Pour Minds - Episode 173 - Is It Luck or Fate Pooh?

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
  • Hey y’all this week we discuss if we believe in luck, having a real man, the tinder swindler and more!
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  • @angelicasoleil2239
    @angelicasoleil2239 2 года назад +129

    i love when lex imitates how drea talks 😭😭 it be so on point & drea just accepts it at this point 😭!

    • @charlescj21
      @charlescj21 2 года назад +3

      One of my favorite parts of the show

  • @akb602
    @akb602 2 года назад +64

    I agree with Lex about “our paths” whether it’s a bad or good decision, each decision will take us down to the path that we were already destined to.
    I’ve been on a dark path & as crazy as this sounds, it still felt like For ME. When I got myself back on a better path, it felt like for me. Whichever you chose, it’s still your predestined path!

    • @dari4303
      @dari4303 2 года назад +3

      I feel the same its paths we have to take in life to teach us and i feel like the people who learn from it succeed and the people who don't get stuck in a cycle making the same bad choices until they die.

    • @queenbeaute9967
      @queenbeaute9967 Год назад

      I agree 💯

  • @saint6416
    @saint6416 2 года назад +101

    We gone put Drea on a 3 drink minimum while recording, she was acting up this episode 😂 Let Lex finish her sentence pls

  • @userkreme
    @userkreme 2 года назад +247

    hey ladies! tuning in all the way from Dakar, Senegal! …nawl i’m lying; i just felt like pulling a lex lmaosksks 😩

    • @876Tiffany
      @876Tiffany 2 года назад +12

      Lmao ! 😂

    • @dejapalmer5982
      @dejapalmer5982 2 года назад +14

      Lmaoooo! Happy Friday pour crew 🥂

    • @Ummaissa
      @Ummaissa 2 года назад +4

      You know what😂

    • @Forsaken860
      @Forsaken860 2 года назад +13

      You wild AF for that😭😭😭😭but we wouldn't have known😩😩

    • @JAKERALASHAY
      @JAKERALASHAY 2 года назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tippmeriwether5221
    @tippmeriwether5221 2 года назад +50

    Drea was lit this episode. Lol I like when gets in pod mode and she was having fun this episode. Singing while Lex talk…she was a great vibe this episode

  • @cedebee422
    @cedebee422 2 года назад +14

    Awww! When Drea said her and Lex make each other better. I love it!!! We need more of this from melanated women 😍

  • @keilabazile2016
    @keilabazile2016 2 года назад +98

    Drea should definitely have “ word of the week” section because baby the vocabulary is advance

    • @nolabeauty1460
      @nolabeauty1460 2 года назад +1

      Lmaoo 😂

    • @saygraye
      @saygraye 2 года назад +2

      Earth sign shit lmfao

    • @ddrjaila
      @ddrjaila 2 года назад +1

      Literally I was watching an old show and said the same thing!! 💁🏽‍♀️

    • @deajahopkins-shaw4414
      @deajahopkins-shaw4414 2 года назад

      yes please do this!

  • @southernbell642
    @southernbell642 2 года назад +64

    I've been watching you guys for over a yr, I've never commented, but I want y'all to win...I have daughters y'all age, and yes ladies I see you both evolving, my daughters are both successfully married and it's because I keep them encouraged and give them the wisdom, that I wish someone had given me when I was young and married...all the things that we have been taught as women is a lie....keep feeding your mind, and being the best version of you, from the inside, get to know what men really want and the nature of a man...working on your emotional intelligence and ego, cause we women definitely have big egos, especially when we are successful financially and beautiful, you guys are beautiful and smart... loving the growth❤️

    • @TranscendQuinLR
      @TranscendQuinLR 2 года назад +2

      I totally agree with you.
      Hey you should check out Cynthia G channel as well.
      She literally has the same view point as Drea. The only difference Cynthia G is more on the "extremist" side. And I totally get it. She has a degree in psychology/criminology. She knows how to analyze a man instantly. She wants us to hold them accountable. She wants us to love ourselves. She wants us to practice hypergamy. It's no longer acceptable for us to just accept below the bare minimum.

