Fergie big girls don't cry lyrics

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  • @kellyhill4732
    @kellyhill4732 2 года назад +191

    This whole album was a constant when I went through a divorce becoming a single mom at 28 with 3 kids. I'd never been on my own & I was in an abusive & controlling marriage. This album helped me restore some self esteem & life expectations, boundaries. I belted this song with tears streaming down my face more times than I can count.

    • @returnoftheromans6726
      @returnoftheromans6726 2 года назад +12

      Aww, hope you are doing better now.

    • @carlazamora6712
      @carlazamora6712 2 года назад +4

      you got this queen! stay strong kuz those babies are watching you they are watching you be the strongest woman ever the one who doesnt take shit from anyone not even their dad. 👏👏 i made one of the hardest decision of my life as i was still in the hospital holding my new born son knowing i had nowhere to go i stood strong i knew that if i even went home from the hospital with him i would scar the precious gift God gave and i am dedicated to raise a man of God who knows who he is and is not an emotional reck.. now my baby is 18 months God provided even now that times are not hard they are great the blessings keep on raining! hold on to Gods hand and he will help you through it all so your children never have to see a single soul bring you down remember you are their super hero sorry for that long paragraph

    • @ladymargaret6186
      @ladymargaret6186 2 года назад +3

      I hope you are doing well now... Rooting for you...

    • @gregbailey45
      @gregbailey45 2 года назад +3

      Been there, feel ya!
      'Cept I was a single dad of 4!

  • @ericavillanueva2868
    @ericavillanueva2868 5 лет назад +5727

    2020 and I'm still here listening to this beautiful song. Who's with me?

  • @cupcake7534
    @cupcake7534 9 лет назад +42

    Aah, finally found this song after years! This reminds me of my childhood...I used to listen to this and sing those lyrics...now that I have become older, I understand the meaning of this song and it comforts me...

    • @crazycandyce2580
      @crazycandyce2580 9 лет назад +2

      Same here girl, same here.

    • @cupcake7534
      @cupcake7534 9 лет назад +2

      Crazy Candyce big girls still...cry

    • @arandomnerd1359
      @arandomnerd1359 9 лет назад +2

      when I was little when that song came on I would cry when she said "big girls don't cry."

    • @cupcake7534
      @cupcake7534 9 лет назад

      Rebecca Hernandez hahaha, literally same.

    • @cropakittenmatenez5995
      @cropakittenmatenez5995 9 лет назад

      I love this song 💖💖💖💖💖

  • @NickRyanBayon
    @NickRyanBayon 3 года назад +336

    This hits different when you're an adult and lived it.

    • @mikaylagrabowski7944
      @mikaylagrabowski7944 3 года назад +3

      Mikayla Jenna Marie Grabowski grandma

    • @griselmendoza1107
      @griselmendoza1107 2 года назад +3

      Spider man peter Parker and raven Rachel Roth shaun the sheep and lina the hedgehog

    • @francedc4247
      @francedc4247 2 года назад +1

      Fck yes

    • @aprilbyyy1705
      @aprilbyyy1705 2 года назад +3

      Hi I wanna tell you Jesus Loves You So Much He Gave His Life for our sins so we can be forgiven from our sins and Go To Heaven! Gods Love For Us Is Unconditonal ✝️

    • @brandylittle9186
      @brandylittle9186 2 года назад +1

      Exactly

  • @Harry-rh9qc
    @Harry-rh9qc 4 года назад +3034

    I feel like a strong independent woman listening to this song.
    But I'm a 16 year old man
    Ps: I recently turned 17; it feels so great to live a life like this!
    I'm 18 now lol

  • @xxjayjaygamerxx247
    @xxjayjaygamerxx247 7 лет назад +112

    I was singing this to my little 4 year old cousin Braydon. He's at the hospital battling AML Leukemia. Stay strong Braydon! Love u😘❤️😭

    • @eleniiliopoulou4012
      @eleniiliopoulou4012 6 лет назад +3

      Hope he is fine now💕 I love him too💕

    • @MrCrabs-sy1og
      @MrCrabs-sy1og 6 лет назад +2

      Hope he's fine, everything will be fine

    • @rileyslays
      @rileyslays 6 лет назад +1

      I hope he is doing better. ❤️

    • @coltonmayes6240
      @coltonmayes6240 6 лет назад

      Prayers for you and him and family

    • @chatoyantpaw
      @chatoyantpaw 5 лет назад

      -Jayda Roger
      Aw I hope he wins the battle.

  • @wrath642
    @wrath642 10 лет назад +369

    2007 was the best year of my life. Things seemed to be going always uphill. Young, new experiences from meeting new people, playing outside all the time, riding bikes, the first crush, ding dong ditch, the first school dances. Economical situation seemed fine, youtube was amazing in 2007, even Runescape lmao. Music was great (not realizing this till now unfortunately). Things changed dramatically so quickly. Part of why I think we enjoyed it was because we had no idea it would all disappear. To us, we were just living life and it seemed to be default that the world was such a nice place. At that time I was able to make friends with everyone. I was friends with people who I grew up to be complete opposites of and later end up hating but as kids we were all able to be friends because that's just how things were. Life was full of color and fresh as could be. God I miss those times and hope to give my children the amazing childhood I was lucky to have.

