting, Xscape made Kandi look like she was the only one with the issue. Continue being a boss, Kandi, n every room you enter.

    • @byrdtaylor5703
      @byrdtaylor5703 Год назад +15

      Right! I didn't like how they didn't say anything. Unless that part was taken out.

    • @Tw0Dots
      @Tw0Dots Год назад +4

      women in the industry should be sticking together. I’m hearing wayyy too much about girl-groups that have been through petty sht. Clout really does mess with ppl’s heads

    • @obibraxton2232
      @obibraxton2232 Год назад +7

      @@byrdtaylor5703 Tiny did speak up though but it was mostly Kandi.

    • @asdfghjkl3003
      @asdfghjkl3003 Год назад +1

      But kandi was still wrong though. Xscape is no bigger than swv, and they should not headline over swv. SWV is just as famous as Xscape, and still actively tours.

    • @Rocki42
      @Rocki42 Год назад +2

      @@asdfghjkl3003 nope she not wrong! SWV is on bullshit because they have opened up for Xscape in the past and still doing it now!

  • @nvbee5024
    @nvbee5024 Год назад +36

    Ok..I'm going to say it
    I have never been a Kandi fan. But in just these 3 episode I see why she's successful and I can respect that as a fan.
    And look, at the end of the day RECEIPTS dont lie 🌻

  • @SidneyShaw1214
    @SidneyShaw1214 Год назад +291

    Thank you for breaking the BUSINESS down for us Kandi. That’s why you are a boss. 💪🏾

  • @myandersonangelsjalynnlail252
    @myandersonangelsjalynnlail252 Год назад +218

    You gotta love Kandi's transparency. If she doesn't explain the inside drama we see on social media we will never know the truth.
    SWV is an amazing group and there was no shade just business

    • @janellejulianajoy
      @janellejulianajoy Год назад +12

      Right! Kandi will admit what she said and explain why she said it, but, people still hear what they want to hear.

    • @docbri5ks
      @docbri5ks Год назад

      Agreed!

  • @meannoharm1561
    @meannoharm1561 Год назад +17

    tamika's moma didn't have not one tear. if i had this kind of conversation with my babies and it's this serious my heart would be touched and pained to know my child feels like i'm not treating them like a loving mother i wouldn't be able to stop the tears

  • @sanderlinhardaway4249
    @sanderlinhardaway4249 Год назад +39

    One thing about Kandi, she is going to explain everything from top to bottom okay!!

  • @1991Meka
    @1991Meka Год назад +161

    18:15 Tocha is ENVIOUS of Kandi. She was so used to hearing that she had the best voice in the group all the time that she's confused, bitter, and ENVIOUS that Kandi superceded without the group, and she did not. She's had 20yrs now to establish herself as a solo artist, and she has not successfully done that.

    • @Opinionatedbees
      @Opinionatedbees Год назад +23

      Yes why wait til the group is back together and y’all doing a show on Kandis bravo channel

    • @juliab2507
      @juliab2507 Год назад +36

      Why didn’t she do her solo during this 20yr break?! She did it during the show to use it as her catapult because she couldn’t do it on her own.

    • @LeeLee-xx9zc
      @LeeLee-xx9zc Год назад +22

      Yup totally agree. She thought she was the best singer in the group and she thought she was going to leave the other ladies behind but Kandi and Tiny careers has grown way beyond hers

    • @robbincarter-hopkins2228
      @robbincarter-hopkins2228 Год назад +15

      I agree. Since Tochas mom knows jealousy, I wonder if she sees how "jealous" Tocha is towards Kandi...?

    • @Jodha1
      @Jodha1 Год назад +15

      @@juliab2507 That's the number one question. Homegirl had 15 plus years to establish herself as a solo artist. What has she been doing all this time? She has not put out any music. She's a user.