    • @southernbell642
      @southernbell642 2 года назад +1

      @UC50BRkGpUuX4Vbhb7Iex-Tg respectfully,I don't really rock with Cynthia G some of her talking points I don't agree with, and I'm entitled to that, but I wish her much success ❤️ I'm more of a Melanie King, Six the goddess type of female, I also rock with Dnieka, I enjoy brutal honesty, and honesty is uncomfortable, and it hurts, but it's overall purpose is to produce change and results, I really don't rock with the sugar coat, don't want to hurt nobody feelings type of narrative ❤️ much love my sister

    • @southernbell642
      @southernbell642 2 года назад +3

      @UC50BRkGpUuX4Vbhb7Iex-Tg I definitely agree with holding men accountable,I also agree that woman should hold themselves accountable as well and be honest about our Bs too..... "pickmiesha"😂🤣...wow...men decide marriage, women decide sex, you have to be chosen (picked) lol to be married

    • @southernbell642
      @southernbell642 2 года назад +3

      And I must say, no female should be moving out desperation frustration, low self-esteem, validation or loneliness, that's not what being chosen is about, it's about knowing what you need and allowing a QUALIFIED man to LEAD, protect and provide ❤️

  • @baggladyjayy
    @baggladyjayy 2 года назад +28

    I loveeeee how much y’all take accountability at this age we can get lit and have good lifestyle but adding more value to the conversation is big for a podcast I love how y’all entertaining and changing the narrative we can talk about niggas AND most importantly adding value to our self’s as women period ❤️‼️

  • @BlastRemy
    @BlastRemy 2 года назад +46

    Drea was on one this whole ep lmao

  • @theclassicbeauty8244
    @theclassicbeauty8244 2 года назад +27

    I feel Drea, she is speaking of FEM and MASC energies together to make a team or for partnership in relationship. All men and women don't bring anything to every relationship and driven ppl need impactful ppl. I feel her.

  • @nequakimbrough8771
    @nequakimbrough8771 2 года назад +18

    Drea tipsy 😂😂 she was tryna hold it together

  • @LoveSoca
    @LoveSoca 2 года назад +8

    I kept giggling walking through Target listening on my AirPods. I’m dead!

  • @TequilaJanel
    @TequilaJanel 2 года назад +18

    This conversation showed sooo much growth … okay ladiesssss ! Love y’all 💪🏽💋

  • @Love_missbri
    @Love_missbri 2 года назад +9

    The destination may be destined, but your journey getting there is based on your decision.

  • @LadiesNightOutPodcast
    @LadiesNightOutPodcast 2 года назад +23

    Lex comes from a privileged background so it makes sense that she thinks the way she does but coming from where I come from I know that where you end up depends on your resilience and ability to overcome.

  • @sheshe6537
    @sheshe6537 2 года назад +29

    My mom's a Leo and my aunt (her youngest sister/my fave aunt) is a Taurus. They are luxurious! They love to indulge in finer things too! This is my first time commenting, love your podcast! You ladies look great btw!

  • @TruBeautiMe
    @TruBeautiMe 2 года назад +3

    Ladies!! Birthday Trip to Ghana was a freaking hit. VIP Royal treatment for 2 weeks straight. I'm leaving the trip with more money than I came with. The girls paid for the trip but we all came up. Big Fine Texas Girls in Ghana and we were Getting Our Things and Having Our Way. Sections and bottles daily, private drivers, luxury vehicles, and 5-star dinners daily. Lessons from you girls have been amazing.
    -BDB University Graduate 2021

  • @foodi.esti.nauti.
    @foodi.esti.nauti. 2 года назад +13

    I watched the Nashville live show on Patreon the other day and I almost cried cause I was supposed to be there 🥲 but I’m so proud of y’all! And I can’t wait to catch a live show this go round ❤️

  • @kkswagg4833
    @kkswagg4833 2 года назад +29

    I'm surprised Drea believes in luck since she's the more spiritual or religious one. God doesn't operate in luck, even when you change your mind last minute he knew you was gonna do that it was apart of your path. Like Lex is saying what you're destined for you're eventually going to get to that. Joseph was sold to slavery by his brothers cause of jealousy, but some how some way he became a king because that was in his path to become one. Even with the whole crackhead example the world operates on ying and yang ☯️ so yes Lex might be joking with that example but she ain't lying one bit.

