My boyfriend and I are also in a long distance relationship!! He lives in Japan and I live in the US:( I get to see him in 15 days though!! You guys are so cute!!! I wish you the best~~!!
hey RUclips says this is from a week ago so I guess you might be packing now and getting ready for your trip, so I want to say good luck!!!! the flight will definitely suck after like, 5 hours hahaha but it'll be worth it!! have fun, take pictures to remember your time together, and I wish you the best too!!
I have decided to stay single but who knows what will be the future like in case I get in LDR can you please give an advisce how to trust in LDR stuff🤗🤗🤗
Hi Rachel, am new to this channel... love the ❤️ story. There are so many many interracial couple online and I find you guys the most genuine couple and unrehearsed on camera.Keep the videos coming even though you guys are far apart, am sure you can keep filming about each other somehow. Best of luck. I noticed the audiences keep asking for more cuddles and are dying to see more affection but what they probably fail to remember is that parents and families are probably watching every step of your relationship too.hehe,☺️
thank you for your kind words 💕 and also thank you for bringing up family hahaha literally my Uncle is always the first to watch one of my videos and whenever he brings it up I'm like oh no....did I curse a lot?! what does he know?! but whatever lol and thank you again 😊
This video helps me a lot. I am 950 miles away from my SO and we finally met a week ago after almost two years of phone calls and text messages. It is so important to be optimistic because the distance won't last forever. I graduate from university next May and hopefully we will close the distance soon thereafter. You guys are adorable!
Best of luck 💕💕💕 Long distance requires two strong, committed, motivated people - if you can survive this together, you'll be sure to survive anything 💕💕
Hi Rachel! It's nice for me to see this video, I recognize so much about my own situation in here. I also have a boyfriend living in Korea (Jeonju), but we actually met online March 2016 and have been together since April 2016. All your answers sound so familiair to me. Trust is so important in these situations. I myself live in the Netherlands so we have 7 hour time difference at the moment, which is still quite good compared to other time zones :) But we are of course both busy, I work, he is studying English to hopefully come study here. We call mostly when I come back from work/university and he is about ready to go to bed. I recognize the sleeping pattern so much! My boyfriend always stays up late (depending when I finish work or university) so we can still call. Only my boyfriend's parents still don't know about our relationship (his sister and friends do) as he is a little bit more traditional in that sense (which is still weird for me but I respect it). He came here March 1st and stayed here for almost three months and it were such a great three months. But now, I miss him so much of course but indeed it is duable. I also look towards the future, we try to look ahead (which can be quite difficult sometimes) which is important. You need to trust and love each other. We also do have plans to marry in the future and we hope he will able to come live here in the Netherlands in hopefully two years, but getting a visa here is sadly so difficult... Knowing my boyfriends schedule is also really important to me so I know when he can or cannot talk and I find it important to share my schedule to with him. "We have to capture every moment" is something my boyfriend would say as well because when we are together, it is only for a limited time. I recognize so much and love seeing this video so much T.T Knowing I am not the only one in this kind of situation. And the pictures too!!
it's always so nice to find other people in similar situations!!! we are not alone 😊 be patient with his parents, it's definitely a culture thing, and Andy's mom meeting me so soon was definitely VERY atypical. but it's so awesome that he spent so much time with you, I hope nothing but health and happiness for you two. best of luck in the future, especially with the visa!!! fighting!!!!!!!!
Indeed ^_^ yes, his sister also mentioned is really normal to wait until you have plans to marry. Even though it is weird for me, I do respect it of course. For him it was really weird to be with my family for three months hahah, as I still live at home with my parents. But him and my parents really get along even though my dad's English is not good at all hahaha they still were able to communicate somehow. I really hope we can be together again at the end of this year where we are going to try to get him here again for a few weeks or like a month (as I will be unable to get off from work as it's Christmas season and they already gave me 3 weeks off last year...) and we are also going to try to get him a working holiday visa, which means he can stay here for one year as a tourist but he is also allowed to work. I really treasured the three months he was here, but those months also went by soooo quickly! I also wish you so much health and happiness, you look so adorable together!! And I hope you two will be together soon as well
there is a beautiful purity to watching two people who do not speak the same first language try their best to understand each other anyway. I'm so glad that he was able to get along with your family and father well. I'm considering a working holiday visa too, but we'll see lol. again, best of luck!!
You are an incredible couple, I hope that you be able to stay together in the future and be more and more happy. Your love is an inspiration to us, thank you!😊💗
aw you both are so cute. I wish you two the best of luck and glad you share your experiance to give others hopes and tips. you two are great people. Thank you and keep going:)
thank you, don't I know ☺️ my previous relationship was very toxic, and being with Andy has really allowed me to heal and remember my worth. I am truly blessed to have found him 💕
rachel rose diary True, but it’s not only him or your combination. There’s something so...mature, so calm in the way you think. Kind of emotional sensitivity that will always help you in any relationship! Like your thoughts about the necessity of experiment independent life by yourselves before living together as a couple. You may think this is something obvious, but believe when I tell you that the common sense is the least common of the senses! Everything you two say show the personal growth you both are experiencing. About my couples I use to say: No matter how much it last. What really matters is to be good for both while it last (even when it last only a weekend) because then also the break off can be natural and positive. And this is achieved with a true communication. Andy and you are an example of what I mean! Keep following your intuition and building your happiness!!!