  • @sdani219
    @sdani219 Год назад +79

    The precedent has already been set with Escape as the headliner. I love that Kandi clarifies what we’ve seen and heard on the show. I hope going forward these two iconic groups will come to an agreement and tour together. Millions love both groups music and are eager to show support by attending the concert. So, I hope the ladies go ahead and get to it!

    • @Rockkin23
      @Rockkin23 Год назад +6

      That's what kandi said, thats not necessarily the truth. Mona is the creator of the show and could've been telling each group something different.

  • @Candy.A.
    @Candy.A. Год назад +92

    Ouuuuu chile! I love me a Kandi Koated breakdown of facts. Some people really need to move beyond the headlines. Love that Kandi was able to offer the viewers a different perspective and still maintained a generous level of respect for her colleagues!

  • @mjnettles800
    @mjnettles800 Год назад +419

    Kandi’s laugh is contagious 😂😂😂

    • @MosesJD86
      @MosesJD86 Год назад +6

      Like a baby Mama Joyce

    • @ellebynoe
      @ellebynoe Год назад +8

      Tiny too🤣

    • @denatheexplorer
      @denatheexplorer Год назад +8

      My niece, who’s special needs, was annoyed by her laugh last night 😂😂😂😂.

    • @amaris7619
      @amaris7619 Год назад +3

      Her and Tiny make me holler when they laugh.. I love it.. Taurus and cancer vibes lol

    • @jaykristian745
      @jaykristian745 Год назад

      Ashanti and Kandi, best laughs in the industry.

  • @daylonwright3635
    @daylonwright3635 Год назад +28

    I hate that the world is purposely missing all of the points Kandi is spelling out so clearly.

  • @siswitvision75
    @siswitvision75 Год назад +81

    When Kandi starts talking business I'm on the edge of my seat like I'm back in school 🏫😊👍👏

    • @betrapvideos
      @betrapvideos Год назад +2

      I was just ready to say her and Toni Braxton be breaking them FINANCIALS down lmao...school teacher teaaaaaze

  • @docbri5ks
    @docbri5ks Год назад +54

    I love how articulate Kandi is about business. It was hard to hear because we “the public” just doesn’t understand.
    The clarity is good.

  • @ziahni19
    @ziahni19 Год назад +10

    Everytime that clip of Tiny laughing at the text thread plays when she says “Hell nawl” I crack up. 😂😂😂

  • @influentialbeautij
    @influentialbeautij Год назад +80

    Kandi about to hit 1 million on RUclips !! With these reviews and show hunny and I’m loving it❤🎉

  • @dannygentry6988
    @dannygentry6988 Год назад +140

    The facial expressions that Kandi is giving this episode is everything 😅😅😅😅😅

  • @candace577
    @candace577 Год назад +30

    Da fact that they tried Kandi, knowing she is a Business Woman 🙄
    & what everyone is missing:
    Is the fact that they sat down to discuss management & Tochi wanted to pray about it, but never came back to tell us what GOD said 😳😊
    #TeamKandi 💚

  • @venusonearth2189
    @venusonearth2189 Год назад +207

    Kandi broke this down and printed those receipts in real time with 4k hd clarity! Now THAT’S Taurus energy♉️

  • @novalove4790
    @novalove4790 Год назад +98

    Kandi is so transparent here and I love it. I respect her business mind so much.

  • @TheChoralist
    @TheChoralist Год назад +16

    I agree Kandi I'm a grown ass man and that dinner scene with her mom made me really emotional too. For various reasons. For 1, it's cause Tamika comes off as such a freaking sweetheart & it seems like she honestly doesn't have a bad bone in her body, so seeing her cower like that with her head down kind of like a kid in trouble stressed me out lol because I 100% know that feeling! I'm proud of the restraint she showed, that tells us she's used to her mom hitting the roof like that. In your head You be torn between "ok that's my mama let me just shut up & be respectful & let her have her lil moment & let her think she running sumn" & on the other hand you be trying with all your might not to just cuss the bitch out & throw her out ya house!!😂 My mom is super strong & passionate just like hers too so all I can keep saying it I understand her 100%. Especially us African Americans, I think it goes all the way back to the plantation for us & how we couldn't dare talk back to anyone that's in charge because it could cost us our life. Unfortunately it's carried over generations & black kids don't get to speak up or it's immediately called "talking back" or being disrespectful smh I watch Tamika videos & I'm glad she broke that cycle in her own home fr