    • @bl4576
      @bl4576 10 лет назад +5

      so true..... 2007 feels like 80 years ago. and i miss it. it was the best year of my life and i had the best childhood. People who were born in the 90's or 00's had the best childhood ever. RIP 1990-2007

    • @Alieungirl
      @Alieungirl 10 лет назад

      how old were you in 2007?

    • @bl4576
      @bl4576 10 лет назад

      Dazy Kid
      Me? well, i was born in 1998. So, i was 9

    • @Alieungirl
      @Alieungirl 10 лет назад +1

      Bella Latte Oh me too :)

    • @wrath642
      @wrath642 10 лет назад

      Dazy Kid
      11-12

  • @alexanderpagan8189
    @alexanderpagan8189 3 года назад +142

    My ex broke up with me and dedicated this song to me. He’s following his dreams and sadly I couldn’t be the one who helped him achieve them. I love you jaden, I wish you the best ❤️

    • @BigSisterWolf
      @BigSisterWolf 2 года назад +10

      Don't let the twisted lyrics lie to you, hon. If you need to cry, let it out.

    • @winglessfairy564
      @winglessfairy564 2 года назад +3

      @@BigSisterWolf ❤️❤️❤️

    • @boeing757pilot
      @boeing757pilot 2 года назад +3

      Now it's time to clarify your dreams and follow them...

  • @kinziecronkhite5851
    @kinziecronkhite5851 5 лет назад +2796

    was jamming to this as a kid in 2004 n still here in 2020

    • @kaybo5249
      @kaybo5249 5 лет назад +86

      this song came out in 2006...

    • @izzymarieeee
      @izzymarieeee 5 лет назад +25

      Kinzie Cronkhite I was born in 2004 and jamming to it in 2009 as a kid 😂❤️

    • @gracefoster9739
      @gracefoster9739 5 лет назад +1

      Same here

    • @jennyr7808
      @jennyr7808 5 лет назад +2

      Izzy Marie same🤛🏽🤟🏽

    • @williamvargas1244
      @williamvargas1244 5 лет назад

      x2

  • @ozzyplascencia103
    @ozzyplascencia103 5 лет назад +1535

    It's so sad that you don't even hear this kind of music anymore 😕

  • @MrsDawn953
    @MrsDawn953 5 лет назад +163

    A song that says big girls don't cry, making a 15-year-old girl cry
    Thanks for this, nostalgia and my damn missing of old days... 😢

  • @stephb9256
    @stephb9256 3 года назад +61

    This song still brings tears to my eyes in 2021... hits ya right in the feels 🥺

  • @charlee2273
    @charlee2273 9 лет назад +64

    My favourite song when I was 9/10. Honestly, this song is so nostalgic. Whenever I would get upset, my mother would turn on this song quietly and it would calm me down. I still do it to this day.

    • @maddiejames1028
      @maddiejames1028 7 лет назад

      Charlee Aww! You just warmed my heart! Happy Holidays! ❄️

  • @AlastorPlayz_
    @AlastorPlayz_ 4 года назад +595

    I've been jamming to this ever since I was a kid. 2003 baby. Anyone else tear up at the fact that our childhood is over? I miss being a kid even though I wanted to be older. I wouldn't miss the chance to be a kid again for just one day.

    • @devilslotus4351
      @devilslotus4351 4 года назад +15

      Yess I have distinct memorys of being three and singing this in the car. It hurts so much to think about for some reason. Childhood ignorance maybe.

    • @AlastorPlayz_
      @AlastorPlayz_ 4 года назад +2

      @@devilslotus4351 I feel you man

    • @justin.mp4592
      @justin.mp4592 4 года назад +13

      Meee😔. I’m turning 18 (legally an adult) in October and let me tell you. I miss being a kid. Everything was so simple back than. I miss how everything was but all I can do is take a deep breath and keep on moving forward. I didn’t have much fun in my teenage years and it’s honestly makes me sad sometimes but when I listen to this song, it sparks happiness in me :)

    • @jjz8722
      @jjz8722 4 года назад +16

      Your only as old as you feel. I'm a 44 year old. Keep a young mind , play video games , ride a bicycle, live laugh , have fun try and not worry too much. Chill it's all good.

    • @yoongi_pyz4781
      @yoongi_pyz4781 4 года назад +1

      yeah :((

  • @briannalee1998
    @briannalee1998 7 лет назад +2955

    When I was little, I loved this song, but I didn't understand the meaning. Now I'm almost twenty and in my last relationship I felt the same way, like I was becoming too dependent on him and I needed to get over my issues, and to learn to be happy, independent, and myself without him again. Even though I knew it would hurt to end it, it would've been much worse if we went on without solving our individual issues and I had to learn to fully love and depend on myself first before entering a relationship again.

    • @16princessdaisy
      @16princessdaisy 6 лет назад +19

      I'm exactly in this situation myself and I think I'm in love but I know it's not the best for me, I need to solve my personal issues as well but it's so hard to end it...