  • @kierranewsom4669
    @kierranewsom4669 2 года назад +8

    Hey Ladies! I feel y’all on the alcohol…I don’t have any at my house either. I’m like a pringles, once I pop I can’t stop 😆😆😆

  • @Gabriellabtx
    @Gabriellabtx 2 года назад +16

    My vote is with Lex sorry Drea but I’m a believer 😂🙏🏽❤️ love y’all.. everything happens for a reasonnn lol

  • @tiffanytiffany8695
    @tiffanytiffany8695 2 года назад +4

    Honestly i agree with Lex because I feel like what’s meant for us is already mapped out for us I’ve always felt like this journey is already set out for us

  • @Diedra220
    @Diedra220 2 года назад +16

    Did Lex get lip fillers or is it the gloss??

    • @onessaflowers3254
      @onessaflowers3254 2 года назад +2

      I was looking for this comment cause her lips looking a lil too full but hopefully it’s just swelling from the needle insertion and will go down while healing

  • @KRenee-xo2jn
    @KRenee-xo2jn 2 года назад +13

    I just wanna say Lex and Drea, a blessing is Luck. Y’all saying the same thing because if you were born to work hard you will

  • @callmeginaa947
    @callmeginaa947 2 года назад +3

    Not us literally watching y’all grow as women ❤️ love to see it

  • @BossPlayaCrew
    @BossPlayaCrew 2 года назад +7

    "Yeah, Can't Mess Up The Classic Intro Drea Nicoooollllle!"

    • @lovelyj7125
      @lovelyj7125 2 года назад

      Right lol cus we be saying it too lmao be yo READY 🤣 not ready for type change tho 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @mizzprettygurlswaqq1
    @mizzprettygurlswaqq1 2 года назад +2

    Just caught an editing slip. I completely never thought about the fact that y’all do edit these episodes. Like everything isn’t one take. Pourminds is a production now. Living for it lol

  • @jeanellep613
    @jeanellep613 2 года назад +10

    Why is Lex so damn hilarious. LMAO like I just can't. Happy Phuck It Fridays with the girlies and some wine purrrrrr.

  • @jessicaneuenburg805
    @jessicaneuenburg805 2 года назад +2

    🇲🇿 Mozambique is listening to you! I love how genuine you both are ❤ Thank you for sharing your stories🤗

  • @jonecelachel1625
    @jonecelachel1625 2 года назад +1

    I agree with Lex. Everyone is here to serve a purpose. The bad and the good things that happen in life, happens for a reason.

  • @apreecemashae2589
    @apreecemashae2589 2 года назад +10

    Nobody :
    Lex: I feel like…
    Drea: I’m just bad bitchhh 😂😂😂

  • @dpalmore7060
    @dpalmore7060 2 года назад +11

    Drea love to talk 😂😂😂 poor lex she gotta jump in whenever she can 😂

    • @MAMIHUANA
      @MAMIHUANA 2 года назад +3

      Def other way around lol

    • @queenbeaute9967
      @queenbeaute9967 Год назад

      Lex is the lite one she love to talk

  • @griffinjenn85
    @griffinjenn85 2 года назад +7

    Omg! I was cracking up throughout the whole episode! 😂😂😂😂 Y’all are a mess & I love it! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @__GeeHoney
    @__GeeHoney 2 года назад +10

    Y’all love annoying each other 😂😂😂 Y’all funny af 💗

  • @sabrinahannah2370
    @sabrinahannah2370 Год назад

    When lex said "is that because you squirt? My mouth dropped 😲 and I ran into an ad. Then after the ad was done, I was looking at both of them the way they was looking at each other lmao 🤣

  • @javanwatson8024
    @javanwatson8024 2 года назад +11

    Did lex get her lips done? Lol

  • @mekaylaap
    @mekaylaap 2 года назад +10

    I love the idea that a man can make u into a woman. We need one another. Men need women and women need men. I can’t wait to meet a man that pushes me to be a better woman all around and for him.

  • @fatima.ameenah
    @fatima.ameenah 2 года назад +9

    Y’all should get a pour minds backdrop!