  • @demartorris
    @demartorris Год назад +201

    Kandi is on point about handling your business in that music industry! You can't let it eat you alive and have nothing to show at the end!💯

    • @ivyunnanelson
      @ivyunnanelson Год назад +20

      Right, and that's why she is still eating off money from the 90's she's about business. Kandi needs to start a business 101 class

  • @Its_ReneeNicole
    @Its_ReneeNicole Год назад +129

    Honeyyyyy! Kandi never fails to deliver on Speak On It!! She keeps it real, breaks it alllll down, yet stays relatable and down to earth. Kudos! 👌🏾And her powerful team is always on point as well!👏🏽👏🏽 #blackexcellence

  • @ThatDAMNAngel_
    @ThatDAMNAngel_ Год назад +64

    I completely understand the rationale behind Xscape wanting to be the headline HOWEVER! They should’ve co-headlined, SWV is a big group & should be able to share the spotlight equally… it’s one night! A complete tour, may be a different conversation!

    • @Cyrinthia7
      @Cyrinthia7 Год назад +4

      Exactly

    • @fixthatface483
      @fixthatface483 Год назад +1

      But why would Xscape reduce their headlining fee to co-headline? It makes no sense.

  • @jacquelinemcdowell8670
    @jacquelinemcdowell8670 Год назад +44

    Kandi and Tiny alone has stayed relevant enough today that the reach across all age brackets. They are the Headliners

    • @tynikquasmith7170
      @tynikquasmith7170 Год назад +7

      That is not true! And I love me some kandi. Being on housewives does not relate to the success of Xscape they’re not even the same audience. The only reason why they had a sold out tour their first year is because they hadn’t toured since the 90s. That’s the part that she’s not telling you. And since that show it has not been any other sold out tickets they sold well but it hasn’t sold out. SWV has been back together since 2013 so they had their Run of sold out Tours when they came back together. Plus Xscape is getting the hype now because they have four members back but as of right now they are not selling out tours. And the headliner is not automatic for any group it depends on who the artist that is touring. Xscape has only toured with people who are under their bracket professionally and that’s why they get the headliner for their tours. SWV tour with people like Toni Braxton they are on a different level and caliber of touring and they even tour international. So that’s the difference and she has not shared that. So two different calibers SWV sold 40 million records as of today and escape only so 9 million. And they are very relevant because they had their own TV show a few years ago and they didn’t need any connects to get it. Statistics don’t lie nor do their Grammy nominations. Xscape has never gotten the nomination from the Grammys association. The matter is they are the bigger group just like TLC is the bigger group.

    • @jarricah7920
      @jarricah7920 Год назад +1

      @@tynikquasmith7170so true

    • @sunnybright8206
      @sunnybright8206 Год назад

      Period

  • @1sava
    @1sava Год назад +143

    One thing about Kandi is she’s ALWAYS been the business brains behind Xscape. Even back when they were starting, she would always stay behind and talk to the execs about the group and advocate for them. Even this very show they’re on right now is thanks to Kandi. She always means business. Business and feelings don’t mix. We don’t care that you sold 30 million records in the 90s. SWV ain’t popping like that no more. Even their stage production and presentation is not up to par with Xscape. The facts speak for themselves!

    • @iamblvckivi
      @iamblvckivi Год назад +9

      Right this part n swv was out longer so shouldn’t they have sold more df 😂😂😂😂😂😂 n only one of them can sing anyways

    • @copywrites124
      @copywrites124 Год назад +1

      SPEAK ON IT

    • @latoyajohnson8695
      @latoyajohnson8695 Год назад +1

      Sure does!!