"common sense is the least common of the senses" I love this 😂😂 in all seriousness though, this means so much!! thank you infinitely for leaving such kind words ☺️ hopefully we'll continue to be such a good example!!
I use kakao for video chat cause the Between app doesn't have that option. But my boyfriend in Korea and I use Between mostly. I'll be in South Korea this September (just bought my plane ticket this past feb) to visit him. I have to admit I never been happier, talking to each other is the first thing we do in the morning and the last thing we do at night (in our respective time zones haha). But I lucked out, my ticket was only $964 round trip, a little over a thousand after I added insurance.
*Clutches my chest* $964 ROUND TRIP IS SO CHEAP YOU LUCKY LUCKY PERSON the little emoticons on Between are very cute, I admit, but we mostly just use that app to keep track of our days now lol. Good luck in September and in the relationship in general!!!!! Fighting 😄😄
Right??? I kept watch on that price and as soon as I could I got it, ironically it was $966 when I was watching it but when I bought it it had gone down 2 dollars. Thank you!!! ^_^
actually maybe you can answer me this, September into early October, weather wise, still summer time? Not sure if its similar to the states or not. Buying a whole new wardrobe for this trip haha. And I am a short sleeve girl. haha
I live in Philadelphia, and can attest to the weather between the North East and Seoul being very very similar. There might be some nice sunny warm days, but it will not still be summer and you will need a jacket at night at the very least lol. I get cold easily, so I'd already be in jeans and jackets lmao
Aww I didn't see the notification! Lol might not remember me BUT YOU GUYS ARE SO ADORABLE AHHH MY HEART IS MELTING OMG, as always you still look beautiful
I'm in a long distance relationship too, whenever I call him he won't answer it. And just give me a plain message like, goodmorning & goodnight iloveyou's only. I think being in a LDR is that you tell stories but it feehls like he doesn't care. 😥 Btw, stay strong! I salute lovely couples like you. =)
thank you! And I think you should have a serious conversation with him to avoid misunderstandings and establish common goals for the relationship. You should be on the same page and want the same things, and know when you can speak to each other. I support you and GOOD LUCK!
Thank you. I already did that, hahaha. I always get this answer "I'm at work, i'm cleaning" but when I try to call him he is talking to someone. What will I do? I am getting tired with same shts. 😭
you deserve better!! a relationship requires two people, and both sides need to maintain the other, you can't be the only one doing all the work. find someone who makes you a priority 💕
My boyfriend is from korea as well, nd m from morocco.. And we will be in a long distance relationship for about 2 to 3 years, which is really hard! But u really gave me hope, strength, and confidence!! And new way of thinking!! thank u so much!! Ur such a great couple! Hope ur relationship never ends!! And i wish u act as same as u said in the future as well! I hope we can keep in fighting until the end!! Love u guys!! And thank u again!!!
I hope you and Andy continue your relationship with much love from the heart! Also continue your studies as a senior and finally love each other! Good luck Rachel and Andy 🎓👑🎩💑
I am in a long distance relationship with my Chinese/Indonesian boyfriend its been 5 months since i seen him last but he will be coming to see me in December then we have planed to move to Indonesia together and i will be meeting his family 😊 we have been together for a year and very happy we always communicate and trust each other of course you have to do this especially living so far away (Jade)
I'm always very happy to hear about other long-distance relationships that are going really well!!!! moving to Indonesia sounds like such a great adventure, best of luck to you both 💕💕💕flourish and thrive!!!
I just started a LDR with my boyfriend, and the things your bf says reminds me so much of my bf hahaha You guys are so cute together and your video actually helps me understand the LDR with my bf better. We are now seperated for nearly a month and I also get like upset when he doesnt write me, when I know he should have time actually? I had a very honest and open conversation with him about it and I really do think it gets better from now on. I see him again in 5 months so, good luck to me that we can do it like you guys did :)
I'm glad your conversation went well!!!!! and thank you for all of the kind words. best of luck to you two 💕💕💕 it never gets "easier" per say, but you two will become stronger 😊
You inspire me. Ops i mean all of us that watching your videos bcs both of you proof that ldr actually longlasting and very worth it to wait and be patient and suprises is coming on 💯😭 yall so cute im in love 💕💕😩
Awww same thing happened to me... I am a Malaysian and he is a Korean >4000km apart from each other Communication is really important I mean good and working communication We normally maintain daily night video call for at least 1 hour or more But no forcing, if any of us is busy or tired then we will skip calling We will be getting marry next year Another half year long distance for us My number one rule in LDR: make sure he or she loves you just like how you do LDR is pain is hard But true love will get through all these ❤️❤️❤️
Yes, I think not forcing anything if someone is tired or busy is super important too!!!! And best of luck to you both for your remaining half a year 💕💕
Youre both sooooo cute omg I can really see how mature he is & you deserve a man like him 🙆 I hope you get happily married and get cute children in the future 💐💕💕
thank you for your wonderful video, you two are so adorable! I'm currently in a ldr too but I don't know how to tell my parents and my friends because most of them are really conservative... I met him over the internet but we really love each other (we already met btw).