  • @Prettiestintheroom
    @Prettiestintheroom 2 года назад +43

    I am Lex, Lex is me. Everything she says I be like “no seriously”

  • @TheCompletedLook
    @TheCompletedLook 2 года назад +2

    Watching lex and drea every Saturday morning during my workout is my routine 💕 love em!!

  • @Bp906
    @Bp906 2 года назад +9

    This whole episode is a gem 💎 and I still got like 20min. I love it here. The Lady and the Squirter was funny asf 😂

  • @shirleymacklin4789
    @shirleymacklin4789 2 года назад +8

    Lex you have me crying 😢 😭 "it in their path". Really lex. 🤷🏾‍♀️🍾🍾

  • @JenDontJudge
    @JenDontJudge 2 года назад +4

    Lex, I feel exactly the way you do about "luck". I feel like my path has been destined by God so to say I'm lucky is giving something else credit for His work. What is meant for me is mine & only God can change it.

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl 2 года назад +5

    Drea was in her singing BAG this episode‼️

  • @alexandrasmith492
    @alexandrasmith492 2 года назад +3

    I RAN FROM MY KITCHEN AND ALMOST BURNT MY FOOD WHEN I HEARD YALL STARTED KNOCKIN DA BOOTS! ive been waiting for BIg Lex to do this one. Karaoke with yall would be so fun.

  • @Venusbeauty888
    @Venusbeauty888 2 года назад +2

    Mannnn I love y’all! 🤣💯💯
    You can’t get time back! That’s why I be hurt. I could’ve been spending my time and energy elsewhere! Great show! I also believe in luck ✨🥰

  • @ohthatskeyah
    @ohthatskeyah 2 года назад +3

    it was the end of the episode fah me . Y’all BETTER sing that shiiiii 👏🏾😭😍

  • @mizzprettygurlswaqq1
    @mizzprettygurlswaqq1 2 года назад +4

    Would be so nice to get a behind the scenes version to pour minds. To see the convos and lead ups and endings to episodes. On Patreon though😍

  • @JAKERALASHAY
    @JAKERALASHAY 2 года назад +6

    Drea singing while Lex was talking 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

  • @michellef664
    @michellef664 2 года назад +10

    Time stamps for the segments would be soooooooooooooo nice

  • @honeylala9906
    @honeylala9906 2 года назад +5

    This is a GOOD EPISODE! I love the conversation!

  • @BeBe-lm7kf
    @BeBe-lm7kf 2 года назад +1

    When Drea be BLOWING 🤣 and Lex get ready say something but Drea won’t done chile she was just taking a breath lmaooo 😂

  • @ArinsSecret
    @ArinsSecret 2 года назад +50

    There are successful people with major addiction problems, there wouldn’t be rehabilitation centers for the rich and famous if it wasn’t possible. They may not be on crack 😂 but they are on drugs, look at the entertainment industry. I also believe in fate and not luck, like Lex I feel like you’re destined to do whatever and that the path you go down to get there is part of it and shapes your personality.

  • @darlenasmith872
    @darlenasmith872 2 года назад

    Definitely agree with Lex - our paths are destined. Now you still have the power to choose in the moment but whatever you choose is already known.

  • @jae2381
    @jae2381 2 года назад +1

    🤣😂🤣😅😅I am cryINE at the "draw me a bath and he drew it"....givin GOT

  • @becomingtaija
    @becomingtaija 2 года назад

    “did he KNOT” drea is funny af . also, love your ability to give lex her flowers literally every episode. you often show your gratitude to her & i love that! you both look beautiful as fucking usualllllll😍
    GREAT EPISODE. loved the energy & the topics.

