I fell for all of these traps in my 1 year situationship lol now we have eachother blocked on everything for over 2 months now. Hes right. Stay in no contact. If its not about reconciling and real effort to change, ignore.
Yeah. Depending on what really cut the relationship (or situationship) short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html
@@BradBrowningmy ex uses me as a backup plan if it doesn't work out for them in the dating world that's why she goes back and forth with me on facebook by blocking and unblocking me all the time
@@BradBrowning Many respondents suggest that this bragging is a manipulative tactic, indicating that the ex may not be as happy or over the relationship as they claim. She could be pretending to be over you. She could also be acting on the belief that you have some reason to be jealous of her new
Hey Brad, my ex blocked me and my best friend 2.5 months into no contact... he has me blocked only on instagram but still views my whatsapp statuses. What does that mean? 😢
He's still curious or could be out of habit. What's your history like with him? For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: y2u.be/KMer79OQ_xo
@@BradBrowning we were together for 1.5 yrs. It was overall a good relationship but lately we were arguing a lot due to his busy schedule as he was not able to give me time. He said he is gonna regret breaking up with me but its for the best. But later during our last meet, he shouted at me and called me selfish for holding him back. I eventually got into no contact.... and unfollowed and removed him as a follower on instagram after 2 months. Then within a week I saw that he blocked me and my best friend on instagram. I srsly dont know what he is upto. ( he refollowed his ex again on instagram who cheated on him that made me remove him ;) )
He said "I know I shouldn't write this but I just have to say that I miss you" then we talked for a couple of days and then he stopped reaching out to me 😒
Ignore the first message to Guage their interest if they will try a second attempt. Ignore breadcrumbs. If it's not about reconciling and making up for their bad behavior, then don't take him seriously. They need consequences. Stay in no contact.
In my 30's I've finally overcome these childish relationship games . I've never liked big money the way I do now , Im a business owner now and still work a career on the side . I started chasing big money and magically I'm now dating, as in like women are suddenly interested in Me , it's like women sense a winner . my ex ? Lol keep her , she'll feel in the pit of her soul I've gotten over her plus will see a Great Man and will see how the grass was not greener . F that b
Glad you found happiness elsewhere! Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved.
@@BradBrowning no cheating, but she was very cruel to Me towards the end like they all become when you fail their stupid as tests , I'm a straight shooter , I love someone without playing , I don't feel the same about women anymore, they're just guys with boobs not unicorns
He said ur ex wont reach out for a compliment... Actually thats basically what mine did. She called 2 days after NC and was fishing for help. Explaining how hard this is for her and how she keeps checking her phone only to be disappointed when she doesn't see anything from me. She went dark for 2 days and then did the same call to me again. Cried to me and told me im the only person that ever makes her feel confident in herself. Its almost been another 2 days since shes called. Ive decided if she does call again ill send her to voice-mail. If she needs support she needs to watch all these videos like i did 😂
You've been handling this well so far. Giving her time to make up her mind is key. So unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ruclips.net/video/ek_4wpkV66c/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/видео.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ruclips.net/video/bgOG9s1fac8/видео.html
Brad, I have an interesting one for you. Main reason we broke up is differences on having kids. I had a really profound experience which showed me I do want them now. I have completed no contact for 50 days (4 year relationship) and texted with your suggested shared meme template. She laughed at it. I know the first meeting is supposed to be light, but she has disqualified me because she thinks I don't want kids. How and when do I bring up my change of heart without getting into heavy topics before it's right? Took your quiz and scored 71.
You can casually bring it up in conversations but try to build positive rapport with your ex first because saying that out of the blue would be a little weird. Have you tried the texting tips from my Ex Factor Guide 2.0? Consider reading up on those because it shows a gentle way of easing your way back into your ex's life, at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Best of luck!