    • @barbarapandza5707
      @barbarapandza5707 6 лет назад +4

      Imma try that with him. Kinda feel like an idiot when I can't find myself with the person I love (?) Seven years... I belive we can survive everything. And so... this... growing up

    • @lorenamendoza911
      @lorenamendoza911 6 лет назад

      5

    • @lorenamendoza911
      @lorenamendoza911 6 лет назад

      3

    • @lisagraves153
      @lisagraves153 6 лет назад +11

      10 year heartbreak right here. I have to grow up without my first love.

  • @crimsonstang
    @crimsonstang 3 года назад +20

    I remember hearing this song on the radio as a kid on the way back from fishing in Puget Sound with my dad. Good times. Can't ever go back, only in memory now.

  • @okkk934
    @okkk934 4 года назад +76

    Sometimes you will outgrow people. Other times, you’ll realize that you haven’t given enough attention to yourself in a while. Feeling lonely can often mean that we are in desperate need of ourselves, and at times, we are the ones that need to give ourselves a big hug and say “it’s okay”. Learn who we are, accept our failures and accomplishments, and be at peace with where we stand and where we are heading. “Be with myself and center, clarity, peace and serenity.” I hope this helps anyone who needed to hear this. ❤️

  • @Yamislittleangel55
    @Yamislittleangel55 2 года назад +13

    My mother passed away yesterday...and I remembered this song. Rest in peace mum...I'll work harder for you. It's time for me to be a big girl now...And big girls do cry...

  • @mackenzieesslin3111
    @mackenzieesslin3111 8 лет назад +20

    I love this song I remember when this song came out it was the most popular song on the radio at the time, I would listen to it all the time and one day I became curious and decided to look it up and I fell in love with it. Fergie is awesome 😍💜

  • @kandrasmith3726
    @kandrasmith3726 2 года назад +7

    All these years I've listened to this song and I'm just now understanding it 😭 yes I needed this today!!! 🖤 Find your own way kings and queens and give yourself everything you deserve.

  • @Dejanique95
    @Dejanique95 8 лет назад +266

    My mom had me addicted to this song 😍💕🙌🏾

  • @ilovellys
    @ilovellys 10 лет назад +225

    2007 feels like it was decades ago

    • @ilovellys
      @ilovellys 10 лет назад +2

      me to 1 was only 10 I think lol

    • @Peace2Love15
      @Peace2Love15 10 лет назад +2

      feels like 80 years ago

    • @_Maxten
      @_Maxten 10 лет назад

      2007 feels like it was 2 years ago to me

    • @slashkaz9564
      @slashkaz9564 10 лет назад +1

      ***** Look up Toontown rewritten if you don't have it, it's completely free and fanmade! :D

    • @LaLaLoopsyCutie
      @LaLaLoopsyCutie 10 лет назад +1

      I was in kindergarden at the time.. damn I miss 2007 for me where my homework was writing a letter or coloring something

  • @kyoukajirou6322
    @kyoukajirou6322 7 лет назад +696

    I love the way she says "blanket"

    • @nataliehanna4891
      @nataliehanna4891 6 лет назад +37

      I like the way she says "school yard"

    • @FaZeMandTaZeM
      @FaZeMandTaZeM 6 лет назад +31

      I like the way she says “valentine”

    • @maddiehemingway5652
      @maddiehemingway5652 6 лет назад +22

      Carrie Michele I like the way she says “straightin’”

    • @dianapantaleeva2590
      @dianapantaleeva2590 6 лет назад +8

      And also 'lingers' 😍 i love the part where she says it

    • @lungkislungkis
      @lungkislungkis 6 лет назад +8

      I like the way she says "serengeti"

  • @slayergirl6983
    @slayergirl6983 3 года назад +24

    I'm a 21 year old big girl and I still cry. Never too old to cry! Sometimes it helps to cry.

  • @panama660
    @panama660 6 лет назад +3621

    Big girls don't cry because they're weak, they cry because they've been strong for too long...

    • @fightingmedialounge519
      @fightingmedialounge519 6 лет назад +60

      That doesn't really sound right.

    • @jujai.akainu
      @jujai.akainu 6 лет назад +44

      What the hell is this quote?

    • @saphii_the_first
      @saphii_the_first 6 лет назад +138

      Big girls don't cry because they don't want to be SEEN as weak. They're are actually very strong and to hold back all those tears is really hard to do. This is modern society, people get judged no matter what their doing, so for a girl not to cry means that they are strong in a different way.

    • @perlagalvan521
      @perlagalvan521 6 лет назад +1

      Big girl don't cry

    • @user-ud1qf4qn5o
      @user-ud1qf4qn5o 6 лет назад +43

      It means that they’ve held in all of their emotions for too long.

  • @brendamendez490
    @brendamendez490 7 лет назад +28

    This song reminded me that I could still move on in life. That crying doesn't always solve your problems. I am still in love with this song! #2018Anyone

  • @silverwolf9642
    @silverwolf9642 8 лет назад +393

    Man, songs like this just make you wish that you enjoyed the past when you had the chance to. Back then, all I wanted to do was get a driver's license, move out, and be out on my own. But the difference between now and back then was how I used to love car rides because I didn't mind them playing these types of songs over and over. Now days, if I'm not driving I hate car rides because "Love Yourself by Justin Bieber" plays every other time.