  • @keimon1493
    @keimon1493 2 года назад +1

    Y’all are growing soooo much & Im growing with y’all ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer5982 2 года назад +12

    Lex gave Drea that eye. She got right real quick 😂😂😂

  • @BeautifullyBrown
    @BeautifullyBrown 2 года назад +6

    This crackhead argument! 😂😂😂😂 I can’t! 😩🤣🤣🤣

  • @elashamoss4539
    @elashamoss4539 2 года назад +8

    Drea's face when lex started the extra sh!t during the song reminded me of when Mona said, you better speak up in the next meeting, you don't wanna do this sh!t. That's a real homegirl. 🤣🤣

  • @MariahIsom
    @MariahIsom 2 года назад +4

    I love when drea is drunk and passionate lol

  • @Powersasha
    @Powersasha 2 года назад +7

    Omg one day drea gon STOP cutting lex off! Lol

  • @bigtrapcash
    @bigtrapcash 2 года назад +6

    19:08 💙 I love they chemistry. They made for this together 💯💪🏾

  • @shellywade8240
    @shellywade8240 2 года назад +3

    “That’s debatable” lmaoooooo I’m crying lex

  • @jessicaneuenburg805
    @jessicaneuenburg805 2 года назад

    Also, I definitely think having a partner who can build you up is important. Having someone add value or care so much that they are raw about how you can take better care of yourself is key in life with any relationship

  • @louisianacookingwithkay
    @louisianacookingwithkay 2 года назад +1

    True when it comes to the music and the hooks Future does on other folks songs he never disappoints

  • @bmoney6939
    @bmoney6939 2 года назад +2

    Never be afraid to ask what u need or want when dealing with somebody if they have any care for u they will do it n if they don't find somebody who will life to short n the world has to many people in it.

  • @ew5713
    @ew5713 2 года назад +2

    I would drink q whole bottle when I was depressed and the psychologist called me alcoholic. But I really think that I have some type of tolerance for alcohol. Because that’s why I would drink the whole bottle because I wasn’t feeling anything. I still don’t feel anything. Which is why there is no reason at all to drink. I feel a little buz that stays for a few minutes and then I’m totally sober again

  • @mspiperp
    @mspiperp 2 года назад +1

    Loved the episode (as always)! Ironic that I am catching up on this Episode the day of Traci Braxton's passing. May she rest in peace 🕊️🙏🏾

  • @LexSmith19
    @LexSmith19 2 года назад +2

    Y’all was serving looks in this video! Hey pretties 😍🥰

  • @TanishaGood
    @TanishaGood 2 года назад +1

    Drea was IT for me this episode. I love it

  • @RobbyTassy
    @RobbyTassy Год назад

    Lex is talking about Manifest Destiny, which is the belief that our future is already laid out we just have to wait for time to realize all the events that will inevitably happen. I am not sure Drea is familiar with Manifest Destiny theory.

  • @SippingWithJaney
    @SippingWithJaney 2 года назад +2

    I'm on the fence between luck and destiny. I feel like everyone has a path but at the same time, some things do happen out of luck

  • @thefashionally2285
    @thefashionally2285 2 года назад +34

    Drea is definitely cutting Lex off a lot in this episode. I’m not sure if she realizes it.

    • @quineishahill6031
      @quineishahill6031 2 года назад +2

      I agree lol she probably didn’t notice she was doing it

    • @keimon1493
      @keimon1493 2 года назад +3

      That’s cuz Draya drunk n Lex like to stay on topic… Draya ain’t tripping

    • @queenbeaute9967
      @queenbeaute9967 Год назад

      No when u drinking u dnt realize it

  • @priscillabravo7363
    @priscillabravo7363 2 года назад +10

    Love you ladies. Lex, not sure if it’s fillers or I have a bad Wi-Fi connection. But it’s not necessary. You are naturally beyond gorgeous, plus you’re so smart and witty. Love you just the way you are.

    • @mariaholland9176
      @mariaholland9176 2 года назад +7

      Omg i know I wasn’t tripping! I agree, she’s naturally very beautiful

    • @koticken
      @koticken 2 года назад

      I seriously came just to say this!💜

  • @shoogga6001
    @shoogga6001 2 года назад +3

    ~ team lex ! here for the ride cause, in my honest opinion, this relationship is toxic. but i love you guys!! 😍😍🧿💗💗

  • @becomingtaija
    @becomingtaija 2 года назад +1

    CONGRATULATIONS ON 80,000 SUBSCRIBERS!

  • @kendrea2414
    @kendrea2414 2 года назад +3

    Drea is lit af & I love it! 💀🤣😩

  • @cheymariie314
    @cheymariie314 2 года назад

    I agree with lex a hundred percent . What happens in life was already written and it’s gone play out. No matter if you change your mind split second. That split second was change was already written which is why it was on the conscience.