@@BradBrowning thank you, I texted with one of the recommended messages and got no response. I'll take your advice, wait 10 days, and give it another shot
Hey sir, actually my bf broke up with me 5 months ago because he started having trust issues and he felt like i don't value him when he asked me to block my male friend who is not good for me but i didn't respect my ex decision so he left but now we talked on phone he cried alot but he said don't live in hopes i won't come back you hurted me so bad but he cared about me and loves me too tell me something to get his trust back and him too
Was there something going on between you and this male friend of yours? And were you friends with him before your ex? If so, then he needs to trust you enough because without trust, a relationship will crumble sooner or later anyways. However if this male friend was new and you already have a boyfriend by then, then that could explain why your ex is acting all jealous and stuff. Sorry, this is a bit too complex for me to properly respond here and I definitely need more details… so please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation where we could get to the bottom of the issue/s: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hello, Mr. Brwning. Hope you are doing well. I have been watching your videos since late 2018. When I was poor she dumped me and married a rich guy. Now I am a successful educator, richer than her father as well as husband. She has messaged me showing interest to get my tuition. I just ignore her message.
Hey men, I finally got after 4 years working on myself a new gf but after 2 months she broke up with me because she came out of a really bad relationship and her mind wasn’t ready for someone who wanted to care for her and she first had to work on herself. I began directly with no contact, after 1 day she said she was sorry for everything and she wants to be friends. What should I do now?
BRAD! I NEED YOUR ADVICE! Although this isn’t a relationship question. I just started this job about a week ago, me and this boy I work with are constantly making eye contact, and maybe I’m delusional but I alway caught him looking at me & whenever he walked by me he’d smile. So yesterday I got the courage to ask for his Snapchat and he gave it to me, but he still hasn’t added me back. How should I go about it? It’s been almost 24 hours since I’ve added him. Maybe he’s just not interested?
You'll have to look for more signs other than being added back on Snapchat though. How about trying to strike an actual conversation when you bump into each other at work? Hire me as your coach so I can guide you and help decipher the situation, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey just started watching you and absolutely love your advice!! So I did the clean slate thing after my ex broke up wtih me and he replied with "I just don't have time to date sorry" then the next day he texts me "I haven't been well sorry". I haven't replied cause you said to go straight into the NO CONTACT zone for 30 days. Just wanna make sure I'm on the right page? Oh by the way just purchased your thing and started watching it last night, I've already learned so much!!
Hi, thanks for the support. I appreciate you! Yes, it looks like you're on the right track. You do need to allow your ex the time and space to think clearly because as you've noticed yourself, his emotions are all over the place, and getting into the wagon of confused emotions with him is a bad choice. Hence, you definitely did right by trying to focus on yourself. Read the bonus text messages included in the guide as well so you'll know what to do and say after the 30-day no contact phase, yeah? Best of luck!
@@BradBrowningHow should one respond to the “accidental” text? We’re 52 days in of no contact, but on day 17, he texted asking if I knew anyone who does pressure washing. I didn't respond. Then, four hours later, he texted that the message was meant for someone else. I gave him a thumbs-up, but otherwise, we haven't spoken. He's an avoidant as well. What’s my best strategy if my goal is to eventually win him back?
Hey there Brad, just took your quiz on if I can still get back together with my ex and scored a 65 for chance is fading fast. We were off and on in college, but covid and some drinking issues I was dealing with at the time took us apart and I made some bad decisions. She told me not to contact her when we broke up but its been 2 years now and I still think about her every day. I went on dates and no one gets me like she did and I am very sure its the same way for her. Do you have any video’s or advice on how I should contact her and what to say? I think this might be my last chance but I don’t know how she will react to me texting her.
Fading fast and therefore the need to act fast means to play your cards right from the get-go and not mess things up further, basically. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex and definitely not in social media), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
I almost forgot that i have an ex-girlfriend miss drama queen still hates me 🤭 her best friend showing middle finger on me last Saturday when i was out with the bois 😂
Do people get too busy to make a call after an argument to fix things? I'm in a LDR. We had a very bad argument. After some complex chat, I told him to make a call when it's convenient for him. He didn't. When I texted again after 2 days he shouted at me that he's not even getting time to call his mom. I waited till weekend, but he was travelling with his frnds on weekends. I lashed out and blocked him. Was waiting for 1 week for his call a short time period? He didn't meet me midway to solve this issue. He didn't make a call. Busy is just an excuse right?