  • @terriquinlan7683
    @terriquinlan7683 2 года назад +4

    Thank you. It's a lovely song, and a good one to remind big girls. Now, if you want a great female, you have to hear Divinyls, Only Lonely.

  • @nancyzhang8290
    @nancyzhang8290 8 лет назад +354

    this is one of those songs that you get so addicted to that you listen 24/7 until you get so sick of it and then remember it practically a month later

    • @anitramorria8015
      @anitramorria8015 7 лет назад +5

      i was wondering why i keep listening to it lololol very addictive

    • @josebenitez432
      @josebenitez432 7 лет назад +2

      guess I love singing to this song and I'm a guy

    • @thiago475
      @thiago475 7 лет назад

      yep lul

    • @zemariatwesley394
      @zemariatwesley394 7 лет назад +1

      Nancy Zhang 🤟

    • @adihernandez2171
      @adihernandez2171 6 лет назад

      Enough me fury them Klan up u last thing be the most floor good fun go not sure coco mom

  • @kylieordono7561
    @kylieordono7561 10 лет назад +87

    If we cry, it's okay... even though we are old enough.. you cry cause you're strong not weak.. if you love and hurt, love more. If you love more and hurt more, just love more... until it hurts no more :)

    • @danguolestrumilaite2597
      @danguolestrumilaite2597 10 лет назад +2

      so hust just love but its lasting for the time totime sowecant be lusers tous but forathers itsglad to be not so in cutting my nails becouirse if iagonanget easier but love it the stone of treasure soits nevr hugging butdry and so fresh its our blod we are like wompire when we love but youcansay ilove my jeus idid soi know ican adore you

    • @jecerylmerto5641
      @jecerylmerto5641 10 лет назад +25

      Let me tell you a good quote to come along with that:
      "People don't cry because they're weak,
      It's because they've been strong for too long"
      ~Johnny Depp

    • @madoric13
      @madoric13 10 лет назад +2

      Danguole Strumilaite A wompire???? :3

    • @favymoran
      @favymoran 9 лет назад

      True

  • @BobMarley-bx7lx
    @BobMarley-bx7lx 8 лет назад +123

    I am a straight semi-masculine boy/man who is 17 years old and I can say that I have liked this song since I was little :)

    • @chewsingh2745
      @chewsingh2745 8 лет назад +5

      me too

    • @mimmismith4138
      @mimmismith4138 7 лет назад

      Same

    • @possumboy25
      @possumboy25 7 лет назад +1

      Well good for you. If you like that song, great

    • @hayla8483
      @hayla8483 6 лет назад +1

      Same,but I am a female lol. Its a lot better than most of the shitty music we have now..

  • @salmatarabi7044
    @salmatarabi7044 10 месяцев назад +99

    Anyone else in 2024?

  • @sierraabde1017
    @sierraabde1017 7 лет назад +19

    My mom and i used to sing this song together in the car with the volume turned up all the way. Miss her

  • @laureltree9390
    @laureltree9390 8 лет назад +19

    I remember listening to this when I was a little girl, it was new then. It meant a lot to me then...

  • @aidansmith7025
    @aidansmith7025 8 лет назад +42

    I'm a dude and I like this song cause I heard it as a kid playing Kingdom Hearts 2. XD, this song brings back real good memories.

    • @goku65838
      @goku65838 8 лет назад

      kingdom hearts Best game of of all time KH3 will be G.O.A.Y

    • @aidansmith7025
      @aidansmith7025 8 лет назад

      +Tj H When's it gonna come out?

    • @LixalLogue
      @LixalLogue 8 лет назад

      +Aidan Smith no one knows, but 2.8 comes out in like November I think

    • @aidansmith7025
      @aidansmith7025 8 лет назад

      Ugh

    • @goku65838
      @goku65838 8 лет назад

      +Aidan Smith kh3 is def set out for 2017 release date around September

  • @rylhaileyreyes130
    @rylhaileyreyes130 4 года назад +70

    when i was young like 5 years old my grandma used to make me listen to this song and we always vibe to this song. i really don't know what the lyrics meant before i just like the flow of the song. whenever i cry we always listen to this song. she passed away when i was 12 years old and now im turning 18 tomorrow and I've realized the the lyrics meant as i always have breakdowns and i always cry. i love you mama see you.

    • @Hope4Real_
      @Hope4Real_ 4 года назад +3

      I think the lyrics mean what you want them too .. for me as a kid back then I never payed attention to the lyrics I literally just thought it meant big girls aren’t supposed to cry now I can relate to this song in so many ways .. expectations, disappointments , losses , gains etc it truly is an amazing song !

    • @bririvera3606
      @bririvera3606 4 года назад +3

      omg i’m sorry my mom did the same when i was little :(

    • @rylhaileyreyes130
      @rylhaileyreyes130 4 года назад +2

      @@bririvera3606 awww🥺🥺 if only we knew what are the lyrics really meant that time ☹

  • @itsinthefreezer1143
    @itsinthefreezer1143 5 лет назад +78

    My auntie used to play this when driving me and my cousins to school, and now I'm a grown ass man listening to it 😅

  • @gabisanhs
    @gabisanhs 5 лет назад +1394

    Am I the only one listening to this in 2020??