  • @PositivitySpeaks101
    @PositivitySpeaks101 Год назад +115

    Kandi is the only one who did something with her success !!! She is very business savvy

    • @juliab2507
      @juliab2507 Год назад +47

      And Tiny!!

    • @keeshamadison4112
      @keeshamadison4112 Год назад +35

      Don't forget tiny!!

    • @Frwill126
      @Frwill126 Год назад +28

      Tamika went and became an actress and was in a lot of plays and Tyler Perry things too

    • @MadameJoWellness
      @MadameJoWellness Год назад +22

      Everybody but Tocha has had successful careers outside of Xscape 😂. Go figure.

    • @deangelo8498
      @deangelo8498 Год назад +13

      Tiny & Kandi wrote for TLC and Destiny Child and she is married to TI, and she got 5 houses, so she can care less if they tour or not.

  • @chrisblair7586
    @chrisblair7586 Год назад +161

    The episode was really good but it’s so crazy that the problem child is dragging this out for her solo project. I love Kandi she keeps it real and she produces receipts

  • @Abbydoobey
    @Abbydoobey Год назад +14

    I yell at the tv each time Tocha smiles with SWV, frowns with her OWN money making group, and always playing victim. In my Nene voice: “GIRL! SHUT UP‼️”

  • @VuDuGrrrrl8075
    @VuDuGrrrrl8075 Год назад +181

    THIS is the Kandi I love. THIS is a boss speaking. It frustrates me so much to see her in situations where she's being railroaded, whether it's her mama or a housewife. Boss up, Kandi! I love it. Love. It.

    • @BNorth82
      @BNorth82 Год назад +15

      Kandi is a good businesswoman periodt.

    • @EricaB4385
      @EricaB4385 Год назад +4

      Right!

    • @Beautifulme1976
      @Beautifulme1976 Год назад +4

      She not a multimillionaire for nothing

  • @keepsit100atalltime9
    @keepsit100atalltime9 Год назад +170

    Kandi your daughter could be an entertainment lawyer. Lord knows WE BP need legit one's in the music industry. So many of our black artists have been ripped off.

    • @lovelyrithatsme7050
      @lovelyrithatsme7050 Год назад +18

      I think that is what Riley wanted to do initially

    • @donnadabbs7171
      @donnadabbs7171 Год назад +2

      Oh yeah. And Phaedra can be her mentor. 😂😂

  • @henluv1
    @henluv1 Год назад +12

    😂I like when Kandi talks honestly about Tocha and her stank attitude 😂

  • @VicWalker
    @VicWalker Год назад +100

    As I was watching this video, I kept thinking "The people that don't understand business will be pissed." Kandi has proven that she has a mind for business and can take emotions and feelings off the table. It's how Kandi breaks things down for clarity that makes me a fan. As for the LaTocha situation, as someone who saw all of this unfold back in the day, I just see it as history repeating itself. Nothing but love for both groups.

    • @janellejulianajoy
      @janellejulianajoy Год назад +5

      Tiny gave a snippet as well. I'm sure this was something she and Tiny both spoke about, thoroughly, before presenting it to the other two.

    • @brucep9393
      @brucep9393 Год назад +3

      Imagine where they would be as a group without Kandi. When Kandi was not apart of the group the other members where performing at backyard bbqs and convention centers. Like literally, Im not even tryin to be mean but they did not know how to elevate their brand.

  • @Sc0rpion
    @Sc0rpion Год назад +35

    The shade about selling more in the 90s doesn't hold up because even in 2023 - SWV has over 3 million monthly listeners on Spotify while Xscape doesn't even have 1 million. So not only did their music perform better in the 90s, it's still performing better now in the streaming era.

    • @kshagh2375
      @kshagh2375 Год назад +2

      But people ain't going to see them on tour like they doing for Xscape.