Oftentimes, talking too soon before you've both cooled down will only strain your relationship further. And the (physical) distance between you two will only aggravate that. Looking at this case, he's acting like someone who has lost interest so consider moving on from this especially if you've been having frequent arguments prior. I could've read your situation wrong though so if you have a unique situation, hire me as your coach at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey Brad, I’m in a bit of a unique situation here I think. We broke up on the 20th but stayed in touch until six days later. Since then, I've stuck to a 30-day no contact plan, and now I’m on day 11 with no communication. Yesterday, a friend mentioned she’s on Hinge, which was a bit disappointing, but I’m committed to seeing the no contact through since I want her back. The breakup was mutual (no drama) My concern is that after the 30 days, we’ll both be busy with exams, so I’m unsure if that’s the best time to reach out. We’re also flying together in early December, which could be awkward. Do you think I should stick to the plan, and is it worth changing my flight date to avoid any tension? We still follow each other on socials. Would appreciate your advice on whether I’m on track with this.
An amicable breakup is rare, good for you two! What was the reason you both decided to end things though? As a general advice, I suggest to stick to the plan but I'd also like to help you make a solid decision and I need to know the specifics, so consider hiring me as your coach so you can discuss your situation with me in detail, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
UPDATE: Day 25. Going strong with no contact but she still hasn't reached out. I'm not as desperate as I was on Day 1. I will try to re-initiate contact and reattract after Day 35 :)
I texted her back using the guru text last week asking things about our flight to which she instantly replied. Texted her back after a few hours and no response. I sent a follow up text a week after (today) and she only reacted to it. I'll take the L on this one and potentially find a way to move on
Dear Brad I've just forgotten her completely from my mind & yeah hit some time but I accepted she died for me cause it's a long relationship & just because of my career building periods she left in middle of the path I had trying harder & harder since 1.4 year but she lastly said the same that she lost feelings for me 💔
6 months post break up, my ex gf only wants sex with me. She says I hurt her when I left. So she's learned her lesson by giving more chances. And isn't giving me another. But she snaps me and texts me daily. I think her guard is just up and eventually she will cave. What should I do Coach? I took the quiz and scored 78. We never really fought. We always had a great time together and good conversation and amazing sex.
How many chances has she given you? I hope the issues in your relationship weren't recurring ones? Watch and follow the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qoEZiPn9EH0/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/pXKPxAXaunc/видео.html but at the same time, also employ the following suggestions to get the ball rolling: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html or get my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 for the step-by-step process on how to go about this because yes, that's a pretty good score. Good luck!
Brad. He blocked me everywhere Instagram. Facebook. WhatsApp. We dont have contact its been 5 mobths. And he wont unblock me. He is sending me emails. He wants talk thru emails. He just send ne email today just saying if i am ok that he is only checking up on me if im ok. I did not answer i wont be texting emails with him. And he will keep me blocked everywhere. Anyway he only asking if im ok.
Why not, though? He could be trying to open up to you, via email. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/WeLxNFE03RU/видео.html but if you want to move on, continue to not answer his emails or means to contact you. Take care!
100% accurate information here Brad.
I fell for all of these traps in my 1 year situationship lol now we have eachother blocked on everything for over 2 months now. Hes right. Stay in no contact. If its not about reconciling and real effort to change, ignore.
Yeah. Depending on what really cut the relationship (or situationship) short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html
@BradBrowning it's almost 3 months of no contact and he still has me blocked on everything. I'm not going to be the first to reach out again.