  • @blackmagicroses1
    @blackmagicroses1 7 лет назад +1253

    *Listens to this while crying*

  • @DivineCosmicAlchemist
    @DivineCosmicAlchemist 8 месяцев назад +1

    This shit hits way harder now that I’m grown. I use to sing this song on karaoke when I was 14. It was my go to karaoke song and the tears I’m dropping now just from listening to the lyrics now and relating at the age of 27 just made my innerchild cry out.

  • @debangeebharali5382
    @debangeebharali5382 5 лет назад +89

    " And big girls don't cry" is the part I cry every time I listen to this song...❤😢
    2019...anyone?

  • @noorkareem4155
    @noorkareem4155 10 лет назад +70

    I once started crying in class cuz I had a fight with my friend and my crush came and sang it to me, he has a bad voice but it was sweet

  • @opal_vrc
    @opal_vrc 9 лет назад +18

    This song is helping me same with hurt cuz its basically talking bout how i feel and its helping me realize, I don't need a guy to push me around cuz I just gotta get up and walk off

    • @dimitrijames00001
      @dimitrijames00001 9 лет назад

      I listen to razorblade by blue October for two reasons
      1. It reminds me why i cut.
      2. It makes me proud of the shit i do.

  • @lif3_toughbro_017
    @lif3_toughbro_017 4 года назад +41

    2021 and I’m still listening to this song, can’t let my boiz know this😳

  • @lullaby_honeymoon5918
    @lullaby_honeymoon5918 4 года назад +2493

    “Big girls don’t cry”
    Me, a stressed and depressed college student: [crying] *HhHhhhh*

    • @michaelmiller8455
      @michaelmiller8455 4 года назад +31

      D+ for grammar college girl.

    • @stryder3747
      @stryder3747 4 года назад +18

      Lullaby_Moonchild Lmao big mood

    • @kafirahadam6631
      @kafirahadam6631 4 года назад +11

      Lullaby_Moonchild Lmfao we all have to cry because of the coronavirus

    • @lullaby_honeymoon5918
      @lullaby_honeymoon5918 4 года назад +13

      Chips Ahoy boi True!
      The coronavirus was like: “Fuck them kids” 😂
      Man, it makes me feel disdain about it :/

    • @stryder3747
      @stryder3747 4 года назад +5

      Lullaby_Moonchild I hate that so much lmao. Yeah I can see the coronavirus saying that shit 😂😂😂
      I’m in Texas, some colleges have began sending students in housing away

  • @ashliecolon7736
    @ashliecolon7736 5 лет назад +9

    I listened to this song when I was younger and didn't not know what any of it meant and I just now came across it and it discribes everything I'm gonna through now I know what this song is about and it just brings back so many memories and to all my beautiful ladies out there keep you head up high you are all beautiful 👑 and you are all queens 💕💕

  • @jessicaglaspie9005
    @jessicaglaspie9005 4 года назад +21

    This song IS beautiful! It helps me realize that I have to grow up and make painful decisions sometimes..

  • @bubblehead3460
    @bubblehead3460 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for such a beautiful song... This has been my motivation for so long... As i feel low Tonight I'm here again listening to this song❤🥺

  • @jazzynicolecoloka14
    @jazzynicolecoloka14 5 лет назад +14

    ugh that part where it says I'll be your bestfriend and you'll be my valentine. Literally just hit me hard😩💙

  • @lucathedemisexualloser1089
    @lucathedemisexualloser1089 8 лет назад +65

    childhood right here 😍💕

    • @reaganhuff6098
      @reaganhuff6098 7 лет назад +1

      Taylor Swift same!!😂 Same!!😂😂

  • @elric8625
    @elric8625 6 лет назад +11

    but...this song is such a love song to oneself in the becoming! It has very littleto do with another soul. I love it!

  • @rc4854
    @rc4854 3 года назад +3

    Makes so much more sense today than it did a decade ago.❤️YES!! I finally love ME!! I found my Peace and Serenity through all of the chaos!! Big Girls Don’t Cry.❤️

  • @asmrsunsets7721
    @asmrsunsets7721 3 года назад +26

    I never truly understood the meaning of this song until I broke up with a really good person to work on/better myself . I get it now.

  • @novacancy6000
    @novacancy6000 4 года назад +33

    I remember jamming to this as a kid, now as an adult I can actually relate to these lyrics so hard

  • @alyssasprague8538
    @alyssasprague8538 9 лет назад +7

    Man, I haven't heard this song in yeeeeaaarrrss. The last time I listened to it was when I first got an mp3 player. And when my mom broke it, that was the last time I heard this. Brought back some memories tbh

  • @renatolbert4053
    @renatolbert4053 2 года назад +23

    2022 and it’s still stuck in my head ❤️

  • @chloe_3787
    @chloe_3787 6 лет назад +630

    Remeber, big girls do cry. We cry when we get hurt. We cry when we get mad. We cry when people break our hearts. We cry when we just can't take this world anymore.
    Girls reading this, it's important you know that. We walk this planet earth with fake smiles plastered on our faces everyday. "Oh, I'm fine," we lie when we're really broken inside. Do not believe that smile because every girl hurts, and you aren't alone. When you're alone, crying into your pillow because you're at your absolute breaking point, you are not different than any other girl because somewhere, she is doing and thinking the exact same thing.
    It's okay to cry because this world is cruel. Life is tough, but you are tougher, so cry it out then pick yourself back up and keep going because you are not alone.