Annikanians i think that fact that you have already met in person, despite the relationship mainly being online, actually helps your case a lot. a lot of people think it's weird because you "don't really know that person" but constantly talking/texting allows you to know someone SO much better than just sitting in the same physical space. your community might not get it at first, but after time they might become more used to the idea, and if they love you and see that you are happy and safe, they will eventually come to terms with things. whenever you decide to tell them, i really wish you all the best, and best of luck with the relationship too!!!!!!!
Rachel and Andy thanks so much for this video! My bf and I are always wondering how other LDR couples cope. It isn't for the weak! ㅋㅋㅋ And if I could give extra advice to those out there: Keep thinking about the future. Have hope about the future and it's a great motivation to keep going. Oh and I recommend 'Between' app!! It's much better than kakao! Good luck to you both 🇺🇸❤️🇰🇷
Stephanie Ramos thank you so much and we also use Between hahaha i guess we both forgot to mention it, but before we sleep we like to write little notes to each other in it and also i really love the emoticons, i wish i could export them to kakao lol. and i agree that thinking about the future is the best way to cheer yourself up and keep positive 😊
You guys are so cute together 😊 such a pretty couple haha. I'm kinda glad Australia and Korea are only an hour apart .... You guys are so patient with each other. My bf and I have been dating for just over 16 months (7 months long distance which will end next month when I go to Korea for exchange 😄) I'm just curious about you guys and your plan for the future .... We have been talking about different options, Korea is a really fun place to live .... But perhaps not so good for raising kids .... What do you guys think? And what about supporting Andy's parents? In Asian culture (and what we personally have to consider now) the children become a main support for their parents vs the west when parents try to be as independent as possible. Do you guys have a plan for looking after his or your parents? We're a little stressed right now considering everything while also trying to establish our own lives, we could use some advice if you have some 😅
thank you!! we talk about that in our Boyfriend Tag video! But it's a little confusing I think haha so when we're together for good and the distance is closed I think I might make a video dedicated just to how we met 😊
don't be scared! if the relationship is strong and you trust each other fully, never act on pettiness, and always tell each other how you're feeling, it won't be bad at all ☺️ there will still be lonely times and miscommunications and the weird feeling of not knowing what their day is like, but it's SO worth it to come out stronger on the other side!
do you know jess and gabe on youtube? they also started as a long distance couple and are married now! you should check them out if u haven't already :)
haaai , i'll turn 18 this year yet I im single and i was thinking to had a long distance relationship cause this is what I always dream of but yet I got none because of business . -.- I putting down a comment don't even know if I need a advice or else , I just expressing my feeling BECAUSE IM TURN 18 in few months left and I need boyfriend . Oh! is it okay for me to find a love one in the age of 18? ^ㅁ^
expressing your feelings is a good thing, and happy 18th birthday, that's an important one! Actually, I was still technically 19 when Andy and I first met, so maybe 18 isn't too young for love ^^ just make sure he likes/loves you for YOU and be safe and happy 💕 good luck!
thank you!! we met by chance through a language exchange app. my friend basically dared me to download it, and I was only going to keep it for 24 hours. I met Andy in that 24-hour window, and the rest is history~ ☺️
I did not go to Korea FOR a Korean guy, I went to Korea to learn about and experience another culture, language and history. Andy was just a very lucky bonus ^^
@@rachelrosediary Reminded me of Aquarius because he doesn't talk much. I was close. I've noticed that people from certain zodiac signs don't open up easily. Some people would say Aquarius are talkative, but I don't get that feeling. I find communication with them quite difficult because they usually don't talk much about their life. I was born in the last few hours of Taurus.