@@BradBrowningmy ex uses me as a backup plan if it doesn't work out for them in the dating world that's why she goes back and forth with me on facebook by blocking and unblocking me all the time
@@BradBrowning Many respondents suggest that this bragging is
a manipulative tactic, indicating that the ex
may not be as happy or over the relationship as
they claim. She could be pretending to be over
you. She could also be acting on the belief that
you have some reason to be jealous of her new
Damn I think I fell into the friendship trap and the backup plan I’m cooked 😅
same
You can always go back into no contact and start ignoring them.
😂😂😂😂😂
Get out as soon as possible. This vid is for you: ruclips.net/video/rtXh72eWtYI/видео.html
Update she has now blocked me and are in a new relationship she said it wouldn’t be right to keep me around because she has a new boyfriend
Hey Brad, my ex blocked me and my best friend 2.5 months into no contact... he has me blocked only on instagram but still views my whatsapp statuses. What does that mean? 😢
He's still curious or could be out of habit. What's your history like with him? For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: y2u.be/KMer79OQ_xo
@@BradBrowning we were together for 1.5 yrs. It was overall a good relationship but lately we were arguing a lot due to his busy schedule as he was not able to give me time. He said he is gonna regret breaking up with me but its for the best. But later during our last meet, he shouted at me and called me selfish for holding him back. I eventually got into no contact.... and unfollowed and removed him as a follower on instagram after 2 months. Then within a week I saw that he blocked me and my best friend on instagram. I srsly dont know what he is upto. ( he refollowed his ex again on instagram who cheated on him that made me remove him ;) )
He said "I know I shouldn't write this but I just have to say that I miss you" then we talked for a couple of days and then he stopped reaching out to me 😒
Ignore the first message to Guage their interest if they will try a second attempt. Ignore breadcrumbs. If it's not about reconciling and making up for their bad behavior, then don't take him seriously. They need consequences. Stay in no contact.
Hi! This vid is for you and how it's best handled: ruclips.net/video/RSKJi8VK2g8/видео.html
In my 30's I've finally overcome these childish relationship games . I've never liked big money the way I do now , Im a business owner now and still work a career on the side .
I started chasing big money and magically I'm now dating, as in like women are suddenly interested in Me , it's like women sense a winner .
my ex ? Lol keep her , she'll feel in the pit of her soul I've gotten over her plus will see a Great Man and will see how the grass was not greener . F that b
Glad you found happiness elsewhere! Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved.
@@BradBrowning no cheating, but she was very cruel to Me towards the end like they all become when you fail their stupid as tests , I'm a straight shooter , I love someone without playing , I don't feel the same about women anymore, they're just guys with boobs not unicorns
You attract the golddiggers.
He said ur ex wont reach out for a compliment... Actually thats basically what mine did. She called 2 days after NC and was fishing for help. Explaining how hard this is for her and how she keeps checking her phone only to be disappointed when she doesn't see anything from me. She went dark for 2 days and then did the same call to me again. Cried to me and told me im the only person that ever makes her feel confident in herself. Its almost been another 2 days since shes called. Ive decided if she does call again ill send her to voice-mail. If she needs support she needs to watch all these videos like i did 😂
You've been handling this well so far. Giving her time to make up her mind is key. So unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ruclips.net/video/ek_4wpkV66c/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/видео.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ruclips.net/video/bgOG9s1fac8/видео.html
Brad, I have an interesting one for you. Main reason we broke up is differences on having kids. I had a really profound experience which showed me I do want them now. I have completed no contact for 50 days (4 year relationship) and texted with your suggested shared meme template. She laughed at it. I know the first meeting is supposed to be light, but she has disqualified me because she thinks I don't want kids. How and when do I bring up my change of heart without getting into heavy topics before it's right? Took your quiz and scored 71.
You can casually bring it up in conversations but try to build positive rapport with your ex first because saying that out of the blue would be a little weird. Have you tried the texting tips from my Ex Factor Guide 2.0? Consider reading up on those because it shows a gentle way of easing your way back into your ex's life, at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Best of luck!