    • @arianaryals2275
      @arianaryals2275 5 лет назад +26

      Guys hurt just as bad.....I'm a girl btw lol Guys will hide behind a fake smile too. We all do at some point.

    • @lakshmiandraca8395
      @lakshmiandraca8395 5 лет назад +5

      That was deep

    • @aweirdbobadrink3824
      @aweirdbobadrink3824 5 лет назад +10

      Reading this brought me to tears. Thank you, I needed this😌

    • @Poisoned_Noodle
      @Poisoned_Noodle 5 лет назад +6

      Ariana Ryals can’t girls have anything without men being the center of everything? This is a girl trying to empower other girls who are hurting. If you’re aching to help the hurting guys then go do it. This is a post for girls, under a RUclips song for girls

    • @AleshaaRees
      @AleshaaRees 5 лет назад

      So True

  • @kadanceeverett6693
    @kadanceeverett6693 5 лет назад +16

    Loved this as a kid and still love it now in 2020

  • @trinitygibson4550
    @trinitygibson4550 5 лет назад +799

    Who’s heartbroken here in 2019 listening to this still

  • @josephlewis9237
    @josephlewis9237 4 года назад +4

    Such a beautiful song. I love it. It's almost as beautiful as Fergie herself. This song really touches my heart and pulls on my heartstrings. It reminds me of my youth and my Primary schoolmates.

  • @chloeemslie4864
    @chloeemslie4864 8 лет назад +8

    hearing this now 5 years later brings back memories of my mom and I jumping and dancing around my room having an amazing time of our life and now my parents are divorced and I cried listening to this song now so big girls do cry I 💖 this song

    • @biggrandma8997
      @biggrandma8997 7 лет назад

      Chloe Emslie I USD to listen this song with Mt aunt

  • @nairabittencourt6125
    @nairabittencourt6125 5 лет назад +19

    This song represents so well my therapy process. At some point it was like I was staring at my young self and telling her that I'm gonna miss her like a child misses their blanket but I've got to get a move on...some old monsters in our lives need to be defeated; some will always be there, we only need to learn how to live with them. And it's okay to hold hands to them sometimes...

  • @asdf-up8ff
    @asdf-up8ff 6 лет назад +391

    This song helped me with my first love, when he left me i said i dont want to live anymore.... 😔
    Now Im married with someone else and i have a beautiful doughter 😊

    • @algerianboi_213
      @algerianboi_213 6 лет назад +4

      @The LaggingGamer get out

    • @shortcircut9338
      @shortcircut9338 6 лет назад +1

      alba_pasha_ aww good for you have a long and happy life😁

    • @mickykaylaa
      @mickykaylaa 5 лет назад +2

      Doughter? Sounds like you can’t be a mother when you can’t even spell your own offsprings gender right

    • @michellelalone2312
      @michellelalone2312 5 лет назад +3

      This makes me believe thank you ❤

    • @kimberlysoberano7826
      @kimberlysoberano7826 5 лет назад +1

      *daughter*

  • @weluvsisi9908
    @weluvsisi9908 4 года назад +985

    Do you now cry from the nostalgia or from understanding the lyrics?

  • @gemcatcher1002
    @gemcatcher1002 9 лет назад +548

    Why don't they play stuff like this on the radio anymore?

    • @charlizelugo
      @charlizelugo 9 лет назад +3

      I know *smh* & *sighs*

    • @OhYeahItsJake
      @OhYeahItsJake 9 лет назад +14

      gemcatcher100 this song is actually played a lot

    • @gemcatcher1002
      @gemcatcher1002 9 лет назад +12

      OhYeahItsJake well at least not on my radio station it doesn't:/

    • @leighanorton7399
      @leighanorton7399 9 лет назад +1

      gemcatcher100 what kind of radio do u got LOL it should play it mine does

    • @ILikeCHEEZ9
      @ILikeCHEEZ9 9 лет назад +6

      gemcatcher100 The old 103.5 kiss fm used to play this and other songs like it a decade ago but sadly not anymore

  • @maryclaireemar9679
    @maryclaireemar9679 6 лет назад +3257

    2019 listeners? 😊😊

  • @cloroxbleach1990
    @cloroxbleach1990 8 лет назад +862

    Big girls cry when their hearts are breaking 💔

    • @ThatOneTomboy
      @ThatOneTomboy 8 лет назад +11

      Clorox Bleach aye how you get outta my secret stash bleach?😂

    • @toroyoko
      @toroyoko 8 лет назад +10

      thank you bleach 😥🙏🏽👌🏽 what would I do without you 😩

    • @lushabae6629
      @lushabae6629 8 лет назад +12

      Clorox Bleach I fucking see u everywhere!!?!?