    • @nikitawashington9328
      @nikitawashington9328 Год назад +2

      Facts. SWV is known world wide not just in the black community.

    • @aj25055
      @aj25055 Год назад

      @@kshagh2375 not true. We going to see both groups.

    • @Sc0rpion
      @Sc0rpion Год назад

      @@kshagh2375 SWV stays booked for a reason! Promoters must be seeing a financial return for that to happen. Xscape tour did well but they also featured other established artists on the bill which helped them.

    • @kshagh2375
      @kshagh2375 Год назад

      @@Sc0rpion Child you guys really lack knowledge about the music or acting industry. So I ain't going to argue with you. You think Megan Markle with all her titles is requesting Oprah Winfrey size checks when she about to read scripts or Lizzo asking for Beyonce kind of money to perform? Get real... Kandi and Tiny got other projects, jobs and interests going on... they don't need to full up their calendars with tours if they could be making more money elsewhere. SWV got plenty of time to waste.... and many shows to do because the checks ain't hitting the same, if they were those ladies wouldn't be working so hard to be barely maintaining a good standard of living except for Taj who married a football player. Girl.. Lelee called teabag coffee, eggs, bacon and biscuit from a can a professional breakfast. Get the h*'ll out of here with this BS.

  • @altagraciacharles6029
    @altagraciacharles6029 Год назад +8

    Dayum Kandi... Now I understand why people can't stand me. I sound just like YOU!!! 😂😂😂 Lady!!!!! You deserve your flowers. There is NOTHING wrong with advocating for yourself.

  • @terahutt726
    @terahutt726 Год назад +81

    When I first heard Just kick. I was Kandi's voice that I loved on that song. It really put them on. Kandi can sing and write. Kandi is a very talented business women, wife, and mom.

    • @SuperThickk
      @SuperThickk Год назад +10

      Jermaine Dupri made a $$ move!!! Kandi lead MOST of the songs, because of her alto voice, which was what was "in style" in the 90s, BECAUSE of Toni Braxtons love should have brought you home from Boomerang made alto voices "the new IT thing" in the 90s... post Anita Baker that is....

    • @chanecak
      @chanecak Год назад +3

      @@SuperThickk also T Boz

    • @nrozie01
      @nrozie01 Год назад +3

      Feels So Good was the one for Kandi for me!❤️

    • @SuperThickk
      @SuperThickk Год назад +1

      @@chanecak FACTS

  • @LoSmitable
    @LoSmitable Год назад +113

    I LOVE KANDI.... SHE'S REAL, RAW & YOU CAN'T NEVER SAY YOU CAUGHT HER IN A PURPOSEFUL LIE!!!! Ya can't beat that❤❤❤❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @quintezrashi5566
    @quintezrashi5566 Год назад +12

    Like you said last week, Kandi, the reason Tocha need some “freedom” is because she needs a WIN outside of the group. I don’t think she ever recovered from never having her own success! Kandi, you’re successful, Tiny is successful, Tamika has had some success with doing plays, etc… She’s trying to get that HIT as a solo artist that she never got! Chile! I’m convinced she’s been the problem all of these years. I always have thought that but I can see that ever more clearly now

  • @cynthiabushnell355
    @cynthiabushnell355 Год назад +45

    Kandi you're the most honest and reliable source of explaining and speaking the truth. I love love love your realness, and honesty in your intertainment businesses.

  • @anteater8873
    @anteater8873 Год назад +43

    Kandi is the Most real , raw and loveable housewife ever!!

    • @tabposey
      @tabposey Год назад

      Period!! The only one ever!!!

  • @pennygillespie8210
    @pennygillespie8210 Год назад +7

    Thank you explaining how the tours work with promoters. If I had to pick between the two groups I would pay to see Xscape in concert. That would be on the of my list first.