Hi you also know Andy is too quiet right XD You guys are cute together, but I feel like Andy doesn't seem too enthusiastic or active. Do you have to play actively all the time while he always plays the passive role? Like do you talk 80% of the time and he only answers a few very short sentences? Why don't I see him look at you with love and sweetness? He always looks away from you or he glances at you shortly. Is he really loving you? I don't understand this maybe you are not showing his active part off camera but I hope he can be more active and talkative to you! Andy you gotta treasure this girl of yours please let him see this comment XD
hello again sam! I was afraid he would come off this way, but there is a real reason behind his body language and such. this was filmed during our last full day together, and we are both quite sensitive people. not being too touchy or cuddly was a way to keep it together for the sake of the video. if I was in his lap while talking about not touching each other for 6 more months, if would have reminded both of us that I was leaving very soon. it was cut, obviously, but we both started crying at one point because of that reason. believe me, he can be VERY goofy and cute and childish in the most positive way, and our conversation flows very easily. he loves me SO much and of course it's hard for everyone to see, but it's very real. I'm absolutely positive that after the distance is closed and we aren't as emotional over our situation, he will become much more comfortable and everyone will begin to see his cute side, too. Don't give up on him 😊
Wow so you mean you two(especially he) have been holding your intense and strong emotions towards each other the whole time because if one of you let it out then it would burst out nonstop and it would be a torture to leave each other? I see your strategy there, to reduce the emotional stimulus imposed on each other so that you both are able to move on and build an amazing future together. Taking it slowly and calmly to maintain the longevity of each other's endurance. And you are right I start to see that he really loves you, he didn't speak much but whenever he talks he gives some mature and sensible content that can benefit the relationship in the long term. I actually am really happy and touched seeing you guys kiss, despite the kiss was just a fleeting moment. In the future I look forward to seeing more of the affectionate side of you guys like cuddling and rolling together on bed haha. Good that you didn't give up on him and I don't give up wishing you guys a long lasting relationship. Thanks for the reply!
You guys are so cute together 😊 such a pretty couple haha. I'm kinda glad Australia and Korea are only an hour apart .... You guys are so patient with each other. My bf and I have been dating for just over 16 months (7 months long distance which will end next month when I go to Korea for exchange 😄) I'm just curious about you guys and your plan for the future .... We have been talking about different options, Korea is a really fun place to live .... But perhaps not so good for raising kids .... What do you guys think? And what about supporting Andy's parents? In Asian culture (and what we personally have to consider now) the children become a main support for their parents vs the west when parents try to be as independent as possible. Do you guys have a plan for looking after his or your parents? We're a little stressed right now considering everything while also trying to establish our own lives, we could use some advice if you have some 😅
taemint9793 hello! good luck and have so much fun on exchange!!!! our basic future plan is to live in korea for a few years, but then come back to america when we want to have a family. we have already agreed that we would rather our potential kids be in the American school system due to multicultural kids being more common (and not called things like "mixed blood") and because it's not as stressful as the Korean system with the college entrance exams and after-school tutoring expectations and what not. in terms of parents, we have not discussed that yet. I would personally be open to having a parent move in with us, but we both have other siblings that could potentially shoulder that issue as well. although i would be open to andy's mother coming to live with us in the States, she does not know english, and so i worry that she would not actually be happy when us or the kids are away. it's a difficult question, one that we haven't had to think of yet, but i really wish the best of luck to you and your boyfriend ☺️ have a really great time together and all the best!!!
I'll be going to yonsei :) How about you?? message me on instagram @seoulmate0307 (cringy username but I can't be bothered to change it :/) and we can talk more haha I wanna make some more friends in Korea!!
taemint9793 ohh me too! i just made Instagram so i don't have any photos but i'll hit you up! i'm @_uyustagram (also cringy but i like the Korean word for milk lmao)
I'm literally tearing up I hope I find a man one day that adores me as much as he adores you omg
I hope you do too!!!!! Keep your head up girl, you never know when luck will strike 💕
"I swear I'll love you forever"... #boyfriendgoal best wishes, guys! 💙
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My boyfriend and I are also in a long distance relationship!! He lives in Japan and I live in the US:( I get to see him in 15 days though!! You guys are so cute!!! I wish you the best~~!!
hey RUclips says this is from a week ago so I guess you might be packing now and getting ready for your trip, so I want to say good luck!!!! the flight will definitely suck after like, 5 hours hahaha but it'll be worth it!! have fun, take pictures to remember your time together, and I wish you the best too!!
That's wonderful ❤
I have decided to stay single but who knows what will be the future like in case I get in LDR can you please give an advisce how to trust in LDR stuff🤗🤗🤗
Hi Rachel, am new to this channel... love the ❤️ story. There are so many many interracial couple online and I find you guys the most genuine couple and unrehearsed on camera.Keep the videos coming even though you guys are far apart, am sure you can keep filming about each other somehow. Best of luck. I noticed the audiences keep asking for more cuddles and are dying to see more affection but what they probably fail to remember is that parents and families are probably watching every step of your relationship too.hehe,☺️
thank you for your kind words 💕 and also thank you for bringing up family hahaha literally my Uncle is always the first to watch one of my videos and whenever he brings it up I'm like oh no....did I curse a lot?! what does he know?! but whatever lol and thank you again 😊
This video helps me a lot. I am 950 miles away from my SO and we finally met a week ago after almost two years of phone calls and text messages. It is so important to be optimistic because the distance won't last forever. I graduate from university next May and hopefully we will close the distance soon thereafter. You guys are adorable!