    • @snoopyloops3879
      @snoopyloops3879 8 лет назад +7

      Lusha Bae because there is like thousands of RUclips accounts named that

    • @ayaanmanuel529
      @ayaanmanuel529 8 лет назад

      Lusha Bae SAMEEE!!!!

  • @hyneliegarcia6591
    @hyneliegarcia6591 4 года назад +7

    2021 and I'm still inlove with this song. Happy 2021❤

  • @maxmears9680
    @maxmears9680 5 лет назад +178

    This was my mothers favorit song. I listen to it on memory of her.

  • @artsylens0206
    @artsylens0206 5 лет назад +34

    Christmas dec 2019 , listening in my own vibe.. 🍀🌲🌲🌲

  • @israelseastarot
    @israelseastarot 5 лет назад +47

    "I forsee the dark ahead if i stay" ...felt that

  • @ericaguadalupe6835
    @ericaguadalupe6835 3 года назад +24

    What’s so crazy is that I rediscovered this song when my boyfriend and I ended 5 years of a relationship just two days ago on Valentines day (go figures loll)
    But we moved in together and started a home but in the end he realized he couldn’t move forward with me and I’m actually in the midst of moving out and moving past the sentiments and lost intimacy with someone who I loved with more than 100% of me. It’s so tender and bittersweet but at the same time we knew maybe it wasn’t just meant to be right now.
    To all my sisters out there girls you are absolutely strong no matter what predicament you’re under if you’re in the midst of overcoming keep your head up keep smiling and remember to take care of yourselves ❤️

    • @griselmendoza1107
      @griselmendoza1107 2 года назад +1

      Arnold justin kai lucas dax Noah koda Preston Mary Jane cassie kendrix jen rose Emma Shelby Sarah blue ranger pink ranger

  • @madg9634
    @madg9634 6 лет назад +1555

    Life asked death one day “ why does everyone love me but hate you?” Death said “ because you are a beautiful lie and I’m a painful truth”
    And that hit hard

    • @ShaolynLSuroy
      @ShaolynLSuroy 6 лет назад +6

      Mad G 👍😢

    • @jxstadri
      @jxstadri 5 лет назад +4

      So true☝️😭

    • @ruthdelacey5473
      @ruthdelacey5473 5 лет назад +29

      you're getting down deep in the abyss sister

    • @madg9634
      @madg9634 5 лет назад +6

      Ruth DeLacey sorry😭

    • @mah0625
      @mah0625 5 лет назад +9

      Let me tell you something sweet heart. You painted my ceiling. Bless you.

  • @morganasaccount9701
    @morganasaccount9701 10 лет назад +11

    This brings back memories :)

  • @ceciliauvalle5509
    @ceciliauvalle5509 4 года назад +7

    it’s 2020 and this song came out when i was like 4 and it still gets meeee

  • @skyjoy07
    @skyjoy07 4 года назад +9

    This was my anthem when I was like 11. Now I’m 20 and it hits a bit different 😭❤️

  • @jasmine-gm5zm
    @jasmine-gm5zm 8 лет назад +49

    "I'll be your best friend and you'll be mine Valentine" is my favourite part

  • @itsasecret12781
    @itsasecret12781 11 лет назад +223

    still listening in 2014

    • @someonelopez3736
      @someonelopez3736 11 лет назад +6

      me 2

    • @jadequartz8002
      @jadequartz8002 11 лет назад +6

      who doesent

    • @rileygardner2103
      @rileygardner2103 11 лет назад +5

      Jordyn Budy Bitches I recken.

    • @jermyajackson8696
      @jermyajackson8696 11 лет назад

      Y yall saying duh and who dosent just like the freakin comment ......DAMN I HATE PEOPLE LIKE THAT!!!!!!!

    • @callofduty4702
      @callofduty4702 11 лет назад +5

      Jermya Jackson Why are you over reacting? She might have not meant it in a bad way. Lets all be nice now. lol

  • @CSgirl322
    @CSgirl322 9 лет назад +14

    This was my favourite song for the longest time when I was four.

  • @sylviahernandez1546
    @sylviahernandez1546 3 года назад +2

    I love this song and I always listen to it with my dad before he passed away

  • @crackosaurus
    @crackosaurus 8 лет назад +317

    I'm eating a king sized kit kat bar right now. Tastes great!

  • @personokay9784
    @personokay9784 4 года назад +13

    2021, and I’m still here ♥️

  • @_toyukun5588
    @_toyukun5588 11 лет назад +9

    I haven't heard this song in years!

  • @victorsahni2071
    @victorsahni2071 2 года назад +5

    Big Girls Don't Cry by Fergie is awesome. I love this song

  • @QuantumR96
    @QuantumR96 8 лет назад +20

    For some reason I always get goosebumps when she says "yes you can hold my hand if you want to, 'cause I want to hold yours too"

  • @beautybysarah16
    @beautybysarah16 9 лет назад +104

    Currently getting over my first heartbreak

    • @kaitlynhammond5218
      @kaitlynhammond5218 9 лет назад +3

      Meee too.

