I don’t even celebrate any of this festivities anymore, in the modern capitalist world, these things are becoming a luxury. And I’m not future enough to participate, so I focus on putting myself in a position where I can effort this luxuries. For now I’ll just do anything to minimise my liabilities until I’m financially capable.
I cut off so many people cause of DV I was put through and no one was remorseful it took me time to heal 💯. Actually if you open up to pple they will never understand you so I resonated to being alone for some time. This was an awesome topic beautiful Asanda 💗💗
So sorry to hear about the DV and I’m glad you were able to get out of it and take time to heal. It’s also true that when you open up to people they are always ready to judge and draw incorrect conclusions. Thanks for watching ❤️
@@asandantini of course beautiful I stopped talking about it as a survivor I am the only one who knows what was done. You are very intelligent and caring thnks hun 😘 💕 ❤️.
Help!!! I dont know what to do. I've met an incredible guy...who is an intellect and is an amazing human being, but we never pass a week without him disclosing how much he feels he owes his mom and siblings so much, should he attain financial security in the coming future. What I'm noticing is, not only does he suffer from first born guilt, but I think he wants to play a role that was his father's, since they were raised by a single mother. Its tough how much he doesn't have a vision of what he wants for himself, but is clearly stuck on what his mom need receive.😮
Black tax is real, i have been working for 5 years and taking care of the family, now i have decided to move out cos wow its alot and draining, i hate how ungrateful and unappreciative they are ayi ngiRight shame!!
Thank you for this video, for sharing parts of your life, and story. It's such a relief to see and hear other people who've been abused in the name of "black tax," come out to speak their truth. Siyabonga. 🙏🏽
I’m currently only speaking to my Mother. Everyone is cut off, I could barely pay rent or enjoy my money because of family 😢.
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Its so frustrating, I am glad you found your peace
Spending Xmas alone in ur flat. Love that part. At times that saves you money and stress on spending money... Being forced to spend
I don’t even celebrate any of this festivities anymore, in the modern capitalist world, these things are becoming a luxury. And I’m not future enough to participate, so I focus on putting myself in a position where I can effort this luxuries. For now I’ll just do anything to minimise my liabilities until I’m financially capable.
Omg, this is so true. The black tax has held me back so much.
I cut off so many people cause of DV I was put through and no one was remorseful it took me time to heal 💯. Actually if you open up to pple they will never understand you so I resonated to being alone for some time. This was an awesome topic beautiful Asanda 💗💗
So sorry to hear about the DV and I’m glad you were able to get out of it and take time to heal.
It’s also true that when you open up to people they are always ready to judge and draw incorrect conclusions. Thanks for watching ❤️
@@asandantini of course beautiful I stopped talking about it as a survivor I am the only one who knows what was done. You are very intelligent and caring thnks hun 😘 💕 ❤️.
@@deed2799Thanks for sharing your experience ❤
Help!!! I dont know what to do. I've met an incredible guy...who is an intellect and is an amazing human being, but we never pass a week without him disclosing how much he feels he owes his mom and siblings so much, should he attain financial security in the coming future. What I'm noticing is, not only does he suffer from first born guilt, but I think he wants to play a role that was his father's, since they were raised by a single mother. Its tough how much he doesn't have a vision of what he wants for himself, but is clearly stuck on what his mom need receive.😮
Black tax is real, i have been working for 5 years and taking care of the family, now i have decided to move out cos wow its alot and draining, i hate how ungrateful and unappreciative they are ayi ngiRight shame!!
It can be really draining. Glad you chose yourself, sometimes you must love people at a distance
Thank you for this video, for sharing parts of your life, and story. It's such a relief to see and hear other people who've been abused in the name of "black tax," come out to speak their truth. Siyabonga. 🙏🏽
Thank you for watching. I am also happy to be sharing this and maybe it will help in the lives of other young people.
18:00 Love this too... people need to acknowledge... love you girl ❤
❤️❤️thank you for watching
07:55 "You are planting the seed of transactional relationships in that child's life" She hit the nail right on the head!
And it’s a very dangerous seed
Happy New Year sis 😘 💗 💓
Happy new year to you ❤️😊
@@asandantini to you too beautiful ❤️❤️❤️ blessed 2023.