  • @rainclouds1188
    @rainclouds1188 Год назад +69

    Damn Kandi, I love your business savviness, you are awesome !!!!❤

  • @theartofmotivations
    @theartofmotivations Год назад +70

    I love how Kandi always keep it real, she don't care who you is she coming straight fact checking no tea❤

    • @xoangelicaf0523
      @xoangelicaf0523 Год назад +4

      She sure don’t she’s not intimidated by anyone she gon show you them receipts & I love it.

  • @biankabryant5175
    @biankabryant5175 Год назад +19

    When people say Kandi can't sing, I direct them to 'My Little Secret'.....with them Mariah Carey///Ariana Grande octaves👍🏾

    • @pandorasbox6607
      @pandorasbox6607 Год назад

      🎯🎯
      Don't forget about on "Understanding" as well

  • @MistahMusic86
    @MistahMusic86 Год назад +139

    We need more than 6 episodes!! We need to see Tocha reap what she’s sown and realize her husband Rocky is the problem!!

    • @welforddabney925
      @welforddabney925 Год назад +10

      He is so fake and I can't believe she is taking a back seat to him! What has he ever done? I will wait! I definitely believe he is behind stealing her sister's money! He truly irritates my soul! Her album and solo career is going nowhere! She is like 20+ years too late now! 12

    • @kendraross7981
      @kendraross7981 Год назад +2

      It’s actually 10 episodes in all

    • @Dimples12420
      @Dimples12420 Год назад

      That’s why his mistress was just blasting him

    • @lmichelle80sbaby
      @lmichelle80sbaby Год назад

      I don't think she has realized her issues yet, lol. Can't play what hasn't been shot!

    • @essence1985
      @essence1985 Год назад +1

      She will reap once that solo album flops 😂

  • @readbetweenthelines385
    @readbetweenthelines385 Год назад +100

    One of the things I love about Kandi is how she educates you about business. I too was wondering why they could not co-headline, but now I get it. She does not speak on it unless she can backup what she says with receipts. As for Tosha I feel like they thought this show was going to have a positive impact on selling her solo project, but to me I feel it has done the opposite. I don’t have any numbers to back that up, so I could be wrong.

  • @csheppard41
    @csheppard41 Год назад +17

    Kandi is genius when come to her business mindset!!! She knows the ends and outs of business, which is why she is Miles ahead of all these ladies!! I greatly appreciate your boss Bull energy , I Love how you’ve created and held on to your own narrative. Life is not who people tell you are, it’s who you show up and BE everyday and with that your success will follow!!

  • @EmmettLMoore
    @EmmettLMoore Год назад +36

    1) I believe Tamika about her mother. The energy she gave was giving guilty vibes. 2) You are always a BOSS and as the scene was rolling I already knew that you were in business mode and this Speak On It summarized everything. Also I appreciate how this show presents reality despite some of it not being shown. You have always been a genuine person and I understand all your tears. You don’t fake shyt. Keep being Kandi.

  • @jasminebishop9691
    @jasminebishop9691 Год назад +21

    One thing about Kandi she is going to tell the truth and she will also hold herself accountable when she needs to. I love that about her❤

  • @mikewagner4898
    @mikewagner4898 Год назад +18

    I admire Kandi's transparency and how she broke everything down! I love both groups but after hearing Kandi speak from a business perspective, I certainly side with her especially considering that SWV previously had been opening for Xscape anyway. SWV took things personally when in actuality it's just business.

  • @715Jman
    @715Jman Год назад +132

    Baby when Kandi showed the receipts of SWV opening for them SEVERAL times from the past and recently….I giggled 🤭. Facts are facts. It is what it is.