    • @pandaprince7063
      @pandaprince7063 9 лет назад +3

      Me too

    • @jennifermoat8186
      @jennifermoat8186 9 лет назад +8

      All three of you look to be 10-12 years old and you're listening to a song from 6 years ago to get over your play ground relationship😂😂😂😂

    • @jennifermoat8186
      @jennifermoat8186 9 лет назад +1

      Well probably from like 9 years ago

    • @TheStitchPlays
      @TheStitchPlays 9 лет назад +2

      OKalexandria you fight through girl

  • @lex5832
    @lex5832 8 лет назад +1935

    Who else is on the old-song marathon? Lol I am.

  • @spartamuzic
    @spartamuzic 3 года назад +1

    I remember this song always got me emotional inspiring joyful 10+years ago was thinking the lyrics in my head and had to find it. 😌🙏

  • @j2big
    @j2big 5 лет назад +31

    2019 - forever listening to this song

  • @Karlybarleyy
    @Karlybarleyy 10 лет назад +22

    this song brings back so many memories :(

    • @kobelipsey0616
      @kobelipsey0616 10 лет назад +5

      Right I'm thinking about life right now

  • @jaydalissieworthen1296
    @jaydalissieworthen1296 5 лет назад +39

    Almost 2020 and this still is a top favorite

  • @saranicklow7713
    @saranicklow7713 Год назад +1

    I was 12/13 had this album playing in my room on a summer day cleaning and this my favorite I kept it on repeat oh the memories

  • @nadeemali3355
    @nadeemali3355 4 года назад +140

    its almost end 2020, im still in love with this song

    • @lewiselmore821
      @lewiselmore821 4 года назад +4

      Yep still a jam never wont be 😌

    • @BigSisterWolf
      @BigSisterWolf 2 года назад +1

      Why? The song is a big fat lie.

  • @sportslife1710
    @sportslife1710 10 лет назад +51

    As a little kid I always cried because my parents fought A LOT around me, they always told each other that they wanted to divorce, so I always went to my room and cried when no one was around. Now, for some reason I have a strong personality to where I don't cry at all anymore, unless I get seriously injured or something like that.

    • @staytrippyman7384
      @staytrippyman7384 10 лет назад +2

      same with me i never really cry anymore

    • @juliettemartinez-bw5sw
      @juliettemartinez-bw5sw 10 лет назад

      Same :)

    • @holimora
      @holimora 10 лет назад +2

      My parents used to fight in front of me when I was a child. I remember that I used to think that I was the only person who has not her parents together. But now they are together again since the last year. At first, I was afraid because I didn't want that my 6-years-old brother suffer the same, but now I think the thing's going fine.

    • @toychicaorblackcloud4222
      @toychicaorblackcloud4222 10 лет назад +2

      Yep i did that, too. But now my parents still fight and I'm only 10 yrs old and i don't cry I'm a big girl. Big girls don't cry. I just lock me and my lil bro n sis in my room with a lot of food and drinks

    • @kobelipsey0616
      @kobelipsey0616 10 лет назад +2

      For all of yall its not good to hold in tears cause it just gonna hurt more I used to that and I still kind of do it but I'm tryna work on it

  • @augustus331
    @augustus331 2 года назад +27

    "But it's time for me to go home. It's getting late, dark outside"
    This one hits so close to me, it's the moment the girl I've been my entire young life with said the same thing, and then to leave my house, forever. It makes me feel the loss of her, the moment when she walked out of my life.

  • @olivierhauata7484
    @olivierhauata7484 3 года назад

    Cette chanson me rappelle une époque où mon amour pouvais survivre a la méchanceté des gens et leur soit disant bonne intentions.Merci Fergie.Bonne année 2022 pour bientôt.bisous ❤️❤️❤️😭

  • @uniquekid401
    @uniquekid401 4 года назад +26

    Sad how thoughtful/meaningful lyrics like these aren't mainstream anymore.

  • @ashlynnegoldman1922
    @ashlynnegoldman1922 5 лет назад +1426

    Fergie: Big girls dont cry
    Me: IM NOT A BIG GIRL 😭😭

  • @Jasonchudj
    @Jasonchudj 8 лет назад +124

    Big girls DO cry ,when their hearts are breaking

    • @izzyhernandez8802
      @izzyhernandez8802 8 лет назад +5

      true

    • @charlottemay9058
      @charlottemay9058 8 лет назад +6

      or their nails

    • @Jasonchudj
      @Jasonchudj 8 лет назад +2

      +Charlotte May or their legs

    • @romanpheniox3198
      @romanpheniox3198 8 лет назад

      Sia

    • @huskyloverlilac
      @huskyloverlilac 8 лет назад +9

      zhubox03 yep.... like me...
      Rip Great Grandpa Don... And Great Grandma Pam, AND uncle Dug, miss you guys more then you may have ever known...
      You probably know now...
      expessally at night... while im staring and my own great grandpas shirt and remembering the last hospital visit before you were gone.
      God i wish i could see them again..
      But i know... they will always be with me...
      In my heart..
      As they dance in the sky's and stars of heaven... ✨

  • @davidvalente1289
    @davidvalente1289 2 года назад +5

    This is absolutely a great song.I play guitar,and I love playing this song.