  • @lovebeinghope
    @lovebeinghope 2 года назад +3

    This whole episode reminds me of when Nicki said “no I’m not lucky I’m blessed” 🦄

    • @javanwatson8024
      @javanwatson8024 2 года назад

      CLAP FOR THE HEAVY WEIGHT CHAMP💅🏾🦄

  • @RobandSijay
    @RobandSijay 2 года назад +4

    I feel you on indulging, I had to stop buying whisky like that lol and when I do its a smaller bottle than the 1.75

  • @JusRaii
    @JusRaii 2 года назад +8

    Drea…..y’all are funny af I agree lol

  • @annep7602
    @annep7602 2 года назад +13

    nawh give lex an acting role because she's so funny wtf

  • @JillianAnita
    @JillianAnita 2 года назад +2

    The way lex said Tuesday 😂😂

  • @Keriel128
    @Keriel128 2 года назад

    I triedddd to really finish this episode without laughing… but like, “HOW?!” 😂😂😂😂😂 it’s really that GOOD! I’m so mad I’m late to the show!

  • @bellybabe17
    @bellybabe17 2 года назад

    I agree with Lex. I think there are plenty of people who are delt a hand of cards because they can do something with them if they so chose to. That’s not luck. What we perceive “luck” to be, that person could be going tf through it in other ways. Ultimately, we can do the best we can but we’re also one choice away from being those we look down upon.

  • @abigailj2485
    @abigailj2485 2 года назад +1

    If everything was predetermined for us, then that would eliminate the power of free will we all have. Free will allows us to determine the path we take in life. If everything was predetermined, what would be the point of living and making decisions if we knew all our decisions were already set in stone.

  • @louisianacookingwithkay
    @louisianacookingwithkay 2 года назад +1

    1:26:27
    That song is the s***. B**** you did that how you started that song off. You did me proud.

  • @jaycarmel
    @jaycarmel 2 года назад +6

    Hey guys, I know y’all haven’t done a review of a movie/show in a while. I just watched “No Exit” on Hulu and I think y’all would like it and do really good explaining it on the show

  • @hoodstar92
    @hoodstar92 2 года назад +3

    Drea was hitting them notes😂😂

  • @Chickadi12
    @Chickadi12 2 года назад +1

    RIP to Tracy Braxton 🙏🏽!! She left us way too soon!!!

  • @experiencesw.danielle
    @experiencesw.danielle 2 года назад

    I agree with Lex! I believe your life is destined and there are things you can't avoid. Whether you make decisions or not. Our life is already set in stone

  • @latoyabaxter567
    @latoyabaxter567 2 года назад +1

    omggggg I love Lex !!!!! your personality is everything

  • @louisianacookingwithkay
    @louisianacookingwithkay 2 года назад +1

    48:10
    Shout out to Toni Braxton I love that song and rest in peace Traci Braxton

  • @SnickersBarJamal
    @SnickersBarJamal 2 года назад +4

    56:09 Drea FCKED UP 😭

  • @monizzleee11
    @monizzleee11 2 года назад +1

    RIP TRACY BRAXTON🙏💜
    But Yess they need to get on here

  • @noway8224
    @noway8224 2 года назад +4

    @44:40 I truly believe that if people don’t leave a impact on me I will not remember them.

  • @ThoCh3
    @ThoCh3 2 года назад +1

    I’m sorry but when Drea said ppl that are born to teen mothers end up living in trailers took me tf out 😩😩😩 but I agree with her we create our own reality. Luck is just another form of energy and some ppl benefit more than others.

  • @miamiinnovember2668
    @miamiinnovember2668 2 года назад +11

    There are functioning addicts that are very successful in life lol

    • @jusiyaindia
      @jusiyaindia 2 года назад +4

      Yes I was about to say I’m pretty sure a lot of these celebrities and artist are crackheads just highly functional ones lmao

    • @miamiinnovember2668
      @miamiinnovember2668 2 года назад +4

      Not even celebs doctors lawyers all that functioning crackheads meth heads or strung out on heroin it’s more common than most think lol