Best of luck 💕💕💕 Long distance requires two strong, committed, motivated people - if you can survive this together, you'll be sure to survive anything 💕💕
Hi Rachel! It's nice for me to see this video, I recognize so much about my own situation in here. I also have a boyfriend living in Korea (Jeonju), but we actually met online March 2016 and have been together since April 2016. All your answers sound so familiair to me. Trust is so important in these situations. I myself live in the Netherlands so we have 7 hour time difference at the moment, which is still quite good compared to other time zones :) But we are of course both busy, I work, he is studying English to hopefully come study here. We call mostly when I come back from work/university and he is about ready to go to bed. I recognize the sleeping pattern so much! My boyfriend always stays up late (depending when I finish work or university) so we can still call. Only my boyfriend's parents still don't know about our relationship (his sister and friends do) as he is a little bit more traditional in that sense (which is still weird for me but I respect it). He came here March 1st and stayed here for almost three months and it were such a great three months. But now, I miss him so much of course but indeed it is duable. I also look towards the future, we try to look ahead (which can be quite difficult sometimes) which is important. You need to trust and love each other. We also do have plans to marry in the future and we hope he will able to come live here in the Netherlands in hopefully two years, but getting a visa here is sadly so difficult... Knowing my boyfriends schedule is also really important to me so I know when he can or cannot talk and I find it important to share my schedule to with him. "We have to capture every moment" is something my boyfriend would say as well because when we are together, it is only for a limited time. I recognize so much and love seeing this video so much T.T Knowing I am not the only one in this kind of situation. And the pictures too!!
Wow your boyfriend seems sweet XD
it's always so nice to find other people in similar situations!!! we are not alone 😊 be patient with his parents, it's definitely a culture thing, and Andy's mom meeting me so soon was definitely VERY atypical. but it's so awesome that he spent so much time with you, I hope nothing but health and happiness for you two. best of luck in the future, especially with the visa!!! fighting!!!!!!!!
Indeed ^_^ yes, his sister also mentioned is really normal to wait until you have plans to marry. Even though it is weird for me, I do respect it of course. For him it was really weird to be with my family for three months hahah, as I still live at home with my parents. But him and my parents really get along even though my dad's English is not good at all hahaha they still were able to communicate somehow. I really hope we can be together again at the end of this year where we are going to try to get him here again for a few weeks or like a month (as I will be unable to get off from work as it's Christmas season and they already gave me 3 weeks off last year...) and we are also going to try to get him a working holiday visa, which means he can stay here for one year as a tourist but he is also allowed to work. I really treasured the three months he was here, but those months also went by soooo quickly!
I also wish you so much health and happiness, you look so adorable together!! And I hope you two will be together soon as well
there is a beautiful purity to watching two people who do not speak the same first language try their best to understand each other anyway. I'm so glad that he was able to get along with your family and father well. I'm considering a working holiday visa too, but we'll see lol. again, best of luck!!
I think that it is really amazing that despite cultural differences and langauge barriers people can still fall in love :) Best of luck to you two!
kindness is kindness, a good heart and spirit are universal. thank you for your kind words ☺️ best of luck to whatever you are doing now, too!!
You are an incredible couple, I hope that you be able to stay together in the future and be more and more happy. Your love is an inspiration to us, thank you!😊💗
thank you!!!!!!! much love 💕
aww when you guys talked about the marriage. wish you all the best
thank you!!! 💕💕💕
all the best...😍😍
careson tingnamai you too!!! whatever you do, all the best as well 😊
his voice is so cute!!
thank you!!!! I agree!!!!!!! it's lower when he speaks Korean which is SUPER 10/10 nice
aw you both are so cute. I wish you two the best of luck and glad you share your experiance to give others hopes and tips. you two are great people. Thank you and keep going:)
Jennie Prue thank you so much 💕💕💕
Girl...you two have such a HEALTHY relationship!!!
thank you, don't I know ☺️ my previous relationship was very toxic, and being with Andy has really allowed me to heal and remember my worth. I am truly blessed to have found him 💕
rachel rose diary True, but it’s not only him or your combination. There’s something so...mature, so calm in the way you think. Kind of emotional sensitivity that will always help you in any relationship! Like your thoughts about the necessity of experiment independent life by yourselves before living together as a couple. You may think this is something obvious, but believe when I tell you that the common sense is the least common of the senses!
Everything you two say show the personal growth you both are experiencing. About my couples I use to say: No matter how much it last. What really matters is to be good for both while it last (even when it last only a weekend) because then also the break off can be natural and positive. And this is achieved with a true communication. Andy and you are an example of what I mean!
Keep following your intuition and building your happiness!!!
"common sense is the least common of the senses" I love this 😂😂 in all seriousness though, this means so much!! thank you infinitely for leaving such kind words ☺️ hopefully we'll continue to be such a good example!!
I use kakao for video chat cause the Between app doesn't have that option. But my boyfriend in Korea and I use Between mostly. I'll be in South Korea this September (just bought my plane ticket this past feb) to visit him. I have to admit I never been happier, talking to each other is the first thing we do in the morning and the last thing we do at night (in our respective time zones haha). But I lucked out, my ticket was only $964 round trip, a little over a thousand after I added insurance.