@@BradBrowning thank you, I texted with one of the recommended messages and got no response. I'll take your advice, wait 10 days, and give it another shot
Hey sir, actually my bf broke up with me 5 months ago because he started having trust issues and he felt like i don't value him when he asked me to block my male friend who is not good for me but i didn't respect my ex decision so he left but now we talked on phone he cried alot but he said don't live in hopes i won't come back you hurted me so bad but he cared about me and loves me too tell me something to get his trust back and him too
Was there something going on between you and this male friend of yours? And were you friends with him before your ex? If so, then he needs to trust you enough because without trust, a relationship will crumble sooner or later anyways. However if this male friend was new and you already have a boyfriend by then, then that could explain why your ex is acting all jealous and stuff. Sorry, this is a bit too complex for me to properly respond here and I definitely need more details… so please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation where we could get to the bottom of the issue/s: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hello, Mr. Brwning. Hope you are doing well. I have been watching your videos since late 2018.
When I was poor she dumped me and married a rich guy.
Now I am a successful educator, richer than her father as well as husband.
She has messaged me showing interest to get my tuition. I just ignore her message.
Yeah, good thinking! Hope you find the right woman for you soon.
Hey men, I finally got after 4 years working on myself a new gf but after 2 months she broke up with me because she came out of a really bad relationship and her mind wasn’t ready for someone who wanted to care for her and she first had to work on herself. I began directly with no contact, after 1 day she said she was sorry for everything and she wants to be friends. What should I do now?
Hi! Apply the tips from this vid: ruclips.net/video/SWERv_y3c5w/видео.html
BRAD! I NEED YOUR ADVICE! Although this isn’t a relationship question. I just started this job about a week ago, me and this boy I work with are constantly making eye contact, and maybe I’m delusional but I alway caught him looking at me & whenever he walked by me he’d smile. So yesterday I got the courage to ask for his Snapchat and he gave it to me, but he still hasn’t added me back. How should I go about it? It’s been almost 24 hours since I’ve added him. Maybe he’s just not interested?
You'll have to look for more signs other than being added back on Snapchat though. How about trying to strike an actual conversation when you bump into each other at work? Hire me as your coach so I can guide you and help decipher the situation, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Sounds about right.
Hey thanks for dropping by!
Hey just started watching you and absolutely love your advice!! So I did the clean slate thing after my ex broke up wtih me and he replied with "I just don't have time to date sorry" then the next day he texts me "I haven't been well sorry". I haven't replied cause you said to go straight into the NO CONTACT zone for 30 days. Just wanna make sure I'm on the right page? Oh by the way just purchased your thing and started watching it last night, I've already learned so much!!
Hi, thanks for the support. I appreciate you! Yes, it looks like you're on the right track. You do need to allow your ex the time and space to think clearly because as you've noticed yourself, his emotions are all over the place, and getting into the wagon of confused emotions with him is a bad choice. Hence, you definitely did right by trying to focus on yourself. Read the bonus text messages included in the guide as well so you'll know what to do and say after the 30-day no contact phase, yeah? Best of luck!
@@BradBrowningHow should one respond to the “accidental” text? We’re 52 days in of no contact, but on day 17, he texted asking if I knew anyone who does pressure washing. I didn't respond. Then, four hours later, he texted that the message was meant for someone else. I gave him a thumbs-up, but otherwise, we haven't spoken. He's an avoidant as well. What’s my best strategy if my goal is to eventually win him back?
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Hey there Brad, just took your quiz on if I can still get back together with my ex and scored a 65 for chance is fading fast. We were off and on in college, but covid and some drinking issues I was dealing with at the time took us apart and I made some bad decisions. She told me not to contact her when we broke up but its been 2 years now and I still think about her every day. I went on dates and no one gets me like she did and I am very sure its the same way for her. Do you have any video’s or advice on how I should contact her and what to say? I think this might be my last chance but I don’t know how she will react to me texting her.