    • @tynikquasmith7170
      @tynikquasmith7170 Год назад +35

      Those wasn’t real receipts because those flyers was from their own Great escape tour which was their own tour that they were doing. Other artist open up for other people tours so that was Totally difference. Of course they are going to headline for their own tour.That is not the same as a joint tour or promoter tour that’s the difference. The fact still remain regardless that SWV is the more prestigious group. Kandi keeps saying that they were headlining for six years but that means she had artist under her that were lesser than them in order for her to get the headline. Unlike SWV they have people like Toni Braxton that they open for so they Are on a different caliber of touring. Plus, they do international touring and that’s why she said here in the United States. Common sense says if you have international audience that you are a bigger act. Shoot SWV can help get them international tour dates

    • @sheliascott9563
      @sheliascott9563 Год назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

    • @moneymaker3208
      @moneymaker3208 Год назад +9

      @@tynikquasmith7170 what you said is null and void because if they can open up for Xscape on their tour then why not open for then for the tour they were planning?

    • @jarricah7920
      @jarricah7920 Год назад +7

      @@moneymaker3208why would they do that when escape couldn’t even agree to come together as a group and even do the tour This was SWV idea they asked exscape to join them so it makes sense to do a joint headliner or SWV headlines it

    • @brettsfav4
      @brettsfav4 Год назад +2

      @@tynikquasmith7170 Thank you! 💯

  • @kivigray0423
    @kivigray0423 Год назад +69

    We still love you, Kandi. I don’t believe the majority of viewers and fans were upset at you for setting the business expectations up front. I think we just felt you all should’ve been co-headlining. And it also appeared to be about just the one show.

    • @Veon_Ray
      @Veon_Ray Год назад +7

      Exactly... That's all...

  • @valeriefranklin3087
    @valeriefranklin3087 Год назад +6

    I don’t always Agee with everything Kane says or does, but she has always been honest and credible. She’s not perfect, but she keeps it real and is a phenomenal business woman. Haters are gonna hate and Kandi will keep being great!

  • @sscott504
    @sscott504 Год назад +52

    Kandi's transparency is what makes her Gold!!!!!

  • @noelcoley1245
    @noelcoley1245 Год назад +38

    It makes more sense now that Kandi explained everything. Also, we don't know the inns & out of their business so we really can't speculate off of our emotion. I love both groups.

  • @taylarogers313
    @taylarogers313 Год назад +6

    I absolutely LOVE Lee Lee! Her story definitely had me in tears.

  • @LJAmar777
    @LJAmar777 Год назад +80

    Kandi is a Boss and a Business Woman so when she speaks it pays to listen. I love SWV & Xscape

    • @johnniesal7018
      @johnniesal7018 Год назад +4

      At least one Xscape member should back Kandi up because they will all benefit and Kandi shouldn’t have to always be the one to take the heat.

    • @LJAmar777
      @LJAmar777 Год назад +2

      @@johnniesal7018 ASE I agree

  • @allspotsclean
    @allspotsclean Год назад +47

    Ace knows his place value numbers, he read it better than some grown folk, great job Kandi and Todd❤

  • @rashonejohnson2109
    @rashonejohnson2109 Год назад +3

    Great video Kandi and keeping shining as this beautiful flower Boss you are

  • @ncolastyleri
    @ncolastyleri Год назад +20

    What was hilarious is how all episode they caught Tiny rolling her eyes like “here we go with this shit”. She’s the peace maker but she sick of Tocha’s shit too! 😂

  • @poetz153
    @poetz153 Год назад +72

    Sounds like everyone is bringing emotions to the table, while Kandi is bringing business.

  • @BluePeaceLane
    @BluePeaceLane Год назад +3

    I love how respectful and emotionally supportive you are to Tameka and her Mother.

  • @2400md
    @2400md Год назад +84

    Business is business- Timing is everything- Stay humbled Kandi

  • @khadijahwright2888
    @khadijahwright2888 Год назад +72

    I appreciate the fact that Kandi takes emotions out of this in every video and states facts. Keep rising queen💜

  • @blknitenca
    @blknitenca Год назад +8

    Kandi gonna always break it DOWN!!!! Gloria had me crying in frustration. Tamika knew her mama is full of BS!