*Clutches my chest* $964 ROUND TRIP IS SO CHEAP YOU LUCKY LUCKY PERSON the little emoticons on Between are very cute, I admit, but we mostly just use that app to keep track of our days now lol. Good luck in September and in the relationship in general!!!!! Fighting 😄😄
Right??? I kept watch on that price and as soon as I could I got it, ironically it was $966 when I was watching it but when I bought it it had gone down 2 dollars. Thank you!!! ^_^
actually maybe you can answer me this, September into early October, weather wise, still summer time? Not sure if its similar to the states or not. Buying a whole new wardrobe for this trip haha. And I am a short sleeve girl. haha
I live in Philadelphia, and can attest to the weather between the North East and Seoul being very very similar. There might be some nice sunny warm days, but it will not still be summer and you will need a jacket at night at the very least lol. I get cold easily, so I'd already be in jeans and jackets lmao
Extremely helpful, so pretty much pack a jacket, short and long sleeves =). Sounds good!!
Aww I didn't see the notification! Lol might not remember me BUT YOU GUYS ARE SO ADORABLE AHHH MY HEART IS MELTING OMG, as always you still look beautiful
of course I remember you, how could I not 😄😄 thank you and I love your new profile picture hahaha
Love love love you both as a couple. ❤️
thank you, it means a lot 💕💕
I'm in a long distance relationship too, whenever I call him he won't answer it. And just give me a plain message like, goodmorning & goodnight iloveyou's only. I think being in a LDR is that you tell stories but it feehls like he doesn't care. 😥 Btw, stay strong! I salute lovely couples like you. =)
thank you! And I think you should have a serious conversation with him to avoid misunderstandings and establish common goals for the relationship. You should be on the same page and want the same things, and know when you can speak to each other. I support you and GOOD LUCK!
Thank you. I already did that, hahaha. I always get this answer "I'm at work, i'm cleaning" but when I try to call him he is talking to someone. What will I do? I am getting tired with same shts. 😭
you deserve better!! a relationship requires two people, and both sides need to maintain the other, you can't be the only one doing all the work. find someone who makes you a priority 💕
You guys are adorable, I wish you all the best!
thank you!!!!!!! I wish you the best too!!!
My boyfriend is from korea as well, nd m from morocco.. And we will be in a long distance relationship for about 2 to 3 years, which is really hard! But u really gave me hope, strength, and confidence!! And new way of thinking!! thank u so much!! Ur such a great couple! Hope ur relationship never ends!! And i wish u act as same as u said in the future as well! I hope we can keep in fighting until the end!! Love u guys!! And thank u again!!!
you're so cute, thank you!!!! you as well, fighting!!! I hope health and happiness and luck on your relationship, stay strong!!!
I hope you and Andy continue your relationship with much love from the heart! Also continue your studies as a senior and finally love each other! Good luck Rachel and Andy 🎓👑🎩💑
thank you!!!!! I really appreciate the graduation hat emoticon hahaha I can't wait!
I am in a long distance relationship with my Chinese/Indonesian boyfriend its been 5 months since i seen him last but he will be coming to see me in December then we have planed to move to Indonesia together and i will be meeting his family 😊 we have been together for a year and very happy we always communicate and trust each other of course you have to do this especially living so far away
(Jade)
I'm always very happy to hear about other long-distance relationships that are going really well!!!! moving to Indonesia sounds like such a great adventure, best of luck to you both 💕💕💕flourish and thrive!!!
You guys are so cuteeee
Why park jimin when you can ride jimin Haha your username is giving me life 😭😂 but thank you hahaha
I just started a LDR with my boyfriend, and the things your bf says reminds me so much of my bf hahaha You guys are so cute together and your video actually helps me understand the LDR with my bf better. We are now seperated for nearly a month and I also get like upset when he doesnt write me, when I know he should have time actually? I had a very honest and open conversation with him about it and I really do think it gets better from now on. I see him again in 5 months so, good luck to me that we can do it like you guys did :)
I'm glad your conversation went well!!!!! and thank you for all of the kind words. best of luck to you two 💕💕💕 it never gets "easier" per say, but you two will become stronger 😊
You inspire me. Ops i mean all of us that watching your videos bcs both of you proof that ldr actually longlasting and very worth it to wait and be patient and suprises is coming on 💯😭 yall so cute im in love 💕💕😩
thank you 💕💕💕 we are humbled and very grateful to be seen as an inspiration 😊 have a wonderful day!!!
congratssssssssssssssssssssssssssss omg thats soo cutteeeeeeeee
you too!!!! be happy 😊😊
This is so sweet I’m dead
Awww same thing happened to me...
I am a Malaysian and he is a Korean
>4000km apart from each other
Communication is really important
I mean good and working communication
We normally maintain daily night video call for at least 1 hour or more
But no forcing, if any of us is busy or tired then we will skip calling
We will be getting marry next year
Another half year long distance for us
My number one rule in LDR: make sure he or she loves you just like how you do
LDR is pain is hard
But true love will get through all these
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Yes, I think not forcing anything if someone is tired or busy is super important too!!!! And best of luck to you both for your remaining half a year 💕💕
Youre both sooooo cute omg I can really see how mature he is & you deserve a man like him 🙆 I hope you get happily married and get cute children in the future 💐💕💕
I also hope we have cute children in the future hahaha but thank you, it means a lot ☺️
thank you for your wonderful video, you two are so adorable! I'm currently in a ldr too but I don't know how to tell my parents and my friends because most of them are really conservative... I met him over the internet but we really love each other (we already met btw).