Fading fast and therefore the need to act fast means to play your cards right from the get-go and not mess things up further, basically. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex and definitely not in social media), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
I almost forgot that i have an ex-girlfriend miss drama queen still hates me 🤭 her best friend showing middle finger on me last Saturday when i was out with the bois 😂
Right. Her best friend or other mutual friends you have shouldn't meddle though.
@@BradBrowning I have been avoiding her and her inner circle friends for months it was just wrong time in a right place
Do people get too busy to make a call after an argument to fix things? I'm in a LDR. We had a very bad argument. After some complex chat, I told him to make a call when it's convenient for him. He didn't. When I texted again after 2 days he shouted at me that he's not even getting time to call his mom. I waited till weekend, but he was travelling with his frnds on weekends. I lashed out and blocked him. Was waiting for 1 week for his call a short time period? He didn't meet me midway to solve this issue. He didn't make a call. Busy is just an excuse right?
Oftentimes, talking too soon before you've both cooled down will only strain your relationship further. And the (physical) distance between you two will only aggravate that. Looking at this case, he's acting like someone who has lost interest so consider moving on from this especially if you've been having frequent arguments prior. I could've read your situation wrong though so if you have a unique situation, hire me as your coach at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey Brad, I’m in a bit of a unique situation here I think. We broke up on the 20th but stayed in touch until six days later. Since then, I've stuck to a 30-day no contact plan, and now I’m on day 11 with no communication. Yesterday, a friend mentioned she’s on Hinge, which was a bit disappointing, but I’m committed to seeing the no contact through since I want her back. The breakup was mutual (no drama)
My concern is that after the 30 days, we’ll both be busy with exams, so I’m unsure if that’s the best time to reach out. We’re also flying together in early December, which could be awkward. Do you think I should stick to the plan, and is it worth changing my flight date to avoid any tension? We still follow each other on socials. Would appreciate your advice on whether I’m on track with this.
An amicable breakup is rare, good for you two! What was the reason you both decided to end things though? As a general advice, I suggest to stick to the plan but I'd also like to help you make a solid decision and I need to know the specifics, so consider hiring me as your coach so you can discuss your situation with me in detail, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
UPDATE: Day 25. Going strong with no contact but she still hasn't reached out. I'm not as desperate as I was on Day 1. I will try to re-initiate contact and reattract after Day 35 :)
I texted her back using the guru text last week asking things about our flight to which she instantly replied. Texted her back after a few hours and no response. I sent a follow up text a week after (today) and she only reacted to it. I'll take the L on this one and potentially find a way to move on
Dear Brad I've just forgotten her completely from my mind & yeah hit some time but I accepted she died for me cause it's a long relationship & just because of my career building periods she left in middle of the path I had trying harder & harder since 1.4 year but she lastly said the same that she lost feelings for me 💔
& now I'm focusing just on my career to make distance from her
I see. Thanks for sharing!
6 months post break up, my ex gf only wants sex with me. She says I hurt her when I left. So she's learned her lesson by giving more chances. And isn't giving me another. But she snaps me and texts me daily. I think her guard is just up and eventually she will cave. What should I do Coach? I took the quiz and scored 78. We never really fought. We always had a great time together and good conversation and amazing sex.
How many chances has she given you? I hope the issues in your relationship weren't recurring ones? Watch and follow the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qoEZiPn9EH0/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/pXKPxAXaunc/видео.html but at the same time, also employ the following suggestions to get the ball rolling: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html or get my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 for the step-by-step process on how to go about this because yes, that's a pretty good score. Good luck!
Brad. He blocked me everywhere Instagram. Facebook. WhatsApp. We dont have contact its been 5 mobths. And he wont unblock me. He is sending me emails. He wants talk thru emails. He just send ne email today just saying if i am ok that he is only checking up on me if im ok. I did not answer i wont be texting emails with him. And he will keep me blocked everywhere. Anyway he only asking if im ok.
Why not, though? He could be trying to open up to you, via email. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/WeLxNFE03RU/видео.html but if you want to move on, continue to not answer his emails or means to contact you. Take care!
Who is coming here through email notifications 😅
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