Annikanians i think that fact that you have already met in person, despite the relationship mainly being online, actually helps your case a lot. a lot of people think it's weird because you "don't really know that person" but constantly talking/texting allows you to know someone SO much better than just sitting in the same physical space. your community might not get it at first, but after time they might become more used to the idea, and if they love you and see that you are happy and safe, they will eventually come to terms with things. whenever you decide to tell them, i really wish you all the best, and best of luck with the relationship too!!!!!!!
Aww... I cried a lil 😭❤️
I hope I find this kind of love someday 💕 good luck to you both and stay positive!! Best wishes~
I hope you do too!!! And positivity is the best medicine ~ best wishes right back!
Rachel and Andy thanks so much for this video! My bf and I are always wondering how other LDR couples cope. It isn't for the weak! ㅋㅋㅋ And if I could give extra advice to those out there: Keep thinking about the future. Have hope about the future and it's a great motivation to keep going.
Oh and I recommend 'Between' app!! It's much better than kakao! Good luck to you both 🇺🇸❤️🇰🇷
Stephanie Ramos thank you so much and we also use Between hahaha i guess we both forgot to mention it, but before we sleep we like to write little notes to each other in it and also i really love the emoticons, i wish i could export them to kakao lol. and i agree that thinking about the future is the best way to cheer yourself up and keep positive 😊
You guys are so cute together 😊 such a pretty couple haha. I'm kinda glad Australia and Korea are only an hour apart .... You guys are so patient with each other. My bf and I have been dating for just over 16 months (7 months long distance which will end next month when I go to Korea for exchange 😄) I'm just curious about you guys and your plan for the future .... We have been talking about different options, Korea is a really fun place to live .... But perhaps not so good for raising kids .... What do you guys think? And what about supporting Andy's parents? In Asian culture (and what we personally have to consider now) the children become a main support for their parents vs the west when parents try to be as independent as possible. Do you guys have a plan for looking after his or your parents? We're a little stressed right now considering everything while also trying to establish our own lives, we could use some advice if you have some 😅
Can you do a video how you and your bf met? Who approached who, etc. love the videos!btw
thank you!! we talk about that in our Boyfriend Tag video! But it's a little confusing I think haha so when we're together for good and the distance is closed I think I might make a video dedicated just to how we met 😊
For someone so young you sound so wise. Your boyfriend is very idealistic and cool too lol.
thank you ☺️ I've always been very self-aware, which I think helps in keeping things realistic!
Omg you guys are so cute😆
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OML so cute!!!
i'm going into LDR soon, i'm so scared :( its like 9 months of not seeing him
don't be scared! if the relationship is strong and you trust each other fully, never act on pettiness, and always tell each other how you're feeling, it won't be bad at all ☺️ there will still be lonely times and miscommunications and the weird feeling of not knowing what their day is like, but it's SO worth it to come out stronger on the other side!
Omg you two are so cute together
you guys make such a cute couple
thank you and you too!! be happy and healthy 💕💕
do you know jess and gabe on youtube? they also started as a long distance couple and are married now! you should check them out if u haven't already :)
aw yay!! and they definitely look cute, I'll have to check them out later ^^
O.m.g you guys so cute together😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍Wish you all the best
you too!!!!! 💕💕
haaai , i'll turn 18 this year yet I im single and i was thinking to had a long distance relationship cause this is what I always dream of but yet I got none because of business . -.- I putting down a comment don't even know if I need a advice or else , I just expressing my feeling BECAUSE IM TURN 18 in few months left and I need boyfriend . Oh! is it okay for me to find a love one in the age of 18? ^ㅁ^
expressing your feelings is a good thing, and happy 18th birthday, that's an important one! Actually, I was still technically 19 when Andy and I first met, so maybe 18 isn't too young for love ^^ just make sure he likes/loves you for YOU and be safe and happy 💕 good luck!
rachel rose 로즈 Thankyou somuch♥♥♥♥♥
You guys are so cute together :) How did you got to meet each other at first?
thank you!! we met by chance through a language exchange app. my friend basically dared me to download it, and I was only going to keep it for 24 hours. I met Andy in that 24-hour window, and the rest is history~ ☺️
rachel rose diary Oh thanks for your answer! Have a wonderful day 😁
Your babies would be gorgeous for sure. lol
thank you hahaha 😄
You are look good each other you are god couple
thank you 😄😄😄
I hope I see your more adventure in the next vlog and more sweetness your so god looking each other
Someone wanna be friends? ??
Is he in university too?
Queen Ramen he graduated March '16! he has a full-time company job now
Why you go to Korea for korean guys?
USA alot of asian guy.
I did not go to Korea FOR a Korean guy, I went to Korea to learn about and experience another culture, language and history. Andy was just a very lucky bonus ^^
Is he an Aquarius?
Reni G capricorn! why lol
@@rachelrosediary Reminded me of Aquarius because he doesn't talk much. I was close. I've noticed that people from certain zodiac signs don't open up easily. Some people would say Aquarius are talkative, but I don't get that feeling. I find communication with them quite difficult because they usually don't talk much about their life. I was born in the last few hours of Taurus.
I'm a Taurus, too! I've only gotten into the zodiacs a little bit recently, but I think it's super interesting!
Hi you also know Andy is too quiet right XD You guys are cute together, but I feel like Andy doesn't seem too enthusiastic or active. Do you have to play actively all the time while he always plays the passive role? Like do you talk 80% of the time and he only answers a few very short sentences? Why don't I see him look at you with love and sweetness? He always looks away from you or he glances at you shortly. Is he really loving you? I don't understand this maybe you are not showing his active part off camera but I hope he can be more active and talkative to you! Andy you gotta treasure this girl of yours please let him see this comment XD
See Andy you have such a wonderful girl working hard for the relationship but you are not loving her enough??
But hey I know Andy has a heart that is for you Rachel, he just doesn't show it easily maybe
hello again sam! I was afraid he would come off this way, but there is a real reason behind his body language and such. this was filmed during our last full day together, and we are both quite sensitive people. not being too touchy or cuddly was a way to keep it together for the sake of the video. if I was in his lap while talking about not touching each other for 6 more months, if would have reminded both of us that I was leaving very soon. it was cut, obviously, but we both started crying at one point because of that reason. believe me, he can be VERY goofy and cute and childish in the most positive way, and our conversation flows very easily. he loves me SO much and of course it's hard for everyone to see, but it's very real. I'm absolutely positive that after the distance is closed and we aren't as emotional over our situation, he will become much more comfortable and everyone will begin to see his cute side, too. Don't give up on him 😊
Wow so you mean you two(especially he) have been holding your intense and strong emotions towards each other the whole time because if one of you let it out then it would burst out nonstop and it would be a torture to leave each other? I see your strategy there, to reduce the emotional stimulus imposed on each other so that you both are able to move on and build an amazing future together. Taking it slowly and calmly to maintain the longevity of each other's endurance. And you are right I start to see that he really loves you, he didn't speak much but whenever he talks he gives some mature and sensible content that can benefit the relationship in the long term. I actually am really happy and touched seeing you guys kiss, despite the kiss was just a fleeting moment. In the future I look forward to seeing more of the affectionate side of you guys like cuddling and rolling together on bed haha. Good that you didn't give up on him and I don't give up wishing you guys a long lasting relationship. Thanks for the reply!
I just want him to show her more love and affection, is that wrong?
#NOBARRIERS KAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!
*dragonball z yell
wanna see both parent on the next video 😎😎
careson tingnamai our parents live in different countries and probably won't meet each other until we get married 😅
Long distance never works
roudyman777 not with that attitude lmao go comment something more positive somewhere else ✨
You guys are so cute together 😊 such a pretty couple haha. I'm kinda glad Australia and Korea are only an hour apart .... You guys are so patient with each other. My bf and I have been dating for just over 16 months (7 months long distance which will end next month when I go to Korea for exchange 😄) I'm just curious about you guys and your plan for the future .... We have been talking about different options, Korea is a really fun place to live .... But perhaps not so good for raising kids .... What do you guys think? And what about supporting Andy's parents? In Asian culture (and what we personally have to consider now) the children become a main support for their parents vs the west when parents try to be as independent as possible. Do you guys have a plan for looking after his or your parents? We're a little stressed right now considering everything while also trying to establish our own lives, we could use some advice if you have some 😅
taemint9793 hello! good luck and have so much fun on exchange!!!! our basic future plan is to live in korea for a few years, but then come back to america when we want to have a family. we have already agreed that we would rather our potential kids be in the American school system due to multicultural kids being more common (and not called things like "mixed blood") and because it's not as stressful as the Korean system with the college entrance exams and after-school tutoring expectations and what not. in terms of parents, we have not discussed that yet. I would personally be open to having a parent move in with us, but we both have other siblings that could potentially shoulder that issue as well. although i would be open to andy's mother coming to live with us in the States, she does not know english, and so i worry that she would not actually be happy when us or the kids are away. it's a difficult question, one that we haven't had to think of yet, but i really wish the best of luck to you and your boyfriend ☺️ have a really great time together and all the best!!!
this is slightly irrelevant but i'm going on exchange in korea next semester too!! where are you studying? :D
I'll be going to yonsei :) How about you?? message me on instagram @seoulmate0307 (cringy username but I can't be bothered to change it :/) and we can talk more haha I wanna make some more friends in Korea!!
taemint9793 ohh me too! i just made Instagram so i don't have any photos but i'll hit you up! i'm @_uyustagram (also cringy but i like the Korean word for milk lmao)
taemint9793 i just saw you're from Australia.. me too 😂